Miller's Syndrome: Erica Takes Control
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- Erica Perry was born with an extremely rare condition called Miller’s Syndrome, which affects her physical appearance from top to toe. Having undergone 40 corrective surgeries, Erica's wondering: what’s the alternative? She takes us on a journey, discovering different ways to gain self-confidence and be happy in the skin she’s in.
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I love when she says "It didnt hurt my feelings, it was more upsetting that they had been brought up in such a way that they thought someone like me could be a monster" ..wise wise words
Hope you enjoyed the episode Lilie and thanks for watching!
I mean, you can't blame the parents for a natural reaction. She does look like a "monster" In fact, it's a biological response etched into our brains through evolution. People with disabilities are NOT conducive for our progency as humans, so it's a natural response. It is scary. These people died off in all of history until modern medicine. Nature intends for them to die, it's un natural for them to be alive.
Lou Skunt would that be how you and your kids would behave?
No one looks like monster, they look different, than s all.
@@timc4765 hey do you think youd feel the same way if Erica was your daughter or your sister?
Lou Skunt there was a nasty dictator in Germany who thought the way you do.
I actually know her in real life! My mom is friends with her. She's a great person.
Thanks for watching Tyler!
Yeah she came to my school today to talk to us
ghostchiryou I would like too get too know her. She seems like a sweet person. She isn't ugly at all. Her wanting too help others make her beautiful. I'd like too pass my email along
Amazing! Erica's personality really shows in the documentary.
ghostchiryou
Please tell her that she IS beautiful! Not only physically but her personality is amazing... she’s very inspiring for someone like me who suffers with chronic depression and often feels very down... some days it’s hard to look at the world in a more positive way... seeing other people with their own chalenges who stay positive makes me feel a little more like I can face the day... God bless ❤️
She's amazing, but we have to give a lot of that credit to her parents, they made a great job teaching her she can do whatever she wants
Mukmoon That's true!
a blessing she was born to such good people, terrific parents.
Yes her parents are marvelous
I think you are beautiful. In God's eyes, you are perfect.
Ugly??! Unique-looking, yes, but certainly NOT ugly! Beauty is beauty. There is nothing wrong with looking unique!
Thanks for your kind words Suprcrip2002!
suprcrip2002 Exactly!
beauty sells.....buy this miracluous creme......as some scientist Joe Dispenza says that he is offended by commercials that how they say that the products always bring the best but he says the body creates its own medicine.
No, not ugly at all.
Lisa Ellis
Actually I think her looks are more than acceptable and she does the most to present herself in the best way. Her attitude is what really shines!
people always mistake different for ugly, I think you are beautiful
Dakota Hope well said
Yes, you ARE beautiful! Your positive attitude, friendliness and kindness shine out and that makes you stunning 😊.
She has a beautiful heart and beautiful soul.
Thanks for your kind words Kayleigh!
you are quite welcome
We hope you stay tuned!
Kayleigh Davison Beautiful girl!!!
I forgot after 2 minutes of watching that she had any syndrome or disfigurement at all. It’s definitely true that her personality just glows. Anyone would be damn lucky to have her in their life, she’s highly intelligent, so positive, funny and just instantly likeable.
So true☺️
I don't know why many people think it's acceptable to be cruel to people who are different. Where does that come from?
their parents - humans aren't born like that.....
I dunno-- even among the able-bodied, the kid who is physically or psychologically different in some way-- too fat, too tall, too shy, too talkative, too smart-- can get bullied. Mind you, we live in a culture where bullying is tacitly endorsed and even modeled by adults, so perhaps this shouldn't be so surprising.
It comes from ignorance and bad upbringing. And it' s so common today...
Fear. I grew up with a family friend who’s very facially deformed. Once a kid on a bike whizzed by and called her a monster... I was so shocked! She wasn’t; she was just C...... She and I are still friends.
Cruelty and stupidity... There are also people who simply enjoy it. They're called sociopaths.
Erica, you make me ashamed at how lazy I can be! Your parents must be so proud of what you have accomplished so far. You're still very young and have so much more of life to experience and with your drive and determination I have no doubt you will triumph. Best wishes!!
Thanks for watching Kathy,we could all learn a lesson from her!
@saturn alien You sound like a nut.
I really like her clothing choices. They are really well put together and look really nice on her body type. She really knows how to accentuate her assets and still look very proper and nice :)
Thanks for watching avaorchid!
avaorchid I love your comment. Why? People say things to my daughter like "you are so pretty for someone who uses a wheelchair!" and it is insulting. You gave a lovely compliment- period- and I wish everyone spoke like you do.
