Yes & please keep them & love them because your Parent would want them taken care of & loved the way they took care of them & loved them. Please do not send them to a shelter if you absolutely cannot keep them please find them a loving home yourself. I love my FurBaby & worry about what will happen to him if I & my Husband were to die before he does. My Son’s wife probably won’t let my Son take him. 💙😢
So true. We had to sell our house to take my MIL's dog when she passed. Our old yard wasn't suitable. No regrets. She was Mums companion and safety provider. Had her for another 4 years till she passed from old age as well.
Wat h my mom pass for four days and three nights after life support cut off . By the last morning I had no sadness . It was over and she was gone. Drove home that afternoon . Mind you she was 93. Her race was one.
This hit me in the feels. I empathize so deeply as I went through it with my Grandma who I cared for the last years of her life. She passed suddenly from cancer at age 86 in June 2023
Shut up! So sick of people claiming God fixes anything. An orphan that has been sold into sex trafficking doesn't want to hear pray to God. God doesn't exist, at least not on this planet. You are delusional.
We become orphans no matter what age we are when we loose our parents. And digs or cats they don’t understand do you have to allow them to feel to express they confusion just love them and be patient
@paulafernandes4349 You have beautifully, eloquently, succinctly and lovingly said....my exact heart felt thoughts of grief over losing my parents. Of which, I have never been able to put into words or nor explain to others, what you said so well, for almost 30 years. Thank you, and I am very sorry for your losses, too. May God bless you, and keep you. ♡
@@DWolfe-ut4rzThank you! In my ‘rootlessness’ of losing my parents within 8 months, I then rooted myself in God. If I hadn’t done that, I fear I would have felt lost forever. It was a breakthrough for me. Colossians 2:7 Have the roots [of your being] firmly and deeply planted [in Him, fixed and founded in Him], being continually built up in Him, becoming increasingly more confirmed and established in the faith, just as you were taught, and abounding and overflowing in it with thanksgiving.
@@paulafernandes4349 Your reply meant so much. Thank you for sharing God's scriptures of wisdom, hope, and love in sustaining us through everything. You are amazing!
My mum died in work 10 days before Christmas. She bounced out of the house that morning, full of cheer, looking forward to the holidays, her tree was outstanding and she had the house looking beautiful. We got a call at the lunchtime to say she had taken sick and to make our way over. Paramedics working on her and they came out to tell us ‘we tried everything, we are so sorry’ Hearing her colleagues screaming in anguish through the walls will haunt me forever. Watching her body being wheeled out by the coroners men and her colleagues standing on each side as we walked behind her, it’s making the tears flow even as I type this. Nothing can prepare you for all the different moments that a passing beings. Each so unique, with different emotions. From being a home that loved Christmas, I hate it now. Dread the adverts, Christmas carols and songs. Mostly music because the morning after, I went downstairs to find my dad crying while leaning over the kitchen counter, and white Christmas was playing on the radio 💔
@@mebabydoll83thank you very much… she still working her magic. I’m 45 and back with my first love. She adored him so we think shes smiling in heaven at our happiness together ❤
@@auntiimandii we didn’t want an autopsy because we wanted her to be at peace but there was heart issues in her family, her dad and brother have also passed of heart issues. She had also been saying she had heartburn. Hindsight tells us that was a warning sign, not indigestion at all. She was an absolute star, lived for her family, loved her home, her pets and her work. If God had told her when he was going to call her, she would have begged him ‘not at Christmas’ because that was our most favourite time of year. Once November comes, I just want to fast forward to 1st January. No time of year is the right time though, is it. 🩷
This is very similar to my mom’s passing. So sudden and unexpected. I had just talked to her on the phone and she was so happy. The shock of receiving the phone call that she was gone. Nothing can ever prepare you for that. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and hugs.
My mom's work here was done this past January. I still think I'll call her and tell her something then I remember I can't. I have to pull over and get my head together. I talk to her as I sit there and cry..
I love that you are caring for the pet. So many pets grieve and then get thrown in shelters after their world collapsed on them. So much truama. You are a gem. Im deeply sorry for your loss.
I lost my Dad 50 years ago. The pain very slowly changes to memories-both good and sorrowful. And finally to the happy memories. But every so often something I see or something someone says will grip me in the chest and there are some tears. He was a good man-a funny man. Still love him.
Im having a really hard time coming to terms with my mama's death this past January. She was my rock. Im the only one left out of 6 in our immediate family. Sometimes i feel so alone.
@@sarahmcdaniel1301 my mom was my rock also It’s almost unbearable and sometimes more than I can handle. Never had a family. Was her caregiver and she was mine ❤😢
I'm so very sorry. My heart really goes out to you. Cuddle up with their dog; you will help each other get through. It's very hard now, but eventually it will get easier. I'll keep you and their pup in my prayers. ❤
I understand your loss. I listen to the old voice messages my MOM left me on my birthday, I lost my FATHER in 1980 so no voice recordings of him but I miss them everyday. May GOD give you the piece of mind to carry on.
