@@mikehowe6955 Approach her confidently with a witty pick up line and then order two drinks without bothering to ask which one she likes (that would be too nice). This will appear manly and kind without being too soft. If she doesn't like you, you will find out pretty fast.
Even tho I don't completely agree with all this dating stuff 😊 I am so incredibly Grateful for CS Joseph, and all this shit he is CREATING.. Keep on hustling. I love it
Yes... don't ask an Se user 'what he/she is doing?' 'Cause the answer you'll get is 'nothing' or 'nothing special' or the worst of answers you could get is 'none of your business'. And if you ask an ESTP what he/she is doing, you'll most probably end up with a punch in your face as an answer 😂
Yes, truth. As an Ne user, no issue if you are desirable. Try 2 Ne users together, haha, disaster. Dated my first husband for six years, no ring. Told him, look, I am okay if you don't want to get married, but let me know (I was heading to the main campus of my college at the time). I will find someone else. Here, we had no idea as an ESTJ and INFP that we would be waiting for the other. Now, in after divorcing after a 20 year difficult marriage, I am married to an ISTP. Totally different situation! He found me and it didn't take long to propose. Happily married now.
@@Cuspofrevolution Yes I am very curious about the effects for Adhd. Wonder if Ni users are less likely to Adhd. I don't think my infj friend has ever had such an issue, it might be a more inhibiting problem for Si child and inferiors tho idrk
This explains the live sessions on the street corner lol. Fair play. My ice breaker is very similar to the one you presented. Mine is “So, what’s your story, morning glory?”, ripped straight from Hank Moody from Californication 😂 It works so f it 🤷♂️
Since you are saying that sexual combability in dating is more important than emotional. Would you say that ESTP+INTP relationship is better than INTJ+INTP?
Me, hesitating: am I an INFJ or INFP ? CS : the shorter the beard, the more Ne/Si, the longer the beard, the more Ni/Se. Me: OK, so I am INFP CS: the darker the clothes, the more Ne/Si. The brighter the clothes, the more Ni/Se. Me: OK, so I am INFJ 😅 PS : when he talked about "dandy", it rang a bell, so maybe INFJ. 😊
ISTP male: meanwhile, it seems really easy to me to spot female ESTJs and ENFPs at a glance. Female ISTJs seem to be the hardest to spot. Si/Ne users seem to care a lot about their look anyway, Se/Ni users a lot less.
SOOO. Unrelated to this video but I decided to just pick your most recent one . ….. I recently took a personality test(a free one) because if you asked me who I am. I honestly wouldn’t be able to tell you… a lot of that being a result of complex trauma/ other mental illnesses and personality disorders I was labeled with and I got ISTP which fits me well as I actually am a mechanic and feel the world is flawed and the society man has designed is inferior/inefficient to what it could be and no one knows how to FKN drive….. but I looked at all the introverted types because I know that part is 100% right…. I also share characteristics with INTP, theoretical thinking seems to be against ISTP but I love theory’s (depending on the subject) for example end of world theories. Theories on the universe. So basically I’m asking is it possible to have multiple types or a blend of ?
An ISTP can also be into theories and such as they've got Ni child function , I would say try studying the functions and see what fits your way of thinking best , not what u're interested in but how !
I may not agree with joseph all the time but at 58 mins: Se users tryna show off their weiners is a real thing. Please excuse my Ti child & I need to get some sleep 😂
@@Farmynator Actually, I have an awesome fashion sense, I just have trouble putting my clothes on properly but I am excellent at dressing other people. Just like I am great at giving advice out that I don't take myself.
Has an ENTP man I have now come across at least three INTJ women and unfortunately Every single one I've come across are pretty f***** up in some way, I'm always very attracted to them but they're just not someone I can take seriously for a long term
My longest relationship was from a referral (well self referral lol) and the girls I found using dating apps where lower quality humans in general more promiscuous, bad mental health and only good for short term.
I know you have your problems with the church, but assuming an Si user wanted a "real" church girl, how would he do it? The bar scene doesn't look promising
Assuming you are an adult and responsible man: Look for other older masculine, respectable and devoted man, present yourself, establish a good rapport with him, then ask if he has an adult daughter.. Repeat.
pay attention to the area you are in. Focus on what churches cater to you and which don't. stick to the ones that work with you. I'm not sure what type of Si user you are (parent, child, etc) but Si users rely on Faith. That faith only comes through stability.
