Shaggy Talks His Inner Circle, Real Reggae, Realizing His Purpose + More

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  • Shaggy drops in to talk his estranged relationship with his mother and some of the crazy things that happen where he lives in Jamaica.
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    Shaggy Talks His Inner Circle, Real Reggae, Realizing His Purpose + More
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  • @faithfitnessandinspiration8578
    @faithfitnessandinspiration8578 5 років тому +611

    Emotional damage will jump from generation to generation. You can financially overcome,but emotionally still be trapped. Keep growing Shaggy. You're offspring needs it.

    • @Gator1DontPlayNoShit
      @Gator1DontPlayNoShit 5 років тому +2

      I felt this.

    • @earl-larsen
      @earl-larsen 5 років тому +7

      lmao robb banks is doing just fine

    • @cellyspeaks1062
      @cellyspeaks1062 5 років тому

      Faith, Fitness And, Inspiration yeah, I’ve done somethings i hated my mom for.

    • @jzen1455
      @jzen1455 2 роки тому

      I was under the impression Shaggy was rock solid psychologically and had everything in his life 100% under control. But seeing how his relationship with his mother is still strained and weird, I feel like I can relate to him more than I could imagine. I can also relate to his poor broken upbringing.

  • @pulsedr1p818
    @pulsedr1p818 5 років тому +79

    His face when he said “some people shouldn’t be parents”... there’s a pain there. Respect for Shaggy just went up 1000%

  • @yusufjinadu
    @yusufjinadu 5 років тому +593

    Shaggy does have a point. There is a fine line between discipline & abuse and a lot of parents do cross it.

    • @lepoindexter
      @lepoindexter 5 років тому +78

      And then dismiss it when you try to revisit it later in life. Smh.

    • @lolalu4988
      @lolalu4988 5 років тому +25

      @@lepoindexter gurl! I hate it when they do it: I don't know what you mean. Did this really happend?
      I am like😒

    • @therealist2000
      @therealist2000 5 років тому +3

      @@lepoindexter YUP !

    • @madant22
      @madant22 5 років тому +14

      the bible says spoil the rod that spears the child, then it says something about keeping the child dignity after that, which is the part most ppl ignore. The bible is basically saying you can beat your kids but maintain their dignity. Once you disciple them while taking their dignity you abusing them.

    • @WorldwideScents
      @WorldwideScents 5 років тому +4

      West indians...esp haitians

  • @confused_ks6317
    @confused_ks6317 5 років тому +224

    As a mother watching this interview am going to be careful how I speak to my only son it would pain me if he don't talk to me thank you shaggy for this interview

    • @desiretakei5355
      @desiretakei5355 5 років тому +19

      Well done for hearing the lesson and taking it on board. So many of us grown ups will miss this lesson right here.

    • @marzinspace7385
      @marzinspace7385 5 років тому

      What about Robb banks 🤔

    • @savillewilliams
      @savillewilliams 5 років тому +1

      Yesssss we have to be better people so we can be better parents...I love him for being real.

    • @saniquejay7536
      @saniquejay7536 5 років тому +7

      I felt that interview especially the part about his mom that struck how we are mentally damaged n don’t even know it and end up mistreating our kids and thinking it’s normal. I could see myself being shaggy’s Assistant just to learn from him, he would make a good mentor.

    • @leonjohnson3501
      @leonjohnson3501 4 роки тому

      Amen!

  • @deelot1
    @deelot1 5 років тому +168

    After all these years I’ve never seen Shaggy so open and honest.

    • @Sha-Money
      @Sha-Money 5 років тому +2

      Facts I hope he speak on Olivia even doe it's a super old relationship

  • @SkySantana
    @SkySantana 5 років тому +205

    i just gained so much respect for shaggy. soon as he said "when are we gonna stop, cus thats how it carries on" i felt that.
    black culture specifically doesnt understand that alot of the shit we do is toxic, we just shrug it off as "thats how we are" and we make some type of excuse for it. i applaud shaggy for standing up and breaking the cycle cus anyone else would just look at him and say "bro thats ur mom. let it go"
    respect is respect is respect.
    change the trash behavior or im out. specially if kids are involved

    • @TheAtm149
      @TheAtm149 5 років тому +8

      Sky Santana I agree. I’m experiencing this with my mom right now. I had to distance myself because it’s just too toxic

    • @Suehuskins
      @Suehuskins 5 років тому +9

      TheAtm149 totally agree and me too. Toxic is toxic not matter what the relationship is.
      Yes, I also remember every ass beating with the belt I got as a kid. I think the emotional abuse as an adult is more painful.

    • @beautifultay669
      @beautifultay669 5 років тому +5

      Sky Santana I agree 200% and they say Millennials are the generation that is “disrespectful” but they fail to say we were the kids who had to deal with the after affects of the war on drugs and many of our parents were either on drugs or had psychological trauma from being apart of that era and the civil rights era as far as those kids growing up and seeing certain things and then becoming parents

    • @Suehuskins
      @Suehuskins 5 років тому +1

      Mr Lex why do parents do that. My mom did/does same thing. My brother was her favorite and she will tell you that. He and I lived in another state from her and my older sister. My mom would call me all the time. Now I know why. My brother passed away in February and I haven’t heard a word from her. I can’t/won’t call because it is beyond toxic and nothing I do is good enough for her. She is old and she knows better, but doesn’t care.

    • @Suehuskins
      @Suehuskins 5 років тому +2

      Mr Lex Mr Lex I understand. Like shaggy said, you gotta break the cycle. Toxic is so stressful and nobody gains anything from it, only pain. Your son is fortunate.

