We Married After FIVE Months! | Big Fat Gypsy Weddings
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2021
- For Irish Traveller girls, there are three big milestones in their lives: Their Holy Communion, their Hen/Bachelorette Night - and their Wedding.
Most freedoms such as leaving moving out, or even the house unaccompanied are only afforded to married women. So it’s no surprise that in traveller communities, young girls dream of marrying young - and fast.
In this video we follow Josie and Swanley as they plan their wedding and prepare for married life together. They have only been dating for four months.
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"I was a lot better built back then"
Bruh, you ain't 45, you're still a damn teenager
Your comment took me out! 😂😂😂😂
But he looks 45 tho
Not to mention that was only 4 months prior. 🙄😆
Ha crack up
Haha and it was only 4 months ago 🤔😂😭
When you see her bedroom and the things that she likes you realized what a child she still is.
umm no that's called purity but at least you can identify it
@@tamakikawaii949 purity - 6 kids with 4 different men?! OK....
@@tamakikawaii949 if you associate child likeness to purity then that’s pretty sus
@@alicewharton7916 it’s not sus, the younger someone is the more pure they are. It’s why people find babies and dogs cute.
@@whatever7588 people don’t find babies and dogs cute based on purity tf 💀
The whole thing, the dresses, the cake, the laughing during the vows, it’s like a children’s party.
Then the dancing like strippers, the tears as the wedding ends.
It’s their tradition, but it’s sad that the girls are not allowed any dreams or aspirations beyond getting married.
It's exactly like a children's party. The laughing during the vows was ridiculous. I don't think they should have been married if they couldn't stop laughing. That's the serious part. And the stripper dancing, oh my gosh. Each girl trying to best the next one at a wedding. So classy. I guess that's how they stay fit?
If it's TRUE love you probably will laugh during the vows🤷♀️
@@user-xe1nr6er5q Not true, I got married 6 months ago and I was looking deeply and lovingly into my man's eyes, as was he to me. We had to wait 6 years, 3 of which we could not see one another as we were in different countries. He was finslly able to come to the US from Canada and we were married and it was the best day of my life. Lots of smiles and giggles as my little nephew yawned loudly during our ceremony, but the vows were taken seriously. It was amazing. And we will be together forever. Our story is unique, but I won't get into all of that, I just know it's definitely deep and real love.
@@heather_smallwood yall haven't been married that long sis. Give it time.
@@user-xe1nr6er5q Why so cynical? You know nothing about us or what we've been through. We will make it because we put the effort into our marriage every single day. I'm sorry, but you are either very young, or bitter about something. We're in our thirties and have waited a long time for the right person to come along. "True" love can and does happen.
With the hypersexualization of the girls, starting at such a young age, I would be astonished if there isn’t a great deal of sexual abuse within this culture.
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Yesss!!!
Priscilla from the U. S. Version talks about it. She was molested and her family blamed her cuz it "dirtied" her and noone would want her or something like that.
She got out though, thankfully.
yes, and if you can handle it, you should look into the “grabbing” tradition. it’s absolutely disgusting
@@clarie4497 wait where did you hear this?! I know Priscilla from the US was bullied but assumed it was because she was beautiful and broke away from the lifestyle but molested?! That poor girl. Thank goodness she and her mother both got out, they were two of the better ones on the US version
I’d cry if I was prepared since childhood to live this type of life.
Well if you were "brainwashed" to live like this and everyone around you lives like that you prolly wouldn't cry since you don't know any better.
@@jaime7658 its called they chose to live like that
@@memeslove9535 Yeah, some of them choose to live like that because they don't know any better.
You wouldn't know any different, it's normal for them
I'd run a mile away from them poor girl she's lovely
Parts of this broke my heart to watch. At a wedding, nobody should ever have to console the bride, by saying “... we’ve all been through it, you’ll be ok...” as the bride is fighting hysterically crying.... that marriage is doomed, from before they even said “I do”😔
You are correct, based on comments, they divorced after 18 months and had a daughter. Hope she goes back to school at some point.
