Tus tub aw, Ca Koj lub neej yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os, Koj mas Txawj xav, thiab Txawj tham kawg li. Thov kom Koj ho tau ntsib ib tug hlub2 Koj os mog, txhob tag kev cia siab rau poj niam nawb , tseem tshuav tus puav zoo2 thiab os.
You deserve it too. You forced her to marry you. How do you feel if you were forced to marry a person you don't love. Good thing she didn't call the cop for.
Koj nim txawj tu siab thiab koj tus nism tseem tu siab tshaj koj 1000 npaug nas koj tu koj tus QAU xwb koj txiv tseem yuav nrog koj deev nws thsum tsis tau puv 3 tag kis ne muab koj tus QAU tso rau log cam es xyuas roob rauj xwb mas
How could her dad hit her when she came back 😥. I could never do that to my daughters. Older generations are just too cruel only thinking of their face and nothing else. 🤦♂️
I don't pity this guy and his family. If it was the other way around and the guy is force to marry her or someone who doesn't like, I'm sure he would run away with his lover and never return home. It's him/his parents fault for forcing someone who dont love you to be with you. I think what she did was justified, she's only looking for her own happiness. I'm surprised him/his parents/her parents aren't locked up in jail for forcing someone to give up her life.
Neej uas txaum rau tus poj niam no lawm mas neej yuav tsum hlub thiab pab nw mus kom tag nw lub neej tiam no. Pab lis kos xwb tsis tau tag neej txoj kev lim hiam.
Its very common for hmong men to force marriages back in the old days and even some today too. Those who said he deserved it, it wasn't completely his fault. His dad also forced him to be the "man" every old hmong men think they're supposed to be/act. eventhough he said no because he knew she didnt love him. And he even tried to help her escape. Its all them OGS fault. I hope all who take on this old tradition and think its okay, dies out. And i hope this force marriage no longer continue in our hmong culture. Its a really sad and miserable life to see and hear. I feel bad for both.
I find it hard to believe that this is still happening in the state especially in today's time. But I can be wrong too. There's still a few very outdated hmong families out there. But this kind of sex trafficking and kidnapping still definitely occurs in the third world countries.
You, your parents and girl's parents are messed up people. All of you had skewed up this innocent girl's life. She should had put all of you in jail when she broke her foot.
Yog los mas tu tij laug aws, txoj niag kev ua yus hlub luag es luag ho hlub lwm tu no mas zoo yam txoj hluas es ib tug tsis muab txiv kom tu nrho ces ua lub niag neeg yeej khuam siab khuav li o.
Cas txiv neej hmoob es muaj plhua ua luaj li. Tim cov laus 99% los tim tus txiv 1%. Ua rau tus pojniam plam tus nws hlub los tseem muaj plhu hais tias pojniam phem pojniam nkhaus. Thaum kawg tus hluas nkauj hluas nraug rov sib tham tsi sib tau los hais cuag li npam tus pojniam. Twb yog tim koj (tus txiv) ntag... txiav nkawv kev hlub. Koj yog txiv neej yog koj hais 1 los tias koj tsi nyiam nws lawv yeej kawg tso neb nyias mus nyias. Tabsis koj nyiam nws ces koj ua li koj niam koj txiv hais. Sim muab thaub no yuam yuav, yuam nrog cov pog laus2 dab2 tuag pw saib thaub ua zoo los ua phem rau pog laus.
This is a life lesson for all to learn from. Parents should never force their children to marry someone they do not love. You should never force someone to marry you. And if the person you marry loves you, will do anything for you, then stay. Love can and will flourish if only YOU allow it. Good lesson for everyone to learn from.
If you force someone to marry you, don’t expect them to love you. You can have their body but not their heart. The person will always recent you because you stole her life and her freedom to choose.
This uncle please move on..u need some encouragement that u are good enough to move on..she aint the only one..now theres poj laib everywhere go explore..u can be handsome if u love yourself..please love yourself.
Tsis sib nyiam mag sib yuam sib yuav xwb ces ua li nej cov txiv neej hais os nws lub siab twb tsis tuag ces yeej kawg neej puas xwb kuv yeej tsis blame koj tus poj niam thiab.
Leej niam txiv no mas duam tshaj plaws nrho rau tus txiv tsev no niam thiaj txiv. Tsim nyog tus poj niam no tsi hlub kj. Tus txiv tsev no has ruined her entire young adult life.
Thaub koj ces tab tom haum xwb luag tsi nyiam koj es koj quab yuam luag yuav ces koj thiaj tau txoj kev mob hlwb cia ua 1 qho kev kawm rau peb cov hmong ruaj222 kawm nawb
That was 1 out of 100 hmoob parents. 99 of them would rather take the silver bars and silver coins, then beat the crap out of the girls to go or them girls will cause shame on their ancestors.
Cas koj txiv neb yuav ua Tau tej niag uas RUAm 2 li yav thaum ub uas tseem nyob lub neej Tim los tsuas,. Tsam no nej tseem tsis Tau hloov, neb lub neej thiaj tsis muaj Kev kaj siab
Yus dab dab tuag yuav tsum mus nrhiav kom tau tus dab tuag li yus koj txiv neb ob txiv tub lub hlwb npwb npwb lub hlwb qub qub yog xab maim no ces neb raug dub plev kua quav tshau lug lawm xwb.
