A Day in the Life of Interabled Lovers
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- Опубліковано 6 бер 2019
- Shane is diagnosed with spinal muscular atrophy. His girlfriend, Hannah, lives with him and is also his caregiver. This is a day in their life.
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Man, she really looks at him like he hung the moon and stars. This video is so heart-warming.
Ah. I read this wrong.
@@jeremydavidspeaks oh no
@@jeremydavidspeaks lmao
I bet to her, he really did.
0:45 look at her eyes when he kept saying coffee coffee she don't wanna be there at all 😂
I’ve been terminally ill for over 9 years and now I’m wheelchair bound for a while. I feel like such a burden to my wife. Now more than ever. Please be kind to one another as you never know what someone is going through.
Thanks for listening. 🙏🏻💙🌎
Such an awesome message you have written here Thank you so much! 🥰 Prayers that you will soon be back on your feet and healthy and strong as ever. 🙏
Many prayers for you Todd!
I'm so sorry 🙏 your comment made me tear up my friend. I hope you are doing well and I hope you have a FANTASTIC DAY 😊 Love hugs and happy thoughts from East Texas 🤗 ❤️ 🙏
Very sorry to hear this. I work in a nursing home and see alot , We never know what our future holds,
You are beauty king 👑
Once I heard this quote: "To love someone is to see a miracle that's invisible to others"
💯💯💯
Yes Amen
"If I have a bathroom emergency, I can call Hannah's parents." That's so sweet that they'll help their daughter's boyfriend with things like that. I can't imagine how hard it is to be in that situation, and not have anyone to help you.
I'm happy that he found Hannah.
You are insanely gorgeous😊
@@scarletbegonias9391 me?!
they must be family of saints not just because they would help him but the fact they allow him to be comfortable enough to call them and ask them that shows alot about the way hannah was raised
Where are his parents and or family I wonder. I didn't heat anything about them.
@@tiffanyespinal2494 I'll have to watch it again, it's been a couple weeks, but I don't recall that either.
Nothing has given me more hope for dating than this. I have been experiencing so much social anxiety for years and especially with dating. I would ask myself if I can't be comfortable going out on dates, then how will I ever be able to stand in front of everyone I know and get married. This story has given me more hope than ever. I am gonna do everything in my power to become a better person and get control of my anxiety. Thank you for you guys sharing this story together.
@Camelot House Thank you, I really appreciate what you said. I have been watching all of the videos relating to anxiety on this channel and other channels and it has made me view things in different ways. I am finally going to see a doctor for the first time in 3 years for a regular check-up and I am going to discuss my experiences with panic and anxiety so I can finally get these feelings under control. I consider myself to always be a work in progress. I think that the day I tell myself, "I am now perfect." is the day I will stop improving myself. I want to continue to get better at everything every day.
@Camelot House I agree. And thank you. I wish you the best also. I think that it is so important that we try to do our best every day but also listen to our body and rest when we need to. One thing that I have realized is that when you have been trying your best for so long, the worst days that you face will always be better than your best days if you were never trying. I have learned this through talking to many people along the way, and learning from many people's mistakes that I know as well as my own. I hope you have a great day God bless you
I also have social anxiety, but this video doesn't help me as much as it should. I have a deeply rooted inability to gain the confidence to talk to people I'm not already comfortable with.
Don't get married bc it's expected of you. Get married bc you live the other person...err at least for money.
I can relate. I have too much anxiety to date.
Love you guys I am a caregiver for my wife she’s bedridden paralyzed on her left side. We’ve been together for 41 years I would never change a thing.
Wow! You're a jewel. Much respect!
you're such a wonderful human being
Wow for 41 years!
That's true love
Thank you for doing that! My husband has taken care of me since I broke my neck in 2021. From full quadriplegia to being able to care for myself, he’s been there the whole time. That is an amount of love I wish everyone had.
We’ve been married since 1988 ❤
If people are genuinely curious about why she is with him... just watch the way she looks at him. Genuine love and admiration. They are a power couple for sure!
17:45 reminds me of when my children were little but at least they grew up. Shane even has the humor of an eight year old.
The proper and clinical term is- devoteeism
@@tac6044 Hannah does NOT fit that term, now his wife they have a full and happy life with Shane running their business and together they have 1.5 million followers on UA-cam, many on Facebook, Instagram, Blogging world and speeches to the key Companies in the World and have traveled the World together and are a very happy well adjusted married couple. People like you could never understand the depths of love they have for each other. So please, stop the slander for that is what this term is,, slander!
