I Combed out My 4 Year Old Locs | How to, Tips + How Much Hair Came Out

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  • @jojodanae
    @jojodanae 9 місяців тому +922

    I lost my only child in January of this year, two weeks after starting my loc journey. I imagine someday, I will reach the point where you are and be ready to let go of all of the grief. The last couple of months, my son has sent me so many signs, and I feel like the more open you are to receiving them, the more often they come. Grief is such a hard process to go through, but how blessed are we to have had the chance to love someone so much? I can't wait to see where the next step of your journey takes you. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. *insert unicorn emoji here*

    • @barbarapeller
      @barbarapeller 9 місяців тому +44

      So sorry for your loss!

    • @kendraali
      @kendraali 9 місяців тому +26

      I'm so sorry for your loss. You are inspiring me to fight this depression and try harder to move forward. Thank you. God bless you with many smiles and a heart of joy. Sending love from NC.

    • @jojodanae
      @jojodanae 9 місяців тому +14

      @@kendraali thank you. There is always hope. I found mine in God and wanting to make my son proud. I pray you find your motivation too. ♥️

    • @jojodanae
      @jojodanae 9 місяців тому +3

      @@barbarapeller thank you so much. ♥️

    • @sharjack75
      @sharjack75 9 місяців тому +4

      jojodanae :
      losing à son is definitely harder than losing a parent as we are not suppose to bury our children . So hard to recover from. I’m glad that you are not alone Only God can help you all th way. May the Lord bless you

  • @PeacocknRose
    @PeacocknRose 9 місяців тому +889

    First of all my condolences to you and your family. It is so hard loosing your mother in this earthly realm. I think you realize that you never lost her and she is always around. Man a mother's love never fails. I lost my mother as well and I shaped up her hair when she was diagnosed with cancer. It was my honor to take care of her. Damn girl, it's still sad. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Can't wait to see your next videos. Take care of yourself and mental health.

    • @WestIndieRay
      @WestIndieRay  9 місяців тому +173

      Literally crying reading this comment. Holding you in my heart my love. Thank you so much for sharing, relating and being here ❤️ my condolences to you as well. May your Mother’s spirit experience eternal ease and everlasting peace!

    • @Heyyy-Della
      @Heyyy-Della 9 місяців тому +20

      I love this comment ❤

    • @t_harris2_489
      @t_harris2_489 9 місяців тому +28

      Both of you all have me tearing up! I lost my mom 6 yrs ago and I was super close to my mom so I wholeheartedly understand. Blessings.😢❤

    • @SP77787
      @SP77787 8 місяців тому +2

      🌻🤲🏾🧎🏾‍♀️

    • @JourneywithMAMAZURI-hb8nr
      @JourneywithMAMAZURI-hb8nr 6 місяців тому +2

      Coming from a mother of young adults, facing a health problem(that I rebuke and refuse to accept). As a mother, I love you all. Please be brave and strong. Our lives were enriched having you show us ourselves in another form. We are so grateful for you. Our purpose, our existence would feel in vain if we had to leave this experience AFTER you. We are so proud of you. We are so fortunate to have you all portal into this earth thru us. Now grow and glow, and take us with you in your heart and genetic DNA.
      As’e
      As’e
      As’e

  • @Bbymarise
    @Bbymarise 9 місяців тому +293

    For anyone planning to comb out their locs, use a lice comb, not a rattail comb. It'll make the process so quick and easy

    • @WestIndieRay
      @WestIndieRay  9 місяців тому +80

      I thought about this but thought it might be too small 😭🫶🏽 thank you for this comment. You might honestly save a life! lol

    • @rosajohnson8058
      @rosajohnson8058 6 місяців тому +2

      🙏

    • @naturallyniece320
      @naturallyniece320 6 місяців тому +1

      Thank you for this!

    • @cynthiamurigi8718
      @cynthiamurigi8718 4 місяці тому +1

      Came to say I'm going to try this bc I have microlocs😅

    • @AysiaDaStylist
      @AysiaDaStylist 3 місяці тому +4

      Doing a comb out for a client tomorrow thank you for this 🤣🤞🏾

  • @dosesofmariah
    @dosesofmariah 9 місяців тому +476

    It was surprising to see you comb them out but as someone who watches your channel I am more than proud of you Congrats on your journey 🖤

  • @barbarajerome250
    @barbarajerome250 9 місяців тому +266

    It saddens me cuz you were definitely my biggest inspiration and one of the reasons I started my locs but I totally understand where you're coming from and love your vulnerability. Your mom is definitely so proud of your journey thus far. ❤️

    • @barbarajerome250
      @barbarajerome250 9 місяців тому +11

      @@earthandwater I've considered it for a while and made some research before but I'm just saying when I got to her page everything she showed encouraged me to go for it not cuz I wanted to have her exact journey. Also I didn't see it as a journey at first but more like a hairstyle until I actually got into it and really understood the depth of it but anyways take it as u please I could really careless 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @amberpalmer3708
      @amberpalmer3708 9 місяців тому +5

      This is a beautiful testimony on how our lives can inspire others 🤍

    • @barbarajerome250
      @barbarajerome250 9 місяців тому

      @@amberpalmer3708 yes exactly 💯

    • @DesignsbyKandi
      @DesignsbyKandi 9 місяців тому +5

      U took the words right outta my head.... peace n love to u my love!