Every bride is upset at leaving their home and family
They have a baby now
That's why it's good for males and females to have some INDEPENDENCE AND ADULTHOOD between being a CHILD LIVING WITH THEIR PARENTS, and being an ADULT LIVING WITH A PARTNER. That's why CHILDREN SHOULD NOT MARRY. In any culture.
@@caleriasand8237 I wasn't upset to leave my parents home and start my life with my husband. Every bride isn't in tears for the next chapter of her life.
After watching a bunch of these I've noticed it would be so much easier if the brides would get in to these dresses once they get to the church.
I think having a huge dress that will hardly fit out of the door is actually a goal. Getting to the church is a personal parade. I don't see how the pure white dress didn't get trashed with it dragging the ground and her walking in the drive and parking lot.
Or make the whole fluffy / puffy part with wet toilet paper, wait for it to dry in mould. Then go crazy with crystals, feathers , glitter ...etc .
BOOM, a lightweight yet flamboyant gown.
That’s what they want though. Big a dress that they can hardly fit through from anywhere.
Most girls get scars from their dresses. “If you don’t get scars on your hips, your dress want good enough”.
Me too...rediculous seeing them trying to get in a carriage or car with that huge pouffy dress/skirt.
Marrying someone you've known for 4 months is madness but at 16 it's utter insanity! tradition or not
And marrying someone you've been with for more than 2 years is dum🤷♀️ cause you wasted alot of time to be mrs and mr. (I agree with you I was just stating my own opinion)
@@user-xe1nr6er5q No it's not dumb. It's better to marry someone after being togther for 10 years and be absolutely sure, than to marry someone after 10 months and barely even know them, and not be sure if you guys are even compatible
@@Octavia-nd3br after 10 years, you clearly know each other well enough to be friends but some people know after 10 months they want a real relationship.
@@user-xe1nr6er5q If you don't know them well enough for you to consider them to be a good friend, then y'all aren't ready to commit to each other for the rest of ur lives
@@Octavia-nd3br re-read what I said...
"The bridesmaids are in highlighter pink"
"Lovely"
This is where that British stiff upper lip must come in handy.
Stiff upper lip?
@@rachelcookie321 Trying not to look shocked or amused.
Lol! Definitely
I thank god everyday that I got the British stuff upper lip from British mother. It comes in handy.
No 19 year old I've ever met looks as old as this guy.
He looks 45 lmao
Wolfie from The Inbetweeners anyone?
Right? He reminds me of my ex when I was her age in some ways but he look like my ex who is in his 30s dude is not 19.
I have a feeling he might be older there just saying he's 19 on the documentary for legal reasons
@@kacey6607 same! I had an ex who looks like him now versus how he was at 19. I’m thinking mid 20s maybe 30s. I don’t think they want to freak out the viewers or like you said for legal reasons.
Her laughing all through the vows and the “help me” written on his shoes were telltale signs of the divorce that soon followed
They did end up divorced lol
Thats a lie...the last update was she was pregnant.
Gypsys domt divorse theyre catholic
@@mrsa9130 you missed the article that said they divorced. She had a baby girl and then it fell apart shortly after. The site they were living on was contaminated. They were given a settlement which he kept and spent on himself which angered his wife. She filed for divorce and then threw a divorce party where she burned her dress
Iconic @@cherrytraveller5915
he seems like one of the nicer boys I've seen on this show. good for her
Are you nuts?! He's a convicted thug at that point then got convinced of assault later on!! Yeah what a dreamboat!!
What a great future....get married at 17, to a big dufus & then live in an RV camper the rest of your life! Every woman's dream......
I honestly couldn't have said it better myself
I was wondering if they end up moving into a home when/if children come along.
Their divorced now
@@rialawlor9377 full story please 🙏🏻
I agree, I dont understand the gypsy parents why they dont think college is a must. . All they want there children to do is grow up and get married and have kids, and repeat the same cycle
"I did it, so she has to do it." That's it, Mom. Don't want better for your children or anything...
