Four Times a Day with Ismael Loutfi | The Downside

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  • Опубліковано 28 лип 2024
  • Comedian Ismael Loutfi joins to discuss getting divorced over the phone, having your second wife take your couples counselor for herself, making friends only after taking off his kufi, and why it’s okay to delay prayer in order to do a podcast.
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  • @Lerkero
    @Lerkero Рік тому +19

    1:03:25 - the way russell stayed silent to wind up that joke was golden

  • @zarahshabs7936
    @zarahshabs7936 Рік тому +22

    There’s so many things that i love about this and this is so funny at the same time lol
    As a Muslim thank you so much for this representation. I feel like Ismael shared concepts of Islam that are very true
    At the same time there are things that could’ve been said differently or that I disagree with and that’s ok. We’re humannn

  • @dedbatt8869
    @dedbatt8869 Рік тому +8

    This is my new favourite podcast.
    I am a straight guy but also think you’re both hot.

  • @sazji
    @sazji 11 місяців тому +6

    "I don't think rules change human nature, they just change how it manifests itself." This is one of the most astute observations here. The concerted efforts of religious people to downplay, sidestep or excuse the behaviors that cast doubt on their claims about how effective their systems are in ensuring morality, demonstrate how conditioned they are to avoid honest discussion or contemplation of them. It's easy to look from outside and say, "well, that's obvious, how can people go on believing things like this?" But unless you've come up in some system like that (or any other cult - and in my mind, they are all cults, some are just more socially accepted than others), the more frightening it is to consider life and thought outside of it.
    Whether Gianmarco considers himself "full" atheist or not is kind of beside the point; what he is, is a person with full permission to examine and come to his own conclusions about the issues being discussed. of course we are conditioned by our cultures and families as well, but outside of actually hurting another person, there is no mortal punishment for entertaining a conflicting idea.
    The problem with strict religious systems (and I'm not singling out Islam here), is that people go into the exploration with a preconceived notion of what the answer should be. These ideas tend to get put into our minds at such a young age -- before we have the capacity for critical thinking -- that even when we are trying to be unbiased, it's difficult. Both Christianity and Islam not only tell us what the answer is from the outset, they also lay out a pretty fearsome set of punishments for failing to believe the "right" answer.
    Only with that level of indoctrination could someone say that a baby suffering and dying of cancer is okay because it goes to heaven, and they God, who knows all, needed to inflict that on its parents in order to test them. He even acknowledges that it sounds fucked up.
    I doesn't just "sound" fucked up, it is ducked up, and the religious system doesn't allow him to say that without an immediate "but" followers by apologetics. He's arguing with his own sense of decency there. Because he obviously is a very decent person.

    • @M1ntt806
      @M1ntt806 8 місяців тому +2

      Hard agree! If I had a child and a person that I know and trust told me that my child who had cancer is actually just getting tested and will eventually get to go to heaven I'll tell them to fuck right off, let alone some person who supposedly existed 1500 years ago and slept with minors.

    • @JustLisnin2
      @JustLisnin2 5 місяців тому +4

      I completely agree. And I hate to say it, but Ismael's take on Islam is typical of men because the rules aren't enforced. I can't speak about his family specifically, he said they're chill, but oftentimes the families indulge the men and punish the women. Just watch the Dina Hashem episode of this podcast. She talks about how her mom hired a private investigator on her. My parents would have done the same. When you're more "comfortable" in religion and you can reap the benefits without suffering as much of the backlash, it's easier to not seek out the truth. You just decide that what you have is good enough and that it fulfills you to a degree.

    • @sazji
      @sazji 5 місяців тому +1

      @@JustLisnin2 Looked at in historical perspective Islam itself did grant women a lot more rights than the dominant society of the time. And more than some Islamic societies do today, because everybody interprets their religion through their present culture; it’s not all top-down. That is the reason we have Sunnis and Shiism, for example - two very different social orders adopted the same Islam, but adapted it to their previously held systems.
      But even with those differences in mind, women do tend to get the short end of the stick, because they were and have remained intensely patriarchal and patrilineal societies.

    • @JustLisnin2
      @JustLisnin2 5 місяців тому +1

      @@sazji I agree that people interpret Islam based on their culture, but I’m not sure it’s true that women got more rights across the board. Speaking from personal experience, my grandparents interpreted Islam more loosely than my parents, and women had more freedom in many respects. A lot of stories from Islam about women don’t resonate with things I know from my own Arab culture personally, but my parents adopted the (more restrictive) religious tenets and dropped the cultural ones. So it’s a mixed bag.

    • @sazji
      @sazji 5 місяців тому

      @@JustLisnin2 Like I said, they don’t get equal rights. At the time that Islam appeared, they got more rights than women did before that point, but we are talking a long time ago. Certainly not comparable with what any woman would reasonably expect today.

  • @Atuchy
    @Atuchy Рік тому +5

    32:39 for anyone who is looking for the camp divorce story from UA-cam Shorts

  • @reemghamdi57
    @reemghamdi57 Рік тому +6

    I loved this episode, so fun and interesting.
    Thank u

  • @kellyinCT09
    @kellyinCT09 Рік тому +4

    Yes! I needed something good for my drive...so looking forward to this!🤘🥰

  • @annarosen9706
    @annarosen9706 Рік тому +12

    Only 9 something min in & already 😂. “I’ve intended to be a good person my whole life & I’ve done Jack shit” .. “that’s not true”.. “ahh”.. and the whittling prayer down stuff.. okay, I know. It’s all amusing/interesting, no need to say so habitually. Thx again for the endorphins though 👍 😅😅
    Edit: finito & great podcast u both, great guest.. all the stuff. 🌻
    Omg, wait.. Who tf shooshes? 😂

  • @jamessudek2125
    @jamessudek2125 Рік тому +2

    Imagine one cult member who aknowledges that he doesn't do what his cult says to do criticizing another cult's members for diluting and not doing what their cult says to do.😂😂😂😂

  • @MajoroTom
    @MajoroTom Рік тому +6

    this how socrates and plato be talking

  • @EXILEDEARTH
    @EXILEDEARTH Рік тому +2

    I want some sweet tea now.