    • @coramiller4005
      @coramiller4005 8 місяців тому +2

      My condolences to you on the loss of your mom. I too lost my monin 2019. I've thought about taking my locs out once my son is released from prison , that's in 1-2 years from now. My daughter took her locs out a few months ago after 15 yrs. It was diffiently a journey. It took 3 of us 3days to comb them out. Thanks for the step by step journey you shared with us and the Wella Conditioner tip.😊

  • @AprilOctober22
    @AprilOctober22 8 місяців тому +11

    I lost my mom January 2020. I added her locks in with mine in February 2020. I trimmed her locks out of my hair in 2023. At that time I admitted to myself that she was gone (physically), and accepted that she wasn’t coming back. I was super sad before I started cutting, but surprisingly I felt super calm while/after cutting them. I’ve been wearing a lock bob for a few months now.

  • @BeautifulBrilliantly
    @BeautifulBrilliantly 9 місяців тому +202

    You were the first person I found online that made me take the leap to get my locs done. I did a 'Lupita' during summer this year because I felt like it was time to release that energy, similarly to you. Watching your journey thus far has felt connective and wonderfully filled with commonality. Thank you for sharing this with the collective x

    • @tatianamarcella2
      @tatianamarcella2 9 місяців тому +6

      Same!!! She is the reason I started my love ❤❤

    • @bap1328
      @bap1328 9 місяців тому

      My condolences to you and your family. 💜
      What's a Lupita?

    • @BeautifulBrilliantly
      @BeautifulBrilliantly 8 місяців тому +1

      @@bap1328 nobody has died x
      A ‘Lupita’ - deciding to go bald

    • @ebonny4096
      @ebonny4096 8 місяців тому

      Me too! I’m 6 month behind her I had same colour for a while too. Not a chance am I ever combing mine out, I’m far to lazy for that😂

    • @bheirs
      @bheirs 7 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing

  • @zenbrooklyn
    @zenbrooklyn 9 місяців тому +43

    4 years of shed hair was in those locs.... That's a whole lot of residual energy you removed. Then with that beautiful rain... I'm sure you feel lighter in every way. This is a very nice video, thank you for sharing. 🥰

  • @dancergirl1298
    @dancergirl1298 9 місяців тому +128

    Shedding tears with you sis 🥹 I know for a fact it was divine order that I found your channel 6 months ago right before I started my locs. I binged and ended up watching your vid on Grief the day before we found out my mom has stage 4 cancer. Your spirit and guidance through your vids has helped me find peace with whatever happens with my mom and in my life in general. From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for sharing your journey, queen 🫶🏽
    P.S. My locs will be 6 months old at the end of this month 🥹

  • @karagalactic
    @karagalactic 6 місяців тому +7

    How your mom connects with you is beyond beautiful!!! Feeling a loved ones presence like that is truly magical and brings so much comfort. I'm so glad you have that and you still have her! ❤

  • @alovesubliminal2227
    @alovesubliminal2227 9 місяців тому +58

    I wanna say I’m shocked but I just cut off my 2 year old locs and started over I’m glad you did what feels right 🤎

  • @Abwavey
    @Abwavey 9 місяців тому +27

    I recently combed my locs out and I do believe I'll have another loc journey but I've fallen in love with my natural hair all over again. I just be touching it like wow 🤣 and I feel the same way with losing loved ones, I lost my granny a month before my first child was born and I had to realize she's in my heart and her teachings guide me through my everyday life.

  • @__kendallnicole
    @__kendallnicole 9 місяців тому +22

    This is so wild to me in the best way. I started my locs a few months after you because I watched your journey. Then when you talked about your mom, I empathized because I know that hard to be so hard on you. I ended up losing my mom in Dec 2021 so I now understand the emotions you displayed and the way you talk about feeling her with you. I feel that now on my own and when you cried about her and talked about the rain, I immediately cried too because I feel the exact same way. You are such a beautiful person with a beautiful soul! And your mom will ALWAYS be with you. Your loc journey was amazing, but you still have so many journeys ❤. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this with us.

  • @colinsgirl1357
    @colinsgirl1357 9 місяців тому +27

    I combed out my locs in 2019. It took me a whole week to do it. Well worth though! I felt so much freedom and opportunity to learn more about my natural hair. Your momma is always with you. I bet she is just as excited about this new journey ❤

  • @teishahickman2108
    @teishahickman2108 9 місяців тому +5

    My niece who passed in 2021 comes to us in rain...So beautiful,

  • @kernac9222
    @kernac9222 9 місяців тому +73

    I was definitely inspired by your locs journey, I’ve had mine for 3 years now❤️.

  • @alibijan888
    @alibijan888 9 місяців тому +39

    Wow that's so crazy to see you go through this process. I literally just started my loc journey on Nov 13, 2023 while watching your videos as I did my two strand twist. Prior to actually starting my locs I educated myself by watching all your videos. I appreciate you for always keeping us updated along your journey, I think it's so beautiful watching your transitions in life.

