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  • @bobbiedm5369
    @bobbiedm5369 29 днів тому +383

    Sandia.. go back home .. heal.. its better to grieve the loss of a relationship than to grieve the loss of YOURSELF!

    • @ndileka216
      @ndileka216 29 днів тому +3

      Wrote this comment in another video.

    • @Brikapri
      @Brikapri 28 днів тому +3

      Whew, say it!

    • @nagwajama6388
      @nagwajama6388 28 днів тому +3

      I felt that

    • @Beebuzz623
      @Beebuzz623 27 днів тому +7

      💯 He is soooo full of himself & he hasn’t shown any empathy or compassion wth he is not ready for intimacy & connection with this attitude!!

    • @nyakatomoreen5497
      @nyakatomoreen5497 27 днів тому +1

      Your right surely

  • @Fecnez
    @Fecnez 29 днів тому +263

    Sandia and Safaree don't have a romantic connection

    • @gcchair7634
      @gcchair7634 29 днів тому +44

      lol Safaree 😂

    • @kadeijadalrymple137
      @kadeijadalrymple137 29 днів тому +9

      Lmaooooo

    • @dasmilingoddess
      @dasmilingoddess 29 днів тому +11

      I kept trying to think which celeb he looked like. I kept thinking Bryson Tiller, but you hit the nail on the head 🤣😂💀

    • @RahYisrael99
      @RahYisrael99 29 днів тому +10

      None at all. He's telling and showing her exactly who he is, yet she refuses to see it.

    • @salome9124
      @salome9124 28 днів тому +1

      I see what you did there

  • @maureen1031
    @maureen1031 29 днів тому +232

    Chris cannot see anything but his way of thinking.. run Sandia!

  • @AfricanWifeinPakistan
    @AfricanWifeinPakistan 29 днів тому +161

    Narcissism vibes loading ... This is what they do.

  • @cateyes5009
    @cateyes5009 29 днів тому +149

    Leave this man alone…NOW!

  • @Neisyjay
    @Neisyjay 29 днів тому +155

    This situation is not emotionally nor mentally safe for her. He's narsacistic and reckless with his words. Then he makes her feel that there's something wrong with they way she feels. I think she has a self-esteem issue because she continues to accept the disrespect.

    • @Lunar123424
      @Lunar123424 25 днів тому +4

      I was about to say that! Narcissistic, gaslighting! And this predator feeds of this women her insecurities

  • @doniellemadaris3159
    @doniellemadaris3159 29 днів тому +164

    This interaction was so sad because he is demeaning to her. This show is crazy. There’s still a couple in the house where one has said he’s done, there’s no romantic connection. Then why are they still in the house? I don’t understand the concept of the show now.

    • @meganrenee5581
      @meganrenee5581 29 днів тому +11

      Not a good representation of healthy dating. It’s making me lose hope.

    • @aChum7145
      @aChum7145 29 днів тому +7

      You are so on point! I was thinking the same thing it's very toxic and unhealthy.

    • @traumaqueeen
      @traumaqueeen 29 днів тому +12

      Maybe they need couples coming in and out. Every week, a couple can decide to leave or stay. They have more couples waiting to get into the house. IDK

    • @janedeane3656
      @janedeane3656 29 днів тому +24

      maybe thats the point of the show...to illustrate how cat fishing and online personae have created a 'safe space' for people to hide who they truely are and lead people on for even years at a time without being honest

    • @user-lp8we6gz2w
      @user-lp8we6gz2w День тому

      He's a narcissist

  • @Beautyroom300
    @Beautyroom300 29 днів тому +86

    He has a nasty smug superior attitude. Girl run. He wants you as a robot not a person with feelings. I see abuse.

  • @MrsDove-cn2hw
    @MrsDove-cn2hw 29 днів тому +88

    He doesn't want her

    • @shefreen1
      @shefreen1 29 днів тому +22

      He doesn't LIKE her.

    • @shefreen1
      @shefreen1 29 днів тому +11

      He doesn't like her.

    • @iriemo721
      @iriemo721 28 днів тому +12

      At all. Doesn’t like her, doesn’t respect her, doesn’t think she’s attractive, doesn’t feel connected to her, doesn’t desire her.

    • @jaydeeapril2394
      @jaydeeapril2394 18 днів тому +3

      I said this..His type is those not so soft ladies.

  • @meganrenee5581
    @meganrenee5581 29 днів тому +107

    Gaslighting 101. Smh.

  • @EAO-ql8hk
    @EAO-ql8hk 29 днів тому +47

    Y’all need to understand men that do this completely understand what you’re going through. They’re just not willing to admit their wrongs since they don’t believe it benefits them, so they’d rather lie and play dumb and gaslight. He completely knows what he’s doing.

