I notice that most of these etiquette rules, not just in dining but in general, actually are practical and not just something to follow to be “proper”. For examples, waving the fork and knife in the air would pose a hazard, putting the utensils back on the mat would be unsanitary, bending down too low can hurt your back (and also would be dangerous if you get too close to the food especially if it’s hot), etc. These are pretty much based on maintaining safety and hygiene.
that's because etiquette was first "invented" so that everyone can feel good when interacting with each other; now people use 'not wanting to seem stuck up' as an excuse to not have proper manners, so they end up being rude and crossing over people's boundaries
Too many restaurants I have been to expect you to keep your dirty cutlery, even when you have not one plate nor extra napkins on the table. I try to always hold onto my bread plate for this reason alone. I feel so comfortable and happy when the restaurant staff remove your plates, silverware on top, and either understand or bring a new set without even asking. A lot of people, staff and diners alike, do not know this; they are simply doing what they think is normal. 🥺🌹🍽 And yes, I am very certain this has only happened in America. I often just ask for new silverware if they try to have my keep it, and sometimes that request is met with hesitation. I think I've always been given a new set, though. 😅🌹🍽
I am not well off or wealthy by any means; I am simply middle class. I never go anywhere fancy to eat because of this but I still use your dining etiquette lessons when I am dining. Things I have noticed is that when I practice dining etiquette, even if the common person or waiter doesn’t understand what I’m doing, I look much more feminine and put together and I’ve noticed that doing these things commands more attention from my date and I get better service from my waiters and waitresses. Home training and soft skills truly benefit any woman in any situation
Well said! I was also thinking that if you chew/swallow your food before speaking, drinking or taking another bite, you will be eating slower and probably getting fuller faster by using proper etiquette. Therefore, you may not be eating everything on your plate, which is healthier if you're receiving American proportions. I do wonder if it is rude to not finish your meal? Likewise, would it be rude to hold up the rest of your party, while they wait for you to finish your course? I hope she has videos on what is appropriate attire to wear at various type of venue's such as a 5-star, vs a chain restaurant, for example. I learned table manners growing up but not this in-depth. I was never taught about clothes. In Arizona, as a middle class person, we dress for coolness and comfort and frequent chain restaurants, which often means jeans and t-shirts or a sleevless top of some sort. This is acceptable here due to the heat. Growing up this way, makes me feel dressed way over the top if I wear a nice sundress or skirt and top. I don't even know where to begin. Like you, I would like to feel feminine while I am outside of my home dining or even just running errands. I would love to have the confidence to dress in a proper way to dine at a five star restaurant (not that I would ever find myself in one). If I wore a beautiful dress like her black one, I would feel like I was going to a wedding. I need help. Lol
Jamila, I would like to know how to gracefully deal with little accidents that happen while dining. For example, when you drop a piece of food, if you drop your napkin or cutlery by accident, if you rip a stocking or whatever clumsy mistakes that could happen. It would be fun to watch and very educational 🤣.
She mentioned it in her dining etiquette video. If I remembered it correctly, one shouldn't pick up the food or cutlery from the floor. ua-cam.com/video/zA2PfKRcm0g/v-deo.html
*Is it just me or does anyone else instantly feels like straightening their back and putting a bit more effort into how they're going to present and eat their dinner?* I always feel like getting a glimpse of royalty after watching Jamila's videos on etiquette. Beautifully done as always. I dream of this production for my own channel :)
Relating to what you have mentioned. Yes applying the effort brings out a new personality to become better in the world of Business (Work), Casual (Home). I would also like to thank Jamila Musayeva for bringing a new trait into my daily life to become successful and enjoy life.
It's good, because being seated for a long period when busy can become uncomfortable. I choose the ladylike fashion seating positions that come into play as it releases good stress and can continue with my daily duties. @@danyf.1442
In your diary write or type my posture correction. Your schedule will then keep you updated as it will depend on what settings you have selected. Once you made the habit it will never be broken. @@IevaKambarovaite
In France, the etiquette says that fork and knife position in the plate also has a meaning. Crossing them like you did in the video means you have finished and... didn't enjoy your food 😛. Putting them in parallel means you liked it, and putting them perpendicularly means you would like to have the next dish. Making an A, means you are having a pause
I feel like the latest generation tries to come off as unassuming, authentic and friendly but they have lost the art of many etiquette rules that, when you think about it, are in place for the comfort of everyone at the table - and for your safety clearly. This is a nice reminder, as I myself tend to take heaps of food in my mouth and then blabber on in case I miss out on the conversations being had 🙈
I am glad to know that there are still people like you who are concerned and interested in showing people the importance of how to behave at the table. However I think Haley did her role well. The video would lose its fun and spontaneity if she had to focus on the rules of etiquette.
