How To Hold a Dominant Masculine Frame (When Women Test You)
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I don't know what frame means to begin with. could you please show us many examples?
I mean in the field.
This is a great Video. This brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Interesting. Who is this counsellor, and how do I meet the person?
Thanks a lot. I just did. Impressive.
Fake comment
Go no contact and work on yourself bro ..there's definitely someone else in the picture
well... i left my "life's love" 6 months ago (she was going to leave me anyway) and i've been there. but i became kinda redpilled, so i knew the game before it started. now, after i saw many hours of Casey Zander videos ( first time in this channel) i understand MANY things that i didn't knew before and what i did wrong in my past relationship. now i'm getting to know a much better woman, and she fell in love with me pretty fast and pretty deep. keeping your masculine frame is MUCH more important than one would think, and that's where you should work yourself
Reading these comments I think most guys don’t wanna put this much effort to be successful in a relationship, but success with women is really just a byproduct of doing the self-work. We should be improving and pushing ourselves regardless. Master yourself and you will attract what you want. Do the work guys
Valuable advice that all men should take note. Most of the time the advice centers around projecting your image but the relationship aspect is what makes a lasting relationship. Speaking in terms of frame puts a lot of things into perspective, the masculine/feminine roles and defining clear boundaries from the beginning.
I'm from Brazil. When you put subtitles in English, I can understand the video. Thank you a lot!
Maybe, he should consider adding subtitles in Spanish and Portuguese.
I'm from Brazil too Man. Let me guess...peraí por que eu tô falando em inglês? Kkkkk
Você deve ter conhecido ele pelo canal do Nerd Sedutor, não é?
Learn English, it would be beneficial to improve your listening skills bro
I mean, I'm not a native English speaker myself, as a matter of fact, it's my third language, and I can understand everything he says, meaning, you can learn English well
@@sonicmaths8285 Meta AI and Google have models for live speech-to-text and speech-to-speech translation.
Kyle,
Your coaching/teaching style is refreshing. You are a voice of reason above the red pill community. Keep it going ⬆️📈
Damm man, you're so wise! I really feel you want to help people. I love that you share so much intense information instead of hiding it to the payment access.
Appreciate it 👊🏻 Imagine what the coaching is like
*When she tests you, don’t get defensive - just respond calmly, stay assertive, and let her see that you’re not easily influenced by her opinions or moods.*
Ok. This rate of speech is easier to pick up and understand. Thanks Kyle. Keep it up.
at both jobs i’ve worked at i’ve had women test me. and i think it’s because i was very quiet and stuck to myself. not a super shy guy. just don’t say too much. and i notice they would look at me a lot. i am physically attractive so i see why. but i notice when they would try to say something to me it would be something i could take as negative. and i would usually just smile when they poke jabs at me. one thing ive learned is you guys shouldn’t take women so seriously if they’re testing you. smile laugh or smurk lol then they know you don’t take what they’re saying seriously
This is awesome work, Kyle! Really love these tips especially #4. Keep up the great work.
They want you to pass the test. They want to feel the strength 💪🏼
Only women I can totally simp for are good enough for me.
Wrong they're looking for any reason to disqualify you
@@xxxsully420wrong they’re looking for a reason to disqualify *you*
A test can be passed or failed and they want you to be the type of man that passes it, if you aren’t you’ll reveal yourself.
Some want you to fail bad so they can feel more powerful than you.
@ I would argue that’s not a test but an excuse than
Great video.
You are on the road to becoming a big channel. Trust me, I see the gems and have a track record of spotting them through the years.
Just keep up the work, even if you have to drastically change, You will succeed in the UA-cam game. ;)
Thank you for existing.
one month ago I was suffering social anxiety. in this weeks I started to focus on myself (study, workout and goals) and watching your videos. I started little conversations, now I'm dating a 9/10 girl. I don't know how I can do it. It's magic😂
Oh, I was forgetting.... I'm 5 7 and she is 5 6. We all have potential
I think what’s been helping me more than this kind of like game strategy is actually learning how to have the healthy relationship more so than power and control because it cost me my relationship and I’m broke because of it
Don't ya just love it when dating coaches tell you you have to have a "business" you are working on? Whats their business? UA-camrs? lol
That just means having a life outside of the women so you won't have to be too focused on her and to avoid spending to much time in her presence to the point where she'll get bored with you and view you as too clingy and needy, thats why a life outside of her will keep you busy and distant from her, where her attraction for you grows exponentially through giving her space and avoid her from pulling away from you for smothering her with your constant presence and from being too needy and too clingy, thats something she will greatly appreciate you for,, bruh
Now that I'm in my 40s and I've dealt with hundreds of girls, I genuinely don't give a shit about a woman's tests. I'll just walk away to maintain my peace of mind because I simply don't care.
If she's genuinely attracted to you, she will test you to see if you're mentallly strong and ready to protect her in any situation that calls for you stand up for her,, by walking away you're letting her know that you're not mentally prepare, in her eyes you will look like a weakling she can't count on for her safety, bruh
@@oscargonza2748 By walking away I'm not mentally prepared? Why would I give two shits how some random girl views me? For the record, I'm not your bruh.
