I truly believe they will reunite, as soon as he closes his eyes forever selena will be the first one with open arms to welcome him, he needs his baby & they miss each other. Soul mates stay soul mates.
@@artan. you know the Song BEST I CAN??which he dedicate to his late wife..you can tell.how much he loves her.he may love again but the love that she had share with selena will always be special and one of a kind..and no one ever gonna replace selena on his heart no one!!
It’s so sad how Chris can’t really say much legally! Chris knew a side of her that NO ONE else knew!! I’m still wondering why her dad sued him for the movie Chris tried making. There’s a reason why they got married without telling anyone. I mean for crying out loud in both the movie and show and real life they kept saying it was so that the family would have no other choice but to accept Chris which speaks a lot of volume about how controlling they were!! Maybe it was going to show us the truth about the Quintanilla family(suzette, her dad, brother,& mom)and they didn’t want to be portrayed a certain way. Like even now if you look at all the videos from that family from the moment she passed until today they literally have been living of HER fame excluding Chris. I hope one day Chris can come out and say his side of the story because like I stated before he knew her in a way NO ONE else knew
@@sillyseilyy3 yeah I know about the book but he was sued for trying to make a movie about their love and other things surrounding her. He only made that book since he wasn’t allowed to make the movie
@@lunadeayer495 well read the book, they are always better than any movie anyway. Much more difficult to put 300 pgs or more into a 2 hr movie anyway. The movie rights also would've been based on his book.
Because the dad (Selena) is a narcissist I’m sorry but NOT sorry. The man is money hungry and he controlled Selena when she was here on earth and STILLS tries to control her SMH . Honestly, they eloped so there’s NO prenup SMH Chris has every right to whatever he wants and I can NOT believe that basically they keep making money off her SMH Chris should be the one with the Museum, Chris should be able to make a movie about Selena and him. Hate to sound terrible but when Abraham Senior dies he should be able to do whatever and get attorneys.
Honeslty couldn't stand her dad in the series. What a toxic person. Would rather force his kids to be in a band than get out and find work to provide for his family.
I'm sure selena would've wanted him to carry on...he wouldn't want him to feel alone. He will always have a special place in his heart for Selena that can never be replaced by anyone.
In the beginning of "To Selena, With Love", Chris writes of getting a phone call from a friend, who tells him about a dream he's had. In the dream, Selena asks him how Chris is doing, and he tells her that Chris is having a really hard time. Selena tells him not to worry about Chris, because "I've got him". I think it was Selena's way of letting Chris know, through his friend, that she still loves him, and is watching over him. I believe that she knew he was at an emotional low - point, and needed the comfort of knowing that, while she was gone , she wasn't really "gone", if you know what I mean. I don't see any other way of interpreting the dream.
When Chris leaves this earth the first beautiful soul that’s going to greet him is Selena. In 1000% sure they’ll find each other in the next life. Never seen a love like this since.
Chris said, in an interview if only she had told him where she was going that morning instead of just leaving the house maybe things would have been alive.She didn't even let anyone know I'm sure that bothers him for life
@@laurenmungaray3912 yeah he wished he did but, obviously she didn't want him to know and sure didn't want him to go with her for some reason.Selena was brave and obviously not afraid of her no telling what was said in that room.Just sad!!!
@Marie Madison yessssssss!!! Yolanda knows her and want say.You know you have to get broke in to get to the top.For her to just leave like that and not tell her husband Chris didn't question her because maybe she made him feel let me do me and you just stand by and enjoy the ride I married you so I have no say, assuming how he felt.If you love someone you don't keep secrets and her leaving that morning with out even considering to tell the man she loves where she was going was sadly her last dance.When Yolanda get out I'm sure she'll write a book I remember listening to her in an interview, Yolanda said," there are things we don't even know that she can say but,want
The truly saddest part was hearing that Chris moved on, has kids, and is now divorced. I know, in my heart, that had Selena lived, she would've bore his children, and they would've been beautiful! And her and Chris would still be together. Their's is a story of true soul mates, I can just feel it in the way he talks about her. Like that thing about them holding hands on the plane; that is just like me and my wife who died. We would always tell people that when we held each other it just felt...right. Like hugging her is what I am always supposed to be doing. The rest of the world just melts away and I'm holding my baby. And that's also why no relationships after "The One" have worked out, for me or for Chris. We were lucky enough to not have to settle like most do. We got the golden spouse, and in turn, we were that for them.
he is a nobody - a parasite - he has put nanny people thru hell - that s why the people who really know him - Selena s and Vanessa s families - despise him.
Oh here is that Tony again - ripping on Chris, calling him a parasite and loser. He says to me on another thread on this video that he's known Selena since she was a small child, and that "everyone despises Chris". He also says that his own child is "very, very famous" and his wife of 49 years is "one of the successful producers in the industry". I call bullshit - he doesn't have any info on Chris that isn't public knowledge - but he sure does hate on Chris! He must think himself truly fkng perfect, then! He just runs Chris into the dirt!
@@j.whiteoak6408 - Chris is a parasite and a loser - what he does - is described in every dictionary as such. Same with Selena s father. Not everyone despises Chris - Selena s mom and Vanessa s mom do - with good reasons. My daughter is indeed a very famous actress and political activist. My wife is indeed one of the most successful music producers ever - I do have a lot of info that is not public - I choose not to share it on youtube. I have given my email and phone here - 100 s of times - I have talked to many people - and I have met a few in person - and shared info with them - that is secret. NO - I don t hate Chris - or anyone - I expose both Chris and the father - as losers and parasites - many examples of people who were not - in the exact same position - Priscilla Presley - after Elvis died - said over and over - that she would never benefit from his enormous fame - she never did - and she had a daughter with him - Chris had no child with Selena. Priscilla made his mansion into a museum - every dollar made - went into Elvis charity foundation that he started and still exists today - and helps poor children all over the world. No - I am not perfect - you are very wrong - I don t hate Chris - at all - I don t like his actions - and I will tell you some info that s not public - Chris has done terrible harm to his own family - and his 2 children s grandparents are friends - both Vanessa s parents and Chris parents love Cassie and Noah very much - it is not that I hate - I just expose - Chris has been both a bad son - and a bad son -in-law - his own mom - has had many problems with him.
