Gordon Ramsay Nightmares - Love bites | Best Tv Series | Full Episode
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- Опубліковано 8 лют 2025
- In the heart of Saugerties, NY, Love Bites stands as a cozy eatery managed by childhood sweethearts struggling to draw the line between their professional and personal worlds. As the business strain begins to fracture their relationship, Gordon Ramsay intervenes, aiming to rescue not only the cafe but also the precious engagement of the couple hanging in the balance. #gordonramsay #kitchennightmares #cookingchannel #cooking #tvshows #cookingvideo
This just shows that Gordon isn't just a top chef but a top human being, a top therapist, a top relationship counsellor. What a legend.
He really isn't, you should be trained for that. That's an absolute overstatement.
@@srgttamtam He is all those things, in the way a good father is to his kids, don't you think maybe?
@@srgttamtamrelax😂 they weren’t saying it literally… Jesus Christ people like you are annoying 😅
It's easy looks like a legend when you're writing all sides of the story. There's no way that restaurant would be that busy and popular if it was that verbally toxic and disorganized. Well it does have its problems, that restaurant is turned up to 11 for the show.
Also a good father if you see his older videos with his kids.
that poor girl. shes on the verge of tears every time she talks to chris...
That’s the coolest hat in history
I have a restaurant and every day I go out back into the courtyard and cry. It is such a difficult business. In 4 months I have 117 reviews in Google and 114 are 5 stars. But the 3 bad ones not even about food or service kill me. This place has killed my relatiinship wirh my GF and my credit and finances. Anyone that opens a resraurant must be an idiot (me).
When you know that Gordon's mom was horrifically abused by his dad it really informs your interpretation of how Gordon stands up for women.
Oh look another person who doesn't give a shit about abused men
I loved how he was with tess ❤
Tess needed and deserves someone like Gordon. Someone to treat her with respect and kindness. She has been through so much. Chronic illness, quits her job for him. All she gets is disrespect and constantly being yelled at. Unconscionable behaviour by Chris.!!!!
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who gives a shit. Women are not more "standing up" important... The Level of women who abuse men - No one "stands up against them"... Typical "Women narrative - ahh victim". Typical toxic female behaviour.
Kids, if a man is shouting at you, insulting you, and this behavior is directed ONLY at you, and is being comforted by his mommy after yelling at you.. leave that man.
The fact that gordon told tess to go home after seeing the toxic environment she was working in even with her health complications..... what a man❤.
And the first thing tess said was what about the restaurant.....that really made me cry....that girl right there is a gem..
@@sparshsharma6684 To think this dude treats her like she is nothing, some people need to leave earth asap!
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha.
Have you seen Boiling Point?
If he treats her like that before marriage after marriage will be so much worse . I really really really hope she will leave him. He will never change and no one should stand and wait for his change.
It’s so sad bc you can see how she act out of the kitchen, calmer and with a stable voice, but the second she has to speak to her FIANCÉE! She is on the verge of crying and is physically showing signs of high anxiety. This is a toxic and abuse relationship.
hey
I was so relieved when i heard her say she was reconsidering marrying him. Girl, run! I don't care how anxious or whatever else a person is - that is no way to treat a loved one. The verbal abuse will eventually turn physical.
Absolutely! Take it from someone who has been there! (A psychologist would give her the same advice as you; that's what one told me).
It does when women talk to their partners this way ppl find it funny tho.
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@@JST03Lol anyone with half a brain wouldn’t put up with it or even make light of such things.
Even if it doesn't turn physical, the verbal abuse is bad enough on it's own
I have EDS, 8 chronic illnesses and I’m tube fed, and I cannot fathom the thought of doing what she does, the pain alone! what a incredible incredible young woman! You go girly! Xxx
Hope go away from his narcissistic ass.!!!
I'm sorry you suffer so much with your health. Sending you an enormous hug from the UK ❤
SAME! I though ‘how is this girl even standing up?’! I don’t know what kind of EDS she has, but the fact that she’s in a job that is that physically hard and then have Shrek as a partner, breaking her mentally too …! She needs to run. Run and never look back!
Hope you are allright, best wishes❤
that man is surrounded by enablers... he needs to grow up big time
hey
He went up a notch or 2 in my estimation from the start of episode where seems to be a complete lowlife with a lady that could do soooo much better. I'm not someone that won't ask to talk to chef if I heard that sort of abuse towards staff, regardless of what relationship involved.