Yes thats what I remarked too.Even the swimmsuit is well chosen and pretty on her. A very special young woman with great humor. Thank You for sharing your story with me, I wish you the best for all you want to achieve. Hope my english isn‘t too wrong..... be blessed!
I totally agree! :D
Yes! Her color and patterns are so vibrant and unique. I loved her turquoise floral dress! 👗 this girl knows style for sure.
She sound like very gentle and adorable person i wish her the best seriously.. Find love ;)
Thanks for watching Chloe! Hope you enjoyed!
I remember getting really freaked out in kindergarden when another kid walked in to my class from another one, and had some sort of tumor on his face. I always think how awful it must've been for the kid, having a little girl who's your same age who seems to be scared by your mere appearance . I really wish we were all more accustomed to different people at a young age so things like that or what she went through never happen. I hope these videos also help getting people to be more empathetic to people who are simply born different.
"if you tell me I can't, try me" love that way of thinking. she's too funny!
thanks for watching, hope you enjoyed Kailen!
I love her 50s style dresses, really flatters her figure. You go girl!!!
I've watched quite a few of the "Born Different," "Truly", etc., but there's something about this young woman that totally impresses me so much! She's courageous and smart and kind. Once she decided that SHE was in control with her life, I bet her whole outlook on the world changed for the better! Once someone realizes that they ARE not "puppets on a string", I mean REALLY understands that and believes it, then the world is theirs!
It is what you BELIEVE, after all, that makes you who you are. She is luckier than most of us who fit into society's "norms". God Bless you, Erica. You should consider becoming an inspirational speaker.
She’s not a monster she’s beautiful just the way she is
You go Erica! You have a gift with children and not everyone can do that. I am a handicapped person and I worked as a School Counselor in the US for 20 years. I needed a mobility scooter but I was afraid that my students would not accept me but they did! They loved it but I was always honest and open with telling them about my disability. Kids sense someone who is loving, caring,compassionate, and fun. You obviously have that no matter how you look. I hope that you can be a Mom one day because you would be a wonderful mother! I thought that I would never find someone who would be able to deal with my disabilities and health problems. Just when I had accepted that I would be single, I found someone and got married 6 months later! That was 19 years ago and I have had a wonderful life with my husband. Just when you least expect it, you will find someone! Good for you for taking charge of your life!
I would love this girl as a friend! I pray she gets a baby, she would make an amazing mother! Many blessings to this dear soul!
There is so much we can learn from her. She is very charismatic and has a sparkle in her eyes. After a minute of listening and watching you just stop seeing that she looks a bit different. Great person. She will achieve a lot in her life!
Hope you enjoyed the episode ! Thanks for watching!😀
Can I contact Erica?
Email: info@attitudelive.com and we will pass it on!
Oh, what I wouldn't give to have a thoughtful, loving, beautiful friend as you are.
Thanks Debbie!
debbie kafulides I second that!
Beautiful comment.
True i would love to have a friend like her, clever, compassionate and loving! Lucky the people around by her! Stay blessed 💖
When i was a kid. I would keep away from kids who had problems. I tholt in would catch it. I was not educated. I want to work with people now xx
Thanks for sharing your story! Hope you enjoyed this video Zoieanne!
Zoieanne Gullick you were stupid
erica you are a beautiful person.. more people should be like you
Hope you enjoyed this episode Mary! Thanks for watching!
Exceptional attitude, This lady could teach so many people about how to cope with bullying. I love how she does not allow her physical side define who she is. Her parents also would have such a fantastic approach to bring her up with the skills she has. An amazing lady who is just so beautiful and you see who she is by her attitude alone. I would love to be a friend to this amazing lady.
omg i love her! such a wonderful and inspiring person! she isn't even ugly, i don't understand why humans are so cruel. if i lived near her i would love to be her friend. she could teach me a lot i feel.
Thanks for watching Maggy! Hope you enjoyed!
I can tell she has such a good soul, she’s beautiful and intelligent. Her parents must be gold, bc they did such a good job raising her.
I love her approach to wall climbing, swimming, martial arts--she is adaptive and clever--she's had to learn to become so in order to have a life worth living. Good for her.
Erica you are a straight up QUEEN!
Erica is amazing!
dandygirl6 I agree 101%
I wish I could be a part of their family. They seem so loving and wonderful. When you see a young woman like this and her tremendous presence and mind, I can't understand how the word "disability" applies to her. She's special, she really is.
Thanks for watching ! Hope you enjoyed!
Erica, you are truly one of the most gorgeous people to ever grace the Earth!💜
Thanks for your kind words Erin! Hope you enjoyed the episode!
that's a lie. they are not.
