He Could Be Here In 3 Weeks!! 3rd Trimester Q&A

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  • Опубліковано 4 сер 2022
  • He Could Be Here In 3 Weeks!! 3rd Trimester Q&A
    Ahhh!! Can you guys believe how close we are?! 🙊😍 sooo excited! Hehehe. Here’s a chill Q&A answering all the questions about the third trimester! Hope you all enjoy. Go comment what videos you’d like to see me post before baby boy gets here! 💜
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    ‪@PaulandMorgan‬

КОМЕНТАРІ • 66

  • @MorganOlli
    @MorganOlli  Рік тому +11

    Hey Momo's! Thanks for watching! Comment below and let me know what video you want to see before Luca is here! 😄

    • @believeitornotmary9124
      @believeitornotmary9124 Рік тому

      Morgan and Paul gotta protect Luca
      from this evil world people nowadays are crazy evil..they hurt kids and babies…for no reason..this world is crazy….please please protect your baby boy…I’m begging you 2.

  • @Amanda-zt7fu
    @Amanda-zt7fu Рік тому +25

    Heeeyy. Have you researched postpartum depression and anxiety? Be careful with it, it’s rough. If you have to go back onto meds, don’t feel defeated about it. Those first few weeks can be dark. 💚

    • @kamrieriley6411
      @kamrieriley6411 Рік тому +1

      Agree with this too

    • @WeAreRoyalty7
      @WeAreRoyalty7 Рік тому +2

      Yea postpartum depression is overwhelming, hopefully she doesn’t go thru it 🙏🏽

  • @megandelli1
    @megandelli1 Рік тому +11

    Sleeping when you have your first baby is amazing. I got great sleep back in the day. They make you sleep more than you ever did before because you’re up at night anyway and if you lean into it and sleep instead of doing unnecessary chores your body will thank you :)

  • @kristenmicula9337
    @kristenmicula9337 Рік тому +4

    I’m 15 weeks and I swear my MIL tells me every time she sees me “get your sleep now……” 🙄LOL.

  • @MrsMuffin11
    @MrsMuffin11 Рік тому +3

    People in the comments like "go to the hospital"
    yall dont realize home births are much safer then they were in the past...Pregnant women in the 3rd trimester go to the doctor (or they SHOULD go lol) literally every week to make sure everything is going right and baby is healthy and is in a good position. Also, they can tell you if it's not a good idea to have a home birth. But coming from my aunt that's a nurse (I asked her), it's safer now as long as you are taking care of yourself and baby and are making sure, like Morgan is, that a home birth is a safe option for everyone involved. Things can always go wrong, but things can go wrong even in the hospital. Chill out and let the lady live her life, people!! ❤

    • @debrahill9456
      @debrahill9456 Рік тому +1

      Right? At the end of the day it’s her and Paul who has to raise and discipline the child not everyone else it’s their kid not everybody else’s.
      Everyone else can mind their own business…and leave them alone.

  • @alisha4012
    @alisha4012 Рік тому +7

    You and Paul are going to be great parents I just know it God bless
    I love the verse that says don't worry about tomorrow for tomorrow we'll worry about itself we can worry about these things but why it's all in God's hands

    • @debrahill9456
      @debrahill9456 Рік тому +1

      Exactly they’re kid their responsibility
      They can raise and discipline their kid however they want too.

  • @sinirebekka6339
    @sinirebekka6339 Рік тому +4

    It's so fun watching your videos and being just a few days behind you in my own first pregnancy 😄 it was so good hearing again some honest answers about the struggles in pregnancy. And of course the wonderful things too! Let's try and enjoy the last weeks we get to keep our boys so incredibly close 🥰

  • @rebeccaanne5255
    @rebeccaanne5255 Рік тому +11

    Don’t listen to the scaremongering with sleep. I have two children, both were fussy babies and still had better sleep than I did carrying them. They are now 5 and 1 and get 12 hours sleep.
    I was also excited to give birth and actually enjoyed it I didn’t panic I trusted god and I felt a peace throughout. You will be okay, don’t listen to negativity 💗

  • @brimarie4196
    @brimarie4196 Рік тому +3

    Exciting! Keep in mind only 5% of babies come on their due date, and most first time moms go about a week over due. It can be hard to wait, but it'll be so so worth it.