For the people around us, it is fancy. My kids complain about having to learn to be fancy when no one else does it. My husband learned! He recently went to a business celebratory lunch and his friend/boss leaned in and asked my husband what fork he should start with :) My mom is Mexican but taught me the basic use of fork and knife as a kid (siblings and dad need etiquette classes!) I later learned the rest on my own. When we were dating, my husband’s family gave me the nickname “la duquesa” the duchess because I use a fork and knife lol.
Im 38 and im from Portugal. I did learn a lot of these "table manners" has a child, especially from my dad. I believe he learned these rules with priests in his school, because his family was humble. I really proud of my dad and all he taught me. Great video, you gained another follower. Thank you and congrats on being so polite and thoughfull speaking of Hailey.
Os Portugueses têm maneiras fantásticas! Também sou portuguesa, mas vivi em várias partes do mundo, e nós de facto, somos extraordinariamente bem educados :)
@claudia ferreira in my case was grandparents especially not to talk when you have something in your mouth and not to place your elbows on the table and never chew like a cow to close your mouth and chew.😄
This reminded me of an old friend! He is the only other person I know who cares about etiquette too. He basically said that a woman can be a 10 until she sits down to eat. So we were laughing at me when the fork would just not pierce the tomato in the salad! (We were at a convention and stuck eating what they offered. I was pregnant so I was like screw it, I need to eat hahaha!)
Hailey is very animated and probably wasn’t as concerned with etiquette. She was still very charming and effortlessly beautiful. Still helpful to know these notes.
Yeah but still is Vogue...surprised me alot they did the video without saying anything. It's not any magazine, for example a magazine for teenagers with a singer like Olivia Rodrigo saying her opinions about fast food in the comfort of her home. This it's a more relax environment, the goal is have fun, just following the most basic manners.
@@sabinecallas8904 yes, It IS not true: expensive cosmétics, makeup, hairdresses, expensives clothes, gym, probably got some kind of stetic procedures (hyaluronic ácid in Lips and her nose IS different than before-rinoplasty maybe a bochectomy too) teeth whitening, manicure, etc
This is why i love your videos specifically, you educate us and talk about how to improve instead of mocking the person! That really talks about you and your professionalism, thank you! :)
Jamila, thank you for this discussion about this video! I haven't seen any of the videos, but it's good to learn some etiquette from a natural situation. I started eating with a fork downward when I moved to England, although it was really difficult and I still struggle!
I think I agree with everything, but the soup. I personally find it more practical to eat the soup with bending my upper body down alittle bit towards so that any drop of soup that may be drop down to the bowl wouldnt dirt my shirt. Thats only my personal opinion, if thats what she said is the good etiquette for eating soup, then let it be;)
I noticed that the way Hailey eats it’s just more American, whereas the etiquette rules are more how Europeans or British or the French eat. For example, in Europe, you’ll always have the fork on your left side with the tongs facing down and your knife on your right side because a lot of the food that you’re eating there are using both utensils And it makes it easier for cutting each bite instead of switching the utensils over to the other hand like you do in America because typically with American foods, you can eat a lot of stuff with just a fork by itself so it would make sense just to have the fork on your dominant hand.
i love that the first clip had a little peak at the azerbaijani grand prix! i love f1 and i love you, so everytime the race happens at baku I'm extra excited to watch! Keep making more videos 💕
I appreciate this video very much. Not only have I learned about dining etiquette but also about how to clearly explain and correct with respect. I've only watched a couple of your videos and I feel like I want to continue in doing so. Would really love to learn about and how to always act with proper manners and etiquette. ♡
Hailey felt relatable in that video which made her lovable and entertaining to watch. But this video comparison is really good and I'm learning. Thank you.
In my opinion, I think Hailey was just focusing on entertaining the audience by exaggerating everything and show the non-etiquette way people can enjoy their lives without judgement, I think. She obviously was just having fun
Agree, besides not everyone knows etiquette rules , being a celebrity does not mean one knows the rules too; if one has become a celebrity, or is in the business world , better to learn the rules
I notice that most of these etiquette rules, not lust in dining but in general, actually are practical and not just something to follow to be "proper". For examples, waving the fork and knife in the air would pose a hazard, putting the utensils back on the mat would be unsanitary, bending down too low can hurt your back (and also would be dangerous if you get too close to the food especially if it's hot), etc. These are pretty much based on maintaining safety and hygiene.
I’m going to make sure that I always eat before going to any fancy dinner. If I was starving, having to eat like this would be an absolute torture! Lol
Awesome video! I would love to see more things like that in the future. I feel like in this day and age, there cannot be enough videos about etiquette in all kinds of restaurant, work/school, or travelling settings, etc., etc.