Koj tshua nws qlib os uncle... Tiam no koj yug los phem nraug Los twg yog tiam tas no koj zoo zoo nraug thiab dag nws muaj me nyuam es koj tsis yuav. Nws thiab mus noj tshuav tuag lawm. Tiam no nws thiab li nco ntsoov Los ntsim koj lub siab lub ntsw. Txog Kev npam tiam daul Los thiab li uas rau koj pheej nraug thiab qlee taub. Tsis zoo nraug li luag os.
yog koj tus poj niam tuag no ces koj txiv coj los pam nawb nws tsis txhaum os koj ntxiv neb yog tus txhaum cas yus rov qab muab yus txoj kev npam los piav lau kuv ntxub cov neeg yuam neeg
Ua cas koj ho pom tus niam tsev no siab phem? Nws ua ib zaug neeg xwb. Nws lub neej raug quab yuam. Txog thaum kawg tsawm yog tus phem thiab. Qhov nws ua twb pauj tsis tau qhov nws raug quab yuam me me li.
Yus tsis zoo nraug cas tsis mus yuav kom tus phim yus, txhob tus siab tim yus tus kheej xwb. Yeej tseem muaj cov phem nkauj yuav phim koj txhob tas kev cias siab.
Neej yuam kev ces zoo li no, txhob tusiab cia nyias nti nyias kaub puab kom txog hnub tuag. Txob mob vim koj twb tsoob nws tau 21 xyoo lawm...zoo siab tias koj yuav tsis tau tha nws lawm no ma...
Yog muab hais tiag mas tsis yog tim tus txiv tsev no. Yog muab hais los tiag yog tim 2 tog niam txiv ntawm nws thiab nws tus poj niam xwb. Tus poj niam no muaj hmoo uas nws tus txiv tseem hlub nws txawm nkawv twb tsis tau ua nkauj nraug hlo li. Muab piv rau tej tug lawv twb nyiam2 lawv thiaj yuav los thaum kawg lawv twb tseem tsis xav hlub tseem mus tham hluas nkauj poj nrauj thiab yuav niam yau kiag. Tus poj niam no yeej tsis sawm zoo. Ntshe nws xav hais tias nws mus tau tus nws hlub2 thiab nyiam2 ces nws lub neej yuav zoo2 no pob. Yog yuav zoo npaum li nws xav ces luag tej sib2 nyiam sib hlub luag yeej tsis raug tso tseg ua poj nrauj li os
Peb cov txiv neej tseem muaj tus ruam npaum li no thiab koj tsis zoo nraug lo yeej muaj tug hlub koj na nws twb ua phem npaum no lo tseem thawj nws li tug dev xwb
Koj hais yog kawg lawm os Nyajteeb Vaj. Ruam npaum tus txiv neej no ces thiaj li ua npua tiv aws los mus txog niaj hnub no los mas. Kuv mas yog kuv txawm yuav tsis zoo nraug los yeej muaj ib tug tsis zoo nkauj yuav phim kuv thiab nav. Yog kuv ces muab nws ncaws tawv puag ntxov lawm os.
Tsis tsimnyog nej muab nws yuam yuav koj. Cas tsis mus nrhiav tus phim yus thiab nyiam yus thiaj sib hlub. Koj txawm tau lub cev los tsis tau lub siab yeej tsis muaj nuj nqis
Tus mi nus aw txhob tu siab thiab txhob yah kev cia siab ma. Tus neeg muaj lub siab zoo2 li koj tsis tau ntsib tus neeg siab zoo li koj xwb os. Koj paub nav? Sim mi neej no kuv tus kheej xav hav tias yog muaj ib tug txiv neej es nws txawm phem nraug, qig taub, do hau los yog nws siab zoo2 hlub kuv , hwm kuv es noj los 2 leeg noj sib xws , hos Nyiaj txiag me thiab ntau los tso ua ib pob thiab tus mi txiv tseem tso pob Nyiaj rau tus mi Poj niam ua tus khaws ntshe kuv yuav xaiv tus ntawd lawm xwb mog es txhob tag kev cia siab tej zaum tus zoo los tsis tau txog xwb mog.
Hmoob hnov tsi taus 1 tus nkauj hmoob raug nyiag raug yuam mus yuav suav tabsis qhov 2 pab hmoob no ua tsi txawv qhov raug nyiag mus yuav suav. Hmoob li hmoob tsuas hais tias hmoob zoo tabsis hmoob phem li phem, hmoob tsi pom tsi kam leeg hmoob kev phem... li pab txiv tub no. Muab luag nyiag muab luag yuam los yuav ua rau luag kev cia siab rau lub neej ploj tag los tseem hais tias luag phem luag nkhaus. Hoyo, pojniam tsi qhia tubceevxwm vim pojniam paub tias qhia ces pojniam tsi muaj chaw nyob xwb, yog pojniam qhia tubceevxwm ces nej pab txiv tub, niam tais yawm txiv txhua tus tau mus ua cov dub loj2 pojniam hauv kuaj... ces nej mam li paub tias raug yuam yuav tus yus tsi nyiam zoo li cas.
