11 THINGS MEN DO THAT MAKE WOMEN MELT! 😍
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- 11 THINGS MEN DO THAT MAKE WOMEN MELT! 😍 // If you want to know how to attract a woman, you need to know the things men do to make girls melt! Women can feel terribly confusing if you don’t understand female psychology and what women really want in a man. Once you learn what women really want you’ll also be able to unlock the secrets of how to impress a woman and how to attract women correctly. As a Christian Dating Coach, I’m here to make finding and attracting the love of your life simple! Ready to finally know the things guys do to make girls melt? Let’s dive into 11 Things Men Do That Make Women Melt!
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Men are very intellectual you have to say what you mean by listening to her. My woman says I do not listen but she does not speak clearly. Men don't read between the lines they are very intellectual and instructional oriented. I feel hurt that my woman says I don't listen to her because I do. Thing I notice is that she does not listen to me. If we listened to each other we would actually be doing the things that we asked of each other.
@Melannie, my wife of 20 years is not intimate with me anymore. I'm 47 and she's 41, we have 3 children together. I love her dearly but she shows no interest in me anymore. I'm at a loss, please help
While these things help, women truly just want high value men foremost.
Heyyy coach Melanie, so this woman I like who I been texting/calling and got a date planned this week. She recently revealed yesterday that she is feminist and before we meet up she wants to know if I’m a feminist. Would you say that’s a red flag? I learned something new about her that’s for sure
I think you are “special” :) I love that you are making videos with the conviction that you have with the Lord. It is not only what you say but it’s how you say it and your facial expressions and your body language! I have to say that I really love the video and everything you had to say. It helps me so much! Thank you
In my opinion, being a man means being calm, but firm. Knowing your boundaries, being a kind individual..but at the same time, not letting people walk all over you.
Sounds like my definition of a woman, also!
Being a man is about self control.
Goals, ambitions, health and focus !
Correct. Kind and protective, but with limits, boundaries. Once their expectations grow way up, you only give without receiving and get taken for granted
your opinion is wrong.
being a man means smath the beetles
You yourself have perfected the art of smiling with your eyes, Coach.
Quit simping.
@@Andre87191 Don’t think that’s really simping
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You are absolutely right about men being confident enough to be kind to others, but also be stern when need be. Anytime I was in a relationship, nothing turned her on more than when I did favors for others, like carrying out groceries for someone who is elderly, or offering emotional support for someone else who needed it. Also, women find a man attractive who is good with children.
Wow, Melannie rocks. finally a relationship coach for Christians and does it with warmth and flair.
Twenty years I am in love with my wife and every day my love getting stronger.We have two daughter's and two son's. I'm the happiest man in the world.
I like how you approach finding an actual loving, lasting relationship, not just finding randoms to sleep with. I want love not nothing.
Just got up and watched your video with a cup of coffee. Your positive attidude always lifts my mood and gives me confidence to one day start dating again.Thank you, and keep smiling Melannie.
Really like your videos Melannie! I have been married for going on 22 years and I do 95% of the things you are telling your subscribers to do. I have been fortunate to be with this same beautiful woman for all those years glad to see. Have a blessed day and thank you for the great videos
Thanks for sharing!!
I've been married for 27 years and I think the last time my wife did something considerate for me was about 20 years ago.
So remind me why I should worry about doing to something for her at this point?
Keep in mind that I try to be considerate and think about making her life better and easier on a daily basis.
@J King There's no point. She's 52 and she's not going to change. It's not like she'll wake up one morning and think, "You know what? My life IS good enough for me! My husband IS good enough for me! I CAN be a nice person!"
@J King I did that. I grew mine back and now she's saying please when she asked me to do something. Usually it sounded like orders. I wasn't trying to show who was boss in this case. I just want to be treated as an equal. I am now. I'm much more receptive to her requests with doing things and I get treated with more respect. A win win.
@J King I simply told her that I'm not her servant, and that we are equals. Granted, I had to tell her in a tone that I meant it. I didn't yell. I rarely do. I think it's a waste of energy and you get better results with a firm tone. It's been beneficial for both of us.
My gosh these tips are amazing! I actually defended a lady who I have known for a long time. Afterwards she smiles at me more and is a lot more friendly towards me. I never realized how powerful this would be .
Falling in love is one of the best things in life, coach. Thanks for these videos. Looking forward to more videos!
It's one thing to be kind and courteous to your date, but the thing I admire in both men and women is how they treat a "customer service" employee. If they can look them in the eye, smile, and say "please and thank you", it shows confidence and decency, which is always attractive!