Dont forget to be super patient and loving with his buddy. He is mourning too. he doesn't understand why his best friend in the whole world was taking away from him
Sadly the dog was left alone in the apartment with my dad for days before we noticed he passed. He mourned my dad before the rest of us did. By the time I got him it’s like he already accepted my dad’s death 😕
I’m so sorry my dear for your pain and loss. I don’t know your beliefs but I do pray that you will meet your father again one day in glory. God bless you sweet girl ❤
Being the last living member of my family is something I never thought would happen. It is a most lonely feeling. I am the only person alive to carry the memories of my family and all our lives. My heart aches for your loss! God bless you as you adjust your sails for the journey ahead! ♥️
I too am an only child who has lost both her parents. Rips the core right out of you. As well meaning people tell you how "normal" it is to lose your folks. 😢 I'm very sorry for your loss.
@@denisehofstadter6853God bless you too to be the only one left is terrible. I'm sad cuz out of our immediate little family of 7.2 parents and 5 kids there's only the 3 girls left.
I’ve lost a parent both expectedly and unexpectedly. Not sure which hurts worse. Guess both are horrible. Gods ❤️to all who are hurting now…so much heartache
GOD help her and give her the strength she need to get through this. May her parent RIP and my condolences go out to the family and friends. Sorry for your loss.❤❤ Glory to GOD.
I found my mother kneeling in a position of prayer, her face in imprinted on the cushion. She had been dead for three days. I stood there crying, stumbling around ger house. I had given her flowers with my 6 YO daughter, only three days earlier. I said goodbye to her and hugged her through a body bag. I used to go to her house and stand in the closet touching her clothes, hugging them and smelling them .she was all I had. I had no father and estranged from my half siblings. I always felt only half a person, but to lose her was devastating. Her memorial was on my birthday. She is buried with her parents in Germany. I look at her photo almost everyday. I have never gotten over her lose or my father's, who is buried in Puerto Ricos National Cemetary, Vietnam killed him slowly. God bless you, I hope you have great moments if happy memories.
I pray you are finding some peace and comfort, dear. ❤ (The part where you said Vietnam killed your father slowly made me cry harder. Vietnam slowly killed my father too last year. Agent Orange.)
I still feel my Dad 7 yrs later. I hear him in my ear as long as his blood runs through me we are always connected. He a girls first love, until we meet again as he always said.
They taught you strength and courage.. you have angels with you where ever you go. I travel and look up and say, look at this, it's beautiful and I k ow my parents, my sister, my best friend are seeing it too. At least that's how I do things, it's not for everyone, but I like to famp so I take them with me. I've met so many great peo0le along the way too.
Old or young in years, we’re all too young to lose our parents. Acceptance comes with time. I’m old but my heart will always feel the loss. Hugs and prayers from one orphan to another.
The thing that helped me with both parents was thanking God for the gift of the time I was given with them and the person they helped me become today. 🙏 May God comfort and embrace you. ❤
I lived in California. My dad lived in Texas. The last time I saw him, I knew it was going to be the last time I would ever see him because he had terminal cancer. It broke my heart to say goodbye, knowing I would never see him again. The tears still flow when I think of that day...that was 1982.
They will never ever stop flowing I imagine. I've lost both my parents and the only two brothers my husband and father of my children. I'm just so thankful to God I have my kids. God bless you. Seeing your parents and your big strong husband and brothers waste away to nothing is horribly hard thou they all 5 passed from cancer. I was diagnosed with stage2 larynx cancer and have finished radiation. None of my family liked doctors im hoping I beat this ive still got kids at home.
So sorry for your loss. In time, lots of time, the pain will lessen. Right now please surround yourself with positive loving and caring people. Don't forget to eat and care for yourself. I lost both of mine, my best friends, I still remember and I still miss them. But time has been one of the few things that has made it more bearable. Try to love yourself in the most positive way, keep your health up. Try to get sleep if you can and try to eat as healthy as you can.
Bless you! It's so hard to lose a parent. I lost both of mine and I find peace by all the memories. GOD gave me peace. Ask him to give you the same. Trust in him. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I can relate to all of this and I promised my mom her dog would be taken care of, i was blessed with him for another 3 years. When I lost him I grieved for my mother all over again. My sympathies for your loss
I feel your pain, I lost my mother in 2021, it gutted me.. still feels as tho it was yesterday, my daughter has her name, I know now why my daughter Victoria is my saving grace💜🙏, I love you mama🥺♥️
😢 so true! If you are blessed with loving parents, the loss is great. You feel like a child when they leave...a vulnerability. They did and do so much for us💔
@@rachelsill79Dont be so harsh, everyone is going through it. They didn’t “insult” anyone specific. I guess just a comment on the growing trend of young people detaching from parents. It is indeed nice to see that family is still important to people. This is the grief that comes with the love.