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186 5 років тому +166

    He's absolute correct. Many many people should not be parents.

    • @omarwalker3448
      @omarwalker3448 5 років тому +3

      And if his mom wasn't a parent how d hell him would a deh ya fi a chat fuckery

    • @omarwalker3448
      @omarwalker3448 5 років тому +1

      Without a mother where would any of us be??????

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +4

      @Mr Lex slave mentality hence common with West Indians in general.

    • @oneblood2780
      @oneblood2780 5 років тому

      Yea, lot of us wouldn't be here either, accept and bless, if he don't blame her then he should help her to change ...

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +3

      @@oneblood2780 can't help those who can't help themselves. Fact

  • @marromorrison
    @marromorrison 5 років тому +296

    Morning my black brothers and sisters. Have a productive week. Glad to see a fellow Jamaican passing through. Diamond selling Grammy award winning legend. Stay safe out there thou 💪🏾🇯🇲💪🏾🇯🇲💪🏾.

    • @kejuanlynette8531
      @kejuanlynette8531 5 років тому +5

      Thank you! Same to you brother ✌🏽

    • @tyb873
      @tyb873 5 років тому +6

      Black is a color not a race. Peace tho

    • @JustCamille1029
      @JustCamille1029 5 років тому +2

      Peace and blessings. Thank you 🇯🇲

    • @rishirishiroopnarine5067
      @rishirishiroopnarine5067 5 років тому

      Marrow Morrison JAM. JAM

    • @neverobey1477
      @neverobey1477 5 років тому +5

      BIG UP JAMAICA!! i cant wait to go back.. I loved it.. Too bad i only spent 8 days cause of work smh im tryna spend atleast 2 weeks and visit all over the island.. Dam i miss the food ox tail with white rice.. Wonderful very respectful ppl!!

  • @WooReviews
    @WooReviews 5 років тому +298

    damn this lowkey one the best interviews breakfast club has done all year...

  • @acomment5991
    @acomment5991 5 років тому +557

    People: "Thought I saw you on the Breakfast Club"
    Shaggy: "It wasn't me"

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 5 років тому +179

    His message (12:00ish) about THE POWER OF WORDS/ WATCHING WHAT YOU SAY TO PEOPLE should be a PSA🙌🏾

    • @joannelindsay4977
      @joannelindsay4977 5 років тому +6

      I am one who needs to watch my words. That hit me pretty hard.

    • @kejuanlynette8531
      @kejuanlynette8531 5 років тому +11

      @@joannelindsay4977 it takes a certain level of self awareness to recognize/acknowledge that, so I applaud you for that 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @MrKamawe
    @MrKamawe 5 років тому +137

    Shaggy sold 10 Million records and stayed humble, rappers get 10K views and the entire world is beneath them 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @inquisitive871
    @inquisitive871 5 років тому +15

    Emotional and physical abuse in Caribbean households are rarely talked about. Good to see a grown man reflect on his past to bring it to light.

    • @TheAlkebulanTrust
      @TheAlkebulanTrust 5 років тому

      Very true...so what do you think are the possible solutions so that others dont continue the cycle?

    • @inquisitive871
      @inquisitive871 5 років тому +1

      @@TheAlkebulanTrust Not sure. It's very complicated. People need to be raised in a positive environment before they have children.

  • @teacakesjanie
    @teacakesjanie 5 років тому +408

    I love when the Breakfast Club interviews intelligent people ❤
    (It's the only time I check in)

    • @TheUltimateLady
      @TheUltimateLady 5 років тому +16

      You can learn a great deal from idiots too! 😂🤣😂

    • @natashatimothy9022
      @natashatimothy9022 5 років тому +4

      @@TheUltimateLady yup , how not to be one lol.

    • @Weedensworld
      @Weedensworld 5 років тому +3

      Yes, the artist dictates the interview and the interviews are classic

    • @shamondavis406
      @shamondavis406 5 років тому

      Teacake's Janie
      I strongly agree with you!!

  • @hobojoe9843
    @hobojoe9843 5 років тому +167

    Shaggy’s more chill than I thought he would be

    • @tahmaskenchers1782
      @tahmaskenchers1782 5 років тому +8

      super cool in person too, isnt an act like some people do

    • @CourtneyJasmine07062
      @CourtneyJasmine07062 5 років тому +3

      That's that Good 💨💨💨😉

    • @veeedgee
      @veeedgee 5 років тому

      Lol mee too

    • @kennethburgos3527
      @kennethburgos3527 5 років тому

      He looks really mean lol I'm happy I watched the interview

    • @musclewarlord
      @musclewarlord 5 років тому

      That’s because every man has to come to this point of awakening for a man there’s no age range for woman after 25 she’s mature men take time to reach a point in life where you’ve been awaken spiritually luckily for me I’ve been awaken this year and I’m 27

  • @JonathanSweeting
    @JonathanSweeting 5 років тому +230

    This dude is 50 years old... All His curlys still there , good looking bastard lol

  • @kenroyforte6175
    @kenroyforte6175 5 років тому +66

    Never understood how someone don’t like Reggae. It’s the roots of hip hop mate!

    • @charlzwill495
      @charlzwill495 5 років тому +8

      me neither very strange

    • @lmckinney4303
      @lmckinney4303 5 років тому +7

      Kenroy Forte. You are right it is!