But what do i do as an INFP woman when all the man who actually initiate talking to me all come off so strong and creepy that i'm instantly looking for a way out 🥹
Your strength lies in the abstract not the concrete. Look atcha. Currently married to an ISFP; an ESTP at the time of this recording. Ya played yourself (again)😂. I'll pass on the dating advice.
@@CSJosephYou get on about ppl who keep dating types they're incompatible w/ and yet, you're notorious for doing it..worse yet, you go so far as to marry them. How bout you practice what you teach/preach for once? Knowledge is power...when applied. Current marriage won't make it past 3-4 yrs but you already know that.
As an INFJ, I just need to get over myself and initiate with the creepiest girl at a bar.
As an INFJ you could get the "hottest girl at the bar" (you fool)
@ in my case, it was the same person
How so? How would one such infj go about getting the hottest woman? And not some monkey brained, jacked alpha?
@@mikehowe6955 she’s an ENTP and thinks all the monkey brained jacked dudes are stupid AF
@@mikehowe6955 Approach her confidently with a witty pick up line and then order two drinks without bothering to ask which one she likes (that would be too nice). This will appear manly and kind without being too soft. If she doesn't like you, you will find out pretty fast.
Even tho I don't completely agree with all this dating stuff 😊 I am so incredibly Grateful for CS Joseph, and all this shit he is CREATING.. Keep on hustling. I love it
Yes... don't ask an Se user 'what he/she is doing?' 'Cause the answer you'll get is 'nothing' or 'nothing special' or the worst of answers you could get is 'none of your business'. And if you ask an ESTP what he/she is doing, you'll most probably end up with a punch in your face as an answer 😂
Yes, truth. As an Ne user, no issue if you are desirable. Try 2 Ne users together, haha, disaster. Dated my first husband for six years, no ring. Told him, look, I am okay if you don't want to get married, but let me know (I was heading to the main campus of my college at the time). I will find someone else. Here, we had no idea as an ESTJ and INFP that we would be waiting for the other. Now, in after divorcing after a 20 year difficult marriage, I am married to an ISTP. Totally different situation! He found me and it didn't take long to propose. Happily married now.
How are the four sides of the mind affected by mental illnesses such as schizophrenia ?
I have the same question but for bpd and/or adhd
@@Cuspofrevolution Yes I am very curious about the effects for Adhd. Wonder if Ni users are less likely to Adhd. I don't think my infj friend has ever had such an issue, it might be a more inhibiting problem for Si child and inferiors tho idrk
This explains the live sessions on the street corner lol. Fair play. My ice breaker is very similar to the one you presented. Mine is “So, what’s your story, morning glory?”, ripped straight from Hank Moody from Californication 😂 It works so f it 🤷♂️
Since you are saying that sexual combability in dating is more important than emotional. Would you say that ESTP+INTP relationship is better than INTJ+INTP?
we are in the era when all of are lives suck at one point, and the first thing we need to learn is not to blame ourselves
As an INTP man who doesn't date I'm curious to know what I'm doing wrong by not doing anything 🤣
You need me, an ENFJ girlll
🥳😂
Tell me your life story ✨ lol
@@FluffyCutestuff Oh no, it works, you made my morning great 😉
Me, hesitating: am I an INFJ or INFP ?
CS : the shorter the beard, the more Ne/Si, the longer the beard, the more Ni/Se.
Me: OK, so I am INFP
CS: the darker the clothes, the more Ne/Si. The brighter the clothes, the more Ni/Se.
Me: OK, so I am INFJ 😅
PS : when he talked about "dandy", it rang a bell, so maybe INFJ. 😊
please dont believe this load of superficial crap.. especially about the beards and the clothes
Would you have more specific tips for the Ni dominant and Ne dominant types? With them having inferior sensing functions, how does that affect things?
Just go out (with friends), have fun, do cool stuff, people will notice and come talk to you.
ISTP male: meanwhile, it seems really easy to me to spot female ESTJs and ENFPs at a glance. Female ISTJs seem to be the hardest to spot. Si/Ne users seem to care a lot about their look anyway, Se/Ni users a lot less.