  • @Neisyjay
    @Neisyjay 29 днів тому +99

    RUN and Run FAST

  • @wellok5778
    @wellok5778 29 днів тому +86

    The guy is s0 arrogant - like he is doing her a favor "liking" her

  • @LaLa13971
    @LaLa13971 29 днів тому +47

    If you’re experiencing this now, put a pause on the wedding. Your feelings always matter even if they come from a place of insecurity. Learn techniques to cope with them but never let anyone dismiss them.

    • @gcchair7634
      @gcchair7634 29 днів тому +8

      They aren’t getting married. None of these people are engaged, this is not Family or Fiancé.

    • @AmberColeman-gq1wn
      @AmberColeman-gq1wn 28 днів тому +3

      @gcchair7634 All the more reason for her to drop him and drop this show. He isn’t worth any of this.

  • @hamptonsfnst2014
    @hamptonsfnst2014 29 днів тому +66

    She seems bright but her self esteem must've been left behind because he does not like her. Whatever connection they had beyond speaking their mothers' tongue did not transcend to this experience. It is what it. Let it go!

    • @katrinaraymond9726
      @katrinaraymond9726 29 днів тому +3

      Unfortunately Chris is not that in too her, it's sad to watch!

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz 29 днів тому +52

    they taught him a word "insecurities"

  • @ashunt29
    @ashunt29 29 днів тому +42

    He is not it! She is volunteering to stay in this situation.

  • @tyisha2105
    @tyisha2105 29 днів тому +34

    He don’t want a relationship so let him invalidate someone else.

  • @janedeane3656
    @janedeane3656 29 днів тому +29

    Sandia is too good for him and he knows it. Thats why he demeans her, because if he does that and then she leaves him it would have been expected in his mind.

  • @xpnn
    @xpnn 29 днів тому +31

    That man don’t want her. He’s gaslighting her. He invalidates her feelings. Sandria needs to pack up and go home

  • @ChanelNo5568
    @ChanelNo5568 29 днів тому +29

    She need to go find someone that like her. He is not interested in her. Also I don’t like him. He thinks he is more than what he is. Run girl!

  • @WorthyofMoreWithLitaV
    @WorthyofMoreWithLitaV 29 днів тому +25

    He’s so emotionally unaware …. and lacks emotional intelligence. Geesh. He has a lot of growing up to do.

    • @redbird14able
      @redbird14able 25 днів тому +1

      Right. Emotionally he’s a 4 year old.

  • @hudihoodz
    @hudihoodz 29 днів тому +32

    what the hell is she still doing with this guy!!! OMG

  • @reeladee1698
    @reeladee1698 29 днів тому +30

    Yeah. No to that. 100 percent valid. And it's not worth your time or effort. Because you're clearly not worth his.

  • @aprilfields7398
    @aprilfields7398 29 днів тому +14

    As messed up as this is, it's better she's finding this out now rather than after investing long term. Run far and run fast!!

  • @EAO-ql8hk
    @EAO-ql8hk 29 днів тому +17

    This one is an eternal gaslighter. His gas never runs out

  • @nagwajama6388
    @nagwajama6388 28 днів тому +10

    Temu Big Sean doing the most in every episode at this point!!!!

  • @Ms_Lady3
    @Ms_Lady3 28 днів тому +7

    Sandia & Brandon would be a great match! Both of them are emotionally intelligent & solution oriented! Give their partners to one another because they both lack empathy & are wreckless with their words...

  • @sattasana7753
    @sattasana7753 29 днів тому +21

    I’m so sorry but I just don’t do well with people being demeaning or condescending to me. I don’t care who the hell you are.
    Love doesn’t hurt like that baby girl. Please run Sandia, do not negotiate your feelings with this man.

  • @chocho4344
    @chocho4344 29 днів тому +11

    This guy is not feeling you girl just go home

  • @AshBoogie24
    @AshBoogie24 29 днів тому +13

    These ladies have to run from these men !

  • @natureislegirl8947
    @natureislegirl8947 28 днів тому +7

    Why is she wasting her time on this boy? Cuz he's the one with insecurities just with a macho front. No substance

  • @princessr988
    @princessr988 28 днів тому +5

    Sandia I am literally praying for you and hope that by the time this show has aired that you have left and not turned back this is heartbreaking to watch 😢

    • @musicneurons7807
      @musicneurons7807 12 днів тому

      Amen. Me too. We've all had our guilty pleasure - now pick yourself up and find an equal.