Although trolls are fairly ugly as a rule.
i wanna be her friend too bad! she looks like such a fun person. she's so beautiful and strong girl!
Thanks for watching Jenna!
Edward Joseph I was thinking the same thing. 😚
Oh I just love her!
Thanks for watching Sabrina!
Thanks for this episode. I've always been fascinated with rare syndromes and illnesses both mental and physical, and this one I actually had not heard about. Love learning about stuff like this. Keep up the good work, and my best of luck to Erica and her brother :)
Thanks for watching Lars, hope you continue watching our channel! 😀
Attitude
I definitely will. Subscribed a few days ago. I find it both informative, interesting and also inspiring to see all these wonderful people not just coping, but thriving in spite of their setbacks :) Most people should see some of that now and then.
Good to hear Lars! Thanks again!
I find them interesting, too. But I find it hard to understand why the parents would think it was ok to have more than one, knowing the difficulties they would face. Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.
@@Susan-gm1un think about it this way though: there’s no way to predict that bc someone who has a disability that may cause them trouble, there isn’t so much joy to override the difficulties. it doesn’t take away from the purpose and happiness they experience in life. i don’t think you should look at it as just another child who will have troubles, it should be “they may have troubles along the way but who’s to say their life will be any less fulfilling than any able bodied person”
I think she's a beautiful person, that can teach alot to ppl who are fully developed and fully functional. What a beautiful heart she has. She's touched me and my family.
Thanks for the kind message China, we're glad you liked the story!
I absolutely adore the way she dresses! I want more than half of what she is wearing. Hahah!
Thanks for watching Mimi!
Mimi I know.
What an amazing woman! I would love to have her as my childrens nanny, if I had children!!!
Thanks for the kind words Tai, she truly is amazing! Thanks for watching! stay tuned
She's so beautiful, inside and out. All of the people in these documentaries are amazing.
Hope you enjoyed the episode ! Thanks for watching!
I first saw Erica on SBSK here on UA-cam, I was instantly drawn to her lovely personality and super positive attitude. I don't see a disability, I see an inspiration.
When I was a kid, I NEVER teased kids who were different. On some level I knew that the kids who looked or behaved differently were that way for a reason, and no fault of their own. I just treated them like normal folks What a gift! I hear of how people hurt the people in this video, and I'm proud to say that I wasn't one of the jerks. I was the kid who listened, who laughed at a joke, who actually felt bad when I turned down a request for a date for the dance (because I had a steady boyfriend). I was honest. Thank heavens. I never hurt folks.
I'm not one to say that someone I don't find physically attractive, is "pretty", or "gorgeous" or beautiful", when I don't think they are. Kinda like the chick says in the video. It feels like pity to me, and I'm sure she has experienced it enough to know when its genuine and not. I'm also not one that will call those people names or slurs, because that's childish. But, I will say she seems to be a very kind, and sweet person in general. And that is where it really counts. I'd rather be with someone physically unattractive with a kind personality, than some hot chick/guy that has no personality, has no compassion. She is strong, she is human and yes, looks a little different. If you don't have anything good to say, like the saying goes. Just keep it to yourself.
What a beautiful person she is...both inside and out. Thank you for informing about Miller's Syndrome. I hope her dreams come true.
It”s hard not conforming to society’s idea of beautiful but you are gorgeous in your attitude and your willingness to try new things that look insurmountable to others. Thank you for sharing your inspiring story.
Thanks for watching Karen Haber
Erica I believe there is a song that sums you up. It is by Aretha Franklin..RESPECT.. you can find it on UA-cam the original is from 1967 and girl this song could be your own personal anthem ... Erica you rock
Thanks for the kind words Angie!! We really appreciate your support for Erica. Thanks for watching and hope you enjoyed the episode!
Attitude I enjoy the fact your videos allow us into the lives of exceptional individuals whom have excelled dispute all the odds stacked aganist them
despite all the odds stacked aganist them
We try to bring insight and inspiration from these amazing people as much as possible, Thanks again for watching. Glad you are enjoying our episodes!
What an amazing young spirited woman with a great attitude! I wish her all the success and love in this world.
Hands down the best parents she could have been given in this life, they did their job so well raising her to be fearless and independent. Many parents could take a leaf out of their book.
She does look great! I loved the part where she's taking her selfie and shaking out her hair! I would love to be friends with her! ;) Im so glad she decided not to go through with the surgery because I love her eyes. Can we please get a follow up video of how the conference went for her? She deserves so much in life and she truly is an outpouring of love. You can see it when she talks about life. I tried to find her on social media but she's not on instagram. anyone know how we can connect with her?