@@stoneprovost5549 fantastic reply
@@stoneprovost5549hi
After watching the whole video you'll understand why Hannah falls for Shane: he is funny, well mannered (did you notice how he says thank you for everything and being the first to say I love you?), smart and kind. No aggression, no bad vibes, no rudeness.
you tell that she really loves him by the way she looks at him
The look of love in her eyes. Lovely inspirational couple😍
Exactly what I thought! she looks at him with so much love. They're so lucky to have each other
@@adrianiitha06 I agree with that they real seem happy
There is NO REASON it CAN'T WORK whoever the disabled or abled bodied person is as long as they care enough for each other , I am the disabled one while the BOYFRIEND I had at the time was ABLE BODIED sadly we did'nt get as far as Shane and Hannah but just wanted to let people know that interabled relationships CAN WORK if you want them to 😘♿ even age differents and height difference
I was just saying that to my wife!
I am disabled. i know that burden syndrome. let's be real, it does take a special person to love someone who needs caregiving. I think those people deserve a lot of praise. Hannah you are an amazing woman and Shane you are a sweetheart! Beautiful couple! Love your UA-cam channel!!
Shane has a great Personality and has a big heart. Hannah has great loyalty and a very caring person that he could have. Wish there are more people like these two in the world to show that love is a powerful thing. No matter if you’re disabled, autistic, or anything. Every person in this world should be loved like this.
I think all of us needs a Hannah. She is so wholesome and he is hilarious. I wanna hug them both
But who is gonna be the Hannah of a Hannah? Can there be enough Hannahs?
@@Homunkulus The hannahverse lol.
They are married and trying for children now. I am sure they will raise loving children and grandchildren who will help care for them in their old age.
Shane is everything I want in a man. Cute, funny, witty, loving, straight forward, smart. I've watched you guys a few times. The love between you two is something to strive for
Omg same! While every loser in the mean comments is whining about Shane being a burden, I'm actually trying to think of why I've never met amazing men like Shane! I'm jealous of both of them for finding such true love 🥺
Lol shut up
@@sruthys4000 because many western young ladies just want 6 feet tall and pretty face...yeah and dance in TikTok, they are Brainwashed by dumb standards, just to end cheating on the man they were looking for.
Oh yes! Lol you gotta be kidding.
Thanks bro
First time I’ve ever seen your videos. I am in a wheelchair as well. I am a T 12 paraplegic incomplete. I was 49 when I had an accident. My husband and I were setting up a bookstore when a book shelf fell over on my back. It has been four years since the accident. My husband and I have had to go through a number of similar experiences it’s such a growing process. You make me laugh And I am very proud of both of you. Good job guys
Lot of love Staci❤
Life can be so challenging but with each challenge we can find growth
I am happy that you both face life's challenges as one and continue to grow together ❤. Love at its finest 🙂
Stay strong Staci, you're brave :).
I see these messages from people like you and the above gentleman, and I feel so not worthy. You are amazing people to have the attitudes that you do, and i can only look up to you all. I would like to ask you a question. What could a person like me..no extra money..no real skill or trade do to help or pitch into people in the paraplegic community?
She's a 10, good job Shane, my man!
Dude imagine.. Imagine being in that situation and an angel just comes into your life like that. You know everyone says "Im so lucky", but man. The universe is kind sometimes.
@@Spicyeggs3 He deserves it because he's an angel too ❤
@@Spicyeggs3
Yeah, but why thank the universe? 😅
We should be thanking the one that made the universe! 🙏❤️
@@theparadigm8149 I agree 🙏
lol faxxx
Take note people, this is what real love for someone looks like, this isn’t just the kind of love we should give to our loved ones but the love we give to everyone around us, imagine the world we’d live in.
Hard pass on helping strangers take a crap.
@@theecharmingbilly😂
@@theecharmingbilly Well, your mom and dad are two strangers, let's be real.
@unlikeable.1554 I'm pretty sure they aren't, but if it makes you feel better to pretend otherwise, have at it.
@@theecharmingbilly Not pretend, but your mom and dad were practically just strangers who just got a ring and certificate they are in a relationship.
And it wouldn't make me feel better to just say that.