    • @XeniasWorld
      @XeniasWorld 5 років тому +2

      The beats don't grab me and the accents are sometimes too thick

    • @kenroyforte6175
      @kenroyforte6175 5 років тому +5

      XeniasWorld a guess your preference. But kinda hard to say accent nowadays with the new crop of rappers mumbling. To each is own but anything gets played long on radio will be accepted. Gangnam style showed us that!

    • @XeniasWorld
      @XeniasWorld 5 років тому

      @@kenroyforte6175 don't disagree. Just giving you the reason behind one person's dislike

  • @betheone8292
    @betheone8292 5 років тому +712

    Am I the only one who think Shaggy look like Jim Jones today?😊

    • @tariqalfudi1
      @tariqalfudi1 5 років тому +5

      sugar baby 555 lol!!! I thought the same thing.

    • @ladyblue3255
      @ladyblue3255 5 років тому +25

      Hello nah....he look way better than Jim Jones the difference shaggy groom his beared and look nice. Jim Jones don't he look unshaven and Never groom.

    • @dellinkedup5479
      @dellinkedup5479 5 років тому +24

      sugar baby 555 he does to lol to me he also resembles Mike Epps as well 😂

    • @OfficialLukeTube
      @OfficialLukeTube 5 років тому +2

      Always has

    • @sheilawyatt898
      @sheilawyatt898 5 років тому +4

      sugar baby 555 I was just thinking the same thing. They look like brothers.

  • @KJ-hg5ck
    @KJ-hg5ck 5 років тому +253

    I hate confrontation too.. Good to hear you've found a way to cut toxic people out of your life... Motivates me.... Boombastic

    • @lorrainemiller157
      @lorrainemiller157 5 років тому +1

      I am Shaggy's mother. I wish i could tell my side of the story. I was never abusive to any of his kids. He's lying through his teeth.

    • @prettyteacher6417
      @prettyteacher6417 5 років тому +3

      @@lorrainemiller157 👀 ....go on....

    • @ijg8343
      @ijg8343 5 років тому +1

      @@lorrainemiller157 🤣🤣🤣foh your shaggys ass wiper.

    • @CreativeSTS
      @CreativeSTS 5 років тому

      That means you're scary. Adults shouldnt be afraid on confrontation.

  • @damianmitchell4226
    @damianmitchell4226 5 років тому +344

    My dude been doing his thing for a long time. Got classics.

    • @geegee1305
      @geegee1305 5 років тому +4

      Yea he's one of the greats definitely work put in 🙌

  • @MCMAGIC.
    @MCMAGIC. 5 років тому +43

    “Shorty You’re May Angel , Your My Darling Angel- Girl You’re my Friend When I’m in Need Yeah” 🔥🔥🔥 that joint from his album “Hot Shot” will always be one of my favorites ✊🏽 GOD BLESS SHAGGY

  • @taco2163
    @taco2163 5 років тому +45

    So happy I watched this interview. I had no idea this was the man behind the music. The character, the foundation, the respect.... peace and love man peace and love

    • @MJM8715
      @MJM8715 5 років тому +3

      taco2163 Co-sign! I love these type of interviews with depth and substance!!

  • @Adetokunbo03
    @Adetokunbo03 5 років тому +25

    Man I appreciate how shaggy really opened up about how IMPERFECT he is as a man .He seems so honest about his flaws he just wants to do a little better daily....RESPECT!!!!

  • @prettyblackboy
    @prettyblackboy 5 років тому +400

    Jim Jones in here trying to act like Shaggy. "YOU AINT FOOLING ME"!

  • @lasqtst328
    @lasqtst328 5 років тому +27

    "If you look at your circle and you're NOT inspired, you're in a cage." ~ Nipsey Hussle

  • @Loiichi
    @Loiichi 5 років тому +40

    This conversation about minority stress is Everything!
    Let’s heal those wounds of abuse and poverty 💚

    • @youngdad4084
      @youngdad4084 5 років тому +1

      i agree bro but it’s hard

    • @Loiichi
      @Loiichi 5 років тому

      YoungDad Beats I agree, It’s Very difficult!
      But we can do it man, if we start small and take baby steps 🙏🏼

  • @TotalOneEighty
    @TotalOneEighty 5 років тому +220

    Envy never fails. Shaggy- " i haven't spoken to my mom in 3 yrs".
    Envy -" do you have a good relationship with your mom now?"

    • @chocolatethundercherry143
      @chocolatethundercherry143 5 років тому +21

      Lmfao man he needs to go to school for journalism

    • @91WriterzStatus
      @91WriterzStatus 5 років тому +1

      @a Supernova 😁😂😂

    • @naturallydope6971
      @naturallydope6971 5 років тому +6

      Exactly my face was like😒😒 BOI listen

    • @desiretakei5355
      @desiretakei5355 5 років тому +4

      @a Supernova I would have added some kind of clat in there too. Ok I'mma say it. Envy "bomboclat"

    • @kd9432
      @kd9432 5 років тому +10

      He's not a good listener

  • @yuhboychez
    @yuhboychez 5 років тому +51

    I deal with the same issues he's talking about with parents and what not and I beat myself up for it because I feel like I might be too old.. it was refreshing to hear that I'm not alone forreal

    • @XeniasWorld
      @XeniasWorld 5 років тому +3

      We are many

    • @SpiritAnimal1212
      @SpiritAnimal1212 5 років тому +3

      stepfan jack you’re never alone. A lot of us have gone through it and sometime still go through it. Words can have long lasting psychological damage well into our adulthood. We just need to be the courageous ones to break the cycle and create a new legacy of parenting.