It’s like a circle
@@techannjones2749 what?
It's their culture----they're pulled out of school very early on so that they never learn about other ways of life, won't be "polluted" outside thinking, such as what you just blathered off.
Talking like that directly to a gypsy woman would get you "unalive" if anyone overheard it, and that is no joke. You NEVER, EVER cut down the culture of others, no matter how uninformed you are about it!
@@tamakikawaii949 they mean circle, like a cycle. A cycle goes in a circle. Because it never stops, it has no end.
Oh please. Why is it “better” to not follow your cultures traditions when there’s nothing wrong with them. Let them live and you live your life how you want
The groom just pacing by the tombstones had me crying laughing 😂
I was thinking 🤔 the same thing...
And all the guests just chilling by some graves
@@harsharagoonanan2310 and on them too lol
Mi parents dated for 3 months, but they were 28 and 29 years old. They stayed married for 30 years until my dad passed away in 2020, they were true soulmates
‘The girls can’t drink before marriage’
Everyone must be married ‘cuz how the heck does one dance like this sober 🤔
Hahaha. Good one.
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have seen a lot off those girls drunk out of there minds...
maybe those man think they dont drink,they must be so naïef...🤣🤣🥰
It’s quite confusing the clothes the gypsy girls wear and then the morals that they have which are quite strict
That's rape culture summed up for you 🤦
This is a TV show with paid actors depicting a negative stereotype 🤡 if you have met you know that they are extremely modest and steeped in cultural and religious beliefs
Maybe they have the right idea - women, everyone, should be able to wear whatever the hell they want without some goofball seeing it as an open invitation to attack them. Clothing shouldn’t equate to morals and if it does then apply it to yourself (to pre-empt any confusion I don’t mean you specifically) and not others.
@@marystinebriner7644 can't be Christian religious beliefs FOR SURE.
@@Selahhhhhhhhhhh Yes actually most are Christian some are Orthodox as well as Catholic🙏 Ect there are many types of Roma communities throughout the 🌍 again these are actors
I remembered watching this episode. The part where she was dancing provocatively in her wedding dress, was the most hilarious moment in this episode. I’m glad dancing makes her feel better & calmer.
"weighing over 5 stone, her dress has a thigh-high slit at that front to give it that certain...spanish something" after she had described her hen do/bachelorette outfit as "spanish" and also the clip of her asking if she looks classy then the cut to her winding and grinding in her wedding dress hahaha the editing/narration is genius.
The slit on the dress "To give it that Spanish something"😂😂😂😂😂
Caught the narrator totally shading too lol. I snort laughed 😅
Dress is jus trashy looking
Hahahahahahaha lol 😂😂😂😂 Spanish something
So many mocking she looked beautiful
@@shannluv8331 hello😊
No one said she looked ugly I'm just quoting what the narrator said and the tone of how she said it, it was funny
The robotic/seizure dances are purely comical 🤣
😂😂😂
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And they're sober lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 like Sims
They saw "Hips Don't Lie" once lol
you know you watch this show alot when you can recognize the siblings
HOW IS HE ONLY 19?! Has anyone checked his birth certificate? 😂
Agreed.
I know a young man personally who, at the age of 17, was already so huge---6'9", 370 pounds---that nobody would believe he wasn't an adult already.
But his mother was one of my closest friends, so I knew her son was just a huge boy, like his bio father.
By the time he reached 21, and a fully legal adult, he was even bigger, and I don't mean fat.
That young man, whom I haven't seen in several years (I've moved 800 miles away), is one of the kindest, sweetest men on Earth, and highly protective of his four sisters, his mother, and his wife, but he's no pansy, and he'd rip a person limb from limb for making fun of him, or saying anything negative about them. I kind of get the feeling this young man in the video is somewhat the same way----and YOU need to learn not to be so judgmental!
Thete were 17 year olds in my high school with full on beards and some looked like grown men
'I was built up alot better back then"....
My guy, you met her 4 months ago 🙄😳
She saw him on Facebook four months prior, but the photos on there could have been older.