Her husband wanted to write a book about their relationship, but Selena's dad said no. He didn't even get money for the movie Selena. I don't understand why Selena's dad is treating him like this
Zama Magubane I might be wrong but I feel like Selena’s dad thought that her being with Chris would make her not focus on the music ever since she was little he was very over bearing she he wanted control over selena and he knew that control would be altered if she got married! He gives me the vibe of him being a joe Jackson he wanted to be in control I’m not saying he’s a bad father Selena was his world and he just wanted her to be his little Girl forever!!!
@@KimberlyWilliams-tm2br I think what's very telling regarding how Abraham really is, was when Selena and Chris knew that, even though they were both grown adults, that in order to be together in marriage - the only choice they had was to ELOPE! That says A GREAT DEAL about the extent of total control Abraham exerted over his children's lives - even when they were NOT children anymore!
who cares? - the people who really know him - despise him. Selena s and Vanessa s families don t even talk to him. He is a parasite - can t make any money on his own - so he has to use your love for Selena to get your money - he is a loser!!
@@essstefunny That's not the truth. Do YOU know him? No. You don't. I don't know anyone who DOES know him who's got a bad word to say about Chris. And Selena's family have been merching off her death since before she was even buried. Abraham got Chris to sign over all of his rights as Selena's husband within days of his death - and then I HEARD Abraham say in an interview that "Chris was just an employee for Selena Y Los Dinos". That's bullshit, too - he was Selena's husband FOR 3 YEARS. He was FAMILY! And WHY would Chris want anything to do with Vanessa's family? She was such a greedy bitch that Chris had to close Selena's Boutiques and Salons - just to pay her off! She had no right to ANYTHING that was Selena's! Furthermore, Chris is an excellent muso - and is well respected in the industry in his own right. And he's got a Grammy to prove it. I really like his music too. You just sound like a jealous little bitch.
@@j.whiteoak6408 - you lie and lie and know zero. Yes - I know him. You know zero. I have known Selena since she was a child. Of course you don t know anyone who knows him - etc. who says he is - etc. Selena s father got Chris to sign - etc. who told you that? - Chris? - the lying media? Chris was an employee - yes he was - as affirmed by 2 courts - Selena s family has sued Chris over the book he wrote - and over Selena s DVD s he sold on amazon - the family won both suits - you know absolutely zero. Vanessa was greedy? - she is a bitch? - you sound like a lying parasite - an ignorant - useless idiot. Chris never gave Vanessa a dollar for herself - she is very classy - she never asked for anything for herself. Chris - was on drugs - as he told the judge - he owed $87 000.00 in child support for his 2 kids - Cassie and Noah. He had not seen them in several years. Closed boutiques - etc. again - you know zero - he sold a building owned by his dad - where the C. C. boutique was - because the drug supplier was scaring him to death - he paid the dealer - not Vanessa for the child support. The judge told Chris he was a scumbag - and he was going to jail - gave him a date to pay the child support - he was desperate - signed on to write the book - the book publisher paid Vanessa part of the child support - the rest has never been paid. It s ok - Cassie got older - he attended her H.S. graduation - made her very happy - like every girl she loves her daddy - their relationship now is better - I give Chris credit for that. Selena s mom is an amazing person - she despises Chris - Vanessa s mom - also despises Chris - etc. - because they know him - and what their daughter s went thru!! Chris is well respected in the industry? - no - he is a nobody. He won a grammy - it means zero - some of the most famous singers never won - and many nobodies won - Chris DVD s that won the grammy sold almost nothing. I am jealous ? - no - I am old enough to be Chris father - have children who are older than him - 3 very - very successful children - 2 are in showbusiness - 1 very - very famous - my wife of 49 years - is one of the biggest music producers ever. I am a very happy and positive person - I don t feel any hate or jealousy - you seem to hate and talk out of ignorance - I only post - when I know the truth!
He says he's a happy guy but last post I saw of him his eyes were so profound and could see loneliness and pain. He's trying his hardest but he still loves and misses her so much. True love.
You can still see sadness in his eye when you really pay attention. He’s trying hard to convince himself he’s genuinely happy but his pain still shows.
Chris Perez, if you should come across my message, I just want to let you know that you are an incredible human being! You have gone through alot! But the most selfish thing that you can do is to allow yourself give in to the depression and Oppression that comes along with Selena's homegoing! I really am proud of you for overcoming alcoholism and depression. I have a feeling that because of the beautiful person that Selena was, she would want you to find love again and not be alone! I can see her telling you, " Chris, mi corazon; it is not good for a man to be alone! Love you& Selena!
Some people just can’t get over the lost of their soulmate. It’s truly heartbreaking to live without them especially when they were taken away too soon from you. Chris is a perfect example of that. 💔😔
I agree, I have a sister who found her true love at 16, he died at 40, it has been 24 years, she has never been the same, the anniversary is very hard for her.
I get so upset selena love chris so much imagine them now.with babies and her being successful..shes truly miss. ..her fans will keep her legacy alive i think the saddest part is kris moving on..... But he will always love her.........
It's no doubt Chris has a deeper love for Selena. I do believe Selena would want Chris to move on and be happy. One day, Chris and Selena will reunite as one.
The family worked and sacrificed for years to create Selena’s success. If it wasn’t for the father keeping her legacy alive with the movie, museum, statues and tv show, there would be no interest in Selena today. Even Chris said he thought it was all over, and remember that he remarried. Wouldn’t be proper to be talking nonstop about your undying love for another woman when you’re in love with someone else.
I would hate it if my boyfriend died, but I know he wouldn't want me to wander the rest of my life alone, and would be okay if I moved on... But, I can't imagine that at all. I would probably stay single for the rest of my life if he died. Moving on wouldn't happen for me...
Yes but it depends on the age. If I was 50 and my partner died maybe I wouldn't find anyone else. But if you're 16 well then, that's a different ball game 🏀
When you look at them, they match perfectly not only on a physical level but also on a soul level. They were meant to be. There’s no love which is more beautiful than the one of two soul mates. I believe they will be reunited. Not in this life but in an other where they will be together forever.
@Ruby Ramirez no sir.. We r seeing this by him and Selena's side.. But his wife did have done her part.. She should not be forgotten.. She is not a substitute.
