Dare to Be Independent | Camila Coutinho | TEDxPaloAltoCollege

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  • Опубліковано 30 жов 2024
  • Males are expected to achieve career success while female counterparts are often expected to stay home and take care of children. Camila challenges widely-held assumptions about "traditional" roles in relationships. Camila Coutinho is one of the most influential bloggers in the world due to her simple, fun and creative writing style. Coutinho created “Garotas Estúpidas” (“Stupid Girls”) in July 2006, the first fashion blog in Brazil, which covers the main highlights of national and international fashion, beauty and lifestyle. Coutinho originally created “Garotas Estúpidas” (“Me, Stupid?”) as a way of sharing her passion for fashion with her friends, but her project collected national and international recognition in 13 years of existence. Over the years, Coutinho has collaborated with a variety of international fashion brands such as Jimmy Choo, Dior, Burberry, Diane Von Furstenberg and Dolce and Gabbana. She was the first Brazilian digital influencers to join The Society Management. With over 2.4 million Instagram followers, Coutinho is one of the most recognized bloggers worldwide, and appeared in the prestigious list on Forbes Brazil’s 30 under 30 in 2015 under the fashion and lifestyle blogger category. In 2017, she reached the Business of Fashion 500 list as one of the most influential people on fashion in the world. Coutinho launched her first book, “Estúpida, Eu?” in 2018, which tells the story of her career; transforming her hobby into a business. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 178

  • @farangisehsani592
    @farangisehsani592 3 роки тому +123

    Fathers are treasures in this world. My father never underestimated me as a girl. I love him so much

  • @douglaslucena4489
    @douglaslucena4489 5 років тому +252

    What a message! Not only for woman but for everyone who’s want to get the real independence. Camila deserves the best!

    • @tatianarc25
      @tatianarc25 5 років тому +3

      Douglas Lucena nd she is a beauty blogger.... and had everything in her life... very rich family.... she is not at all what she is saying.....

    • @vinaydhiwar8604
      @vinaydhiwar8604 2 роки тому

      Simp

    • @LA-ly1nt
      @LA-ly1nt Рік тому +1

      @@tatianarc25 if beauty is where her passion and interest lies, then that's her choice. Why condemn someone's passion and interest just because she said that beauty is not everything that a woman should have? It's like saying someone who loves cars should not take the bus at all, and if you take a bus, you are not who you say you are? And the rich family part, why, should they cause themselves to be bankrupt and poor, begging on the streets? If they are rich, they are rich. That cannot be changed, unless somehow their business fail or something. Think and comment logically. Don't let any old fashion mindset and prejudices cloud yourself. Be better.

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 11 місяців тому +3

    When you have your own independence you don't have to thank anybody for anything.

  • @raissacosta2988
    @raissacosta2988 5 років тому +73

    Que incrível poder ver onde vc chegou! Passaram várias lembranças de quando eu enquanto adolescente lia todo dia seu blog!! Palestra inspiradora!

  • @valentinoramirez7121
    @valentinoramirez7121 2 роки тому +11

    I never had a father and my mother never cared for me going to collage. All of my dreams and goals were nothing to her and they bother her I felt as if my goals were insulting her as a person.... I regret not leaving her long ago and follow my own way with new people maybe that could give me support and encouragement. I am a smart and creative person and I don't want to waste it.

  • @lucianaflx
    @lucianaflx 5 років тому +26

    Lembro de ler o GE desde a época que nem falava de moda em si, mas das celebridades. Vi Camila se tornar sucesso mundial e isso é tão maravilhoso. Ela merece tudo o que conquistou mesmo.

  • @ciriacristinaamaral9899
    @ciriacristinaamaral9899 4 роки тому +15

    Congrats on the presentation as well as on the strong nessage. Independence is key to a life of fullfillment.

  • @vlogdaraay4092
    @vlogdaraay4092 5 років тому +20

    I feel so proud of Cami! You nailed it! Thanks for representing us so incredible!

    • @RichardTavilla
      @RichardTavilla 4 місяці тому

      Now 4 years later 1 in 4 American women are on anti-depressants and the most unhappy since recorded history. Being strong and independent means that you’re alone with your cats on the holidays with no kids and no happiness. Run from feminism.

  • @brunab9666
    @brunab9666 5 років тому +32

    O sorriso no final tipo: eu consegui!! Linda! Parabéns!