Koj txiv xav Hais tias Ntshe xaj maim no poj niam tseem Yuav zoo li Thaum 1975 no koj txiv puaub COV poj Niam Tam Sim no tsawg kawg li, koj txiv thiaj yuam koj UA li koj Txiv Hais na has tsis work li os
Tsis yog phem nraug es tau quaj, niag ruam nraug xwb. Pick someone your own level/size people. Twb yog cov mi nyuam puag thauv lawm xwb es koj, koj niam koj txiv, nws niam nws txiv, thiab txhua tus neeg laus uas pab nej kaw nws thiaj tsis tau nkag nkuaj os. Yog cov mi nyuam nim no ces nej txhua tus twb tau mus nrog lawv cuab qhov quav nram jail. Yog yuav muab hais liam mas nej liam tshaj. Lawv twb hais tias siab phem li lub ntsej muag no ne. It’s awesome that she plugged enough courage to leave you. Koj rapped nws tau 20+ xyoo txaus rau ob peb phav nqi koj txiv them rau nws txiv lawm os. Koj txiv los twb laus lawm qaub ncaug nqhuab, ntshav puas khiav zoo lawm tsam xav xav txog nchos koj poj niam ces plawv ho nres thiab. Muab hais los tus ruam tshaj ces yog koj thiab koj niam. Txiv yawg qaub ncaug twb nrog zig rau niam tais tus ntxhais xwb los niam pog thiab tub mas tseem qhuas tias nkawv nim tau nyab mos ab
Koj txiv twb nqhis nqhis koj tus cousin qaub ncaug tshuav nrog lawm xwb mas es thaub laus thiaj ua heev ua luaj kom koj tua npe yuav los mos. Txog txij thaub hais tau tawm tias koj tsis yuav ces thaub yuav no ces nws twb muab pog yaim yaim nchos nchos hauv siab txaus lawm mas thaub aw. Cov txiv uas xaiv nyab rau tub los niam xaiv vauv tau ntxhais ces tsuas muaj tib zaj no dhos xwb..period...case close.
Could have saved all the heartache by letting the two who wanted to be married, get married. Only the Hmong and one other ethnicity practice this type of barbaric human trafficking. Don’t ever force anyone to be with you if they don’t want to be with you. You want all their heart, soul and body. The man in this story didn’t have a loud enough voice to stand for himself nor his wife back than.
You should never talk down on yourself uncle/ brother. You gotta love yourself first. Sorry to hear about your story. I feel bad for the both of you. Good luck!
Ua neeg nyob hauv ntuj qab plab no koj phem nraug los yeej muaj tus phem nkauj phim koj hos koj phem nkauj los yeej muaj tus phem nraug phim koj tiam sis txhua leej txhua tus yeej nyiam tus zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb es thiaj muaj txoj kev nyuab siab nawb.
You can't blame anyone but your dad (bc he was the first one to initiate) and her parents (bc they pushed the situation). You're not entirely innocent either bc you had no balls to stop this marriage. And you had no balls to divorce her. U knew she doesn't love you and u caught her cheating, but you continue to keep her caged in with you. I feel so sad and mad for her.
You, your dad and her dad should be put in jail for forcing a 16 year old girl to marry. She was a child. She had not place to go...good that she didn't commit suicide. You still have nerve to talk about the bad things she has done in her life. You made her this way. Shame on you!
Wow you deserve it for forcing her to married you. Your family and her family mess up your life and her.. Even you are not handsome you should married someone who love you and willing to be with you. Not forcing someone to married you because you feel like you can't find a wife.
Koj twb tsis phim koj tus poj niam es koj ho quab yuam yuav nws los ua koj poj niam ua dab tsi nawj? Nws tsis nyiam koj lawm tiag tiag ces nws yeej tsis nrog koj ua neej nyob sov cev xwb tsis sov siab kom tag nws ib sim neej li. Koj muab tig rau koj sab tias yog koj niam koj txiv yuav ib tug poj ruam rau koj no ua li koj puas kam nrog nws ua neej kom tag koj ib sim.
Thaus aw kuv pab koj txaj muag dau lawm ua cas koj yuav muab los tham rau neeg ntiaj teb mloog .koj yuam luag hlub koj yog luag yuam koj los hlub luag koj puas ua tau thiab mas.
I feel as if it was part her fault too. Yes she was kidnapped and forced but she's in America and she was in the hospital for trying to escape with the help of her husband or soon to be husband but she didn't seek help. She was trying to protect her family but they didn't care to protect her. Everybody have a part in this story. I can empathize with her more if this was in Laos.
Peb ib tsoom txiv tsev hmoob aw lub ntuj U S A no tsoom txiv tsev yuav tau nco qab ntsoov tias quab yuam Tsis tau leej twg yuav nej lawm nej yuav. tus luag nyiam 22 nej xwb es kom luag thiaj fwm nej thiaj tsis rau kev lwj siab mob ntsws mog. txhob ruam 22 li cov og lawm lub ntuj no tsis ua hauj lwm lawm tsis ntxhob 22 siab tu siab rau yus tsis zoo nraug los yus muaj siab muaj ntsws ib tug tib neeg lawm yeej yuav tsum muaj tus nyiam yus xwb txhob tu siab yus yug los ua neeg yus yeej muaj yus ib qhov zoo 22 nrog nawb. nriav tus luag nyiam yus luag thiaj hlub yus ho peb tsoom ntxhais ces peb niam tsis muaj txoj cai xaiv tus peb hlub peb ntshaw es niam mag yus niam yus txiv muab yuam yuav xwb los txhob tu 22 siab tej zaum tos cov laus ho kom yus yuav tsev neeg ntawv los lawv kuj paub tias tsev hmoob ntawv coj zoo thiab yuav hlub yus no es laus 22 lawn ces ua ib siab. yus lub neej thiaj tsis txom nyem yuav tus phem nraug luag thiaj hlub22 yus es yus thiaj nyob kaj siab cuag li ib niag poj nom xwb es thiaj tsis poob ntsej muag rau luag tej.
phim mus yuav suav es kom suav muab tsawm ua nqaij ntsoog ntxaws mas thiaj paub xwb os nawb poj niam phem dab tsi cuag li tsi tau pom dua qau kuv mas nws ua ib rau kuv lawm mas kuv yuav ua 10 npaug pauj xwb nawb
If he have a gf and was force to married her he probably would left Her and married his gf. He should’ve put Himself in her shoes. Love come From the heart not by force.