    • @yuhboychez
      @yuhboychez 5 років тому +1

      @@SpiritAnimal1212 so what do you think we should do? Cuz I don't know and it haunts me daily

    • @SpiritAnimal1212
      @SpiritAnimal1212 5 років тому +1

      stepfan jack have you considered therapy? There’s nothing shameful about therapy and I say that because too many people of color tend to think it’s weak to speak to a therapist OR that it’s a white thing to do. I would also limit or cut off contact from those toxic family members, if you can. It can make such a difference to one’s mental health.

  • @WelcomeToTheMadness
    @WelcomeToTheMadness 5 років тому +144

    He’s right, you can’t tell old school Jamaicans anything.

    • @BossANova-xw9qi
      @BossANova-xw9qi 5 років тому +39

      You can't tell any old school black people anything to be honest

    • @itsmeka8589
      @itsmeka8589 5 років тому +17

      And he’s so right about the fact that they have amnesia after years go by. Lol I agree 10000%

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +13

      @@itsmeka8589 but they will remember the money you owed them tho.

    • @itsmeka8589
      @itsmeka8589 5 років тому +3

      Moe Anthony for real but when you loan them money, they throw it in your face that they raised you “with their two hands” *in my dads voice* 😑😩

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +2

      @@itsmeka8589 very true. Can't win either way.

  • @Rize_Inn
    @Rize_Inn 5 років тому +131

    Sounds like Shaggy could do a movie about his life.

  • @laminediallo9014
    @laminediallo9014 5 років тому +41

    Shaggy describing his mother is literally how I would describe my mother. I think it’s just a Jamaican/Caribbean way of parenting.

    • @iliyano567
      @iliyano567 5 років тому +19

      Bro its not a African/Caribbean parenting ; its a colonial hatred for the young trust me its not ***HEALTHY***
      StopAbusingBlackChild
      Mentally & Physically
      😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤😤

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому

      @@iliyano567 thx Sam. Dead on

    • @worldhealthrn
      @worldhealthrn 5 років тому +13

      To some degree, the violence is a consequence of poverty, post slavery, and post colonialism... Listen to African American comedians talk about creative beatings from parents - It's almost a badge of honor. Here the reasoning is that historically, black parents had to teach children to mind, not talk back, behave in order to avoid what whites had the authority to do them at the drop of hat. That behavior continued and is compounded by the severely stressed, derelict communities that have been destroyed by drugs and criminal sentencing and with men extracted. But it sounds like his mom may have been working within some individual emotional and mental health issues that further compounded the situation.

    • @jamaicanbkslimaz
      @jamaicanbkslimaz 5 років тому

      Agreed

    • @rodsean
      @rodsean 5 років тому +5

      Lamine Diallo that's a cop out to say it's s Caribbean/Jamaican way. I was raised by Caribbean cultured old school strict parents who taught me values, but they were never abusive. It's an individual trait that's probably handed down from one generation to the next. Educating oneself is also a key, and if sounds like his Mom hasn't embraced that.

  • @juelzt
    @juelzt 5 років тому +77

    This interview was soul food for the mind 🙌🏾

  • @MJM8715
    @MJM8715 5 років тому +36

    What was great about this interview - he came to promote his new album but it turned into a casual conversation.... much respect to him. Not a fan of reggae music but I will check out his new album!!👌🏾

    • @DHM_TV-s4k
      @DHM_TV-s4k 5 років тому +5

      Martha J. Jackson reggae music is that soul music u can relate too

  • @sbf1130
    @sbf1130 5 років тому +88

    Very interesting and insightful interview. I have to say as a Jamaican, many of us have very strained relationships with our parents especially mothers. Many Jamaican mothers refused to accept their hurt and the hurt inflicted on their children.

    • @andor3442
      @andor3442 5 років тому +7

      This is common in the West indies in general. Our parents are raised differently over there

    • @jadel8052
      @jadel8052 5 років тому +4

      AND/OR I hear you but please remember it’s not just in the Caribbean. West Indian parents and grandparents who migrated to the UK, US and Canada etc also brought with them their toxic behaviour which means children of Caribbean descent, in the diaspora, also experience the toxicity of Caribbean culture. Trust me 1000%

    • @Worldofangelle
      @Worldofangelle 5 років тому +2

      Majority of West Indies .. my mother denies all claims ... I’m Haitian trust

  • @starfira1026
    @starfira1026 5 років тому +13

    All Caribbean parents (especially the old heads) need to LISTEN to what he’s saying. The way you treat and communicate with your child with always affect your child.

  • @bethelchris2016
    @bethelchris2016 5 років тому +20

    Feels like this interview was therapy he needed ... Jah keep you firm and strong ma brother

  • @tahtz20
    @tahtz20 5 років тому +265

    Shaggy looks so good. I'm not surprised, yaad men age beautifully.

    • @SUNNYWINTERSTV
      @SUNNYWINTERSTV 5 років тому +8

      oh yeah,,,, ninja man aged well??lmaoooo

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +11

      Ya dun know.

    • @tahtz20
      @tahtz20 5 років тому +2

      @@SUNNYWINTERSTV he was also smoking crack back then soooooooooo. And him look good before going to jail

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +1

      @@tahtz20 but wait? Shaggy na do dat.

    • @tahtz20
      @tahtz20 5 років тому +4

      @@moeanthony9308 Talking about Ninja man, read the comment above yours

  • @ronblair_
    @ronblair_ 5 років тому +55

    I love Shaggy!!! I can relate to him sooooo much in this interview especially when it comes down to his childhood traumas

  • @llw53one
    @llw53one 5 років тому +51

    I love Shaggy! Dope personality, so down to earth. Thanks for sharing. Peace and Blessings to all!