Restaurants are tough, without making everything even tougher.
I can't believe her mom was standing up for the guy instead of her. That's such a betrayal 😓
So crazy how she keeps saying everyone only checks in on chris and then her mother needs to be told to let her have a break after she coddles him. Cannot believe the moms said they didn't want her breaking up with him. IDC how stressed you are, taking it out on your chronically ill fiance after she QUIT HER JOB to work at the restaurant YOU wanted is disgusting and i hope she finds someone who treats her better
Put him in jail.
Ikr the moms failed their kids. Tess is the one that needs attention she is sick but he's the one getting attention cos he's manipulative with that (sorry I don't buy it) fake anxiety dry heaving
@@underratedunity1528 probably stress induced, i get nauseous and dry heave a lot when im severely stressed
@@primetimehomebut I doubt you keep doing the thing that makes you feel that way. Narcissists will do this sort of thing and the difference is they don’t stop. It’s all to manipulate.
That part was crazy for me because I wasn’t looking at the screen when I heard the mother offering a water and a break so I thought she was talking to the daughter and I was like “ Yeah, she needs one!” And then looked up at the screen and saw that she was talking to the son and about lost it 😂 like whaaaat he needs a break from verbally abusing his fiancé???
HOLY CRAP! My mother would have beat me purple for talking to a woman I was dating the way he spoke to Tess! The fact his own mom lets him talk that way speaks volumes
She will keep forgiving him , he doesn't need to hear it from Gordon, he needs to be told by his mum
I worked in restaurants since forever. I am also a Marine Veteran.
I've seen people get yelled at in some truly impressive ways but the reason was corrective criticism and it was a rare thing.
I happen to be very good at it myself.
There ain't no way on Earth I'd work with a man who spoke to his woman that way, in that context and in her condition. That shit ain't productive or corrective hollerin. That is some psychological trash that requires violence.
He'd make a trip to the walk-in and meet The Reefer Monster
Buddy doesn’t have anxiety, he IS anxiety 😂
Anxiety has Buddy. He,s the Chuck Norris of anxiety.
Weak minded individual that can't control his emotions
Must be amazing to not have anxiety i guess, good for you. A round of applause for@@joshwills3997 everyone?
@@joshwills3997not necessarily some people just can’t handle certain pressure and he appears to be one and the Gordon handled it and took him to a therapist is one of the best things he could of down
@@fsociety.dat101 Agree. Too late to fix. These behaviours are pretty engrained. He may learn to live with himself. But Tess should walk away and enjoy the rest of her life. Hopefully, the restaurant is in his name and she doesn't have the debt hanging over her!
I think that we can all agree that the real victim in this was Tess. I hope she's managed to get away from that abusive narcissist. No relationship is worth putting up with abuse like that.
@user-ns1ui6wc4lnah man, dude is a monster. The way he treats her and instantly blames her and anyone but himself when told the food isn’t seasoned well is the perfect example of why. Especially considering her medical history.
Looks like someone’s a wee bit jealous
@user-ns1ui6wc4lI agree, he's not a classic. But he's abusive whether he's stressed or not. If kids come along? Jesus bro. That type of attitude gets women killed.
@mattwoods3317 Dude has mental issues, and narcissism and being a monster aren't some of them. All the women said he didn't used to be like this, only in the past year two he started to be like that, so very likely due to the stress with the restaurant. This doesn't excuse his behaviour towards Tess or anyone else, but he didn't seem like a genuine asshole, just someone struggling with mental health issues.
@user-ns1ui6wc4l theyre talking abt a narcissist in terms of the type of abuse a narcissistic person (and/or a person with npd) can inflict. this bozo is very clearly a narcissist, at the very least in the way hes abusing tess (eg belittling and demeaning her, the love bombing at the start of the relationship, the way he sees that he never does anything wrong and its all her fault, etc)
I was watching this with my 13 year old son. He said if any guy spoke to his sister that way, he’d make him disappear. Even a kid knows this is terrible, toxic behavior. I can’t believe his mom (and hers) stood helplessly by as he verbally abused her.
And how they said they didn't want them to split up, it's horrible
That's honestly the only reasonable response. That's what happens when people don't discipline their children. Idgaf if I was making $200k per year my boss would talk to me about once like that
This love bite restaurant bites chris has issues and food is disgusting but things changed new menu new food looked so perfect and everybody enjoyed coming there
@@dillonwood3096chris is that you? Lol
Sure that happened.