I honestly think you may be 1 of the best relationship advice coaches!!! No lie!! Everything I've listen to u say is 100% accurate.. Glad I came across your channel.. Definitely new subscriber!!!!
Wow, thank you!
I just started dating someone not long ago. I’m new to this after 6+ years.
There is more to this than what I have said yet.
Thank you Mel! It’s been a huge challenge really. It’s so complicated I use to think being tough,rough etc attracts but it actually can be a huge repellent for them. It’s important to know how much we will do for this whole process.. it’s important to build at every stage.
I like the one about the smile. I am always aware of that and to make sure that my smile is warm and inviting. As you said Melanie, it is more than just the mouth, it is also the eyes. I'd go on to say a smile with parted lips, showing the teeth, is extremely important. I've seen too many "smiles" where the lips are not parted and it looks more like a smirk, or that the person is angry.
I've noticed that you've got a great smile where your cheeks are a part of it, scrunching up your nose. I just watched this video for the second time, this time with the sound off and you're facial expressions enhance the positive attitude of your message.
We need more smiling people on this planet. Don't you think?
Smiling is null and void. People wear masks all the time.
I love coach Melanie, as a man, men really need this it's great, listen to her fellas she's 100% correct and she's pretty too !!!
I would say your free master class is life-changing.
I’m ready to stop wasting time on relationships that go nowhere.
Melannie the information you give in your video's is incredible
This is all great for the beginning, the fire eventually wears off, and the honeymoon ends in 3-6 months maybe sooner. Nobody makes videos on keeping that spark going or ways to keep it interesting.
I'm actually working a project right now that will help with that!
I think you keep our attention longer, not lose us at the next corner, and you put it all together, like a friend who really cares how we think.
Everything u said about us is amazingly true may God bless u 🌹
Hey my name is Billy and I've been watching the videos that you make and thank you so much I'm learning a lot
Been with my wife over 16 years and married just over 14. I am very much an introvert and she is an extrovert. I am that guy minding his business with a drink at the bar and she is firing up the crowd with karaoke and talking to her friends.
I have always joked that she is way out of my league and bombshell gorgeous to me. She says I am like her rock and provide the stability and emotional support she needs. She also breaks me out of my shell from time to time and gets me to do new things..... It's hard to believe, but it's like Mr Rogers and Rihanna getting in a relationship 🤣🤣
But I enjoy videos like this. I am always looking for ways to make her happy and keep us strong. I honestly don't want anyone else nor could I imagine being with anyone else.
How did you two get together then? Would love to know it.
@@chaapu1784 We actually met back when Yahoo personals was a thing. I signed up for there service and wasn't having much luck. On the last day of membership, I sent her an icebreaker and she replied. We talked to each other on Yahoo messenger for almost two weeks before agreeing on a date. She lived with her mom about 30 minutes away. I was so nervous and excited 😊. I met her and her mom. We all talked for a while and finally headed out. We went to an OCharleys restaurant, saw a movie, went to mall and talked at her place for a while. I was on cloud 9 the entire date. I wasn't sure if she wanted a second date or not. She told me at the end that she wanted to go out again soon.
As we got to know each other over the weeks, her extroverted self really come out. She just broke up with a guy about 6 months earlier who cheated on her. She said she really liked how calm and level I am. But we grew stronger and married just a little over 2 years after meeting. I will admit that it has caused a little rift here and there with us being opposites. She has stated I wish you would liven up a bit more during some occasions. But we are overall extremely happy together and have a daughter that started high school this year.....I feel extremely lucky to have her and can't imagine being with anyone else. She lets me enjoy my hobbies and free time as I do the same for her. If you are into astrology, I am a Libra and she is an Aries.
I had an elderly female friend that I decided to really listen to. (thankfully the TV was on at the same time) She talked almost non-stop FOR THREE HOURS, stream of conscious ...
Talk for 20 seconds, random thought, silence for 20 seconds. Next thought not at all connected to the last comment, except in her own mind. Finally I had to call a halt My ears hurt.
Melannie, your kind of principle based coaching is truely SPECIAL. Thank you for all the great videos. Love to see keep them popping up with cool facts and a heart warming presentation. You are wonderful!
Oh, by the way.....these are things that truly affect women who are somewhat normal, but not "emotionally-damaged" and broken women. The latter kind don't really recognize these great tips. Their spirits are blinded by dark energy and forces. Thanks for this video, dear!
I'm a guy and i would love it if a girl treats me this way. So this works both ways. Guys also like it when girls treat them this way.
True! I would not suggest getting involved with a woman who doesn't treat you this way. A high quality woman will always treat you right!