  • @pepperpot119
    @pepperpot119 5 років тому +5

    I had the pleasure of meeting Shaggy when I worked at the Camden Palace when he was blowing up with Ravon, he had no airs and graces just a humble down to earth man who made time for everyone who wanted to talk or take a picture a true legend of the Dancehall. It's good to hear a artist like Shaggy give a meaningful interview and not talk the usual nonsense about bad mind and flop man career. Stay blessed Shaggy.

  • @tinasad3
    @tinasad3 5 років тому +41

    Shaggy seems very humble

  • @cidkult
    @cidkult 5 років тому +158

    Some people shouldn’t be parents... FACTs!!!

    • @MJM8715
      @MJM8715 5 років тому +13

      Ella CR Real Talk! Emotional abuse is more hurtful than a beating with a belt or switch 😔

    • @cidkult
      @cidkult 5 років тому +1

      Mr Lex yeah humans can be cruel. Dealt with that aspect most of my life. The problem is, when a human experience is altered or changed via interaction with humans that are not aware about the how an event or events can impact and scare people or they do know but like to use it as a power. It literally changes your life forever.. the event doesn’t need to be shocking or really harmful it can just be something so simple. your psyche won’t know till you react to it. And how badly it effects you you will really only find out later on down the line. Also you can never come back from this altered experience.. that’s the worst thing. That why online life is so popular. It’s a way of saving yourself from interaction, not effective really but it does help.. anywho yeah humans are mean to other humans animals and plants we are selective in who and what we help which is unnatural because I do believe... well atleast with black and other ethnicities of colour we are not naturally mean. It’s something that is taught to us by interactions or lessons learnt.. have a blessed day.. (my theory is from observation of my own trauma and others around me by the way) try not to not think human interactions are the only option for you to be happy.. plants and animals can help you get through ish too.

    • @cidkult
      @cidkult 5 років тому

      Martha J. Jackson any form of abuse is hard to deal with. But f* up the mind through emotional pain is the worst.. because it stays with you. It’s hard to shake off. Stay strong even if you don’t think you can any more. Listen to your body more than your mind... go with feelings instead of what your head is saying.. remember the mind is not actually connected to you body and it can’t process the present moments only the past and the clouded future.. so it’s so important to live in the present and feel your way round the world instead of listening to it sometimes.. We attach the meaning through our mind, like the sensations we feel in our body when facing a problem.. don’t think with your mind all the time as it’s been altered by a uncomfortable event or situation. Stay blessed xxxx

    • @jamesmassingale8512
      @jamesmassingale8512 5 років тому

      FACT,all kids should obey their parents.

    • @NiJah_Kingba
      @NiJah_Kingba 5 років тому

      Meanwhile states across the country are trying to make mother's day mandatory.

  • @Donique_23
    @Donique_23 5 років тому +264

    Hmmm, if your circle dont inspire you you are not in a circle you are in a cage. Sometimes it can feel that way

  • @perfectbalancenetwork2703
    @perfectbalancenetwork2703 5 років тому +373

    Mr Boombastic!! 💪😎

    • @shadeenah8791
      @shadeenah8791 5 років тому +14

      seh mi fantastic!

    • @perfectbalancenetwork2703
      @perfectbalancenetwork2703 5 років тому +17

      Give a thumbs up if you read that with a deep voice and a Jamaican accent... Mr Luhva Luhva Hmmmmm. 😂

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому +2

      @@perfectbalancenetwork2703 At least ya na chat pure fart.

    • @browndemonia3304
      @browndemonia3304 5 років тому

      This man is a Legent Mr boombastic

    • @moeanthony9308
      @moeanthony9308 5 років тому

      @@browndemonia3304 is that the French term?

  • @nikki.khristmas.british6155
    @nikki.khristmas.british6155 5 років тому +11

    Great interview...No matter how old you get, how wealthy you become or how successful you are always be humble to humanity and be kind...

  • @SuzieQ90
    @SuzieQ90 5 років тому +21

    I enjoyed this interview. U can tell he's vibrating on a higher frequency. Keep it up my man

  • @91WriterzStatus
    @91WriterzStatus 5 років тому +15

    Lol, when Shaggy said I suck at anything else, I completely understood.
    Also, this is a great conversation about the music business and the story on why Shaggy didn't get the cover is hilarious. The voice he makes while telling the story, he's funny. 😂😂😂

    • @damarimoland1613
      @damarimoland1613 5 років тому

      91WriterzStatus you’re gorgeous my melanin queen

  • @rednight1438
    @rednight1438 5 років тому +6

    Shaggy, thanks for bringing more awareness about toxic parents. It's so common but nobody can talk about it because they're not taken seriously. I had to cut out a whole side of my family 2 years ago and am being assessed for C-ptsd because of mine - my mum is a covert narcissist. Well done for cutting the cycle. It's so hard to do, such a tough decision to make and still with long lasting effects, but you've done what's best for you.

  • @nursevirgie989
    @nursevirgie989 5 років тому +12

    Death and Life is in the power of the tongue as the word says. It is extremely important to leave toxic people alone, wether it is your mom or not!

  • @Magmafire
    @Magmafire 5 років тому +8

    Though it was a brief moment, I'm glad that Shaggy mentioned all the different types of Jamaicans. It's a very diverse island and people have learned to co-exist peacefully.