You look a little different darling, you’re not ugly, you’re a very lovely lady and l wish l could get to know you as a friend. Don’t let horrible people affect your confidence! There is nothing wrong with you, don’t ever let yourself believe that this is not so. Light and blessings to you sweetheart ❤️
What an inspiration Erica is! She IS a beautiful soul. I hope she finds love and has her own family(or adopts) one day. She would be a fantastic mother! You can tell that kids adore her.
My 11 year old and I think you are amazing, and we love your sense of style and awesome pajamas!
Thanks for your kind words and support Alice! Thanks for watching ! Hope you enjoyed!
She has the sweetest looking face!
She looks just as pretty as anyone else!
She seems like such a kind and endearing person!
May God bless her for the rest of her days!
This is such an inspiration . She's toned , fit has a great attitude and looks great in her element !
Love your heart and how you tackled life's challenges! And you have a great sense of style and adventure. Good on you!
Hope you enjoyed this episode Wavewolfaroha! Thanks for watching!
What a wonderful and brave woman!
Thanks for watching!
We need more positive inspirations like this lady!
Thanks for your kind words! Glad you enjoyed her story!
" try me ". YESSS
Thank you @attitude for reminding myself to be more humble and understanding of others... These stories are amazing , please post more
And thank you for watching KayDior! Hope you enjoyed!
She's incredibly inspiring. The best of luck to her!
Hope you enjoyed the episode ! Thanks for watching!
Love that baby picture! You look like a little doll baby!
Hope you enjoyed the episode Jennifer! Thanks for watching!
Jennifer..Yes, I thought so too......a sweet little doll!
Who's here from SBSK?
Gosh, this is truly wonderful. Her work with children is so important. I hope it continues for her happiness, and as a by-product, for the benefit of humanity.
What an amazing and bright woman! She is a wonderful soul, and it's amazing the confidence she has, what an inspiration!
She certainly is inspirational! Thanks for watching ! Hope you enjoyed!
obvioulsy this syndrom is very tough to manage with
respect for them all
The fact that she has all this confidence is amazing.
Little kids love her because she sets boundaries and gives love and fun within those boundaries. When she worked on climbed that wall my heart just soared.
Thank you for sharing your story! I feel honored to have come across your episode and to learn about your life! Stay strong and beautiful!!
Leading a much more active and social life than me. Goes to show the a disability is in no way an inhibitor in someone leading a "normal" life
Keely Miller it is because even though she can do everything a able person can do, it is so much harder.
so great to see her accepting and loving herself for who she is. shes probably one of the most beautiful people u would ever know
She’s been through so much in her life. Very brave. She dresses great. Very stylish.
She’s so kind the way she talks about the world and uniqueness.
Erica
You are a lovely lady! I know your parents are proud of you. I hope you’re
proud of you!👍🏻🌻🤗💕
My first born granddaughter’s 28 years old, named Erika. Unfortunately she doesn’t do much with her life. Erika was born with Turners Syndrome.
I love her unconditionally! I just wish she’d do more positive things with her life.
Love, happiness, and health to you always!
Susan from Santa Monica, CA
You're amazing Erica!!!!
She sure is! thanks for the support Mack, hope you enjoyed the episode!
She’s so smart, endearing, and inspirational. She shows that no matter what, she will prevail.
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Erica, you remind me to love myself more. Its hard to go through life sometimes, but with God anything is possible!
Girl your beautiful your soul shines i didn't need to hear your story to get that I saw it through a UA-cam video in 2 seconds if people don't know that then they are daft keep shining bright you make the world a better place by putting your story out there also you are a straight up ninja
She seems like a wonderful human being, I wish her the best 💕💕
i think she's pretty!
Thanks for your kind words Maddie! Hope you enjoyed the episode!
Seeing this 3 years later. Would love to see a follow up on what she's up to now!
There is a video that is more current. Erika has moved out of her parents home into her own apartment. She even has a cat! Erika seems to be doing great which is so terrific. Congrats on living your best life Erika!
Erika- you kick ass! Really admire you 😘
She makes me so happy. I only wish for the best for her 💜
Thanks for the kind words Heather!
last year I discovered I have bone on bone arthritis in both my knees and both ankles in so much pain even after having shots and pain medicine and feeling very sorry for myself I started watching this channel and totally changed how I feel about my issues and excepting it until my knee replacements then learning how to walk and do everyday things all over again and I'm fine with it ;)
Thanks for sharing Kelley! Hope you enjoyed our channel and keep coming back!