  • @kaynana26
    @kaynana26 28 днів тому +4

    He’s showing her who he is and it’s up to her to either see it for what it is or paint it a different picture to hide it

    • @Voiceof-L0vE
      @Voiceof-L0vE 27 днів тому +2

      Sometimes, good people can't see what they don't have in them. Or sometimes it's hard for the mind to accept that humans can be so monsterous.

  • @PhetogoNoore
    @PhetogoNoore 28 днів тому +5

    She needs to work on her self esteem, this man is disrespectful.

  • @dennasmith8329
    @dennasmith8329 28 днів тому +3

    That’s what your going to get from this narcissist as long as you deal with him. Let go , let go of him devaluing your feelings 😍🙏💯

  • @lucys6996
    @lucys6996 29 днів тому +13

    Poor fella. He's gonna be single for a long time.

    • @madchen521
      @madchen521 29 днів тому +10

      That was ny thought. He thinks cause he smashing that he is winning, but he is gonna be the man that is too old for the club. He has zero respect for women, and he said as much on the show. Run Sandia. She is a cutie and needs to feel more confident

    • @shefreen1
      @shefreen1 29 днів тому +2

      Forever....

    • @dasmilingoddess
      @dasmilingoddess 29 днів тому +8

      The sad part is he'll keep jumping from woman to woman(supply to supply) They don't know how to be alone, just keep damaging each woman they come across 😩🙄

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 24 дні тому +2

      Poor fella??? That's the way he may want it. If anything I feel sorry for her.

  • @ntandwenhledlungwane7367
    @ntandwenhledlungwane7367 28 днів тому +3

    😱😱 he down right said “ I don’t believe all your feelings are valid” no Sandia run Infact sprint away from this man

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 29 днів тому +14

    I don't like him.
    Just part ways.

  • @jalisapoindexter2562
    @jalisapoindexter2562 28 днів тому +4

    Please run and don’t look back.

  • @laneice777
    @laneice777 27 днів тому +2

    Girrrl run!!! He’s rude and gaslighter.. leave him now or you’ll unfortunately lose yourself!!

  • @ArienMoon
    @ArienMoon 28 днів тому +4

    Girl i know hes fine but leave him be. Cause youre beautiful as well! And will find another.

  • @safistyle.art.fashion.imag577
    @safistyle.art.fashion.imag577 27 днів тому +2

    Yikes!!! Girl, run, run!!

  • @Voiceof-L0vE
    @Voiceof-L0vE 27 днів тому +1

    Girl...RUN!!!!!

  • @ShaniceIsBack
    @ShaniceIsBack 28 днів тому +2

    Oh no! RUN!!

  • @tamelaj1984
    @tamelaj1984 27 днів тому +3

    It's better to lose a lover than to love a loser

  • @meandmy2cents309
    @meandmy2cents309 28 днів тому +4

    This dude is terrible. She should pack her bags and go home. There is nothing safe about him. Just a terrible person 🤨

  • @tshidithebehli1546
    @tshidithebehli1546 28 днів тому +2

    Run run run

  • @summernight7587
    @summernight7587 27 днів тому +3

    Totally Gaslighting her

  • @bridgetb5423
    @bridgetb5423 25 днів тому +1

    Narcissist behavior, trust me, run Sandia and quickly.

  • @goddesst5405
    @goddesst5405 28 днів тому +1

    He doesn’t like, respect or love you! Run!🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @Queen-of-the-Burbs
    @Queen-of-the-Burbs 28 днів тому +2

    He’s right. She’s insecure. But not the reasons he says. She’s insecure because she’s still trying to peruse someone that is not emotionally mature enough for a relationship

  • @ShonaM2023
    @ShonaM2023 29 днів тому +7

    He is a very good looking man but Sandia needs to open her eyes…. follow your gut girl.

    • @madchen521
      @madchen521 29 днів тому +11

      That is what he thinks. Dude is basic. Sandia needs to be with someone who respects her.

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 29 днів тому +4

      Good looking? 🤔

  • @PhetogoNoore
    @PhetogoNoore 28 днів тому +2

    She deserves better

  • @athena4519
    @athena4519 26 днів тому +1

    Yikes this was actually scary to watch. Run fast girl! I don’t even think he likes you

  • @marymuriuki7193
    @marymuriuki7193 23 дні тому +1

    That's how you tell a weak man

  • @WilliamOgletree
    @WilliamOgletree 28 днів тому +3

    It’s best to leave

  • @Tyda777
    @Tyda777 24 дні тому +1

    Sandia get up!!!

  • @oliviabrown261
    @oliviabrown261 29 днів тому +1

    You in danger, girl. Run...do not stop from this narcissist!!!

  • @ruthelliott8363
    @ruthelliott8363 28 днів тому +1

    Where did they find these people!? Chris especially!? 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @BeeJ3
    @BeeJ3 29 днів тому +1

    Run Sandia😮!!!!!!