  • @Tateyannah
    @Tateyannah 9 місяців тому +16

    I combed mine out after a year. And it took almost 3 months. But I took my sweeeeeet time! Also you inspired me to start my locs to begin with! I didn't loose alot of hair. My hair actually grew alot and I'm glad I combed them out! I love my hair.

    • @navidad8510
      @navidad8510 7 місяців тому

      What hairstyle did you do while you were taking them out?

  • @stephdee3811
    @stephdee3811 9 місяців тому +22

    I can't see it...... My Locs are BUTT LENGTH and almost 7 years in...... I'm committed.... Lol
    .I take care of my Mom and assist with my Adult son with Autism. Locs FREE UP my time. I also work, have a side hustle and serve in my Church. My Locs SERVE me in amazing ways.
    I Don't know HOW you decided but good luck with your next chapter💪🏾✊🏾💪🏾✊🏾

    • @SchlickBran
      @SchlickBran 4 місяці тому +3

      Mine are 7 years and at my butt too I’m about to let mine go

    • @Ami-ml7gp
      @Ami-ml7gp 4 місяці тому +1

      Mine are not quite to my bottom yet, but I felt like being a loose natural was too much time and energy. Whenever I feel like my locs are picking up negativity, I put on a headcovering and keep it moving.

    • @neojazzgospel
      @neojazzgospel 3 місяці тому +2

      I combed mines out right at the 7 year mark..near my waistline. I’m on my 3rd journey now. Almost 2 years in.

  • @WilliamsPinch
    @WilliamsPinch 9 місяців тому +7

    I love when you share pics of your mother. Something about seeing the pics of you and her and your sister is always so touching 🌹

  • @cynthiacollazo2553
    @cynthiacollazo2553 28 днів тому +1

    I happened across your video at a time when I was planning on cutting off my locs. After watching your comb out journey I have decided to comb mine out. I pray that I have the same success as you. I have been growing my locs for 7 years and they are pretty long. God Bless You for making this video. Wish me luck because patience is not something I'm good at.

  • @missqlovett
    @missqlovett 9 місяців тому +22

    This was by far, the most beautiful video I’ve seen in a long time. I love how you are so intentional about life. When your mom entered and cleansed you of your past journey with your locs, I definitely shed a tear with you. God bless you sistar. I’m here for the slaying you will do in your new journey with your hair. Stay beautiful. 🤍

  • @AmaniWilkins
    @AmaniWilkins 9 місяців тому +2

    Omg when I saw who I posted this my jaw drop because I was a loc girly, and you were one of the first people to put me onto locs. And I had combed them out too and I had them for 3years and I cut them about seven months ago, and it has been the most renewing and crazy experience. But having loc is a journey that no one should take for granted whether you cut them off or leave them. Because it teaches you so much, thank you for sharing this. Oh my gosh I’m so so happy for you. 🎉❤

  • @ranadacooper6765
    @ranadacooper6765 9 місяців тому +6

    I teared up. I just started my locs and yes you were the inspiration. My condolences on your loss of your Mom, but she is now an angel in heaven who is able to watch over you. My mother passed two years ago and it is still hard, but she is no longer in pain. Prayers for you and your family!!!

  • @ThisIsntNaomi
    @ThisIsntNaomi 9 місяців тому +23

    Wow, it's crazy you were one of the influencers who inspired me to loc my hair up! now to see you and I both at the point in our lives where we want to comb them out...talk about full circle girl! I may not comment much, but go ahead! I will always support you no matter how you style your hair!

  • @naomic.7610
    @naomic.7610 9 місяців тому +11

    I’ve never had locs but i genuinely resonate with your messages in this video. The spiritual growth over the last few years has been beautiful to witness. Congrats on this new journey!

  • @aishabell1009
    @aishabell1009 9 місяців тому +7

    I just cut off my almost two year locs back in October. Just to start them over. I have enjoyed watching your loc journey. But I also love your spiritual connection with your mother and the journey of life. I will always support your channel. I wish you post more!!

  • @Peace.breathe_be
    @Peace.breathe_be 9 місяців тому +17

    Westindie all of us unicorns are so proud of you. You’re always so honest and intentional in everything you do. You were one of the people who inspired me to start my locs you wore yours confidently and with so much grace I appreciate you so much for that. We can’t wait to see the next adventure. 💚

  • @charamiller2515
    @charamiller2515 9 місяців тому +11

    You were def my inspiration before I started my locs. I locd on the 10 yr anniversary of my mom’s passing and I’ve never felt so free and connected to her. I’m so excited for your next journey. Your mom would be proud of you listening to your heart and the ancestors above! ❤🦄

  • @mdinjurylawyer
    @mdinjurylawyer 9 місяців тому +8

    You are so mature and insightful (im 48 and find inspiration from you often). Looking forward to your next chapter. I lost my brother 19 months ago and watching hos oldest son deal with the grief is so painful. Thank you for sharing your story. 🦄🦄🦄

  • @DracarysSnow
    @DracarysSnow 8 місяців тому +2

    For anyone who wants to comb out locs that were started with coils and palm rolled, use a dentist pick to unravel the hair. At times, your bud and shed hair will fall right out. Then, you can go ahead and comb the hair. Much easier and less damaging then constantly detangling with a comb. I've done it many times.