I know Chris's pain. I had my boyfriend who was so happy and good, so pure. And one night he died. I cried so much, but it's true never forget those who we lost. They will be a part of us, Love you Selena!
I feel sorry for the other women he married because he never loved her the way he loved selena and I hope he has much more love for his kids than selena
Exactly !! In all their pictures Chris isn't the one showing love to Selena it was always her showing him love he was real cold !!! People live in a fantasy world thinking Chris was so in love with Selena !! Remember she asked him to get married he didn't ask her !!!! He got married about a year later and had his daughter even Suzette said in a video that it was too soon !!!! Is that real love ???? Let's face it he makes money saying everything he says about Selena and keeping her name in the news just like the Quintanilla's and you people believe everything !!!!!!
You should be OPEN MINDED enough if you want to work it out..but yeah its hard to be with someone with a lot of baggage to carry on..knowing that you always be compared with someone its hard
I read here that Chris is doing very well. He loves his two children very much. He looks good. He will always love Selena. I was so happy to read about him and his current life after his tragic loss. I read his book which I thought was wonderful. He has come to terms with his life now and seems happy. I pray that some day he will accept Jesus Christ as his personal Savior.
If you think about it, they were gonna celebrate their 3rd wedding anniversary barely; two days after she passed. They actually hadn't been married for that long. They were still getting to know each other as husband and wife and easing into marriage.
I know how Chris Perez feels I lost my first love too soon and it still hurts and I get exactly what he's saying and how he feels about her because I feel the same about my first love. I know one day Chris and Selena will be together again you can see how much they had love for one another and I hope one day I can see my first love he was normal not famous but he wished for it.
I feel bad for his second wife, Vanessa. I get that Chris was trying to move forward, but they both knew that he wasn't over Selena. And Vanessa should've known that Chris would always be known as the man who was married to Selena. It's no surprise their marriage didn't last.
It's a living nightmare. I'm only 23, and I lost my soulmate in August 2020. It's so ironic but amazing, I've been a huge fan of Selena ever since I was a child, I've always said I wanted what she and Chris had. Flash forward to now, I actually have/had my own Chris, and soon after I showed him the Selena movie, he started calling me his Selena. (Because of the way they felt about each other). He actually cried at the end when he saw how Chris reacted to Selena's death and said he wouldn't know what to do if he were ever in his(Chris Perez's) footsteps.... Today I am the one experiencing exactly what Chris went through. Losing your soulmate is a pain like no other. I know exactly how it feels.. to want to crawl into their casket and go with them. Now I'm only grateful that our 2 year old daughter is too young to understand her daddy is no longer with us.
Real talk you can see his eyes before Selena and after she died. His eyes wher never the same theres a pain to them and a pice of him that will never recover.
Aww man I’m so glad I watched this. It really warms my heart to hear Chris say that he’s happy. I admit I’m one of those people that thought he was walking around sad all the time, but finally after all these years It’s very nice to hear him say that I’m very happy for him. What a beautiful soul Chris Perez has.
One of the last slot-mo where she turned to him smiling, he didn't react. You can see she was hurt. She knew the world loved her but her husband? Star stuck?? Or love..
Gooosh they were truely in love with eachother i love Chris he is such a loyal guy he literally still is married to her in heaven im sure. God bless and i give u alot of respect for breaking the substance after she passed bcz that can make or break and it made you who you are.
Years back.. I had a dream of Selena. It was a nice day and we were having a huge party in my backyard and under our big lemon tree Selena was performing. Everyone was having a great time. I then got some food and went to sit down at a picnic table..someone came and sat right by me and so I turned to look and it was Selena. She was crying and sad. I tried to comfort her and told her that everything will be okay. She started telling me "why? Why didn't he come?! Why didn't he protect me?!" And I asked her who? She said her Dad. My heart broke for her. She then took my hand and put it on her chest area and said it hurts. It hurts so much. I felt something and looked. It was a wound. Her gunshot wound which healed but left a scar. I hugged her and then woke up in tears. I went to tell my Mom of this dream that felt so real.
Everybody projecting their own feelings onto Chris, and Chris and Selina's relationship. Yes he loved her very much and still does , and yes there's probably a part of him that will always miss her, but come on! He was 23 years old and this happened over 20 years ago. He's moved on and has healed, as hard as that is to hear, it's the truth. You guys all act like he still crying in bed everyday lol. The one you all should be worried how old is her mother, because a mothers love is like nothing else.
Chris! Please please make a film a documentary anything to show us your perspective of this beautiful love between you and your wife! When I watch music videos of Selena, I always look for you as well because you were there with your love. It was the sweet secret between you and your wife that no one was aware of.
Sadly he’s not allowed to because of Selena’s father. He won’t let Chris do anything involving Selena and when he released his book about her Abraham quickly sued him. If Chris ever wants to make a movie he will probably have to wait until Abraham dies at this point :/
@@haleysandoval1320 Yes. He's 81 and gotta die sooner or later. But I reckon he'll live to 100 just so Chris can't! He'll NEVER accept that Selena and Chris were so in love that they defied him and eloped. If Abraham can't control it, then it just ain't happening. And to cut Chris out like "an employee", as he said in an interview, rather than being Selena's husband OF 3 YEARS is just wrong!
@@j.whiteoak6408 Exactly it’s disgusting on how they treat him! He was her husband a man she loved and was married to. He needs respect and we all know Selena wouldn’t like Chris being treated like this by her father.
I can’t blame him for breaking that promise. I just want to wrap my arms around Chris and give him the biggest hug. I know he misses her terribly. I’m glad he is happy but I know he has his moments
Man I be loading with selena songs Right now.. Man If she was alive Today I’ll be like Selena Selena Just being all happy 😊 too see and she really inspires me to become a dancer Or a singer and she will be smiling like a bright sunshine women and amazing women We have ever known for a long time
chris did not remarry until 6 years after selena died, and that marriage ended in divorce because according to the wife, "Chris just wasn't there emotionally," and I think we all know what that means...