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I'm honestly fucking terrified of when my dad goes. He's in his mid 60s and has bone and prostate cancer. The slow decline in health is what's eating my at the core. It hurts so god damn much and yet I have to at least pretend to be strong for his sake. I'm afraid of the world without his goofy antics, his sage advice. And even when he gets mad. I'm not ready and never will be. But his day is coming soon. All I can do now is try and make him proud. I love him so much. Sorry for the trauma dump. But I hope for nothing but peace for you and your family.
I hear ya, mine are gone now, it's hard being strong when you feel so vulnerable and scared, all your dad will want to know, is that your okay to carry on without him ❤
Sweet heart, I’m speaking from experience, we are sad here, he is having the time of his life , he will send you little things along the time for you to have love , I promise. ♥️♥️♥️🐱🐱😇😇😇😇😇😇
😭 Thinking of my Dad too, thank you for sharing. Everyone with a heart needs to know we should cherish, honor our parents with the time they have left. I grew up not seeing my Dad, when i turned 18 I connected & I would take my children 18 hours away once a year to visit him, once the children were grown & I was able, I visited more, I loved the time we had the last years and he finally agreed to move to where I was, passed away within that year. But, he got to be a big part of my sisters life, the grandchildren & great grandchildren. He had his faults, but, i chose to look past them, over time he changed. Grace Love Mercy are miraculous
GOD Bless you and comfort you 😢 i lost my little sister and it huets still everyday. I cleaned her room saw what she last used of her stuff. I pray youre strong to get through this 🙏 sending you hugs
So true it is very painful to loose your parents or submits but the worse pain it’s to loose a child or your children there is no pain that can compare to that pain.
Bless your hear,t We Are never prepared to lose our parents at any age, sweetheart They know you love them. May God bless you and heal your heart. Take the pain away. I know he can. I'm so sorry for your loss
I was my mother's caregiver for a few years. I understand your loss. I held her cam when she passed. Had to make the extremely hard decision that I didn't want to make. I miss her daily. He'll be 5 years this year. Hold on to the good times. Honor him anyway you feel necessary. I planted a tree and my mother's other one. I took time to pick out exactly what I wanted to honor her. I picked a Korean dwarf lilac tree. It's beautiful just like my mother. It may just be a tree everyone else to it shows her beauty
11 years for me, Mom is gone but Dad is still here thankfully...I am an "ol' Boomer"..and I have also seen my friends going through the same..Sometimes I get a treat and that is seeing my mother in a dream or two!Blessings!❤😇🙏👌👍
Lots of love ❤. My dad died when I was two years of age and I lost my mom back in 2017 when I was 35. She was literally my best friend and we were very close. She was an amazing woman who at one point held down four jobs just make sure she had enough money for me growing up. I miss her everyday. Take care of yourself and just take each day one day at a time ❤
My husband of 25 years died at home from pancreatic cancer. When they came to take him away, I refused to let them put him in the plastic body bag but rather wrapped him in his favorite quilt. Our dog carried around my husbands tennis shoe for a long time. And every night at the time my husband was due home from work, our dog would wait by the window. It has been 4 years since he died, and I still cry everyday. I will never find another companion like my husband.
Been through this Very tough!!! What I will say is TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME, ONE STEP AT A TIME. It is exhausting physically and emotionally. God will get you through . Ox
You’re so right. I’m 64 and lost Dad 14 years ago and Mom 8 years ago. I thought I’d never be able to go on without them, even with being married with 3 grown sons. But, God does help us move on. We now have 2 grandchildren and my biggest regret is they didn’t get to meet them or see me become a grandmother, as Mom was such a wonderful GMA to our boys. In time, you will be able to have happy memories and remember to thank God for giving you a wonderful dad. I thank Him everyday for the family I was born into and the husband and kids, DIL and grandchildren I have. 😇😇🙏🏼❤️
Treasure them when they are here and honour their memory when they are gone. Eventually you will be a stronger person and the person they wanted you to become.
Our parents are our Rock when we have bad days and good days. They listened to our stories of life steps. Our advisors when we are troubled with a situation. When we loose them to our father in heaven, we become lost. Grieve all you need to. It's been 17 years and im still lost without them both. I found Jesus Christ and he has ease my pain. Your stronger than you know. One day at a time, your great daughter for taking the dog and dealing with all the big and little things. God has your back❤️🙏🙏🙏.
It is hard losing your parents at any age. I was sixteen when I lost my father and my mom well she passed in 2017. I actually lost my mom early then her actually passing from her mental illness.
Its that moment when the kids do something funny and you pick up the phone to call. Just as you remember you can't. Crying starts again. One day soon, we will see them once again. ❤
My Dad and Uncle Dave both passed away while I was comatosed in ICU. Something I had to deal with slowly as I regained my strength. Visiting thier Grave Sights is the next step. Very soon, going Home 🏡 to see my family. I can't travel that far alone. My Mom and family have been so very understanding and positive as they wait for me to come home. 🏡 I will be seeing them very soon. My health is still frail and I am waiting to recover more physical and mentally. It hasn't been easy for any of us. God has blessed me with a miraculous recovery. But slowly I am definitely building back up my streangth! 😢 My Dad was always my Hero. Just now my Hero in Heaven. My hubby has been so understanding and comforting. Keeping up with all my Docters appointments and errands. Holds my heart so gently and wipes my tears and fears away. Still Thankful and Greatful my cancer has not returned 🙏 🙌 God hears my prayers.
