i lived your jobless fantasy for 9 months... here's how it went
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0:00 - i’m an anthropologist of unemployed peoples
2:23 - phase 00
4:50 - phase 01
8:00 - phase 02
13:08 - phase 03
15:45 - phase 04
19:15 - phase 05
22:18 - phase 06
24:51 - phase 07
26:53 - why care
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Imagine if we only had to work 15 hours a week like they predicted in the 70's.
It’s definitely possible if you freelance but freelancing isn’t for everyone :/
Imagine if capitalism died
Sounds like a dystopia
@@lowwastehighmelanin well there's always communist Russia, China, and Cuba
Hopefully we will do this with the AI revolution but my little finger is telling me that we'll all choose for the sweet, sweet money
I did this for three years when my mom died and left me a sizeable amount of money 26 years ago. It’s given me the oxygen I needed to keep going in my career. I have a good 10-14 years left before I can retire with a pension (lucky one, I know). But that pretirement allowed me to set up a lifestyle of travel, art, self knowledge, and frequent goal setting that keeps me fresh.
Oh, and the one thing I’ve been putting off is sending my memoir query letter to my editor/wife so I can get that submitted to publishers.
Everyone needs this I am SO happy for you that's amazing
I am 3000% interested in being a future test subject for your research 😅
OMG SAME! I’ve gotten a small inheritance (small in SF Bay Area terms) that’s allowed me to take a break from working stress free, and given me the energy, clarity, and motivation to think about maybe starting some kind of small business. The world feels wide open for the first time in my life instead of constantly trying to scrape by with demeaning jobs that barely pay my rent. ❤
I LOVE this experiment! I always thought only rich people have the luxury, freedom and time to explore and reflect on how they want to BE in this world. Capitalism forces us to believe that college is the Only way to afford a happy life. We are sold the American dream as if a high paying career, big house, fancy car, etc (materialism) equals happiness. Then we spend 20-30 years grinding away to pay back our student loans, only to find ourselves lonely and burnt out. The pandemic really forced me to want to spend more time doing the things that bring me joy. I've realized that chasing happiness is like chasing a leprechaun, always seems to be out of reach (future tense). Joy is something you experience in the present moment. Add up all the joyful moments and it will equal happiness. Currently, I'm working on work life balance. I want to connect more with my local community, dance more, explore instruments (violin and drums), and connect more with family and friends. Maybe downshift my career one day to work in a library? Idk . . .
All of this resonated sooo hard, especially the part on loneliness. i didn't realize how much i needed community until i quit my job & suddenly i was able to go days without speaking to anyone if i wasn't making the intention to be social. finding communities outside of school/work is something i'm making a goal to do this year
have lovvved watching your journey
Have you scoured, like, Eventbrite and Meetup? I'm sure you have. I was unemployed not by choice for part of the pandemic and those were great resources for things to do and places to check out (often for free). I also learned that Sacramento (my old city) had a whole EVENT website just for itself. Maybe yours does as well?
That is especially true for the huge number of unemployed people who are housebound or bedbound. Like, think how much less you would see people if you could never go to a public place or go anywhere to meet someone. For me I am also immunosurpressed on top of being bedbound which means most people can't visit me either since we are still living in a pandemic.
Definitely an issue with how integral our 'careers' have become to our identity. We have lost the traditional aspect of community that defined our civilisations for thousands of years, and replaced it with companies and corporations that pretend to have a "people culture" (obviously BS).
We need to go back to having closer ties with people in our community so that we have strong social networks irrespective of our jobs.
TBH I'd love to just work part time instead of not working at all. I am still interested in my job but the amount of time and energy required just wipes me out. If I could do like 20-25 hours a week I think that would allow me to take care of myself and also still have external structure in my life.
Agree!
Companies don't get that we'd be willing to make less money if we were allowed to work less!
This exactly. I'm a physical therapist and enjoy what I do, but I get burned out working 9-6 and being gone from home from 8-7 (with the commute). I also feel like I miss out on so much because so many things start at 5-6 but I'm still working.
TRUTH
This!
Struggling with my envy watching this. I'm a stay at home carer with a chronic illness, unemployment was forced on me by life. Reality is that there is an awful lot of labour to be done that is not paid for or recognised. I applaud you for following your instincts and spending time on yourself.
