10 Styling Mistakes That Make You Look Older & Invisible
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I'm a petite, busty, hourglass. I find that wearing 2 colors (top/bottom) makes me appear shorter. I try to wear similar shades on top and bottom. Not appearing so short is more important to me than looking like the current trend.🤷♀️. I add color to the outfit with luxurious scarves. Even if I'm wearing jeans & a T-shirt, I've usually added a silk, linen, or fine wool scarf. Just love them. 🤩
I’m only 5 ft tall and I wear a lot of monochromatic outfits too.
Great idea about the color scarves!
If you think you are invisible just get a cute dog and EVERYBODY will stop you on the street to talk to you.
This is true, but at times I feel I am now a 'dog mum' and less interesting than him😂
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Black and a great haircut does it for me.
Navy blue suits me perfectly. Black is harsh on my skin tone
Navy is my black too
@@annalynn9325I love both. Black suits my hair color and skin tone.
Same here. I mostly wear Autumn colors. Navy works well with my color palette.
I love a beautiful midnight navy color. It’s navy with some black in it. It works much better for me than the lighter navy’s.
Same; always seeking out navy. I love black but rarely wear as it as it’s not good on me.
Lots of good points! For a bra, I would add that the positioning of the breasts is critical!! By this I mean how far up or down on the chest the breasts sit. The most flattering and youthful is to make sure the bra positions your breasts halfway between your elbow and your shoulder (but no higher or it can look like you're trying too hard to be sexy/youthful). As we age the breasts droop and this of course gives an older appearance. When the breasts are lifted to the correct position it automatically creates a younger appearance.
I’m in my late 60s, don’t really want to look any slimmer, but I love wearing black (yes, even close to my face) *because* it makes my hair look more grey. It’s a striking contrast that makes me love my grey hair! I always add some elements that make the outfit look intentional, not lazy (or “invisible”). I do wear colors, but nothing feels quite as chic as a black outfit.
I’m 45 and maybe black is making me look older but I don’t really care because I love this colour as my favourite band is Depeche Mode. Love your videos❤
Omg my favorite band was also Depeche Mode. For decades. Since I was a teenager. I’m 52.
@@evarkf5303Me too, and black just looks best on me.
I agree. I have short blonde hair and fair skin, and black is a good contrast on me, as well as being slimming. My go to look is black top, colored or pattern bottom.
@magalufff 🎵Black Celebration 🎶
@@evarkf5303 Mine too; they write sophisticated pop songs and are so cool, glamorous even.
I love wearing black it makes you always look more elegant.
Mich macht es alt und hart...😮
I love the tans for summer. Black blue and white look great
Yes please. A video on exfoliating and moisturizing.
@connielemle1579 Advanced Clinicals Retinol firming cream works wonders if you're keen. It makes my body look good. I was surprised (I must say).
Such an awesome video. I just turned 64 and revamping my colors and style. I refuse to dress OLD. Yes, do a color video 🤗💕
Great idea!!
Wearing colors that really make my complexion glow is a game changer for me.
Tip for glasses wearers: Select your frames from the sunglasses' frames. They're much more stylish!
love that
I've been doing that for the past few years! They're so much cooler.😎
I've noticed that too 😊
They will let you do that at the optometrist? Awesome idea! 😮
@dutchgirl7947 YES. Been doing this for around 10 years now.
My goodness, you have the best suggestions!
You mentioned hats, please do a video on types of hats and how to wear them.
I love to see a woman in a hat.
Thank you for sharing with us.
Yes, I would love a video on hats, too! Actually, I finally had the Courage and started wearing Fedoras and other hats last year, and they earn me compliments (by women!) regularly. So, ladies who consider wearing hats: please be bold and do so! It’s fun, and with the right hat you will feel like the queen you are ;)
@@simonew949 I know, even a hat makes jeans look elevated.
Let's go ladies, make an old trend new again ❤️
I love black! I know it might older me but I can't stop wear it. Amazing video Frederique
You look like Sophia Loren! Wow!