I love your channel it's so inspiring xoxox
Such a beautiful human being. I literally have no other words. Everyone should aspire to be this confident and amazing no matter what
God bless both Erica and Attitude for sharing her story with us. It blessed me! I feel such love for both of you!
Thanks for watching Liz, hope you enjoyed!
What a beautiful Person, inside and outside. I’m so happy for her that she has such a positive attitude for herself and for others. I really hope that she gets to work a full-time job with kids. She’s very good with them.
Erica seems like a very honest and sincere and smart person. I love her personality!
What a beautiful,inspirational women !! Beauty on the inside is showing on the outside !! :)
We agree!
What a great girl. Why have some people become so afraid of people who appear different. Thank goodness for UA-cam, we get to “meet” more people with disability and hopefully it will help more people to understand that disability is normal. You don’t pick it, it picks you. The next time someone is ignorant enough to be hurtful, remember you don’t know what your future holds, you may become disabled, you may have a disabled person in your life because of fate. Be open to people. Disabled people make our world a richer place.
Absolutely beautiful. I love the attitudes here and telling those kids they're ugly back. And such a confident walk, something I don't have haha. I hugely admire anyone who strives to put a step forward, keeping active where they didn't used to. Shame sbsk doesn't have their comments working still and this channel does, but I'm glad still about this outlet
Erica, You will make a wonderful mother. You can do so much more than the general public even tries to do. I think you are wonderful.
Thanks for the kind words Kary Ann! We really appreciate your support for Erica.
she's adorable and i love her
Thanks for your kind words Jamie!
What a lovely person, I really hope she has a wonderful life full of joy and happiness.
Thanks for watching SheniyahMariah, hope you enjoyed!
I'm inspired. So inspired.
Beautiful soul with the best can do attitude ever xoxo
Erica, what an amazing person you are. Wishing nothing, but the very best for you.
She’s a beautiful person with a big soul, she’s fool of kindness & love, she’s very down to earth. She said she was bullied in school as well at the park where other children were playing, before they called her a monster. There’s no excuse for mean children to say hurtful things. They were taught incorrectly at home by their parents. I have ZERO TOLERANCE for the ignorant parents that teach their children to be prejudice, mean, abnoxious, hurtful, bullies. Instead of teaching their kids that just because other people look different, speak a different language, their skin & hair is different than theirs, GOD made us all the same. Those adult parents should be arrested & brought up on charges for being unfit parents & confusing their minds. You’re a beautiful person in & out don’t let anyone tell you other wise. Go after all your dreams & let them materialize. I would & be honered to have you as my friend. 🤗🥰🍄💐🌹🌻🌷🌼🌺
haha she said he was ugly , lol I love her
Thanks for watching Murlo
Erika is an amazing person I met her today at my school she is so inspirational
You've got really good style plus love ❤️ your hair !!! :)
You are a beautiful woman inside and outside. ... you do what ever makes YOU happy.... but I think you're perfect the way you are... you outlook and Independence is admirable...
She is 100% right, those kids aren't being raised properly. I was raised to never pick on someone for how they look or act, and I had lots of friends through the years with different syndromes and disabilities. Never once did I think less of them, but again that's how I was raised. To respect people and understand that differences are what make people unique individuals. Erica is very inspiring and I like that she does things her way and makes the best of her life. I wish I was more like her. I fall apart very easily because my anxiety and OCD is very severe. Hell. I can't even climb a rock wall, I'm too out of shape and nervous for that! Yay for Boston, that's where I live! It's a lovely place to visit. :)
Erica, you are an amazing woman...I love how you look at life and you aren't afraid to go after whatever it is that you want to try. You are an inspiration to children and adults alike...and yes, teaching children not to bully other children, is such a monumental thing for most people to handle...but, you have such a love of children and such a way to interact with them, that you make it all seem so easy. I hope you find exactly what it is you want in life and that you will be able to have children by adoption or whatever you choose...God Bless you and thank you for so willingly sharing your story. Love and hugs, Erica!😊💖
I couldn't be in childcare. Bless the people that can
hi just found these videos. i dont see anything but a gorgeous wonderful person who will make a man a bloody good wife stay strong. xx
Thanks for the kind words Sharon! we hope you enjoyed the episode!
Hey, have you thought about fostering? I have been told that is can help financially. Also, I think you look fine as you are, however if you wanted to enhance the shape of your eyes, may be cosmetic tattooing would help without any of the risks of surgery.
Just some thoughts, but you're doing great.
Kids are cruel, my heart breaks for you growing up in our society.Such a strong lady, I wish I was half as strong as you ❤