@@CoachMelannie You are right. I already have a high quality woman in my life
❤ Thanks .... That is really bizarre when you said Jessica!!! My best friend is the Associate Engagement Coordinator at my local grocery store. I've never seen anyone else like her. She is a LEO and her name is Jessica!!! She is like the daughter that I never got the chance to have ❤
Ok my teacher thank u will start attending ur class more regularly. 👍👍
SPECIAL. I like how you mentioned setting boundaries. That's important for both. I'm a big believer of courting. Thank you for another good video. I hope your Thanksgiving was great. God bless. 🙏
Thanks for your comment! Courting can certainly be a good thing! God bless! 😀
I was able to show that I remembered a friend's dog's name twice, and I was happy about that. So if you know a woman who has a pet, refer to it by its name as much a possible.
The operative word is a "attractive". Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder.
Melannie, after watching this vedio, you've given me immeasurable confidence that I needed to know about the core of a female's heart. What a blessing!!! Keep coaching us guys--we need it, for sure!
Glad it was helpful!
This is one of the best videos I've ever seen
I think out of all the things you mentioned is to pursue her is the best one, but all are important. Out of all the things not to do is not to fail to protect her. She will remember that any maybe cause you and her to break up. But you have to do it with measure. God can teach you with appropriateness.
You have a joyful, positive attitude that makes you so attractive. And a killer smile! God Bless.
You are definitely a good motivational person, bless you more and more 🙏 ❤
I have just started watching your videos on UA-cam today and i can tell that you know a lot of important information with Men and Women and I do appreciate you for sharing what you know to the public on UA-cam Facebook and continue to keep up the great work I will keep watching your videos and thank you and have a great special day
This is awesome. I was doing most these things and wasn't aware of it .
SPECIAL...please create more videos on the topic.
you are amazing and really help us guys who have no clue!!!!!!! Thanks :)
Yes, I do believe I'm learning about myself & my Sherfy. Ya see I do that almost daily. Yep I call her my Sweet Sherry. Or sometimes just watching her @ dinner or @ an event. Keep the good work. This my 1st response & only my second viewing your site. I will be seeing you again. We are both Christians & she goes to my church also. Be Blessed! Dave the Buggyman
Special! Melannie, I have been watching your videos for a good while now, over a year, and I love your advise. I'm an older guy, considered a senior citizen, and honestly with the pandemic, getting out and mixing with people has been extremely difficult and potentially dangerous for someone like myself. However, I recently went on one of those online dating services that is aimed at the older community, and I was matched with a lady that is a little younger than myself, and that has a lot of common interests and background. She has had matches that threw out red flags left and right and frankly she realizes she was burned by them. We've been in communication now for a little while, and I feel ok with her, and from what I've been able to get from our conversations, she is ok with me. I've looked back at our interactions, and because of the things you've told us about how to wow someone of the opposite sex, I've built up that confidence to not only talk to her on the phone, which we've been doing regularly now, but to meet in person. That will happen tomorrow, and we are both looking forward to it. Thank you for all the things you've taught us. Please keep up your wonderful videos. 🌹😊
I'm so happy for you!
@@CoachMelannie The meet up went well, and we will definitely see each other again. We laugh and kid each other and had a great time together. Again, thank you for your videos. Also I always love those out takes that you have. They make me laugh. You have a great sense of humor.
Can you please tell me the name of the dating site you are talking about
@@entertainmentworld4148The site is called Silver Singles. The lady I mentioned above didn't have any feelings for me, and vice versa. We've become good friends in spite of it. I've since met a different lady that I've been seeing weekly for the past month and a half or two months. She has shown a lot of care and we've become close. We aren't rushing into anything, and we enjoy each others company. I like this lady, and judging from her actions, I'm pretty sure she likes me. I've seen a lot of the signs that Melannie has mentioned in her videos. The body language is there. Now I have to admit, that for me this is a good thing as in spite of my physical challenges, I'm wheelchair bound, and have other health issues, she still is interested and they haven't scared her away. Only time will tell as to where this will go in the future. I might add, that this lady is only a year younger than myself.
How has it been going good sir?
Your social skills are beyond great!
Special, thanks for another wonderful video. It is amazing how much I am learning about myself.
Glad you enjoyed it!
lol I didn’t even realize I was doing all of this, I guess that explains why she’s finally starting to warm up to me. Thanks for the video. 🥰
Holy cow this melts my heart 😍
I love how u give advice especially how u say work with what u do best
I’m a nice guy , even if I finish last, I still finished at my own pace and that’s okay
Dear Coach Melannie, Thank you for your guidance in furthering relationships by treating the other person well and sincerely. I am working to make one partiular lady know she is deeply wanted and appreciated. I will watch your material, take more notes and put them into action. I am pursuing a woman who is 1,500 miles from me, and in Canada, but I am willing to travel, even to move. Thank you again.