Mom: "he's stressed because he's a prfectionist" Reality: "He's an asshole because he's a douchebag"
... LOL
I love Gordon. Seeing him sympathize with that girl, tell her he appreciates what she does, hug her when she’s crying....I bet he saw his own daughters in her a bit. ❤️
Thats what i thought too...he saw his daughters❤
This feels like a mix of the US and UK versions, still dramatised but Gordon is much more calm. I like I like
Gordon knows that you can't teach an ass like this by escalating.
@w1ngtf who cares go away, sick of people complaining
For once, I totally agree with the owners to sell the restaurant and save their relationship. But based in this video, honestly, I think the damage to their relationship has already been done and may not be reversible. I wish both all the best
I hope that Tess has left that abusive narcissist.
They sold it
Can't believe that there is not a 747 full of good guys who would love to rescue her. Husband plumbs the depths of 'jerkhood". wow.
@@cplcabsI know he’s made some bad mistakes but I think a lot of these decisions are based on his stress and severe anxiety that he’s built over time and I’m not saying that he’s totally in the right but it’s good to understand that sometimes things happen and stress and anxiety can take over I know this from experience. I used to bag at a local grocery store and I would get so anxious that my whole body shut down and I was passed out for over 10 minutes and had to go to the emergency room and the manager asked my parents to use the defibrillator on me since I was unresponsive and ultimately later has cost me my job because I was trying to jump in front of cars because I wanted to escape the stress and anxiety
@@ambercrombie789 ew let the people in her life that care about her help her, not some random ass man with a savior complex
The fact that you don't even see them kiss just shows how deeply the relationship is strained but both holding on for dear life
The way he talks to the women in his life is just disgusting and completely unacceptable. I feel so bad for Tess, a lovely beautiful girl like her deserves so much better.
Throw him in prison.
My thoughts exactly.
Her and her beautiful colostomy bag 😂
I think it's funny cause he cannot bully Gordon Ramsey and it shows on his face... He's used to bullying people
@@gavinjohnson1901 making fun of disabilities now are we?
I live with depression, generalized anxiety, and panic disorder. I completely understand feeling overwhelmed, overstimulated, burned out, even physically ill from it.
Its never an excuse to act like this man.
His fake gagging is horrendous. He abuses everyone around him then does his show of "anxiety" to get them to feel sorry for him. He is a toxic manipulator and Tess deseerves so much better and someone who truly loves her. The girl is a warrior
You are so right! There is no happy ending here except if Tess leaves the creep. His mother should dump him too!
Ehhh you might be right but you are making a lot of assumptions. One thing is for sure he is so so toxic
His behaviour was disgusting. If I heard anyone speaking like that in a professional setting I'd go nuts calling it out as unacceptable.
It seems he is incapable of handling stress probably because he is burned out and has never spent any time learning to develop himself or accept his own failures/mistakes. When I see him I see a little child, shouting and blaming everyone but themselves. It's only when Gordon, the "authority figure" comes in that his behaviour changes. I don't think he has changed though and unless he addresses the issue (him) then he will slip straight back as soon as Gordon goes.
Just my thoughts 😂
P.s. you are so right, Tessa seems incredible. Showing a level of resilience that he doesn't seem to have
@@rockymarse-zt1thme too I have no rizz 😭
Youve never had anxiety then huh. Ive seen someone have such bad shaking anxiety it made me want to leave, not from dealing with it but just seeing the pain it caused was like watching torture. The gagging was probably over thinking creating panic all caused by anxiety
@@skie6282nobody is saying that anxiety doesn’t exist. They’re saying that this particular person is abusing the labels around anxiety to get an edge over people. Not that every anxiety sufferer is lying
There is absolutely NO WAY I would ever treat the love of my life like that. Things like this should be serving as tests to see if we work well together as a team under high-pressure situations. The way he speaks to her, I cannot fathom telling my boyfriend to “shut up”, “get away from me” berating him, calling him names, and ignoring him when he’s on the verge of crying because of what I’ve said. But the fact that the guy is willing to do this to his “fiancé” comfortably is insane to me.
This is a very bad example of how to handle an abusive relationship. No, you cannot fix him -- especially not with one televised counseling session. The problem is not the restaurant. The problem is how, whenever he's scared, he takes his control back by funneling his insecurities directly into his partner. Fundamentally, that means he values his comfort and security at the direct expense of hers. Why should she endure that? That's not love. That's a parasite.
