Sam! I'm late to this one by a MONTH OR MORE, forgive me! I watched it through and kept it in my watch later list because I knew I wanted to comment but just didn't know what. Still don't know what! But the gist of it is-- thank you for being so human here, sharing how you were before and how you are now and what you learned in between, for anyone who might be going through something similar or knows someone who is. It's such an important thing to talk about. I appreciate you! 💜
And that feeling you’re talking about the anger taking over. I’ve personally never had it super bad but yk when people get anger they say or do things. I’ve witnessed people let their anger take the best of them and throw and punch things. It’s really scary but it can be “fixed”
Girl.. you scared me so bad !! when you were explaining that this video could trigger us and saying things like “I wasn’t myself” I was so scared you were a monster and hurt someone so bad I might not see you the same 😭 but then after you explained everything and you know you shouldn’t have done that, but under the circumstances (like you said it doesn’t EXCUSE domestic violence) I was relieved you didn’t cause great harm to them yk. I’m so glad you’re in a healthy relationship now everyone deserves one 🙌🏽. Please don’t ever hurt Jesse and never let Jesse hurt you 🥲
Thank you for sharing sis! This story was right on time for Domestic Violence Month 💜 … & yes, many of us have been in a place where we NOW don’t recognize who we were! No judgment here because I have storiesss! But Happy belated birthday 🥳 my love, CONGRATULATIONS ON 4k 🎉 and most importantly keep on being YOU ✨
This sounds soo similar to a situation I was in when I was younger. It is such a terrible cycle to be in but getting completely over it all is even better. Lol. I love your videos, thanks for sharing. ❤
Your wedding ring is gorgeous. Okey now let me watch the video 😂❤it took you a while to smack his axx I’m fed up for you 😂I can relate. When an incident like this happens where you act out of character you realise you need to find yoself and leave the toxic relationship
girly I love this story time! I can completely relate to the anger you felt! I know you said you feel sorry about what you did but it’s called reactive abuse and it’s totally normal ❤
This just popped up in my notifications. So I know how I will be falling asleep tonight BABYYYY!! LOL. Not even about to watch it because it's only 5:46 pm
😢wow girl I been through a bad relationship like that I’m not with him anymore but yes for 10 years he would beat me up bad where I tried ending my life sadly it was t my time so now I’m finally freee from him and I’m in a much healthy stable state of mind
I have a customer at work that comes in everyday, and gives me and my coworker a Twix bar. If you like Twix, gotta try the salted caramel Twix 12/10 recommend
I need advice! Me and my boyfriend of 9 months are struggling and I have terrible insecurities and I have a hard time trusting anyone, and it’s been really hard couple of months and it’s been nothing but fights and stuff because of how much I overthink and stuff and I honestly don’t know what to do, I love my boyfriend more then I’ve loved anymore and I want to keep this relationship forever I’m just so confused on what to do.
I don’t know if this is the best advice because i’m pretty young but i’ll tell you what i’ve learned. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over three years now in long distance and we’ve definitely had our ups and downs. I had something pretty similar where about 10 months into the relationship we started fighting more often then we ever had and we were both going through a lot of changes. The best thing i can say is be honest with him. Tell him the things that may make you feel insecure, and if maybe you can work on them together. A lot of my problems me and my boyfriend had was because we didn’t communicate. It took us a long time to realize you can’t work on things and solve them if you aren’t 100% honest about it. I often didn’t tell him my feelings because i was worried he was gonna judge me for it or not look at me the same anymore. This would be a huge problem because he would think things were fine, and out of nowhere i would blow up and get super mad at him. I lost a lot of trust and didn’t feel comfortable in myself. Me and boyfriend both sat down and decided to write a list of things we both wanted to work on, and things that we expected in a relationship (ig kinda like ground rules). This really helped. Relationships are hard and definitely take a lot of effort. This may not work for you but therapy definitely helped me too. I was dealing with a lot of my own issues with insecurity and trust problems which really affected the relationship. I was also dealing with some other things that really were not healthy habits at the time. But that may not be for you! whatever feels comfortable for you is what matters most. Im hoping this is helpful, i’ve never given advice on relationships before.
look into attachment theory. Thais Gibson from Personal Development School has a lot of videos that helped me a ton! Some of it is a little gimmicky, but there's a lot of helpful information there!