A friend recently sent me this quote. “The relationship between me and black clothes is a love story that can’t be explained.”. I’m a 75 year old with white hair, pale skin and blue eyes and I look great in black so it’s what I’m going to wear. Thank you for a wonderful video.
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I've given up wearing black because I have 3 cats and a dog!
@@jeannehunter5344❤. I have lint rollers everywhere 😊❤
@@jeannehunter5344😂😂I know the feeling!
Perfect for your coloring - and looks so smart
The only black I wear now is a black blazer, black tank, and LBD. At 68, I went natural in 2020 from a dark auburn to white hair with silver glints throughout and it's stunning. With pale skin and blue eyes and white hair, black around my face is much too harsh with navy, deep royal blue, charcoal gray, and burgundy being the darkest colors I wear now. My jewelry is now mostly silver or white gold or mixed. It looks like a wardrobe for a completely different person! I love it.
Ditto for me as well! We are probably in cool tones of color because I have olive skin and gray hair w/ a lil black left but wear the same color as you. I look my best in these colors.
Hi Frederique, as a 5 ft 62 year old with a full bust I love wearing black. I feel like colours overwhelm me and make me look even shorter (I tend to wear dresses for the same reason). I’m pale (which I love) with ashen blonde hair so I feel I can get away with it as long as I wear blush and lipstick. Having said that I also enjoy wearing navy, which as I age more I’ll probably try to head towards. I think it’s a little kinder and softer . Anyway thanks… you always look amazing and are such an inspiration!❤
I’m a designer and my whole wardrobe has always been neutral and lots of black. But with age and going cool blond…navy is a wonderful addition ❤️✨ also…with black or navy, love an open collared shirt or v neck😉✨
Same
I love how fun and knowledgeable you are! Thank you for all of this helpful information on style for us older gals!
As a lover of black I find it’s now too harsh & am moving over to the blue palette. When I do wear black, I wear my red glasses & do a finger dab of red lipstick. 💋
I find black and red very harsh, even harsher than black and white, neither are for me
I'm 70 and I agree with a lot of your advise!
I’ve been following this lady since the beginning and let me tell you she looks better now than few years back. So she is definitely doing something right ❤
Vids have come a long way in the last three years. Better lighting, cameras, sound, etc. Don’t feel bad about yourself in comparison. It could be all of these things for her.
Love love love your beautiful personality!!! ❤
Black around my face definitely doesn't do me any favours now but I still love it. I already do as you advised and have black jeans, shoes and bag that satisfies my passion for black. Thank you for sharing these great tips.
Nada Marley, a great stylist I recommend, said, "Be less hesitant about dressing young than dressing old", old clothes age us! I'm 58 and steer well clear of top-to-top classic/ladylike outfits, I always mix and match, e.g. great jeans with a tweed jacket with frayed hems. Even gold buttons look too old and ladylike on me. I invest in quirky unusual scarves - not Hermes-type, they are way too classic and stuffy imo. For example I have a lovely Gucci necktie with a vintage Mickey Mouse design that's very cool and is nothing like what you would buy at Disneyland. It doesn't have to be expensive - I bought simple bandanas for just 99p in all colours, I wear a lot of monochrome/neutrals and adding a little bandana can really brighten up an outfit and make you look current and young(er)
I'm turning to navy more and more!
Great video with so many useful tips...again!!! Thank you!!!
You are so welcome!
I love black! I feel secure, safe and confidant wearing black!! nice i found you and your channel!
I love wearing black it suites my figure well as a slim pear shape ❤ also navy blue is a great color! I do wear black cashmere sweaters with my leopard midi skirt looks cute paired with black kitten heels or knee high books in the fall! Thank you for your observation and tips ❤❤
Thank you for talking about the style of glasses! 🙏
I'm very happy for this video.
I'm a gray-haired 52 y.o. woman. I sometimes wear Black (it's só elegant) but never too close to my face. I find pearls beautiful acessories, they fit perfecrly to black. And, finally, delicate make-up and Red lipstick. Sorry for my not-so-perfect English, I'm from Brazil.