I believe that negative comments come from jealousy. I wish I had a relationship like this, I became disabled from an anoxic brain injury in 2017 and this video gives me hope and optimism that I can be loved in my condition. Thank you both for sharing your story!
You can be loved, just don't expect someone who is beautiful
And that's what these two morally corrupt individuals cash in on: your hope. They're morally corrupt scammers.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder but more importantly a person's soul is what should be considered beautiful by there mate because physical beauty is fleeting but the soul lasts forever.
@@dalewinter8227 Very nice cookie cutter. You lack any originality.
@@mincedmash796 - You would know.
Hannah is GORGEOUS and Shane is so handsome. They're both so smart, funny, charismatic and clever*. I'm so happy they found eachother. I LOVE THEM. 🥰
Perfect.woman she loving👍🤔
They’re so cute!! Great video!
Hannahs a clout chaser .. other then that shane is awesome and has a good sense of humor
@Dawg yeah it is like that
@@evildisco2993 That's not the business... Hannah's legit love... Care for your grandmother one day like she does for Shane and you will know there are far easier ways to be a clout chaser ... basically any other way is easier. Do it one day and then do the right thing and apologize to her.
This woman is literally a walking angel for all this love she has towards this man and how dedicated she is to care for him everyday. Not everyone can do what she does, this is what real love is. She loves him unconditionally, like how a parent would
this sentiment is sweet but i wouldn't liken it to a parental relationship.. feels a little infantilizing of the romantic/partnership dynamic here.
not to be controversial but humans should just be supportive of and take care of other humans that they care about, whether that's romantic, platonic, familial, etc.
@@detox9865 No i meant that it's hard finding a partner that loves you unconditionally. Everybody's very self centered nowdays. The only people who usually love you unconditionally are your parents but there are also rare cases like these, which is why i made that comparison in the first place. In no way was i trying to imply that this is a parental relationship, sorry if it came off that way
They're so perfect for each other ❤️ Shane had me cracking up so many times; I'm sure life never gets boring!
It's like having a child. No, exactly like having a child. Also she's in love with SBSK person
@@joycedominguez8997crazy assumption there bud
@@kenzodiaze.... I know right
@@joycedominguez8997seeing the incels in these comments absolutely fuming bc they're too unlikable to meet women is pretty funny
i love how positive he is and how he can laugh at himself. We need more people like Shane in this world! I wish both of them the best!
Oh for sure
He has such a great personality!
He is really funny.
I laughed SO hard at: “She holds me up while I poop. […] It’s her favorite part of every day.”
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@@kirillnovikov9077 What is wrong with you? You've made multiple negative replies on this video and for what reason? Calm down
@@elzakagirova6202 ты серьёзно?
Had me laughing when he said, “ coffee, coffee, coffee they are both warriors, so proud of them. This just shows that people with exceptionality’s like Shane do not let their disability defined them. I personally have cerebral palsy.
Warriors ?
Yeah warriors? Please. Public schools need to go back to teaching English and the meaning of words
i also have CP... how ya doin'?
I agree
I'm not disabled and actually quite envious of Shane (well, quite a lot actually). Hannah is absolutely incredible. Kudos to you two and thank you for this lovely video.
The light in her eyes when she’s with him is undeniable. This is beautiful. This also shows me (might sound corny but oh well ) it’s true if you truly love somebody & they love you , love can overcome many obstacles. Thank you for sharing . God bless 💛.
HUN SWEETIE WAKE UP THEY ARE BULLSHITTERS SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM
@@dianajames4717 oh the light in her eyeballs...omg these people will believe most anything. I mean right down to making sure he has his crackers before she leaves is like having a child. But children grow. Sorry
I'm actually embarrassed for them. This girl will never know what it's like........fill in the blank
Oh please this not called true love it's called making .money.
@@joycedominguez8997 i so agree with you. this is all for money
Hannah is the most amazing person I've ever met! This totally melts my heart! I am so glad that there are good people like her in this world! Thank you for giving me hope! You guys are amazing!!❤️❤️❤️❤️
She is paid to sit next to him and smile, just like his previous girlfriends he used to sell same fairytale
@@fiftyandfnifty1752 wow..there is his disability and yours.. embittered,sad human being..for whatever reasons..I pity you more than him
@@fiftyandfnifty1752 even if that was true, which it isn't, how does it affect you and your life? It doesn't. Mind your own business and you'd probably be a lot less bitter and mean spirited 💕
@@fiftyandfnifty1752 I can see you have commented alot of crap about them . Looks like someone is miserable.....these people got a better relationship than anything you have had clearly . Find a different hobby instead of interrogating these people and how they live .