  • @jemimadeolinda1787
    @jemimadeolinda1787 Рік тому +2

    Eeeeeeek!!! I'm so excited 💃🏾

  • @bethelliot7140
    @bethelliot7140 Рік тому +3

    So excited!! 🥺😍🤗

  • @La-Vie-Of-Sadie
    @La-Vie-Of-Sadie Рік тому +4

    Loved this video. Can’t wait to see baby Luca

  • @Stephanieperry_music
    @Stephanieperry_music Рік тому +2

    Honestly, the noise that Squishy made in the beginning of the video is why I gave the video a thumbs up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @openlybookish
    @openlybookish Рік тому +2

    So excited for you and Paul for Luca to arrive so soon.

  • @lollnr3447
    @lollnr3447 Рік тому +4

    You will definitely sleep better when baby is here. Just be mindful to not let Luca get overtired during the day. I've found that when my little guy gets good naps throughout the day, night time is Soooo much better.

  • @tiffanysannicolas448
    @tiffanysannicolas448 Рік тому +4

    Going to sleep in your own bed after home birth is the best! So much comfier! You get to hear your babies little sounds. You get to see them next to you! And when you have to feed in the night you go RIGHT back to sleep because of the hormones released. Also, HIGHLY recommend silverettes (silver nipple covers) postpartum!

  • @mikaeladonegan2430
    @mikaeladonegan2430 Рік тому +4

    I am currently cuddling my 2 week old! First 3 nights after I had her I didn’t sleep at all. First night because your body releases so much adrenaline after you have your baby you just can’t sleep. Second night was sort of the same. Third night Was our first night home and we didn’t know what we were doing so she cried from 9 pm to 6 am…. But once we got into a routine it’s not that bad! They are up about every 2-3 hours but if you just try to rest when they sleep you end up getting enough sleep through the day. I slept worse when I was pregnant thanks to hip and pelvis pain. Also don’t be afraid to let God have your birth plan. I planned an unmedicated labor and ended up having to get induced for medical reasons and get an epidural for medical reasons but I know God had his hand on the whole situation.

  • @gabriellapavlov3308
    @gabriellapavlov3308 Рік тому +1

    Watching this at 34 weeks pregnant and I laughed a lot. Relatable

  • @OnlyJesusStudio
    @OnlyJesusStudio Рік тому +1

    I'm looking forward to see Luca😊🍼!! Both of you will be good and loving parents 😉 God bless you🙏

  • @jordynferrari4161
    @jordynferrari4161 Рік тому +4

    Sometimes the placenta won’t move until just before labor so just keep that in mind if it’s not moved🙏🏻 Either way praying for the best outcome for you and baby!🥰

  • @ButterflyElsy
    @ButterflyElsy Рік тому +1

    I think the waking through the night is seriously a precursor to the new born stage! If you want to nurse, the first few weeks you'll definitely not sleep *as well*, but that's because you and the baby are both adjusting to your new life together! Your body will totally be happier in bed, though! I couldn't wait to lay on my belly again!!
    The baby stage is the easiest to me! It's toddler-hood that has me feeling overwhelmed. lol

  • @rachelauker4034
    @rachelauker4034 Рік тому +2

    So informative & interesting as a women who has never been pregnant 😄👍🏻😁 love the video, thank you!💕

  • @colourfulbethany
    @colourfulbethany Рік тому +1

    Watching this whilst rocking my 8 day old 🥰 I had planned a natural water birth but ended up with an unexpected c-section, honestly I loved it though and I’m amazed at how quickly my body is recovering! Don’t worry if things don’t go to plan 🙏🏼

    • @colourfulbethany
      @colourfulbethany Рік тому

      Also I loved third trimester 😂 the first trimester was awful, in fact up until 20 weeks was pretty bad with sickness! But 21 weeks onwards was great and even up until 42 weeks I was sleeping well and felt pretty comfortable! Everyone is different haha!