Ua neeg nyob cas yus tsis saib seb yus puas phim luag tso mam li yuav luag? Yog koj yug los ua ib tug neeg zoo zoo nraug es muaj ib tug uas koj twb tsis nyiam ib qho li cia li txhom koj yuav no koj puas tuag siab hlub thiab ma? Koj twb ua rau nws lub neej tiam no puas tsuaj tag tsim nyog koj nyob txom nyem li koj lawm thiab. Cov txiv neej 75 thiaj li xav tias poj niam ces yus muab nws yuam tau nws lub cev tag ces nws yuav ncawg yus no tab sis tsis yog txhua tus yuav ua li ntswd. Yog nws qhia tub ceev xwm ces koj txiv nej mag hlob kav hlau tag lawm mav. Tej yam no ua tau tsim txom tib neeg tiag tiag li.
The husband or the father? Lol. It's the old folks traditional way back then. It's a very stupid traditional way too. But I blame the father and her father didn't give a rats ass about her anyways.
Hmoob txoj niag kev zij poj niam mas liam tiag tiag
Txhob hais tias koj tu siab. Tim koj txiv neb es nws lub neej thiaj puas tag lawm ntag. Nws yog tus yuav tu siab rau koj hos
Tus tub aw, Ca Koj lub neej yuav txaus tu siab ua luaj li os, Koj mas Txawj xav, thiab Txawj tham kawg li. Thov kom Koj ho tau ntsib ib tug hlub2 Koj os mog, txhob tag kev cia siab rau poj niam nawb , tseem tshuav tus puav zoo2 thiab os.
Good story. Thank u for sharing ur story
Zaj neej neeg no ua rau peb mob siab yuav tsum ua kev kawm rau peb haiv Hmoob, cov txiv neej Hmoob, cov neeg laus ua pheej muaj tej ntxhais yuam mus yuav tus nws tsis txaus siab thiab hlub. Kom peb cov Hmoob txhua tus kawm txhob sib yuam yuav lawm. Tsis xaus rau txoj kev zoo li zaj no. Xiam rau tus ntxhais Hmoob no lub neej mus ib si. Lub neej yeej mus tsis kawg rau txoj kev no li. Twb yog tim cov neeg laus xwb.
You deserve it too. You forced her to marry you. How do you feel if you were forced to marry a person you don't love. Good thing she didn't call the cop for.
Koj nim txawj tu siab thiab koj tus nism tseem tu siab tshaj koj 1000 npaug nas koj tu koj tus QAU xwb koj txiv tseem yuav nrog koj deev nws thsum tsis tau puv 3 tag kis ne muab koj tus QAU tso rau log cam es xyuas roob rauj xwb mas
Kwv tij pab koj tus siab heev li os, ua neej nyob tsis nyiam yus,tseem yog yus poj niam thiab ua lub neej cis kav siab li nawb.
How could her dad hit her when she came back 😥. I could never do that to my daughters. Older generations are just too cruel only thinking of their face and nothing else. 🤦♂️
‘Cause they rather take the silver bars & silver coins, but for you, you bring in your own 💵
I feel sorry for this girl. Her life was ruined by this forced marriage.
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I don't pity this guy and his family. If it was the other way around and the guy is force to marry her or someone who doesn't like, I'm sure he would run away with his lover and never return home. It's him/his parents fault for forcing someone who dont love you to be with you. I think what she did was justified, she's only looking for her own happiness. I'm surprised him/his parents/her parents aren't locked up in jail for forcing someone to give up her life.
Txoj kev txij nkawm thov tsis txhob quab yuam ntxiv lawm. Mloog zaj neej neeg no tas ces tsim nyog peb Hmoob nyob hauv kub qab ntuj no yuav tsum hloov kom tas thiab tseg kiag txoj kev yuam cai no mus txhob siv lawm. Tshwb xeeb tshaj cov Kwv tij Hmoob nyab laj tseem sij poj niam yuav. Tej no nws tsis yog kev Vam meej nawb.
Neej uas txaum rau tus poj niam no lawm mas neej yuav tsum hlub thiab pab nw mus kom tag nw lub neej tiam no. Pab lis kos xwb tsis tau tag neej txoj kev lim hiam.
zoo siab os me muam ua tsaug ntau2 nawb koj hais tau zoo kawg lis os 0k
Tu me txiv neej siab zoo likj kj muaj tsawg tulimog
Ntsej muag qig taub qia neeg li koj ces nyob twj ywm tos koj tus niam mus deev deev txaus rov los koj thiaj tau paum ua nawb ntsej muag txhav luag tug
Hahaa love how you explained it🤣
Thanks for sharing your story, mister
Nyob mekas teb lawm tseem siv cov laus tej nlag Tswv yim qias2 neeg li ntawd , sawv daws puas pom!!!
Its very common for hmong men to force marriages back in the old days and even some today too. Those who said he deserved it, it wasn't completely his fault. His dad also forced him to be the "man" every old hmong men think they're supposed to be/act. eventhough he said no because he knew she didnt love him. And he even tried to help her escape. Its all them OGS fault. I hope all who take on this old tradition and think its okay, dies out. And i hope this force marriage no longer continue in our hmong culture. Its a really sad and miserable life to see and hear. I feel bad for both.