There will always be signs and symbols that will remind you of what used to be, it's a forever embrace that whispers , I'm here, I'm always here. 🙏❤️❤️
Taking care of their pet is so important because remember they are grieving the loss of their mom or dad too
Yes & please keep them & love them because your Parent would want them taken care of & loved the way they took care of them & loved them. Please do not send them to a shelter if you absolutely cannot keep them please find them a loving home yourself. I love my FurBaby & worry about what will happen to him if I & my Husband were to die before he does. My Son’s wife probably won’t let my Son take him. 💙😢
Yes
So true. We had to sell our house to take my MIL's dog when she passed. Our old yard wasn't suitable. No regrets. She was Mums companion and safety provider. Had her for another 4 years till she passed from old age as well.
😢 yes ❤
So sorry I'm just seeing this
40 years later and I still have a ratan trunk with mom's most precious items!!! I feel you!
Oh sweetheart my heart goes out to you ! My condolences this pain is like no other I pray God helps you heal 🙏
Wat h my mom pass for four days and three nights after life support cut off . By the last morning I had no sadness . It was over and she was gone. Drove home that afternoon . Mind you she was 93. Her race was one.
I am with you for her loss🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
It’s never the same after losing your parents. I prayed to God for peace, strength and comfort. I couldn’t have made it without Him.✝️
This hit me in the feels. I empathize so deeply as I went through it with my Grandma who I cared for the last years of her life. She passed suddenly from cancer at age 86 in June 2023
So very sorry. Praying for your healing and peace. You will see him again some day. ❤
Shut up! So sick of people claiming God fixes anything. An orphan that has been sold into sex trafficking doesn't want to hear pray to God. God doesn't exist, at least not on this planet. You are delusional.
Amen! 💖👍😎
Been done that and getting rid of stuff is the hardest. But prevail and keep the dog who mourns with you. God Bless.🙏
It’s so hard. Feels like our roots have been pulled out. Nothing to ground us.
We become orphans no matter what age we are when we loose our parents. And digs or cats they don’t understand do you have to allow them to feel to express they confusion just love them and be patient
@paulafernandes4349
You have beautifully, eloquently, succinctly and lovingly said....my exact heart felt thoughts of grief over losing my parents. Of which, I have never been able to put into words or nor explain to others, what you said so well, for almost 30 years.
Thank you, and I am very sorry for your losses, too.
May God bless you, and keep you. ♡
@@DWolfe-ut4rzThank you! In my ‘rootlessness’ of losing my parents within 8 months, I then rooted myself in God. If I hadn’t done that, I fear I would have felt lost forever. It was a breakthrough for me. Colossians 2:7 Have the roots [of your being] firmly and deeply planted [in Him, fixed and founded in Him], being continually built up in Him, becoming increasingly more confirmed and established in the faith, just as you were taught, and abounding and overflowing in it with thanksgiving.
@@paulafernandes4349
Your reply meant so much.
Thank you for sharing God's scriptures of wisdom, hope, and love in sustaining us through everything. You are amazing!
@@DWolfe-ut4rz❤
My mum died in work 10 days before Christmas. She bounced out of the house that morning, full of cheer, looking forward to the holidays, her tree was outstanding and she had the house looking beautiful. We got a call at the lunchtime to say she had taken sick and to make our way over. Paramedics working on her and they came out to tell us ‘we tried everything, we are so sorry’
Hearing her colleagues screaming in anguish through the walls will haunt me forever.
Watching her body being wheeled out by the coroners men and her colleagues standing on each side as we walked behind her, it’s making the tears flow even as I type this.
Nothing can prepare you for all the different moments that a passing beings. Each so unique, with different emotions. From being a home that loved Christmas, I hate it now. Dread the adverts, Christmas carols and songs. Mostly music because the morning after, I went downstairs to find my dad crying while leaning over the kitchen counter, and white Christmas was playing on the radio 💔
Sorry for your loss😢😢
@@mebabydoll83thank you very much… she still working her magic. I’m 45 and back with my first love. She adored him so we think shes smiling in heaven at our happiness together ❤
I'm so sorry. Was it a heart problem? Unexpected sudden deaths are the absolute worst to experience. Thank you for sharing your story. 😢
@@auntiimandii we didn’t want an autopsy because we wanted her to be at peace but there was heart issues in her family, her dad and brother have also passed of heart issues. She had also been saying she had heartburn. Hindsight tells us that was a warning sign, not indigestion at all. She was an absolute star, lived for her family, loved her home, her pets and her work. If God had told her when he was going to call her, she would have begged him ‘not at Christmas’ because that was our most favourite time of year. Once November comes, I just want to fast forward to 1st January. No time of year is the right time though, is it. 🩷
This is very similar to my mom’s passing. So sudden and unexpected. I had just talked to her on the phone and she was so happy. The shock of receiving the phone call that she was gone. Nothing can ever prepare you for that. I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and hugs.
