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gentle reminder from a 19 y/o who doesnt have anything figured out: we're not fully fledged adult, we're just two year olds when it comes to being an adult
I'm 31 and I still don't know. I studied lots of things, been sick a lot of years, tried occasional jobs, now I'm trying UA-cam as well. I just know that I want to do many things in my life, not only one and I'm happy of what I did so far anyways. I got to know myself, I understood better what I do NOT want which is just as important. I'm happy I'm single, I'm proud of the person I've become and the struggles I've faced. I don't know what the future holds and I'm honestly curious to see what's gonna happen. Don't be scared of the unknown, be keen to find out instead ❤
also i want to comment: i kind of notice you're feeling alone in this or seeing other people's lives, i think most of us have these anxious thoughts, and social media is totally fake!! we're all in this together, yet on our own path
it feels weirdly good to share the same thoughts about the future and about growing up. im 20 and i feel like everything around me moves SO fast and sometimes it feels like i'm not a part of it... i understand truly & hope you feel better after talking about it :)
hi marguie! i completely relate to everything you’re saying. i feel behind too while i see my friends getting on with their lives. but we have to remind ourselves that we’re still young and we have time to figure things out
just here to say that you’re definitely not alone in this! i’m about to turn 19 and i also have absolutely no idea what i want to do in the future :,) but honestly, we have lots of time to figure out, it’s okay
é mesmo muito assustador pensar nas coisas a médio/longo prazo. fico feliz que o faças porque demonstra que te preocupas e que, mesmo sendo pensamentos altamente indutores de ansiedade, escolhes enfrentá-los. de qualquer forma pareces estar a pôr muito mais pressão nos ombros do que a que mereces carregar :/ diferentes escolhas implicam diferentes cedências e levam a diferentes recompensas, o que significa que não é por algumas pessoas estarem a tomar determinadas decisões que deves sentir a pressão de as replicar, nem que estivesse meio mundo a tomá-las. acho genuinamente que é posta uma pressão externa enorme sobre nós nesse sentido, mas acredito de coração que o encanto disto passa por cada um fazer o seu próprio caminho da forma como lhe for mais prazeroso. és extremamente sonhadora e apaixonada. então, conhecendo-te, não tenho qualquer dúvida de que o teu caminho vai ser lindo, margarida :) é muito fácil esquecermo-nos disso, mas ainda estamos muito no início. não é suposto termos muitas respostas e talvez nos cobremos demasiado por isso. de qualquer forma acho mesmo que pensar e questionares-te sobre isso é um sinal de uma maturidade invejável e que pareces estar num bom caminho, mesmo que agora não to pareça. a margarida do futuro ter-te-á muito que agradecer.
i feel the same about the job stuff. I’m going to college for photography so I can free range how I want. I’ve worked in fast food and it’s HORRIBLE and def not something I want to do again. Also, SAME on the car thing. I got my learners permit in december and my road test is in May (after failing my first test last month). Driving will never be something I will enjoy.
The thing about job and 9-5 is precisely what I feel, and what I've learned from having an existential crisis since mid teens up until now is that I was shit scared about life and I felt the whole world is about to get me and I was just...there, but being scared taught me that it's good to be scared in order to realise life just is. It's meant to be lived, floating by, without attaching yourself to pretty much anything. I never worked a 9-5, I've dropped out of 3 different courses, I don't have a degree, and I feel the least scared I've ever felt in life, I just feel like I will definitely do something, money isn't meant to be buying shit you care bugger all about, I'm super frugal but I do spend money on what I want and I spend more to get better quality and experience, trying a bunch of different online money making ideas, trying to meditate, I only own enough stuff that fits in a suitcase. Which I guess will help in traveling. If you're scared, I guess is a good thing even tho it's crippling because that will make you try harder to do something so you don't get a 9-5 and get to travel and live slow and live how you desire. And you mentioned you journal now, perhaps also start meditating, it will def help you slow down. You'll find a ton of Buddhist teachings over here on YT itself. You're alright, don't worry. 🌟
I don't wanna say anything coz i already see your comments filled with all you wanna hear. But i just wanna tell you me in my 20 you inspire me so much in ways you couldn't even think of and i never thought you would be feeling this way. So we always think others have it figured out but tbh everyone are going through the same. We just don't talk about it. You're not alone in this ❤❤. You're just figuring out. So let's not be so hard on yourself! And hey content creation is a cool job so don't stress about getting real job. I see you have already hit 20k subscribers so keep going and remember there are ppl who look upto you, i'm one of them💗✨