  • @jessicaelisa9791
    @jessicaelisa9791 5 років тому +53

    What a amazing message! Everybody and especially every girl should listen to go for it and chasing their dreams, you're really inspiring Camila ❤️

    • @RichardTavilla
      @RichardTavilla 4 місяці тому

      1 in 4 American women are on antidepressants. Being independent means that you are without a man and alone. Why in the world would anybody want that? Feminism was a huge lie. Now, women are alone with their cats and still working for a boss instead of a husband and family.. Wow, why would anybody preach that you should be alone? What a miserable existence

  • @adrianasilva2029
    @adrianasilva2029 4 роки тому +6

    Que orgulho de vc menina!!! Parabéns!! Deus te abençoe sempre 🇧🇷🤗😘

  • @marialuizaguimaraes3061
    @marialuizaguimaraes3061 5 років тому +19

    Parabéns Camila pelo sucesso e por sua carreira 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
    Você é inspiração! 💙

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому +1

    Women's Independence is 💥💥💥💥

  • @rossanagoulart6857
    @rossanagoulart6857 5 років тому +16

    Maravilhosa!!! Coragem, é pra frente que se anda! Te admiro!

  • @leilyanemarinho4194
    @leilyanemarinho4194 4 роки тому +6

    É possível que eu tenha recebido outros elogios antes, mas o primeiro que realmente me lembro veio de uma professora e foi sobre inteligência. E foi dado junto a um conselho a minha mãe, que mudou minha vida. Era algo como: sua filha tem potencial, a Sra deveria colocá-la numa escola melhor. Depois disso fui pra uma escola conveniada a faculdade, depois virei bolsista na melhor escola da cidade e de lá parti pra faculdade.

  • @WagnerSerafims
    @WagnerSerafims 4 роки тому +9

    You're the best! Recifense arretada! 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @MISTYGarden-l5c
    @MISTYGarden-l5c 6 місяців тому

    This is wonderful. More women need to be like this instead of just depending on a man to do it.

    • @RichardTavilla
      @RichardTavilla 4 місяці тому

      One in four American women are on antidepressants. There are many surveys and peer studies on how women are the most unhappy since records have been kept . Being strong and independent means you are alone on the holidays with your cats. Feminism lied to women

  • @PinkYellowGreen2023
    @PinkYellowGreen2023 Рік тому +1

    Being independent in thought and action is something many people struggle with!

    • @RichardTavilla
      @RichardTavilla 4 місяці тому

      1 in 4 American women are on antidepressants. Being independent means that you are alone and a miserable. Why would you want to be independent of a good man? Feminism was a huge lie. women all gladly work four hours for a boss instead of a husband then they turned 40 an hour alone with their cats

  • @giorozza
    @giorozza 5 років тому +15

    Great and crucial message!!! Please read: THE BEAUTY MYTH by Naomi Wolf. Last but not least: let's all make sure we no longer address women as "you guys". 🙃

  • @hankey2
    @hankey2 Рік тому

    Good luck! Hope that you find happiness in independence!

  • @Pinkx07
    @Pinkx07 3 роки тому +8

    Wow. This is beautiful and inspiring. Thanks camila❤️
    Love from india 🇮🇳

  • @beatrizdias
    @beatrizdias 4 роки тому +6

    that’s what everyone should know, but thank you Camila, you really brought the right words to make people realize this 🙏🏻

  • @Nico-wj3vk
    @Nico-wj3vk 3 роки тому +12

    Being independent is important in our lifes as women. I think indepence's comes to us when we decide to ignore what people can think about us and their opinions. Once I heard some episode on a podcast that I like a lot about this, actually we are humans and is very normal to think sometimes about what someone else could think about us, if we don't think about someone else opinion probably we could be psychopaths, it is normal to think about that, but is our daily decision choose our opinion first, a psychologist once told me "your opinion is as valuable as another person opinion", and since that, I think I give more importance to my thoughts. As we all know, life isn't easy always as we would like, people, even people we love, could let us down, and that's why we have to forge our self-esteem, and forge our independence and our self-confidence, my message is for women, I think all, men and women, have a lot of weight upon our shoulders, but in that order why not support us as women we already are?, independece is the faculty to waking up and say everyday "I'm alive, I'll live as I wish, I'll built the life that I want for me", sometimes when I feel bad with myself and I realize that nobody is around me to taking some advises, I repeat myself all of those things that surely I would tell someone else, and that helps me a lot. Independence is a daily decision.

  • @email0224
    @email0224 5 років тому +107

    CAMILA ❤🇧🇷

  • @fycgm1341
    @fycgm1341 4 роки тому +10

    I wish someone had advised me like this, I quit my job to care for my family an now I am paying dearly for it. Thank you

  • @hardbodyfitnessandmotivati6743
    @hardbodyfitnessandmotivati6743 3 роки тому

    You do have to choose that's what women have been fighting for!!!!