That's why he needs her, by the by. It's not love. She's his literal emotional tampon. Without her, he'd just find a new target for all his bad feelings. He should sort that out -- alone.
emotional tampon lmao
He also clearly hasn't got any men around him that have wooped his ass for speaking to women like that (like his dad, an uncle, or Tess' brother/father) cos it just seems like he feels he has free reign to treat them like sht and it's disgusting
literally this ep is making me mad how even her MOTHER acts as some kind of apologetic for him like Tess needs to get tf out of all of it 😭
@@stuporspoonAye, that’s a great way of describing their codependency! ‘Emotional tampon’ is now is my thesaurus lol.
"i feel you pretty much saved my son's life.."
Meanwhile Tess has had 13 surgeries, is at risk of more problems due to tress, and has to wear a colostomy bag while everyone around her babies the abusive Chris. (They even baby him right after he makes Tess cry! WTF)
I really want to smack the mothers. That made me so furious. Disgraceful failures, the lot of them. I hope Tess is doing better now, and is away from Chris and his mother.
Ginny has a mountain of mistakes to make up for concerning her daughter. She disgusted me the most, allowing all of this to happen to her child knowing the risk posed to her life via the stress, while enabling the man that uses Tess as a verbal and emotional punching bag.
Just vile.
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What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha.
Health includes the mental side also. You can be physically 100% but if you lose yourself in your own mind it can have devastating results. Brain is our most powerful tool but it can be the most destructive thing to weigh us down. It's no joke and situations like these can easily turn to suicide or something even worse. These people are dancing on a thread and even small adversity can have huge impact on everyone.
I agree on the moms. Both of them need a reality check and start to actually care and make difference about their children.
I thought those bags, took up lots of space in your clothing. She wears such tight fitting clothes, I was wondering where it goes. I was taking care of s person with a colostomy bag, and the odors were very unpleasant.
I PRAY TESS LEAVES this BOY.
I love all the episodes of "Gordon Ramsays Relationship Therapy but there's food as well"
i felt so happy when tess felt validated. she deserves so much better than somebody who treats her like shit when they don't feel good
Dude's head would be oatmeal the FIRST time he ever spoke to my daughter that way.
OATMEAL😂😂😂😂
Tess deserves so much more.. i hope she find the person that'll give her the world
Well he definitely needs a reality check badly
Seeing how shes hasnt left him already. She wont. She can leave but she won't
As a disabled person with Ehlers Danlos herself who was in an abusive relationship…. I’m very disturbed for Tess. I see a lot of (maybe) obvious red flags in this guy. I’m quite worried about this woman even offscreen. This doesn’t appear to be a “Sammy & Amy” dynamic where both parties are equally toxic. If he’s willing to behave this way with the cameras on….. imagine once they turn off! (Yes I know they said it was done stealthily….) He seems to be intentionally ignoring her conditions even steamrolling them with his own anxieties that give him digestive issues whilst she’s sitting here without a large chunk of her digestive tract. 🚩 he uses his poor mental health as an excuse in my opinion just like his mum does. I hope everything goes for the best even with the place closing & they don’t get too isolated.
I agree. When she described her health issues I understood alot more and it doesn't help her mother and his mother accept abuse from him too. Toxic
I agree as well. Mental health is serious but can’t be the excuse for everything. And the the fact that both moms didn’t stick up for Tess is very upsetting. I hope she is in a healthier spot now.
Absolutely. Watching her take that, how she snaps back into 'ok' then in tears then 'ok' again. So toxic, such a dangerous cycle she's in. I worry for her. Imagine what the next stress is gonna make him do. This is just one thing. What's the next thing he can use as an excuse to bully and abuse her.
@@blindcharo8455I do too! That would be the best wish ever! 💕
@@daviesdavies538so true! I’m not a parent myself but if I saw my son in law treating her like that I’d pop off!!
And not only does he bully a physically unwell fiancée, he takes his mother-in-law and mother with him... I hope they all leave him...The irony of a place called "Love Bites"
To make it worse, the mothers are enabling him!
Anxiety isn't ever an excuse to talk to someone like they are lower than a dog. I have chronic anxiety and never speak to anyone I love in this manner. What a shameful excuse from a narcissist.
I can recognize the irritability and anger when I was at my most anxious and my worst but what I dont understand is the absolute refusal to apologize and take any form of responsibility.