    • @nikkibadio9539
      @nikkibadio9539 5 років тому +3

      Magmafire I agree! Many countries in the Caribbean are like that but you know people are small minded lol

  • @WestCoastJodee
    @WestCoastJodee 5 років тому +2

    Thank you Shaggie for talking about toxic moms. Its so taboo but is the reality for so many of us.

  • @viewmaster2027
    @viewmaster2027 5 років тому +61

    The only *U.S🇺🇲Marine* to ever have a *Diamond💎Album* .....🎙🇯🇲

  • @daybyday966
    @daybyday966 5 років тому +114

    Yass Shag, the real conversation starts when the shades are off 4:09

    • @afrodude4782
      @afrodude4782 5 років тому +10

      I said the same thing. Moment he took them off and seen his eyes, I said now we are gonna get into some real deep discussion. Enjoyed the hell out of this interview and I don't even watch interviews like this.

    • @curlyvirgo58
      @curlyvirgo58 5 років тому +9

      Ikr. In this moment i realized that the breakfast Club listens. The one thing that we all have in common is we all want to be heard. Once we feel like we're heard we talk more. The shades symbolized the hurt and the shield. Once he takes them off he's comfortable and open. Its amazing

    • @amberholloway4444
      @amberholloway4444 5 років тому +1

      Olivia Darden TIME STAMP SIS

    • @daybyday966
      @daybyday966 5 років тому

      @@amberholloway4444 Thanks you Sis! Sweetie

    • @leslie5248
      @leslie5248 5 років тому

      Thanks

  • @RealestGuyInTheRoom-
    @RealestGuyInTheRoom- 5 років тому +16

    Breakfast Club & Hot 97 doing a good job with reggae & dancehall artists being interviewed.

  • @mocamilmason3384
    @mocamilmason3384 5 років тому +5

    Great interview. Thanks Shaggy for such a transparent, mature and honest interview. Your openness. Is someone's first therapy session. Real talk at its finest. Someone's heart was healed because of your growth.....continue success.

  • @dontilisha
    @dontilisha 5 років тому +50

    I have mad respect for Shaggy!!!

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186 5 років тому +9

    Culture or where you are from is absolutely NO REASON to abuse others. Cut people at the throat including mama's No one is allowed to ruin your life.

  • @ChichiMarie
    @ChichiMarie 5 років тому +93

    Yassss Shaggy pon de radio this morning! Watagwan!!! Lol good morning everyone I hope you have a blessed and prosperous week. Make it a productive one XOXO ❤️

  • @BigWilt2000
    @BigWilt2000 5 років тому +102

    Angel will forever be my favorite song from Shag. He’s the 🐐

    • @sharcam2010
      @sharcam2010 5 років тому +5

      yep! something about that song just makes me feel so good

    • @jayblack908
      @jayblack908 5 років тому

      TheChronicDocumentary DreGame 💯💯💯

    • @Tomi_janet15
      @Tomi_janet15 5 років тому

      😍😍

  • @n.b.0212
    @n.b.0212 5 років тому +16

    Shaggy looking like Jim Jones and Mike Epps at the same damn time!

  • @AfricanGirl
    @AfricanGirl 5 років тому +79

    I liked this interview especially when he is talking about his broken relationship with his mother. I can relate

    • @AfricanGirl
      @AfricanGirl 5 років тому +3

      @Mr Lex omg same here, u r not alone. My mother loves my selfish older brother who just uses people for money n food. Then she gets mad at him 4 his selfish ways. He doesn't care about her at all. I'm so over her n him n the whole family.

    • @cicelyodom
      @cicelyodom 5 років тому +1

      African Girl omg! We must share the same brother. It’s been a year since I’ve talked to Mom & brother. Toxic people are infectious.

    • @AfricanGirl
      @AfricanGirl 5 років тому +1

      @@cicelyodom lol. Hahaha we probably do. I'm too stay away from toxic human beings. be it family, friends, lovers etc......I don't care nomore. F! all. Girl it's alright not too have those kinds of people in our lives. I'm done with all of them my family.

    • @AfricanGirl
      @AfricanGirl 5 років тому +2

      @Mr Lex don't allow her 2 make u feel like shit. don't let anyone ever make you feel less then. if u h
      gotta keep them out your life do it! so you can heal n then let them know y u don't want or need them around

    • @AfricanGirl
      @AfricanGirl 5 років тому

      @Mr Lex u r welcome. n anytime

  • @pranimaniacssquad3519
    @pranimaniacssquad3519 5 років тому +52

    Damn I needed to hear this about the inner circle it’s facts I need to make some changes

    • @ddavis818
      @ddavis818 5 років тому +3

      pranimaniacs Squad So true....after 20 years of lots of laughter and lots of pain. I had finally had to tell a friend that our season had ended. The relationship was co dependent and toxic. It really hurt but now two years later, it was one of the best decisions I ever made. I had to finally value myself above others.

  • @yusufjinadu
    @yusufjinadu 5 років тому +15

    Lmao you gotta respect Charlamagne's honesty.
    Man legit said "I don't like Reggae" to the King of Reggae

    • @mariodan2835
      @mariodan2835 5 років тому

      U calling shaggy the king of reggae???

  • @karamelkoated1032
    @karamelkoated1032 5 років тому +3

    The relationship between an island parent and their children is one of a beautiful, complex, dysfunctional af, and ever changing and reflective nature. Awesome interview 🇯🇲

  • @v.watkins5612
    @v.watkins5612 5 років тому +4

    Great interview... as the daughter of Caribbean parents, I have experienced the vicious tongue of both my mother & grandmother. It takes a concerted effort to not place it on your children. Do know... therapy works AND hurt people.. hurt people.