I love your fashion advice … and yes to the body exfoliating and moisturising ❤❤
Thoroughly enjoyed this. We are all going to look fabulous. 😀
Yes we do
I love your glasses !!! They look beautiful on you !!!
Oh thank you!
Love your hair this way and the large glasses. Yes, You look younger!
I love wearing black in the fall and winter, even though it is not in my spring color palette. My favorite ways to wear black are black lace tops, dresses, and skirts. Or black and white houndstooth skirts. Adding a pop of red somewhere, like red shoes, red nails, etc also helps brighten up a black outfit.
Love wearing black and white when I wear black l make sure l put on my makeup which makes a big difference ❤
Thank you for a very giving tutorial. I am 44 and I feel more me, attractive and happier now. I instinctively started to incorporate some of your advice.
I always enjoy your videos, no matter what the topic, so thank you! Have you ever considered covering more about where you live, without getting too personal. What is it like living in Bali? Local cuisine, shopping, going out, diving, etc. Of course you have to keep part of your life to yourself, but I think expat life is interesting. I'm an expat myself, and people are often curious about my perspective on the countries I live in. Just an idea. :-). But as I say, I thoroughly enjoy all the topics you cover in your videos. Merci!
I know nothing about Bali so would love to see why people like it. Even going to a restaurant or market to see the food would be fine.
I made a video about my life in Bali and didn’t do well plus UA-cam push only my videos about styling - follow me on Instagram I post daily story about my life @msfrederique
Really helpful and fun presentation! loved all the tips on glasses and accessories-thank you! love suexxx
A video on body care would be appreciated we are going into winter in Australia and it seems my skin has turned flaky overnight. I dry brush 2-3 times a week but have read that this isn’t something to do too regular as it damages the skin. I was wondering about a glycolic acid face scrub/cleanser on my arms and legs ?
At the moment I use a home mix of lanolin and castor oil to moisturise and occasionally an oil like jojoba or baby oil
I am in my 60’s with fair skin
I started using glycolic acid every night and it has really helped - especially with my chapped lips!
Great video...again. Thanks. Agree about older people not wearing top to toe pastels or black. I do wear a black cashmere twinset in winter, but always wear a silk scarf (in the same colour as my skirt/trousers) in a brighter colour.
I may not have a lot of clothes; but I Do sure have exceptional pieces that stands out and
always in style. I do believe you should purchase fresh white blouses every summer to compliment your summer wardrobe. 💃🏻
Thanks for sharing!!
Clothes last for years especially if they are only worn in a season. I cannot imagine myself buying new things every year. Well, unless I was wealthy and wasteful.
Hi Fredrique I’m 64, I grew out my dyed hair so I’m now 💯 my natural silver colour. Also I’ve recently lost 29 kilos (approx 64 pounds) I was a plus size 16-18 and I’m now a regular size 8-10. I’m currently curating a whole new wardrobe. I love all black, linen, cotton, and I don’t mind rayon coz it’s soft. Pre-weight loss I wore oversized clothes but now I want to wear more tailored clothes. I’m binging your videos to get ideas.
congrats on your weight loss, you must feel so much better xx
Well done how did you lose the weight?
Great points. I am doing good, and lately even getting better. Sometimes, when we have still great bodies, we get kind of little bit stuck…. Well I can still wear cropped tops, more body skimming dress, but I got to realization, that I don’t want that anymore… I prefer style, interesting more artistic details, uniqueness, fashion.. I still wear some black. All my LBD not going anywhere 🤪😜 lol but I do wear with minimum makeup, especially complexion products, and glowy skin bronzed or pink blush. Brightening complexion and eyes , smokey eye, or bright lipstick red or coral,… it depends of season. Also gold accessories, or some peal jewelry or choker… and since I am blond , it’s already helps as well… Have a blessed day 🙏❤️
I'm 44, but I look fantastic in black and other dark shades. It's important to wear colors that complement our undertone; otherwise, we risk looking washed out.
Love your new hair! Looks great!
Thank you so much 😀
I so enjoyed your video…such wonder tips. I’m looking forward to your color video!
