I mean it's a video on 'What Do Japanese get JEALOUS of Foreigners?" not what are Japanese people thankful for that they don't have to deal with in a foreign place
Being a guy and technology solve all of those issue. 1. Want colored eyes: Contact Lenses 2. Want to walk around public with leggings but without a bra: Guys 3. Confidence: Guys 4. Big nose: Guys 5. Compliment a stranger: Guys 6. Big house: Rich guys 7. Long legs: Guys She just wants to be a guy i think....
@@deekay13 Only 15 percent of Japanese actually have a passport and only 7 percent speak conversational English so no they cant leave Japan. The outside world is dangerous.
@@Swagkia_KuchikiI agree with you. It's a fact that lighter colored features like eye color is very rare. The most common eye color and hair color is dark brown, like I have... Which I def don't like about myself.
My wife is Japanese and it’s not easy for us to understand each other. She infers things and that is foreign to me. I say things I mean and don’t infer. Sometimes I get it and sometimes I don’t. That is actually a big difference in cultures. My father in law and his brothers own a small pharmacy chain in Japan and he worked his butt off. His daughter was supposed to have an arranged marriage but she met me…. So as you can imagine she was not able to pay him back. (I forget the phrase) and he hated me at first. But I gave him 2 boys and a girl and after a while he learned to like me. It took time. Sadly all his hard work didn’t pay off as he died a few years ago. The Japanese work ethic is good but it is tragic in other ways too. He and I made peace and I honor his memory. I visit his grave and talk to him when I go. I think I am freer in expression than my Japanese wife. It’s just that we are different and nothing either should be jealous of
Are you American? If so it's not only Japanese who act humbly. Japanese are just very rich and if you saw more modest societies behave even more humbly than Japanese, it would not create the impression I suppose.
For confidence, “fake it until you make it” is an apt description. Even if you don’t feel confident, you have to at least show confidence to keep morale high. It also makes us seem like belligerent morons sometimes, of course.
@@RVG026 Confidence is the point. At my place, if you say that you are not capable of something, that is just an excuse for being lazy and not even trying.
I'm really envious of this humility in japanese society. Taking care of not bothering others is a great thing, starting from being quiet inside of trains, not wearing too aggressive perfume, in some regions not smoking outside, not throwing away the waste whereever you are standing,.... I understand that the drawback is having lower self-esteem, still I prefer the humble Japan style of life in which people reflect on how their actions affect others. 日本の文化がうらやましいです! What surprised me the most is eye-colour, because when I had to name the exterior characteristic of a woman which I find most attractive, then it would be dark brown eyes. 茶色の目は一番きれいですよ! The thing I totally agree is the size of appartments or houses. I am currently looking for a job in Japan, because I think my japanese studies will benefit extremely from daily practice. However, the thing I am most afraid of is not finding an appartment in which I can really feel home. 日本の小さな家がこわい... Lastly, of course, I am envious of Japan for it has the most beautiful language I ever heard. 日本ごは一番うつくしい言語です!
@GallowglassBLADE I agree 💯% because I went there for vacation one time and the only thing i thought was i wanna visit again but the amount of times people told me my Gothic clothes were super adorable and than invited me to drink with them made me think i need to be an alcoholic AND they offer'd me to walk me back bc i am 24 and female really really sweet people u just need to have a stomach for alcoholic beverages that is all u need hope I have enough money to go visit again if they still want me there
The best video I've watched this year, honestly. Outstanding teaching technique and so very compelling to watch: smashing work. Thank you so much! I had the pleasure of visiting Japan a few years ago and was blown away by the politeness, the exceptional customer service, the cleanliness, the order, the sense of personal safety....plus of course a country of outstanding beauty, an amazingly rich cultural heritage and some of the best damned food on the planet! I knew enough Japanese at the time to hold a conversation and I still remember the warmth of welcome I got when this became apparent....memories to last a lifetime.
About 3: Both ways can be positive and negative. Japanese have great humility which sometimes makes them less confident in themselves. Westerners have less humility, which makes them (look) more confident, but can also make them egoistic and not think enough about others. So both have good aspects that can go to an extreme.
The grass is always greener on the other side! Do you know that saying, sensei? It means you're always envious of the things you haven't got. And the same applies to us Westerners, who appreciate Japanese people for most of the same things you mentioned in your video.
My Japanese wife and I are in our 60's, so she has some different things she's 'jealous' of... of all the physical things you listed, I love about her!! She came from a very traditional family ( surprised me her father agreed for her to marry me )... but they have told me I have a Japanese heart which means the world to me. Truly enjoy your videos.