  • @geecheemusclekev7540
    @geecheemusclekev7540 5 років тому +20

    I'm from Charleston, SC charlemagne's comments about reggae at the end of this interview does not reflect us as a whole...he by his self on that one 😂😂

    • @iriereggaevibes1553
      @iriereggaevibes1553 5 років тому +1

      BREAKFAST CLUB PANEL..IS LOST AS SHIT...ONE CHINEY GAL...ONE P.R....AN ONE BLAK WHO THINKS OFF

    • @qtkeyah
      @qtkeyah 5 років тому +3

      I wanna visit there so badly. Gullah geeche ppl are so beautiful 💕

    • @iriereggaevibes1553
      @iriereggaevibes1553 5 років тому +1

      @@qtkeyah i take u

    • @Izlandprincess1
      @Izlandprincess1 5 років тому +1

      @@qtkeyah we aren't Gullah people. That's an American thing. Our ancestors come from Africa. Plus we have other races here, so many of us mix up.

    • @godlove5912
      @godlove5912 5 років тому +1

      RasMarcus Dubwise1 Envy is not Puerto Rican he is African American and high yellow

  • @283nickle
    @283nickle 5 років тому +2

    so great seeing my fellow Jamaican being so vulnerable. He's right, it's this culture of abuse that became normalized. My parents weren't satan, but they weren't angels either. And I have had conversations with them about how the abuse affected me. Watching my own brother parent now, I can see him consciously breaking the cycle and it makes me so proud.

  • @klaird_h4727
    @klaird_h4727 5 років тому +87

    Ok Envy...I see you..your interview skills may be lacking, but you are doing things for the community, that not too many other are. That's commendable

  • @jajjmoore
    @jajjmoore 5 років тому +108

    I can relate to shaggy about his mom..I deal with the same exact experience Unfortunately. 🔥🔥

    • @SpiritAnimal1212
      @SpiritAnimal1212 5 років тому +3

      A.M. And Friends I think most of us from Generation X, can relate to that. And not just mothers but fathers as well. Our legacy , if we have children, will be to break the dysfunctional pattern and abusive parenting model of our parents when we parent our children. If people can become more self aware and cognizant then we can raise a healthier generation. When we know better, we do better.

  • @nkechi62
    @nkechi62 5 років тому +7

    I’m a Libra too... and man when I tell you that I don’t do confrontation... I keep it moving

  • @timrichofficial2318
    @timrichofficial2318 5 років тому +13

    A shaggy and Lenny Kravitz joint would be fire!!!!!!!! Two pure souls.

  • @simplynaomi
    @simplynaomi 5 років тому +21

    Jamaicans loooove Celine Dion

  • @YourUnorthodoxEducator
    @YourUnorthodoxEducator 5 років тому +5

    I thank you Shaggy!!! For being transparent and strong to Own how you feel and are affected!. I tell my dad all the time, I AM breaking every generational curse set upon me. And HE BE ALL THE WAY TIGHT. But I Stand tall in saying It will stop with Me.♡ BLESSINGS TO YOU LOVE.
    *THEN* US SINGLE CHILDREN OFTEN SUFFER IN SILENCE, MASK IN SUCCESS ANS RICHES.

  • @neverobey1477
    @neverobey1477 5 років тому +28

    Jamaica is dope.. If you can travel save a few bucks and take a trip with your girl or man and visit jamaica get an all inclusive package and go its AMAZING!

  • @divalova34
    @divalova34 5 років тому +4

    This was a very introspective & cool interview. Shaggy always seem fun in his music but he's lowkey, you don't know much about him. He is an intelligent & sensitive man. I loved how he can realize his mom wasn't the best parent & strive to do better for himself as a parent. That's fly. This was a great discussion about a lot & I learned about him I didn't know.

  • @brodiejr4real
    @brodiejr4real 5 років тому +6

    Before we dissect Shaggy in this interview, lets take the time to uproot the pain and bitterness within our own lives first.

  • @rade9242
    @rade9242 5 років тому +8

    Listen...I am living for the new wave of black men really examining into the emotions and mental well being as they get older. I hope the younger men pay attention and start earlier.

  • @joshjosh5962
    @joshjosh5962 5 років тому +9

    Shaggy is right a lot of parents was abused back in their days so they turn around treating their children the same and it’s hard to deal with them bc they are old and already set in their old ways and can’t changed my mother is the same I still love her and forgive her bc it’s not her fault it’s the way her parents treated her so I loved her from a distance and see her time to time so I can relate with shaggy😍😍🔥🔥

  • @aky19832001
    @aky19832001 3 роки тому +1

    This man was a legit marine and served in the gulf War! That explains his discipline and drive in life. As well as his upbringing.

  • @sweet_southern_gal
    @sweet_southern_gal 5 років тому +61

    Lawd I relate to Only Child with emotionally unstable parent.

  • @cherie0882
    @cherie0882 5 років тому +15

    I love how he didn't answer Charlemagne's questions lol. Like I am not going to dumb myself down for you.

  • @tajimclarke5885
    @tajimclarke5885 5 років тому +3

    This took me back I have a emotionally and physically abusive mom. She beat my ass soo bad once she told me to pretend sick so my dad didn't take me away. You can't have conversation with them they have get irate and remember different it becomes a shouting match. I love her to death she still want to tell me what to do and who to talk to im 52. I tell her keep off my child she never touch him. Still love her. Understand shag.