@@DajanaDarling very possible. I just found it ironic him saying that when their relationship is so new 😅
@@DajanaDarling that's what I thought, it might be an older photo
The way she was posing for pics while getting dressed was HILARIOUS
In the window ffs 😂😂😂
Yes
I can’t stop laughing at them dancing 😂 Wayyyyy too much confidence in those moves…. 😳
I asked my husband to marry me after a month and we have just celebrated 20yrs of married life. Sometimes you just know it’s right.
The way the were dancing was hilarious. They looked like fish out the water flapping around.
Oh the absolute Elegance of Josie as she takes her seat at the reception! Has there ever been such class???
Gosh the poor thing has no idea about life and she’s getting married to *that*😬
Time stamp?
Elizabeth Mack It’s not very classy to be rude and disrespectful towards others
I married my hubby 10 months after we met, woulda married him 5 months later but I had 2 finish HS. I graduated on June 2nd married on July 1st and 22 years later we r Happily still in love and together. It can last even marrying young, but it has to be the right person.
The dancing on this show is always just pure trauma
The dancing in the wedding dress at 9:39 nearly killed me
@@cakegasm9831 extremely scary 🤣
@@cakegasm9831 its giving gta club dancer vides
Is this real life?
@D M me too, it reminds me a lot of belly dancing
There is no way in hell, I would’ve dropped out of high school, to marry a broke-ass dude, who looks older than my 17 year old cat and the I.Q of drywall. Hell NO! I would have preferred being waterboarded and putting up with 24 hours of Economics taught by a monotone half dead teacher…
It's not an actual legal wedding. They don't sign a marriage license.
Lol
Don't bring the cat into this! He's innocent!
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@@ashleysims4281 😂😂😂
I feel sorry for them they are such kiddos, she just looked at it like a big joke 😢 Being married isn't a big joke. She showed more emotion leaving her family than she did saying her vows 😞☹😪
I also got married after meeting the man of my dreams 6 months earlier, but we were 32 and 36. 😁🤪 Still going strong 5 years later, no regrets! ❤️
Uh okay
@@lem0nk3t ,?
That's different though you two were old enough to experience a bit a life during your prime youth before setting down. These couple didn't
@@ChibiCookiexX Absolutely, it was just a comment on the fact that getting married quickly (despite your age) is seen as something weird and non-lasting in most western countries. But of course there are many things that play a part in it, age being one of them in many cases.
Like my siter in law. 10 years later they divorced.
I can't with their dance moves 🤦♀️
Imagine acting that way SOBER too!! God at least drunk is an excuse!!!
Stop ,they look good😬😳😆🤣🤣🤣 (kidding)
😂😂😂😂😭😭
Seal .. president of perfect comment 🤣✋
@@breannegiard4910 that’s funny 😂
Not to be *THAT* person but when I think I could have been barely literate with a grade 6 education stuck in a tiny little trailer that I alone am duty bound to clean between my duties as a brood mare while having a husband with the intellectual capacity of pillow drool, suddenly my life doesn't seem so bad...
😂 well said Dayna
Can NOT stop laughing at these comments !!!!!
@@Peace4evermore - Me too! 😂🇨🇦
Pillow 🤤 drool 🤣🤣🤣
Plus the emotional range of a teaspoon to boot!
I love these moderators they make me laugh every time “slit to give it a little Spanish something” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s the mother dressing like them on the hen night for me 😂😂
It’s interesting that they have to be supervised non stop but also they’re like half naked all the time
How does their dress code correlate with behaviour? Are u insinuating that the way they dress means they are untrustworthy or promiscuous?
@@jg7873 well street walkers wear similar outfits. Just a fact.
@@jg7873 I don’t think the point is that there is any issue with the girls themselves. It calls into question the thinking of the adults. Why go to the lengths of rabidly protecting a girl’s virtue, employing chaperones everywhere they go to keep up appearances and practice shunning if they don’t fall on line, but allow them to dress so skimpily at such a young age. It’s one thing if you’re a grown adult and you make an informed decision to dress that way. More power to you. But get your babies off that pool table.