What i mean is, when you walk away, you're telling her that you can't deal with a little drama that is hardwired in women it's called female nature, it doesn't matter if she a high value woman or a Narc, it's in their biology to test the men they are attracted to see if that men is strong enough to keep her safe and the children you'll one day have with her.
Then I wish her best of luck finding a man who is willing to jump through her hoops.
@@Trazynn Unfortunately, there are far too many of those.
Thank God I born in a good country were ever parents believe in arrange marriage after listening your video i don't even need to have relationship I will mange marriage just like my dad is doing well thanks for the video clear up my mind I will recommend it to all my friends to believe in your self and workhard until your family find right person for you
Kyle, I can help you putting Portuguese subtitles in your videos (for free), just cause I like your content and I wish more people get acess to
Guys iits simple, just flip the script with we need to talk, you be the one saying that
Women deserve a man who does his best to pass all her tests. Let her go so she can have the freedom to find that man.
Great video man
Solid video!
So, in other words, we have to be perfect. We can't have worse day or even longer period in life. We have to stay alert all the time because our girls are constantly watching us and waiting for our mistake.
I know Kyle that You have right, and world nowadays looks like this.
It's sad.
My guy. Please lay off the youtube content and go talk to girls. This is what happens when you read too much and dont do shit.
Well said, Sir Kyle.
Great video bro 🏆
guys have self respect for yourself leave her immediately after she test you because you are not her toy to be played by her
Edit 7:55 sorry bro i already got challenged by a girl who was following me almost two months and when I ask her for date she said not now it was like what and i silently move on i met her again but this time she become no one for me and after a month half she regret what she done she still seeing getting closer when walk in public i say why the hell she need me now and i started my self respect attitude onn
Good books on frame - no more Mr nice guy, and Rian stone frame
It is essential to pass her tests.
Indeed
No cap
I have enough tests in my life as it is, no way im dealing with these as well like some simp
Perfect score! 👌 🏆. Now HER test is called a PRENUMP.
Essential for whom?
I work with a group of females and you learn real fast that, they are just opinionated, emotional and child like.
You basically have to become "the father" when it comes to women. You have to be a different version of a father figure to each woman.
To keep it simple, just think of a father and daughter relationship, why does a the daughter love her daddy so much, you have to become "Her daddy"...she will even call you that, when she loves how you make her feel or she is really feeling you.
Is it aproparte to correct misb ehaviors she's has that doesn't aligne with you, even when your not in an official Relationship?
How does this change for some who have mental disorders like bipolar, Asperger’s or BPD and have automatic disadvantage when it comes to controlling emotions, knowing how to interact with people socially?
They’re just gonna have to work harder to learn/control it compared to someone who doesn’t have those conditions. It’s unfortunate but that’s the reality. Basically survival of the fittest
@@Kobble8 Too many I am sure can't even control it because there would be some with so much instability that it's very difficult to treat. That's why it sucks. So many women I know from my parents' generation are far more accepting imho of people's faults even if they didn't really peg mental and genetic disorders yet.. I'd love to find a girl who is more chill in that way too. But in our generation, men have the burden of not showing weakness. I hope it changes eventually.
In any case though, I feel it is a discussion to be had. Like I've heard some dating coaches talk about avoiding women with issues and mental disorders. That said, I know plenty of friends in that situation. I know someone who just revealed her bipolar diagnosis a few years ago. Does that mean she should be ostracized from the dating pool? I feel it's really unfortunate.
The weak and degenerate are not entitled to reproduction.
@@acdragonrider In most cases these mental illnesses can be cured even though it may take a long time. I do believe a serious relationship should be entered if possible only if both parties are as mentally healthy to be emotionally available, love themselves and therefore can share love with another person on a consistent basis.
So I wouldn’t say they should be ostracized, but imo work should be done to be able to live a happy life first to share it with a special person, instead of searching for a special person to make life happy, because that’s a recipe for disaster.
There is no diagnostic proof of 300 mental disorders....
If you need to do all that, it's not worth it. Just focus on yourself.
So pretty much you’re being interviewed and she’s interviewing and you have to pass each stage?
My woman cry when I try to have a ‘uncomfortable’ conversation 😒
Don't get manipulated with fake tears.
@@befekaduliyew634facts
great vid
They dont care about ANY of this. They do anything they choose and their mind changes every 5 minutes when they are alone plus every single person they talk to they mirror. They DO NOT care period.
yo kyle where do you shop at? need to expand my wardrope and love the fits
First time ever happened to me.. Girl called me a pussy after two months od dating... We had an amazing times together.. But I didn't feel her put as much effort as me... Today she called me "pussy" I was like wtf? And I confronted her with "what's that about?" .. She was like why would u take it seriously.. Then in the end she said she was testing me and think she need someone who can control her... I WAS LIKE WTFFFFF... I loved that girl.. (we know each other for almost 3 years) she was always so fking wholesome and kind... And in dating she is looking for a fking idk what 🤣 guess Im not dominant enough somehow
Can you do a video about hitting on a girl when she’s with a (less attractive) friend during day game.. or any game?