I think this experiment also proved that "unemployed" people absolutely still contribute to society. They do all sorts of labor that just isn't compensated like art, and running book clubs, providing mental health support, taking care of their own bodies instead of relying on crisis medical care. If you were a parent that would end up taking a lot of your time raising not only your kids but supporting their friends with two working parents. Like, so much is done by the people our society considers "unproductive."
I’m now on month 9 of chosen unemployment and highly relate to all you mentioned in the video. I’d like to add that personally I’ve also been struggling with finding a sense of self and creating the new version of myself outside of the workforce, and it’s been hindering me from fully enjoying all the great benefits of owning my time these past few months.
I honestly believe that most people are creative but work gets in the way. Almost every time someone retires, they get into art, gardening, or anything else artistic. The narrative that you'll be bored if you don't work is silly to me. The mind is contantly on the move and people will want to exercise that need.
I'm mostly through 6 weeks off between my old and new job. Before I finished up at my old place so many people would ask me in a shocked way if I didn't think I was going to get bored in my time off. I found it really sad that people really TRULY believed they needed to dedicate so much of their time to a job at a company that they didn't really care about, and vice versa, in order to not be bored. capitalism babyyy
@Amy I'm on a similar boat as you. I haven't been employed for a couple of months now, and it's been both exhilarating and a load off my shoulders. I work on the house, cook for my wife, and I get to focus on a youtube project that I was putting off for sometime. And the extra time, physical health, and mental health have really paid off.
this is really foundational to my own philosophy too - we are all deeply creative but are blocked by work and the conditioning around us that making art isn’t worth it!!
this is meeeeee
@Alrac Okay you sound as if she's discrediting those who perform the labors you mentioned. No one is. The point of these movements, and I assume this video, is to demonstrate that we're overworked. Labor is necessary, but it shouldn't consume/define us. Lowering workload so that we have more time for ourselves, family, and friends has proven to have a positive effect.
Working makes me so sad. Not because of the work, but because I cant even actually live off of it.
I highly suggest reading “A Psalm for the Wild-Built” and “A Prayer for the Crown-Shy” by Becky Chambers. This series is a sweet little taste into what I think you’re talking about. There is still work in this utopia, but all of the labor is based around community and not an individualistic rat race. It demonstrates how taking your time and experiencing the mundane should be celebrated. I really love it a lot and think y’all will too. ❤
ooooh this sounds so up my alley! thank you for recommending
we did these books in my book club last year and one of the things we discussed is what we would each want to do as our community role within the utopia of the books
@@isabeller6506 that’s such a beautiful discussion! Were there any roles y’all came up with that weren’t in the world already?
I LOVED these books as well!!
These were the best books!!!
I'm on a three month paid suspension from work, so I can definitely relate to this video, except the loneliness part. I've actually been able to meet more people, go on more dates, and make new friends with work out of the way. This difference is probably due to my introversion. When I was employed, after work, I had no energy to do anything, not even socialize. I guess you can say work literally sucked the life out of me. Now with all my newfound energy and free time, I've been able to reconnect with so many people I love and actives that bring me joy. I really don't want to go back, my job gets in the way of my life.
I’ve had the same experience. Plus I’m spending more quality time with my friends, making legit friendships, and spending less money because my socialization doesn’t revolve around eating dinner after work, or spending all of my money on food delivery apps because I’m not too burnt out to make my own food
I’ve always thought my community role would be a librarian. I wish there was more discourse around me on community roles and changing the systems like this. This video was really validating and empowering. Thanks for making it 💖
You’re so eloquent & creative, and listening to you talk is such a joy. Love this video!
My boyfriend struggles with recurrent clinical depression and has been unemployed for a couple years. He struggles with getting himself to do the things he wants to, so it makes me happy to see someone enjoy their unemployment and live their life to the fullest ♥
I'm a software engineer, but if I had a community role I would like to be some sort of park ranger; help maintain the wilderness and keep it beautiful
This is my ultimate favorite video of you of all time! The editing, the visuals, the confidence. I resonate so much 🫶🏽
I love how visionary you are & how many steps you did take to help make that a reality, not only for yourself, but by sharing with your friends and youtube community 💕
I really love the pacing of the video. It feels slower than most other videos on UA-cam are presented, which is refreshing. Thank you for this information, and you conveyed it in such a perfect way. I'm happy to see that there are studies being done on topics like this.