Straight TF up oxymoron
Get his hair done?????
Getting married at 17 and you’ve known the guy 4 months to go live in a trailer.
The dress oh man 🙃
And they suppose they are brought up respectful, my mum would of kill me even if I introduce her to a guy I’ve known 4 months let alone marry him 🤣
@@rebeccaduggan1211 hey if your feet touch the floor when you sit down, you’re ready to be married as far as they’re concerned 😅
Someone should teach them how to dance! "The marital trailer" 🤣
She didn’t say she looked forward to growing old together, she said “growing up together” wow
You didn't see the help me on the shoe??
@@_stanbts4life_810 I did
@@chelseyhussein7899 what does it mean??
@@_stanbts4life_810 I think it was sarcasm. Like playing at he wasn’t ready.
@@chelseyhussein7899 what if it was fr?
They were SOBER while dancing. 😂
They are children. They do not know what they are doing.
My daughters would literally kill me if I went out dressed like her mother.
I might pick mine up from school like that when they misbehave
@@banannas2300 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Her mother's probably barley 30 if you think about it -- I was surprised to see that too though
@@banannas2300 I would just die😂😂😂
@@lauralobato7417 ,
This one had my jaw actually dropped for the whole thing.
Groom changes into his favourite wife-beater undershirt to cut his own wedding cake, then throws bits of it at his new wife’s dress..???
Sickening and horrifying.
@Shelagh Jackson: I was shocked too - in fact my mouth actually dropped open! I’ve never see wedding cake thrown at a bride before!
@@elaineculbert8594 OMG, I was like save some for the guests.
It's tradition to shove the cake in eachothers faces, it was mentioned on another gypsy wedding show. No excuse for the vest though.. 🤔🤣
I feel like this guy has shown more care and love for his soon to be wife than any of the other boys/men have. He may be a bit doofy but he seems to love her.
Can't wait to cook and clean for the rest of my life!!! Just kill me.
Better than out drinking on drugs sleeping with multiple people
@@memeslove9535 - If you say so! I totally disagree. Drugs and sex are far more interesting than cooking a pot roast and scrubbing the loo.
@@memeslove9535 omg...is that what they thought you...
or getting married or on drugs???
guess what???
girls can go to school get an education and get a verry good job to support themselfs...
girls/woman dont need to depend on a worthless guy anymore in 2021...
+plus bopping babies
@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 💯
It blows my mind that they have all these other rules but the girls from being a toddler are faked tanned,made up like a drag queen but dressed and dancing like strippers. Am so glad my parents left all this behind when they got married. It's insane.
Strippers have far better dance moves.
Your parents grew up as Travellers?
@@reecee2941 agreed. They could have taken some tips from strippers or real belly dancers. The moves were not sexy…
@@angelinimartini Most belly dancers do NOT dance like whores!
@@miryamamar5442 umm yeah… although one may say they dance a bit like harlots then. They are definitely quite sensual. Although the tribal belly dancing is a bit less so. But looking at belly dancers like my personal favorite Didem… she steals hearts.
The thing we all need to consider is how much our environment, culture, supportive resources, financial circumstances, and health play into our ability to make good decisions. So many times, we judge from afar based on our own privilege and circumstances without considering that the person we're judging or counseling doesn't have the same options or supportive surroundings readily available for them. Most of us are doing the best we can with what we have to work with, and humans as a group need to keep that in mind and just be kind.
I would absolutely love to attend a gypsy wedding, they put some much effort in 😍
@Farla Bau it's traveller , Spice points ?,
@Lolapaloza they don’t call themselves gypsies, other people do. The dont want to be called gypsies and prefer travellers.
This was truly a children’s wedding……in every aspect. But if they’re happy, congratulations to them.
They got divorced 18 months later
@@lesleyd1987 I can't say I didn't see it coming
@@lesleyd1987 😆not suprised!