Yes nothing replaces our parents they are gold❤
I feel physically sick at the thought of losing my mum. She’s in great health aged 82 and I can’t imagine her not being here 🥰
My mom's work here was done this past January. I still think I'll call her and tell her something then I remember I can't. I have to pull over and get my head together. I talk to her as I sit there and cry..
Big hugs
My momma been gone for 14 yrs, I still wish I could call her, show off my grandbaby she never got to meet.
@@jackieludwig9382 I'm sorry, I know that hurts you
I've done this and it just shocks you all over. I'm sorry for your loss. ❤
I so sympathize. I remember the times I would almost pick up the phone to talk to her. I lost my best friend. May God give you strength.
I love that you are caring for the pet. So many pets grieve and then get thrown in shelters after their world collapsed on them. So much truama. You are a gem. Im deeply sorry for your loss.
Ugh I felt that!!! I just did this with my mom in February of this year… & I still have her dog 😢
So sorry for your loss, it is a tough time 🙏
Me too 💔😢 but I know she not hurting anymore 🌹and I look at her pictures everyday 😢
Seeing my mom in a body bag was the worse pain ever. Not being able to tell my parents how much I love them just hurts my heart and soul. 😢
Sorry for your loss.
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I understand your pain sweetie. Sending you nothing but love and your tears a soft place to fall.
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I lost my Dad 50 years ago. The pain very slowly changes to memories-both good and sorrowful. And finally to the happy memories. But every so often something I see or something someone says will grip me in the chest and there are some tears. He was a good man-a funny man. Still love him.
This is so TRUE 😢 ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, 😭😭😭PREPARES U
For most, it is losing someone who loves you unconditionally.
Im having a really hard time coming to terms with my mama's death this past January. She was my rock. Im the only one left out of 6 in our immediate family. Sometimes i feel so alone.
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My exact thoughts when my father died in 2021. Still I cry often.
I lost both my parents, miss them so much. Took me 4 yrs to go their house and empty it. 💔💔
@@sarahmcdaniel1301 my mom was my rock also It’s almost unbearable and sometimes more than I can handle. Never had a family. Was her caregiver and she was mine ❤😢
I wish I could hug you. I know how you feel. It does get better with time. Yet I do have outbursts of tears out of nowhere once in a while. ❤
It's the hardest thing ever the pain is like no other ❤❤❤❤
Like no other for sure
Miss my mom too❤ RIP ❤
I'm so very sorry. My heart really goes out to you. Cuddle up with their dog; you will help each other get through. It's very hard now, but eventually it will get easier. I'll keep you and their pup in my prayers. ❤
The pain is unbearable 😢
I'm so sorry. It's the worst. Hug his little dog, im sure he's suffering too.
I'm so so sorry. Your Dad can see you and he knows you love him he is very much alive.
I am so sorry...thank you for taking his dog. The dog will be grieving right along with you. It hurts to lose a parent, bless you.
I understand your loss. I listen to the old voice messages my MOM left me on my birthday, I lost my FATHER in 1980 so no voice recordings of him but I miss them everyday. May GOD give you the piece of mind to carry on.
Dont forget to be super patient and loving with his buddy. He is mourning too. he doesn't understand why his best friend in the whole world was taking away from him
He just thinks his owner ABANDONED him and doesn't understand why 😢
@@chutzpah5603So true. Good to give them a blanket or something that had their smell on it for comfort. Thank you for keeping the pup!
So true. His pet is mourning the owner as much as his daughter is. 😢
I hope you were able to take him to see your Dad before he was buried, you would be surprised at what they understand about death and burial.
Sadly the dog was left alone in the apartment with my dad for days before we noticed he passed. He mourned my dad before the rest of us did. By the time I got him it’s like he already accepted my dad’s death 😕
Remember you are amongst friends here who are all willing to listen take care of yourself....
I lost my mum to COVID ... You will never stop missing them . God grant you the strength .
Covid was horrible 😢
Indeed!
In my case it was my dad😢
@@NannyMacfee 💞
Loss my Daddy to Covid.
I’m so sorry my dear for your pain and loss. I don’t know your beliefs but I do pray that you will meet your father again one day in glory. God bless you sweet girl ❤
Both of my parents are gone now. I'm an only child. Wish I had someone to share our memories with. I feel your pain! 😢
You just did🌹
All of us "Only"s know what you mean, but at least we have memories and that is a great gift .
Thinking of you...
Sending hugs🫶🏼 I was my dad’s only child
Being the last living member of my family is something I never thought would happen. It is a most lonely feeling. I am the only person alive to carry the memories of my family and all our lives. My heart aches for your loss!