  • @DearJayla
    @DearJayla 9 місяців тому +6

    🦄 I can genuinely feel your energy as I’m watching this. When I saw this pop up I told myself “I felt this for her!” When you posted about your mother’s transitional anniversary recently on instagram, I could feel that those posts were a premonition to change for you. It briefly crossed my mind “would she? Nahh she wouldn’t. Not anytime soon at least” but wow look at this timing. I’m so beyond inspired by you and your journey, and I will say that you played a huge part in me finally deciding to loc my hair, something I’d been contemplating for years prior. I was searching for my why. Why did I want this. I thought about my dad and grandfather passing when I was 5. I thought about my grandfather and my great grandmother. My great grandfather… but then I looked at ME. I decided that I wanted to connect peace and gratitude related to my time here in this realm to my locs. I decided that the growth and transformation of my locs would be a direct reflection of the woman I am working tirelessly to become. I too will pay honor and respect to the loved ones and ancestors before me. I see them and feel them in my developing locs. I am happy that you took the chance to inspire so many of us to embrace our hair and who we are. And I am happy that you found a beautiful and intentional way to pay homage to your mother before combing them out and accepting the next chapter of your journey. 🤍 cheers to new beginnings! Fun fact: I have 118 locs and I know you are very familiar with numerology. The number of locs on my head resonate with timing and God’s will over my life.

  • @sheree_81
    @sheree_81 9 місяців тому +12

    Your vulnerability and the way you share your grief means so much. It’s truly beautiful and gives me a lot of strength and comfort in my own. ❤ Your locs were always my favorite but I can’t wait to see these loose hair styles girl!!🤗

  • @__skyy
    @__skyy 9 місяців тому +27

    So crazy I actually started combing my locs out yesterday, had no clue you were too! You were my biggest inspiration to start them and I’ve had them for 1year and a half, absolutely love them and the journey but I really missed my curls. Cheers to our new lloose natural journey!!🫶🏾

    • @introvertedblackgirl
      @introvertedblackgirl 9 місяців тому

      My Daughter has had Hers a Year as well and wants to comb them out. Did it take You a long time?

    • @__skyy
      @__skyy 9 місяців тому

      So far I’ve only gotten 10 down so yes it definitely takes a long time lol but it seems like people with smaller locs like hers tend to comb through them quicker, mine are a bit thicker side so it takes me 1-2hrs hours per loc.

    • @introvertedblackgirl
      @introvertedblackgirl 9 місяців тому

      @@__skyy oh lawd my fingers already hurt and Her hair is THICK! 😂🥴

  • @keysuniverse
    @keysuniverse 9 місяців тому +15

    This was beautiful and emotional! Thank you for sharing your loc/spiritual journey with us from 4 years ago to now . I was so shocked when I saw the post on IG first so I had to watch the full video on why! I'm so proud of you almost had me ballin' but I definitely was teary-eyed. I am going to miss your locs but I'm happy to be here to see you continue flourishing in life and beginning other journeys. 🦄

  • @nyabryanna
    @nyabryanna 9 місяців тому +15

    This entire video was so beautiful and necessary. Wow, thank you so much for sharing this with us. This touched me in so many ways sister. I love you so sooo much!!

    • @WestIndieRay
      @WestIndieRay  9 місяців тому +3

      I love you sissy! Thank you so much for watching! 🥹🫶🏽

  • @ThatsAshD
    @ThatsAshD 9 місяців тому +10

    We started my locs the same time and I combed my out last month. Great journey and can’t wait to continue to see your growth. Hair and life 🦄

  • @theonlyalliyahsanee
    @theonlyalliyahsanee 9 місяців тому +6

    I figured you would eventually. I cut mine a little over a year ago and went back to rewatch your older videos. I’m sure you’re ready to love on your loose hair again and I’m excited to see your future videos. Continue adding to your beautiful journey. Love and light! ✨

    • @vsTantastic
      @vsTantastic 9 місяців тому +3

      I too just came back + am excited ab her new journey.
      I am very sorry for the loss of ur dear mom.

  • @1THETUFFGUY
    @1THETUFFGUY 5 місяців тому +1

    The love that you have for your mother will definitely bring you two together again, you may be separated physically but your love is binding your spirits together! May God continue to bless you and comfort you as you grieve your mother/ best friend!