When I go to restaurant, I made a lot of noise with the cutlery when eating. It's very disturbing for others, I want to correct it, please give some tips. I would be grateful if you could please make a video about it.
im guessing you're indian, our people don't use a lot of cutlery other than spoons in our homes and some use just hands. going to a restaurant is an occasional activity and you can't build a skill without practice. try using cutlery at home for lunches for a week or two to practice.
I used to work at multiple 5 star hotels and we were definitely taught to serve from the right and collect empty plates from the left side. Only exception, if you are serving from a serving platter, for example slices of meat, bread or something you would serve from the left.
All these etiquette rules an manners seems normal for me, like, i don’t understand why this is conciderate as fancy haha. I’m french and i think that these things are standards that are Inculcated since the begining (if you have good education at home) but without saying thats an art, more like it’s just a normal way to eat 😋
@@aleahcordoba4883 I'm from the US and as soon as we are able to sit at the table, in a proper chair instead of a highchair, we are taught these manners in my family. My 2y/o neice can do everything but hold her cutlery properly but that's just because she hasn't reached that level of coordination in her development yet. And she's not some little princess; she wants to be a dinosaur when she grows up.
I am blessed because from the age of around 5 yrs., my mom taught us manners and etiquette, and I am still learning! It’s great however to see that lot of people want to up their game rather than think etiquette is unimportant or irrelevant in this day and age. It actually is very relevant, because etiquette is actually being respectful to others, as well as to oneself.
JAMILA, I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL THROUGH THE COMMENT YOU MADE ON THE VOGUE VIDEO AND I AM SO THANKFUL THAT YOU RESPONDED AND SHOW US HOW TO BEHAVE, IT WAS A GREAT IDEA! CONGRATULATIONS ON THE QUALITY OF CONTENT AND THANKS FOR SHARING WITH US. *YOU AND HAILEY HAVE THE SAME SWEET AND ELEGANT VIBE AND LOVE TO FOLLOW THEM HERE ON UA-cam.* GREETINGS FROM BRAZIL 💌
Hello Jamila! I love your lessons on dining etiquette. I’ll remember and try to practice them at home so when I dine out, it will feel more natural for me.
Why I love to learn table manners and etiquette is that I just want use all the cutlery in the correct way. I just don't want to mess around the well organized table. I don't want to please others but myself.
This video is very interesting to me because I like both styles of Etiquette Dining. Jamila I am going to be looking forward to the next video clip because I enjoy learning and listening.
There is. You eat it with your hands, but you take a bite, then put it down, wipe your face with a napkin… take a drink if you like… repeat as necessary, while conversing and alternating with your side dishes (French fries, salad, etc.).
I know why she eats like that. Her mom is brazilian lol The way she eats looks very familiar to me since people here almost always behave like that. She looks brazilian herself!
Hey Jamila, hope you're amazing. What I loved most is learning the right way of holding the fork when bringing it into your mouth, and learning how to take a break with the cutlery for talking. Thank you so much, it's very useful, and I'll put it to practice from now on.
Jamila was eating in the Continental/European dining style. Hailey Bieber was eating in the American dining style. Americans do not eat with fork tongs down. In The United States it would be rare to see anyone eating the way Jamila does.
I am so glad that I have found your UA-cam channel! I wish that etiquette was a more common topic to teach at school to kids. Your videos are easy to understand and so useful, I hope you will reach out 1 million of subscribers soon! People are genuinely surprised about my well manners in social settings, and this is part of your teaching throughout your videos:) so thank you!
Thank you for another educative video. I see a big difference in my manners since I started watching you. I feel like a different person, the better version of myself. What starts to make trouble is other people because now I notice their bad manners a lot. 😄
Thank you so so so so much Jamila for motivating me and I really really love your vlogs so so so much you inspired me so so so much and I will support you till end😭✨💕☺️
Awwww Hailey is so animated. I think, she would be a riot to dine with because she’s interesting/expressive… the casual improper etiquette habits wouldn’t be extremely distracting in real time, I think
In the USA No but really In Europ ppl actually eat a certain way at fancy Dinner, at a normal Dinner you can be more casual but at a nice Dinner everyone Eats with edict. You shouldn’t use your knife as you gesture with your hands - it’s not nice!
Interesting how I thought about every etiquette rule Hailey broke while I was watching her Vogue video and now, suddenly, UA-cam suggests me this video...
Thank you Jamila, I didn’t know once the clutery touches the food it isn’t supposed to touch the table again. I will practice it next time i’m dining at the restaurant. Thank you
Hello Jamila, I admire how you did this video from such a kind place, you didn't at all pick on Mrs. Bieber, who was indeed practically waving her silverware around & talking with her mouth full. Once again you are considerate & classy, demonstrating etiquette in the way you live your life & treat others.