God bless you as you adjust your sails for the journey ahead! ♥️
I too am an only child who has lost both her parents. Rips the core right out of you. As well meaning people tell you how "normal" it is to lose your folks. 😢 I'm very sorry for your loss.
@@denisehofstadter6853God bless you too to be the only one left is terrible. I'm sad cuz out of our immediate little family of 7.2 parents and 5 kids there's only the 3 girls left.
So sorry for your loss. I lost both my parents 6 months apart
I’m so sorry. It’s a sacred duty dealing with their things afterwards. Thank you for honoring his memory.
The pain never goes away
I understand your pain, Lost my dad unexpectedly 4 yrs ago. Still feels so unreal. Take care of his pet
I’ve lost a parent both expectedly and unexpectedly. Not sure which hurts worse. Guess both are horrible. Gods ❤️to all who are hurting now…so much heartache
GOD help her and give her the strength she need to get through this. May her parent RIP and my condolences go out to the family and friends. Sorry for your loss.❤❤ Glory to GOD.
I found my mother kneeling in a position of prayer, her face in imprinted on the cushion. She had been dead for three days. I stood there crying, stumbling around ger house. I had given her flowers with my 6 YO daughter, only three days earlier. I said goodbye to her and hugged her through a body bag. I used to go to her house and stand in the closet touching her clothes, hugging them and smelling them .she was all I had. I had no father and estranged from my half siblings. I always felt only half a person, but to lose her was devastating. Her memorial was on my birthday. She is buried with her parents in Germany. I look at her photo almost everyday. I have never gotten over her lose or my father's, who is buried in Puerto Ricos National Cemetary, Vietnam killed him slowly. God bless you, I hope you have great moments if happy memories.
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I pray you are finding some peace and comfort, dear. ❤
(The part where you said Vietnam killed your father slowly made me cry harder. Vietnam slowly killed my father too last year. Agent Orange.)
I’m so sorry for your loss. Please look after yourself. I miss my parents at a great deal too 😢
If you are a believe in Jesus you will see them again! Thank you Lord!
So very sad😢😢😢. Sending love and prayers ❤🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Be patient and loving His dog doesn't understand why dad doesn't come home anymore❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🙏
I'm sorry for your loss :( i lost my father 12 years ago i was 17 years old and i wish that nobody feel the same pain 😢 qnd.not ready to feel.kt again
I'm so sorry!!
I know how it feels. Both of mine are gone to glory. My moms still bothers me sometimes and it's been 36 years since she's been gone.
Oh god I am so sorry .. this hit too hard
The only time in your life were you will feel totally alone ... without a Parent to shield you from the world ... 🙏💙
I am so sorry for your loss. ❤️ I lost my dad 3 years ago and it still hurts. Sending you and your family my thoughts and prayers ❤️
I still feel my Dad 7 yrs later. I hear him in my ear as long as his blood runs through me we are always connected. He a girls first love, until we meet again as he always said.
It will get better take it day by day the doggie will need you may GOD bless you
I understand..lost my parents and sister send beloved relatives. I am too young to be so alone 💔
They taught you strength and courage.. you have angels with you where ever you go. I travel and look up and say, look at this, it's beautiful and I k ow my parents, my sister, my best friend are seeing it too. At least that's how I do things, it's not for everyone, but I like to famp so I take them with me. I've met so many great peo0le along the way too.
Old or young in years, we’re all too young to lose our parents. Acceptance comes with time. I’m old but my heart will always feel the loss. Hugs and prayers from one orphan to another.
They were very fortunate to have you for a daughter.
There is no words for this …
Please don’t forget about the pet . Remember he will be grieving too . Is family ❤❤
My condolences to you .!
I really won't to tell you from my heart it get better. But it don't. So sorry . Love sofie. From the UK
I'm sorry for your loss!!!! I lost my mother in 2019, and it doesn't get easier. I'll be praying for you.
The thing that helped me with both parents was thanking God for the gift of the time I was given with them and the person they helped me become today. 🙏 May God comfort and embrace you. ❤
I lived in California. My dad lived in Texas. The last time I saw him, I knew it was going to be the last time I would ever see him because he had terminal cancer. It broke my heart to say goodbye, knowing I would never see him again. The tears still flow when I think of that day...that was 1982.
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They will never ever stop flowing I imagine. I've lost both my parents and the only two brothers my husband and father of my children. I'm just so thankful to God I have my kids. God bless you. Seeing your parents and your big strong husband and brothers waste away to nothing is horribly hard thou they all 5 passed from cancer. I was diagnosed with stage2 larynx cancer and have finished radiation. None of my family liked doctors im hoping I beat this ive still got kids at home.
@@lorasamario5969❤❤❤ you will
So sorry for your loss. In time, lots of time, the pain will lessen. Right now please surround yourself with positive loving and caring people. Don't forget to eat and care for yourself. I lost both of mine, my best friends, I still remember and I still miss them. But time has been one of the few things that has made it more bearable. Try to love yourself in the most positive way, keep your health up. Try to get sleep if you can and try to eat as healthy as you can.