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I find it hard to believe that this is still happening in the state especially in today's time. But I can be wrong too. There's still a few very outdated hmong families out there. But this kind of sex trafficking and kidnapping still definitely occurs in the third world countries.
Your wife was forced to marry you, cant expect love from her.
Tu siab tshaj!!! Ua rau kuv Chim tshaj
To the girl, I’m sorry that you had to experience such pain and misery.. Life is so unfair to you.. May you find love and happiness..
You, your parents and girl's parents are messed up people. All of you had skewed up this innocent girl's life. She should had put all of you in jail when she broke her foot.
Koj tus poj niam siab zoo tshaj koj lawm ntau npaug, vim nws tsis yuam koj yuav nws. Koj thiab koj tsev neeg mas tseem2 yog cov neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsw. Tsis paub hlub leej twg, nej tsuas xav txog nej tus kheej xwb.
Koj tus poj niam ces tseem2 yog yug los xiam tiam vim muaj cov neeg li koj los cuam tshuam.
Koj hai yog lawm os.....I feel love her so much
Koj hais yog kawg. Txog qhov kawg, yug ua poj niam Hmoob ces yij yog tus txhaum tas li vim tsawm tshuav cov neeg zoo li no coob heev.
Yog los mas tu tij laug aws, txoj niag kev ua yus hlub luag es luag ho hlub lwm tu no mas zoo yam txoj hluas es ib tug tsis muab txiv kom tu nrho ces ua lub niag neeg yeej khuam siab khuav li o.
Cas txiv neej hmoob es muaj plhua ua luaj li. Tim cov laus 99% los tim tus txiv 1%. Ua rau tus pojniam plam tus nws hlub los tseem muaj plhu hais tias pojniam phem pojniam nkhaus. Thaum kawg tus hluas nkauj hluas nraug rov sib tham tsi sib tau los hais cuag li npam tus pojniam. Twb yog tim koj (tus txiv) ntag... txiav nkawv kev hlub. Koj yog txiv neej yog koj hais 1 los tias koj tsi nyiam nws lawv yeej kawg tso neb nyias mus nyias. Tabsis koj nyiam nws ces koj ua li koj niam koj txiv hais. Sim muab thaub no yuam yuav, yuam nrog cov pog laus2 dab2 tuag pw saib thaub ua zoo los ua phem rau pog laus.
May, can u read the title in the beginning. I don't know how to read in hmong. Thank you.
Tsis txhob quab yuam ib tus neeg los nrog yus ua neej! Thaum xub thawb koj yeej paub zoo zoo meej meej hais tias nws yeej tsis nyiam koj, koj nrog koj tsis tso nws mus thaum ntxov!
Thank you
Yus phem nraug es ho mus yuav tus zoo nkauj ces kawg ntsib kev nyuab siab lau mo????
By listening to a lot of dab neeg, I had learned lots of new hmong words.
This is a life lesson for all to learn from. Parents should never force their children to marry someone they do not love.
You should never force someone to marry you.
And if the person you marry loves you, will do anything for you, then stay. Love can and will flourish if only YOU allow it.
Good lesson for everyone to learn from.
vim koj nws lub neej thiaj tsis zoo
Nyuam qhuav ntxim cov txiv neej es mus zij luag los ua yus poj niam ces li ko thiaj paub. Luag twb tsi nyiam yus na mus yuam luag los.
If you force someone to marry you, don’t expect them to love you. You can have their body but not their heart. The person will always recent you because you stole her life and her freedom to choose.
This uncle please move on..u need some encouragement that u are good enough to move on..she aint the only one..now theres poj laib everywhere go explore..u can be handsome if u love yourself..please love yourself.
Cas zaj yuav ua kuv tshav siab ua luaj li os
Tsis sib nyiam mag sib yuam sib yuav xwb ces ua li nej cov txiv neej hais os nws lub siab twb tsis tuag ces yeej kawg neej puas xwb kuv yeej tsis blame koj tus poj niam thiab.
Tu koj yuav chim yuav tu siab rau yog koj txiv tu yug koj ntag
No, tus kheej xwb os. He was 19 dude...an A-dult.
Leej niam txiv no mas duam tshaj plaws nrho rau tus txiv tsev no niam thiaj txiv. Tsim nyog tus poj niam no tsi hlub kj. Tus txiv tsev no has ruined her entire young adult life.
Txiv neej ruam dhau lawm thiab os
Thaub koj ces tab tom haum xwb luag tsi nyiam koj es koj quab yuam luag yuav ces koj thiaj tau txoj kev mob hlwb cia ua 1 qho kev kawm rau peb cov hmong ruaj222 kawm nawb
Brother zoo koj niam koj txiv siab kawg lawm yom...... I feel bad for life😥😥
Koj, koj txiv, nws niam nws txiv moov zoo kawg qhov koj tus poj niam tsi hu police rau nej os. Yog lwm tus ntxhais ces nej mag nyob ncuaj tas lawm os.
So what is your point of telling the story? Are you trying to make people feel sorry for you? I actually feel sorry for her and pity you. Lol
My older sister was also bridenap back in the late 80’s. She didn’t like the guy, Thankfully my parents did not allow it and got my sister back. 👍🏼
That was 1 out of 100 hmoob parents. 99 of them would rather take the silver bars and silver coins, then beat the crap out of the girls to go or them girls will cause shame on their ancestors.