Women are too much work
Alllergy to effort means you are low in testosterone.
Hit the gym. Lift iron.
Did you hide my comment? 😂
Let me repeat what I said (and further prove my point about you):
“Allergy to effort means you are low on testosterone.” Go workout, you lazy 🐈
It’s not work when you know what you are doing
Gay
To make it easier (even though it takes a lot of time and to find) get one that accepts you for you but the problem is in most cases you don’t find that girl attractive. Though it’s works 99% of the time and is stress free.
picture this scenario: woman shows interest, thinks you are very handsome, then over time ends up friendzoning you and losing interest but keeps talking with you if you text her and acts friendly
any way to turn that around and end up inside of her? lol
No there is not, that’s the scary part about women, it only takes one wrong move, one wrong word, a single sign that you are not confident or charismatic, and they will close the gates to paradise forever.
@@juantorres-fk7bk i heard many stories of men turning a friendzone into sexual stuff, actually one of my friends says the women she has sex the most with are friends, but in my case they dont want anything lol
lol its like they expect man being a super robot, not a human being with ups and downs. cats will appretiate their company
Cara, que conteúdo foda 🇧🇷
Eve was first, but Adam didn't pass... so now you must to deal with it, don't give up men.
If a woman tests me it's done.
Its a lot of work for one thing
No woman no cry
Sound like he got the tuna throat, been tootin them clams
We tried of being tested fuck um
This don't work in Texas 😂😂😂
Why🤣🤣🤣
@@esmondmbulo4665yeah why tho?
Damn 🫡 she just doesn't know how to treat you yet (duh). . . . .🤯yeah she needed to fuck up as well. That's why you leave her and pull her into your friend so she can know if she even wants to subscribe to what you got going. And if she don't it was nice knowing you. That's why you can't get overly emotional as a man.
That’s why god made woman. Only the best can mate.
Which is why our birthrate is now heading for extinction.
lol good luck to the few surviving "winners". their life will be a nightmare
@@bogdankovalenko5096 Divorce Rate is %43 in American. So you have 50/50 chance it will work.
@PREME_MAGAZINE thats quite low. if your marriage fails - you are done
@PREME_MAGAZINE you didn't get it. without rest, 50% society will collapse, and it will be brutal, so the "winners" will go through nightmare
Um , talking fast and waving your hands around, does not look masculine to me .
Way to much work and for what exactly? More headache and stress
No thanks stay single and remain happy.
Treat Them Like Children
Children [with rights]
You can't bully them without risking your life and FREEDOM ; you'll still have too PLAY . unfortunately"
Need examples. Lot of bs talk at the end of the
This just sounds like babysitting an adult woman child. If this is what women offer not interested.
if she test you, run, just run... she is not mature and you are going to be her daddy
So childish how women play these stupid games
Nah it's their biological imperative and often subconscious, why should she open her legs and risk pregnancy to a man she hasnt ascertained his masculine strength?
These aren't games. This is a natural selection process which was passed down through their DNA since ancient times as this guarantees that they can mate with the most reliable, rock solid man who does not go crying to his mommy when sht goes wrong. She wants to be able to submit to you and know that when she fully gives herself to you, you will be able to take responsibility to lead her to the safe future where neither you nor her nor your children will be oppressed or even slaughtered by society. She will not say these things to you verbally as it is biological and perhaps she has no idea that this is what she wants. However, women want a man who can open them up and allow them to be feminine.
If you want to have your way with a woman, you need to learn to how to open her up.
Mr Kyle: Bla bla bla bla bla bla
Now the truth
1)low you body fat %
2)go to the gym and get strong and masculine phisique
3)Get some tatoos
4)take care of your face (beard/hair..skincare)
5)take care of you style. Look for a masculine style
6)You need to be over 5"10
If you get on point all of this you will have a dominant and mascuine frame and no shit test will be a problem
Agree with Kyle and this but #6 is blackpill cope.
im 5’8 my head coach is 5’5 stfu
@@Kyle_Froonjian you are so atractive and look so masculine. Can results with that height.
False.
The more I date the more I realise money and looks don't matter much. These things can get you through the door, but don't guarantee a date with feminine and nurturing women. Just because we men care about women's look does not mean they operate the same as us. Women's attraction factors many things while for us men it is just looks.
Women 100% will test you. They are ready to fk up a perfectly normal and balanced connection to confirm that they can trust you. Your task in those situations is to remain unperturbed and even be willing to distance yourself, and let her lose you.
Then time passes, she realises that whatever test she is doing is pushing you away, that's when she will feel guilty and want to reconcile.
One thing not mentioned in this video is that you should not be the one to start the conversation about what hurt you because this will give her the idea that she got under your skin and you can't leave her other than complain to her how your little, fragile feelings got hurt (which is what women do). What you should do is leave her be (you can focus on yourself during this period or even go on other dates) and over time when she starts missing your presence (a presence of a masculine energy) she will reach out to you. That is when you explain to her what she did was in-appropriate and if she wants your love and presence then she should cut that behavior as next time your absence will be for good. That's when you will see a true change from her.
@@sangwonkim9298 applauds sangwon !
9'th
Stop caring about what leeches think