Luag tham koj tus txiv es twb mob mob koj siab ua licas koj ho mus txib luag tus txiv es ua rau luag mob siab os tus vivncaus, koj tsi muaj cai chim siab ov nawb.
Yog vim li cas peb cov pojniam thiaj yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj es thiaj li yuav sib txeeb txiv? Tos li txiv neej pheej xav muaj niam yau los tim peb cov pojniam phem nkaus nkaus xwb. We look down and step down on one another and we have no empathy. It is so sad.
I will never ever understand the mindset of these women. Men like these are able to do what they do because of women like these. To each their own I guess.
May kuv thov koj hais saib puas muaj leej twg lo ua niam yau es tu siab ib yam li kuv thiab . Kuv tsaug kuv tug txiv thiab nwg tug niam loj tsim kuv los kuv tsi muaj txoj hauv kev tawm li vim kuv tsi muaj tub nyab os
Ua cas poj hmoob mikas es yuav liam ua luaj li mloog tsawg zaj los tib co poj hmoob mikas deev hluas nraug xwb yuav tsum nrauj ua ntej mam deev g lig na poj hmoo aw
Ca zaj no es yuav zoo ib yam li kuv thiab os txhua yam tsi txawv kuv li os kuv lo ua niam yau zoo li ko thiab xwb niaj nub no ces luag yuav mus qhov twg lo luag yeej tsi coj yug li os .kuv xa tau kev pab thiab
Me niam tsev txoj kev ua niam yau ces kuv twb yog kaig hlua2 nkauj 14 Xyoob xwb los luag yeej hlub lg niam loj thaj yus nawb mog xav yuav lub npe zoo es lam nyob xwb ua tej menyuam niam xwb os me vivncau
Don't ever regret for leaving your husband. The mistake you made was dating/marry a married man. You can't expect him to give you all his money or attention. It is up to him to love both of you equally. When you do finally leave him don't jump into another relationship. Stay single. Have fun, travel, heal your heart, and soul. Love yourself and know your worth. No man nor woman worth that much heartache and tears.
Yu's muaj Yu's lub neej es ho tsis yuav .ho tsis Sawm zoo .ho xum mus txeeb luag tus txiv ..cas koj yuav muaj lub siab phem siab dub tshob cuab khib xuab ua luaj li o poj hmoob
Cas hnub no mam sawv koj ntxov los nco txog tias luag tus niam loj yeej Zoo dua no na. Peb cov niam loj yeej yog cov ib txwm Zoo as tsuas yog nej cov niag niam yau ntawm nej es yog niam sau xwb yeej tsis piv peb li os. Tsis muaj hnub peb tus txiv yuav tso peb tseg es lam los yuav nej cov niag lauj kaub Poj ntsuam ntawm nej ib zaug li os. Vim peb cov niam loj no mas yog Nyiaj thiab Kub xwb hos nej cov niag ntsej muag niam yau li nej es ras yog niag txhuas xwb es yuav ua cas piv tau ma
Peb ua neej nyob peb pheej tsis paub hais tias ua Nkauj ua nraug xwb yeej zoo tshaj zoo yam li noj mov cuav zos yeej qab tshaj yog li thaum los sib yuav ntev ces txhua tus yeej muaj sib dhuav. Luag twb tias nyob dhuav tsw quav no ne yog li most people ces thaum tsis pom dej dag siab yeej tsis nqig li yog li thiaj pheej xav tias tus sab nraud nim zoo2 es pheej yuav mus rau tus tshiab tabsis thaum yuam kev lawm ces mam paub li ces lig lawm es peb pheej tsis sawm zoo li es thiaj pheej niaj Hnub muaj tej sab neeg no ua ntu zus li os
Pog no yuamke 6 nws lub neej ntau zaug. Nws tseem muaj nws lub egg tuaj piav thiab. She repeats her footsteps, worse. Yus ua niam yau xwb es yus xav khoom lawv tus txiv tsis work. Lawv yeej tsis nrauj lawv tus niam tsev zoo ib zaug over you.
Zaj dab neeg no ua tau Khib cov pojnom uas nyiam mus thawj Qau. Luag twb tsis tau yuav yus vim li cas koj ho nqa koj lub Nceb mus thawj Luag xyuas . Ua neeg nyob no yog koj nqa Nceb tuaj kuv xyuas ces kuv ham tsis xyuas daws kev nqhis kom txhob tuag tshaib xwb mas.
Koj xav tau lawv tus txiv ces koj twb tau lawm ces cia li zoo siab...be content.....txhob mus txeeb luag lub neej thiab pob nyiaj os. Yog koj xav muaj lub neej thiab muaj nyiaj ces koj yuav tau khwv ntawm koj ob txhais tes nawb koj thiaj li saib taus koj tus kheej.
Me niam laus lawv los txeeb koj tus txiv es koj twb mob siab ne ua cas koj ho mus txeeb lawv tus txiv os koj txhob tu siab o vim yog tim koj xwb nb xav kom zoo2 es mam chim 6 koj tus txiv thiab niam loj mog
Yus twb yeej pom pom zoo mas li yuav nas yus yeej lees txhua yam ua ntej yuav nas ces txhob mus hais lo lus tias koj ua tsis taus txiv no rau lawv mas. Ntuj aw Ab cas pab koj txaj muag ua luaj
Nothing to learn here. Leave one cheating husband for another cheating husband. Stop blaming the first wife and the husband. Be accountable for your bad choices. Can't listen to any more of this story.