This video was so creative and well made. It was so relatable, it made me chuckle at several instances. If not my corporate job, I would probably be pursuing music more and teaching music and working with beauty brands. This video converted me into a Patreon!!! 🎉
This video really spoke to me quite deeply as someone currently dealing with chronic illness and full-time work. Thank you for speaking about this.
your storytelling, balance of humor and breaking the fourth wall are all great. really enjoyed this
First video I've ever had of yours and I'm freaking obsessed, I love you so much!!!
This video came right in time. I am on day two of a 12 week medical leave. Thanks for being honest and vulnerable with us about your experience!
This is beautiful. thank you for the video!
I love this experiment! It brought me back to finding the thing I’ve been missing most with my remote job- a sense of community. I now know that I need to supplement my life with intentional positive interactions with like minded people.
Loved how you filled your time. That video is amazing too. Congrats
I’m tempted to take a gap year after college so this is perfect timing
DO IT!!!!!!!!
@@Katherout I was about to comment the exact same thing! Absolutely do it!!
You should do it. Life is long. Usually the first year working after college is pretty irrelevant to your long term career anyway.
Absolutely do it!! I did it, basically did nothing except play video games with my friends and spend all my other time on making art. As mundane as that sounds, nothing compares to have incredible it was :)
Please do it!! I’m in the middle of my gap year and it was the best decision I could’ve EVER made for myself. You gain so much clarity about yourself, what you want and who you want to become. Best of luck💕
This is amazing! I had no doubt that all of this would be the outcome of life without a job. Great synopsis!
Its comfy when you have a safety net. Thats the summary of this video. I'm on the same boat here. I dread the day I cant indulge my escapism because I am convinced spiking cortisol while playing politics as a modern wage slave is even more pointless than being a burnout.
I had my “unemployed era” from summer of 2021-fall of 2022. I had a part time job at the beginning of it, but I took every second of work off that I could. During this time period I moved across the country with my family, helped my dad start a business, baked bread, sewed my own clothes, spent so much good time with my family, and planned my wedding. It was such a relief to not have to do all the usual “work things”. Tbh my favorite time in my young adult life. Now I’m a pregnant SAHW with a part time job and lots of laundry and cooking to do😅🥰 I would also totally be part of a study on this. I’d do almost anything to be “unemployed” again😂
I loved the style of this video!!!
It really makes me wonder how we’re all making it through this, when we’re all facing the same miserable struggles of balancing life and work- sigh.
There’s definitely a lot to be looked into with this subject and I hope to see a shift in our work culture during my own lifetime. Or I hope to move to the Netherlands lol
Please sign me up for the next study lol please and Ty
Can confirm that the quality of life and regulation of emotions is a thing when living unemployed for an extensive amount of time ❤
Loved this video! As someone who has been unemployed (not by choice), I also have done my fair share of visiting friends, doing the admin things I never really get to, and making time for new hobbies like knitting. My only caveat is that my unemployment journey has had some stress in the sense that I have yet to find work.
I loved the cortisol meme! That truly made me lol. I would love to hear more about what your next steps are and what you are looking for in a job now.
i talk about this in the previous vid on my channel 🫶🏻 thank you for watching and commenting
Loved this! I’m two months into having quit my job, and l’m still having a great time 🤗
I am so glad you had the opportunity to make this experiment, and that research is being done to prove how much our life is enriched by having free time. Having said that, I’m legit jealous hahaha. I’ll channel that energy into cherishing the free time that I do have, along with the job that I know I’m privileged to keep. Thanks for sharing!
Thanks for mentioning the feeling of forced professionalism when presenting on UA-cam as well, I think that is something tough to try to break from especially as a woman.