Real love means caring for each other and loving in both a fun/ playful and deeply commited way. Hannah and Shane understand real love.
she couldn’t take her eyes off of him :,) its so sweet to see two ppl who are so well suited for each other! ❤
"I rub my nose all over her body, it works for her" 🤣 he is hilarious. I'm glad they addressed their intimate life because that was my #1 question.
Hint hint he is really good at something and it works for her 😉
😂
There's more to life
@@april4848 So what. It's an important aspect of life to most people, for some it is vital to feeling fulfilled. Which is why it was on their minds.
It’s not the size of the nose that counts, it’s the motion in the ocean. 😂😂😂
This is bittersweet to me, I admire their optimism and words of encouragemwnt but it’s still rare for a disabled person to find a partner unless they became disabled while in a relationship. I’m a woman in a wheelchair, turning 29 this month and I’ve never had a relationship, neither has my twin brother who’s in the same situation. My disability (Osteogenesis Imperfecta) is much less severe than Shanes and I’m pretty much fully independent, but people still can’t really get past the fact that I’m not completely able-bodied. I am fully aware that it’s a societal problem, I know my worth and know I deserve love but I also think it has helped me tremendously to mentally and emotionally prepare myself for the very likely possibility that I will always be alone. I spent most of my teens and early 20s beating myself down over the fact that I’d never had a partner, and I always felt useless and unattractive. I have tried dating countless times in different ways in the past, I’ve put myself out there but it has backfired every time and left me feeling even worse about myself.
So again, while I do appreciate the words of encouragement and an example of a successful interabled relationship, sometimes it’s helpful and healthy to come to terms with the fact that you’re kinda just an incel for life and that’s okay too 😅
As long as you understand that it’s a problem with society (or ableism) and not you, I think it’s healthy to not get your hopes up too high because it’s truly soul crushing when those expectations are never met. I’m definitely open for a relationship if someone was interested, but because of my previous experiences I have decided to not actively pursue it myself.
Thanks for letting us know. I also think Shane has had extraordinary luck to have found not only one but even two/ several women who were open for a relationship with such a handicapped man!
Love will find it's way to you. All the best.
I was with/saw a girl back when I was at college who had a congenital heart defect which meant she was unable to stand for prolonged periods of times or truly use her legs, like even 10 seconds + was very dangerous as she couldn't regulate her blood pressure correctly. She was wheelchair bound, and I never saw that as an obstacle and thought she was incredibly beautiful, she was really pretty and had nice legs, and she was quite nice. After some time I realised she didn't quite have the personality or the maturity that I wanted and went our separate ways respectfully much like any abled person would, it was independent from her circumstances. Over the next 15 months she had several partners and even one for quite some months, right up till she left. From my understanding she is now engaged some years later and has had her first child. For her it seemed she focussed too much early on in college on her disability and was also convinced it had her unable to find a partner, someone who valued her inside and out like anyone else but that just isn't the case. I feel like disability will of course lets be 100% transparent reduce your potential candidacy for many people, but just like anyone else the most important factors are learning to be a good partner and someone desirable and having attraction and working on yourself to be the best you that you can be, irrelevent to whatever ability you have physically or mentally. Perhaps you focus on your disability more so than anyone else ever does, and that's holding you back from really growing as a person and allowing yourself to be in a position where a relatonship is not just possible but will flourish and really create something beautiful. Never take that chance away from yourself, be it through anxiety, doubts or insecurity. I'm not suggesting that you set the bar too high, or set yourself up for failure, just focus on what could help with your success and doing everything you can to be your best self and hold on to the hope that you can be a better person and be happier, and in turn increase your chances of finding love. I appreciate it's hard, as an abled person (I did have severe learning difficulties, ADHD and Asperges growing up, I have fibromyalgia now too after chemotherapy treatment for a cancer 2 years ago, but I would still consider myself abled as my differences don't prevent me from any kind of ability IMO) it's still incredibly difficult to find a partner and love it took me 21 relationships to meet the love of my life, so I think your plight and struggle is incredibly commendable, and you're right in not ACTIVELY persuing love as that sets anyone up for failure. Just perhaps keep persuing qualities and improvements to your OWN life, so you're happier and perhaps more desireable to someone else, all while remaining as authentic to who you really are and leveling up your already wonderful personality. I think you're incredible whoever you may be, and you deserve a special someone and all the opportunties of someone else. Never give up hope, stay beautiful. Much love, from the UK
Ánimo !