I recently returned from Japan after living in Hiroshima for a year with my wife(Japanese), there are pro’s and con’s. Japan is a great country and the people are Awesome. Best food on earth!!! Your channel is Great and very educational and I for one love it , you do a very good job!!💪💪💪
I am from Italy, i have a big house, a tall nose, long legs, but i have cages at my windows, a security system, cameras all around my house, if i leave my wallet at the restaurant it will disappears in 30 seconds, so i am envious of japanese and i would like to live in Japan. By the way you are cute and your nose is cute
@@musicfan300I live in white flight suburbs. I feel the safest in cities as I’m Asian and get much less racism in cities. Suburbs and rural? Omg the racism is so high. And the paranoia of suburbs people in protecting their home is unreasonably high. Everyone has a gun. Cities, more people are educated, accepting of diversity and differences. Suburbs and rural areas terrified of minorities and thus have a lot of guns and paranoia.
I started learning Japanese 15 years ago, love it. I watch many Japanese dramas and they make me envious of your respect for each other. Hopefully I can visit someday, keep up the great videos!
My opinion about the features of Asian folk are the same as with all cultures. People are fine with the physiology they were born with. You can change what you look like outside, but if you're lacking on the inside, that emptiness will eventually show. Nothing wrong with style, just keep yourself neat and maintained.
Here in western countries, individuality is prized - I believe more so than in Japan. So people are very different from person to person. When I watch things about Japan, even starting from like grade school, your society seems to place more importance on the group. - Eye color: I have dark brown eyes as well, so I understand how some of you might feel. My family members all have green eyes, mine are brown though. lol I actually like brown eyes the most because there is often depth to them. I remember when I used to date a girl in school and her mom picked us up. I sat in the back seat and I kept seeing her mom looking at me in the mirror. She told my girlfriend that she thought my eyes were so deep, as if it reflected my personality. Or a girl on the school bus with me who told me I had beautiful eyes, as the sun reflected in them. She was like,"I never saw how beautiful your eyes are...wow.". What makes eyes beautiful to me, is less about the color and more about what I see when I look into them. Your eyes are pretty. They look healthy and vibrant. Plus some Japanese people smile and their eyes smile too and I think it's super cute. - Being confident: Really just a stereotype. As I was saying earlier, we're all very different people. Some of us are confident, some are shy. I'm more shy myself. I guess the difference is, sometimes I feel different depending on the moment. Where I might be more confident or outgoing if I feel like it's time for me to be. - Tall nose: I would say I have a pretty big nose. Big nose is usually what we call it, instead of tall. Some people make fun of people they think have big noses. - Big houses: Most people don't live in large houses with pools and such. If you were in California, it's not really a good example for the rest of the country as people are pretty wealthy there. Only people with money who care a lot about material things have houses like that, I think. - Long legs: Nice, but doesn't make anyone less or more beautiful to me. What I love about Japan is that you have a distinct culture, not one that is a big mix of others. Your streets are clean and it feels quite safe there. I like that people aren't overly loud as well. I can be in a big city and have some space to think. I'm not a loud person myself and I like having quiet moments. The respect people give each other. The beauty. More humble people. The women I think are the most beautiful in the world. They often have beautiful skin, which I think is partly genetic and partly diet. They have cute faces. The Japanese language is pleasant to listen to as well. I'd rather live in Japan than here in the US.
Not all westerners live in big homes. Here in the UK the average home size is only 10% bigger than the average Japanese home. The average size of a UK home has only got smaller and smaller over the years. I envy those who live in big houses. Many houses and apartments in western countries are getting more and more expensive and unaffordable due to mass immigration!
Same thing over here housing has been getting even more expensive then it already was, it's pretty much impossible for a young person to move out now also due to mass immigration :/
@@xXVibrantSnowXx If you can afford it, then too much space is far far better than too little space. Some people who go to live in Japan first get the idea once they arrive that living in a small space is somehow great and sophisticated. A form of minimalist living. But eventually they realize that it isn't and a lack of space is often an annoyance and a pain in the a**e. You have to think very carefully about what you take home, so as to avoid over clutter. It is better to pay a lot of money to live in a big home, than to pay a lot of money to live in a small home, and in England today a lot of money buys you very little!
This is more a function of population density than east vs west. It's completely logical, Japan and UK are both relatively small island nations. Less land, per given amount of people = smaller housing. Even in US, a HUGE country, certain areas that are much more population dense like New York City have very small housing, just like shown in this video.
People are worry too much about other people If you are happy that's what counts Also eyes noses and other futures don't matter All the beauty of a person comes through the heart I also believe that Japanese people are beautiful
Unpopular opinion but I think it's a good thing we are jealous of each other to some extent... in this way we can try to learn good things from each other and correct our weaknesses or shortcomings!
I absolutely agree. People hear the word 'jealousy' and it's instantly associated with a negative emotion. But I agree with you, as with many things, jealousy in moderation is useful. Useful as a motivator. Moderation is the key word. It's when lazy, immoral people get jealous is when it gets dangerous.
