Such a sad story, made me cry! I relate & understand how it feels not able to have kids! It's the saddest thing ever, but to loose the person you love the most is the ultimate saddest situation ever. Living life as a torture! God bless you sister.
I don’t know why she even stick around when her husband hit and called her names. I would’ve left him. I didn’t asked him to come married me. His kids are not my kids and at the end, they will never love me like they will love their mom.
I don't think people realize that their happiness comes first. They should always do what make them happy regardless of how other ppl feel. You only live once.
This story is sad. Those who can have kids will never know how heart breaking it is to not have one. Your ex husband should’ve stood up to ur ex mil that he’s ok with u not being able to have kids. 😪
Sister, I feel your pain. I know what your ex husband go through. My wife and I struggled with infertility for 25 years. I was pressured to yuav niam yau for 15 years. My wife cried herself to sleep for 25 years because she couldn’t bear children. But divorced and yuav niam yau was never an option for us. Finally after 25 years of trying we’re able to find a Hmong lady that was able to help us. We didn’t start having children until our early 40s. Seems like your still a young woman, don’t give up. Find someone who truly loves you for who you are.
I'm glad you didn't leave your wife or married a niam yau brother. In the u.s there are many options to have kids. Glad you found a way to do it instead of leaving her who is already sad enough that she can't have kids.
Koj Zaj no cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li na...ob niam txiv no cas lub neej yuav tu siab tag Baum no os hlub nkawv kawg li os thov kom lwm tiam nkawv muaj txoj hmoo zoo lis sib hlub dua muaj tub ki kom tsim nyog nkawv txoj kev hlub mob siab tiam no nawb.
Actually, if I could go back and do it again, I would NOT have any kids. Not bc I don't love them but bc I don't want them to suffer in this lifetime. Take a look around you. There are danger everywhere. You can't always be by your kids side 24/7. Your only mistake was that you married his uncle. I would have NOTHING to do with his family once I'm out.
Vim nws ruam ne, qhov kuv tias nws ruam nas menyuam yus yus tsis muaj es ho nyob tiv lawv tus qws ntxiv nyob teb chaw no lawm es tseem cia lawv ntau yus neeg ruam ces tsis tshaj tus niam tsev no lawm.
Such a sad story. Infertility should never be used as punishment for self worth, love, and happiness . I hope she finds the courage to move forward and truly live the life she deserves.
If you got married in 2000 you are still young! Dont waste your life on men who don't love you. Your first husband doesn't love you either - please don't keep fooling yourself and holding on to weak people. Live a happy life alone child free!
Nyob zoo niam laus ntsuab teev koj cov dab neeg hais tau zoo thiab cov neej neej muaj tej zag mas hais tau raug siab heev li kuv nyiam kawg li os ua ntsaug tau mloog koj cov neej neeg os
What a sad life to lived. You guys should of just pay the money to have a baby. There’s so much help out there financially. I wish you the best sister!
Wow it’s a great story! Cov niam pog txhob coj zoo li tus leej niam pog no qias neeg dhau lawm mog. yog nkawd sib hlub heev cia sib yuav nkawd naj tsis muaj tub muaj ki los nyob lub teb chaws America no nyiaj txiag yeej yuav los ua tau me tub menyuam rau nkawd naj vim dab tsis neb twb yug loj hlob lub teb chaws no es ho tsis paub txog nyiaj yuav ua me tub menyuam rau yus maj es neb tsis yog yug teb chaws no los ua cas os. Nrog neb tu siab heev vim neb mloog neb niam pog lus dhau lawm os menyuam aw!!!
The older generation need to be more understanding. It’s not that easy to have kids for some people. Infertility is taboo in the Hmong community but people need to be more understanding and stop questioning people with no kids. You don’t know their story or their struggle. You don’t need your ex husband if he can’t even stand up for you and him.
Lub neej tsis muaj me nyuam mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os. Luag tej muaj luag nim hais yus tias tsis muaj thiaj tau zoo noj tau zoo hnav los luag twb tsis to taub yus tu siab npaum cas.