I was unemployed for 10 months too, although not by choice but by being laid off. Went through similar phases as well, really leaned into cooking. Another great video!
you sold me with this video, very engaging 😂❤︎
Oh my god! When you asked about the one thing Ive been putting off doing and immediately I thought about my kitchen counters with cracks all over them that I wanted to replace for forever😂😂😂
You really hit us with the Cole Sprouse special "It was just a social experiment" 😭
I desperately wish I had the means to take a sabbatical from work for an extended period of time. I’m exhausted.
This hits my "fun-employed" arc - which turned into self-employed and prioritizing fun. The piece in giving to community and digging into purpose was a wonderful end. Would love to see more!
Having a bed, house, water, food, plumbing, relies on someone creating it so that you can live comfortably
I work from home and run my own business from home so I get to make up my own schedule most days and yeah I can say this lifestyle is so much better. I feel so much more happier, I can take care of myself better, spend time on people more. I can only imagine what it would be like to be completely free from working
I found your channel I think about 1 -1.5 years ago and it's funny just how our timelines matched with not working last year. For me it was due to burnout, I couldn't even reset a password on Gmail, I was that overwhelmed daily. I worked in corporate sales/it for 10 years and it ended me. So while I was on long-term sick leave, I initially couldn't really do much - which was unfamiliar, since I worked since I was 16 - but after 2 months of basically going on walks, sleeping and keeping my employer up to date. I started to travel a bit, do things I wanted to do for years, saw friends more, tried to reconnect with my hobbies etc. I really related to and still do to your video series.
I could forever comment on this, but if I could say one more thing is that you are right. Taking time off work, being unemployed, or even when I can't work for a while due to burnout, it's everything it's supposed to be. Freeing! I actually enjoy work - is that a thing- but I would very much rather live a life with less money and more content life, where I can travel, go after my hobbies and work, but with purpose and as a means to make money to afford that lifestyle, not the other way around. I'm still trying. to find a way towards that life now that I am actively looking to find a new position - yes, I have also been just made redundant in the tech world, org restructure lol of course. But. I see this as my opportunity to make a shift in my life, not willing to settle for less.
I found your video through another youtuber's video about them leaving their job. I left my job for almost 2 years now and I can relate to all of those phases. It was very hard in the beginning not knowing anyone else personally who has gone through the same situation as me, so it's nice seeing such a relatable video.
I have noticed more of these videos lately and I was hoping to find an answer on what I want to pursue next. I also went through the phases of volunteering doing trailwork and being able to go to places that would normally be busy on weekends (i.e. shopping and hikes), and through exploring my hobbies I realized that it was stressful trying to turn my hobbies into a possible source of income.
I can also relate to being lonely during my time off, especially my first few months, but one year into my funemployment I met more friends who also left their jobs and it was fun being able to hangout with them. I see that you were also in Seattle - I wish I had known since you definitely could've joined our funemployment social group! I also recognize that park that you were at in phase 6/7 (I live in the area) and know what you mean about the birds - the crows go wild there😂.
Taking a month off and going through the exact same arcs as you! Want to quit big tech so badly but need money to live. So glad I found your videos.
I feel the same way, having gone thru those same phases! Unemployment is great, but it did take some time for me to learn to enjoy it. Sounds like you’re doing great though! My community role would still be teaching, but maybe in a smaller setting without standardized curriculum/testing.
LUVVV that! i have really enjoyed facilitating reading groups so i think mine would be similar
Definitely one of your best videos yet!
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I'm 26 myself and have worked as a software developer for the last 3 years after graduating college. Originally I graduated with a degree in videography and design, but then sort of shilled out after school for a bit to learn software development (for the money). I only realized after losing my job recently that I had chased "the dream" of money and status. I sort of had this Neo in the matrix moment when he woke up for the first time. Life isn't about chasing money or status, it's about finding your passion and being with those you love. Only recently have I started following you journey, but you inspire me to keep going. I can't see myself ever going back to big tech. Appreciate the insight Katherine.
Right now I'm in phase 1 from your vid, but starting to work on phase 2 (wellness)!