I really enjoyed your comment. Just to give you a different perspective. I’m a woman (52 yrs old). Never lived with a man, although I do have a son. He’s 24 now. Been in a few relationships over the years and all have left me completely devastated. If I could go back I would not date anyone. I’ve been alone for 15 years now and I love it. Never been happier. I don’t have any disabilities and I think I understand that people would naturally want to feel what it feels like to be in love. I remember when I was pregnant and I told my grandma the only thing I’ve ever wanted was my own family ( kids and the father too... not husband.. I didn’t need or want to get married) and she said “don’t get your hopes up” and it crushed me but she was right. Good luck to you. I hope you and your brother get everything you want and need out of life. Take good care ❤️
Both decent human beings. A truly inspirational couple.
People always judge what they don't understand. .. you guys are awesome. I too have a disability and my husband is a huge help. Love
Needs no explanation
Shane, you are a warrior. I have so much respect for you on how you deal with your disability. I had an incomplete spinal cord injury 35 years ago and I have it so easy compared to you. You are blessed to have Hannah in your life and Hannah you are so kind and patient. Much love to both of you and thanks for sharing your story, very inspirational.
Two souls living their agreement full of love.
Stop it, that sticker on the fridge at 7:55 is TOO CUTE and I love it! Definitely subscribing to them, and might even buy a couple 🥰
I like your picture and I think it’s a hot style
@@oneloveboob haha thanks. I don't have red hair anymore but 🥰
@@ivorellarackley4401 either way lol’ one love and be safe
I found their channels a few months ago, and I always find their videos so enlightening, as I´m disabled myself. They´ve show me, that it really is possible for disabled people to find true love. Shane explained the "burden complex" spot on, I really do thing that every disabled person, does in same way, shape or form have a "burden complex".
oh god, it's such a relief to know that people like Hannah exist in this wicked world.. can God just bless me with a love so deep like the one these two lovers have..
I think the same... 😍🙏
Being in a relationship, if you love someone you should never feel like a burden. This is definitely unconditional love. Bless you both. Makes my heart smile
The coolest thing about them I've noticed only 20 seconds in is how much they communicate.
@Right_onRed it's so healthy. Ig I'm jealous
@@CosmicGardenerme too!!
Me having high functioning autism gives me confidence seeing videos like this ♥️
Why may I ask?
@@puertoricanprincess2272 why ASD? Or why confidence boost from couple living a happy life alongside disability?
@@barbs86 wth are you talking about??
@@puertoricanprincess2272Theyre asking what you meant by “why may i ask?”
The way she looks at him speaks louder than words, every word he speaks her heart is aligned with his words. I think this is so beautiful and shows an example of what a real relationship is about. It’s ultimately about being selfless and ready to serve. To truly enjoy a person for who they are is truly a blessing. God bless you two.
Delusional. She only there for the money
4:00 when he said “it’s her favorite part of every day” 🤣🤣 I can’t get enough of Shane’s humor
I’ve worked in wheelchair repair and also caregiving for the special abilities population and these two are an awesome team!!
Business relationship
@@kirillnovikov9077 and??!
What a find! Shane is quite funny, and yes, adorable. And Hannah is so natural, at ease, and loving. They have such a sweet relationship. Thank you both for sharing!
I've done caregiving for elderly people a couple of years ago and some elderly make you walk 3 steps back and 1 foot forward for certain tasks that it was frustrating and made me not like caregiving. But this couple definitely showed me that if I ever fall in love, i best be damned I'll love that person even if they fall ill. with all my heart.
I used to read Shane's blog all the time, and I only recently discovered his youtube channel with Hannah. He is always so funny, and I've never heard him talk about some of the things he discussed here. I was moved hearing how both of them discussed the concept of caregiving as a "burden" and learning how this myth has hurt him. For my master's thesis, I'm studying caregiver outcomes, and there is a huge gap in the literature regarding the positive effects/aspects of caregiving-- that's the one my thesis will fill, I hope! While most studies look at health issues and negative emotions caregivers experience (literally referred to as "the burden of caregiving"), this research is looking at things like increased self efficacy, positive attitudes toward life, feelings of self-worth and happiness, and a strengthened relationship with the care recipient. I hope this kind of research will help society understand it's not inherently burdensome for caregivers to be in a caregiving position. Their well-being can increase, especially if they have a strong relationship with the PWD. I loved hearing Hannah's perspective on this. Thank you for this video, and I'm sure it has helped destigmatize Shane and Hannah's relationship as well as his disability.