  • @mayaretreat6179
    @mayaretreat6179 2 роки тому +1

    Wow!!! He's breaking the cycles of abuse, of mental slavery and he has been working really hard on self awareness!!!! Great job

  • @louislark4506
    @louislark4506 5 років тому +4

    I immensely respects Shaggy' s transparentcy and emotional cognizance. I can relate to his mother' s acidic verbal abuse which had adverse consequences on me. However- as I psychologically developed and went to counseling, it gave me the tools to avert abusive and emotionally women. And- that whole generational verbal abuse is very prevalent in our African- American community. And- that was saged salient advice on choosing wisely one' s inner circle.

  • @neceebash6358
    @neceebash6358 5 років тому +19

    He’s one of those celebrities I never really seen there face... I could have walked right past him and never knew who he was

    • @jaycanbeauty
      @jaycanbeauty 5 років тому +1

      Necee Bash you might for real because hes real humble and cool in real life

    • @dellinkedup5479
      @dellinkedup5479 5 років тому +1

      RealJamaikan Beauty I heard that at as well lol

  • @tonicemona933
    @tonicemona933 5 років тому +6

    I’m a Libra too and I 💯 percent feel you !! People take your kindness for a weakness

  • @A0.917
    @A0.917 5 років тому +19

    Intergenerational abuse and violence. Break the cycle. A toxic parent is the worse thing ever.

  • @mscherryboss
    @mscherryboss 5 років тому +5

    You can tell everyone thoroughly enjoyed this interview they really listened to him and engaged gracefully

  • @deangrey1165
    @deangrey1165 5 років тому +6

    This Interview is great. This is like therapy. We all humans and dont matter where you reach in this life there will always be imperfections or voids. Shaggy keep doing good no matter what?? Represent Jamaica to the maxxxxx

  • @TheUltimateLady
    @TheUltimateLady 5 років тому +48

    How can you not like reggae/dancehall?!?!?

    • @jamaicanice1522
      @jamaicanice1522 5 років тому

      Am Jamaican and I understand,because I try to like Soca and I can't.

    • @isaachylton23
      @isaachylton23 5 років тому

      @@jamaicanice1522 Thought I was the only one.

    • @TheUltimateLady
      @TheUltimateLady 5 років тому

      JAMAICA NICE lawdddd, I love soca.

    • @jamaicanice1522
      @jamaicanice1522 5 років тому

      @@TheUltimateLady I haaate..Its tooo bland and fake for me..It rarely speaks on reality and the beat sound off to me,,So I can understand Charlemagne not liking REGGAE or Dancehall..I think what we like comes from a natural place and can't be forced

    • @jamaicanice1522
      @jamaicanice1522 5 років тому +3

      @@isaachylton23 Ppl no realise Soca is a simple music and it doesn't touch the heart of a true music lover..If u listened 3 Soca songs then practically u have listen all.

  • @sabamakedah7910
    @sabamakedah7910 5 років тому +3

    I'm from south africa and a couple of years back my parents and I went to uganda and he was staying at a resort called myonyo. My mom went wild when she saw him. Screaming like a high school girl. He was so sweet and polite and dad on the other hand was super sour 🤣

  • @R0jira
    @R0jira 5 років тому +3

    I remember in the 90s the reggae fans considered Shaggy Pop. Glad he took heed and showed them he was about that music.

    • @inquisitive871
      @inquisitive871 5 років тому

      Funny because he kept in contact with a lot of the artists during that time and even up to today. It was Shaggy who got Supercat back on his feet after taking a hiatus for so many years.

  • @4titude_
    @4titude_ 5 років тому +17

    Y’all should definitely go to Jamaica and interview Buju... Great idea Envy!!!

  • @adrinefields8794
    @adrinefields8794 5 років тому +9

    so Shaggy just gon' look good forever?? sheeeesh :-)

  • @carlashipman1778
    @carlashipman1778 5 років тому +5

    I truly believe in paying it forward. Always stay humble and kind. Keep serving others your blessing will keep dropping on you and others. Forgiveness and Love. Best wishes Shaggy.

  • @Kaos_Magazine
    @Kaos_Magazine 5 років тому +3

    Getting older ain't too bad, I have soooo much wisdom now, I'm so grateful... I love Sean Paul too 🤗

  • @naturalbeauty637
    @naturalbeauty637 5 років тому +4

    I'm the same way. When people betray me, I'm permanently done with them. Then I move on.

  • @Lissanicole444
    @Lissanicole444 5 років тому +38

    Yaaaassss he's a libra like me. Yes when we are done....we are done.

    • @larhondaburchett3271
      @larhondaburchett3271 5 років тому

      Factuals!!!

    • @veemcdonald3902
      @veemcdonald3902 5 років тому +1

      Lissa1949 yes I’m a Libra and I’m the same way!🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @soundpuppy1212
      @soundpuppy1212 5 років тому +1

      Libra here..and he just took the words outta my mouth..i hate confrontations.

    • @UrbanAlchemystic
      @UrbanAlchemystic 5 років тому +1

      And libras don't forget shit that you did to them in the past makes sense

    • @thebeautiful1_frombk439
      @thebeautiful1_frombk439 5 років тому

      Yes that's me also.. 10/5

  • @sereneaura3291
    @sereneaura3291 5 років тому +1

    Envy's response was great. He gets wealth and teaches men how to fish instead of just giving them the fish!#BlessedtobeaBlessing

  • @KingKan
    @KingKan 5 років тому +3

    50 YEARS OLD!!!! I hope I have that same virility when I get there lol