It's crazy to watch this video because we both quit our jobs around the exact same time and I've also been unemployed for the same amount of time. Everything that you said I 10000% resonated with and I literally went through ALL of this too during this time! It's also crazy because we're the same age and I too used to be at a large media/tech company for 4 years. This has been one of the most eye-opening experiences of my life and the quality of my life has dramatically improved too from my relationships to my health. I've learned sooo much about myself (both the good and the bad) and I don't think I would've learned all of this if hadn't left my toxic job. Your point on loneliness was incredibly valid and I agree that I never realized how much I need community and regular socialization in my life to feel fulfilled. It's truly amazing what you can learn about life and yourself when you have the time to take a step back and have the chance to reevaluate your life and figure out what you truly want out of it moving forward (and not just what society tells you to do). Truly the most life-changing experience and it's one of the best things that has ever happened to me and my life! I just wish I knew how happy I would feel (now) when I originally left my job (it also took me 2 years to finally do this lol) because it was superrrr stressful at the time and I cried so much leading up to it but hey, I'm glad I realized all of this eventually!
I got to travel A LOT these past few months and take classes that I never would've had the time to take that I really wanted to do and knew would help me for building the company I've been wanting to create. Now I am in the beginning stages of starting a media company with my best friend AND it's looking like I found a job that will give me the experience I need to build this company while also supporting myself financially while I do it. Allll around everything feels SO SO good and I owe it all to this period of my life.
Onto bigger and better things from here on out (for all of us)! :)
The errand I keep putting off but living rent free in my mind is donating my books. I've been unemployed throughout. I also live rent free with my dad who keeps finding creative ways of telling me to get a job 😃
I'm fortunate to have retired early. I struggle a bit with loneliness because as you mentioned, my schedule and availability are abnormal. However, this was the first time I was able to build a true local community for myself since I had the space to explore outside of my work community. It has given me a chance to feel more helpful with small things, like dropping off some groceries I picked up for my neighbor during the work day, helping a friend out while they're sick, and volunteering for nonprofits. I’m gardening for the first time this year, with the hopes that I can help friends with meal prep and donate to a food pantry.
Thank you for the time and effort you put into this study. I hope it fuels change!
I would love to take part in this study! So cool!
@@allforgood9722 it’s not that they don’t mind, it’s usually that they have no other choice.
Awesome video, I'm an artist so I know what it feels like to not have a "real job" but wanting to be a contributing member of society. I would definitely say not earning a consistent income definitely takes it's toll on the individual after a while with all the pressures of success and future expectations we have for ourselves and from those around us. I also coach cross country and track as a part time job but I still feel like I can be doing more. This has inspired me to think more community based and long term oriented.
I am just now ending my own break from labor (8 months) and it's insane how nearly identical our experiences and takeaways were. I too am ending this period of low stress, high creativity, and being able to focus on fitness and friendship, with a strong determination to get into community organizing. I totally agree that my ideal future involves working in a community sense rather than a corporate sense. A better world is possible!
For some reason your videos are really calming to me n_n
i’m glad!
Unemployment was a very interesting time, I was unemployed a few years ago after college, and it was very tough tbh, I did feel a loss of purpose and lived life aimlessly. It definitely felt odd being out of work and having a life different to the average joe. Some jobs can be toxic to your mental health and physical health forsure. Im glad that unemployment was a great time for you, unemployment imo is good if you have enough $$ saved up and you aren't in lots of debt. Never make work your entire life at all.
It was fun for 2 months, but after it, it became tough.
Good video Katherine, I recently joined your patreon!!!
welcome dear PATRON!
@@allforgood9722 what a fascinating takeaway. A lot of people in those jobs are overworked in poor and exploitative conditions (see farmers and farm hands, EMTs, CNAs, etc.) and deserve to work in conditions that don't require them to be perpetually "tethered to labor," just as much as Katherine, you and I, or anyone else. if these services are so vital (and they are!), we as a society need to step up and treat our workers as such. they don't deserve to be trampled for the benefit of a society that doesn't materially value them. We all deserve better than that.
@@akosuaka Alot of those jobs are simply vital from a 24/7 perspective. People who work in, say, infrastructure or agriculture, are not so much tethered to their labour by Capitalism's manifesting of "work as identity", but by necessity of those jobs being needed by the communities in which they provide for. This would remain unchanged even if Capitalism no longer existed. Someone literally has to maintain the sewage systems or the electrical cables in a town, otherwise those things will stop working within a matter of days and then chaos would ensue. So, people working such jobs can't simply "work less hours" or "have better conditions" because that's the nature of the job It is what it is, and someone has to do it. Someone has to go down into the drains and maintain the sewers daily. A farmer can't afford to take a week off work because they're usually on the cusp profit-wise. Apply this en masse.