I got pissy with people I love but I always felt terrible afterwards because I realized how unfair I was being
It was hard to watch Tess being abused like that. Her partner should be doing everything he can to help them. Tell her to rest at home. It must have been the first time in a very long time that shes felt kindness towards HER when Gordon told her he was concerned for her
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha. She is totaly a emotionall abusive person within youre same theory. But its obvious you dont know pshycology or body language haha. He has also health conditions... And he only defense himself when she comes in and nag... You never see him come out and shout 90 times per day and nag, as she does in the kitchen. Learn what kitchen really means.
With her health conditions, she needs to leave him. He's emotionally abusive
I agree. She shouldn't have taken on his debts with the restaurant and her mother allowing that abusive behaviour to her own daughter is despicable.
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha. She is totaly a emotionall abusive person within youre same theory. But its obvious you dont know pshycology or body language haha. He has also health conditions... And he only defense himself when she comes in and nag... You never see him come out and shout 90 times per day and nag, as she does in the kitchen. Learn what kitchen really means.
You don't know all the background on these two and what the family dynamics are. Where is this young mans dad?
OMG! THIS was a heartbreaking episode!!! Gordon is really out here saving lives and bringing families together!!! And yes, tears was shed from this viewer...
O M G after so many episodes of Kitchen Nightmares I finally found one, that I didn't watch
finally
They are currently releasing the newest season, season 8!! Keep on the lookout for them💕
Me too!
This is from the new season.
@@mandalovescatspandas1781that’s so great to hear I knew it looked more modern 😫
I knew it was new when I saw that room Gordon was in with all the screens watching lol a command centre 😂
I’ve always respected Gordon but golly, this episode just made me look at him with even more respect than before. What a wonderful man.
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha. She is totaly a emotionall abusive person within youre same theory. But its obvious you dont know pshycology or body language haha. He has also health conditions... And he only defense himself when she comes in and nag... You never see him come out and shout 90 times per day and nag, as she does in the kitchen. Learn what kitchen really means.
Please for the love of god do not buy a restaurant if you don’t have the proper experience and training. And never under any circumstances buy one with a family member. It will ruin your life.
The same goes for a bar.
Yup. Too many people think owning a restaurant is going to be "fun," but there is a lot of work involved to keep it afloat. Not to mention, the hours are long, the margins are low and you have to invest so much money into it for years before you finally start to make it work.
I thought the same - he could have gotten a line cook job somewhere for a few months just to see how he liked it- not finding out you don't like it after you purchase an entire restaurant
@@nothingreallyrhymeswithora9377 restaurants are a risky business, it can work fine the first month but it falls down fast. I've seen restaurants come and go in my own hometown.
Yeah. If you do that, at least hire a knowledgeable manager to help! Or a consultant or something.
You know it's serious, when the food isn't even the one thing, Gordon is talking about. The food was actually good. But the whole Restaurant was toxic. Something new every day.
Chris saying fuck you to his fiancee and then saying he doesn't know what he'd do without her made me so mad
She sounds like she's scared and about to cry every time she talks to him
She's the sweetest woman who is under the control of a violent destructive monster...
He is a manipulator and has found a victim.
It's so sad. My dad has anger problems but never in his life did he ever say anything bad to my mother
I saw this exact thing happen with my sister and her ex. He did have anxiety and depression - our mom even paid for his therapy at first, but then she saw through him. He would use it to manipulate my sister (and our family) and it escalated to him threatening to harm or kill himself if she left him. Of course his mom coddled him and denied everything. 🙄These things can escalate SO quickly, and I hope Tess eventually gets out. His mom says that he has turned into a different person because of the restaurant. No. It revealed who he truly is.
My "step-father " is like that, I told him to F-off and get out of my life...Easy!
When Tess came in at the end with her mom did you notice how more relaxed and more gorgeous she was she had a glow . She needs to find someone who appreciates her
I noticed, she looked much healthier.
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha. She is totaly a emotionall abusive person within youre same theory. But its obvious you dont know pshycology or body language haha. He has also health conditions... And he only defense himself when she comes in and nag... You never see him come out and shout 90 times per day and nag, as she does in the kitchen. Learn what kitchen really means.
Emotional abuse is horrible.
It can literally lead to people developing auto-immune issues and clinical depression
That idiot is a bully. Imagine speaking to your partner like that.. disgusting.. if i heard someone talk to my family like that, I’d put manners on him
Wow! Such a different episode! Gordon shows that he is not only a great chef but an amazing human being! Even his tone of voice is changed from the usual strong tongue...