Tsis yog koj ib os leej twg los yeej tsis xav kom zoo li no os coob tus los yeej muaj os tu siab ua dab tsis os xav tiag yog txoj hmoov es ua ib siab os
Txhob tos nws ntau koj mob laug os tus niam tsev. Vam tias neb txoj kev cia siab rau fab lwm tiam yuav tshwm sib tseeb kom neb ob leeg nco qab ntsoov os nawb.
You need to value yourself first before anyone do. Just because you cannot bear children does not mean you are worthless. Know your worth and you will be happy.
This woman is indecisive and confused. She left him on her own will but blames him for her misery. She tells him to be faithful to his new wife but they keep sneaking around. She needs to stop lying to herself and her ex. Might as well go back to him and be his niam yau if she can’t let him go.
Ua cas yuav nrog neb tu siab ua luag os me viv ncaus was!! Thov kom neb sib tau raws li neb tej lus cog tsev os mog thiab thov kom Vajtswv foom koob hmoo rau neb kom muaj tub muaj kis os nawb
Such a heartbreaking story. It is sad how you degraded yourself for not being able to have children. Listen to your ex husband and love yourself. Get out of your current abusive marriage! Take care of yourself. Good luck!
Txoj kev tsi muaj me nyuam ma tu siab tsaj li os hmong aws... Kuv tu txiv wb sib yuav tau 10 year wb tsi muaj ma yeej xav tuag lawm xwb ho.. But wb mu2 Dr ce wb twb tau ib tug me ntxhais lawm os muaj nyiaj lo swb muaj me nyuam nawb..nrog tu me niam tsev no tu siab kawg..
People that have never suffered infertility will never understand the pain us women have to go through and the verbal abuse we get from relatives and mils. A part of this story would have been me but we finally got pregnant after so many years of trying. Praying for better days ahead of you sister.
Ua neej nyob es cas yawm saub tsis pub txhua yam rau yus os tu siab ua luaj , yog koj nyob ua niam loj ces ntshe nws muaj2 menyuam lm mas nws tseem yuav muab koj nrauj pov tseg koj haj yam yuav tu siab tshaj
Yes sister you need to love yourself, you don't need that kind of man to disrespect you. You don't need a man, we woman can do anything. Go live and travel, see the world. Why do you put yourself through this. You're putting yourself through this pain, leave. Don't sell yourself short. This is what is wrong with us Hmong women, we need to be stronger and walk away.
Vuag... nrog koj tu siab os tus niam tsev aw... especially at the funeral scene. Kuv nrog koj quaj. YOG vim li cas koj ho mus yuav lawv tsev neeg thiab na? U should go marry someone far far away.
Cas koj tsis nyob koj twj ywm es niam pog tsis nyiam thiab tus txiv yuav niam yau los yus mus nyob yus es tus txiv mam los xyuas yus xwb zoo dua li koj mus uv niag yawm thaub laus nas
niag pog no ruam heev yus nco yus tus txiv es lam mus yuav lawv tsev hmoob kom pom yus tus txiv xwb tsis txaj muag los tseem yuav rov los yuav niag txiv qub thiab mus mus los los tsis zoo nkauj os
Tus niam tsev aw koj tsis tas ntshaw me nyuam li nyob teb chaws no peb cov muaj tej pab me nyuam los peb twb tsis cia siab rau lawv. Yog vim li cas koj thiaj yuav mus tu ib pab me nyuam uas tsis yog koj roj ntsha txhob nkim koj lub zog rau cov me nyuam ntsuag ciaj li koj lawv yeej tsis hlub koj vim lawv niam tseem nyob.
I don't know how this sister is thinking but whatever, you need to rethink. You direct your life. Everything doesn't end because you can't have children. You let your mother in-law control your life so you suffered. You need to stand up and think straight. You are your own doom. I don't feel sorry for you because it's your fault you let others walk all over you and you let yourself sit in a situation that you can control. You have a job, you can feed yourself and not rely on nobody. A woman can be successful without a man or child. Sometimes it's a blessing not to have children too.
These story makes me very sad and very mad ..so what if you can’t have kids, at least you guys love each other and if he’s a real man he needs to stand his ground but maybe he doesn’t really love her like he said.