  • @seliciaadams2378
    @seliciaadams2378 9 місяців тому +10

    Congratulations on your locless hair journey. I took combed mine out last December after 10 years. So I understand. Excited to see whats next for you. 🦄

    • @universallover2911
      @universallover2911 8 місяців тому

      Indeed. ❤ Likewise! I grew mine for 3yrs… I cut them half way and then combed out the rest lol so it’s kinda like I did the “big chop”… Not to mention. The Loc journey taught me so much self love, confidence, contentment, appreciation for my natural hair, and most importantly, PATIENCE. 🙌🏽🙏🏽🦋🌈🌻

  • @cashaylaharrison5973
    @cashaylaharrison5973 9 місяців тому +7

    🦄❤️ I love you girl. You are one of three people who inspired me to get my locs three years ago and I honestly didn’t realize it until this video but you were also somebody that I have followed on your grief journey and you have helped me on my own.. I have had a lot of losses since 2020 and dealing with all of those back to back was not easy but learning different things from you and just going on both journeys along with you has helped me in ways that are really kind of hard for me to explain, but I just want to say thank you for sharing such special moments and journeys with us ❤

  • @simplykirah4096
    @simplykirah4096 9 місяців тому +3

    I started watching your channel when I began my loc journey. (roughly 3 years ago) I made my intention oils and loc oils and all. I also watched because of how in tune you are with intentions and your spirituality. I also love how u spoke so highly of your mother and the bond you shared. The past 2 years I have unfortunately loss my mom as well. So the bond part definitely resonated with me (I'm my mom's only child) but now I understand you so much more. I have sinced combed mine out as well. My locs in my opinion at that time held so much sadness so it was time for the next phase. A loc journey is just that "a journey" and if u saw fit to end your loc journey then I'm definitely here with you for the ride!

  • @mlinds111
    @mlinds111 9 місяців тому +2

    you see why i don’t play with the universe? because i’m sitting taking down my locs as we speak questioning if it’s the right decision and then this pops up on my suggested. i’ve been following you for yearss and i relate to you so much as a jamaican who has also lost a parent. i truly believe locs hold energy and sometimes we need to release. wishing you the best my love💗

  • @MidgetBae
    @MidgetBae 9 місяців тому +11

    This was a BEAUTIFUL watch. I’m certainly not as spiritual as you are, but I truly felt this. Loved going through the journey with you 🦄

  • @Fiftay
    @Fiftay 9 місяців тому +4

    Omg you have me in tears. This was so touching! & I know your mom is so proud of you and your journey 🤎

  • @k.enn17
    @k.enn17 9 місяців тому +1

    as i researching locs, you popped up and when i had my first set of locs you were one of my inspirations. but i also combed out my first set, i understand i released the energy of my old set and i’ve started a new loc journey on sept 19, 2023. our hair is apart of us and we can live through it in any way we choose. i’m here for any journey. i had my first set combed out for only a month and realized locs were my lifestyle, but any style we put in our hair as black women/people we will flourish regardless.

  • @WillinggToFail
    @WillinggToFail 9 місяців тому +4

    I'm so happy for you! I love that you can still feel your mom around you and can appreciate the beauty of nature.
    I'm in the process of combing out my 4-year-old locs as well, so you are the inspiration I needed. Sending peace, love and light. 🦄

  • @ItsTheUndisputedSag
    @ItsTheUndisputedSag 6 днів тому

    I'm new here but I really appreciate the rawness & spiritual aspect of your video. My mom passed October of last year & next month will make the first full year without her being physically here so I definitely can relsonate with those feelings. Amazing video!

  • @Pussinbootszzz
    @Pussinbootszzz 9 місяців тому +7

    I am in shock but glad you did what’s best for you.

  • @reenbraswell8532
    @reenbraswell8532 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much. My condolence to you and I totally get the loc journey and loss. It's been 2 years since I lost my husband and I'm ready to let go of that shield and comfort plus my locs have gotten so long and heavy that they are starting to hurt my scalp. I raked through 3 locs before seeing your video and lost my length. Almost just chopped them off but glad you stopped me in a nick of time. I appreciate you and your video. My prayers for your continued healing and I believe our loved ones are always with us. God bless you :) 🙏

  • @kazanidunn4347
    @kazanidunn4347 9 місяців тому +3

    This was very emotional so I send so much love to you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us 💕 I combed my 3 year locs out in April because they just were not what I wanted anymore and since they were instant locd they never had the look I wanted like the curls on the end. Funny enough when I restarted in October I was so inspired by your length and how you styled it, so now I'm in the chapter that you have just closed. Good luck on your new chapter and enjoy every moment of it! ❤🦄

  • @mh2mh28
    @mh2mh28 9 місяців тому +1

    In July 2019 I started my locs while my mom was battling cancer. In October of that same year, my mom’s fight with cancer came to a close and we said goodbye. January 2022 I put my 15 year old dog down and a week later my dad unexpectedly passed away.
    October of this year I decided to comb out my locs (I went to a loctician and it took her 14 hours to do it) as they were started during a painful period of my life and had a lot of sadness attached to them. There were happy times infused in there as well, but the losses experienced were so significant that I’ve decided to start over. I’ve been wearing cornrows as a protective style since I’ve been travelling and it’s so low maintenance and easy to maintain.
    Emotionally I’m in a much different and HAPPIER place, and I am looking forward to starting my locs again from a place of happiness, joy, and as always, gratitude. 💙💙💙

  • @Forevermiraj
    @Forevermiraj 9 місяців тому +5

    I wanna do this so bad but I don’t have the patience I may just get a short cut… thanks for sharing your journey with us

  • @roneishalatham1307
    @roneishalatham1307 9 місяців тому +1

    I started following you a few months before you started your loc journey and i was like 'im happy for you but i could never" now that im almost 10 months into my loc journey and be saying "i could never comb out my locs"... here u areeee. The alignment is beautiful!