@@lesleyd1987 LMAOO does it say where
they’re divorced now and she has 6 children with 4 different men!
I find it so bizarre that the girls are always watched, not allowed to drink until married and chaperoned to “keep their purity” but they dress, act and dance so sexually suggestive 🤷🏼♀️😂
That’s where I get confused a bit too lol
Suggestive? Thats sexually aggressive lol
It's pretty disgusting
It's because they're not allowed to enjoy, but they have to be entertaining to look at for the men
It's nasty
They’re literally moving their bodies idk why anyone would sexualise that it’s not a sexual act
“Growing up together” how cute and true is that 😍 congrats guys wish you the best
This episode is EVERYTHING!
It's a sign! The limousine is late and the groom was late, it was sign saying " Don't do it!" You're laughing through your vows, and the groom has " Help Me" written on the soles of his shoes for a joke, and marriage isn't joke. It can be fun, but it's also work. Definitely not ready to get married from what I see.
They got divorced not long after so spot on!
@@soomysaleem351 AHA, You see! You guys see?! Rennigade called it!
He was hoping to show up when she was 18 🤣
@@MSW96 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂lol
Tbh - I’ve seen a lot of “help me” written on shoes … it’s never funny
‘What’s a non racist word to call them? Oh Indian’ we just gunna glance pass that 🤦🏾♀️
I actually loved his sincerity and attempt of being "politically correct".........warm smile
I didn't realize the word Pakki was classed as racist. It is simply short for Pakistani.
@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat People use it in derogatory way to refer to everyone from South Asia. That’s why it’s considered racist.
I have actually commented on another video about the racism. Travellers are forever accusing none travellers of racism, but I think they have that backwards.
@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat it is racist
I have been living in Spain for 5 years now and I never saw a single person dressed that way👏👏😂
People in Spain aren’t claiming that “Spanish something” 😂
The dancing kills me every single time 😂.
"Getting lost for over an hour" and asking 4+ people for directions on a way to church, despite Satnav being right in front of him 😂😂
Oh my gosh was there a sat? I didnt clock that 😂😂 i did wonder 🤣😂🙈
Right! I kept screaming use it.
Literacy issues perhaps?
It was a go pro camera for the show
She couldn’t brush her teeth before she put her dress on🤦🏼♀️
I married my Greek husband after dating for four months. My father is traditional Irish and didn't want me to date men, so I waited for the right one by deciding ahead what kind of man I wanted.
I'm Irish-American and I didn't want to go to Greece unmarried, so we went there for our honeymoon. We're together now it's three years married, gone through many hardships, but we both feel an obligation to God first and each other. Things work out if you do the right thing, and understand that marriage is hard work, sacrifices, and being a humble, loving and forgiving person.
I think she looked beautiful…everyone has their own customs beautiful and I pray they have a blessed marriage
I will never understand adult men who want to pursue underage girls, it's grim.
They were 17 and 19 when they got married...not that big of a deal
He is just a kid himself. Just looks washed up and wrung out. But if she keeps up with the tanning booths, she'll be right there with him in no time.
@@belaayya5094 He got arrested for armed robbery.
@@andycalimara - not surprised. I'm a parole officer. I know the look.
@@belaayya5094 oooo please elaborate, human behavior intrigues me and I'd like to know how u could tell?
Imagine spending money on a dress and then your husband throws cake at it…
2:49 what is that for a makeup brush?!?! Anyone?! Anyone?!😮
the groom’s laugh gave me chills
I couldn't imagine getting married at 17 years old.
My mother did it but she did it to run away from abuse
I did it 😂🤦🏻♀️
Cant
@@nhannah4768 are you still married til this day?
I married at 15.
SPANISH OUTFITS? OMG I've never seen anybody in Spain going out with that. History girls, history...