Very interesting and useful video, with examples as clear as this it is easier to learn how to and how not to. Would love to see more videos like this.
I really enjoyed watching this kind of video format, as I could see the "mistake" being made and the proper way of doing it right after. I think it is very easy and nice to learn this way. Thank you
I have old French cutlery, and on much of it from that same period, it is decorated on both sides, but the medallion area is on the back side (where a monogram, crest, etc., would be engraved or added) for all pieces, so you would normally put the forks tines down as you mention, but also the spoons as well. I have some very old American cutlery that is done the same way, but it may have been meant for a French family as it has a Fleur de Lys on it, with the medallion for the monogram or crest on the back side. Lovely video.
This format is very similar to the MOVIE Club for Patreons! I love this kind of video and as usual it is packed with lots of takeaways we can use and start to practice on daily basis! Of course, special mention to how quick and fast this video was produced from conceptualisation, to filming, editing and posting here on UA-cam. And Jamila, you always look immaculate and stunning! We can see how much love and effort was poured into producing this ONE video alone. Such a good one!
Hailey was there to entertain people and have fun I don't think if she did these etiquette people would've watched the video they would call it boring but still it's beautiful to have etiquette
I also noticed in the first clip the way she held her fork pointing up in her right hand while trying to use her knife with her left hand, it all looked extremely awkward. Loved this video, thanks for sharing your knowledge! PS: Quick question. I understand that when eating a "bite size" piece of fish or vegetable, it is easy to bring it to your mouth with the fork facing down. However, would it be correct to eat "smaller pieces" food like rice, ground beef, or even mashed potatoes with your fork facing up? What is the etiquette for these foods?
I notice that most of these etiquette rules, not just in dining but in general, actually are practical and not just something to follow to be “proper”. For examples, waving the fork and knife in the air would pose a hazard, putting the utensils back on the mat would be unsanitary, bending down too low can hurt your back (and also would be dangerous if you get too close to the food especially if it’s hot), etc. These are pretty much based on maintaining safety and hygiene.
LAVE
Also not allowed to talk before you swallow your food, to avoid choking
It all boills down to having empathy for yourself and other people.
that's because etiquette was first "invented" so that everyone can feel good when interacting with each other; now people use 'not wanting to seem stuck up' as an excuse to not have proper manners, so they end up being rude and crossing over people's boundaries
Too many restaurants I have been to expect you to keep your dirty cutlery, even when you have not one plate nor extra napkins on the table. I try to always hold onto my bread plate for this reason alone. I feel so comfortable and happy when the restaurant staff remove your plates, silverware on top, and either understand or bring a new set without even asking. A lot of people, staff and diners alike, do not know this; they are simply doing what they think is normal. 🥺🌹🍽 And yes, I am very certain this has only happened in America. I often just ask for new silverware if they try to have my keep it, and sometimes that request is met with hesitation. I think I've always been given a new set, though. 😅🌹🍽
I am not well off or wealthy by any means; I am simply middle class. I never go anywhere fancy to eat because of this but I still use your dining etiquette lessons when I am dining. Things I have noticed is that when I practice dining etiquette, even if the common person or waiter doesn’t understand what I’m doing, I look much more feminine and put together and I’ve noticed that doing these things commands more attention from my date and I get better service from my waiters and waitresses. Home training and soft skills truly benefit any woman in any situation
Well said! I was also thinking that if you chew/swallow your food before speaking, drinking or taking another bite, you will be eating slower and probably getting fuller faster by using proper etiquette. Therefore, you may not be eating everything on your plate, which is healthier if you're receiving American proportions. I do wonder if it is rude to not finish your meal? Likewise, would it be rude to hold up the rest of your party, while they wait for you to finish your course?
I hope she has videos on what is appropriate attire to wear at various type of venue's such as a 5-star, vs a chain restaurant, for example. I learned table manners growing up but not this in-depth. I was never taught about clothes. In Arizona, as a middle class person, we dress for coolness and comfort and frequent chain restaurants, which often means jeans and t-shirts or a sleevless top of some sort. This is acceptable here due to the heat. Growing up this way, makes me feel dressed way over the top if I wear a nice sundress or skirt and top. I don't even know where to begin. Like you, I would like to feel feminine while I am outside of my home dining or even just running errands. I would love to have the confidence to dress in a proper way to dine at a five star restaurant (not that I would ever find myself in one). If I wore a beautiful dress like her black one, I would feel like I was going to a wedding. I need help. Lol
Jamila, I would like to know how to gracefully deal with little accidents that happen while dining. For example, when you drop a piece of food, if you drop your napkin or cutlery by accident, if you rip a stocking or whatever clumsy mistakes that could happen. It would be fun to watch and very educational 🤣.
Great idea. Something always goes wrong when I’m out to a restaurant or event with my three kids.