  • @harlemsflowerchild1695
    @harlemsflowerchild1695 9 місяців тому +7

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us. It definitely inspired my loc journey! I also love your transparency on connecting with your mom still even beyond her transition.

  • @queen_nyalla
    @queen_nyalla 9 місяців тому +9

    ❤ Love love love your dedication to the comb out, especially after realizing how long it was really going to take after completing the first one. 😂 Also love the way you communicate to us your spiritual feelings and connections. Happy the final number of days was a number that resonated with you, as I’m big on numbers myself. Thank you for allowing us to be a part of this journey with you. With love always…❤🦄

  • @AriBrJhai
    @AriBrJhai 9 місяців тому

    Wow! I started taking my sister locs down a month ago, but it’s been a quiet process where I wasn’t telling anyone and covering my hair with caps and beanies. I’m almost done and my coworker (who has locs too) noticed my hair was changing and asked if I was taking them out and showed me that you had taken yours down. I couldn’t believe it, because you have been someone I’ve come back to periodically to get inspiration from. And lo and behold, we’ve been transitioning together. And it’s been a slow release for me, no pressure or time frame; but my hair has always been a reflection of my life. I love her deeply because she’s strong and resilient; which reminds me…that so am I. And so are you. 😘

  • @Chelsennnn
    @Chelsennnn 9 місяців тому +3

    I clicked this video so quick knowing it would be clickbait. Good for you girly. And cheers to this turn in your journey✨️🥂

  • @serbpreetkaur511
    @serbpreetkaur511 2 місяці тому

    Hey sweet human...thank you for sharing your loving journey... being a mama myself i can feel how proud and loved your mama feels❤

  • @divinewestlyann
    @divinewestlyann 9 місяців тому +3

    This is amazing. Congrats on this journey. We started our locs at the same time and we actually combed it out the same time as well. I had mine for a little over 4 years and combed it out beginning of Nov. I also did a lot of grieving during that time after losing my bf so it was time for me to release. I left a comment on your IG saying I think we have some of the same juice lol. All the best to you and I love the sentiments with your number 9 and 6 for your mom. Your 117 locs also adds to 9. Amazing! Now it's time to learn about yourself again outside of locs and I wish you all the best!

  • @kayb3327
    @kayb3327 3 місяці тому

    My condolences goes out to you as I’ve lost my Mother 21 years ago the hurt doesn’t go away the loss stays with you but eventually you realize that your Mom is with you still once you pay attention to the signs. Run- on sentence before as I can’t believe that you have to go through this loss. I’ve watched you on UA-cam and been inspired by your loc videos. The rain is your sign that you needed that you were doing the right thing. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @amaraezenwa6155
    @amaraezenwa6155 9 місяців тому +4

    like so many others, I was also very much inspired by you throughout your loc journey and I learned so much from you along the way!! thank you so much for sharing this experience with us 🩷💕✨

  • @Kynnthaemerald
    @Kynnthaemerald 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow something is in the air ✨ I’m seeing a lot of ladies comb out or cut their locs I cut my 3 year old locs out too last year & it has honestly been so freeing ever since! It always feels good to do what you feel 🥰🦄🙏🏼 & The spiritual/ancestral messages & signs are always the most beautiful thing to experience to “put me back into my body” so to speak as well as affirm you… Blessings! 🥹❤️❤️

  • @gina6582
    @gina6582 5 місяців тому +3

    I'm thinking about getting locs in my natural hair to start my journey you look so amazing I lost my mom at 15 years old I know how you feel not a day goes by I think about her she was a wonderful woman and my best friend ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DrSP-wu8wd
    @DrSP-wu8wd 9 місяців тому +1

    I am 3 months into microlocs and i was inspired by you. Im glad you mom walks beside you daily 🦄🦄

  • @dani-q7640
    @dani-q7640 9 місяців тому +3

    I'm just shocked she did it... I been contemplating getting locks since I found your channel and was to go get the consultation done today. My husband isn't really into locks but at the moment tbh I don't think I'mma get it anymore.

    • @dosesofmariah
      @dosesofmariah 9 місяців тому +10

      Always do what’s best for you continue to think about it

  • @xoxoemerald6327
    @xoxoemerald6327 9 місяців тому +2

    I wish I was patient with combing my locs out. I took out a few and cut my locs into a bob. I tried to take those out too and ended up doing a big chop. IT’S NOT FOR THE WEAK!!
    Thank you for sharing your journey! ✨

  • @kalyndaanisha
    @kalyndaanisha 9 місяців тому +3

    🦄 Beautiful , it's been a pleasure following your loc journey online. You've been very inspirational to me while I've been on my own . Blessings to you and yours!

  • @TheCofeyFamily
    @TheCofeyFamily 9 місяців тому

    Bless you. I understand your emotions about your mom. I lost my mom in 2015 and i keep her alive by taking care of her plants because we loved nature and taking care of plants together.