He got a gem 💎 in a Selena! Powerful voice and personality! Love her music and been listening 👂’till now! Thinking....she was still that young when she recorded all! ❤️
He was apart of Selena's world in love and got to meet Jenni Rivera in his work and discuss their life, only to have her pass away a short time after. RIP to both those beauty's SELENA & JENNI
I'm am so glad that you moved on, it is very difficult to lose a loved one, I know bc I lost my world my son. Having beautiful memories will give you strength and believe it or not guidance to move on knowing that you held a special place in her heart. Chris noone can take that from you. The world will never forget that smile that laugh that beautiful voice. I wish you happiness and love to you and your children.
It does matter how many times i watch something about Selena Quintanilla her death gets me every time😞😢😭💔 Chris Perez was a lucky man to be with a woman like Selena Quintanilla she was sweet and down to earth I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SELENA QUINTANILLA-PEREZ ALWAYS AND FOREVER (R.I.P SELENA QUINTANILLA😞😢😭💔)
Selena would be my ro model. Not saying she isnt now but i feal i wouldve been speaking way more spanish if she was still here with us lol And yes im Mexican
It was probably something like, "Oh my god I look terrible promise me you won't let anybody see it" or something like that. And then it ended up in a drawer somewhere. Probably meant more to him now than it did at the time. 🤷
He didn't betray her, he honored her through a 27 year old secret. She wouldn't be mad at him, she would have thanked him for still being loyal to her. He knows she wouldn't want him to be pressed for the rest of his days. She loved to see him smile, and that is what she did for him. Her memory makes him smile.
I truly believe they will reunite, as soon as he closes his eyes forever selena will be the first one with open arms to welcome him, he needs his baby & they miss each other. Soul mates stay soul mates.
True I wish Selena's was here she was abeayiful and l didn't even meet and person I'm 10 and l saw the movies epsiposedse when she was a live
Read his book and this is so true
Alex Chakalayil going bad
Her Husband Name Chris
Yea in heaven
He may be happy but I’m afraid he won’t ever love anyone the way he loved Selena. I wish him nothing but the best
I heard that he had gotten a divorce because he was still so deeply in love with Selena... do you know if there is any truth to that?
@@yanciargueta2363 I heard that too
@@yanciargueta2363 well its more on to that..
cmon. they been together like 4 years or what? ofc he was heartbroken and it took time to heal from that but at some point one moves on...
@@artan. you know the Song BEST I CAN??which he dedicate to his late wife..you can tell.how much he loves her.he may love again but the love that she had share with selena will always be special and one of a kind..and no one ever gonna replace selena on his heart no one!!
He never stopped loving her and I don't think he ever will.
There will always be that One Great Love.
Shitt.... i still love her.
@@SuperCG07 for real
@@MidwestBoxin same
they're literal soulmates, it makes sense on why he won't let go. im sure selena is waiting for him in the afterlife:))
It’s so sad how Chris can’t really say much legally! Chris knew a side of her that NO ONE else knew!! I’m still wondering why her dad sued him for the movie Chris tried making. There’s a reason why they got married without telling anyone. I mean for crying out loud in both the movie and show and real life they kept saying it was so that the family would have no other choice but to accept Chris which speaks a lot of volume about how controlling they were!! Maybe it was going to show us the truth about the Quintanilla family(suzette, her dad, brother,& mom)and they didn’t want to be portrayed a certain way. Like even now if you look at all the videos from that family from the moment she passed until today they literally have been living of HER fame excluding Chris. I hope one day Chris can come out and say his side of the story because like I stated before he knew her in a way NO ONE else knew
He has about book about her
@@sillyseilyy3 yeah I know about the book but he was sued for trying to make a movie about their love and other things surrounding her. He only made that book since he wasn’t allowed to make the movie
@@lunadeayer495 well read the book, they are always better than any movie anyway. Much more difficult to put 300 pgs or more into a 2 hr movie anyway. The movie rights also would've been based on his book.
Because the dad (Selena) is a narcissist I’m sorry but NOT sorry. The man is money hungry and he controlled Selena when she was here on earth and STILLS tries to control her SMH . Honestly, they eloped so there’s NO prenup SMH Chris has every right to whatever he wants and I can NOT believe that basically they keep making money off her SMH Chris should be the one with the Museum, Chris should be able to make a movie about Selena and him. Hate to sound terrible but when Abraham Senior dies he should be able to do whatever and get attorneys.
Honeslty couldn't stand her dad in the series. What a toxic person. Would rather force his kids to be in a band than get out and find work to provide for his family.
I'm sure selena would've wanted him to carry on...he wouldn't want him to feel alone. He will always have a special place in his heart for Selena that can never be replaced by anyone.
*she
Agreed
Yes but imagine being the new wife after Selena?!? Totally in the shadows of her
@@cynthiaquezada2720 it's not cool to say that. Nobody lives in the shadow of others we are all our own light.
@@laurenmungaray3912 I think it was a typo.
In the beginning of "To Selena, With Love", Chris writes of getting a phone call from a friend, who tells him about a dream he's had. In the dream, Selena asks him how Chris is doing, and he tells her that Chris is having a really hard time. Selena tells him not to worry about Chris, because "I've got him". I think it was Selena's way of letting Chris know, through his friend, that she still loves him, and is watching over him. I believe that she knew he was at an emotional low - point, and needed the comfort of knowing that, while she was gone , she wasn't really "gone", if you know what I mean. I don't see any other way of interpreting the dream.
Well put, love how you interpreted the dream!
I love his book😭
It was just a dream !!!
@@veravaladez1525 Umm no
I just got the book. Is it worth the read before I start?
When Chris leaves this earth the first beautiful soul that’s going to greet him is Selena. In 1000% sure they’ll find each other in the next life. Never seen a love like this since.
you are being duped - for your money!!
@@essstefunny but why though? he did nothing to you LOL
Chris said, in an interview if only she had told him where she was going that morning instead of just leaving the house maybe things would have been alive.She didn't even let anyone know I'm sure that bothers him for life
Right
No, Chris said he wished he asked her where she was going.
@@laurenmungaray3912 yeah he wished he did but, obviously she didn't want him to know and sure didn't want him to go with her for some reason.Selena was brave and obviously not afraid of her no telling what was said in that room.Just sad!!!