Saaame
She mentioned it in her dining etiquette video. If I remembered it correctly, one shouldn't pick up the food or cutlery from the floor. ua-cam.com/video/zA2PfKRcm0g/v-deo.html
Yes Jamila!
as far as I know, when you drop some food, you NEVER pick it up, the waiter picks it up
I like how polite and respectful you are! You are not criticizing, but rather giving useful suggestions on how to do things better
*Is it just me or does anyone else instantly feels like straightening their back and putting a bit more effort into how they're going to present and eat their dinner?* I always feel like getting a glimpse of royalty after watching Jamila's videos on etiquette. Beautifully done as always. I dream of this production for my own channel :)
Relating to what you have mentioned.
Yes applying the effort brings out a new personality to become better in the world of Business (Work), Casual (Home).
I would also like to thank Jamila Musayeva for bringing a new trait into my daily life to become successful and enjoy life.
Absolutely trying to sit in a more ladylike fashion right now 😂🙋
It's good, because being seated for a long period when busy can become uncomfortable. I choose the ladylike fashion seating positions that come into play as it releases good stress and can continue with my daily duties. @@danyf.1442
I'm very much work in progress when it comes to my posture. Something I need to be reminded of.
In your diary write or type my posture correction. Your schedule will then keep you updated as it will depend on what settings you have selected. Once you made the habit it will never be broken. @@IevaKambarovaite
In France, the etiquette says that fork and knife position in the plate also has a meaning.
Crossing them like you did in the video means you have finished and... didn't enjoy your food 😛. Putting them in parallel means you liked it, and putting them perpendicularly means you would like to have the next dish.
Making an A, means you are having a pause
I feel like the latest generation tries to come off as unassuming, authentic and friendly but they have lost the art of many etiquette rules that, when you think about it, are in place for the comfort of everyone at the table - and for your safety clearly. This is a nice reminder, as I myself tend to take heaps of food in my mouth and then blabber on in case I miss out on the conversations being had 🙈
I love how educational and respectful this video series are. Thank you for such a high quality material for everyone to learn!
Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻
I am glad to know that there are still people like you who are concerned and interested in showing people the importance of how to behave at the table. However I think Haley did her role well. The video would lose its fun and spontaneity if she had to focus on the rules of etiquette.
That's right
you can be fun & spontaneous and still have proper manners, one does not exclude the other
@@StylingPrincessM how I want this balance 😂🤌🏽
True, Hailey's a freespirited person, as much as manners are great she loves to have be goofy at times & that what I enjoyed most about the video
I don't believe that not speaking with a full mouth or not waiving her cutlery would have taken away the fun and spontaneity.
For the people around us, it is fancy. My kids complain about having to learn to be fancy when no one else does it. My husband learned! He recently went to a business celebratory lunch and his friend/boss leaned in and asked my husband what fork he should start with :)
My mom is Mexican but taught me the basic use of fork and knife as a kid (siblings and dad need etiquette classes!) I later learned the rest on my own. When we were dating, my husband’s family gave me the nickname “la duquesa” the duchess because I use a fork and knife lol.
I wish I were exaggerating when I say I'm amazed at how many younger people don't know how to properly use cutlery.
Im 38 and im from Portugal. I did learn a lot of these "table manners" has a child, especially from my dad. I believe he learned these rules with priests in his school, because his family was humble. I really proud of my dad and all he taught me. Great video, you gained another follower. Thank you and congrats on being so polite and thoughfull speaking of Hailey.
Os Portugueses têm maneiras fantásticas! Também sou portuguesa, mas vivi em várias partes do mundo, e nós de facto, somos extraordinariamente bem educados :)
You : “I’m from Portugal”
Me : who cares where u from sis
@claudia ferreira in my case was grandparents especially not to talk when you have something in your mouth and not to place your elbows on the table and never chew like a cow to close your mouth and chew.😄
@@bartsimpson3275 me
Elegance always makes a person look way better.
Absolutely
This reminded me of an old friend! He is the only other person I know who cares about etiquette too. He basically said that a woman can be a 10 until she sits down to eat. So we were laughing at me when the fork would just not pierce the tomato in the salad! (We were at a convention and stuck eating what they offered. I was pregnant so I was like screw it, I need to eat hahaha!)
@@JamilaMusayeva you are adorable
Hailey is very animated and probably wasn’t as concerned with etiquette. She was still very charming and effortlessly beautiful. Still helpful to know these notes.
Yeah but still is Vogue...surprised me alot they did the video without saying anything. It's not any magazine, for example a magazine for teenagers with a singer like Olivia Rodrigo saying her opinions about fast food in the comfort of her home. This it's a more relax environment, the goal is have fun, just following the most basic manners.
effortlessly?😂
@@silvialopez-jurado6979 yes, effortlessly. got anything to say?