  • @tyrathethird
    @tyrathethird 9 місяців тому +9

    I definitely enjoyed watching your loc journey and can't wait to see what's next for you and your content ❣

  • @Cocoa_Divine
    @Cocoa_Divine 9 місяців тому +1

    I've been on my loc journey for 2 months and 2 days now. I've been binge watching your videos for about 2 weeks now, and you've helped me tremendously more than the lady who actually started my two strand twists. You're such a beautiful, strong, and genuine spiritual being✨🤍. Not gonna lie, I teared up more than I thought I would watching this video😮‍💨. I wish you the best of luck on your new journey, lovely, as I'm extremely excited to continue watching/following you through it all🥰! Thank you for being you😘.

  • @StarlaMuldrow-b4i
    @StarlaMuldrow-b4i 9 місяців тому +3

    I'm about to do the same thing I'm taking my locs out to

  • @kadedraosborne4295
    @kadedraosborne4295 2 місяці тому

    I started my loc journey watching your videos. I used the same method hoping they looked like yours as close as they could get. It’s definitely been a journey. I’ve had to repair a few etc. I haven’t watched your channel in sometimes and been contemplating combing mine out because I’m losing locs and losing the love for them because of this and what all the journey truly consist of. This is how I came up on your video. Bittersweet moment but proud of you. Trying to figure out if I want to comb mine out or continue to repair locs and hold on a little longer for more length. If anyone have suggestions for me please respond. Goodluck to you on your new journey 🎉

  • @andrewboswell29
    @andrewboswell29 9 місяців тому +11

    this gotta be illegal

  • @micheledetrich8140
    @micheledetrich8140 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing and I truly understand . I, too, cut and combed out my locs after a little over 5 years. It was a huge deep release that I needed to take. I prayed and meditated on it and my mother, who passed 2 years ago, gave me her blessing. It's an amazing feeling, a beautiful release, and a transformation for me. Continued prayer and blessings.

  • @cheramcgee5083
    @cheramcgee5083 4 місяці тому +1

    My Granny Transitioned to her new life on July 27th 2020. She wore locs for over 30 years. She loved her locs, they were beautiful and were floor length before she became ill. I started my loc journey in August of 2020, and you were one of the first influencers that I started following for loc inspo because I connected so deeply to your reason for locing your hair. It’s bittersweet to see you ending your loc journey, but I totally get why you did it. Much love to you on your new journey.

  • @missreed9688
    @missreed9688 9 місяців тому +1

    I've strengthened my connection to the Universe & my spirit guides,so I know exactly what you felt when it was raining 🌧. It's such a blessing to have that inner knowing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us,you've helped so many. 💝🤗

  • @grandpamari2928
    @grandpamari2928 4 місяці тому

    im starting my loc journey soon and came across your video today 🩷 this is such a beautiful video and a wonderful experience im glad i came across, condolences to you and your family but im sure your mom lives through you in everything and was flowing through your fingertips with each loc you took down. Seeing you finish on the 9th day with the rain being the voice of your mother to cheer you on was amazing, congratulations on completing your loc journey!🩷

  • @arayaturner5339
    @arayaturner5339 9 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for being vulnerable enough to share your journey with us ❤🦄

  • @iiangilmore
    @iiangilmore 3 місяці тому

    I really appreciate you for sharing your spiritual significance with cutting your locs. You honestly inspired me to comb mine out because I’ve been having a heavy urge to cut my locs for some odd reason. I’ve been tapping into my spirituality and I know there’s a bigger reason on my I feel the need to cut my hair. And I think you were my confirmation that I need to make a big leap here. I thank you so much for making this video and sharing your experience.

  • @manib.
    @manib. 9 місяців тому +2

    I remember watching your video about you starting your loc journey and how your mom played a huge role in that years ago. It was very touching and inspirational. So even though this is the end of an era I’m proud of you for doing what you felt was right. I’m excited for this new journey 💗 🦄

  • @RobinNatural1
    @RobinNatural1 9 місяців тому

    As soon as you started tearing up I did too. Losing a mother is so painful. Remember she will Always be with you. I’ve just started another loc journey and I’m looking forward to the growth. I’ve always cut my hair off whenever I felt like I needed a fresh start or to release. Now I want to hold on to whatever else life brings my way. I’m praying for you and wishing you all the very best. Thank you for sharing. Looking forward to seeing what the future holds. Many blessings to you and yours.

  • @NOTQUITLIKEKK
    @NOTQUITLIKEKK 5 місяців тому

    I completely got chills when you started talking about your mom 😢❤, my mom passed a day before my birthday May 11,2018 and I miss her so much, after watching your video made me realize my mom is always with me 😢and it’s raining here atm as well….. I’m looking to start my loc journey soon 😢❤ new subscriber thank you so much blessings to you and yours ❤😢 🙏🏽

  • @notsoshy28
    @notsoshy28 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow I am in shock, but so happy that you have completed your journey and off to another one. You were one of many that I started following to start my journey. Your also the one that saw your Loc Tonic video and made me some to moisturize my hair and absolutely love and have been using my whole 9 months of my loc journey. Thank your for sharing your journey.

