I’m Afraid I’m Being Betrayed | Therapy & Theology with Lysa TerKeurst

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  • Опубліковано 24 вер 2024
  • Betrayal can come in so many different forms. Maybe a friend tells a secret you trusted them with. Or maybe your spouse is making decisions that are breaking your heart. Or maybe a co-worker threw you under the bus. Underneath it all, if you're honest, you feel betrayed by God: Why didn't He step in?
    This episode will help you begin to realize that the trauma of having your trust broken by people you thought would never betray you may be life-altering but it doesn’t have to be life-ruining.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 33

  • @theultimatefoodie2666
    @theultimatefoodie2666 День тому +10

    Thanks for this video. It was hard to listen because I’ve experienced the pain of infidelity in marriage but it was so encouraging because of the soothing balm of God’s Word. ❤

  • @JoyceSummers-f2b
    @JoyceSummers-f2b День тому +2

    My shock that felt like a bomb going off was my husband's involvement in porn and 2 following ways he acted out toward people. The final confessed revelation happened while we both had covid and I told the Lord, If he isn't going to get delivered please take him home. The Lord did just that. In talking about the slow growth betrayal; you know something is wrong, but scripture says that love believes all things and hopes all things. The impact of it has been emotionally paralyzing. His ability to fall back into something he had had as a testimony of God saving him from. I question anyone's complete deliverance now. If he could be that self deceived, I fear that I could be self deceived, like walking a tight rope. I believe the Lord has been helping me and blessing me.

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому +1

    The smear campain that happened worsened the betrayal, something i learned was that i saw who people are. Cs Lewis "if people show you who they are Believe them" its not easy the impact is significantly painful

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому

    The shock was literally and figuratively shook me, then the denial and betrayal from people close to me especially their gaslighting me was very hurtful it was the hardest experience and something i am still working through in therapy

  • @jeanabarnett8914
    @jeanabarnett8914 15 годин тому

    Cannot wait for more episodes and content of this topic. THANK YOU ALL 😇🙌🏼🙏🏻🫵🏼

  • @Ali76564
    @Ali76564 День тому +1

    It's spiritual warfare breaking up betrayal and many other issues

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому

    Thank you so much for this conversation

  • @deborahclavette879
    @deborahclavette879 День тому +2

    Thank you so much. In 2018 After 30 years of marriage, the earthquake of betrayal disclosure erupted in years of violent aftershocks. The resulting tremors continue to this day. I thank God for His faithfulness through it all as my life rebuilds & my heart restores.

  • @missmystery1212
    @missmystery1212 День тому +1

    Thank you so much for starting this series. I love your vulnerability, wisdom and bible knowledge. Listening brings back the elephant in the room. I haven't thought about betraying my own self from lack of discernment, I think in ways, that's a fear of mine, moving on in the future with new relationships, just all around

  • @erinm.8395
    @erinm.8395 День тому +2

    Great video!

  • @holyhikerpodcast
    @holyhikerpodcast День тому

    Your content is so wholesome and practical, thank you so much for the work you do and might I say I love the interior design of the space you record in!!

  • @darlenemcintyre9998
    @darlenemcintyre9998 День тому +1

    Remember Absalom started off feeling betrayal from his father David because his sister being raped and David not doing anything about it afterwards before he started the campaign against his father.

  • @Susan-oe7tr
    @Susan-oe7tr 21 годину тому

    Good stuff. Thank you.

  • @angelaanderson5360
    @angelaanderson5360 3 години тому

    Looking forward to layer 5 and 6

  • @SheilaBequette
    @SheilaBequette День тому +1

    I will definitely be purchasing your book!

  • @pamelapena9208
    @pamelapena9208 День тому

    Thank you so much

  • @catherinemiss6360
    @catherinemiss6360 День тому

    I cannot tell you how much these help me. Thank you xxxx

  • @peoplelover2024
    @peoplelover2024 День тому

    Or when your 28 year old son comes to you and tells you he's been on estrogen for an entire year and is now a woman and has "killed that person you knew. They no longer exist and you are not allowed to say their name or have thoughts or memories of them because I have killed them and replaced them with this glorious creature before you". Yes. I quote.

  • @Ali76564
    @Ali76564 День тому

    Thanks

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому

    I am learning to trust again its not easy, its something that i am struggling with please provide your insight and experience, having to learn to trust again

  • @janmargaret9311
    @janmargaret9311 День тому

    I was dependent on the approval of my sisters and got betrayed by them. God is the One I should have been dependent on for approval. Hard lesson to learn..

  • @Gingersnaps50
    @Gingersnaps50 День тому +4

    Thank you for recognizing the many types of betrayal and validating the healing that is required for all kinds of hurt in our lives.🤍

  • @JuanCarbajal-oe5pj
    @JuanCarbajal-oe5pj День тому +2

    🙏❤

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому

    Where does one start with Forgiveness and what does it look like when you experienced such painful betrayal?
    This is something I'd love to get your insight on, its something that im struggling with 🙏🙏

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому

    How do you set boundaries with those who betrayed you especially if it was friends

  • @SheilaBequette
    @SheilaBequette День тому

    Thank you so much for sharing this. My situation is that thensigns are very subtle, just slightly flirting, tipping the toe in the water and then saying it's nothing. And I have to apologize to you all.. I have made the 2-sides statement so many times... it's a pathetic perspective.

  • @lauriegast5425
    @lauriegast5425 15 годин тому

    Is there somewhere you have your study with Joel on Genesis 1 & 2?

  • @Ali76564
    @Ali76564 День тому +1

    People fail

  • @michellemorkel5956
    @michellemorkel5956 18 годин тому

    Great one Jim two sides, spuse Infidelity and my side fidelity

  • @saraabel8813
    @saraabel8813 День тому

    Which book is this discussion based on? Is there a new book?

  • @psychemmm
    @psychemmm День тому

    Please do this. Do sit. Have a reteeat. Do you say Haven Place?

  • @lowings848
    @lowings848 День тому

    💔