@@sabinecallas8904 yes, It IS not true: expensive cosmétics, makeup, hairdresses, expensives clothes, gym, probably got some kind of stetic procedures (hyaluronic ácid in Lips and her nose IS different than before-rinoplasty maybe a bochectomy too) teeth whitening, manicure, etc
🤣 😂😂😂😂
This is why i love your videos specifically, you educate us and talk about how to improve instead of mocking the person! That really talks about you and your professionalism, thank you! :)
This was so interesting! You addressed the issues very nicely and politely. Please do more reaction videos! :)
Yes!!💘
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The French must have lost their ways because the tine isn't placed down until finished to indicate removal so service doesn't interrupt conversation.
I highly agree, I'm looking forward for more reaction videos
@@insideoutcleanwithkathleen4854 That makes sense. Even in Germany we are not aloud to speak by eating, so the full mouth is a no go.
Thank You, Jamila! 💚
You are so kind in your reaction to this video. Thank you for the graceful education.
I do hope Hailey watch this video, it is such a good input for her☺️
Your voice is sooo calming!
Jamila, thank you for this discussion about this video! I haven't seen any of the videos, but it's good to learn some etiquette from a natural situation. I started eating with a fork downward when I moved to England, although it was really difficult and I still struggle!
I think I agree with everything, but the soup.
I personally find it more practical to eat the soup with bending my upper body down alittle bit towards so that any drop of soup that may be drop down to the bowl wouldnt dirt my shirt. Thats only my personal opinion, if thats what she said is the good etiquette for eating soup, then let it be;)
I noticed that the way Hailey eats it’s just more American, whereas the etiquette rules are more how Europeans or British or the French eat. For example, in Europe, you’ll always have the fork on your left side with the tongs facing down and your knife on your right side because a lot of the food that you’re eating there are using both utensils And it makes it easier for cutting each bite instead of switching the utensils over to the other hand like you do in America because typically with American foods, you can eat a lot of stuff with just a fork by itself so it would make sense just to have the fork on your dominant hand.
You are such a great teacher and so polite also you look gorgeous as always!
Great informative Video Jamila, but I also like the way Hailey enjoyed her food. Love for both ladies.
I have never seen anyone eating as elegantly as Jamila. 🌟
Thank you 😊
Belle! Merci pour la vidéo, Jamila💕
i love that the first clip had a little peak at the azerbaijani grand prix! i love f1 and i love you, so everytime the race happens at baku I'm extra excited to watch!
Keep making more videos 💕
Agreed. Well done Baku. 🏎
I appreciate this video very much. Not only have I learned about dining etiquette but also about how to clearly explain and correct with respect. I've only watched a couple of your videos and I feel like I want to continue in doing so. Would really love to learn about and how to always act with proper manners and etiquette. ♡
Loved it. Thank you always . Watching you means learning half way
Really glad you did this video. I saw her video today.
Hailey felt relatable in that video which made her lovable and entertaining to watch. But this video comparison is really good and I'm learning. Thank you.
I’ve never seen anyone so pretty while eating. Thank you for sharing your knowledge. Looking forward to more!
In my opinion, I think Hailey was just focusing on entertaining the audience by exaggerating everything and show the non-etiquette way people can enjoy their lives without judgement, I think. She obviously was just having fun
Agree, besides not everyone knows etiquette rules , being a celebrity does not mean one knows the rules too; if one has become a celebrity, or is in the business world , better to learn the rules
@@harmony7112 she kinda should though, I bet she went to private schools.
@@niamhwatson she was home schooled actually 😊
I notice that most of these etiquette rules, not
lust in dining but in general, actually are practical
and not just something to follow to be "proper".
For examples, waving the fork and knife in the air
would pose a hazard, putting the utensils back on
the mat would be unsanitary, bending down too
low can hurt your back (and also would be
dangerous if you get too close to the food
especially if it's hot), etc. These are pretty much
based on maintaining safety and hygiene.
Why are you watching an etiquette video if you think etiquette is useless?
Thank you. I have been waited for this video.
I’m going to make sure that I always eat before going to any fancy dinner. If I was starving, having to eat like this would be an absolute torture! Lol
Your voice is so elegant too omg every about you just classy
Thank you 🙏🏻
Awesome video! I would love to see more things like that in the future. I feel like in this day and age, there cannot be enough videos about etiquette in all kinds of restaurant, work/school, or travelling settings, etc., etc.
Such an awesome video! I really like that you did not judge the "left-hand way" of eating.
When I go to restaurant, I made a lot of noise with the cutlery when eating. It's very disturbing for others, I want to correct it, please give some tips. I would be grateful if you could please make a video about it.
im guessing you're indian, our people don't use a lot of cutlery other than spoons in our homes and some use just hands. going to a restaurant is an occasional activity and you can't build a skill without practice. try using cutlery at home for lunches for a week or two to practice.