Cas koj lub siab yuav phem ua luaj li koj txeeb luag tug los koj tseem xav kom tus txiv hlub koj 1 leeg xwb tos koj tus txiv qub tsi kk koj los koj yeej siab phem o yog koj xav kom txhua yam yog koj li ces koj mus yuav yawg nrauj xwb mas
Don't feel bad for neither decision you've made. Not your fault to started of with. I don't blame you, but for me i won't be the 2nd wife. Pain in the butt. Imply to me only: if my husband cheat, i won't stay, if i do stay...i will cheat and look for another man and will not regret my decision whether if its good or bad. Find peace for yourself. Why suffer, Hmong women? Don't be stupid when you're a good person and did what you could. Don't blame yourself when that decision goes wrong after you've divorced. Its only a 50/50 % chance of good & bad.
Koj yog ib tus poj niam siab phem lim hiam tshaj nplaws li. Koj mus txeeb lawv tus txiv koj tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj cem nws tus niam loj rau teb chaw noog thiab vim nws tus txiv hlub neb ib yam. Koj lub siab mas koj xav kom koj tus txiv ko tsim nws tus niam loj es hlub koj thiab muab lub neej rau koj tswj kav tag tsho koj siab phem li ko khiav mus yuav dua lwm tus txiv.
Txhob rau txim rau koj tus kheej tag tag vim peb cov txiv dev hmoob no xav tau ntau xwb. Koj niag txiv dev ua ntej Los yeej xuab koj niag txiv dev Tom qab no Los yeej xuab.
She didn't learn any lesson. She's just very hungry for men. Women like her enable men to cheat and practice polygamy. She's just as bad as her 2 lousy husbands. You stole her husband and you think you have the rights to "tu siab"? Xav uas niam yaus ces ua siab ntev xwb lawm mas pog ruam!
Cov poj niam no mad... cas ntxim muab xa rov mus nplog teb xwb. Tsis tsim nyog tau tuaj nyob miskas teb li es. Ua peb hmoob miskas poob npe tag li lawm os. Mus ua niam yau los tseem khuv xim tsis ua niam loj. Ub..hlwb rwj npaum li cas diam na? Es ob tug txiv neej ntawd thiaj txawj nchos pog xwb los cas lau? Tus txij nkawm uas nqa qau mus tsij lwm tus poj niam or mus nrhab rau lwm tus txiv neej lawm ces lawb/cuam pov tseg tsis muaj lub uv li lawm hod... Tsuas muaj cov poj niam tsis puv 100 nod thiaj tseem khuv xim qhov tsis uv xwb. Tos lawv cov txiv tsuj lawv los lawv txhua tus yeej coj niag cwj pwm tsis meej pem li ntawd es.
Thaum yus tus txiv tham tham hluas nkauj es twb mob mob yus siab. Yus nrauj tag los ua poj nrauj es yus ho mus txeeb luag tus txiv yuav es mus ua tus niam loj mob siab. Ruam dhau lawm os!
May aw.. cas tau ib ntus no Es koj yuav hais neej neeg tau lub suab nkees nkees tas zog ua rau peb mloog kiag xwb ces Peb twb nkees lawm Es koj puas ok na
When you already know he is married and continue to go on with the relationship with him you are not a good woman!! Your just as bad as your ex husband. Have some respect for yourself and find someone who is not married to start with!! This is the reason men look down on women! Because of desperate women like this lady!
Thank you for telling your story sister. But why would you leave your cheating husband to marry another woman's husband? You already know how the pain feels. Why would you do the same thing to another woman? Women like you give other honest divorcees a bad name.
Its your hubbys fault. Mental abuse can drive a person to insanity. It is hard when you are on that road of emptiness. Easy for others to judge until they are on the same road as you. Keep your head up.
Some Hmong women never change their mentality-*shaking my head* these kind of women make the strong women look bad! Tus sister, hloov siab hloov ntsws ma!
Tus niam tais aw cas yus tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj twb mob yus siab es yus ho yuav mus tham luag tej txiv thiab nas? Koj mas vwm thiab siab phem tiag tiag li lau
I don't understand why this lady is telling her story. Is she expecting people to 👏👏 for her for her behavior. Geesh! This is America and you still want to be a niam yau, is that all you're worth? This is what happen when you don't know your worth. You are just as bad as your husband.
Totally agree with you! Didn’t she said her ex husband is a cheater that’s why she’s so heartbroken and decided to divorced? But then go and destroyed someone’s else marriage. I hate bitch like this.
@@awalktoremember9857 this pisses me off. Doesn't she see that this is super bad for her children to see. What kind of role model is she to her children? Stop being so desperate and fight for one jerk. 😡😡
You have the audacity to complain when you are a home wrecker. 99% of people will not have an ounce of sympathy for you. Trash will be treated as trash. You're vary fortunate your niam loj let you live with her, I wouldn't be able to stand the look of your face and your presence would remind me of what evil looks like.