  • @gabrielleglenn4307
    @gabrielleglenn4307 Рік тому

    My pregnancy was HORRIBLE, had HG. My labor and delivery went unfortunately really poor as well. BUT GIRL, praise the Lord, I made it through and my baby girl by 2 weeks old was sleeping 5-6 hour stretches and by 2 months old was sleeping through the night. Since about 3 months old she’s slept 10-11 hours through the night and still does at 11 months old. So as rough as my pregnancy and delivery was I seriously don’t think I’d trade the sleep I can get now for an easy pregnancy. Definitely worth it lol PS I did not want a C section, I was so against it but unfortunately circumstances happened that made that the best option and honestly yes, as long as baby gets here safe that’s all you’ll care about. It stinks but you move on and it’s still such a beautiful thing to have your baby in your arms you just kinda forget the sacrifices that got them there.

  • @calebandannalenz8358
    @calebandannalenz8358 Рік тому +1

    Late to the party but sleeping was AMAZING once I started nursing my baby! I seriously never slept so great in my life as when I was nursing. Just look into biological infant sleep and co-sleeping. You’re seeing a midwife so I’m sure you’re getting a lot of good info ;) also, the baby that kept me awake all the time I had oversupply issues. Usually colic in a baby is a sign of a deeper issue that can often be easily fixed!

  • @kittycommander1
    @kittycommander1 Рік тому

    I can't believe he's almost here!!!! It's crazy! I feel like you just told us you were pregnant.

  • @carmenharbin
    @carmenharbin Рік тому +1

    Love this! Where did y’all get your crib from?! Totally eyeing it for our nursery.

  • @Romans08.31
    @Romans08.31 Рік тому

    Not gonna lie… my sleep went to trash when I got pregnant and my son is 3 and I haven’t ever recovered because after the big belly was gone it was big boobies that leak and get you soaked even through nipple pads, the gaps where sleep occurred were okay but still rough but trust yourself, the only thing that helped us was cosleeping with our son because he is a big Momma’s boy ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I pray you have a better experience in the sleep department 🙏🏻

  • @iraflora1616
    @iraflora1616 Рік тому

    You killing the pregnancy!

  • @nicolegerard2907
    @nicolegerard2907 Рік тому

    yeah haha my daughter's 3 and I feel like I haven't slept in 3 plus years. I am pregnant again and both times I had pregnancy insomnia. You have just started to experience the next atleast year of your life. I hate to sound like a negative Nancy but having expectations of sleep.. . I just don't want to you to be disappointed if it doesn't happen. There are people out there who have magical babies but they are magical unicorns in the parent world. It's okay sleeplessness ispart of the beauty of parenthood. Early mornings of you breastfeeding your little one while sun comes up. The key is to find the beauty in all of it.

  • @ShannonAlexis96
    @ShannonAlexis96 Рік тому +4

    I'm so happy for you! I hope you get the home birth you're dreaming of.

  • @CrypticHowl
    @CrypticHowl Рік тому +4

    Hey, Cryptic Howl here. So happy for you! Question: will you be doing video reviews on sub gifts? Coz you should be expecting gifts from me very shortly and I'd love to see you and Paul's reactions 😊🤗

  • @MeganMarie1
    @MeganMarie1 Рік тому +1

    I’ve basically felt sleep deprived since I was pregnant with my first 6.5 years ago. 😂 I have four living children. Ages 6, 4, 2, and 4 months. Overall my kids have not been great sleepers, but my oldest was the worst and was a terrible sleeper for a LONG time. She was probably two before she slept through the night for the first time and it was still on and off the next long while. At 6 she still has the hardest time going to sleep. BUT, my littlest just slept 11 hours last night. He just randomly started doing it after a few weeks of waking up every hour. Overall when I do sleep, it’s a billion times more comfortable than when pregnant! And some nights now I do get lots of sleep. But also plenty of nights where I don’t and have no idea how I’m still functioning. Somehow I survive and keep chugging along. Not everyone has kids that are born as bad of sleepers as mine though. 🥴😂 Best of luck these last few weeks!