Tos tus tciv yawg nrauj muab ntaus ib xyoo 3 zaug hosbtsis kam nrauj li los vim yawg nrauj QAUS loj tshaj nees thiab khej dub rab lawm thiaj zoo siab ua npuas tiv qws ne
Cas niam zoo li Kuv lub neej thiab os. Kuv tsis muaj menyuam es nws muab Kuv nrauj. Kuv zoo siab Kuv muaj ib tu Mi ntxhais tau yuav sib nrauj. Tu siab kawg li os. Best of luck to you. 😭
Its a tough decision for the son, but his happiness should come first. The son can "divorce" his Mother if she is so evil. Only have kids for the mom is wrong. He is not married to his mom. The son should have a voice and man up!
This is a hard decision, tbh if you never went through infertility u will never understand, once in my life I was willing to walk out because I didn't want to be selfish with his family wanting children from us and I couldn't at that time. So thankful that we finally got pregnant after so many years of trying. There's nothing in this world a woman with infertility wants more than a child.
Glad things work out for you guys, true I will never understand but I have taken care of widow in same shoe and she never wanted to leave but was forced out by the second wife, I'm more disappointed at the men's that allow women to be hurt by others just because she can't do as others can. It's sad to see women don't love women and men that allow others to hurt what they love but can't protect. All hmoob women are precious but most hmoob men don't see and understand, it's very sad.
Kuv nrog koj tu siab os tus me niam tsev txawm yog kuv los kuv yeej ua ib yam li thov yawm saub pab kom neb los sib tau thaum laus os mog nrog neb tu siab
Tus Niam tsev thiab tus txiv aw, fab lwm ces yeej tsis muaj li os mog tsuas lam hais kom zoo siab xwb os! Yuav ua zoo, yuav sib hlub, xav tau yam twg, thiab tshaw dab tsi ces yuav tsum ua kom tau tiam xwb mog! Tsis tag li xwb, tus me Niam tsev aw, tsis muaj menyuam los Txhob tu, tu siab os nawb! Muaj ib co neeg lawv twb muaj menyuam los thaum kawg kuj tsis muaj chaw nyob thiab es koj txhob rau txim rau koj tus kheej nyhav 2 nawb! Ib qho ntxiv, tsis muaj menyuam los koj Niam koj txiv nkawv yug koj es nkawv hlub koj heev li es tsis txhob nyob tiv qws li ko lawm os niag txiv yawg nrauj siab phem li ko es nws thiaj tau ua yawg nrauj los mas! Nyob lub teb chaws no lawm tsis txhob ua npua tiv aws li ko os mog! Best luck to you!
Your ex is a mama’s boy. No wonder he couldn’t protect you. If you two really love each other no one can break ur marriage. This story is only from one side.
Koj nco tus qub txiv ua dab tsi nas .. tsis yog nws niam thiaj tsis xav yuav koj xwb nas ...nws los yeej tsis xav yuav koj thiab.vim koj tsis muaj me nyuam ne ..yog xav yuav koj mas tsis ua li nws niam hais ib zaug li os ... thiab nws yeej tsis yuav poj niam sai sai li 'tawd nas .es koj pheej nco nws ua dab tsi os ...
Us ib siab tu siab nrho rau koj tus txiv os nawb nws yeej tsis hlub koj es nws thiaj mloog nws niam lawv hais lawm ok yog nws hlub koj tiag ces neb txawm tsis muaj mi nyuam los nws yeej tsis mus yuav dua ib tug li nawb 2 leeg yeej ua neej sib hlub mus kom tag ib sim os
Es twb nyob lub teb chaws no lawm los tseem muaj cov txiv neej uas pheej ntaus poj niam thiab lov...yog hlub ces nyob yog tsis hlub ces muab nrauj es los yuav kuv os...haha
The shame people put on women who are infertile is so despicable. I was infertile for 8 years and I know that pain/struggle all too well. I cried on the way home every time from the obgyn visits because I was there for complications only and I envied all the pregnant women. I'm very lucky to have such a loving husband who loves me and never once made me feel unworthy, but that didn't stop people from being mean to me. I was mocked, made fun of, and belittled by people who were so-called family. I never once stooped down to their level because I never wanted them to have the power to hurt me though. I live by "Life is like a quilt. You sow good things into your life." Today, I have an almost 7 month old baby boy.