Love your content. You are reporting fashion fixes that feel correct for big cities NY, Paris, London and not just the suburbs. Thank you! I’m following! (BTW - this is Lance’s mom, not my teenage son who owns this account)
I’m with you nothing bulky always fitted!
Black is my favorite. Many have told me I look very nice in black. I also like white. Next is a baby pink. Navy blue is another favorite. Camel doesn't work as well next to my face, but I love camel purses, belts, and shoes! Grey is my favorite for winter coats. Dark grey to lighter grey, short to long trench coats. All fabulous. Pastels work well on me because of my hair and eye color. But I also like the jewel colors for winter like ruby or burgundy red, emerald green, sapphire blue.
You make a great point about black around the face. In your examples, it shows how people look like they are a floating head! I never recognized that before
I have noticed that black is looking more harsh on me, so I’ve moved toward softer blacks (sheer black). I’ve been moving black away from my face even though it looks beautiful with my red hair. Natural fabrics are the best! I don’t mind ironing them because it drapes so much better.
Your video is perfect about black color. I feel very old in black clothes. I am 61.
I agree with you: absolutely no matching jewelry sets! But to call it a fashion faux pas to match the color of your shoes and handbag or maybe your belt sounds rather harsh.
The opposite: it's not really stylish to mix accessories in different colors. It looks like you simple take something out of you closet without any consideration and then call it "casual"...If matching colors means old-fashioned and old-aged - so be it! I call it harmony.
Thank you for the video, great tips. Most of all, I love that you have personality unlike so many other YT fashion influencers, who sometimes lack brains or their own REAL opinions. I want to ask about your HAIR, which looks GORGEOUS on you and very glam. Can you do a video on your hairdo? I find that some more mature women cut their hair short but end up looking old for that very reason. NOT YOU !!! Your hair is great. gives us courage to wear short hair without feeling invisible. Please make a video about your new hairdo. Many thanks!
great idea thanks
Frédérique, you look great with your hair style and hair color. You keep looking younger and younger.??????
hahaha no I don't, but I'm very happy with my new like in Bali :)
Indeed, love the haircut - chic.
Frederique …I just loved this video. Great advice. Your hair looks great. Yes I would love to see how you care for your skin on your body . What type of faux tan do you recommend? Also advice on shoes that coordinate with certain cuts of pants Blessings beautiful lady 💃🏻
Noted!
I love black. It’s classic and neutral. However, there are very few women who can wear black (it’s in their color season) and pull it off and look natural. I wish companies would make tops that are black but also have options of navy and brown for those of us who need a different dark neutral.
Thank you! Love waotching your videos!
So glad!
I’m fine with being invisible, thanks.
Yet here you are, so...
Great tips.
Being invisible is a superpower. We see you although you don’t see us. It gives one a whole new relationship to the world. I relish it.
I love wearing black. When I wear all black i will do a bright lip or a chunky silver choker or bracelet to draw the eye away . Mix it with white or a gray occasionally even animal prints. Not giving up my black no matter what. Like they say once you go black you can't go back lol....
Black looks really good on me as a Deep Winter; I will always wear black close to my face. I think it really depends on your coloring and undertones.
I love your lipstick and glasss. You look amazing. Can you tell me the brand and color of lipstick and brand of glasses? Thanks so much
check on my amazon or shopwithfreddie.com thx
Thanks. Is it the vegan lip balm? I dont see any lipsticks.
Hi. TY for your videos covering Seniors💚. Pls consider showing more pics as you talk "dos donts" & yourself smaller on one side. Also put an an X or a tick ✅ too
Hello! I'm a 42 years old brazilian woman and I have a native american phenotype. I was wondering if you could make a video showing us how to polish and style our look without looking that we are on costumes. Thank you!😊
Thanks for the idea!
I love black! I am over 45 and I always feel like black is a classic color, well that and navy.Black appears cleaner even if it's not. Plus I have an outdoor lifestyle so its really great as a transitional color from outside to having to go to an office for example. Plus I enjoy being in the " background", or unnoticed. however if I feel daring I can always add a pop of color. Black always makes me feel the most confident.