Anche lui avrà pianto sicuramente nel lasciarti 😢
Bless you! It's so hard to lose a parent. I lost both of mine and I find peace by all the memories. GOD gave me peace. Ask him to give you the same. Trust in him. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I can relate to all of this and I promised my mom her dog would be taken care of, i was blessed with him for another 3 years. When I lost him I grieved for my mother all over again. My sympathies for your loss
It’s an unbearable pain to go thru when one looses a parent. Only time and faith heals the loss of a loved one
Going on 4 years... still hurts!! He was the glue of the family.
This is sooo True. When I lost my Dad...it was Shocking ...he was our Foundation..but I remember his words and strength he taught us 🙏
Mum watched the "Bold and the Beautiful" every day. I miss watching it with her. I loved her so much!
I grew up watching The Young and the Restless with my mother. I heard the theme song recently and 😭😭😭. All the memories came back.
Same here I remember watching bold and beautiful all the time I was growing up... I miss them so much ..all those memories
I feel your pain, I lost my mother in 2021, it gutted me.. still feels as tho it was yesterday, my daughter has her name, I know now why my daughter Victoria is my saving grace💜🙏, I love you mama🥺♥️
I'm so sorry for your loss, I pray for comfort for you during your time of grieving.
😢 so true! If you are blessed with loving parents, the loss is great. You feel like a child when they leave...a vulnerability. They did and do so much for us💔
Glad to see there is at least one adult child out there who still loves the parents!! Big hug sweetie!! I'm so sorry you are going through this
What a ridiculous thing to say. It is possible to compliment someone without insulting someone else. Try it
@@rachelsill79Dont be so harsh, everyone is going through it. They didn’t “insult” anyone specific. I guess just a comment on the growing trend of young people detaching from parents. It is indeed nice to see that family is still important to people. This is the grief that comes with the love.
I feel your grief, sorry 😔
Sorry for your loss, hope you were able to keep his dog as he is grieving as well 😢
The only comfort we have is they are still with us ....watching over us & keeping us safe.❤😊
I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I'm honestly fucking terrified of when my dad goes. He's in his mid 60s and has bone and prostate cancer. The slow decline in health is what's eating my at the core. It hurts so god damn much and yet I have to at least pretend to be strong for his sake. I'm afraid of the world without his goofy antics, his sage advice. And even when he gets mad. I'm not ready and never will be. But his day is coming soon. All I can do now is try and make him proud. I love him so much. Sorry for the trauma dump. But I hope for nothing but peace for you and your family.
I hear ya, mine are gone now, it's hard being strong when you feel so vulnerable and scared, all your dad will want to know, is that your okay to carry on without him ❤
I know that feeling. I will keep you in my prayers for the Lord to comfort your soul.
Sorry for your loss ❤ praying the lord gives you comfort. I can't even imagine what you're going through.
Love is essential for you 😢. God bless!
Sweet heart, I’m speaking from experience, we are sad here, he is having the time of his life , he will send you little things along the time for you to have love , I promise. ♥️♥️♥️🐱🐱😇😇😇😇😇😇
It is so weird to see their things their shoes, their items that they collected in this life.
Recently lost most of my family- sending hugs
😭 Thinking of my Dad too, thank you for sharing. Everyone with a heart needs to know we should cherish, honor our parents with the time they have left. I grew up not seeing my Dad, when i turned 18 I connected & I would take my children 18 hours away once a year to visit him, once the children were grown & I was able, I visited more, I loved the time we had the last years and he finally agreed to move to where I was, passed away within that year. But, he got to be a big part of my sisters life, the grandchildren & great grandchildren. He had his faults, but, i chose to look past them, over time he changed. Grace Love Mercy are miraculous
I am sorry for your loss. May His peace and comfort cover you 🙏🏽 ❤
TY for honoring their last pet 💓💓💓
GOD Bless you and comfort you 😢 i lost my little sister and it huets still everyday. I cleaned her room saw what she last used of her stuff. I pray youre strong to get through this 🙏 sending you hugs
I completely understand.
Happened to me 1.5 urs ago.
You will make it!
1 Day at a time and lots of grace!
Praying for you❤
So true it is very painful to loose your parents or submits but the worse pain it’s to loose a child or your children there is no pain that can compare to that pain.
I agree I lost my 26 year only son few months before his graduation. Intolerable pain that never ever leaves you.