Don't feel too sorry 4 not having any kids. Destiny is what it is. Look at the bright side, let say if you were to have kids with your 1st husband , if it was meant you both to leave each other it will happen in a different format. So, you both were to just come to earth built love foundation only. 2nd, Look around u, those who has lots of kids like us and at the end the hubby can't get your attention and the kids jealous of your attention. We ended up with nothing either So, be happy what u can count and don't count your bad lucks.
Such a sad story, made me cry! I relate & understand how it feels not able to have kids! It's the saddest thing ever, but to loose the person you love the most is the ultimate saddest situation ever. Living life as a torture! God bless you sister.
It’s sad you can’t have babies, but don’t let others treat you bad, you deserve happiness!! Love yourself woman!!
I don’t know why she even stick around when her husband hit and called her names. I would’ve left him. I didn’t asked him to come married me. His kids are not my kids and at the end, they will never love me like they will love their mom.
I don't think people realize that their happiness comes first. They should always do what make them happy regardless of how other ppl feel. You only live once.
I agree. Life is too short to live for other people happiness. Living a life of misery = dying prematurely
True, I live for today not tomorrow.
This story is sad. Those who can have kids will never know how heart breaking it is to not have one. Your ex husband should’ve stood up to ur ex mil that he’s ok with u not being able to have kids. 😪
Sister, I feel your pain. I know what your ex husband go through. My wife and I struggled with infertility for 25 years. I was pressured to yuav niam yau for 15 years. My wife cried herself to sleep for 25 years because she couldn’t bear children. But divorced and yuav niam yau was never an option for us. Finally after 25 years of trying we’re able to find a Hmong lady that was able to help us. We didn’t start having children until our early 40s. Seems like your still a young woman, don’t give up. Find someone who truly loves you for who you are.
I'm glad you didn't leave your wife or married a niam yau brother. In the u.s there are many options to have kids. Glad you found a way to do it instead of leaving her who is already sad enough that she can't have kids.
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Koj Zaj no cas yuav hais tau tu siab ua luaj li na...ob niam txiv no cas lub neej yuav tu siab tag Baum no os hlub nkawv kawg li os thov kom lwm tiam nkawv muaj txoj hmoo zoo lis sib hlub dua muaj tub ki kom tsim nyog nkawv txoj kev hlub mob siab tiam no nawb.
Tus muam Iniam tsev tus tswv zaj neej neeg ntawm no.
Txhob tus siab os mog , kuv nrog koj zoo siab tias koj kuj tsim tau ib txoj Kev hlub los yog muaj ib tug hlub, hlub koj thiab txhawj yus ua hnub ua hmo ces zoo heev li os
Kuv hais nej cov ua muam tias yog muaj nyiaj thiab muaj txoj Kev hlub no ,. Kuv xum xaiv txoj Kev hlub uas ib tug hlub ,hlub yus zoo dua os .
kuv twb nrog koj zoo siab tias muaj tus hlub koj kawg es xav tias txoj Kev ua neeg nyob nyias muaj nyias ib qho zoo os no xwb os.
If he loves you like you said, he should stand up and be a man.
😭😭😭kj zaj neej neeg tu siab heev li os tu viv ncau aws
Actually, if I could go back and do it again, I would NOT have any kids. Not bc I don't love them but bc I don't want them to suffer in this lifetime. Take a look around you. There are danger everywhere. You can't always be by your kids side 24/7. Your only mistake was that you married his uncle. I would have NOTHING to do with his family once I'm out.
I agree
I agree if I out of that family not just go back to them I not even marry that last name again
Well said .. I agree .. I will never go into the same family or not the same last name
Yea she should leave the uncle. She doesn’t have a reason to stay anyway.
Vim nws ruam ne, qhov kuv tias nws ruam nas menyuam yus yus tsis muaj es ho nyob tiv lawv tus qws ntxiv nyob teb chaw no lawm es tseem cia lawv ntau yus neeg ruam ces tsis tshaj tus niam tsev no lawm.