    • @johnpeake3560
      @johnpeake3560 Рік тому +1

      What you do when you feel scared or anxious about taking care of your baby, just place that in the Hands of the Lord and He will take care of all your worries! I know because I turned mine over to the Lord because they do not come with instructions and I just told Him that he would have to take care of them because I didn’t know how. God just loans them to us for a little while, but they are His!

  • @HOLINESSTOJESUS
    @HOLINESSTOJESUS Рік тому +2

    You’ll sleep beautifully if you have a rocking chair for sure 😭 at least I did

  • @hannahlamar3291
    @hannahlamar3291 Рік тому

    Labor is 90% mental in my opinion, if you can keep yourself in a good place mentally while in labor (which gets hard at transition) then you should be fine.
    Sleep is trippy post baby, you don't get a ton because at most baby will sleep about 3 hours at a time but you have so many hormones that you can function on way less sleep then you normally would.
    The only kind of abs I miss are the inner ones that help hold things in and my pelvic floor, definitely going to start working on those once cleared to work out again.
    Best of luck and all the prayers, I hope you get a beautiful home birth!

  • @estherm56
    @estherm56 Рік тому

    I slept better pregnant than I do now with my newborn 😅 the getting up every 2 hours in the night to feed and then not getting great sleep in between because he wasn't always settling well. So we take lots of naps in the day and make it work!😴

  • @WeAreRoyalty7
    @WeAreRoyalty7 Рік тому +1

    The only way to get good sleep is to put Luca to sleep on your bed an when he wakes up just give him the breast 😂 i did that with my second son an it was beautiful 😴 if your putting him in the crib you gotta be prepared to wake up every 2 hours to feed him, unless he’s a perfect baby that sleeps all night that would be a Blessing 😊🙏🏽 if you don’t have a bassinet get one to put it right next to your bed if you don’t want him to sleep in your bed. When he hits 6weeks - 2 months he can have a lil tummy time sleep it helps em sleep longer, i know people always say put them on their backs to sleep however tummy time sleep is good too.

  • @moonpriestess2274
    @moonpriestess2274 Рік тому +1

    ❤️

  • @Attirbful
    @Attirbful Рік тому +1

    I still hope you realize that, with all the health and comfort problems you describe, that these are also symptoms that a/n (immature or underage) girl or woman may feel who is forced to give birth against her wishes, while having children to care for, while having to hold a job (or several) to make ends meet, while attending school etc.. I sincerely hope that it gives you some perspective on the recent SCOTUS decision.

    • @MorganOlli
      @MorganOlli  Рік тому

      I am more pro-life than ever. 💜

    • @Attirbful
      @Attirbful Рік тому

      @@MorganOlli I believe that. However, is that pro the life of the child or the mother?!