@Marie Madison yessssssss!!! Yolanda knows her and want say.You know you have to get broke in to get to the top.For her to just leave like that and not tell her husband Chris didn't question her because maybe she made him feel let me do me and you just stand by and enjoy the ride I married you so I have no say, assuming how he felt.If you love someone you don't keep secrets and her leaving that morning with out even considering to tell the man she loves where she was going was sadly her last dance.When Yolanda get out I'm sure she'll write a book I remember listening to her in an interview, Yolanda said," there are things we don't even know that she can say but,want
@Marie Madison why would she cheat on him
Selena and Chris were such a beautiful couple ❤️❤️
They probably wouldn't even be together if she was alive !!!!!!
@@veravaladez1525 Why do you say that?
Vera Valadez You don’t know that.
@@veravaladez1525 they would to they were married when she was killed
Yeah
The truly saddest part was hearing that Chris moved on, has kids, and is now divorced. I know, in my heart, that had Selena lived, she would've bore his children, and they would've been beautiful! And her and Chris would still be together. Their's is a story of true soul mates, I can just feel it in the way he talks about her. Like that thing about them holding hands on the plane; that is just like me and my wife who died. We would always tell people that when we held each other it just felt...right. Like hugging her is what I am always supposed to be doing. The rest of the world just melts away and I'm holding my baby. And that's also why no relationships after "The One" have worked out, for me or for Chris. We were lucky enough to not have to settle like most do. We got the golden spouse, and in turn, we were that for them.
I just lost my husband 5 months ago and I'll find another like him
She would have wanted him to be happy, but he never left her. He would always hold her in his heart.
@@melissameyers1869 wait what
I wonder if Selena had to do with his divorce. I can’t imagine what it feels like to know your husband loves someone more than you, even if they died.
@@Nazaba09 True. It's a tragedy all around!.
Chris is such a down to earth guy. He has been through hell and back and lived to tell about it.
He's A good Guy
@@LEGENDPantherJennings He really is. He remains one of my favorite guitaristc
he is a nobody - a parasite - he has put nanny people thru hell - that s why the people who really know
him - Selena s and Vanessa s families - despise him.
Oh here is that Tony again - ripping on Chris, calling him a parasite and loser. He says to me on another thread on this video that he's known Selena since she was a small child, and that "everyone despises Chris". He also says that his own child is "very, very famous" and his wife of 49 years is "one of the successful producers in the industry". I call bullshit - he doesn't have any info on Chris that isn't public knowledge - but he sure does hate on Chris! He must think himself truly fkng perfect, then! He just runs Chris into the dirt!
@@j.whiteoak6408 - Chris is a parasite and a loser - what he does - is described in every dictionary
as such. Same with Selena s father.
Not everyone despises Chris - Selena s mom and Vanessa s mom do - with good reasons.
My daughter is indeed a very famous actress and political activist.
My wife is indeed one of the most successful music producers ever - I do have a lot of info that
is not public - I choose not to share it on youtube.
I have given my email and phone here - 100 s of times - I have talked to many people - and I have met
a few in person - and shared info with them - that is secret.
NO - I don t hate Chris - or anyone - I expose both Chris and the father - as losers and parasites - many
examples of people who were not - in the exact same position - Priscilla Presley - after Elvis died -
said over and over - that she would never benefit from his enormous fame - she never did - and she had a daughter with him - Chris had no child with Selena.
Priscilla made his mansion into a museum - every dollar made - went into Elvis charity foundation
that he started and still exists today - and helps poor children all over the world.
No - I am not perfect - you are very wrong - I don t hate Chris - at all - I don t like his actions
- and I will tell you some info that s not public - Chris has done terrible harm to his own family -
and his 2 children s grandparents are friends - both Vanessa s parents and Chris parents love
Cassie and Noah very much - it is not that I hate - I just expose - Chris has been both a bad son - and a bad son -in-law - his own mom - has had many problems with him.
I bet when he dies he can see selena again and surprise her while she's preforming all the new songs up in heaven
love your picture. godzilla king of the cumbias
@@azutori yes
@@azutori boi
@@liz-vh4fy i’m sorry i had too it fit so well
Awww I bet Selena would be really pleased when that does happen
Her husband wanted to write a book about their relationship, but Selena's dad said no. He didn't even get money for the movie Selena. I don't understand why Selena's dad is treating him like this
Zama Magubane I might be wrong but I feel like Selena’s dad thought that her being with Chris would make her not focus on the music ever since she was little he was very over bearing she he wanted control over selena and he knew that control would be altered if she got married! He gives me the vibe of him being a joe Jackson he wanted to be in control I’m not saying he’s a bad father Selena was his world and he just wanted her to be his little
Girl forever!!!
@@KimberlyWilliams-tm2br
I think what's very telling regarding how Abraham really is, was when Selena and Chris knew that, even though they were both grown adults, that in order to be together in marriage - the only choice they had was to ELOPE! That says A GREAT DEAL about the extent of total control Abraham exerted over his children's lives - even when they were NOT children anymore!
who cares? - the people who really know him - despise him. Selena s and Vanessa s families don t even
talk to him. He is a parasite - can t make any money on his own - so he has to use your love for Selena to get
your money - he is a loser!!
@@essstefunny
That's not the truth. Do YOU know him? No. You don't. I don't know anyone who DOES know him who's got a bad word to say about Chris. And Selena's family have been merching off her death since before she was even buried. Abraham got Chris to sign over all of his rights as Selena's husband within days of his death - and then I HEARD Abraham say in an interview that "Chris was just an employee for Selena Y Los Dinos". That's bullshit, too - he was Selena's husband FOR 3 YEARS. He was FAMILY! And WHY would Chris want anything to do with Vanessa's family? She was such a greedy bitch that Chris had to close Selena's Boutiques and Salons - just to pay her off! She had no right to ANYTHING that was Selena's! Furthermore, Chris is an excellent muso - and is well respected in the industry in his own right. And he's got a Grammy to prove it. I really like his music too. You just sound like a jealous little bitch.
@@j.whiteoak6408 - you lie and lie and know zero.
Yes - I know him. You know zero. I have known Selena since she was a child.
Of course you don t know anyone who knows him - etc. who says he is - etc.
Selena s father got Chris to sign - etc. who told you that? - Chris? - the lying media?
Chris was an employee - yes he was - as affirmed by 2 courts - Selena s family has sued
Chris over the book he wrote - and over Selena s DVD s he sold on amazon - the family won
both suits - you know absolutely zero.