Very helpful honestly
SOOO. Unrelated to this video but I decided to just pick your most recent one . ….. I recently took a personality test(a free one) because if you asked me who I am. I honestly wouldn’t be able to tell you… a lot of that being a result of complex trauma/ other mental illnesses and personality disorders I was labeled with and I got ISTP which fits me well as I actually am a mechanic and feel the world is flawed and the society man has designed is inferior/inefficient to what it could be and no one knows how to FKN drive….. but I looked at all the introverted types because I know that part is 100% right…. I also share characteristics with INTP, theoretical thinking seems to be against ISTP but I love theory’s (depending on the subject) for example end of world theories. Theories on the universe.
So basically I’m asking is it possible to have multiple types or a blend of ?
No
No
An ISTP can also be into theories and such as they've got Ni child function , I would say try studying the functions and see what fits your way of thinking best , not what u're interested in but how !
Any more videos with visual typing 💬!?!
"Templar typing"
The first rule of dating : touch grass 😂
True , people can't act like nerds while chasing a mate .
Wow, a Labrador Retriever ❤
I may not agree with joseph all the time but at 58 mins: Se users tryna show off their weiners is a real thing. Please excuse my Ti child & I need to get some sleep 😂
My ISFJ mother never approves of my INTP dress. She says I look like a bag lady or just plain weird
You do. INTPs have horrible fashion sense.
And this is coming from an INTJ.
We still love you though. ❤️
@@Farmynator Actually, I have an awesome fashion sense, I just have trouble putting my clothes on properly but I am excellent at dressing other people. Just like I am great at giving advice out that I don't take myself.
@@louisejoelProbably ISTP
@@louisejoelyou also are delusional about how you come across
Has an ENTP man I have now come across at least three INTJ women and unfortunately Every single one I've come across are pretty f***** up in some way, I'm always very attracted to them but they're just not someone I can take seriously for a long term
1:16:24 NEVER heard the REFINEMENT relationship referred to as the ENIGMA relationship
Super ego pair is enigma I think
@ refinement/superego are the same yes I knew that. Had never heard it called enigma before.
@ refinement/superego are the same yes I knew that. Had never heard it called enigma before.
@@RaffertyMBTI ah ok 👌
Man, thank you a lot, wow.
I can finally stop dressing like a clown and get back to my vanilla yogurt intp style😅
My longest relationship was from a referral (well self referral lol) and the girls I found using dating apps where lower quality humans in general more promiscuous, bad mental health and only good for short term.
I know you have your problems with the church, but assuming an Si user wanted a "real" church girl, how would he do it? The bar scene doesn't look promising
Assuming you are an adult and responsible man:
Look for other older masculine, respectable and devoted man, present yourself, establish a good rapport with him, then ask if he has an adult daughter.. Repeat.
Go to church? Go to different churches?
pay attention to the area you are in. Focus on what churches cater to you and which don't. stick to the ones that work with you. I'm not sure what type of Si user you are (parent, child, etc) but Si users rely on Faith. That faith only comes through stability.
360p?
But what do i do as an INFP woman when all the man who actually initiate talking to me all come off so strong and creepy that i'm instantly looking for a way out 🥹
How about parent referral
Depend on your conditioning and culture.
I should introduce you to my son/daughter. Lol. Thanks Mom...😂
Which art of seduction are infps?
The Cutie.
Coquettish
Si
The Ima send him a message and hope he responds in ten years
Cryptic and indirect
Women
Bro..
Care to elaborate?
@@Th3_Reflex women
@@Th3_Reflex I’m not saying women are dating wrong, so are men, I’m just saying women because women are women
Female, She/Her
57:20 Why are dark colours Si?
IM AN NE AND USE LIGHT PINK PASTELS AND NUDE INFP BETTERNG MY SE
Lmao i met my partner through my friends friend....😊
When are you uploading how to seduce istp's????
Your strength lies in the abstract not the concrete. Look atcha. Currently married to an ISFP; an ESTP at the time of this recording. Ya played yourself (again)😂. I'll pass on the dating advice.
Failure teaches more than success.
The best dating advice come from failure, not success
@@CSJosephYou get on about ppl who keep dating types they're incompatible w/ and yet, you're notorious for doing it..worse yet, you go so far as to marry them. How bout you practice what you teach/preach for once? Knowledge is power...when applied. Current marriage won't make it past 3-4 yrs but you already know that.