This story has Ruam all over.
Such a sad story. Infertility should never be used as punishment for self worth, love, and happiness .
I hope she finds the courage to move forward and truly live the life she deserves.
Tu siab mob siab ua luaj li o ntuj es.....
If you got married in 2000 you are still young! Dont waste your life on men who don't love you. Your first husband doesn't love you either - please don't keep fooling yourself and holding on to weak people. Live a happy life alone child free!
Tu Tu siab heev Li os niam laus hlub hlub koj li os lwm Tiam thov kom koj muaj me nyuam raws siab xav nawb mog
Sib hlub npaum neb koj cas ho sib nrauj naw
You dont understand being in her shoes. Ua zaj twg los yeej tsis zoo li os!
Nyob zoo niam laus ntsuab teev koj cov dab neeg hais tau zoo thiab cov neej neej muaj tej zag mas hais tau raug siab heev li kuv nyiam kawg li os ua ntsaug tau mloog koj cov neej neeg os
What a sad life to lived. You guys should of just pay the money to have a baby. There’s so much help out there financially. I wish you the best sister!
Wow it’s a great story! Cov niam pog txhob coj zoo li tus leej niam pog no qias neeg dhau lawm mog. yog nkawd sib hlub heev cia sib yuav nkawd naj tsis muaj tub muaj ki los nyob lub teb chaws America no nyiaj txiag yeej yuav los ua tau me tub menyuam rau nkawd naj vim dab tsis neb twb yug loj hlob lub teb chaws no es ho tsis paub txog nyiaj yuav ua me tub menyuam rau yus maj es neb tsis yog yug teb chaws no los ua cas os. Nrog neb tu siab heev vim neb mloog neb niam pog lus dhau lawm os menyuam aw!!!
Tus me viv ncaus koj tus niam hluas hais Yog kawg os
Yog 1 zaj zoo thiab tu siab heev hlub neb pab neb tu plawv
Hmong ppl will go spend hundreds to thousands of dollar on those "tshuaj ntsuab" but will NOT go to the doctor. Omg.
The older generation need to be more understanding. It’s not that easy to have kids for some people. Infertility is taboo in the Hmong community but people need to be more understanding and stop questioning people with no kids. You don’t know their story or their struggle.
You don’t need your ex husband if he can’t even stand up for you and him.
I kow right....so shw need to stop thinking bout him soooooo much. thats probaby why she cant have what she wants either
Txoj neej neeg no tu siab heev
Tu siab heev li os tu mi viv ncaus aw
Ca yuav ua tau tu siab ua luaj li os tu siab tiag22222 li os
Nrog koj chim thiab tu siab heev os
Zaj dab neeg no mloog tau mob siab tiag2 li
Ca zaj dab neeg no tuav tus siab ua luaj hlub neb kawg li os cia siab tia neb yuav sib ntsib rau thaum laus tiag nb
Tu siab heev li os.kuv lub kua muag log tsis tu li os .Vim kuv lub neej zoo li tus niam tsev no
Tus siab heev li os
Lub neej tsis muaj me nyuam mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os. Luag tej muaj luag nim hais yus tias tsis muaj thiaj tau zoo noj tau zoo hnav los luag twb tsis to taub yus tu siab npaum cas.
Tsis yog koj ib os leej twg los yeej tsis xav kom zoo li no os coob tus los yeej muaj os tu siab ua dab tsis os xav tiag yog txoj hmoov es ua ib siab os
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab heev, rau nkawv txoj kev sib hlub mloog mas pab nkawv tu siab mob siab heev
Txhob tos nws ntau koj mob laug os tus niam tsev. Vam tias neb txoj kev cia siab rau fab lwm tiam yuav tshwm sib tseeb kom neb ob leeg nco qab ntsoov os nawb.
Cas zaj dab neeg no ua kuv hnov mob siab tiag tiag li os 😭😭😭
Ca nim tu siab ua luaj os kv lub neej tu siab li no thiab os tus nis niam tsev aw
You need to value yourself first before anyone do. Just because you cannot bear children does not mean you are worthless. Know your worth and you will be happy.