Vanessa was greedy? - she is a bitch? - you sound like a lying parasite - an ignorant - useless
idiot.
Chris never gave Vanessa a dollar for herself - she is very classy - she never asked for anything
for herself. Chris - was on drugs - as he told the judge - he owed $87 000.00 in child support
for his 2 kids - Cassie and Noah. He had not seen them in several years.
Closed boutiques - etc. again - you know zero - he sold a building owned by his dad - where the C. C.
boutique was - because the drug supplier was scaring him to death - he paid the dealer - not Vanessa
for the child support.
The judge told Chris he was a scumbag - and he was going to jail - gave him a date to pay the child
support - he was desperate - signed on to write the book - the book publisher paid Vanessa part of the
child support - the rest has never been paid.
It s ok - Cassie got older - he attended her H.S. graduation - made her very happy - like every girl
she loves her daddy - their relationship now is better - I give Chris credit for that.
Selena s mom is an amazing person - she despises Chris - Vanessa s mom - also despises Chris - etc.
- because they know him - and what their daughter s went thru!!
Chris is well respected in the industry? - no - he is a nobody. He won a grammy - it means zero - some of the
most famous singers never won - and many nobodies won - Chris DVD s that won the grammy sold
almost nothing.
I am jealous ? - no - I am old enough to be Chris father - have children who are older than him - 3 very - very
successful children - 2 are in showbusiness - 1 very - very famous - my wife of 49 years - is one of the
biggest music producers ever.
I am a very happy and positive person - I don t feel any hate or jealousy - you seem to hate and talk out of ignorance - I only post - when I know the truth!
Their love kinda reminds me of ending of titanic movie. They been together for just a little time, and one has to grow old without the other.
😭😭💔
if you really knew the truth
@@essstefunny just shush
I always wanted to rewrite that movie Titanic. I thought it would’ve been awesome if she would’ve had Jack’s baby.
Stay strong Chris your wife will always love 💕 you
Oh seeing that Jenny clip made me even more sad😭😭😭 RIP our queens ❤️
😔😔
Who
They ain't in peace
@@mrbossftwp9204 Don’t say that man... they ARE resting in peace, watching over their fans and mostly family.
@@selfanatica2343 Bro that's wrong
He says he's a happy guy but last post I saw of him his eyes were so profound and could see loneliness and pain. He's trying his hardest but he still loves and misses her so much. True love.
He seems pretty happy and always traveling for work projects.
The spark on his eyes is gone eversince selena died...
He’s getting ready to remarry lmao don’t worry hes happt
You can still see sadness in his eye when you really pay attention. He’s trying hard to convince himself he’s genuinely happy but his pain still shows.
He’s gonna always love her. She’s gonna always love him. He’s such a strong person to get through all of this‼️🥺
One day they will reunite
@@Karlebow571 That is true! Im so sorry for Chris ‘til this day... 😔
i just started tearing up wtf
JENNI RIVER AND SELENA QUINTANILLA WERE LEGENDSSS
Yesss
Never heard any songs by Jenni, but Selena is a tru legend!!
Chris Perez, if you should come across my message, I just want to let you know that you are an incredible human being! You have gone through alot! But the most selfish thing that you can do is to allow yourself give in to the depression and Oppression that comes along with Selena's homegoing! I really am proud of you for overcoming alcoholism and depression. I have a feeling that because of the beautiful person that Selena was, she would want you to find love again and not be alone! I can see her telling you, " Chris, mi corazon; it is not good for a man to be alone! Love you& Selena!
Me waiting to find out what promise he broke 👀
Hahahaha i had to watch it 2x to figure it out. It was the unpublished foto of him and selena.
@@rushb8142 which is?
Yeah, big deal, a blurry photo...it was just clickbait
@@angelinagabrielle2041 1:21
@@AliciaGuitar what?
Nobody could fill her shoes, he was in deep love with her😔💔
Some people just can’t get over the lost of their soulmate. It’s truly heartbreaking to live without them especially when they were taken away too soon from you. Chris is a perfect example of that. 💔😔
I agree, I have a sister who found her true love at 16, he died at 40, it has been 24 years, she has never been the same, the anniversary is very hard for her.
This love story just breaks my heart. They didn't get enough time together 😢
I get so upset selena love chris so much imagine them now.with babies and her being successful..shes truly miss. ..her fans will keep her legacy alive i think the saddest part is kris moving on..... But he will always love her.........
The thing I realized with Chris and Selena is we don't have that kind love like that in this generation and if we do it's rare as hell to have
It's no doubt Chris has a deeper love for Selena. I do believe Selena would want Chris to move on and be happy. One day, Chris and Selena will reunite as one.
I may have known Selena because I just heard about her not too long ago but from listening to her I miss her like crazy
I miss Selena so much :( she was my fav singer..
She still is mine.
The family worked and sacrificed for years to create Selena’s success. If it wasn’t for the father keeping her legacy alive with the movie, museum, statues and tv show, there would be no interest in Selena today. Even Chris said he thought it was all over, and remember that he remarried. Wouldn’t be proper to be talking nonstop about your undying love for another woman when you’re in love with someone else.
I would hate it if my boyfriend died, but I know he wouldn't want me to wander the rest of my life alone, and would be okay if I moved on... But, I can't imagine that at all. I would probably stay single for the rest of my life if he died. Moving on wouldn't happen for me...
you mean husband
Yea it really sucks so make sure you love him & let him know you appreciate him
Yes but it depends on the age. If I was 50 and my partner died maybe I wouldn't find anyone else. But if you're 16 well then, that's a different ball game 🏀
When you look at them, they match perfectly not only on a physical level but also on a soul level.
They were meant to be. There’s no love which is more beautiful than the one of two soul mates.
I believe they will be reunited. Not in this life but in an other where they will be together forever.
She's not forgotten! I love the song "I Could fall in love with you" Chris Perez & Selena made a beautiful Couple..🤗✝️😪
I know for a fact that Chris and Selena would’ve still been happily married today they had that soul mate kind of love.
i’m pretty sure his ex wife knew she couldn’t compete wit Selena. this whole ordeal is just messed up. RIP Selena
@Ruby Ramirez no sir.. We r seeing this by him and Selena's side.. But his wife did have done her part.. She should not be forgotten.. She is not a substitute.