    • @Attirbful
      @Attirbful Рік тому

      I guess, my question is, how far are you willing to be pro-life? Let’s take, f.e. the example of the raped ten-year-old who was refused an abortion in her home state? Or anyone in drastically different situations than your own? Can you imagine any situation in which the life of the mother may supersede that of an unborn (of course, within a reasonable time-frame, I am not going to debate third or even second trimester abortions)…? There is a case right now where a sixteen-year-old who is without a partner and an orphan (so, financially unable, without any support whatsoever) who is denied an abortion although the time frame is still within the legal bounds of her state legislation, simply because she does not have parents to consent to the procedure. Essentially, the argument is that she is not mature enough to make the decision of having an abortion, yet, she is supposedly mature enough to handle pregnancy and childbirth (as well as the various health risks that come with it) and - supposedly, raising the child. Do you thin that is responsible and fair? I would really like to know how you think about such cases…

  • @MegaTelenovela
    @MegaTelenovela Рік тому

    I think you cannot compare the sleep deprivation during the end of pregnancy and after birth, caring for a baby. It's not fair to say either is better because it's different life stages. One you're physically in pain and/or discomfort and the other you're feeding burping and changing nappies and playing every 2-3 hrs in 24 hr window. I have a 5 month old and it's definitely an adjustment to sleep. What I can assure you what I no longer have is the mindless freedom to sleep whenever I want and wasting time watching tv or youtube till 2am and then waking up at 7 and regretting going to bed early...

  • @DoctorKatherine
    @DoctorKatherine Рік тому +1

    Just had my first baby a month ago! Fun going through this with you! You can do this and you will be a great mama. ❤️

  • @yusufalsanad
    @yusufalsanad Рік тому

    Aside from hearing you and Paul speak of, you know what, so openly which is definitely a first for me (LOL), I just want to clarify that there are plenty of women who aren't as sensible when it comes to that topic, as opposed to it being "exclusive" to men which it isn't. I mean, what am I? ;D Haha ...But yeah, I always assumed that until the baby is born, a couple shouldn't sleep together. It seems I'm mistaken though. XD

  • @paigerenee4173
    @paigerenee4173 Рік тому +7

    How did we get to a point in society where hearing someone say "pregnant women" is so refreshing lol

  • @amywalsh4006
    @amywalsh4006 Рік тому +1

    I've never been pregnant before but I imagine it would feel quite weird suddenly not carrying all that weight after giving birth and being able to do all the things you found difficult with a belly, like putting shoes on etc

  • @Amanda-zt7fu
    @Amanda-zt7fu Рік тому +3

    Alssooooo. I had a 2nd tear with my labor. I had stitches. I’m almost 4 months PP and my vagina still hurts during sex. I hope you don’t tear and it feels good for you after. I’m praying my sex life goes back to normal 😭

    • @gabriellapavlov3308
      @gabriellapavlov3308 Рік тому +1

      It gets better around 6 months then bliss

    • @natalieschick6974
      @natalieschick6974 Рік тому

      It will I promise. I tore 2nd degree also and took about 4 months to heal. Even after the 4th month sex was still uncomfortable. We had to ease into it but it definitely gets better. You may find out the sex feels even better once you heal completely. I did! Don't hesitate to go to your doctor if you feel like you may not be healing.

  • @markmoore8399
    @markmoore8399 Рік тому

    I walk in circles in my apartment so yeah....

  • @Ashleemariee89
    @Ashleemariee89 Рік тому

    I slept better after baby,better quality but less sleep

  • @mysticthehorselover5979
    @mysticthehorselover5979 Рік тому +3

    Loved the video! Something I'm wondering is will you film the process of you giving birth and in labor? Kind of like the birthing videos on UA-cam? I'd understand if you don't I just think it might be kind of cool!

  • @karenbuckwalter6017
    @karenbuckwalter6017 Рік тому +3

    Happy for you...let me just say...with respect, go to the hospital. Better to be safe and thankful for the advances in medicine so we ladies even have that option. Love to you and your family.

    • @MrsMuffin11
      @MrsMuffin11 Рік тому

      Just let the lady live her life how she wants. It's not like shes not going to the doctor or taking care of the baby and making sure everything looks good. You also never know how easy or hard giving birth will be because everyone is different. My grandma could have had both my mom and my aunt at home, they practically walked out. My mom was in labor for 72 hours and had to have me through a C section, it's different for everyone. If her doctor and her and Paul are ok with it that's all that matters.