ThePrincessWorrior yes I’m glad my parents weren’t those selfish greedy money hungry people.
Or face saving ego saving ogs
Neb lub neej txijnkawm nws tsis yog neb xaiv hos yog niam thiab txiv xaiv xwb ces thiaj li phem os txhob tusiab nawv.
Very sad story.... ☹️☹️☹️
Cas koj txiv neb yuav ua Tau tej niag uas RUAm 2 li yav thaum ub uas tseem nyob lub neej Tim los tsuas,. Tsam no nej tseem tsis Tau hloov, neb lub neej thiaj tsis muaj Kev kaj siab
It’s not really her fault for being a horrible wife, you can’t force someone to love you, she will only despise you because of it.
I blame your parents and her parents for this hotmess!
Yus dab dab tuag yuav tsum mus nrhiav kom tau tus dab tuag li yus koj txiv neb ob txiv tub lub hlwb npwb npwb lub hlwb qub qub yog xab maim no ces neb raug dub plev kua quav tshau lug lawm xwb.
May cas koi hai lus yuam kev ua luaj lisnlawm os.
Don’t need to feel sorry for her, she got what she deserved.
Koj tshua nws qlib os uncle... Tiam no koj yug los phem nraug Los twg yog tiam tas no koj zoo zoo nraug thiab dag nws muaj me nyuam es koj tsis yuav. Nws thiab mus noj tshuav tuag lawm. Tiam no nws thiab li nco ntsoov Los ntsim koj lub siab lub ntsw. Txog Kev npam tiam daul Los thiab li uas rau koj pheej nraug thiab qlee taub. Tsis zoo nraug li luag os.
If we all still live back then everybody in here will do the same.....but i am a girl and im so glad my family move to the US....
I get your point, but the stupid thing about these bs is it's almost always the girls' fault.
yog koj tus poj niam tuag no ces koj txiv coj los pam nawb nws tsis txhaum os koj ntxiv neb yog tus txhaum cas yus rov qab muab yus txoj kev npam los piav lau kuv ntxub cov neeg yuam neeg
Cov niam tsev zoo nkauj yeej siab phem nawb cov kwv tij aw.........
Ua cas koj ho pom tus niam tsev no siab phem? Nws ua ib zaug neeg xwb. Nws lub neej raug quab yuam. Txog thaum kawg tsawm yog tus phem thiab. Qhov nws ua twb pauj tsis tau qhov nws raug quab yuam me me li.
Yog kuv yog koj tus poj niam ces nej mag nyob jail tag tug! Quab yuam luag yuav ua luag siab nrws puas tag los tseem muaj cai tu siab thiab?
Yus tsis zoo nraug cas tsis mus yuav kom tus phim yus, txhob tus siab tim yus tus kheej xwb. Yeej tseem muaj cov phem nkauj yuav phim koj txhob tas kev cias siab.
tsis pab koj khov siab li os. yus yuam luag los yuav xwb ces tabtom ntxim.
So sad for this man. Being ugly and poor is not easy. 😭
Neej yuam kev ces zoo li no, txhob tusiab cia nyias nti nyias kaub puab kom txog hnub tuag. Txob mob vim koj twb tsoob nws tau 21 xyoo lawm...zoo siab tias koj yuav tsis tau tha nws lawm no ma...
Ua cas tus poj niam e yuav ua tau txaj muag ua luaj li o
Yog muab hais tiag mas tsis yog tim tus txiv tsev no. Yog muab hais los tiag yog tim 2 tog niam txiv ntawm nws thiab nws tus poj niam xwb. Tus poj niam no muaj hmoo uas nws tus txiv tseem hlub nws txawm nkawv twb tsis tau ua nkauj nraug hlo li. Muab piv rau tej tug lawv twb nyiam2 lawv thiaj yuav los thaum kawg lawv twb tseem tsis xav hlub tseem mus tham hluas nkauj poj nrauj thiab yuav niam yau kiag. Tus poj niam no yeej tsis sawm zoo. Ntshe nws xav hais tias nws mus tau tus nws hlub2 thiab nyiam2 ces nws lub neej yuav zoo2 no pob. Yog yuav zoo npaum li nws xav ces luag tej sib2 nyiam sib hlub luag yeej tsis raug tso tseg ua poj nrauj li os
Peb cov txiv neej tseem muaj tus ruam npaum li no thiab koj tsis zoo nraug lo yeej muaj tug hlub koj na nws twb ua phem npaum no lo tseem thawj nws li tug dev xwb
Koj hais yog kawg lawm os Nyajteeb Vaj. Ruam npaum tus txiv neej no ces thiaj li ua npua tiv aws los mus txog niaj hnub no los mas. Kuv mas yog kuv txawm yuav tsis zoo nraug los yeej muaj ib tug tsis zoo nkauj yuav phim kuv thiab nav. Yog kuv ces muab nws ncaws tawv puag ntxov lawm os.
