@@freesiapark great answers for everything. I would add though that whenever one side cheats then the issue is really with that person who cheated not who got cheated on. I don’t see anything wrong with accepting back either. I wouldn’t necessarily say everybody deserves a second chance but some do.
Man I needed to hear all of this. I’m 25 and have never been in a relationship due to never pursuing one before. For the past few months, I have been trying to date but I feel like the fact that I’ve never been in a relationship is making people less interested in me.. but I just want a chance to try and learn
I don't think inexperience in relationships has anything to do with it. People with exs also have emotional baggage they drag into the next relationship. Keep going and stay optimistic
I am sorry for that. Your noobness shhould be interesting. Cuz everything they do with you would be the first, and no comparison. I mean you're great. They are dumb.
Damn, I am very impressed!!! You are low key a great counselor. Good shit. Being a grad student and taking all those classes, and reading all these books, you are a natural... Damn.
Agreed on the developing yourself during the single period; I broke up with my GF of 5 years and decided to stay single for 2 years to develop myself for my future SO at that time. 7 years later, I'm happily married with kids and super happy with how things turned out.
rewatching this after a heartbreak hits different :') def needed to hear these words again. you're so healing with your honesty and tough love, freesia ♥️
Just ended my relationship and the worse for me was trying to hang on at the end when I was emotionally detached which was the worse for in the long run. I appreciate this video. Thank you Freesia
I personally think that you are so self aware and mentally strong and empowered.... I was like taking notes while watching the video 😂... Loved it... Love all your videos just because your personality is so bomb and easy to connect...lots of love from India
In my first relationship, I knew I didnt want to be in it. I didnt feel the right connection with him and I was never really happy. I never got the courage to break up with him because I was too afraid that it would be the wrong decision. I dragged it out for several years and it was one of my biggest regrets. The relationship got extremely toxic, always flip flopping between being okay with each other to screaming and crying. In the end, he ended it for a coworker and I am very happy for him. For the first time in a long time, I finally felt like myself. This was one of the hardest and most important lessons I have learned.
dude such relatable content💛!! red flags of unemotionally available or non-communicative ppl r a big deal huge .. i ended it with an ex that was the epitome of a "stoic man" recently.. next one will neeeed to be a communicative person 😬
i know i shouldnt say this but i really like this video. not over sharing at all. because this makes me know what are the opinions of others girls on these questions. this video gave me answers to some to the questions about dating that ive recently so puzzled about
Wow i feel like i am soaking in all this wisdom. For someone who’s only been and currently is in 1 relationship, i am completely unaware of the dating game. It sounds so scary and complicated. You are so darn eloquent and i aspire to be like you! Such a great story teller :)
Being single can be both good and bad, it all depends on how you build yourself, don't chase love because the most beautiful things often come when least expected.
I don’t usually comment but I just had to because I think you should know how much we all enjoy your videos and look forward to your next uploads✨✨ love from montréal! 🇨🇦 👊🏼
Freeeesia! Thank u for answering my question. Also I just scrolled through your feed and found out you're an aqua too. Makes so much sense why I relate so much to you! Anyhooo 💜 Sending you love!
I definitely relate on self improvement coz of my recent breakup. If I hadn't gone thru it, I probably wouldn't have understood what you talked about. Thank you 💕
Cant wait for the next video hahaha im gonna watch this again later the topic is so intense tho, Im just listening to it while working my paper and I cant help my expressions like "woah" "really" "yeah yeah yeah" "so accurate" hahaha and laughing out of the blue haha my colleague so curious what im listening to. Thank you Fressia I love your videos so much.
LOOL love the disclaimer you added for your parents. Thanks for being so vulnerable! I had lots of fun listening to your insight/experiences. I hope you answer more questions like these HEHE (like for example, dating during covid? haha jkjk...unless?)