hey girlll!!!! i admire that you tell your problems with a smiling face. I CAN NEVER DO THAT. i would cry and be sad ;) first thing, the journal thing REALLY WORKS. i literally write EVERYTHING and it is so fun and relaxing. also writing my problems leads to observe my feelings from another perspective! and after that, i always feel like i am a normal person, i may have problems and everything is temporary ;) secondly, I ALSO DONT LIKE CARS. like, literally, i do not like being in a car because i get stressed about what if we crush! it is sometimes also relaxing bc i can listen some music and dream, but generally it is stressful (BECAUSE WHAT IF WE CRUSH) love u girl, keep going kisses, xoxo
i get worried too about my hours of sleep so when i go to sleep i don't check the hour later because it takes me an hour or more to fall asleep and looking at the time makes me think of it more and its hard to make my mind stop
Omg as a Japanese I really hope you can come in whatever way. And I’m also surprised how similar you think as I do. I’m not fully employed but applying for master’s in Germany (just because it’s affordable in Germany) but I don’t have excellent GPA. I didn’t feel I made a wrong decision or anything but we, those who aren’t following the “common“ path, have to face anxiety… I can’t even express my thoughts well😂 but let’s just live our lives…
to grow up, to have responsabilities, is fundamental. But don’t forget of your age. In these generations, we’re lucky cause we’re free to choose our time and what to do, but that’s also scary cause you see ppl running and you’re like going underwater in the ocean.. but that’s ok if you think that there’s still time. Cause there is. + don’t be scared of 9/5. I come from a work reality that the week of 5 days, working during the day with the free evenings is the biggest reliev i could imagine. I left my dream job for a work like that, and i’m doing great. Can’t say the happiest, cause again, it’s not easy seeing ppl running by my side, but i have TIME and INDIPENDENCE, and that’s the way to live that will help me to reach my dreams. Don’t be scared of 9/5 jobs. Don’t be scared of nothing, everything makes sense after all. Don’t be scared of life
hope to meet you when you go backpacking in southeast asia! ❤ it’s okay not to have everything figured out. you will continually grow and change and so is your desire in life. continue to learn about yourself, explore and try new things, be a student of life and everything will fall into place. ❤
I fully relate with this, because every time I can't sleep, I can't help but think about my future and it scares me to death because right now I have no idea what I want to do or what i’m going to do while everyone around me already knows what to do in their life, they're already doing something, or they expect me to do something, and I feel so shitty like I'm doing nothing with my life and like I've wasted so much time
It happens to me the same with sleeping problems. It has been hard. But then you realise you're not alone and that nowadays lots of young people pass through this also. It's kind of a symptomatic thing due to our system. The pressure and the scaring future are the most pressures given to us.
Keep going you're amazing girl 🫶 and just remember that this feelings are absolutely normal just focus on your self everything u deserve is getting closer to your way keep trying Luv u 🫶
gentle reminder from a 19 y/o who doesnt have anything figured out: we're not fully fledged adult, we're just two year olds when it comes to being an adult
YES.
I'm 31 and I still don't know. I studied lots of things, been sick a lot of years, tried occasional jobs, now I'm trying UA-cam as well. I just know that I want to do many things in my life, not only one and I'm happy of what I did so far anyways. I got to know myself, I understood better what I do NOT want which is just as important. I'm happy I'm single, I'm proud of the person I've become and the struggles I've faced. I don't know what the future holds and I'm honestly curious to see what's gonna happen. Don't be scared of the unknown, be keen to find out instead ❤
thank you for this ❤️🩹❤️🩹
also i want to comment: i kind of notice you're feeling alone in this or seeing other people's lives, i think most of us have these anxious thoughts, and social media is totally fake!! we're all in this together, yet on our own path
more marguie yapping! love this sleepover-y podcast-y chatty vibe :))
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as a 22 yr old that doesnt know what theyre doing, you're completely valid and thank you for being so vulnerable with us
i appreciate that soooo much 💓
I can definitely relate to you and just wanted to say that it's totally okay to not exactly know what we have to do 🤍
currently watching u while in my bed not being able to sleep.... thanks for making me company, marguie
we’re in this together!!!