I am actually happy I found this episode...
Best episode of the season. Finally helping people who really need and deserve his assistance.
Tess and the women yes...Chris? Not so much...
Tess is a dream. Absolutely beautiful and loyal. She deserves the best life can give her.
He's abusive and comfortable with it. She needs to leave him.
Without a doubt. Can’t help but feel bad for her.
Chris toxic behavior is worse that the restaurant is falling apart
I'd hate to see what he's like off camera if that is how he behaves when he knows he's being filmed
The way he shouts at the fiancée. Dear God. Very negative energy, is going into the food , as well.
Throw him in prison.
I saw this exact thing happen with my sister and her ex. He did have anxiety and depression - our mom even paid for his therapy at first, but then she saw through his BS. He would use it to manipulate my sister (and our family) and it escalated to him threatening my sister with harming or killing himself if she left him. Ofc his mom coddled him and denied everything. I hope I never see him again - for his sake. These things can escalate SO quickly, and I hope Tess eventually gets out. His mom says that he has turned into a different person because of the restaurant. No. It revealed who he truly is.
I love the line cook. So supportive
Lol that boy waiting for Chris to slip up and be Tess shoulder to cry on 🤣
Lol i could tell as well@@gogetavsvegito
Game is game @@gogetavsvegito
Thanks so much for focusing on mental health. As a therapist, I am thankful that you are joining in the fight to break the stigma on mental health.
My heart broke for them
Tess with her health and the abuse she tolerated
Chris for his anxiety and the stress he was projecting
What a difference
God bless you Gordon, your care and delicate handling of the situation was impeccable
I have EDS and seeing this poor girl go through this is just awful. I barely survived retail with all my stomach issues, I can’t imagine working in food. Tess, get out of that relationship and focus on keeping yourself healthy!
You can blame the stress of the restaurant all you want, but that kind of behavior doesn’t just manifest over night. That’s abusive behavior that would have shown eventually during their marriage. He is toxic and doesn’t deserve any relationship that alone with a sweetheart like Tess.
Great comment and good point.
When he ate the french dip thats the first time out if the 5 years ive been watching KN, he finally called a food "okay"
It's horrifying because he somehow isn't aware of how abusive he's being. He says they're at 'each other's throats', but she tells him the simplest, base-line things like "make sure it's special for Gordon' and he gets on her, his own fiancé, telling her to shut up and 'let him do his thing'?? and for six years. I wouldn't even had made it through the first half year with that toxic, insufferable, ignorant dumpster fire of a man. Being anxious is no excuse to treat the women in his life like that. Especially because of what she's gone through with all of her surgeries.
I haven't finished the episode yet, and I honestly don't want to see them back together. I hope Tess splits him and finds someone who knows how to treat her like a person. This poor, sweet girl. She wants to find a balance, and he can't see it. He is the focal point of stress and toxicity in the restaurant. Justice for Tess. I can't even imagine what the pain must feel like.
Yes❤
He's aware.
He is very very aware of what he’s doing, just manipulating the situation to make it out that he’s not at fault
If you’re so worried about her leaving you, maybe don’t be a dick. It doesn’t take a lot of effort to not be a dick. You’re stressed so is she. You don’t need to be taking it out on her. You’re a grown man who can find his own ways of dealing with his stress 🤦🏽♀️ It’s not hard.
Also, I have an anxiety disorder (meds and therapy lol 😅) and this is not what that is. Being anxious doesn’t make you a dick. It can make you irritable but you’re still responsible for your actions. You can and do have control over what you’re doing.
Glad to hear at the end that they sold the restaurant. There is no way on earth that guy was gonna keep it together. I wish them the best of luck, but that guy is toxic!!!
I hope Tess knows/realizes you can love someone and also know that you cannot be with them.
If I was in a restaurant and Chef Ramsey walked in I would faint in my soup! 5 star M, top chef in the world! I have watched every program and have learned how to cook. When I hear the word Chef I think of Ramsey. He put cooking and eating up to a whole new level!
Chris was a straight up monster. He doesnt need to be in the business. His dry heaving was disgusting. I would get up and leave after hearing that and the way he talks to people. Doesnt deserve the business with his attitude. You could see he was going to slip right back to his old ways.
I agree 100% he's hopeless and a baby and this restaurant just took the mask off and showed the real him
If he talks to her like that under stress... he won't change in other life stressful situations... because they put up with it. Unless he gets intensive therapy. People can change, but I don't know that I'd let it happen again if I was her.