  • @lela2898
    @lela2898 4 роки тому +3

    Camila é incrível! sou fã blogueira raiz inteligentíssima

  • @oliveiraprin
    @oliveiraprin 4 роки тому

    RAINHA que diz, né???? dona e proprietária da internet

  • @MatheusSilva-gn1gx
    @MatheusSilva-gn1gx 5 років тому +2

    Camila Coutinho MARAVILHOSA 💕💕💕🌻🌻🌻

  • @tacrp2868
    @tacrp2868 5 років тому +2

    Perfeita, NUNCA ERROU!

  • @rafaellecampos7203
    @rafaellecampos7203 4 роки тому +6

    Camila maravilhosa!!!! Orgulho dessa Pernambucana arretada 👏👏👏👏👏❤

  • @psrlira11
    @psrlira11 4 роки тому +6

    Camila como sempre muito profissional e responsável!!! A nova geração de influencers devia se inspirar em pessoas como você.

  • @juliana6066
    @juliana6066 5 років тому +27

    As a woman, we don't have to choose. But a child needs to spend time with their parents. Truth is : Working with children I've to deal with so many kids getting raised by their nanny or relatives. That's something to think about it.

    • @leticianascimento832
      @leticianascimento832 5 років тому +2

      juliana santos I agree. I’m a mother and have had to choose in order to be present in my child’s life. Otherwise she’d have been raised by a relative or nanny which then would have had other consequences and impact in my child’s future.

    • @madi2450
      @madi2450 5 років тому +1

      Am I reading this in 2019?
      🙄

    • @juliana6066
      @juliana6066 5 років тому +5

      @@madi2450 no you don't. Just put a child in the world go work as crazy as Camila coutinho does now and later you can tell me the results....i've a student 4 years old her (single) mom travels a lot due to her job..you have no idea the things that she says or does every day in classroom...its like she screaming to the world: I miss my mom so badly.
      I'm not saying as a woman have to quit our job and stay home with kids. What I'm saying is :If you don't choose life will choose for you.

    • @juliana6066
      @juliana6066 5 років тому +2

      @@leticianascimento832 Priorities... if we don't choose life will choose for us!

    • @Elaine-px4fw
      @Elaine-px4fw 5 років тому +10

      @@leticianascimento832 I wonder if her mum was a full time mum, always present and supporting her in her dreams... That would be interesting to know.
      I'm a mother of 2, a boy and a girl and one of the values that my husband and I want to pass along to them is to be independent.
      I always worked my entire life and now taking this time to be a full time mum has been essential to race my children yet challenging for sure.
      I do want to go back to work...but One thing at the time...I miss my job a lot but I know that someone will do my job as good as mine or even better but no one can substitute my value as a mum, specially in the first 1000 days of a child's life.
      To help my children to feel safe, connected, loved and confident in their childhood and feel confident to explore the world and to be free and independent in the future I am taking a break now in my career for them. To be a present mother to them has been my priority more then any other dreams that I might have in my personal life.

  • @daianasmdada
    @daianasmdada 5 років тому +3

    Amei Camila! 🙌🇧🇷👏👏👏 Bela palestra!

  • @anonymousme6993
    @anonymousme6993 2 роки тому +1

    I'm 15 this year, and This is the age I start to actually figure out what I like, you know. Relationships and all aside. But the thing is, for example, i love reading and i'm starting to write my own books, a passion I really never knew I had, and many more but my family, father, sister mother, they really couldnt be bothered with me unless I get good grades and clean the house. I do get so discouraged but I realized that just because they dont really care about my interests or hobbies, doesnt mean I should give up. I find my own sources of encouragement and support where I cant get at home and this ted talk actually cleared up some things for me.

  • @jwlye
    @jwlye 4 роки тому +8

    Camila, sempre além das expectativas. Admiro desde o início do GE. Melhor TEDx ❤️

  • @verebellido
    @verebellido Рік тому

    Strong message. Thanks 💛

  • @beatrizvidal8452
    @beatrizvidal8452 5 років тому +15

    AFFF EU AMO ESSA MULHER

  • @Girlgirls12233
    @Girlgirls12233 4 роки тому

    que orgulho BRASIL!

  • @caliemm2159
    @caliemm2159 2 роки тому +3

    One isn't able to be independent in an unfair advantage

  • @lorenamilo6754
    @lorenamilo6754 4 роки тому

    Camila MARAVILHOSAAAA!!!!