Devastating ❤❤❤❤ only time will help❤❤❤❤❤ Many Blessings ❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏
So sorry for your loss i lost both my parents and it's very hard your not alone❤❤
Bless your hear,t We Are never prepared to lose our parents at any age, sweetheart They know you love them. May God bless you and heal your heart. Take the pain away. I know he can. I'm so sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry sweetheart! He’s protecting you from above❤
Wonderful parents leave memories to cherish.The pain of losing them cannot be cured.Till we meet again, on those beautiful shores. 🙏❤️❤️❤️
I was my mother's caregiver for a few years. I understand your loss. I held her cam when she passed. Had to make the extremely hard decision that I didn't want to make. I miss her daily. He'll be 5 years this year. Hold on to the good times. Honor him anyway you feel necessary. I planted a tree and my mother's other one. I took time to pick out exactly what I wanted to honor her. I picked a Korean dwarf lilac tree. It's beautiful just like my mother. It may just be a tree everyone else to it shows her beauty
11 years for me, Mom is gone but Dad is still here thankfully...I am an "ol' Boomer"..and I have also seen my friends going through the same..Sometimes I get a treat and that is seeing my mother in a dream or two!Blessings!❤😇🙏👌👍
I'm sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏
This is so true, and memories of losing my mum still tear me apart. I am so very sad for you.⚘️⚘️⚘️
Lots of love ❤.
My dad died when I was two years of age and I lost my mom back in 2017 when I was 35. She was literally my best friend and we were very close. She was an amazing woman who at one point held down four jobs just make sure she had enough money for me growing up. I miss her everyday. Take care of yourself and just take each day one day at a time ❤
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Preparing for that dreadful day, can only be thankful every day we beat the odds. Sending warmest hug
My husband of 25 years died at home from pancreatic cancer. When they came to take him away, I refused to let them put him in the plastic body bag but rather wrapped him in his favorite quilt. Our dog carried around my husbands tennis shoe for a long time. And every night at the time my husband was due home from work, our dog would wait by the window. It has been 4 years since he died, and I still cry everyday. I will never find another companion like my husband.
So sorry.
I bet he was a beautiful being, and I'm glad he got to experience the love you clearly will always have for him. Sending you lots of love
Been through this
Very tough!!!
What I will say is TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME, ONE STEP AT A TIME.
It is exhausting physically and emotionally.
God will get you through .
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You’re so right. I’m 64 and lost Dad 14 years ago and Mom 8 years ago. I thought I’d never be able to go on without them, even with being married with 3 grown sons. But, God does help us move on. We now have 2 grandchildren and my biggest regret is they didn’t get to meet them or see me become a grandmother, as Mom was such a wonderful GMA to our boys. In time, you will be able to have happy memories and remember to thank God for giving you a wonderful dad. I thank Him everyday for the family I was born into and the husband and kids, DIL and grandchildren I have. 😇😇🙏🏼❤️
I know exactly how you feel... doing everything and feeling very alone in your grief.
Treasure them when they are here and honour their memory when they are gone. Eventually you will be a stronger person and the person they wanted you to become.
I pray God brings you peace!!!
God bless🕊💜🕊
I’m right there with you. They say it gets easier…it’s a lie. We learn to live without them but the memories get fonder.
Our parents are our Rock when we have bad days and good days. They listened to our stories of life steps. Our advisors when we are troubled with a situation. When we loose them to our father in heaven, we become lost. Grieve all you need to. It's been 17 years and im still lost without them both. I found Jesus Christ and he has ease my pain. Your stronger than you know. One day at a time, your great daughter for taking the dog and dealing with all the big and little things. God has your back❤️🙏🙏🙏.
It's so hard to lose a parent 😪, having their pet is a part of their memory, ❤ take little steps, never easy. God be with you 🙏 🙌
It is hard losing your parents at any age. I was sixteen when I lost my father and my mom well she passed in 2017. I actually lost my mom early then her actually passing from her mental illness.
Its that moment when the kids do something funny and you pick up the phone to call. Just as you remember you can't. Crying starts again. One day soon, we will see them once again. ❤
Yes! Nobody would be more excited than the grandparents. It took a while for me to stop thinking, “oh I gotta call Mama and tell her.”
My Dad and Uncle Dave both passed away while I was comatosed in ICU. Something I had to deal with slowly as I regained my strength. Visiting thier Grave Sights is the next step. Very soon, going Home 🏡 to see my family. I can't travel that far alone. My Mom and family have been so very understanding and positive as they wait for me to come home. 🏡 I will be seeing them very soon. My health is still frail and I am waiting to recover more physical and mentally. It hasn't been easy for any of us.
God has blessed me with a miraculous recovery. But slowly I am definitely building back up my streangth!
😢 My Dad was always my Hero.
Just now my Hero in Heaven.
My hubby has been so understanding and comforting. Keeping up with all my Docters appointments and errands. Holds my heart so gently and wipes my tears and fears away.
Still Thankful and Greatful my cancer has not returned 🙏 🙌
God hears my prayers.
There will always be signs and symbols that will remind you of what used to be, it's a forever embrace that whispers , I'm here, I'm always here. 🙏❤️❤️
This brought tears to my eyes. I’ve been right there and it’s absolutely almost unbearable at times. God bless you.
You and your family are in my prayers,!!!!
It is heartbreaking losing our parents. It changes everything. Im so sorry. Love on that sweet furbaby.