  • @Quawanaful
    @Quawanaful 3 місяці тому

    This was such a beautiful video! I lost my dad 2 years after I started my locs, which I started as living tribute to him and our closeness. I just wanted to be like my daddy! Lol I didn’t start his locs but I used to help him maintain them and that brought us even closer. This video touched me greatly as it comes to me during the close of his birthday month. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @TraditionandTreats
    @TraditionandTreats 9 місяців тому +1

    You inspired me to start my locs too, and I started to comb mine out yesterday because it was a spiritual journey for me,and I only lasted combing out 3 locs before saying will come back to it.

  • @theclairgardener
    @theclairgardener 8 місяців тому

    I don’t know why I clicked on your video sis. I don’t even have locs although I have played around with the idea so many times. I love the way old mini twists look on me, and they start budding when I finally decide to take them down. I haven’t even finished listening and watching to the whole video cause I could feel so much love surrounding you, when you were talking about the number 9 and the rain, and your moms LP number reducing to a 6 I honestly started to cry cause this whole process was exactly what you needed to do. Even though I don’t know you personally I am so proud of you for listening to guidance, releasing and letting go cause the result I know is you making room for even more connection with not just your mom but with nature and the Divine Spirit. Many blessings to you beloved. I know this video has helped and will continue to help others. You’re reminding me to look up my mom’s number as she has passed many years ago and I could feel her and my grandmas around me all the time. I’m a LP 6 🫶🏾

  • @Ami-ml7gp
    @Ami-ml7gp 4 місяці тому

    I am so sorry for your loss and appreciate you sharing the symbolism and spirituality. I pray you find peace and give yourself the grace and space to heal. Grief is something that comes and goes in waves. I've been there and fully support you ❤❤❤.

  • @shainaabdur-rashid2159
    @shainaabdur-rashid2159 5 місяців тому

    I have really been contemplating cutting mines or combining them out. I started my journey during the Plandemic almost 4 years ago and it’s time for a fresh start. Thank you for sharing your journey and taking us through your comb out.

  • @starrliltreecia8782
    @starrliltreecia8782 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing…I’m in the process of combing out my 5 year old locs and what a spiritual journey it has been. Peace love locs🦄

  • @Heavy_AreandBe
    @Heavy_AreandBe 9 місяців тому +2

    I’m glad you addressed it as such! From someone who was truly inspired by your loc journey we joined a year apart and thank you ! One day I plan to comb mine out too so thank you 🥰 we support you

  • @racquelmiller362
    @racquelmiller362 4 дні тому

    I been following you girlllllll 🎉you help me in a lot of ways with my 6 year loc journey,so when I come here seeking help to do a comb out,because I just feel like I need a change,I was surprised then glad to fine you here,wishing you all the best my dear

  • @SimplyxlxBrittanie
    @SimplyxlxBrittanie 9 місяців тому

    🦄 I started my first set of locs not long after you did, you inspired me so much with caring for them at home and loving my journey. When I started my second set, you were the first person that popped into my head and your videos have helped me care for them these last 7 months. To see this part of your journey end is bittersweet but I'm also really proud of you, I can't wait to experience this next step in your spiritual journey and I thank you for sharing this with us. 🦄

  • @roshauncrooms8357
    @roshauncrooms8357 9 місяців тому +1

    🦄 I truly understand signs from your loved ones being such a spiritual thing to experience. Congratulations on your new journey ahead.

  • @hannahstevens3692
    @hannahstevens3692 9 місяців тому +1

    this is my first time coming across your channel and I want to say thank you for sharing such a deeply intimate and spiritual moment with us. I’m a deeply spiritual person too and I cried with you, thank you for helping me slow down and teaching me a little more gratitude today ❤

    • @hannahstevens3692
      @hannahstevens3692 9 місяців тому

      I know your mom is so proud of you and the inspiration you’ve become to others :)

  • @mewmew6158
    @mewmew6158 9 місяців тому +1

    This is such a beautiful video. Seeing your loved ones in nature is somehting I love to hear from those who are grieving a physical loss. I'm sending you the comforting energy you deserve!💛

  • @charismafranklin5175
    @charismafranklin5175 9 місяців тому

    Wow, just wow!!!! I have been following your channel since before your locs and I used to call you my hair twin! You definitely helped me be more comfortable with starting my locs! I just want to give you a big hug right now because I know the purpose behind the start of your journey, I watched all of your big moments and cried with you girl! Your sister is still holding on strong to her beautiful locs! I love your channel and I thank you for being vulnerable and please never stop doing what you do!!! 🫂🙏🏾

  • @nuyataylor4885
    @nuyataylor4885 9 місяців тому +1

    I combed mine out a few months ago and felt so regretful at times. I can always start over

  • @staciep2638
    @staciep2638 9 місяців тому

    I’m so sorry for your loss babygirl 😢!,your beautiful mom will never leave you!
    From day to day you will feel her presence!!❤❤

  • @deey132
    @deey132 9 місяців тому +2

    😢 I’m sorry to hear about your mom! I remember watching your loc video for the 1st time and you speaking on your mom when you decided to get your locs (if I remember correctly). Let me continue watching this video. 🙏🏽 ❤️ 🫂