ME DA UN INFARTO jajajajajajajajajaja
Jajajajajajaja por dioj
Si, aquí en Gran Canaria, si alguien se viera usando eso, estaría recibiendo mucha mala atención
I’m canarian irish and back home these travellers arent well liked, A lot of them commit thefts, not all tho
😂😂😂😂
This couple actually seemed into each other, perhaps even 'in love'. If their relationship succeeds, then it's amazing that they found each other given their culture; 16 and 19, geeeeez 🤗😬
It lasted a year and a half. This was filmed 12 years ago. She's had 4 children, and only 2 with the dopey dufus. Look her up on Facebook. She's now a Josie Kardashian!
He's in and out of prison apparently. Great start to married life.
Allegedly 19
@@kalayne6713 I think I read somewhere they divorced and Josie has 6 kids with 4 dads and she is currently in jail for beating a blind pregnant woman up at a nail salon and kicked her in the stomach deliberately trying to cause miscarriage.
@@proverbs31woman51
Oh man 🙈
I'm kinda shocked the mom went out in the same outfit, hers was one of the most revealing😂😂
Im a gypsy girl myself but married at 17 dropping out of highschool is just outrageous
Ive always wanted to ask if this an accurate representation of what goes on in your culture,, or if it’s all dramatized for tv views
We all are stupid at 17. One reason to wait. I do not know the statics of divorce for gypsies but I would not think it would be higher than 50%, which is the case in the US.
@@mariecruz6764 in Ireland its fairly accurate. Most leave school early and marry early
@@mariecruz6764 also I don't know about original commenter but most of the people in this show are irish travellers which are different to Romani gypsies
@@bookishlycaitz1914 Swanley is Romany (English Gypsy) and Josie is Irish Traveller
I was glued to TLC when this show aired. I loved the shows about the seamstress. I love that you’re posting these. I wish TLC would create a new series on sharing customs such as weddings indigenous to travelers. I’d love to know where all these couples are now.
I can tell you from personal experience they tend to get the worst of the worst of any community for their shows.
just like with their little pageant shows the individuals that agreed to the show were already considered a laughing stock of the community due to their extreme behavior before they went on the show. everyone else including my family refused. My parents received a few phone calls when I was younger TV stations wanting us to be on the pageant show everyone we talked to within the community turned it down. The person that wound up accepting was the living definition of crazy pageant mom.
Out of all the gypsy weddings ive seen, these two seem the cutest, i hope theyre happy.
I just wanna know where they get this kinda money.
I gotta say though, Swanley carrying his bride WITH her dress on for any length of time was impressive. those dresses are heavy AF.
My mother got married at 17 but she had a reason though, that reason was running away from abuse. The man she married aka my father saved her from the abuse that my nana did to her.
Did they survive?
i mean i absolutely get that, same thing happened to me. i married my best friend of 4 years at 17 and gained a whole new family from his side. one of the best things that happened to me though
Sad. But i glad she is okay now
@@xydoit2024 I think a lot of teens get married or pregnant to escape their abusive home life. I can’t imagine someone choosing that for themselves when they’re not under distress though.
@@carolinegallegos_ there are lots of people that had been "programmed" to get married in young age.
This is just so hilarious to watch. Sorry can't lie. Seems that the girl was just hyped with the idea of a wedding
It’s strange that it’s so traditional with so many restrictions placed on girls and women but the clothes they wear are often quite risqué
“To give it that sorta of Spanish something”
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 had me dying after that little dance… where ones at 🤣
Hair, makeup, dress and shoes? Ready. Oh snap, I forgot to brush my teeth🤦♀️
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Were those girls...were they *sitting* on tombstones in a church cemetery????? Were they really doing that? How unbelievably disrespectful and just wrong. What is this and why am I watching it? Good Lord.
That really sucks. “The biggest day of her life is over.” It’s sad that they’re expected to peak at 16 and then it’s downhill after that.
Congratulations to them both, I hope they will have a happy married life..
Is no one gonna mention the dancing 💀💀
I swear🤣 I hope somebody would tell me if I danced that badly lmao
He says "Josie what have you done to me?", like she had some control over the limo being late...