God forbid they being a child into that dynamic. Yikes.
“ I feel like you pretty much saved my son’s life “
All those ppl saying Gordon is rude or angry, need to see this episode. He treats people the way they will understand, and this differs from person to person.
Not really. I think Gordon also grew over the years.
They should be saying he saved Tess’ life. Screw him.
I have anxiety and my job is often stressful, this episode was really hard to watch but it gave me a ton of perspective.
Thank you Gordon for making an episode that’s centric to male mental health issues
The way Gordon says 'love bites' during the narrating makes it sound like he means 'love sucks' rather than 'bites of love' 😭
Naming the restaurant love bites proves how the universe has a crazy sense of humor
First time I’m glad to see a restaurant business end. Like Gordon said, no restaurant is worth sacrificing a relationship.
She'd be better to get rid of the "relationship." It's toxic.
After watching kitchen nightmares for ever, I have nothing but admiration for Gordon during this episode.. he is an absolute gentleman and the way he helps this girl is nothing but admirable
Who gets a therapist for someone?? Goodson Ramsay, that’s who. Gad I love that man
I couldn’t imagine eating stuff and hearing someone dry hurl in the kitchen 😄
Yes, I was thinking that as well.
No person would ever dare speak to my partner or child this way let alone baby them. Shitty behavior from the mothers justifying this bs man to speak to his woman this way.
Pathetic!
I felt so sorry for tess when she said he doesnt even say sorry i just want him to say sorry. No lady, you dont deserve being spoken to like that full stop... leave him, he wont change , go be happy ❤
Wake up and break up. This poor girl has such a lovely vibe and attitude and he is just straight up abusive.
Well she’s not a quitter, in any conflict there are at least 2 parties and both are guilty, the proportion changes but ALWAYS both are guilty.
So glad they are bringing this show back. Its fantastic.
Now that they’ve sold the restaurant, I wonder if Chris is miserable, angry and abusive about being unemployed?
My guess is yes. Just seeing how she glowed being healed and away from him for a few wks makes me sad that her own mother was allowing that behaviour towards her
He hasn't stopped finding a buyer = stress dealing with the entire process= stress .All that is happens is that the abuse got out from the public eye into the home now 24/7
@@walkz007 No, they sold out to the business across the street, a hot dog place if you can imagine. IDK if they are still together but for her sake, I hope she showed him the door. Straight up, IMO, he is the type to snap so dang far, he will physically hurt her. Narcissist. And momma taught him everything he knows how to do to women. Run, Tess, run.
I’ve lived here my entire life and I went there one time, never again. The neighboring restaurant is my town’s FAVORITE it’s amazing ❤ and it takes all the attention from love bites, it’s probably the only thing that has kept them running. Hope I can go back one day and actually enjoy the food. Thanks Gordon
They permanently closed
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha. She is totaly a emotionall abusive person within youre same theory. But its obvious you dont know pshycology or body language haha. He has also health conditions... And he only defense himself when she comes in and nag... You never see him come out and shout 90 times per day and nag, as she does in the kitchen. Learn what kitchen really means.
Tess deserves so much better. That dude doesn’t deserve any of those women In his sorry pathetic life, one of the eps where I was genuinely upset while I watched.
Yup such a spoilt brat - this was literally all his idea and what he wanted, but it's still not good enough for baby boy Chris lol gotto abuse all the lovely women in his life who dropped everything to be there for him
Oh womp womp. No one cares bro
Oh wow. This is a window into how he will deal with problems in a marriage. Run girl.
This dude is so soft it’s mind blowing. Literally not at all meant to be working in a kitchen let alone running one.
"When I saw her AGAIN, it was love at FIRST sight." 💀
It would never have crossed even my wildest, darkest, most intrusive thoughts to ever speak to my girlfriend like he does to his fiance. Unimaginable and down right evil.
Imagine growing up with that as your father, oh wait I did
This episode contains the kind of wife people want and kind of husband no one deserves.
It made me so angry to hear him speaking to his woman that way when she was just trying to help, then pretending to be sick
I can't believe that I've never seen this episode. Thanks so much
Love Bites closed a month after the episode was shown. It was actually already sold, the sell finalized right before the episode aired. The new owner changed everything Ramsey did in the redo and the place is now called, The Town Cafe. On their Facebook post Chris and Tess said they were closing after six years to repair their health and relationship. Let's hope for their renewed passion for each other!