Woman you know he have a wife but you chose him so stop complaining. Koj twb mus txeeb nws tus txiv es koj tseem muaj plus kom nws hlub koj dua. Koj lub neej puas vim koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj tab sis koj sib nrauj tag koj tseem txhob txwm mus txeeb lawv tus txiv es tseem muaj plus hais tias nws ua tsis tau txiv ..koj lub tswv yim mas haj yam phem tseem xav kom nws nrauj nws tus poj niam mas koj thiaj txaus siab, siab phem kawg nawb koj nas.
Ntuj Aw.... Ua cas es Koj Yuav ntshaw ua niam yau ua luaj li ces kav tsij uv xwb mas niam loj yog luag lub neej ua ntej muaj me Tub me nyuam nas Koj tsuas nros Koj pheej ntshaw2 niag txiv ntawd ne..
Sister, you have to learn to love, respect, take care and put yourself first because all those years that you were stayed with your ex husband, you have put all that into your husband and children and you did not know how to love, respect, take care, and put yourself first before anyone.
If you feel so sorry and he does love you just pack your stuffs and leave. There are still plenty of good men out there u just have to search for the right one.
Peb covpoj niam Los tsis txhob ruam thiab mas yuav tsum tswj nej kom tus mas lub neej thiaj tsis puas peb poj niam tsis txhob muab peb lub cov rau lwavsiv ua si meb nej pheej yig dhau lawm ne
I dislike it when they tried to blame on the love potion. Oh please 🙄 2nd wife she's hiding something that's why the man preferred the 1st wife. Usually hmong men favorite the 2nd wife??? Stop being desperate for other people's husband 😒
Koj xav hais tias koj mus ua lawv tus niam yau es lawv yuav tso txhua yam rau koj no, Yus txaus yus siab mus ua lawv niam yau ces lawv pub li cas yus tau li ntawv.
Yog koj twb txaus siab ua niam yau ces kav tsij nyoog luag tus niam koj nawb. Hos yog nrauj tus no lawm ces ua zoo xav ua zoo xaiv es txhob ua niam yau lawn mog. Vim koj mus ntshiam lwm yus poj niam lub siab lub ntshaws ntshe tswvntuj yuav tsis zam txim rau koj. Ntshe koj lub neej yuav tsuas muaj ntshaw luag tus txiv mus tag ib sim xwb os. Peb cov poj niam hmoob thov peb txawj sib hlub es koj mus tsawb lwm tus poj niam tus txiv es peb siav thiaj ntev nawb mog.
Tus niam tsev txhob tu siab tsi tim leejtwg yog tim koj tus kheej xwb koj twb paub koj tus qub txiv tham hluas nkauj koj uv tsi taus koj thiaj nrauj cas koj tseem los txeeb luag tus txiv thiab peb twb nyob lub tebchaw vam meej lawm tsi tas yuav ua niam hlob niam yau li os.
Omg this story gives me anxiety. It's like all men had died and he is the only one so she has to marry him smh. This lady went thru the same bullshit, left her marriage to just be a home wrecker. I mean she already know how it feels so why. After knowing he is married and still continue because again she is so desperate and he is the only man.
@@maipha8560 OMG.... yesss. She is absolutely desperate that despite what she went through she couldn't let go of a married man and want to be a niam yau. Its like know your worth. Love yourself enough that if you left a horrible marriage that the next one you will do better and be happier. Instead she is a miserable niam yau. Pab tsis tau people with this mind set and especially to settle as 2nd.
How about love yourself and depend on yourself? We live in America where some women are making more money than the men...to hell with what anyone says about you. I’m never going to put up with cheating ever again and if a man is intimidated by my strength, then he wasn’t the guy for me anyway. Hmong men only spread rumors and lie about women because they can’t have them!
This is why divorced Hmong women get bad reputations. But I can guarantee that most divorcée are not like her. Once we know a guy has a wife, it’s over. No ifs, ands or buts about it.
yahookv15 amen! I know a lot of good Hmong women who left their marriage and in their dating game they get slandered by men who can’t get into their pants all the time. It’s annoying and it does contribute to the stigma of the “bad divorced women” in our community.
Lady, I hope you learn how to respect yourself. Because if you don’t, most ppl will not take you seriously and you will get taken advantage of in the end.
Ua neeg nyob muaj tej tug pojniam ruam2 li ko thiab ntshaw2 kev hlub es mus txeeb luag tug los ua yug tug ces kawg tau ua dev zov quav li ko thaum twg luag noj tag seem ces mam mus noj li ko thiaj tsim nyog qhov koj ntshaw2 es mus thov ua lawv tus dev hnia ntxhiab li ko pab hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb os
Ntuj nis hmoob aw, cas nej twb tuaj nyob lub tebchaws vammeej los tseem pheej ua lub neej niam hlob niam yau li puag tim Nplogteb naj? Tib tus txiv ko thiaj yog txivneej xwb lov?
Truthfully, yes, cheating stories are depressing but they are dramatic. I dont listen to the good loving stories. Its boring and sounds like they brag too much.
Whenever there is a loving story, ppl will say it’s fake or called the man a simp. I don’t get bitter betties these days, but I’d take a healthy love story over the cheating ones any day.