Fyi alot of people who work in infrastructure jobs are paid really well...they're not trampled by society. They're paid well because not alof of people wanna work on oil rigs or in the sewers, cos it's tough manual labour and its dirty, messy work.
The thumbnail is gorgeous ❤️
Amazing video thank you for sharing
honestly, i think my community role would involve teaching people about music and performing arts. about language. not in that formal academic way necessarily. just teaching through entertaining. i also like the idea of being a librarian (literature nerd alert). i love books and i long for the days when i’m surrounded by them again!
also, the way i’d spend my 10 months of unemployment is very much similar to the way katherout’s done it. i’d focus a whole lot on pursuing all the forms of physical activity i normally don’t have the time to: dance, pilates, yoga, boxing, spin, rock climbing, badminton, etc. i also just want to perform! i’d audition for all the roles i want to perform. sounds like paradise to me
I absolutely love that you mentioned a community role because it's a potential answer to the question I have: If essential workers get paid like 75,000+ a year... What happens to the "top managers" of the companies? Do they have to make more money to compensate for their current salaries or bite the bullet?
I'm currently procrastinating on a podcast about work, this is completely a passion project, no one put it on me, but I feel so called to do it. So I find this video very interesting and it's something I've thought about a lot. I struggle to find my place at work, think it's an illusion to even find that. At the same time I do feel very blessed to be living in the Netherlands, I work 5 days, but only 2 at the office. If I were to not work right now I would do something with my creativity for sure! Luckily I'm very vocal about what I like at work and am building a team website atm, they let me do me and I get to add value to the team in my own way. I do dread the many many meetings I sit through where I just feel like I add nothing and have nothing to say
I loved this video and whole series, and think that it was full of important insights and lessons about societies obsession with work. It came at a perfect time in my life x
However, something I’ve felt throughout the series is that you really leaned into glamorising your ‘unemployment era ✌️🤪’, without really discussing the nuances around the fact that most people’s ‘unemployment era’ does not look like this (including my own). In the slightest. For example, the only ‘unemployment’ option you considered in this video was retirement, which in itself is a huge privilege for a lot of people. Overall, it felt like an extremely middle class take on everything. I think even a short discussion around the class implications of the ‘unemployment era girlie’ would have been interesting.
I still think your work has been a great contribution! F**k capitalism x
My experience is highly subjective!
@@KatheroutExactly! It would have been great to see this point addressed a bit more in the series, especially when tackling a theme like unemployment and given you’ve been re-centering your channel on more socialist and class conscious values.
Looking forward to hearing about your experiences as you head into a new phase in your employment journey :)
@@Katherout You're right. You recently had played trumpet for USC Trojans.
I clicked on this video because I went through (and am still going through) the exact same thing, along with the exact same feelings! I'm now 13+ months in (omg!) and I have no regrets. Although I may eventually return to a traditional job, my perspective and what I'm willing to endure for a few dollars has drastically changed. I think everyone should experience a year or so of unemployment.
I'm 22 right now, planning to graduate at the end of this year and enter the working world- I'm already in it while going to school (painful experience wouldn't recommend) , but I really want to set a goal to have an unemployment era. I do not want to wait until I'm 60-65 to retire (that is if you're lucky, the age seems to be increasing for my generation) and finally see the world or only go on little vacations here and there for the rest of my life- the goal is to save up enough to have a year off either in my late 20's or early 30's to travel the world and hopefully throughout my life I can quit for six months after years at one place and then again and again because I cannot imagine never getting a break in between decades.
Ordering a new decal for my car comes to mind LOL
Great video. I need to get more activies now that I accidentally few months off but this video helps a bit.
I had read about mini retirements so this is super interesting.
Phase one sounds like a true dream. I cannot tell you how long I have been wanting a full day to just deep clean the bathroom.