Y'know, the gypsy girls talk about how they aren't "allowed" to dress "slutty," because in one episode, one of the girls wanted to do glamour modeling (lingerie/swimsuit modeling), but she refused to wear almost everything the Page 3 stylist picked out for her, yet they already dress half naked for all these parties! It just seems weird to me that one thing is ok to wear, but something similar is not ok to wear just because it's typically meant to be worn in the bedroom only.
There are many different types of travellers (romany, english, irish, etc) depends on their type and also their traditions/religion. Some are more strict than others.
It's also depending on the context of the outfit. Some say bikinis and lingerie are the same; but your boyfriend can tell you in great detail the difference. As one outfit if for occasion, whereas the other is for a situation
Looks like they're all having fun, good for them!
Ain’t nothing Spanish about that lol
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Honestly the most well behaved gypsies I've ever seen in my time.
Right. No fighting and while gaudy af, wasn't bad as most of these shows
@@JodiLeaSnakeQueen yeah I mean.. good for them ,they're living life.. no carpark jumpings and they have respect for each other as family. I enjoyed seeing it for once. Also the groom wasn't wasted. He paced himself. Rare 🤣
Cuz the American ones be on some next level brawling
They are not nice at all .
Swanley was arrested over a fight at a friend's wedding, when a police officer was reportedly forced to defend himself with CS spray.
Josie was electronically tagged for three months for her part in a bust-up at a gypsy wedding.She was also in court for been part of a group stamping on a pregnant woman.
@@hollyshaw2469 I was only basing my opinion on what I seen in the video, I was just celebrating a dramatic free wedding that seemed lovely. Smoke in mirrors. Thats life. Crazy they did all that stuff , I hope everyone they hurt is okay especially the pregnant woman and baby!!
Swanley and his groomsmen made an effort to look nice. He seems like a big sweet teddy bear. Bless them young kids😁
Hahaha crazy to think how different weddings are in different Cultures!! Love how big the dress is! But I would be dying if I saw these girls dancing in person. Like what!?!
😟 How terribly depressing to be brought up in such a way. Pretty much an unpaid maid for life.
What in the 2000’s Fashions is going on here!!!😫😫
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This episode is from 2008
@@bonesofthestory9626 no it was 2010. But gypsy fashion is always a few years out of date. They still kinda dress like this
🙂 Very 1984.
This is some 2011 bad side of 2000s
big ups to Swanley for participating in the doco, he seems like a lovely bloke and Josie is also a good egg
You 2 have the biggest challenge in your life 🙏🏼 God bless you 🙏🏼💕
Love how graceful they walk in their gowns , just like swans them girls are 🥴
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Is no one going to mention how they laughed through their vows? As if they knew the whole thing looked like a joke
Exactly what I thought. Embarrassing.
Through 7:55-8:01 she does say she doesn’t know whether or not to cry or laugh, maybe that’s just how she expresses herself?
Not gonna lie if I was up there with the love of my life I would laugh to😭 because 1 i wouldn't wanna cry and also that's just how i Express myself.
they’re divorced now and she has 6 children with 4 different men!
@@ano1004 where’d you hear this??
The look on the man's face at the end. Have a blessed marriage
It’s the dance for me after putting on the wedding dress….. nice! Very nice 😅
Her hair was half straight half curled… lord
I'm more concerned about the state of that makeup brush🤢
Nshaun Soman her hair was beautiful nothing wrong with her hair
@@memeslove9535 lol if u say so
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I came for the dancing and it didn’t disappoint 😭
İ was like👁️👄👁️🤦🏻♀️🤢
The bodice of the wedding dress was beautiful and really nicely done, but the 'Slit' looked more like a Juraasic park resident took a bite right out of the front of it.
Such a young age for both kids getting married. Instead of experiencing all the joys , learning experience’s, traveling( I’m sure they’ve done that a lot already), and growing up in general they immediately rushed into marriage. It’s their tradition but I truly wish both of them could have grown more before becoming married so soon. Best of luck to them. I wish there would be a show every season ( 5,10 yrs later)revisiting these couples and seeing where they are now.