We, hmong women should say, "no " to ua niam yaus. No matter how in love u are with him already. Rather hurt now then later. He is no good, if he can lie to his 1st he will to you too because u are his toy only. Please! You all probably think it's easy 4 me since I am not in your shoes. Will I been there & done that! I survived. After 1 year into a relationship & found out he is married, good bye my love.
Ntuj Aw niag maum dev Poj nrauj Aw cas kj yuav ntshaw luag pob ua luaj me Niam loj twb hais tias kj xav2 los ua nws tus niam yau mam saib saib seb kj nyiaj puas taus no ne kj tus maum dev ko twb coj tsis tus nws tsuas yuav kj Raws lo Li qhov kj ntshaw2 nws niag maum dev Li kj es yuav ua cas piv tau luag tus Niam tsev na kj xav kom nws nrauj niam loj ntshe kj npau suav nruab hnub pob cas yuav pab kj txaj muaj rau kj txoj kev xav kom nrauj Niam loj ua luaj os poj hmoob.
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Ruam
Oh yo koj ces yuav kev loj lau..
Okay kawg lawv tus poj niam .
😂😂😂😂😂
Tu siab ua dab g niag pog lim hiam
Txiv neej siab phem xav tau ntau tus poj niam li koj txhob yuav lawm os Yus nyob Yus zoo lawm os hlub Koj tus kheej os
How are you going to do exactly what hurts you to someone else? I can't stand hypocrites and liars. 🤦🏻♀️
Tus pog no mas xav take over luag lub neej kawg
Tim txhua tus li os. Yus twb mag luag ua kom mob siab los tseem ua lawv tus poj niam mob thiab
Ua Niam yau ces lub hwj chim qis li qis tshaw 1 lub neej ces yuav tug kav tug xwb
Tsis txaj muag cas tseem tuaj tham thiab Lau. Txeeb luag Tim txiv xwb os.
Vuag poj niam hmoob siab cool ces mag lawm muab sua tu siab dhau me nkaujhmoob aw
Luag tham koj tus txiv es twb mob mob koj siab ua licas koj ho mus txib luag tus txiv es ua rau luag mob siab os tus vivncaus, koj tsi muaj cai chim siab ov nawb.
Poj niam lub Siab Yeej muag muag li no thiabyiam lo lus qhuas tias you are beautiful: I love you
Tshuaj ntxhws quav dev. Yus fav siab xwb os.
Khaus pim xwb os cov poj niam no na
Homewercker
Yog vim li cas peb cov pojniam thiaj yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj es thiaj li yuav sib txeeb txiv? Tos li txiv neej pheej xav muaj niam yau los tim peb cov pojniam phem nkaus nkaus xwb. We look down and step down on one another and we have no empathy. It is so sad.
I will never ever understand the mindset of these women. Men like these are able to do what they do because of women like these. To each their own I guess.
Koj yeej tsis zoo npaum koj tus niam loj, koj tus txiv tsuas yuav koj saum txaj saum chaws xwb qhov no ces twb yog kev hlub lawm los mas vim koj twb xaiv mus uas niam yaus.
May kuv thov koj hais saib puas muaj leej twg lo ua niam yau es tu siab ib yam li kuv thiab . Kuv tsaug kuv tug txiv thiab nwg tug niam loj tsim kuv los kuv tsi muaj txoj hauv kev tawm li vim kuv tsi muaj tub nyab os
Ua cas poj hmoob mikas es yuav liam ua luaj li mloog tsawg zaj los tib co poj hmoob mikas deev hluas nraug xwb yuav tsum nrauj ua ntej mam deev g lig na poj hmoo aw
Cas tus viv ncaus no es yuav ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm thiab lau 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Ca zaj no es yuav zoo ib yam li kuv thiab os txhua yam tsi txawv kuv li os kuv lo ua niam yau zoo li ko thiab xwb niaj nub no ces luag yuav mus qhov twg lo luag yeej tsi coj yug li os .kuv xa tau kev pab thiab
Qhaug qau xwb niam yog qhauv quav na koj twb tsis noj quav noj qau xwb ne koj mos nws xwb los hos niam tias nws mos koj
Luag tej ces khiav nab ntsib qav hos koj ces khiav qav mus ntsib nab
Koj paub tu siab tabsis koj twb ua rau koj tus niamloj tusiab thiab. Koj twb raug koj tus txiv tsim koj tabsis koj tseem mus nrog niam loj tus txiv tsim niam loj. Ua ib tug pojniam yus nyob yus yeej tau kawg tsis tas koj yuav mus thawj tus ub tus no, hajyam ua rau koj puas koob npe loj xwb. Kuv ntseeg tias koj yeej yog ib tug niam tsev zoo tabsis vim koj lub siab muag nrhau lawm xwb koj thiaj muaj tej xwm txheej no. Txij no mus txhob mus ua niam yau, txhob cias ib tug txiv neej dag koj thiab ntxia koj ntxiv lawm mog.
Kav tsij ua hmoob tus niam yau twj ywm xwb nawb! Vim tus poj niam muaj lub koob deev hluas lawm ceeb laj nrhiav tau txiv.