  • @LORDXEDITZ07
    @LORDXEDITZ07 7 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @beatrizm2920
    @beatrizm2920 5 років тому +2

    E se eu te disser que a única diferença entre nós é que vc é famosa. Mas realmente não é de hoje que isso acontece. E que, para a maioria das mulheres assim, a " punição " antigamente era ser fadada à solidão. Sim, solidão pq a sociedade não teria lugar para ela, pois as pp mulheres não aceitavam mulheres que queriam ser independentes e os homens não a amariam. Um destino cruel e muito opressor. Veja na História, quantas mulheres assim...

  • @lanovello
    @lanovello 5 років тому

    Perfeita. Arrasou.

  • @tamiresmarquez2178
    @tamiresmarquez2178 4 роки тому +1

    Assisto esse vídeo sempre que preciso de uma dose de ânimo , Camila é maravilhosa ✨

  • @clover1383
    @clover1383 3 роки тому +3

    Chasing independence♥️♥️

  • @jmazziero
    @jmazziero 5 років тому +3

    Amazing Camila, parabens!! Perfeito!!

  • @sameekshamurdia
    @sameekshamurdia 3 роки тому

    ❤️❤️

  • @jessica2ba
    @jessica2ba 4 роки тому

    Do Nordeste para o mundo! Arrasou!!!

  • @marianaribeiro6122
    @marianaribeiro6122 4 роки тому

    Incrível!!!

  • @geovanesales3032
    @geovanesales3032 4 роки тому +3

    Maravilhosaa❤

  • @richless4775
    @richless4775 3 роки тому

    3:09 it also happens with mans, if you dont dedicate the time that your partner feels he need, is obvios you were not ready to get into a big compromise like it is marriege. it is like a chain if your MAIN purpose is to be independent.

  • @juliarezende4927
    @juliarezende4927 4 роки тому

    Que gracinha, Camila! That's it!

  • @edgarfilhodotcom
    @edgarfilhodotcom 5 років тому +3

    Parabéns Camila! 🌟

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 2 роки тому

    Yep

  • @teacher.cibelerdgs
    @teacher.cibelerdgs 5 років тому

    You rock and we love you, Camila. 🇧🇷

  • @yasminlanger
    @yasminlanger 4 роки тому +1

    Amazing !! 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @taysanascimento2817
    @taysanascimento2817 4 роки тому

    Perfeitaaaa

  • @aprnc1
    @aprnc1 5 років тому +2

    Congrats, Cami! You rock!👊🏼🇧🇷

  • @amandalopespontes217
    @amandalopespontes217 5 років тому +36

    As if she wasnt someone who makes a whopping lot of money profiting out of women's insecurities, as if she werent someone who sells and promotes unrealistic beauty standards, promotes uncontrolled consumerism, changed her appearance completly to fit into the fashion industry standards, and makes a lot of money selling an impossibly expensive, unrealistic and unattainable lifestyle.

    • @tatianarc25
      @tatianarc25 5 років тому +6

      Amanda Lopes Pontes thank you lol!!!! Oh and you forgot very rich family.... never had to do anything by herself

    • @natynatychan
      @natynatychan 5 років тому +1

      You do have a point...

    • @ferzyd23
      @ferzyd23 5 років тому +1

      You said everything!!! Thanks

    • @dennis9944
      @dennis9944 5 років тому +15

      Yes, she is included in that industry. However, she is definitely one of the most eye-opened beauty bloggers, and a little more “down-to-earth” than the others, you gotta acknowledge this, as she tends to give normal life advices to people - and they are actually very positive, healthy, and useful. This is why she is so renowned and still credited (even among adults...maybe rather than teens) besides having peaked years ago: balance and well manner. Camila has proved to be one of the few non-brain-washed people in the industry, managing to maintain that awful lifestyle that you mentioned and that I believe the job kind of requires, unfortunately, while also promoting conciliation between it and consciousness. Part of what I described is what she did at the displayed TED conference, but she mostly does this sort of thing frequently on her social media, which you can notice for sure by searching more about her career and her story, or simply by stalking her accounts.

    • @isiscarvalho7660
      @isiscarvalho7660 5 років тому

      Very true!

  • @lorenaferreira5040
    @lorenaferreira5040 5 років тому

    Melhor TEDx de todos 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @maggyhanrahan
    @maggyhanrahan 3 роки тому +1

    there is some thing about doing something yourself that just give you a great sense of accomplishment , Like it really annoys me when people ask you to do something for them that they could do themselves. like some weird sense of entitlement to a deformed model of equality and lack of respect in allowing a person to find the experience and growth of decohering it themselves. What an amazing and unique opportunity in personal development.