I used to work at multiple 5 star hotels and we were definitely taught to serve from the right and collect empty plates from the left side. Only exception, if you are serving from a serving platter, for example slices of meat, bread or something you would serve from the left.
All these etiquette rules an manners seems normal for me, like, i don’t understand why this is conciderate as fancy haha. I’m french and i think that these things are standards that are Inculcated since the begining (if you have good education at home) but without saying thats an art, more like it’s just a normal way to eat 😋
I know! But not in the US haha so sad
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Been waiting for someone to say this 😊
@@aleahcordoba4883 I'm from the US and as soon as we are able to sit at the table, in a proper chair instead of a highchair, we are taught these manners in my family. My 2y/o neice can do everything but hold her cutlery properly but that's just because she hasn't reached that level of coordination in her development yet. And she's not some little princess; she wants to be a dinosaur when she grows up.
Jamila, you are such a classy lady! So inspired, thank you! 😄
Your videos have been a breath of fresh air!
Thank you 😊
@@JamilaMusayeva You're welcome! 😊
thank u jamila❤
I can watch you speak forever. Seriously. You’re so elegant
Thank you, I would love more videos like this ❤️
I am blessed because from the age of around 5 yrs., my mom taught us manners and etiquette, and I am still learning! It’s great however to see that lot of people want to up their game rather than think etiquette is unimportant or irrelevant in this day and age. It actually is very relevant, because etiquette is actually being respectful to others, as well as to oneself.
JAMILA, I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL THROUGH THE COMMENT YOU MADE ON THE VOGUE VIDEO AND I AM SO THANKFUL THAT YOU RESPONDED AND SHOW US HOW TO BEHAVE, IT WAS A GREAT IDEA! CONGRATULATIONS ON THE QUALITY OF CONTENT AND THANKS FOR SHARING WITH US. *YOU AND HAILEY HAVE THE SAME SWEET AND ELEGANT VIBE AND LOVE TO FOLLOW THEM HERE ON UA-cam.*
GREETINGS FROM BRAZIL 💌
I think you are absolutely darling! ❤
This video was very helpful. Thank you love.
Thank you ☺️
Hello Jamila! I love your lessons on dining etiquette. I’ll remember and try to practice them at home so when I dine out, it will feel more natural for me.
Why I love to learn table manners and etiquette is that I just want use all the cutlery in the correct way. I just don't want to mess around the well organized table. I don't want to please others but myself.
This video is very interesting to me because I like both styles of Etiquette Dining.
Jamila I am going to be looking forward to the next video clip because I enjoy learning and listening.
I'm wondering if there are etiquettes to eat burgers. Teach us Jamila!
I think I remember seeing a video where they'll eat it with fork and knife.
There is. You eat it with your hands, but you take a bite, then put it down, wipe your face with a napkin… take a drink if you like… repeat as necessary, while conversing and alternating with your side dishes (French fries, salad, etc.).
I really like your videos. Thank you for everything you teach us.
Saw that dress and had to subscribe. You’re so majestic.
Loved this!!! Thank you for the continuous amazing content. Take care
It is always a pleasure to see you in action.
Regards from Mexico City!
This video was so enjoyable for me thank you 🧡🧡
absolutely love this!!!
Informative & entertaining at the same time.Thank you.
Really enjoyed the video, so enlightening!
I know why she eats like that. Her mom is brazilian lol The way she eats looks very familiar to me since people here almost always behave like that. She looks brazilian herself!
Excellent video. Thank you Jamila
Hey Jamila, hope you're amazing.
What I loved most is learning the right way of holding the fork when bringing it into your mouth, and learning how to take a break with the cutlery for talking.
Thank you so much, it's very useful, and I'll put it to practice from now on.
Jamila was eating in the Continental/European dining style. Hailey Bieber was eating in the American dining style. Americans do not eat with fork tongs down. In The United States it would be rare to see anyone eating the way Jamila does.
Loved this video! I would love to see more videos that are reactions to people's behaviors. Seeing the corrections are very helpful learning tool!
I am so glad that I have found your UA-cam channel! I wish that etiquette was a more common topic to teach at school to kids. Your videos are easy to understand and so useful, I hope you will reach out 1 million of subscribers soon! People are genuinely surprised about my well manners in social settings, and this is part of your teaching throughout your videos:) so thank you!
It is sad that schools no longer teach etiquette
I believe etiquette must be taught at home by the parents and the family, just as good manners.
People (not all people) are so casual and downright sloppy with eating and dining manners are rare!
Really enjoyed this episode!!!