Me niam tsev txoj kev ua niam yau ces kuv twb yog kaig hlua2 nkauj 14 Xyoob xwb los luag yeej hlub lg niam loj thaj yus nawb mog xav yuav lub npe zoo es lam nyob xwb ua tej menyuam niam xwb os me vivncau
Don't ever regret for leaving your husband. The mistake you made was dating/marry a married man. You can't expect him to give you all his money or attention. It is up to him to love both of you equally.
When you do finally leave him don't jump into another relationship. Stay single. Have fun, travel, heal your heart, and soul. Love yourself and know your worth.
No man nor woman worth that much heartache and tears.
Yu's muaj Yu's lub neej es ho tsis yuav .ho tsis Sawm zoo .ho xum mus txeeb luag tus txiv ..cas koj yuav muaj lub siab phem siab dub tshob cuab khib xuab ua luaj li o poj hmoob
Haha poj niam tsis saws zoo ces yog koj tsis txhob tus siab vim yus neeg ruam
Sister...kov tus txiv thib ib thib ob thib peb yeej tsis zoo tag tus...tabsis qhov teeb meem yog koj. Koj tsis hlub koj tus kheej. Koj tsis saib koj tus kheej muaj nqi...koj thiaj li ntshib cov txiv neej phem zoo tib yam xwb. Hnub thws koj paub hlub koj thiaj saib koj tus kheej muaj nqi lawm tsis muaj ib tus tij neeg thws ua tau phem rau koj.
Cas hnub no mam sawv koj ntxov los nco txog tias luag tus niam loj yeej Zoo dua no na. Peb cov niam loj yeej yog cov ib txwm Zoo as tsuas yog nej cov niag niam yau ntawm nej es yog niam sau xwb yeej tsis piv peb li os. Tsis muaj hnub peb tus txiv yuav tso peb tseg es lam los yuav nej cov niag lauj kaub Poj ntsuam ntawm nej ib zaug li os. Vim peb cov niam loj no mas yog Nyiaj thiab Kub xwb hos nej cov niag ntsej muag niam yau li nej es ras yog niag txhuas xwb es yuav ua cas piv tau ma
Peb ua neej nyob peb pheej tsis paub hais tias ua Nkauj ua nraug xwb yeej zoo tshaj zoo yam li noj mov cuav zos yeej qab tshaj yog li thaum los sib yuav ntev ces txhua tus yeej muaj sib dhuav. Luag twb tias nyob dhuav tsw quav no ne yog li most people ces thaum tsis pom dej dag siab yeej tsis nqig li yog li thiaj pheej xav tias tus sab nraud nim zoo2 es pheej yuav mus rau tus tshiab tabsis thaum yuam kev lawm ces mam paub li ces lig lawm es peb pheej tsis sawm zoo li es thiaj pheej niaj Hnub muaj tej sab neeg no ua ntu zus li os
Pog no yuamke 6 nws lub neej ntau zaug. Nws tseem muaj nws lub egg tuaj piav thiab. She repeats her footsteps, worse. Yus ua niam yau xwb es yus xav khoom lawv tus txiv tsis work. Lawv yeej tsis nrauj lawv tus niam tsev zoo ib zaug over you.
Xyov koj pos muaj siab muaj ntsws. Yog muaj no koj yuav tsis tu siab thiab ua siab coob. Koj yog ib tug poj niam nqhis txiv neej teev qaub ncaug iab thiab lub hws ntsim es thaum kawg koj thiaj tau haus ob tug txiv dev ntawd teev qaub ncaug thiab nkawv cov hws. Koj nrauj txiv tsis muaj hom phiaj tsis muaj zeem muag ces zoo li ko. Txhob tib tias niam muaj tshuaj ua rau koj vwm.. yog muaj tiag.. ces tus dev ntawd twb tsis ua nraug nrab.. koj tsuas nros koj txoj kev nqhis xwb.
Zaj dab neeg no ua tau Khib cov pojnom uas nyiam mus thawj Qau. Luag twb tsis tau yuav yus vim li cas koj ho nqa koj lub Nceb mus thawj Luag xyuas . Ua neeg nyob no yog koj nqa Nceb tuaj kuv xyuas ces kuv ham tsis xyuas daws kev nqhis kom txhob tuag tshaib xwb mas.
Tu siab for what? Yus tws paub tias lawm muaj niam loj es yus tsis nyob twm ywm, tseem mus yuav lawm tus txiv thiab..... nim qhuas ntxim xwb mas... tseem paub tu siab thiab.
Koj xav tau lawv tus txiv ces koj twb tau lawm ces cia li zoo siab...be content.....txhob mus txeeb luag lub neej thiab pob nyiaj os. Yog koj xav muaj lub neej thiab muaj nyiaj ces koj yuav tau khwv ntawm koj ob txhais tes nawb koj thiaj li saib taus koj tus kheej.
Me niam laus lawv los txeeb koj tus txiv es koj twb mob siab ne ua cas koj ho mus txeeb lawv tus txiv os koj txhob tu siab o vim yog tim koj xwb nb xav kom zoo2 es mam chim 6 koj tus txiv thiab niam loj mog
Ruam dhau os koj tos raug tsim os!! Txhob coj tuaj hais ua peb ntshav siab os!!! 😡😡qau tsis tag rau niag txiv dev li ko!!