I think my role would be a friendly therapist. I've always been good with talking to people about problems they had and have had an interest in psychology. I could try to help people with their problems, or work them through it. I would definitely spend my time trying to expand my hobbies. Right now I try to push myself to do new things and see what I like being still young, but I think being productive through hobbies and enjoying time with my friends would be great. I love self introspection and obviously since I would have all the time in the world I'd try to combine the given experiences to maybe find out more about myself and anything that I could apply to my current and even future life. Great video though I'd been wondering this exact scenario recently so I was gladly suprised to find it in my feed!
So, I only have one qualm with this...were u really 'not working' if u were writing, directing, starring in, filming, editing, publishing UA-cam videos (and patreon? And podcast?!) 🤔
My community role is definitely counselor - spirit guide through transitions -
literally just began all these phases lol I’m in phase 1 at the moment. Let’s see where this takes me!
I have been doing something similar for 2 years now, almost 2.5. But I am burning through savings so I will say mine hasn't been very relaxing or stress-free. I have been on a journey to find what I want to do and build out my ideas and strategies. I have settled on business consulting and real estate agent. I have too many ideas but I need to focus on getting a couple up and profitable before I run out of my life savings that I saved through blood sweat, tears, multiple jobs, burnout, and eating 1 meal a day and never buying anything or traveling.
ooooo, Kather-OUT, I get it now....
was half-expecting the intro to be like "all of the above are me" and wasn't ready for the nepo baby reveal
My dream community role would be tending to the pets, gardening and organizing community gatherings like bonfires, skill sharing classes and potlucks.
My dream job is to become a cohousing developer so I can live as close to that dream as I can myself and help others do the same :) community is needed to solve essentially all of our existential threats
this was such a thoughtful account of your experiment (even if you didn't really get a grant for it ToT). we are so similar that i even have those same plaid pajamas lol
this is the best
I'm kinda of sad the era of so much richness & wellness has ended but I know you will live beautifully no matter the phase
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the things you listed out doing actually sounds super exhausting to me LOL
I'm in between jobs rn! I'm on day 2 of 2weeks off & spent my first day getting the logistics in order to get the door on my car fixed. It took like 4 phone calls which took maybe 20mins and a quick stop down the street to talk to the mechanic. I've been putting this task off for litterally 6 months and it was so easy to get done. BUT I had a shop floor job, I wasn't able to be on the phone, the hours were all like 9 to 3 and I had to be at work at 7am, and I needed my car to get to work!
I am a classic NEET, male, 30s, slowly fading out of society because my basic needs are met (food, shelter, healthcare). It’s the dream of a human for thousands of years to be this physically secure, but living it is deeply unfulfilling and a permanent sense of malaise.
I sometimes imagine a stipend on top of these provided luxuries -and they are luxuries, I reflect on that every day- and how it would affect my life. I truly can’t tell whether it would.
Since I have no income, I pursue no expenses (no eating out, no going to the bar, no weekend jetsetting, no video game subscriptions), and this causes drift away from friends and, eventually, drift away from overall participation in the outside world.
Would discretionary spending options outside the life’s basics jumpstart an aspirational version of myself? It’s easy to imagine that. I imagine versions of that all the time.
And sometimes I think the lack of existential threat would only become more pronounced, and so nothing at all would change.
A crucial point is, having met the base of Maslow’s Heriarchy: what’s next?
I never dreamed of a life *without* labor. I would love to contribute meaningfully, or even contribute in a way that brought me meaning. But it’s not clear to me what the point of life is *without* it.
Please don’t mistake anything I say as seeking pity. My whole point is how many people from all time and space would trade places with me in a heartbeat. In many ways I am the height of privilege.
But I do think my problem is one society will have to solve at a massive scale in the near future. A world of UBI or otherwise subsidized living, merely plugged into our existing structures, will surely produce “me’s” en masse.
Me right now going at 7 months of not working. Not much travel, but just not having the weight of work feels so great. Will definitely start looking for a job again soon though.
I'm wrapping up the 7 months of (fu)nemployment I took after finishing my Master's degree last summer. It was such a great experience and I got to do so many creative and rejuvenateing things, but I am also looking forward to starting work and having concrete goals (and finally making some money, of course)
omg Katherine this is wild
Wow, you did so much when you were unemployed! I did get a certficate, but it took me a while. It's so hard to find motivation to get into shape or do anything when you are living by yourself.