I would loved to know more about your research. As a partially disabled person, this myth has become a big part of my fears in dating!
This is really fascinating. I love your idea on this. My mom was a Phd Exercise Physiologist and is now full time in the wheelchair (from MS) with one arm that works.
Your thesis is relatable as I have been caring for my mother full-time for the last 3 years, which is ironically about the same amount of time I have abstinent from drugs. I’ve been on a massive journey of self-discovery and my mother’s affliction is offering me a unique experience to step up, be an adult and change my attitude, assisting me in becoming the person I want to be. I can’t begin to tell you the things I have benefitted from these past few years helping and being around my Mother.
In EVERY ASPECT of my life I’ve grown but off the top of my head:eating healthier, to not cussing or yelling when I am angry, having a daily routine, being kind and consistent and maintaining a positive attitude are just the tip of the iceberg.
Really cool idea I hope your research and writing goes well!
I live with an invisible disability (fibromyalgia). I'm married & my husband sometimes takes on a lot more of the housework & errands than I do. Just because someone is disabled, it doesn't mean they can't contribute to a relationship, family, or their community. When you find someone who loves you in spite of the harder times, you're the richest person in the world! I love Shane & Hannah for adding awareness to this. They're showing the world that everyone deserves, & is capable of, love... even if their disability is visible. You're both beautiful people, inside & out! 💙
Thank you for being so courageous and posting this video!
I think most of us who have any sort of need from someone I have a “burden complex”. Whether it’s an emotional need, or a physical need. It’s hard to ask for what we need from others. But having a compassionate partner can help us heal and ways we never thought we could
You guys are so awesome together… And thank you for sharing that awesomeness with the world.
I've enjoyed watching this video. I have been following Shane and Hannah for almost 2 yrs and I love their energy
Lol hes hilarious "get outta here you sickos" Awesome couple!
When he is setting up to poop he says "the darkness" lol
And when they're talking about intimacy and he makes the comment about rubbing his nose all over her 😂🥰
Super funny and sweet guy. I love his personality
He is mostly annoying
@@kirillnovikov9077
"coffee. coffee!!"
You can see in her eyes that she loves him so much. And he is a smart guy. It’s just perfect.
I can listen to Hannah and Shane all day long I just love them together they are so cute and funny
You two are so beautifully authentic. Heartfelt and refreshing. You make the world better.
It actually made me cry tears of joy seeing how truly happy this couple is. They really are a power couple and you can tell that their connection is very strong and deep
The way she looks at him says it all. He’s handsome! Best of luck to them
I have watched this so many times and my heart melts every time she looks at and listens to him speak. She is a wonderful woman*, perfect for such a wonderful man 🥰
Handsome? Lmao
People have really low standards about what is attractive these days. Of course everyone gets all offended, even if it's true just because it *might* hurt someone's feelings. 🤦🏼♂️
@@Secter84 they could just be talking about handsomenesses in a different way, you do realize that right?
can i get to know you?
@@HassanHassan-zb9xf she's not into dudes who have intercourse with goats "HaSsAn"!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I've been following these two for years and years and adore them. You can tell Hannah's heart is made for something like this. When Shane says "we like experimenting with different breakfast foods and making breakfast together" and Hannah goes "we love to make scrambled eggs" - she never corrects him or says that SHE is the one doing these things. She doesn't question that it is a joint task. Regardless of whether it would bother me to do all the work, I feel like my slip of the tongue would be to say "I make breakfast for us" - not in a passive aggressive way, it would just be the way I would see and describe it. She's such a generous and kind person.
I love this dude. Definitely has a good sense of humor and swings with all the punches of life that it gives him. I commend you and your girlfriend's strong bond.
The way she looks at him is just pure love for him. This is probably the cutest couple I’ve seen in years.
Clearly you need love
She looks insane
I am caregiver, I work in the nursing home,I don't mind being married to disable person at least they nicer, appreciate you,and honest.