This woman is indecisive and confused. She left him on her own will but blames him for her misery. She tells him to be faithful to his new wife but they keep sneaking around. She needs to stop lying to herself and her ex. Might as well go back to him and be his niam yau if she can’t let him go.
Ua cas yuav nrog neb tu siab ua luag os me viv ncaus was!! Thov kom neb sib tau raws li neb tej lus cog tsev os mog thiab thov kom Vajtswv foom koob hmoo rau neb kom muaj tub muaj kis os nawb
My heart aches for both of you.
Ib txoj dab neeg tu2 siab tshaj li os tus me muam.....
yog hlub tiag txhob tos lwm tiam lawm mog rov qab los sib yuav dua tiam no xwb o xyov lwm tiam puas muaj tiag thiab yus puas yuav nco qab lawm o
Wauwwww sooooo so sad story. My heart breaks 😭😭😭😭
Love comes first...children are second...do what makes you happy, not your parents in this case...
kj nrauj kj tus txiv yuam kev lawm os tus viv ncaus yog kv.kv xum cia nws yuav niam yau zoo dua kj yuam kev loj heev lawm os
cas tu siab ua luaj li os niam lau
Tus niam tsev koj zaj neej neeg tus siab kawg thiab zoo mloog kawg
Good luck sister.
Such a heartbreaking story. It is sad how you degraded yourself for not being able to have children. Listen to your ex husband and love yourself. Get out of your current abusive marriage! Take care of yourself. Good luck!
tu siab txog hnub kawg li os
This kind of love don't exist anymore we got fake love nowadays...
Cag pab koj tu siab kaws le kuv los kua muas kaws le os
Txiv tsev tsis muaj peev xwm txhob tos lwm tiam lwm tiam los yog tsis muaj peev xwm ces yeej zoo ib yam xwb
I feel you sis.
Nyiaj hawj xyooj Channel.thiab os zoo siab ua tsaug rau koj os me aw.
This is America, why do you still act like it’s 1975!!!!! Love yourself first!
Cas kuv pab mob siab rau neb txoj kev hlub ua luaj os. 😢😢😢
Txoj kev tsi muaj me nyuam ma tu siab tsaj li os hmong aws... Kuv tu txiv wb sib yuav tau 10 year wb tsi muaj ma yeej xav tuag lawm xwb ho.. But wb mu2 Dr ce wb twb tau ib tug me ntxhais lawm os muaj nyiaj lo swb muaj me nyuam nawb..nrog tu me niam tsev no tu siab kawg..
Tu mi viv ncau cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab uas luaj li os nrog koj tu siab os mog...
Zaj no tu siab kawg thiag
Wow cas txaus tu siab ua luaj li os......cas ho tsis mus adopts menyuam xwb maj?
Los2 kuas muas li os !!!!
Neb yeej sib hlub tab sis neb siab tsis ncaj. Zoo li neb Cas ho sib nrauj thiab nas
People that have never suffered infertility will never understand the pain us women have to go through and the verbal abuse we get from relatives and mils. A part of this story would have been me but we finally got pregnant after so many years of trying. Praying for better days ahead of you sister.
Ruam dhau. Lub hlwb es ua npaum li tseem nyob nplog teb thaum 1.9.7.5. xwb.
Ua neej nyob es cas yawm saub tsis pub
txhua yam rau yus os tu siab ua luaj , yog koj nyob ua niam loj ces ntshe nws muaj2 menyuam lm mas nws tseem yuav muab koj nrauj pov tseg koj haj yam yuav tu siab tshaj
Pab hlub koj os mi ntshais aw
Yes sister you need to love yourself, you don't need that kind of man to disrespect you. You don't need a man, we woman can do anything. Go live and travel, see the world. Why do you put yourself through this. You're putting yourself through this pain, leave. Don't sell yourself short. This is what is wrong with us Hmong women, we need to be stronger and walk away.
Vuag... nrog koj tu siab os tus niam tsev aw... especially at the funeral scene. Kuv nrog koj quaj. YOG vim li cas koj ho mus yuav lawv tsev neeg thiab na? U should go marry someone far far away.