I’m 58 & petite, can’t wear black as it drowns me.. love navy & love pastels 🤍🩵🩷
What brand are those seamless undies? I wasn't able to find in your notes.
Vos conseils sont très intéressants ça serait bien de les faire aussi pour les françaises. C est vrai qu on a ttes adore le noir mais passer un certain âge trop près du visage ça ne correspond plus. J utilise encore les tops noirs cependant en col v ou style bain de soleil.
Merci et bienvenue x
I wear black and I am 67 and always red lips
My skin color is very pale like a flounder 😁. I wear a lot of black and every now and then will wear deep jewel colors for shirts, sweaters and scarves. Pale colors look horrible on me. I love bright colors, but I love seeing those colors on other people, not me. 😁
I mostly buy my clothes secondhand. But if I do buy new I buy from Muji. Affordable, classically beautiful, and hold up well. Grey is my go-to colour; prussian blue grey, taupe grey, varying shades of grey green, silver grey, etc.
Great advice!
Glad you think so!
Regarding wearing black: maybe have your colors done and pick your -near black- dark neutral (dark cool navy and charcoal are mine) makes a lot of difference!
Wonderful video! ❤ Can you tell me more about the necklace you are wearing? I’ve been looking for something like this to add to my collection. Thank you, beautiful!
It's from bali tiny 'rice' pearls :)
@@ms.frederique thank you! I’m not sure if I’ll be able to find this here in the States but I’ll try. Or, maybe I’ll have to plan a trip to Bali 😉 Thanks again and for all you do to empower women! 🫶
Please create more self care videos like you used to. Thanks
Sure 😊
Great tips, thank you so much! For better vision, there are vitamins to take. Eggs are good for vision. I boil 4 at once, and eat one every morning. Question: can you wear the skin tone shoes year round? I wear beige in the summer, black shoes the rest of the year.
Such a lovely video....lots of love from India ❤
You are so kind
Thank you for the wonderful video. Please make a video about exfoliation / skin care. Thank you.
I went to a stylist earlier this year, actually- and know I am a 'cool neutral summer'. till working out exactly what that means (Yes, we talked about it and I have info about it LOL most of the colours are ones I gravitate to automatically. I wear very little black. One, I dont particularly like it on me, but also... I live with 7 white dogs. LOL
I am big and tall. Oversized does not look frumpy on me.
I NEVER wear black!!! Just love colour. 😀
Thanks for a fun video 😊
Thank you too
Your hair is looking very pretty as it is growing out a little.
What color shoes go best with navy these days? Natural, beige, champagne? Back in the day, one had to wear navy shoes with navy outfits but I think not anymore.
Cognac
Love this advice 😊
My skin is always tanned from daily lap swim in outdoor pool. Black near my face isn’t a good option. I still wear back but it is on bottom half or under other colors.
I live white but I hate yellowing white after being laundered. I stop buying white because my heart was broken too many times seeing favorite pieces yellowing.
I always use sunglasses frame to add prescription lenses (never the darkening lens, too tacky).
I love your videos but would like to see more outfits on older people.
NICE
Thanks
I look good in pastel colors but it’s hard to find pastels that aren’t frumpy in cut. Tibi is the only one I know that does pastels in more cool, modern cuts that I need as I get older. Does anyone know other designers that do non-frumpy pastels?
After years of wearing black helping out backstage @ theaters, I was over it for a while.
My favorite channel 🦋🌷
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I did not know that matching handbag to shoes has gone out of style. Thank you for the update!
Eh, it depends on where you are going. It's chic if you are wearing all the same color
Your a sweetheart. Love your videos AM a 67 young woman.,you make me feel and look younger.
Glasses is a very tricky thing to get it right. In my view current trend often makes a person look like a fly dragon or as a clown.
I agree with you! I have to try so many pairs before I can find what looks good on my face. The current large glasses trend is not for me! I think the population looks like goofballs with those big frames on lol.