Lot's of love from Karnataka to u Bright lady, your content is Awesome ❤️.
Once again thank you for all your advice Melanie!!! I've been watching you for a few months now and finally landed my date with this high quality girl!!! Stay tuned for updates!!!
God bless! 😀
How did it go? Did you bang it HARD?
Thank you so much for being such a Positive Happy person! - hELLA HUNG
Excellent topic! Thanks Coach!
Special!
You videos are great with uplifting energy that makes smile and feeling more confident. Thank you for your content @CoachMelannie
Very Insightful Video Coach Melanie.
I certainly don't have any idea of how did I ended watching this video. But omg Melannie you have a beautiful voice! Loved it, also thanks for the info, there where a couple of things I wasn't aware of. Ty.
Yes you should))). I’ve been doing some of these compliments to a special pearl pursing her but in a way for wanting to marry her)))). Thanks for your wisdom ♥️
I love you soo much 💓more than life itself but not over our life giver which is Christ the lord ❤
Hi Melannie, You're just amazing, I love this video, I like your smiling explanation is powerful, dear Coach Melannie. Great one. Looking forward to watch more.
Thank you Melannie I was in a fog not too sure where I stood, watching a number of your videos because I'm filled with butterflies and my emotions are all over the place over a lady. I've been interested for the longest time and have decided to make the move to the next level. I want to say to you, thank you for passing on your knowledge professionally, in a natural way, and by the way, you have a beautiful smile 😁
Best of luck!👍
I can tell you were very good at what you are talking about it is good to hear how down to earth your voice is for people to recognize how to keep a new relationship with somebody love it 🌈💛💯
There’s nobody that melts my heart as a man I can care less about any women
You can love women, or understand them, not both. They aren't long term anyway, so what's the point
Hi incels!
Real talk from a Tyrone
@@danm8004Hello delulu blue piller.
Cool info! A thousand likes!👍🏼
Great advice. There is a fine line between pursuing a woman and other pursuing. When do you give up the chase ?
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
When she isn't responding. There's always a reason when men get 'ghosted' for example. It took me a long time to work that out. I used to wait for an explanation. Not any more 😎
I tell you what ....I would not mind asking you out ...at all mate!! You ooze out with positivity Mel 😍
thank you melanie so much!! happy holidays!! blessings peace to you and your family
I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏
@@CoachMelannie welcome have a great weekend
Good morning miss coach Melannie, thanx for the video it is a very beautiful one !
Well done once again! Your possitive approach with a sence of humor is beyond inspiring. I am a a dedicated Christian man who works to inspire others to be all they can be! Faced many challenges in life including major health issues & fought to come back to be even stronger at 69 years of age. Very fit for my age & been told look years younger than my age. It takes a big effort & it works. Also know how to dress up simple & look classy on a limited buget. You are one of the best motivators out there. Found out about you on you-tube. Thanks you for what you do to make a big difference in a very positive way. Sincerely, Tom. (Fellow Christian Brother & huge supporter) 😇🇺🇸🎹💒
Special! Thumbs up! I appreciate it! Cheers!
This is 100% accurate for me.
We men are works in progress, well done!
Special! Miss Melanie, thank you. I just discovered you and this is the first video of yours that I've watched and you make so much sense. Thank you.
You are so welcome! I'm happy you're here!
Special: Melanie I think you should team together with George Clooney on a movie production about "Hot To Pursue A Woman" so he can have his leading lady play the pursued woman....incorporating your tips and lessons so other men will see the real deal technique in a movie platform. I think it would be a huge box-office success!
Ma sha Allah! I can learn so much about how to communicate well ...from this professional coach. Thanks so much, Coach Melannie.
Glad it was helpful!
Masha Allah ???? ☹️ Wtf bro ????
@@thesocialvoice1100 it s a way of saying thank you , fyi
@@thesocialvoice1100it means thank you in another language dummy
@@thesocialvoice1100what you mean wtf bro?
When I think of smiling with my eyes, I’m smiling at her normally, but now I’m settling my eyes on her with a sense of admiration. It should feel like your heart is melting too and if done right it should set a smile on her face as well to know it’s being done properly.
Being a good man, kind man, gentlemen always get Friendzone first because women always chase tha badboy first. I cannot understand how women mind work.