I have been purposefully unemployed since June. Unfortunately I loved every minute. But I have to go back to work now.. probably. It's time for me to provide for my family and build a future before im shriveled and old. Too bad every damn company is unethical. Thats my biggest problem, no good causes to put my labor towards.
I was at that Big Thief concert too! I must have been standing right next to you judging by the video angle haha. Also I’m taking notes because I am planning a year off work in 2025 😁
i have been meaning to rearrange my room’s layout to something more pleasant based on some recent research i did into layout design - maybe i need to quit my job to do it
HAHAHAHAH and it would be worth it if u did….
I am about to graduate university and not planning to work until August to take my final “summer” off.. the amount of surprise I got when I told people I want to take 3 months off was funny at first but now I’m realizing I have been rejected job offers because my start date is months away. This week I have been considering going back on that and starting sooner, but I don’t know when this opportunity will come again so I am sticking to my original plan and having faith that I will find a job. I know I can’t be so picky but hopefully it is a decent one too. The timing of this video is impeccable, thank you Kat. Part of me wants to take a year off now too haha. Also I loved the editing and transitions of this video!
Just apply in 2 months. I’d never hire someone that far out either
@@squirrel9760 Totally understandable. Fortunately I got hired and my team is fine with my delayed start date! Their last hire also took the summer off before starting so I feel more at ease that my job is secured
the 'i' in the title absolutely slayed me 💀
gladly will participate in this rebellion
I would love to be entered in this research study!
Lovely video! I clicked on it because of the title lol. It is my literal dream to live a life without labor. Growing up I never knew what I wanted to do for the rest of my life, so I bounced around between different food jobs until I got my full time job now (more demanding in some ways, but also less stressful in others). Although the job I have is decent, I have zero interest in it. Every second I spend working I just want to drop everything and go home. What I would give for 10 months of paid retirement! I think I would spend it almost exactly as you had; catch up on errands, doctors visits, more time with loved ones and hobbies. With your last two questions, you've given me something to think about. I'm not sure what my community role would be yet, but I think it would be in the realm of art/gardening, just making the city I live in look nice and welcoming.
Wow. Seriously? I NEVER guessed this was an experiment! All this time! It just seemed like a natural step since I came here after the I don’t dream of labor video. I’m so envious. I would love to be part of a study like that. What an idea. 😯
If it were me, travel for SURE. I would try to live abroad, or try different cities at least, to see where I might choose to live for reasons other then a job opportunity or someone to help financially. I’d also volunteer. And try a few things, maybe classes, to see if there is something else I’d like to pursue as a job, something that adds to the world instead of just a paycheck. Especially since I had to take whatever I could at 18 and never really had the time to experiment.
It would just be nice to have the time to think. To make intentional choices rather then just doing whatever it takes. Plus I’m a bit older, and society isn’t fond of letting older people start fresh. So I’d see the opportunity as a clean slate to start building/ deciding who I am from the ground up.
Cleaning out my closet and cupboards. Throwing away and donate. This is what I never get too.
real
My community role would probably be something fairly hands on that has flexibility on a day to day basis. I could definitely be like a record keeper of some sort. Something to do with stories and translating stories. Everything in my life comes back to versions of that even my current goals around entering the entertainment industry and hoping to work in tv and film development. I appreciate not only working on my own projects but ushering the projects of other people into existence, so something to facilitate that for others among other things. If I had a chance to be pre-retired I think that I would do a version of what my grandmother did in her retirement which is open a bookshop. It was one of the best parts of my childhood and I owe her so much of who I am. Bookstores can be such hubs for community and her's was so much of that. She had been a teacher in various forms in her career and the extension of that into her retirement was something I always admired. My grandparents were very community oriented and seeing that play out in their absence through the people who showed up at their funerals was such a rich lesson in the ways in which community can manifest. So the very long answer to your question is a little of this a little of that, but mostly just being surrounded by people in a place which feeds me as much as I can feed it.
I'm actually super lazy and hate being in my head too often. So, if I have 24 hours to myself I quickly descend into chaos (for more than 1-2 days without being on vacation).
Framing some prints and pictures that I have waiting to be framed, I did it recently