Thank you for another educative video. I see a big difference in my manners since I started watching you. I feel like a different person, the better version of myself. What starts to make trouble is other people because now I notice their bad manners a lot. 😄
Love watching your videos as usual.
Thank you so so so so much Jamila for motivating me and I really really love your vlogs so so so much you inspired me so so so much and I will support you till end😭✨💕☺️
Excellent delivery 👏👏
More videos like this please! It really helps what to do and what to not
I enjoyed this vid, I look forward on your future vids similar to this one
Thank You very much 💘 it's actually very informative and I definitely learned new etiquettes
beautiful Jamila.This was an useful video . Thank you, also you were looking absolutely gorgeous ❤️❤️
Really enjoyed this video. Thanks for helping us out with our dining etiquette
As usual so informative. I will never get tired of watching you. :*
The fact that this video has more views than the original video 🤫
Always good to have gentle reminders!
Awwww Hailey is so animated. I think, she would be a riot to dine with because she’s interesting/expressive… the casual improper etiquette habits wouldn’t be extremely distracting in real time, I think
Exactly. In fact, extreme etiquette will make the dine more boring and anxious
Yeah itd makes me uncomfortable if someone I’m going out with is super into etiquete. Hailey seems fun to go out to eat with it:)
+1. I think Hailey us much more ınteresting to watch and the demonstrated look is sooo boring and impersonal..
Americans equating waving sharp objects while talking as having a personality lol
In the USA No but really In Europ ppl actually eat a certain way at fancy Dinner, at a normal Dinner you can be more casual but at a nice Dinner everyone Eats with edict. You shouldn’t use your knife as you gesture with your hands - it’s not nice!
THE BAKU F1 POSTER AT THE BEGINNING *softly and elegantly saying this*
Interesting how I thought about every etiquette rule Hailey broke while I was watching her Vogue video and now, suddenly, UA-cam suggests me this video...
Same
Thank you Jamila, I didn’t know once the clutery touches the food it isn’t supposed to touch the table again. I will practice it next time i’m dining at the restaurant. Thank you
You are welcome
There is so much to learn from your videos.
I been doing all that hailey was doing,this video was so educative I'll try it
Hello Jamila, I admire how you did this video from such a kind place, you didn't at all pick on Mrs. Bieber, who was indeed practically waving her silverware around & talking with her mouth full. Once again you are considerate & classy, demonstrating etiquette in the way you live your life & treat others.
I love the reaction videos keep them comin!
I really enjoyed this so much, thank you for the etiquette lesson in this reaction video.
It was interesting to learn, setting the fork and spoon downward allows the family name pressed into the silverware to be shown.
very useful，thank you so much
Very useful, very intricate detail about table manners I liked this it's much useful
Very interesting and useful video, with examples as clear as this it is easier to learn how to and how not to. Would love to see more videos like this.
Thank you for sharing etiquette technique ♡
I really enjoyed watching this kind of video format, as I could see the "mistake" being made and the proper way of doing it right after. I think it is very easy and nice to learn this way. Thank you
I admire you and Hailey alike. This was such a great video, Jamila
I have old French cutlery, and on much of it from that same period, it is decorated on both sides, but the medallion area is on the back side (where a monogram, crest, etc., would be engraved or added) for all pieces, so you would normally put the forks tines down as you mention, but also the spoons as well. I have some very old American cutlery that is done the same way, but it may have been meant for a French family as it has a Fleur de Lys on it, with the medallion for the monogram or crest on the back side. Lovely video.
Thanks for sharing! Yes, I thought I mentioned both on fork and spoon. I love Fleur de Lys as a symbol.
This format is very similar to the MOVIE Club for Patreons! I love this kind of video and as usual it is packed with lots of takeaways we can use and start to practice on daily basis!
Of course, special mention to how quick and fast this video was produced from conceptualisation, to filming, editing and posting here on UA-cam. And Jamila, you always look immaculate and stunning! We can see how much love and effort was poured into producing this ONE video alone. Such a good one!
Thank you for your video. As always, very well explained. Gracias
Hailey was there to entertain people and have fun I don't think if she did these etiquette people would've watched the video they would call it boring but still it's beautiful to have etiquette
Jamila you are so sweet and nice. I just like the way you talk and your voice calms down some way
I also noticed in the first clip the way she held her fork pointing up in her right hand while trying to use her knife with her left hand, it all looked extremely awkward. Loved this video, thanks for sharing your knowledge!
PS: Quick question. I understand that when eating a "bite size" piece of fish or vegetable, it is easy to bring it to your mouth with the fork facing down. However, would it be correct to eat "smaller pieces" food like rice, ground beef, or even mashed potatoes with your fork facing up? What is the etiquette for these foods?
This is a good question. ✨✨
I feel like I would use a spoon instead …watch closely to how food judges eat