  • @iDigsGiantRobots
    @iDigsGiantRobots Рік тому +2

    Kinda refreshing to see innocent curiosity about Islam and Muslims in English speaking UA-cam 😊

  • @iDigsGiantRobots
    @iDigsGiantRobots Рік тому +20

    Mohammad's first wife was 20 years older than him but you don't see anyone starting with that 😂

    • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
      @Obi-Wan_Kenobi Рік тому +4

      15 but yeah, your point still stands.

    • @sazji
      @sazji 11 місяців тому +5

      Why should they? She was old enough to make her own decisions.

    • @M1ntt806
      @M1ntt806 8 місяців тому +6

      I'm sorry but how does matter AT ALL when considering what he did after dating someone 15/20 years older than him? That's like saying I donated 50 bucks to a homeless guy that one time so maybe I should be allowed to rob a bank now

    • @stargirl91291
      @stargirl91291 2 місяці тому

      @@M1ntt806what did he do?

  • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
    @Obi-Wan_Kenobi Рік тому +6

    I was actually pretty impressed by how accurately and valiantly Ismael was defending and moreover explaining Islamic theology. Good job on him!

  • @MusicalPlayground717
    @MusicalPlayground717 3 місяці тому

    38:58 . . . That part about bacon and why there’s suffering in the world.

  • @RayOfHope8
    @RayOfHope8 Рік тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹

  • @rebeccaernette1749
    @rebeccaernette1749 20 днів тому

    I know thia was posted a year ago, but ive been listening for only a few months. Im a Christian, and i love learning about other religions. But i find Christianity to be true because there are no inconsistencies. The old testament predicts most of the new testament. Believe what you would like, i just believe Christianity to be true

  • @maya-mu3ce
    @maya-mu3ce Рік тому +2

    my husband grew up muslim and we got married at age 20 (him) and 21 (me). we’d been dating since we were 16/17 and have been friends since 10/11 so we knew each other really well and fully trusted each other. we eloped so we could have better financial aid which allowed me to attend uc berkeley on a full scholarship for my last two years. everyone assumes we’re religious because we got married at such a young age when in reality our relationship was pretty mature and it was extremely convenient for us at the time. we got each others names tattooed on our left ass cheeks for our 6 month anniversary, so now i’ll have an extremely muslim name on my ass for the rest of my life (also the name of a prophet i think).

  • @PeperoTheChihuahua
    @PeperoTheChihuahua Рік тому +11

    His point about Christianity being very diluted and without any 'rules' makes a lot of sense to me, as a ~christian~ too.

  • @ayacherra
    @ayacherra Рік тому +3

    As a Muslim I also think that sex after marriage doesn't make"the marriage"better but you as a person better . Like when you control yourself or think of sex as smth not to do nonchalantly. Also sex after marriage actually better because if anything happens like the woman gets pregnant or smth like that it's recorder or known by a lot of people and the man can't run away and they both will get what they deserve

    • @Obi-Wan_Kenobi
      @Obi-Wan_Kenobi Рік тому +1

      Yeah, there is a lot of responsibility that becomes associated with the act which is important.

  • @anegginthesetryingtimes7636
    @anegginthesetryingtimes7636 Рік тому +3

    1:11:15 , speaks for itself

  • @GleePotter8468
    @GleePotter8468 11 місяців тому

    39:42 on a personal level, i disagree. I don't believe in god but i completely understand why some people do

  • @jamessudek2125
    @jamessudek2125 Рік тому

    Weird death is all over Hollywood movies. I guess comedy is different because people are looking for laughs in comedy.

  • @mehrshahzadkhan
    @mehrshahzadkhan Рік тому +1

    He looks like dr hasnat khan diana’s date

  • @jamessudek2125
    @jamessudek2125 Рік тому

    Next time he is on more about comedy and humor maybe.

  • @TheOmar1419
    @TheOmar1419 Рік тому +4

    Bro can you please let your guests talk?

    • @wgv929
      @wgv929 11 місяців тому

      Amen.

  • @jamessudek2125
    @jamessudek2125 Рік тому +2

    Stop with this bs if you don't have belief. Some of us were very in deep religious cult worshippers at one time before we escaped the cult. I do have beliefs. Just because we don't believe in your cult's beliefs doesn't mean others don't have beliefs.

  • @soumayaelghoul6220
    @soumayaelghoul6220 Рік тому +4

    24:23 Prophet Mohammed (Peace be upon him) married a woman who was older than him, so technically he followed his steps

  • @mehrshahzadkhan
    @mehrshahzadkhan Рік тому +11

    Broo you cant talk about Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) like this and u can’t disrespect him at all

    • @thomashigginsmusic
      @thomashigginsmusic Рік тому +10

      Yea you can!

    • @pissoff247
      @pissoff247 Рік тому

      Who cares. It's all made up anyway

    • @FalahiMullet
      @FalahiMullet Рік тому +1

      What minute did they do that

    • @aishax01
      @aishax01 Рік тому +11

      They actually didn't, they were being respectful and asking questions to be fairrrr

    • @ibrahimali-mi7hq
      @ibrahimali-mi7hq Рік тому

      nah you can ur just a sad person