Good job, keep it up and give us more with this your smile
My wife passed away. I have been talking to a younger lady. Amazing how you are correct about the steps to win her. I done it. I will be meeting her are as she tells me our daughter can't wait. She does want marriage 💑
Love your personality Mel and the way you think. Happy new years
The name thing actually applies both ways... Your So right. I love when girls im attracted to says my name.... HEY ROBO! I love it
Coach Melanie, all of your tips are just common sense about the way you should treat anybody you care about.
I love the positivity and optimism, but it's hard to put these things into play when dealing with most modern woman. Online dating and Sexual Revolution 2.0 has really changed the dating dynamic between men and women. Women have become much more choosey, entitled, and are only going after the top 20% of men.
If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀
You are absolutely right I also feel there is something wrong somewhere. She might help somehow?
@@CoachMelannie Dear This matter belongs to the nature of species. Nothing can be done ! But write us something impressive can you?
If you are a chad and she is wet for you, whatever you do will melt her "heart".
If you are not, whatever you do is probable sexual harassment.
If you are her beta provider by long ago, aka hubby/boyfriend, she will fake good response at all this useless trickery, or she gets irritated.. Ask every nagging wife's husband.
But men lives to lie to theirself about the nature of the dinamics between sexes... I guess a goofd lie is better than an ugly truth
Thanks. I really enjoy your videos. Please make more of them. Love your voice and your presentations have really helped me.
A girl I knew in 9th grade named Angela Foster just made my heart melt and gave me butterflies.
! Seriously! Another second comment! In true humility you described my personality rather well! Most likely the way I was raised! Alot that you explained is great if you're already in a relationship which I do but I have never been good at initiating a Relationship or asking for a Date!
Really enjoyed it, thank you
Thanks. I'll be sure NOT to do these things as I don't want to exploited and used.
Real talk. Educative indeed
Awesome thanks Ma'am....... Truly informative....... Thanks a lot..........
I’ve been in a 3.5 year relationship at the age of 2021, I definitely would love more help on healing and saving existing relationships :)
Thank you, so much for your advice and support much appreciated, have a wonderful weekend coming 😊 ❣
Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏
I watched this video this morning and I thought about it and I have a few things I'd like to say about it. I think I do almost every one of them and it's a part of my personality. I believe that men and women should do these things for each other in every relationship (replace masculinity with Femininity) . Sadly that has not been my experience. A couple of years ago I realized that Every women I've ever known has used these points as a signal that she can use me for her needs and when she got everything she could get she tossed me aside for the next guy. Every one of them. Now I'm not going to change but I am not nearly as interested in dealing with the chaos these events cause me. Some might say "well you're dating the wrong women". The problem there has to do with barriers of entry to the relationship zone. 80% of women don't even consider me because I'm average height. And yes I've been told "oh, you're only 5'9"? Too bad. I liked you too. Good luck" so inafter 45 years of dating including 10 of marriage I've about had it with this kind of advice.
I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
Im 6'6" but never felt it was an advantage. Because maybe I am also a thinner person (78kg) .... If I had been 5'9" I would have felt much more confident!! 🙂🙂 I am too much aware of my hight 😞 Not prouwd of it eigther..
Awesome video! Being kind is great but a guy should not be too kind. Some women will take advantage of that and therefore a guy will need to set appropriate boundaries of how they wish to be treated.
true. too kind and you'll be her flippin doormat
Melannie: loving your content. Can you do a video on whether or not you are a rebound bf? Thanks.
Great idea!
Hi Coach Melanie! I think it would be more awesome and easier to follow when the points mentioned are also written on the screen.
Special! 🌞🌟
You have Listening at the correct placement for #1 spot!! That is the most important trait someone can do for another person! If I want to attract her I must listen to her, learn more about her and show my respect and create a bond. If I pay attention to her more....the more she will open up to me! Plus I want to be remembered too, so if I don't listen to her......why would she want to listen to me??
The gift of giving! This reminds me of my thesis....."Every day is a gift!.....Step #1 is to be present! 🎁 If the guy is attracting her he has the main gift completed. (Shouldn't have to buy her) Once in awhile gifts are needed to show her she's extra special and/or which leads to Romancing her!
Eye contact is important for me! I want to "light up" everytime I see her! Vise versa with her as well! I have been practicing smiling more! Smiling with my eyes so I "light up" her world!
Thank you for your encouragement!! 🙏
Thanks a million Melannie for the spectacular stips you mentioned, I really appreciate you for making such an amazing video, keep it up.
Your videos are awesome and a gift to mankind!
This is fantastic thank you. I’m totally gonna check out the master class right now. Love it.