Cas koj tsis nyob koj twj ywm es niam pog tsis nyiam thiab tus txiv yuav niam yau los yus mus nyob yus es tus txiv mam los xyuas yus xwb zoo dua li koj mus uv niag yawm thaub laus nas
niag pog no ruam heev yus nco yus tus txiv es lam mus yuav lawv tsev hmoob kom pom yus tus txiv xwb tsis txaj muag los tseem yuav rov los yuav niag txiv qub thiab mus mus los los tsis zoo nkauj os
Tsis pom qab hais li os ntuj aw...lwm tiam puas muaj tiag na
tsis muaj lwm tiam lawm os tus me niam tsev aw! tsua yog tiam no xwb os! koj tus niam pog poj dab puas tau tuag na.
Tus niam tsev aw koj tsis tas ntshaw me nyuam li nyob teb chaws no peb cov muaj tej pab me nyuam los peb twb tsis cia siab rau lawv. Yog vim li cas koj thiaj yuav mus tu ib pab me nyuam uas tsis yog koj roj ntsha txhob nkim koj lub zog rau cov me nyuam ntsuag ciaj li koj lawv yeej tsis hlub koj vim lawv niam tseem nyob.
Sad love story
Nyob Mekas teb no lawm es luag ntau ntau los tseem yuav es ruas los ntshe naw.
There is no lawm tiam... if you guys love each other that much then make it happen tiam nov. Why wait?? (Just saying)..
Nib ob niam txiv no ntsusm tshaj npaws nib uas neej ntseeg niam thiab txiv tsi muaj me nyuam lo nyob teb caws no xwb tsi tas muaj me nyuam li
tus phauj aw tsi muaj lwm tiam lawm os sib hlub npaum kom ces kav tsij rov qab los sib yuav xwb mas
Cas hlub neb ua luaj
Don't be sad sister I don't have children too, but i make myself happy and i love myself more than everything😀
I don't know how this sister is thinking but whatever, you need to rethink. You direct your life. Everything doesn't end because you can't have children. You let your mother in-law control your life so you suffered. You need to stand up and think straight. You are your own doom. I don't feel sorry for you because it's your fault you let others walk all over you and you let yourself sit in a situation that you can control. You have a job, you can feed yourself and not rely on nobody. A woman can be successful without a man or child. Sometimes it's a blessing not to have children too.
These story makes me very sad and very mad ..so what if you can’t have kids, at least you guys love each other and if he’s a real man he needs to stand his ground but maybe he doesn’t really love her like he said.
Tos tus tciv yawg nrauj muab ntaus ib xyoo 3 zaug hosbtsis kam nrauj li los vim yawg nrauj QAUS loj tshaj nees thiab khej dub rab lawm thiaj zoo siab ua npuas tiv qws ne
Nws twb tsis yuav yus lawm ces ua ib siab mus tsis tas yuav ntsib nws lawm od
Cas niam zoo li Kuv lub neej thiab os. Kuv tsis muaj menyuam es nws muab Kuv nrauj. Kuv zoo siab Kuv muaj ib tu Mi ntxhais tau yuav sib nrauj. Tu siab kawg li os. Best of luck to you. 😭
Its a tough decision for the son, but his happiness should come first. The son can "divorce" his Mother if she is so evil. Only have kids for the mom is wrong. He is not married to his mom. The son should have a voice and man up!
Believe it or not the mother is right, the men is the one carrying the new generation, they didn't have to get divorces, it was her choice to leave.
This is a hard decision, tbh if you never went through infertility u will never understand, once in my life I was willing to walk out because I didn't want to be selfish with his family wanting children from us and I couldn't at that time. So thankful that we finally got pregnant after so many years of trying. There's nothing in this world a woman with infertility wants more than a child.
Glad things work out for you guys, true I will never understand but I have taken care of widow in same shoe and she never wanted to leave but was forced out by the second wife, I'm more disappointed at the men's that allow women to be hurt by others just because she can't do as others can. It's sad to see women don't love women and men that allow others to hurt what they love but can't protect. All hmoob women are precious but most hmoob men don't see and understand, it's very sad.