I guess there's a part of women that prefer lesbian porn because is less aggressive, less submission, more about making pleasure for the girl rather than violent scenes where only the men is satisfied and the girl is clearly acting, cause let's be true.. Real life sex doesn't have nothing to do with the industry of porn, at least the sex where each individual is truly enjoying it
Waw I was not nearly as smart about relationships when I was 25... My EQ is just too low so if the guy also has low EQ nothing is going to happen because I'm too low EQ to chase lol
"Don't expect guys to like you more just because you slept with him. That's not the way guys work" How do YOU know how guys work? I mean, you're right, but how do you know how guys work? 😂
I broke up with my bf and cut him off after giving him 3 chances. What should I do if he is going around talking bs about me and saying I used him and just moved on to someone who's better lol?
Straight up nothing just keep yourself to yourself eventually he has to stop it’ll become old news. Whether what he says is true or not it doesn’t matter in the long run. 😌
Don't do anything but put all focus on yourself. With time you will get over him. 3 chances is too many. Let him say what he wants because you know what the truth is and that is what matters. He didn't move on to someone better, he moved on to a rebound. Don't worry about something that might end in 2 years or less. Trust me I wish someone had said this to me when I blocked my ex.
People who know you will know your truth, people who care to know will ask you and people who don’t care will believe what they want. Don’t entertain it and keep moving forward girl ✨
"The right person at the wrong time is still the wrong person" damn that hits hard 😬
What the hell are you a relationship professor or something? Every single one of those answers was so good😹
I’ve just been through some sh*t 🥴
I am married and guessing much older than you, but I can say I absolutely agreed with everything. Couldn't have said it better. Haha!
@@freesiapark :'( AWWW you deserve someone with a heart of gold
lol i know right? Dr. Park has arrived!
@@freesiapark great answers for everything.
I would add though that whenever one side cheats then the issue is really with that person who cheated not who got cheated on.
I don’t see anything wrong with accepting back either. I wouldn’t necessarily say everybody deserves a second chance but some do.
Man I needed to hear all of this. I’m 25 and have never been in a relationship due to never pursuing one before. For the past few months, I have been trying to date but I feel like the fact that I’ve never been in a relationship is making people less interested in me.. but I just want a chance to try and learn
I don't think inexperience in relationships has anything to do with it. People with exs also have emotional baggage they drag into the next relationship. Keep going and stay optimistic
so relate... im 27 though
I am sorry for that. Your noobness shhould be interesting. Cuz everything they do with you would be the first, and no comparison. I mean you're great. They are dumb.
That is exactly why people are less interested: because you just want to use girls for free dating lessons. Who would want that lol
Damn, I am very impressed!!! You are low key a great counselor. Good shit. Being a grad student and taking all those classes, and reading all these books, you are a natural... Damn.
Agreed on the developing yourself during the single period; I broke up with my GF of 5 years and decided to stay single for 2 years to develop myself for my future SO at that time. 7 years later, I'm happily married with kids and super happy with how things turned out.
thank you for being the big sis i never had 😭
You are a muse for being open and honest with grace. Fantastic work, Freesia!!
rewatching this after a heartbreak hits different :') def needed to hear these words again. you're so healing with your honesty and tough love, freesia ♥️
Just ended my relationship and the worse for me was trying to hang on at the end when I was emotionally detached which was the worse for in the long run. I appreciate this video. Thank you Freesia
Freesia i love you!!!! Please keep posting:)
I dont know how many times i've been watching this vid
Whenever i need an answer for my healthy relationship
Thx freesia:)
Can never get tired of your Q & A and chatty videos!!
I really enjoy these type of videos. makes me feel like I'm not alone! Hope you do more in the future.
I personally think that you are so self aware and mentally strong and empowered.... I was like taking notes while watching the video 😂... Loved it... Love all your videos just because your personality is so bomb and easy to connect...lots of love from India
Please do more of these!
Your answers are so to the point and honest.
Giiiiiirl, you killed it! Love your answers and appreciate your honesty!You seem so mature and confident. Keep it up!