Sam! I'm late to this one by a MONTH OR MORE, forgive me! I watched it through and kept it in my watch later list because I knew I wanted to comment but just didn't know what. Still don't know what! But the gist of it is-- thank you for being so human here, sharing how you were before and how you are now and what you learned in between, for anyone who might be going through something similar or knows someone who is. It's such an important thing to talk about. I appreciate you! 💜
Thank you for the support Mauve! Agree that it’s an important topic and appreciate the reception to the vulnerability💜
And that feeling you’re talking about the anger taking over. I’ve personally never had it super bad but yk when people get anger they say or do things. I’ve witnessed people let their anger take the best of them and throw and punch things. It’s really scary but it can be “fixed”
Girl.. you scared me so bad !! when you were explaining that this video could trigger us and saying things like “I wasn’t myself” I was so scared you were a monster and hurt someone so bad I might not see you the same 😭 but then after you explained everything and you know you shouldn’t have done that, but under the circumstances (like you said it doesn’t EXCUSE domestic violence) I was relieved you didn’t cause great harm to them yk. I’m so glad you’re in a healthy relationship now everyone deserves one 🙌🏽. Please don’t ever hurt Jesse and never let Jesse hurt you 🥲
That's tough stuff. Glad you made it out. It's good for others to hear this and not feel alone.
Thank you for sharing sis! This story was right on time for Domestic Violence Month 💜 … & yes, many of us have been in a place where we NOW don’t recognize who we were! No judgment here because I have storiesss!
But Happy belated birthday 🥳 my love, CONGRATULATIONS ON 4k 🎉 and most importantly keep on being YOU ✨
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Thanks for being honest and open with us. Relationships are so different when we’re younger.
This sounds soo similar to a situation I was in when I was younger. It is such a terrible cycle to be in but getting completely over it all is even better. Lol. I love your videos, thanks for sharing. ❤
Your wedding ring is gorgeous. Okey now let me watch the video 😂❤it took you a while to smack his axx I’m fed up for you 😂I can relate. When an incident like this happens where you act out of character you realise you need to find yoself and leave the toxic relationship
girly I love this story time! I can completely relate to the anger you felt! I know you said you feel sorry about what you did but it’s called reactive abuse and it’s totally normal ❤
This just popped up in my notifications. So I know how I will be falling asleep tonight BABYYYY!! LOL. Not even about to watch it because it's only 5:46 pm
Congratulations on 4K subscribers
😢wow girl I been through a bad relationship like that I’m not with him anymore but yes for 10 years he would beat me up bad where I tried ending my life sadly it was t my time so now I’m finally freee from him and I’m in a much healthy stable state of mind
Thanks for sharing. 😊
I have a customer at work that comes in everyday, and gives me and my coworker a Twix bar. If you like Twix, gotta try the salted caramel Twix 12/10 recommend
I need advice!
Me and my boyfriend of 9 months are struggling and I have terrible insecurities and I have a hard time trusting anyone, and it’s been really hard couple of months and it’s been nothing but fights and stuff because of how much I overthink and stuff and I honestly don’t know what to do, I love my boyfriend more then I’ve loved anymore and I want to keep this relationship forever I’m just so confused on what to do.
I don’t know if this is the best advice because i’m pretty young but i’ll tell you what i’ve learned. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over three years now in long distance and we’ve definitely had our ups and downs. I had something pretty similar where about 10 months into the relationship we started fighting more often then we ever had and we were both going through a lot of changes. The best thing i can say is be honest with him. Tell him the things that may make you feel insecure, and if maybe you can work on them together. A lot of my problems me and my boyfriend had was because we didn’t communicate. It took us a long time to realize you can’t work on things and solve them if you aren’t 100% honest about it. I often didn’t tell him my feelings because i was worried he was gonna judge me for it or not look at me the same anymore. This would be a huge problem because he would think things were fine, and out of nowhere i would blow up and get super mad at him. I lost a lot of trust and didn’t feel comfortable in myself. Me and boyfriend both sat down and decided to write a list of things we both wanted to work on, and things that we expected in a relationship (ig kinda like ground rules). This really helped. Relationships are hard and definitely take a lot of effort. This may not work for you but therapy definitely helped me too. I was dealing with a lot of my own issues with insecurity and trust problems which really affected the relationship. I was also dealing with some other things that really were not healthy habits at the time. But that may not be for you! whatever feels comfortable for you is what matters most. Im hoping this is helpful, i’ve never given advice on relationships before.
THIS 🙌🏻
look into attachment theory. Thais Gibson from Personal Development School has a lot of videos that helped me a ton! Some of it is a little gimmicky, but there's a lot of helpful information there!