Kuv nrog koj tu siab os tus me niam tsev txawm yog kuv los kuv yeej ua ib yam li thov yawm saub pab kom neb los sib tau thaum laus os mog nrog neb tu siab
You should've moved on ... if he truly loves you, he would've stood up to his mother and protected you from his mother 💔
Agree.
Tu siab ua luaj..true luv..🤣😂🤧
Tus Niam tsev thiab tus txiv aw, fab lwm ces yeej tsis muaj li os mog tsuas lam hais kom zoo siab xwb os! Yuav ua zoo, yuav sib hlub, xav tau yam twg, thiab tshaw dab tsi ces yuav tsum ua kom tau tiam xwb mog! Tsis tag li xwb, tus me Niam tsev aw, tsis muaj menyuam los Txhob tu, tu siab os nawb! Muaj ib co neeg lawv twb muaj menyuam los thaum kawg kuj tsis muaj chaw nyob thiab es koj txhob rau txim rau koj tus kheej nyhav 2 nawb! Ib qho ntxiv, tsis muaj menyuam los koj Niam koj txiv nkawv yug koj es nkawv hlub koj heev li es tsis txhob nyob tiv qws li ko lawm os niag txiv yawg nrauj siab phem li ko es nws thiaj tau ua yawg nrauj los mas! Nyob lub teb chaws no lawm tsis txhob ua npua tiv aws li ko os mog! Best luck to you!
Your ex is a mama’s boy. No wonder he couldn’t protect you. If you two really love each other no one can break ur marriage. This story is only from one side.
Koj tus txiv ua tsis taus txiv xwb. Lwm tiam tsis muaj lawm. Kav tsij rau siab ua koj lub neej kom zoo zoo xwb.
Koj nco tus qub txiv ua dab tsi nas .. tsis yog nws niam thiaj tsis xav yuav koj xwb nas ...nws los yeej tsis xav yuav koj thiab.vim koj tsis muaj me nyuam ne ..yog xav yuav koj mas tsis ua li nws niam hais ib zaug li os ... thiab nws yeej tsis yuav poj niam sai sai li 'tawd nas .es koj pheej nco nws ua dab tsi os ...
Twb tsis yog niam nkauj txav qaib nraug txhav noog ces ua siab muab nrauj mus niam nkauj txhav qaib nraug txhav noog twb tso tau yog hlub koj no nyob los zoo tiam sis twb tsis hlub ces ua siab tso mus
Us ib siab tu siab nrho rau koj tus txiv os nawb nws yeej tsis hlub koj es nws thiaj mloog nws niam lawv hais lawm ok yog nws hlub koj tiag ces neb txawm tsis muaj mi nyuam los nws yeej tsis mus yuav dua ib tug li nawb 2 leeg yeej ua neej sib hlub mus kom tag ib sim os
Es twb nyob lub teb chaws no lawm los tseem muaj cov txiv neej uas pheej ntaus poj niam thiab lov...yog hlub ces nyob yog tsis hlub ces muab nrauj es los yuav kuv os...haha
The shame people put on women who are infertile is so despicable. I was infertile for 8 years and I know that pain/struggle all too well. I cried on the way home every time from the obgyn visits because I was there for complications only and I envied all the pregnant women. I'm very lucky to have such a loving husband who loves me and never once made me feel unworthy, but that didn't stop people from being mean to me. I was mocked, made fun of, and belittled by people who were so-called family. I never once stooped down to their level because I never wanted them to have the power to hurt me though. I live by "Life is like a quilt. You sow good things into your life."
Today, I have an almost 7 month old baby boy.
Nyiaj ntau npaum cas lo tsuav cawm tau lub neej xwb ua li cas yuav khuvxim ua luajli. Nrog koj tu siab you would’ve been a good mommy.
Don't feel too sorry 4 not having any kids. Destiny is what it is. Look at the bright side, let say if you were to have kids with your 1st husband , if it was meant you both to leave each other it will happen in a different format. So, you both were to just come to earth built love foundation only. 2nd, Look around u, those who has lots of kids like us and at the end the hubby can't get your attention and the kids jealous of your attention. We ended up with nothing either
So, be happy what u can count and don't count your bad lucks.
Such a sad story.