You would think they would be really bitter and angry buy its usually opposite of that, we have a lot to learn as a society but this gives me hope.
I took care of a few disabled people they took me for granted and and took the shirt I gave them off my back and strangled me with it smh
Omg their sense of humour 😁😁😁😁 the best! Much love ❤
So heartwarming to see my two fav channels together! 🥰🥰🥰 You guys rock!
This dude has the best humor I swear! Love it
thanks for sharing this. over time ive come to realize that really no one is self-sufficient entirely. people need each other, as much as many of us don't want to admit it... it's just people have differing needs, it doesn't make anyone better or worse than anyone else.
You are both such beautiful examples of how human beings are supposed to treat one another. Its easy to see how genuine and truly loving you both are. The world is a beautiful place because of people like you.
Definitely one of the best videos of this channel, this is heartwarming af
I'm so glad that the comments are back. Thank you guys for such an inspiring dialogue!
I'm new to this channel, what happened with the comments?
You are both very great people and very great souls, a beautiful example for all humanity. God bless.
@@laibakhan8437 they were off for years now their back.
I am chronically ill and need some assistance occasionally. Thank you so much for both of you speaking out about this. I often feel really down about needed help, but I know when I was more able bodied in the past I was pretty happy to give assistance to people I knew when they needed. I think I'm too hard on my self. Best wishes.
This couple exemplifies the best in humanity. God bless you both!
She is literally an angel !!
Looking back at this . Knowing they’re now married and thriving makes me so happy for them!
I've checked nation wide they have no marriage license or certificate.
They fooled you .
@@surprise3479 a little bit cringey but if it makes you happy good job on the hunt.
@@surprise3479 - There are states that do not make marriage documents public for some time, like New York State, for example. 50 years there plus both spouses have to have died.
Do you have a link to their pages. I am technically challenged! Lol!
can i get to know you?
She's the dream girl for every right person.Just a perfect one.❤️
Hanna and Shane are relationship goals. Some of us have more needs than others. We should ALL remember we deserve love and that our needs aren't a burden to those who love us.
It's something every able and disable person needs to remind themself.
Thanks for the lesson ya'll! I look forward to finding your channel if ya'll have one and watching more about your life togther. I seriously need to learn some things about a healthy relationship from you 2!!!!
Thank you Chris and and team for providig this vid to us 💛 I just really love diving into how different people see this world and your channel opens so much more possibilities to this. I find understanding and compassion in my heart after every video. I love it! 😊😊👍🏻
I just met a guy and he was like "I'm too big, that's why I never will get a girl" and I'm like "Dude, my ex was bigger than you and I loved him so much, because he was funny and heart-warming and didn't thought so bad about himself like you do right now".
I think it is working out perfectly between them, because Shane is in a good place with himself and likes to jokes around, making her life shine and not dark. ❤️
If you think he's decent looking, give him a shot. I'd bet money he has a secret thing for you if he says stuff like that. That's a guys icebreaker for finding out love interests
pessimistic peoples consume you and nobody want to be around one, even if he or her is good looking.
@@seanmusser6002 what do u mean .. ??
The mean spirited comments are SO out of bounds. Why do people think that it’s an absolute that someone like Shane is undeserving or incapable of relationships? Nurses who work in hospice typically don’t view their patients as a burden, they chose to take care of people in need of help. Shane isn’t a burden on Hannah and it’s shitty that so many people think you have to be a martyr to love or take care of a disabled person. Many spouse-caregivers don’t do it because they feel like they HAVE to but rather do it as a normal way of life with their spouse. Disabled people aren’t burdens.
I'm looking for those comments but I cant find them
@@nanmonstaway3599 I think she's referring to the comments people leave on the couple's UA-cam channel. Shane and Hannah read some of negative ones in this video.
It's sad. It shows their bigoted attitudes towards disability obviously. But it also says to me that they themselves don't believe it's possible to be unconditionally loved for who they are-- that they feel love is something you have to rent from someone and pay for with the social capital you're bringing to the relationship. That's a sad, insecure position to be in because anyone can lose things like good looks, money, or ability in an instant.
@@kirillnovikov9077wow thats havy... and sad.