Koj tus txiv ua hluas xwb koj twb chim ua cas koj tseem mus yuav kiag lawv tus txiv koj siab phem heev.
Yog lm nb
Thx 4 telling ur story here but I don't feel sorry 4 u at all. Ur hurting another women's life.
Yus twb yeej pom pom zoo mas li yuav nas yus yeej lees txhua yam ua ntej yuav nas ces txhob mus hais lo lus tias koj ua tsis taus txiv no rau lawv mas. Ntuj aw Ab cas pab koj txaj muag ua luaj
Txhob muab yus tus kheej saib qis2 mas. Tsis muaj txiv yeej tsis tuag ib zaug li nas.
Tej laus hais tias niam txiv sib ceg tas tsis nrauj txag ... cia koj tus txiv dev ua xwb vim puas tsuas yog nws xwb tsis yog koj. Yog koj mus ua twv nws thiab tseem heev tshaj nws lawm ces koj yeej phem thiab tsuas yog koj qhov phem los tsis tau txog xwb. Ua siab ntev yus yeej tsis tuag qau thiab kev hlub nco ntsoov yog koj mus ua lawm ces koj yeej phem heev thiab. Nrog tus niam tsev no txaj muag vim nws txoj kev ruam.
Nothing to learn here. Leave one cheating husband for another cheating husband. Stop blaming the first wife and the husband. Be accountable for your bad choices.
Can't listen to any more of this story.
Cas koj lub siab yuav phem ua luaj li koj txeeb luag tug los koj tseem xav kom tus txiv hlub koj 1 leeg xwb tos koj tus txiv qub tsi kk koj los koj yeej siab phem o yog koj xav kom txhua yam yog koj li ces koj mus yuav yawg nrauj xwb mas
Don't feel bad for neither decision you've made. Not your fault to started of with. I don't blame you, but for me i won't be the 2nd wife. Pain in the butt.
Imply to me only: if my husband cheat, i won't stay, if i do stay...i will cheat and look for another man and will not regret my decision whether if its good or bad.
Find peace for yourself. Why suffer, Hmong women? Don't be stupid when you're a good person and did what you could. Don't blame yourself when that decision goes wrong after you've divorced. Its only a 50/50 % chance of good & bad.
Koj yog ib tus poj niam siab phem lim hiam tshaj nplaws li. Koj mus txeeb lawv tus txiv koj tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj cem nws tus niam loj rau teb chaw noog thiab vim nws tus txiv hlub neb ib yam. Koj lub siab mas koj xav kom koj tus txiv ko tsim nws tus niam loj es hlub koj thiab muab lub neej rau koj tswj kav tag tsho koj siab phem li ko khiav mus yuav dua lwm tus txiv.
Txhob rau txim rau koj tus kheej tag tag vim peb cov txiv dev hmoob no xav tau ntau xwb. Koj niag txiv dev ua ntej Los yeej xuab koj niag txiv dev Tom qab no Los yeej xuab.
Ca kj yuav vam ua luaj o luag tus niam loj zoo txaus lawm luag thiaj g nrauj es kj tseem xav kom luag xaiv kj thiab na has ruam ua luaj
She didn't learn any lesson. She's just very hungry for men. Women like her enable men to cheat and practice polygamy. She's just as bad as her 2 lousy husbands. You stole her husband and you think you have the rights to "tu siab"? Xav uas niam yaus ces ua siab ntev xwb lawm mas pog ruam!
Cov poj niam no mad... cas ntxim muab xa rov mus nplog teb xwb. Tsis tsim nyog tau tuaj nyob miskas teb li es. Ua peb hmoob miskas poob npe tag li lawm os.
Mus ua niam yau los tseem khuv xim tsis ua niam loj. Ub..hlwb rwj npaum li cas diam na? Es ob tug txiv neej ntawd thiaj txawj nchos pog xwb los cas lau?
Tus txij nkawm uas nqa qau mus tsij lwm tus poj niam or mus nrhab rau lwm tus txiv neej lawm ces lawb/cuam pov tseg tsis muaj lub uv li lawm hod...
Tsuas muaj cov poj niam tsis puv 100 nod thiaj tseem khuv xim qhov tsis uv xwb. Tos lawv cov txiv tsuj lawv los lawv txhua tus yeej coj niag cwj pwm tsis meej pem li ntawd es.
Thaum yus tus txiv tham tham hluas nkauj es twb mob mob yus siab. Yus nrauj tag los ua poj nrauj es yus ho mus txeeb luag tus txiv yuav es mus ua tus niam loj mob siab. Ruam dhau lawm os!
Tshuaj ntxhw muaj kawg. Ib leeg muaj ib qhov luaj 3 nti thiab 1 taus tsa xoo.
Zoo heev
May aw.. cas tau ib ntus no Es koj yuav hais neej neeg tau lub suab nkees nkees tas zog ua rau peb mloog kiag xwb ces Peb twb nkees lawm Es koj puas ok na
Koj yeej yog ib niag maum dev liam khaus pim tshaj plaws. Neeg txub poj nraug vim yog cov maum dev khaus pim liam li koj es tseem yuav muab koj lub qe tsw tsw lwj tuaj piav thiab os.