You'll never gonna compete with a ghost you'll never gonna win and that is a fact
@@tingle2323 well she felt like she was and that is the reason why their marriage failed
like chris said he will always love selena and she holds a special place in his heart forever
I know Chris's pain. I had my boyfriend who was so happy and good, so pure. And one night he died. I cried so much, but it's true never forget those who we lost. They will be a part of us, Love you Selena!
Omg I’m so sorry
wow same! I lost mines January. Life isn't the same. He was literally the perfect boyfriend.
They were soulmates, that kind of love isn't replaced.
He will always love her and grieve. I read once where he told an interviewer that he just wanted to crawl in her casket and go with her.
Really he said that?
The part that got to me and made me cry was when he was going to give her, her ring, and never got too. So he gave it to her in her casket😭😭💔
That took me out!💔💔💔😢😭😢😭😔
And he gave that on the day of their 3rd wedding anniversary..the day when both of them say I DO and the day he said his last GOODBYE.
Omg Jenni Rivera 💔! Now Selena & Jenni Rivera are singing together 🤍🥺.
That's a mistake my dude
@@mrbossftwp9204 ummm chile-
@@aleexxmartinez that is a mistake, because their in hell
I know that deep deep deep inside, Chris still haven't gotten over the fact of losing his lovely Selena, Chris you will see her again one day.
I feel sorry for the other women he married because he never loved her the way he loved selena and I hope he has much more love for his kids than selena
This is old. And he didn’t promise to her, he promised it to a fan. Get your facts straight damn
he told what he felt in that moment...shut up you.
@@lagana_riri_dontcha yeah girl he loves Selena and James being mean
James r.g shut up your rude hips
Exactly !! In all their pictures Chris isn't the one showing love to Selena it was always her showing him love he was real cold !!! People live in a fantasy world thinking Chris was so in love with Selena !! Remember she asked him to get married he didn't ask her !!!! He got married about a year later and had his daughter even Suzette said in a video that it was too soon !!!! Is that real love ???? Let's face it he makes money saying everything he says about Selena and keeping her name in the news just like the Quintanilla's and you people believe everything !!!!!!
@@veravaladez1525 - I think they loved each other. He just was a very shy person.
The use of the word betrayal, feels wrong. I think she would of wanted him to share the photo
True love never dies. She’s still his.., and you can see in his eyes how much he still loves her. And always will
Man I would hate to be the women who had to fill her shoes afterwards
Omg yes, that can only leave us thinking that he never loved that woman because no one can replace Selena in HIS life only.
You should be OPEN MINDED enough if you want to work it out..but yeah its hard to be with someone with a lot of baggage to carry on..knowing that you always be compared with someone its hard
I read here that Chris is doing very well. He loves his two children very much. He looks good. He will always love Selena. I was so happy to read about him and his current life after his tragic loss. I read his book which I thought was wonderful. He has come to terms with his life now and seems happy. I pray that some day he will accept Jesus Christ as his personal Savior.
Amen amen 🙏🏽
"BE BRAVE, HAVE COURAGE AND LOVE LIFE" GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIMES, LOVE YOU LIKE MY SON
I was so young when I used to listen to Selena , but the thing is I never stopped listening to Selena music .
If they got married in 1992 that means they only got to be married for 3 years 😞 sorry Chris. R.I.P Selena 😢
If you think about it, they were gonna celebrate their 3rd wedding anniversary barely; two days after she passed. They actually hadn't been married for that long. They were still getting to know each other as husband and wife and easing into marriage.
I know how Chris Perez feels I lost my first love too soon and it still hurts and I get exactly what he's saying and how he feels about her because I feel the same about my first love. I know one day Chris and Selena will be together again you can see how much they had love for one another and I hope one day I can see my first love he was normal not famous but he wished for it.
I feel bad for his second wife, Vanessa. I get that Chris was trying to move forward, but they both knew that he wasn't over Selena. And Vanessa should've known that Chris would always be known as the man who was married to Selena. It's no surprise their marriage didn't last.
His love was true for selena he has been through hard times but he said he will never forget their promise to be barried next to eachother ❤
I cried 🥺😭 that devil destroyed something beautiful! They would have been a beautiful couple 😭😭😭😭
It's a living nightmare. I'm only 23, and I lost my soulmate in August 2020. It's so ironic but amazing, I've been a huge fan of Selena ever since I was a child, I've always said I wanted what she and Chris had. Flash forward to now, I actually have/had my own Chris, and soon after I showed him the Selena movie, he started calling me his Selena. (Because of the way they felt about each other). He actually cried at the end when he saw how Chris reacted to Selena's death and said he wouldn't know what to do if he were ever in his(Chris Perez's) footsteps.... Today I am the one experiencing exactly what Chris went through. Losing your soulmate is a pain like no other. I know exactly how it feels.. to want to crawl into their casket and go with them. Now I'm only grateful that our 2 year old daughter is too young to understand her daddy is no longer with us.
Truly sorry for your loss! 💕
don't lose hope, Mrs., on the other side they feel our pain, keep in you this love that only you had with him
He is so cute
I bet part of that failed marriage was due to the new girl living in Selena’s shadow.
Oh well chris is engaged again with another woman..
Maybe.
How can someone dislike this video?
I love this vid
Maybe it breaks their heart too much lol
The day when he passes, god will welcome him to his kingdom. There he will see selena with a big smile and warm welcom that they reunited again.
I hope he makes a movie about their love! Lawyer up and do it!!!
Real talk you can see his eyes before Selena and after she died. His eyes wher never the same theres a pain to them and a pice of him that will never recover.
Aww man I’m so glad I watched this. It really warms my heart to hear Chris say that he’s happy. I admit I’m one of those people that thought he was walking around sad all the time, but finally after all these years It’s very nice to hear him say that I’m very happy for him. What a beautiful soul Chris Perez has.
Selena and Chris were such a amazing beautiful couple I loved them so much
One of the last slot-mo where she turned to him smiling, he didn't react. You can see she was hurt. She knew the world loved her but her husband? Star stuck?? Or love..
Gooosh they were truely in love with eachother i love Chris he is such a loyal guy he literally still is married to her in heaven im sure. God bless and i give u alot of respect for breaking the substance after she passed bcz that can make or break and it made you who you are.