@@losopalos9943 yeah I don’t buy anything these two say
You both take care of each other in different ways, and the unconditional love between you is absolutely beautiful ♡ Thank you for being so open and real with the world. Your relationship is an inspiration to others and your dedication and willingness to helping others understand your way of life is not only heartwarming, but also super admirable, and you do it all with class ♡
I first saw this couple in an interview on Molly Burke's channel and its so heartwarming. So glad there are people in this world who aren't so shallow and they can look past things so many people can't. I'm so glad they have each other. Beautiful video, thanks for posting!
This video truly humbles me. We need more of this in the world.
More proof that we are not our bodies, but pure consciousness...ones we recognize each other's inner most person, how can we not fall in love. 🥰 Thankyou for sharing your story.
I absolutely relate to your loving care of Shane. He’s such a hoot! So funny and creative. I was my son’s 24/7 Caregiver for 13 1/2 years. When you truly love someone , care is just natural.
I so love y’all ❤
Thank you for sharing this very sweet glimpse into your lives. It was heartwarming to watch how well you two interact with one another. And how much you enjoy being in each other's company. Before tonight I had never heard of the term "interabled." I truly appreciate your love story. I can't wait to see more of your videos.
My mom has MS and boy howdy I felt that narrow-doorway navigation in my *soul*. He said “I have been doing that for a year, still have not nailed that turn”, some turns just be like that 😂 they’ve got great attitudes.
Have to comment even though I’ve been watching this channel for a while now but Shane and Hannah brought me to SBSK and I’m forever grateful for the community they introduced me to and that these interviews keep providing. Yay for comments!!!
This was so eye opening. Thank you for sharing your lives.
Love doesn’t care about disability’s! God bless you two always ❤️
I have been following this couple for a few years and I really appreciate how special and unique their relationship really is! It's easy to see how much love and appreciation they have for each other! ♥️
So impressed with your unconditional love for one another!! Thank you for being so authentic you your video!!! It is inspiring to me, a counselor and woman of 61. You have definitely found your purpose in doing this and sharing yourselves for us!
Have the most beautiful life. They really do compliment eachother so well, that's love
I have watched dozens of your videos and then came across this old one. I really love it, could be my fav. Keep on being you!!
He lucky he found a perfect woman she loving and caring.
She’s like his mom
They seem like they really love each other
It's beautiful to see
Lol hmmm idk...
I think Hannah is the lucky one...with Shane's charm and rugged good looks he is a show stealer....
@@alexk3469 I don't think so man...check out their channel. A genuine love there between two people.
These two wonderful people are an amazing example of true love and commitment. It's refreshing to see that there are still kind hearted people in the world. I understand him when he talks about his fears. Your lucky bro I'm sure you hear it all the time. Never forget to always treat her with kindness and respect. I think she is irreplaceable for sure. I'd love to see them go on a trip to Disneyland together. That would be fun to watch as a viewer. I wish you both a happy and fulfilling life together. Never give up!
DAVID YOU SEEM INTELLIGENT THEY ARE NOT LOVERS THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS OUT TO MAKE MONEY
Been watching Hannah and Shane for a long time. Stumbled on this video. Wow, now I know more. So cool to bring us into your lives to show us a lot. Thank you both for being so vunerable. ❤
It’s so sweet to see the love they share. I’m sure that if Hannah was in his condition, Shane would take extra care of her as well. It takes a very special person who can show such compassion to others.
This is real love. Just ignore those who are negative.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful life together.
You are a blessing to so many others. Thank you. ♥️🌹♥️🌹♥️
When you care alot for someone (spouse, parent, child, etc) and they're disabled or become disabled, trust me you get great satisfaction in taking care of them.
When she said she doesn't get tired of him I thought, wow that's true... His disability makes him a better person bc he's more patient and positive than most people. We should all be as positive as these people!
Bro I felt very happy watching this video, the way they love each other is just magical. They look like they having a fun time every second, and im here for it.
So lovely to hear you guys speak about each other. Clearly its a great relationship. I am about to become a Disability Support Worker and so this is great information for me to help others. Thank You so much for sharing.
They truly do love each other. Oh my gosh it's so precious and beautiful. He is so wonderful to her. I wish all men and women were so sweet and kind to their mates.
My name is Hassan from Morocco
Can I know you with all my heart?
I love that he can laugh at himself, that’s always a great quality.
How lovely to have someone who “gets you”! The quiet sweet times glue everything else together. Both of you have your separate interests that bring freshness to your conversations. You are so blessed! Thanks for your life lessons! ❤️Ya’ll rock! 🤟