Tus pog no ces ua maum nkais thab sub. This lady has no priority. She throws herself at these mens.
Cas tus me niam tsev ruam no tseem yuav muab tuaj hais kom cov niag txiv tsev tham2 hluas nkauj thiab ua2 hluas muaj2 plhus thiab lau
When you already know he is married and continue to go on with the relationship with him you are not a good woman!! Your just as bad as your ex husband. Have some respect for yourself and find someone who is not married to start with!! This is the reason men look down on women! Because of desperate women like this lady!
Thank you for telling your story sister. But why would you leave your cheating husband to marry another woman's husband? You already know how the pain feels. Why would you do the same thing to another woman? Women like you give other honest divorcees a bad name.
Its your hubbys fault. Mental abuse can drive a person to insanity. It is hard when you are on that road of emptiness. Easy for others to judge until they are on the same road as you. Keep your head up.
Hmoob yus twb khib2 yus tus txiv es txhob mus txeeb kom tau lawv tus los rau yus ib leeg maj lov....
Some Hmong women never change their mentality-*shaking my head* these kind of women make the strong women look bad! Tus sister, hloov siab hloov ntsws ma!
Tus niam tais aw cas yus tus txiv mus tham hluas nkauj twb mob yus siab es yus ho yuav mus tham luag tej txiv thiab nas? Koj mas vwm thiab siab phem tiag tiag li lau
I don't understand why this lady is telling her story. Is she expecting people to 👏👏 for her for her behavior. Geesh! This is America and you still want to be a niam yau, is that all you're worth? This is what happen when you don't know your worth. You are just as bad as your husband.
Totally agree with you! Didn’t she said her ex husband is a cheater that’s why she’s so heartbroken and decided to divorced? But then go and destroyed someone’s else marriage. I hate bitch like this.
A Walk to Remember I know I agree with you two too
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@@awalktoremember9857 this pisses me off. Doesn't she see that this is super bad for her children to see. What kind of role model is she to her children? Stop being so desperate and fight for one jerk. 😡😡
No ones fault but your own. You are picking all the wrong men. 🤷🏻♀️
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You have the audacity to complain when you are a home wrecker. 99% of people will not have an ounce of sympathy for you. Trash will be treated as trash. You're vary fortunate your niam loj let you live with her, I wouldn't be able to stand the look of your face and your presence would remind me of what evil looks like.
I can’t stand women who’s so desperate for men! Just be celibate geesh!
She can't. She's really thirsty for men.
Some women act like they're going to die without a man in their life. Why suffer with all this pain when you can live at peace on your own?
I feel the same way!
Woman you know he have a wife but you chose him so stop complaining. Koj twb mus txeeb nws tus txiv es koj tseem muaj plus kom nws hlub koj dua. Koj lub neej puas vim koj tus txiv tham hluas nkauj tab sis koj sib nrauj tag koj tseem txhob txwm mus txeeb lawv tus txiv es tseem muaj plus hais tias nws ua tsis tau txiv ..koj lub tswv yim mas haj yam phem tseem xav kom nws nrauj nws tus poj niam mas koj thiaj txaus siab, siab phem kawg nawb koj nas.
Ntuj Aw.... Ua cas es Koj Yuav ntshaw ua niam yau ua luaj li ces kav tsij uv xwb mas niam loj yog luag lub neej ua ntej muaj me Tub me nyuam nas Koj tsuas nros Koj pheej ntshaw2 niag txiv ntawd ne..
Nyiam qhuav ntxim xwb os. Koj yog ib niag poj niam siab phem es thiaj mus txeeb lwm tus lub neej.
Txiv neej tag ler lo yuav uv liko ces uv u tus txiv xwb ma hlwb npua
Sister, you have to learn to love, respect, take care and put yourself first because all those years that you were stayed with your ex husband, you have put all that into your husband and children and you did not know how to love, respect, take care, and put yourself first before anyone.
Poj niam yeej g hlub poj niam li tiag tog pọ niam pheej ủa pọ nrauj coob npaum ko na
Wow used car are good sometimes ! Used Hmong women and Hmong men hmm mostly bad.
If you feel so sorry and he does love you just pack your stuffs and leave. There are still plenty of good men out there u just have to search for the right one.
Peb covpoj niam Los tsis txhob ruam thiab mas yuav tsum tswj nej kom tus mas lub neej thiaj tsis puas peb poj niam tsis txhob muab peb lub cov rau lwavsiv ua si meb nej pheej yig dhau lawm ne
Never regret 2 get out of spot 2nd wife. No need to be any man 2nd. . . . better live one by one
I dislike it when they tried to blame on the love potion. Oh please 🙄 2nd wife she's hiding something that's why the man preferred the 1st wife. Usually hmong men favorite the 2nd wife??? Stop being desperate for other people's husband 😒
Poj niam li koj ko ces ntxim li nó tiag ủa cas yuav cia siab rau tú sảb nraug tshaj yus tus qub txiv thiab yus pab me nguam zoo li koj ces g ris siab
Koj xav hais tias koj mus ua lawv tus niam yau es lawv yuav tso txhua yam rau koj no, Yus txaus yus siab mus ua lawv niam yau ces lawv pub li cas yus tau li ntawv.