it feels weirdly good to share the same thoughts about the future and about growing up. im 20 and i feel like everything around me moves SO fast and sometimes it feels like i'm not a part of it... i understand truly & hope you feel better after talking about it :)
we’re in this together ! 💓
Yeeeah you definitely must take sm time off UA-cam !
hi marguie! i completely relate to everything you’re saying. i feel behind too while i see my friends getting on with their lives. but we have to remind ourselves that we’re still young and we have time to figure things out
thank you soooo much, and i’m glad I could help 💓
@@marguie222 ❤️❤️❤️
just here to say that you’re definitely not alone in this! i’m about to turn 19 and i also have absolutely no idea what i want to do in the future :,) but honestly, we have lots of time to figure out, it’s okay
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é mesmo muito assustador pensar nas coisas a médio/longo prazo. fico feliz que o faças porque demonstra que te preocupas e que, mesmo sendo pensamentos altamente indutores de ansiedade, escolhes enfrentá-los. de qualquer forma pareces estar a pôr muito mais pressão nos ombros do que a que mereces carregar :/
diferentes escolhas implicam diferentes cedências e levam a diferentes recompensas, o que significa que não é por algumas pessoas estarem a tomar determinadas decisões que deves sentir a pressão de as replicar, nem que estivesse meio mundo a tomá-las. acho genuinamente que é posta uma pressão externa enorme sobre nós nesse sentido, mas acredito de coração que o encanto disto passa por cada um fazer o seu próprio caminho da forma como lhe for mais prazeroso.
és extremamente sonhadora e apaixonada. então, conhecendo-te, não tenho qualquer dúvida de que o teu caminho vai ser lindo, margarida :)
é muito fácil esquecermo-nos disso, mas ainda estamos muito no início. não é suposto termos muitas respostas e talvez nos cobremos demasiado por isso. de qualquer forma acho mesmo que pensar e questionares-te sobre isso é um sinal de uma maturidade invejável e que pareces estar num bom caminho, mesmo que agora não to pareça. a margarida do futuro ter-te-á muito que agradecer.
obrigada uma vez mais pelas palavras bonitas que deixas sempre nos meus vídeos, fico muito feliz por me apoiares como o fazes ❤️🩹
i feel the same about the job stuff. I’m going to college for photography so I can free range how I want. I’ve worked in fast food and it’s HORRIBLE and def not something I want to do again. Also, SAME on the car thing. I got my learners permit in december and my road test is in May (after failing my first test last month). Driving will never be something I will enjoy.
customer service IS THE WORST, I still have nightmares, but i’m glad we’re not alone!! 🎀
The thing about job and 9-5 is precisely what I feel, and what I've learned from having an existential crisis since mid teens up until now is that I was shit scared about life and I felt the whole world is about to get me and I was just...there, but being scared taught me that it's good to be scared in order to realise life just is. It's meant to be lived, floating by, without attaching yourself to pretty much anything. I never worked a 9-5, I've dropped out of 3 different courses, I don't have a degree, and I feel the least scared I've ever felt in life, I just feel like I will definitely do something, money isn't meant to be buying shit you care bugger all about, I'm super frugal but I do spend money on what I want and I spend more to get better quality and experience, trying a bunch of different online money making ideas, trying to meditate, I only own enough stuff that fits in a suitcase. Which I guess will help in traveling. If you're scared, I guess is a good thing even tho it's crippling because that will make you try harder to do something so you don't get a 9-5 and get to travel and live slow and live how you desire. And you mentioned you journal now, perhaps also start meditating, it will def help you slow down. You'll find a ton of Buddhist teachings over here on YT itself. You're alright, don't worry. 🌟
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I feell you
awww I loved this little sleepover
!!!!! 💗
I don't wanna say anything coz i already see your comments filled with all you wanna hear. But i just wanna tell you me in my 20 you inspire me so much in ways you couldn't even think of and i never thought you would be feeling this way. So we always think others have it figured out but tbh everyone are going through the same. We just don't talk about it. You're not alone in this ❤❤. You're just figuring out. So let's not be so hard on yourself! And hey content creation is a cool job so don't stress about getting real job. I see you have already hit 20k subscribers so keep going and remember there are ppl who look upto you, i'm one of them💗✨
THANK YOU FOR THIS ❤️🩹❤️🩹 these nice words are for sure helping me, and maybe helping someone out as well
i love podcast marguie hehehe
ehhehehe ❤️🩹
hey girlll!!!! i admire that you tell your problems with a smiling face. I CAN NEVER DO THAT. i would cry and be sad ;) first thing, the journal thing REALLY WORKS. i literally write EVERYTHING and it is so fun and relaxing. also writing my problems leads to observe my feelings from another perspective! and after that, i always feel like i am a normal person, i may have problems and everything is temporary ;) secondly, I ALSO DONT LIKE CARS. like, literally, i do not like being in a car because i get stressed about what if we crush! it is sometimes also relaxing bc i can listen some music and dream, but generally it is stressful (BECAUSE WHAT IF WE CRUSH)
love u girl, keep going
kisses, xoxo
WE ARE ONE OF THE SAME FOR SURE 💓
a caneca no início do vídeo é mega fofinha omg
NE? adorável
20K!!!!!