Tsis tsimnyog nej muab nws yuam yuav koj. Cas tsis mus nrhiav tus phim yus thiab nyiam yus thiaj sib hlub. Koj txawm tau lub cev los tsis tau lub siab yeej tsis muaj nuj nqis
Yus yog nab tsiav xwb tab sis yus pheej xav mus ua zaj laug ces zoo li koj ntag mas
Cas tsis kom koj txiv yuav kiag xwb nas? Nws nyiam dhau ces kom nws yuav kiag xwb mas
Tus mi nus aw txhob tu siab thiab txhob yah kev cia siab ma. Tus neeg muaj lub siab zoo2 li koj tsis tau ntsib tus neeg siab zoo li koj xwb os. Koj paub nav? Sim mi neej no kuv tus kheej xav hav tias yog muaj ib tug txiv neej es nws txawm phem nraug, qig taub, do hau los yog nws siab zoo2 hlub kuv , hwm kuv es noj los 2 leeg noj sib xws , hos Nyiaj txiag me thiab ntau los tso ua ib pob thiab tus mi txiv tseem tso pob Nyiaj rau tus mi Poj niam ua tus khaws ntshe kuv yuav xaiv tus ntawd lawm xwb mog es txhob tag kev cia siab tej zaum tus zoo los tsis tau txog xwb mog.
That’s why there’s not too many squeal for movies.😢😭😢😭
Find someone to love you. Women are not the same. Maybe you and your wife are not meant to be.
Hmoob hnov tsi taus 1 tus nkauj hmoob raug nyiag raug yuam mus yuav suav tabsis qhov 2 pab hmoob no ua tsi txawv qhov raug nyiag mus yuav suav. Hmoob li hmoob tsuas hais tias hmoob zoo tabsis hmoob phem li phem, hmoob tsi pom tsi kam leeg hmoob kev phem... li pab txiv tub no. Muab luag nyiag muab luag yuam los yuav ua rau luag kev cia siab rau lub neej ploj tag los tseem hais tias luag phem luag nkhaus. Hoyo, pojniam tsi qhia tubceevxwm vim pojniam paub tias qhia ces pojniam tsi muaj chaw nyob xwb, yog pojniam qhia tubceevxwm ces nej pab txiv tub, niam tais yawm txiv txhua tus tau mus ua cov dub loj2 pojniam hauv kuaj... ces nej mam li paub tias raug yuam yuav tus yus tsi nyiam zoo li cas.
Yog kuv tsev neeg ko nkag nkuaj tag nrho.
Koj txiv xav Hais tias Ntshe xaj maim no poj niam tseem Yuav zoo li Thaum 1975 no koj txiv puaub COV poj Niam Tam Sim no tsawg kawg li, koj txiv thiaj yuam koj UA li koj Txiv Hais na has tsis work li os
Tsis yog phem nraug es tau quaj, niag ruam nraug xwb. Pick someone your own level/size people.
Twb yog cov mi nyuam puag thauv lawm xwb es koj, koj niam koj txiv, nws niam nws txiv, thiab txhua tus neeg laus uas pab nej kaw nws thiaj tsis tau nkag nkuaj os.
Yog cov mi nyuam nim no ces nej txhua tus twb tau mus nrog lawv cuab qhov quav nram jail.
Yog yuav muab hais liam mas nej liam tshaj. Lawv twb hais tias siab phem li lub ntsej muag no ne.
It’s awesome that she plugged enough courage to leave you. Koj rapped nws tau 20+ xyoo txaus rau ob peb phav nqi koj txiv them rau nws txiv lawm os. Koj txiv los twb laus lawm qaub ncaug nqhuab, ntshav puas khiav zoo lawm tsam xav xav txog nchos koj poj niam ces plawv ho nres thiab.
Muab hais los tus ruam tshaj ces yog koj thiab koj niam. Txiv yawg qaub ncaug twb nrog zig rau niam tais tus ntxhais xwb los niam pog thiab tub mas tseem qhuas tias nkawv nim tau nyab mos ab
Koj txiv twb nqhis nqhis koj tus cousin qaub ncaug tshuav nrog lawm xwb mas es thaub laus thiaj ua heev ua luaj kom koj tua npe yuav los mos.
Txog txij thaub hais tau tawm tias koj tsis yuav ces thaub yuav no ces nws twb muab pog yaim yaim nchos nchos hauv siab txaus lawm mas thaub aw.
Cov txiv uas xaiv nyab rau tub los niam xaiv vauv tau ntxhais ces tsuas muaj tib zaj no dhos xwb..period...case close.
U khaws luag qub ces yeej mob u siab
Could have saved all the heartache by letting the two who wanted to be married, get married. Only the Hmong and one other ethnicity practice this type of barbaric human trafficking. Don’t ever force anyone to be with you if they don’t want to be with you. You want all their heart, soul and body. The man in this story didn’t have a loud enough voice to stand for himself nor his wife back than.
Poor girl i hate hmong parents those day i wish all they hmong have only sons no any daughters coz they treated daughters very low class
You should never talk down on yourself uncle/ brother. You gotta love yourself first. Sorry to hear about your story. I feel bad for the both of you. Good luck!
I don’t blame at all. Poor girl.
Ua neeg nyob hauv ntuj qab plab no koj phem nraug los yeej muaj tus phem nkauj phim koj hos koj phem nkauj los yeej muaj tus phem nraug phim koj tiam sis txhua leej txhua tus yeej nyiam tus zoo nkauj zoo nraug xwb es thiaj muaj txoj kev nyuab siab nawb.
You can't blame anyone but your dad (bc he was the first one to initiate) and her parents (bc they pushed the situation). You're not entirely innocent either bc you had no balls to stop this marriage. And you had no balls to divorce her. U knew she doesn't love you and u caught her cheating, but you continue to keep her caged in with you. I feel so sad and mad for her.
You, your dad and her dad should be put in jail for forcing a 16 year old girl to marry. She was a child. She had not place to go...good that she didn't commit suicide.