Yog koj twb txaus siab ua niam yau ces kav tsij nyoog luag tus niam koj nawb. Hos yog nrauj tus no lawm ces ua zoo xav ua zoo xaiv es txhob ua niam yau lawn mog. Vim koj mus ntshiam lwm yus poj niam lub siab lub ntshaws ntshe tswvntuj yuav tsis zam txim rau koj. Ntshe koj lub neej yuav tsuas muaj ntshaw luag tus txiv mus tag ib sim xwb os. Peb cov poj niam hmoob thov peb txawj sib hlub es koj mus tsawb lwm tus poj niam tus txiv es peb siav thiaj ntev nawb mog.
Don't lecture us when you are a homewrecker! I hate women who knowingly go after another woman's man.
Exactly! I hope she see all our messages
@@awalktoremember9857 Even if she does, she won't listen, which is how she got herself in this predicament.
Tus niam tsev txhob tu siab tsi tim leejtwg yog tim koj tus kheej xwb koj twb paub koj tus qub txiv tham hluas nkauj koj uv tsi taus koj thiaj nrauj cas koj tseem los txeeb luag tus txiv thiab peb twb nyob lub tebchaw vam meej lawm tsi tas yuav ua niam hlob niam yau li os.
Omg this story gives me anxiety. It's like all men had died and he is the only one so she has to marry him smh. This lady went thru the same bullshit, left her marriage to just be a home wrecker. I mean she already know how it feels so why. After knowing he is married and still continue because again she is so desperate and he is the only man.
This lady behavior is one if the reason why some men don't respect women. Stop being so desperate!!
@@maipha8560 OMG.... yesss. She is absolutely desperate that despite what she went through she couldn't let go of a married man and want to be a niam yau. Its like know your worth. Love yourself enough that if you left a horrible marriage that the next one you will do better and be happier. Instead she is a miserable niam yau. Pab tsis tau people with this mind set and especially to settle as 2nd.
How about love yourself and depend on yourself? We live in America where some women are making more money than the men...to hell with what anyone says about you. I’m never going to put up with cheating ever again and if a man is intimidated by my strength, then he wasn’t the guy for me anyway. Hmong men only spread rumors and lie about women because they can’t have them!
she's the type of women that NEEDS a man 24/7 so she will always settle for the same type of men.
This is why divorced Hmong women get bad reputations. But I can guarantee that most divorcée are not like her. Once we know a guy has a wife, it’s over. No ifs, ands or buts about it.
yahookv15 amen! I know a lot of good Hmong women who left their marriage and in their dating game they get slandered by men who can’t get into their pants all the time. It’s annoying and it does contribute to the stigma of the “bad divorced women” in our community.
Lady, I hope you learn how to respect yourself. Because if you don’t, most ppl will not take you seriously and you will get taken advantage of in the end.
Ua neeg nyob muaj tej tug pojniam ruam2 li ko thiab ntshaw2 kev hlub es mus txeeb luag tug los ua yug tug ces kawg tau ua dev zov quav li ko thaum twg luag noj tag seem ces mam mus noj li ko thiaj tsim nyog qhov koj ntshaw2 es mus thov ua lawv tus dev hnia ntxhiab li ko pab hlub koj cov me nyuam xwb os
Ntuj nis hmoob aw, cas nej twb tuaj nyob lub tebchaws vammeej los tseem pheej ua lub neej niam hlob niam yau li puag tim Nplogteb naj? Tib tus txiv ko thiaj yog txivneej xwb lov?
Niag ntsejmuag pojniam Hmoob ruam.
Omg too many stories of cheating. Let’s have more happy loving stories pls
Truthfully, yes, cheating stories are depressing but they are dramatic. I dont listen to the good loving stories. Its boring and sounds like they brag too much.
Whenever there is a loving story, ppl will say it’s fake or called the man a simp. I don’t get bitter betties these days, but I’d take a healthy love story over the cheating ones any day.
We, hmong women should say, "no " to ua niam yaus. No matter how in love u are with him already. Rather hurt now then later. He is no good, if he can lie to his 1st he will to you too because u are his toy only. Please! You all probably think it's easy 4 me since I am not in your shoes. Will I been there & done that! I survived. After 1 year into a relationship & found out he is married, good bye my love.
Cov poj niam uas ruam2 qaug2 quav raug dag yooj2 yim ces kawg ua niam yau lawm xwb tsis tau ua tug kav tug lawm ham yam mob siab
You know he’s a married man but still wanna continues......I can’t help it. Find your own man and start a new life. Leave!
Ntuj Aw niag maum dev Poj nrauj Aw cas kj yuav ntshaw luag pob ua luaj me
Niam loj twb hais tias kj xav2 los ua nws tus niam yau mam saib saib seb kj nyiaj puas taus no ne kj tus maum dev ko twb coj tsis tus nws tsuas yuav kj Raws lo Li qhov kj ntshaw2 nws niag maum dev Li kj es yuav ua cas piv tau luag tus Niam tsev na kj xav kom nws nrauj niam loj ntshe kj npau suav nruab hnub pob cas yuav pab kj txaj muaj rau kj txoj kev xav kom nrauj Niam loj ua luaj os poj hmoob.