  • @faithrhime4463
    @faithrhime4463 28 днів тому +3

    Chris was just a red flag from the beginning….. I don’t know why Sandie is still keeping up with his nonsense

  • @TechTualChatter
    @TechTualChatter 27 днів тому

    The messy women are making her feel like Chris and Jody have more going on than they actually do. That’s why he feels like that

  • @michelleezell2189
    @michelleezell2189 28 днів тому +3

    They must get paid good, because I would have went home.

  • @alexandrambako7348
    @alexandrambako7348 28 днів тому +1

    100% my baby daddy 😭😭😭

  • @salmaambursa2894
    @salmaambursa2894 20 днів тому +1

    Girl leave him alone

  • @eventsblogger3680
    @eventsblogger3680 29 днів тому +7

    Safareee talks too much plus a red flag

  • @nakiabruton5319
    @nakiabruton5319 28 днів тому +1

    Woah 😮

  • @SunshineKK99
    @SunshineKK99 28 днів тому +2

    Ofc everything is her fault...that's a HUGE red flag!!

  • @user-nd3tg5zn1b
    @user-nd3tg5zn1b 28 днів тому +2

    Wow he should never be in any relationship ever!!!

  • @paulinebondet
    @paulinebondet 22 дні тому

    Where is the full episode 4

  • @carrotjuice4196
    @carrotjuice4196 27 днів тому +1

    Leave him please he is not for you why wait your tears for a human who thinks your opinion is not valid. He is very rude that is clear. Run I had that experience, always I do not make a point he does. It gets worse by day, you will be nothing I was told. Happy being single now so he can not look me down ever again.

  • @kayf9612
    @kayf9612 28 днів тому +1

    Run girl run .. this man don’t care

  • @hlaluminobambela9237
    @hlaluminobambela9237 28 днів тому +2

    He doesn’t like her. That’s all. Yall must stop using words just to use them. Words mean something and you guys throw around psychological terms like they are nothing

  • @SunshineQu33n
    @SunshineQu33n 29 днів тому +3

    Ti cheri ou met kite-l. Ti neg sa pa bon pou.

  • @devathadiva8139
    @devathadiva8139 26 днів тому +1

    He is a narc and he will break you down

  • @bLOOP-be5ld
    @bLOOP-be5ld 27 днів тому +2

    He doesn't like her

  • @positivityandflow
    @positivityandflow 23 дні тому

    First, let me say that I do music, not psychology. LOL, but this interaction seems disconnected. They are not addressing each other in real time they are addressing people who may have hurt them in the past!!

  • @Purpose-es8ce
    @Purpose-es8ce 26 днів тому +1

    Her expressing herself makes her insecure? Ok

  • @user-hn1nc7zb3x
    @user-hn1nc7zb3x 2 дні тому

    Chris let's be honest bro. you do not want this girl man period.

  • @joyce9857
    @joyce9857 16 днів тому

    🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

  • @nileswilliams7127
    @nileswilliams7127 28 днів тому +1

    Well he is not wrong

  • @ibehgrace8408
    @ibehgrace8408 20 днів тому +1

    He is sick!

  • @a.d.morton4624
    @a.d.morton4624 28 днів тому +2

    😂🤣😂 Girl RUN! He’s a strong independent black man. Let him be that and bask in his own ambiance of nothingness. 😂

  • @lovenessfrank95
    @lovenessfrank95 28 днів тому +3

    Ruuuuuuuuunn bbbby ruuuuuunn

  • @KpTheG
    @KpTheG 29 днів тому +1

    I like the concept of the show but it misses the mark for me….

  • @Suresurely
    @Suresurely 27 днів тому +1

    Chris is a narcissist

  • @awesome.andrea
    @awesome.andrea 23 дні тому +1

    Oh he's horrible.

  • @destinyawaits2807
    @destinyawaits2807 26 днів тому

    Dang, the host's teeth are white as light. I need to know her Dentist🤔

  • @sylviarosario6503
    @sylviarosario6503 29 днів тому

    This show is fake. They had a pretend couple on a podcast that said it’s scripted. It was the guy who roughed up the girl. I can’t remember their names. They both said they sent in their audition tape and they got a check.

    • @deneshadi
      @deneshadi 28 днів тому +1

      What podcast so I can go listen?!

  • @rubenowitzv.3135
    @rubenowitzv.3135 28 днів тому +2

    Terrible Actors 👀🤪🤣

  • @lamino8-tg6ro
    @lamino8-tg6ro 20 днів тому +2

    He us just not into you. Does she not have any family or friends to talk sebse into her?🤨