YES!!!! SO EXCITING
me to girl...even in divering,me toooo
Thank you so much..
I feel better when I see people who understand my feels and told about this, this is so supportive, you are the best❤
it is possible that you have some past trauma in car situations idk
omg do I? 🧍🏼♂️
i get worried too about my hours of sleep so when i go to sleep i don't check the hour later because it takes me an hour or more to fall asleep and looking at the time makes me think of it more and its hard to make my mind stop
Iam 21 and still didn’t get into uni or job or any frcking thing in my f life
Omg as a Japanese I really hope you can come in whatever way. And I’m also surprised how similar you think as I do. I’m not fully employed but applying for master’s in Germany (just because it’s affordable in Germany) but I don’t have excellent GPA. I didn’t feel I made a wrong decision or anything but we, those who aren’t following the “common“ path, have to face anxiety… I can’t even express my thoughts well😂 but let’s just live our lives…
i reallyyyy feel you ahahhaha hope I can visit japan soon!!!
to grow up, to have responsabilities, is fundamental. But don’t forget of your age. In these generations, we’re lucky cause we’re free to choose our time and what to do, but that’s also scary cause you see ppl running and you’re like going underwater in the ocean.. but that’s ok if you think that there’s still time. Cause there is.
+ don’t be scared of 9/5. I come from a work reality that the week of 5 days, working during the day with the free evenings is the biggest reliev i could imagine. I left my dream job for a work like that, and i’m doing great. Can’t say the happiest, cause again, it’s not easy seeing ppl running by my side, but i have TIME and INDIPENDENCE, and that’s the way to live that will help me to reach my dreams. Don’t be scared of 9/5 jobs. Don’t be scared of nothing, everything makes sense after all. Don’t be scared of life
thank you for these words ❤️🩹 sending love !
thanks for sharing your thoughts! i'm gonna be 19 few more days and its really scary remembering that soon i'll be 20yo.......
everything will be okay, we are in this together ❤️🩹
hope to meet you when you go backpacking in southeast asia! ❤ it’s okay not to have everything figured out. you will continually grow and change and so is your desire in life. continue to learn about yourself, explore and try new things, be a student of life and everything will fall into place. ❤
thank you for the kind words 💓 AND WE’LL DEFINITELY MEET IN SOUTHEAST ASIA
I fully relate with this, because every time I can't sleep, I can't help but think about my future and it scares me to death because right now I have no idea what I want to do or what i’m going to do while everyone around me already knows what to do in their life, they're already doing something, or they expect me to do something, and I feel so shitty like I'm doing nothing with my life and like I've wasted so much time
I FEEL YOU!!!
i loveee tis so much !! :)) it feels like a little podcast and i adore that
i’m glad!!
Soon we gonna see the cute little marguieee in Japan 😎 making Vlogs in Japanese hahaha
I WISH, still have a long way to go tho ahhaha
Your videos are my safe space, they are just so calming❤
i’m glad!!! 💓
It happens to me the same with sleeping problems. It has been hard. But then you realise you're not alone and that nowadays lots of young people pass through this also. It's kind of a symptomatic thing due to our system. The pressure and the scaring future are the most pressures given to us.
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hii!!!
Hiiiiiiiiiiiii ^-^@@marguie222
congrats on 20k!!
THANK YOU IHIHI
Keep going you're amazing girl 🫶 and just remember that this feelings are absolutely normal just focus on your self everything u deserve is getting closer to your way keep trying
Luv u 🫶
love you! 💓💓