  • @nataliafalcao5601
    @nataliafalcao5601 5 років тому +2

    This was so inspiring! Arrasou mt Cami!!

  • @rebecaguimaraes9497
    @rebecaguimaraes9497 4 роки тому

    Maravilhosa😍

  • @cacayssa
    @cacayssa 5 років тому

    Que maravilhosa, Camila! Amei muito! Ps: adorei seu livro! Parabéns pelo grande sucesso, o mundo é seu!!

  • @lucasnepomuceno69
    @lucasnepomuceno69 4 роки тому

    Muuuuuuito bom

  • @dinyc
    @dinyc 5 років тому

    Way to go, Camis! Congrats!

  • @patieoslivrosqueencantam4827
    @patieoslivrosqueencantam4827 5 років тому +2

    Camila arrasadora ! ♥️😘

  • @lairanerekovvsky7788
    @lairanerekovvsky7788 4 роки тому

    Maravilhosa!!!

  • @brechomooca5204
    @brechomooca5204 4 роки тому +2

    Sensacional, superou o seu medo de palestras e se saiu muito bem ♥️

  • @gessicaramos8793
    @gessicaramos8793 5 років тому +1

    Palestra incrível, nunca erra

  • @biancapigatto2983
    @biancapigatto2983 4 роки тому

    Rainha do Brasillllll 😍👏

  • @sinararodrigues7949
    @sinararodrigues7949 4 роки тому +3

    Mensagem foda Camila ♥️🇧🇷

  • @niinapochmann
    @niinapochmann 4 роки тому

    Incrível muito inspirador!!!

  • @karolsoarres90
    @karolsoarres90 5 років тому

    Parabéns, Camilla!

  • @hayanafigueiredo5326
    @hayanafigueiredo5326 4 роки тому

    👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

  • @MuriloGunPlus
    @MuriloGunPlus 5 років тому +1

    maravilhosa!!!

  • @xzumk
    @xzumk 4 роки тому

    Amazing talk!!

  • @danielasanchez3834
    @danielasanchez3834 4 роки тому

    Eres lo máximo Camila ❤️ ojalá puedas hacer mas post en tu instagram y en garotas estupidas en inglés 🙏

  • @DrSRanjanMBBSAcupuncturist
    @DrSRanjanMBBSAcupuncturist 5 років тому

    Connecting.. to Courageous, Smart 📱 Princess.

  • @beatrizmazzer3678
    @beatrizmazzer3678 5 років тому

    Muito bom Camila Parabéns!! 👏🏻👏🏻

  • @juliafulgencio
    @juliafulgencio 4 роки тому

    Sensacional!!!!!

  • @somaspecialist
    @somaspecialist Рік тому +1

    To all "independent women" you will only have two choices: cat or dog?

  • @giovannalyssa6693
    @giovannalyssa6693 5 років тому +1

    INTELIGENTE E BEM SUCEDIDA! ADORO

  • @NohaneCarvalho
    @NohaneCarvalho 5 років тому

    🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷 🇧🇷

  • @acidesio
    @acidesio 4 роки тому

    Perfect

  • @ektabadhe4740
    @ektabadhe4740 2 роки тому

    Absolutely loved it ❤️ more power to every human on the road of becoming better version of themselves.

  • @valdessafalcao
    @valdessafalcao 4 роки тому

    Maravilhosa

  • @ib.2995
    @ib.2995 5 років тому +1

    Prooooud!! 💙

  • @mohammedrashid2906
    @mohammedrashid2906 2 роки тому

    Welcome Tanzania

  • @claricetorresdemoraiscouti4298
    @claricetorresdemoraiscouti4298 5 років тому +1

    Amazing!!!!

  • @thaiskalvya5829
    @thaiskalvya5829 4 роки тому

    The best😍😍😍😍😍

  • @heloisaviana5636
    @heloisaviana5636 5 років тому +1

    inspiração.

  • @isabelleaguiar22
    @isabelleaguiar22 5 років тому

    Awesome

  • @joadnaqueiroz1867
    @joadnaqueiroz1867 5 років тому +1

    Excelent Camila 🇧🇷❤️

  • @antoniodiniz3420
    @antoniodiniz3420 4 роки тому

    CAMILA ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @amerthgabriela
    @amerthgabriela 5 років тому

    Fantastic

  • @claracavalcannti
    @claracavalcannti 4 роки тому

    Pernambucana arretada!

  • @waymilky442
    @waymilky442 11 місяців тому

    Are little boys told they are courageous?

  • @elaniacosta3251
    @elaniacosta3251 4 роки тому

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