Years back.. I had a dream of Selena. It was a nice day and we were having a huge party in my backyard and under our big lemon tree Selena was performing. Everyone was having a great time. I then got some food and went to sit down at a picnic table..someone came and sat right by me and so I turned to look and it was Selena. She was crying and sad. I tried to comfort her and told her that everything will be okay. She started telling me "why? Why didn't he come?! Why didn't he protect me?!" And I asked her who? She said her Dad. My heart broke for her. She then took my hand and put it on her chest area and said it hurts. It hurts so much. I felt something and looked. It was a wound. Her gunshot wound which healed but left a scar. I hugged her and then woke up in tears. I went to tell my Mom of this dream that felt so real.
that seems so real :( but yet very sad
Stay Strong my Leo BRO
Everybody projecting their own feelings onto Chris, and Chris and Selina's relationship. Yes he loved her very much and still does , and yes there's probably a part of him that will always miss her, but come on! He was 23 years old and this happened over 20 years ago. He's moved on and has healed, as hard as that is to hear, it's the truth. You guys all act like he still crying in bed everyday lol. The one you all should be worried how old is her mother, because a mothers love is like nothing else.
2:01 *JENNY RIVERA* 🥺😭
It's hard to find women like her in these times , from what I seen
Chris! Please please make a film a documentary anything to show us your perspective of this beautiful love between you and your wife! When I watch music videos of Selena, I always look for you as well because you were there with your love. It was the sweet secret between you and your wife that no one was aware of.
Sadly he’s not allowed to because of Selena’s father. He won’t let Chris do anything involving Selena and when he released his book about her Abraham quickly sued him. If Chris ever wants to make a movie he will probably have to wait until Abraham dies at this point :/
@@haleysandoval1320
Yes. He's 81 and gotta die sooner or later. But I reckon he'll live to 100 just so Chris can't! He'll NEVER accept that Selena and Chris were so in love that they defied him and eloped. If Abraham can't control it, then it just ain't happening. And to cut Chris out like "an employee", as he said in an interview, rather than being Selena's husband OF 3 YEARS is just wrong!
@@j.whiteoak6408 Exactly it’s disgusting on how they treat him! He was her husband a man she loved and was married to. He needs respect and we all know Selena wouldn’t like Chris being treated like this by her father.
She will meet you in Paradise...you will wait for her arrival with open arms...
I can’t blame him for breaking that promise. I just want to wrap my arms around Chris and give him the biggest hug. I know he misses her terribly. I’m glad he is happy but I know he has his moments
Who ever disliked this are mosters
Man I be loading with selena songs
Right now..
Man If she was alive Today I’ll be like Selena
Selena Just being all happy 😊 too see and she really inspires me to become a dancer
Or a singer and she will be smiling like a bright sunshine women and amazing women
We have ever known for a long time
Selena kissed his babies in heaven before they got sent off to meet him. 💜
Very beautiful! He's still very much in love with Selena!
Would any of you ladies settle to be Chris's second wife??? Imagine being her and seeing this all these years.....
Yes, know matter what nobody can take away your love 💕 that you n SELENA had never.💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
Move on chris fine you’re happiness, it was a tragedy what happened but you are here love. Live and fine love again you deserve it..
He has never dated, he did remarried, an has kids too, but he will Always love Selena
He loves her forever
Oh well he is currently engaged right now..after he got divorced
Jenny Rivera ya le dio su mensaje a Selena y le dice ese hombre aun te ama 😭😭😘
I remembered you got married after a year or so.... Are you still married?
chris did not remarry until 6 years after selena died, and that marriage ended in divorce because according to the wife, "Chris just wasn't there emotionally," and I think we all know what that means...
@Ruby Ramirez you cant give yourself to someone COMPLETELY if you are already INCOMPLETE you can only give what you have..
He got a gem 💎 in a Selena! Powerful voice and personality! Love her music and been listening 👂’till now! Thinking....she was still that young when she recorded all! ❤️
He was apart of Selena's world in love and got to meet Jenni Rivera in his work and discuss their life, only to have her pass away a short time after.
RIP to both those beauty's
SELENA & JENNI
Wow... I def see the similarities in her and jlo. Even their voice sound alike.
It was not easy he wanted a new life but the love he had for selena was above everything im shure she wanted him to be happy but he just couldnt ❤❤❤❤
They would still be together
I'm am so glad that you moved on, it is very difficult to lose a loved one, I know bc I lost my world my son. Having beautiful memories will give you strength and believe it or not guidance to move on knowing that you held a special place in her heart. Chris noone can take that from you. The world will never forget that smile that laugh that beautiful voice. I wish you happiness and love to you and your children.
It does matter how many times i watch something about Selena Quintanilla her death gets me every time😞😢😭💔 Chris Perez was a lucky man to be with a woman like Selena Quintanilla she was sweet and down to earth I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SELENA QUINTANILLA-PEREZ ALWAYS AND FOREVER (R.I.P SELENA QUINTANILLA😞😢😭💔)
The good thing is that when he dies he is gonna be with the girl and the love of his live Selena and Yolanda she no she going to hell
Selena would be my ro model. Not saying she isnt now but i feal i wouldve been speaking way more spanish if she was still here with us lol
And yes im Mexican
Seeing jenni rivera in this too just broke me
So, Just a picture... Why is that a secret, and why was it such a Beautiful thing to do?
It was probably something like, "Oh my god I look terrible promise me you won't let anybody see it" or something like that. And then it ended up in a drawer somewhere. Probably meant more to him now than it did at the time. 🤷
Chris made Selena, although Selena and her family never gave him full credit. Chris and his guitar🎸=💃.
You are AWESOME CHRIS PEREZ!
She was beautiful and gone to soon
Its funny how people create their own illusions in their heads on how chris feels about selena today. Then stick with it as facts.
He didn't betray her, he honored her through a 27 year old secret. She wouldn't be mad at him, she would have thanked him for still being loyal to her. He knows she wouldn't want him to be pressed for the rest of his days. She loved to see him smile, and that is what she did for him. Her memory makes him smile.
He married another woman 6 years after she died
@@tasmeenbaker9912 okay, and?
That's literally the grief duration dude💀💀💀