"Girls who initiate" is such a breath of fresh air and shows confidence
agreed
@@euniceychoi can you imagine? I’d wife immediately
Damn girl how is everything you say so relatable. Thanks for keeping it real. Loving this content and honesty.
found u thru jbros and love your chill vibe, been binge watching your vids and theirs quite a bit!
In my first relationship, I knew I didnt want to be in it. I didnt feel the right connection with him and I was never really happy. I never got the courage to break up with him because I was too afraid that it would be the wrong decision. I dragged it out for several years and it was one of my biggest regrets. The relationship got extremely toxic, always flip flopping between being okay with each other to screaming and crying. In the end, he ended it for a coworker and I am very happy for him. For the first time in a long time, I finally felt like myself. This was one of the hardest and most important lessons I have learned.
Yes for the adult vibes and talk in this video! Your videos are always so insightful!!
More of this kind of videos, Freesiaaa! All the love xx
dude such relatable content💛!! red flags of unemotionally available or non-communicative ppl r a big deal huge .. i ended it with an ex that was the epitome of a "stoic man" recently.. next one will neeeed to be a communicative person 😬
This video was so insightful. Plz make this a series!!! :')
Thank you for giving such transparent advice on taboo topics! I love this new Q&A content!
Juiccccccyyyyy! This brings me back to Esther’s first podcast ep. haha 😆 The sis that i need. TRUEST! ❤️
i keep coming back to this vid i think it's my 10th time now!!!! LOOVE LOVE LOVE your views! please do more of these freesiaaa
i know i shouldnt say this but i really like this video. not over sharing at all. because this makes me know what are the opinions of others girls on these questions. this video gave me answers to some to the questions about dating that ive recently so puzzled about
Good job on being vulnerable and open! Keep it up! :)
Love your views on the workaholic and FWB question! So empowering!
I LOVE THIS VIDEO OH MY GOD. ALSO WHY R U SO PRETTY OH MY
This the type of video that pops up in your recommendations after searching "How to heal from a narcissistic relationship" lol
Damn so much wisdom gurl 🙌🏻 all your answers are so good
I love how smooth your hair looks like a shampoo commerical
Laughed so hard at 13:10 had to replay it
Wow i feel like i am soaking in all this wisdom. For someone who’s only been and currently is in 1 relationship, i am completely unaware of the dating game. It sounds so scary and complicated. You are so darn eloquent and i aspire to be like you! Such a great story teller :)
Every answer here is has so much truth, spoken beautifully
I see your substance no matter what happens to you or whatever you may have allowed to happen to yourself. It was always there.
Lol loved this video was fun and insightful. It was awesome how directly honest you were, Freesia!👏💕
Being single can be both good and bad, it all depends on how you build yourself, don't chase love because the most beautiful things often come when least expected.
just what i needed!!! AAAAAAH I LUV THIS
This was too good that I had to come back to rewatch 😂
Yes. the end goal is very important for long distance relationships! This video was so much fun~
What an honest video !!! Love this ❤️
Thank you for making this, it helps a lot
I don’t usually comment but I just had to because I think you should know how much we all enjoy your videos and look forward to your next uploads✨✨ love from montréal! 🇨🇦 👊🏼
Love this big sis content!
You just made me rethink some much and I like it!! Thanks for that :)
You are definitely the best advise giver I've ever known and I'm so glad I have you 🥰
I’m watching this video from Japan and been your fan for a quite long time. All I have to say is I love your videos😍
I LOVE YOU FREESIA
Omg ur answers/advice best💓
I thoroughly enjoyed this, you should do more!
Keeping it real 💯 love youuuu Freesia!
Freeeesia! Thank u for answering my question. Also I just scrolled through your feed and found out you're an aqua too. Makes so much sense why I relate so much to you! Anyhooo 💜 Sending you love!
I definitely relate on self improvement coz of my recent breakup. If I hadn't gone thru it, I probably wouldn't have understood what you talked about. Thank you 💕
What are some of the things that let’s you know a guy is insecure? I’d love to be as intuitive as you about that.