You still have nerve to talk about the bad things she has done in her life. You made her this way. Shame on you!
Wow you deserve it for forcing her to married you. Your family and her family mess up your life and her.. Even you are not handsome you should married someone who love you and willing to be with you. Not forcing someone to married you because you feel like you can't find a wife.
Koj twb tsis phim koj tus poj niam es koj ho quab yuam yuav nws los ua koj poj niam ua dab tsi nawj? Nws tsis nyiam koj lawm tiag tiag ces nws yeej tsis nrog koj ua neej nyob sov cev xwb tsis sov siab kom tag nws ib sim neej li. Koj muab tig rau koj sab tias yog koj niam koj txiv yuav ib tug poj ruam rau koj no ua li koj puas kam nrog nws ua neej kom tag koj ib sim.
Thaus aw kuv pab koj txaj muag dau lawm ua cas koj yuav muab los tham rau neeg ntiaj teb mloog .koj yuam luag hlub koj yog luag yuam koj los hlub luag koj puas ua tau thiab mas.
Yog mas. Yog tias yus dab2 tuag es yus mus yuam ib tug zoo2 neeg los yuav. Siab phem tsaj li os
Tus kwv tij koj mas awb tiag2 zoo li koj xwb txhob muab koj zaj dab neeg tso rau peb nrog koj mloog ua rau peb mob2 hlwb....xav muab koj npuaj tiag2 li os.....yawg hlwb rwj.....
Xuas roob rauj rau koj txiv lub taub hau es nug seb koj txiv lub taub hau puas mob xwb ma...!!!
Mob siab ua dabtsi nas Thaub aw....koj pojniam twb tsis hlub koj nas. It not worth it check on her....let her go and move on with your life.
I feel as if it was part her fault too. Yes she was kidnapped and forced but she's in America and she was in the hospital for trying to escape with the help of her husband or soon to be husband but she didn't seek help. She was trying to protect her family but they didn't care to protect her. Everybody have a part in this story. I can empathize with her more if this was in Laos.
Who is this family? I used to live in Lacrosse during1983 til 1991.
Lol
Peb ib tsoom txiv tsev hmoob aw lub ntuj U S A no tsoom txiv tsev yuav tau nco qab ntsoov tias quab yuam Tsis tau leej twg yuav nej lawm nej yuav. tus luag nyiam 22 nej xwb es kom luag thiaj fwm nej thiaj tsis rau kev lwj siab mob ntsws mog. txhob ruam 22 li cov og lawm lub ntuj no tsis ua hauj lwm lawm tsis ntxhob 22 siab tu siab rau yus tsis zoo nraug los yus muaj siab muaj ntsws ib tug tib neeg lawm yeej yuav tsum muaj tus nyiam yus xwb txhob tu siab yus yug los ua neeg yus yeej muaj yus ib qhov zoo 22 nrog nawb. nriav tus luag nyiam yus luag thiaj hlub yus ho peb tsoom ntxhais ces peb niam tsis muaj txoj cai xaiv tus peb hlub peb ntshaw es niam mag yus niam yus txiv muab yuam yuav xwb los txhob tu 22 siab tej zaum tos cov laus ho kom yus yuav tsev neeg ntawv los lawv kuj paub tias tsev hmoob ntawv coj zoo thiab yuav hlub yus no es laus 22 lawn ces ua ib siab. yus lub neej thiaj tsis txom nyem yuav tus phem nraug luag thiaj hlub22 yus es yus thiaj nyob kaj siab cuag li ib niag poj nom xwb es thiaj tsis poob ntsej muag rau luag tej.
phim mus yuav suav es kom suav muab tsawm ua nqaij ntsoog ntxaws mas thiaj paub xwb os nawb poj niam phem dab tsi cuag li tsi tau pom dua qau kuv mas nws ua ib rau kuv lawm mas kuv yuav ua 10 npaug pauj xwb nawb
Hmong life style never changed. Sad. Better to let her go. She spent unhappy 20 yrs with you.
Think about all the however many times she was rapped by him😬
Tos tus poj niam no nws liam los yog tim nws niam nws txiv thiab koj niam koj txiv lub siab phem es nws thiaj txim Burma los mas thiab tim koj thiab
If he have a gf and was force to married her he probably would left
Her and married his gf. He should’ve put
Himself in her shoes. Love come
From the heart not by force.
Ua neeg nyob cas yus tsis saib seb yus puas phim luag tso mam li yuav luag? Yog koj yug los ua ib tug neeg zoo zoo nraug es muaj ib tug uas koj twb tsis nyiam ib qho li cia li txhom koj yuav no koj puas tuag siab hlub thiab ma? Koj twb ua rau nws lub neej tiam no puas tsuaj tag tsim nyog koj nyob txom nyem li koj lawm thiab. Cov txiv neej 75 thiaj li xav tias poj niam ces yus muab nws yuam tau nws lub cev tag ces nws yuav ncawg yus no tab sis tsis yog txhua tus yuav ua li ntswd. Yog nws qhia tub ceev xwm ces koj txiv nej mag hlob kav hlau tag lawm mav. Tej yam no ua tau tsim txom tib neeg tiag tiag li.
This guy makes my blood boil, lol
Why lol
Daim Ntawv Love for being too nice lol
Its this guy’s fault. He f up her life. You cant force love.
The husband or the father? Lol.
It's the old folks traditional way back then. It's a very stupid traditional way too. But I blame the father and her father didn't give a rats ass about her anyways.
Omg!! Hahaha 😂