5 Secret Fears He Has When He Really Likes You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • @TamsPsychAdvice
    @TamsPsychAdvice 12 годин тому +19

    Bye to the old saying "men are simple!" Nowadays, women just want to have fun in relationships. But instead, we’re tiptoeing around, trying not to say anything that might freak the guy out instead of just being ourselves. That’s definitely not a good time! (And remember, do not get too mushy or he might bounce! Haha!)

  • @ShortDarknLovely
    @ShortDarknLovely 8 годин тому +4

    One of my fears definitely is getting my heart broken. I had a persisting idea that love hurts. So I used to fear love. It was hard to let down my guard and be truly vulnerable.

  • @asikiyekennedy
    @asikiyekennedy 14 годин тому +10

    This is very informative and true as I have a guy who likes me so much from his words and actions but hasn’t said anything to me and I also pretend not to know that he likes me. All u said is absolutely true

  • @Mystic_Light
    @Mystic_Light 7 годин тому +3

    The "commitment" is not to the individual but rather to the relationship's success. Which means we are both invested... in each other's peace of mind and health.

  • @shannonfarley8583
    @shannonfarley8583 7 годин тому +3

    Protecting your heart with boundaries

  • @rezotydnic
    @rezotydnic 3 години тому +4

    Five Fears When Falling In Love
    1. Rejection
    2. Not being good enough
    3. Loss of control.
    4. Commitment
    5. Failure
    My fear atm is this. I'm friends with a younger man. We hang out alot and it's soo comfortable and we have a lot of fun together. We get along great.
    We made plans for evening adventure out, Halloween thing, and he says it's a date. And he meant a date date.
    My fear is that I fall for him, because he is a great guy, and he ends up going for someone younger, and then we lose the friendship.

    • @DoTheWork4me
      @DoTheWork4me 42 хвилини тому

      Are you attracted to him?

  • @Musicisthelanguageoflove
    @Musicisthelanguageoflove 12 годин тому +6

    I risked being totally open and authentic and falling in love. He feared all of the "5" emmensely, far more than he actually wanted to go ahead and risk along with me in a relationship . So ultimately I was totally rejected by him in all of those 5 ways possible. But if one doesn't take that risk to make the step forward first, it deffinatly can't ever happen at all. Open communication has always been a challenge for him.... He is a dissmisive avoidant. Succeeding was only 25% at absolute best, but I tried anyway. I would've regretted forever not trying if I'd self sabotaged as he does.

  • @Buggzter-n-Gallade
    @Buggzter-n-Gallade 14 годин тому +3

    My fears are that he's going to drop me because I'm not enough or too much neediness. (Anxious attachment issues and my last relationship was a 13 yr marriage of ab*se so I have to rewire my thoughts to accept him as he is and not how I'm afraid he might be) That we won't communicate well or fights will be horrible and "us" wouldn't be enough for him to attempt to make things better and build together.
    He is aware of my fears and struggles. I'm aware of some of his too. We are getting there. ❤

  • @secretshaman189
    @secretshaman189 10 годин тому +2

    Wonderful review, thank you so much Mat, you are a gift.

  • @LJYouTube1981
    @LJYouTube1981 12 годин тому +4

    He said, I need to hurry up & figure out my shit bc you’re going on dates with other men & I need to decide if I want to be with you… I don’t know what that means… we had one date. lol

  • @MIMIDSH
    @MIMIDSH 9 годин тому +2

    Afraid of losing freedom, autonomy, peace of mind.

  • @tickledcobweb8764
    @tickledcobweb8764 6 годин тому

    Thanks very much that really explains a lot

  • @MariamSabaArt
    @MariamSabaArt 12 годин тому

    Fear of pain used to hold me back or be a source of self sabotage.

  • @MichelleSummerDiiva
    @MichelleSummerDiiva Годину тому

    My boyfriend told me today that he calls me all the time because he thought that’s what made me happy? What does that mean? He does nice things for me but it hurt me when he said that because it now feels as if he’s being pressured into doing something he’s not happy or genuinely want to do

  • @AnaFuentes-n6x
    @AnaFuentes-n6x 14 годин тому +2

    I recognise the 5 of them in the guy I like

  • @shawnayacoub4765
    @shawnayacoub4765 14 годин тому +1

    I'm the feminine in this situation and have ALL the same fears!!! ( 💙 _ 💙 )🤘

  • @Gpeidav
    @Gpeidav 10 годин тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @DoTheWork4me
    @DoTheWork4me 45 хвилин тому

    My guy did these I believe and he broke it off, he is getting therapy, do you give him another chance in the future (I’m not waiting around) if we are both available?

  • @kimwilliford6303
    @kimwilliford6303 3 години тому

    My fears are not being good enough for him, sometimes I dont know that Im beautiful, for my weight can be a problem

  • @Helen-jw6yb
    @Helen-jw6yb 14 годин тому +2

    Definitely fear of commitment....also lack of faith in the other person to be what you hoped.

  • @b.maaouiamarwa7798
    @b.maaouiamarwa7798 10 годин тому

    true ❤

  • @darlenelowrie612
    @darlenelowrie612 7 годин тому

    I didn't know that guys had any fears.

  • @karen1946-o4b
    @karen1946-o4b 13 годин тому

    It sounds like one has to fix the guy, does it worth fix him?

    • @Mayfloweralways
      @Mayfloweralways 12 годин тому +7

      No, he’s navigating feelings that come up. I found that the best thing to do is state the truth and give him space. So an example would be- “ i noticed you seem more distant. Are you feeling ok? Is there something you want to talk about?” If he says “i’m not sure about the relationship” you say. “Well…i really appreciate you being honest with me. I don’t want you to feel uncomfortable. You should only be doing this, if it’s what you really want. I think you’e amazing. It’s been so wonderful spending time with you.” And then you create space to let him sort out what he wants. Chase a man, and almost all the time, he will run the other way or possibly use you. No fixing.

    • @karen1946-o4b
      @karen1946-o4b 10 годин тому

      @@Mayfloweralways love this!

    • @LetJesusTouchUrLife
      @LetJesusTouchUrLife 9 годин тому

      The correct phrase in English is: “Is it worth fixing them?” 😊☺️

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic 3 години тому +1

      You can't fix anyone but yourself. Plus it's not your job to fix him.

  • @hadiza1
    @hadiza1 14 годин тому

    💜

  • @MarthaJDK
    @MarthaJDK 13 годин тому +3

    I don't think I capable of falling in love, I have never experienced that

    • @celesteredding1550
      @celesteredding1550 13 годин тому +2

      Loving is easy, "falling" in love takes time.

    • @roselahuerita
      @roselahuerita 11 годин тому +3

      I haven’t experience that to but fear holds me back which makes guys walk away from me

    • @secretshaman189
      @secretshaman189 10 годин тому +3

      Falling in love is total surrender. It's hard to do sometimes.

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic 3 години тому

      Everyone is capable of falling in love. What everyone is not capable of is living in the moment and trusting yourself and the universe that if it's meant to be, it will be.
      Guard your heart but love is worth the risk.