I always love ur video😭 keep posting pls love ya lots😭❤
Can't wait to watch your next video!
Cant wait for the next video hahaha im gonna watch this again later the topic is so intense tho, Im just listening to it while working my paper and I cant help my expressions like "woah" "really" "yeah yeah yeah" "so accurate" hahaha and laughing out of the blue haha my colleague so curious what im listening to.
Thank you Fressia I love your videos so much.
Ahhh I just find your voice so soothing haha 😅
I love watching you. It’s like having an older sister lol
Excellent advice. Spot on. Thank you very much. 👍💫😊
such a great stream line of great answers.
we have a very similar outlook on these sort of things haha stay woke and cherish the single life!!
Thanks so much for answering my question!
Looking forward for the next video
I’m dating for the experience 🤪 but it doesn’t feel detached (yet?) and we started as just sex. This way I’ll get to learn what I want and don’t want
please do more of these!
Love you freesia!!
LOOL love the disclaimer you added for your parents. Thanks for being so vulnerable! I had lots of fun listening to your insight/experiences. I hope you answer more questions like these HEHE (like for example, dating during covid? haha jkjk...unless?)
I guess there's a part of women that prefer lesbian porn because is less aggressive, less submission, more about making pleasure for the girl rather than violent scenes where only the men is satisfied and the girl is clearly acting, cause let's be true.. Real life sex doesn't have nothing to do with the industry of porn, at least the sex where each individual is truly enjoying it
What's the colour of your mail polish Freesia? P.s I really loved your insight into all the questions.
Love you! 💛💫
Freesia you A Queen
damn girl u are good at this shit, love you
Myself , I don't really like to chase. some girls take it to far. After a while I just give up.
More of this please 😍
Thank you for answering😫😊😁😭
I hate the way you are pouring water into that cup 🤣
big sis freesia !!!!!
New subscriber here! This was so awesome, I agreed with everything you said. I wish I had a best friend like you lol
Props: so much knowledge at such a young age. It is true that girls mature faster than men.
Where’s your bracelet from❤️
Is nexplanon better than the IUD? I think they’re similar in a lot of ways except the IUD is more painful at insertion T__T
You are amazing
I fall for guys too quick any advice how to stop doing that cause they get bored really fast..n its SAD for me 😕😕
Waw I was not nearly as smart about relationships when I was 25... My EQ is just too low so if the guy also has low EQ nothing is going to happen because I'm too low EQ to chase lol
Let me just say this, you are so pretty❤❤. Wow
Kinda jaded outlook :/ Personally too jaded people are a turn off kinda like how you feel about insecure people.
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Hahaha
Wow very smart lady 😍
wow I wish I watched this before I dated some of the guys that I did LMAO
LoL i have dated alots of right ladies at the wrong times... 🤔 so what does that mean???
i want to watch it with subtitle,
have you ever considered a career in therapy? haha i liked this video
wait how old are you, you look really young
"Don't expect guys to like you more just because you slept with him. That's not the way guys work" How do YOU know how guys work? I mean, you're right, but how do you know how guys work? 😂
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I broke up with my bf and cut him off after giving him 3 chances. What should I do if he is going around talking bs about me and saying I used him and just moved on to someone who's better lol?
Straight up nothing just keep yourself to yourself eventually he has to stop it’ll become old news. Whether what he says is true or not it doesn’t matter in the long run. 😌
Take it as a compliment that you’re on to better things and he’s still bitter
Don't do anything but put all focus on yourself. With time you will get over him. 3 chances is too many. Let him say what he wants because you know what the truth is and that is what matters. He didn't move on to someone better, he moved on to a rebound. Don't worry about something that might end in 2 years or less. Trust me I wish someone had said this to me when I blocked my ex.
People who know you will know your truth, people who care to know will ask you and people who don’t care will believe what they want. Don’t entertain it and keep moving forward girl ✨