I don't hope they stay together lol
I hope she found someone else.
I'll remain hugely critical of Chris (and both those moms for allowing that awful behaviour) , and say that Tess could do a lot better.
Seeing how stressful a business can be to run in a family environment, I'm gonna cut him a little slack and hope that after selling, they fixed those issues that were possible.
Shes a fucking idiot for staying with him. He won't change
That fact that he said they’re
“Always at each others throats”
Sir you’re the only one at someone’s throat.
Who wants to listen to that noise while they eat? Can you imagine going there twice???
He's a child who needs to grow up. Sad, really, he doesn't deserve the girl.
She can eaipy leave him but she won't
Of all the ramsay shows I've watched over the year 100s of episodes of anything...this one ticked me off,Tess deserves the world
“I’ve never been to a restaurant as toxic as this”
I think the Burger Kitchen might have a thing or two to say about that
But they were on Prozac!!
I hope she found the strength to leave him. He is so abusive and he will slip back into old habits very quickly.
What a pathetic women - She comes in and interrupts him in the kitchen - when she knows hes stressed and he has ALL the responsability - then when he tells her - shut up leave me alone" - then all the sudden "AHHH cry cry fake sound voices"... Then when she tells Gordon - He brings the place down and us both - She has effectively doubled the blame on him and she didnt even say - "I bring it down also"...
Then she talks about her story how how victim she is then says - "you need to cook with love and hence again blame it all hon him and act like a victim and projects..
She is using classic pshyology gaslightning women often use that are manipulative and then act like a victim. But at the same time she complains at him and blames all on him and interrupts him and then when he says something back when he gets irritated - she acts like a women , so once again put all the blame and bias on him...
Typical toxic females.. Nothing new. Most women love to act like victims as a manipulation method, nothing new. Then she tries to associate to Gordons ex life and that he has daughters and his empathy and that in evolution theory men often have more compassion for women then men. And they use this manipulation tactic. Nothing new. Toxic females. Dont bother responding i dont use YT notifications... Then she contiunes through ALL the video - to blame, project, deflect, act like a victim. Haha then also some "tears" and how he "treats me" and bla bla... Then act like a women that cry.. Hahaha so shallow its amazing.. She is a worse actor then my actor friends.
But typical toxic females that manipulates social surroundings that - its all about them Hahahaha. She is totaly a emotionall abusive person within youre same theory. But its obvious you dont know pshycology or body language haha. He has also health conditions... And he only defense himself when she comes in and nag... You never see him come out and shout 90 times per day and nag, as she does in the kitchen. Learn what kitchen really means.
So heartwarming to see Gordon comforting her.
If my man ever spoke to me like that my 70 year old mom would be out back with a tarp and a shovel.
My dad is 70; he was 45 when he adopted me. He taught me that if ANY man (or woman) speaks to me the way, to put them DOWN and OUT. Disrespect doesn't stand where I'm from.
I think his behavior is explained by the ridiculous hat.
😂
Seriously! As soon as I saw that stupid hat I knew I was gonna hate him.
Tess if you are reading this: it’s not the restaurant, it’s WHO HE IS! I lived this (down to the chronic digestive illness) and wish someone had told me to leave BEFORE I got married. I’m now going through divorce and I’ll soon be free. Men like this are not worth your stress, health, and life. And they never get “better.” I’m also a doctor of relationship science, so trust me when I say it’s not your fault and it can happen to anyone. Men like this are a special kind of manipulative. Look up covert narcissism. His mother has always allowed him to be like this and he’ll never be better.
The mother does enable him, but she is likely just as trapped as Tess.
Doctor of relationship science...
I hope that you gain a sense of peace and happiness once your divorce is final,God bless you.
Did Tess and the mothers even get paid for working for the guy?
Not even married and the mothers are caught up in the son's business like it's an obligation.
The guy is irresponsible.
I would never in 1 million years ever disrespect my fiancé like that seriously this guy has no respect for his fiancé
It's awesome of chef Ramsey to help him.
I'm in the same situation I'm almost shutting down my ice cream outlet due to stress and anxiety.
I really wish you the best of luck. And brother take treatment it helps. Don't lose the wonderful people you have around you ❤
This is why we admire and love Gordon Ramsey as a chef, man, husband and father.
Chris is so abusive oh my god. This episode is so triggering. He’s verbally and emotionally abusive.
This is THE calmest Kitchen Nightmares I’ve ever seen