You can't blame people for thinking like that, because most of the time, jealousy is a negative thing (because it's) at least it's what's being known here, Jealousy can lead to hatred between friends/people, therefore jealousy is mostly viewed as negative thing, that being said it's has it's positives if understood more deeply@@Loroths
@@xXVibrantSnowXx it all depends on the person. If the person is a weak or hateful person then jealousy can be a precursor to hatred. Weak people can't handle emotions. A strong person will overcome it. It just exposes the type of person they already are.
I am jealous of the hot bath and architecture and polite society and warm sake and lots of veggies and seafood to eat. Beautiful woodworking and thinking of others. Your videos are inspiring.
I never imagined Japanese people would be jealous of a “tall” nose, we usually think small noses are cuter 🙈 Also I have blue eyes but my boyfriend’s eyes are deep brown and I’ve always thought dark brown eyes are so attractive because they have so much more depth! (p.s. I just discovered your channel and love your content, thank you for helping me learn Japanese!)
I admit I fit most of what you say you are envious of. I think this is a case of 'the grass is greener on the other side of the wall'. Thank you for sharing!
Your country values courtesy and politeness and people respect the law and their elders... This dead in the UK. Here in Yorkshire it is normal to greet a stranger.... You are young and beautiful, here in the West a confident woman is a shining light in the darkness, you can be too !
Japanese traditional culture is wonderful. Japanese people are polite, orderly, helpful, and act respectful to others. Many countries envy you instead.
Hi, once i got a compliment from a group of japanese girls for my blue eye colour,and i returned back compliment,telling her she is beautiful,and she was really surprised about it. I think that your eye colour is beautiful as it is,my opinion😊
Don't be jealous of foreigners. Japanese has things that even we Westerners wish we had. I bet Japan is a fantastic country, with good people. If I may say in Japanese: 日本が大好きです!!!! Keep up the great content cute Mochi sensei.
I love the politefulness in Japan and the Safety. Quite, Respectfulness and law abiding citizens. I wish we had this in California. We have be confident to survive this crazy state. 🤪
your contacts look cute 🥹🥹i have green eyes but i wear brown and blue contacts too🥺🥺 i think they enhance makeup very well 💗 i was surprised visiting japan and being told my nose was high, i felt self conscious to think its big and sticks out 😂😂sadly im not rich to have a big house 😂😂but everyone’s features are seriously beautiful so everyone know you are beautiful for who you are❤️❤️ I’m envious of the culture of humility at the same time though I can understand possible burdens that may come with it. Also how small talk among strangers in Japanese language is not common. I feel the burden of unnecessary small talk in my language and culture. Perhaps because I’m introverted and shy.. Going to the supermarket in Japan I wasn’t asked hi how are you ect questions and I didn’t have to ask it back so I was relieved ..
I’m jealous of Japanese men! Japan has the most beautiful women in the world. And may I say, you mochi are one of them. 😉🥰. And I love the Japanese culture. I’ve been to Japan many times. And love your country. People are always very nice and the scenery is beautiful. And the food, so good. And, I know this isn’t very important. But I love and miss the Japanese toilets. So high tech. And very comfortable.
@@goofygrandlouis6296 Maybe the Anglosphere would have been more appropriate then generalizing the West. I would include the UK in this narcissism, but you're right on steroids in the US.
@@VillemarMxO Agreed, although I would say it's only UK *women* who misbehave (at least the ones I see in Paris as student tourists). Most UK men are decent and quiet.
Dear Mochi Sensei, your ❤ is so sweet and so full of good things. You are trying to say a nice thing to compliment someone for having a tall nose when many people feel anxious about having a "big nose". Maybe instead tell them they have a very attractive face! 😊 I always enjoy watching and listening to you because you are very beautiful Mochi
I love Japanese culture - i am a black guy - i have been listening to japanese music since i was maybe 9 or 10yrs old 1st time i heard the legendary Hironobu Kageyama sing Cha La Head Cha La in the mid 90s for dragonball z i was hooked i was like wow this sound is soooo different but amazing and yes i think Japanese women are very beautiful very elegant, classy and feminine...:):)
I am jealous of the beautiful Japanese women who are not overweight or fat. Many if not all American women are big or just very overweight. I fell really hard (I was in Tokyo for five months) for a Japanese woman who was short and had short legs and hands. Her face was just to die for!! I didn't know that there was such beautiful women like the Japanese women.
Japanese women are much more beautiful. I don't want to disparage any females, so I won't do a comparison. I will say that Japanese women are beautiful in ways that others cannot be. Each one is a wonderous work of art.
Japan is very organized, clean and beautiful. You have a huge variety of healthy food. People are slim, educated and polite. As for Japanese women, where do I start? They are very feminine (the Western ones are less and less), no tatoos, crazy hair colors or piercings, slim (important enough to mention it twice), and their almond eyes are very pretty.
@@xOmniCloudx Just checked google. No they don’t. I watch videos of people walking in Japan in 4K in Like Tokyo, Kyoto, Sapporo, Harajuku and many, many, more. I don’t know why you’re lying? Does it make you feel better? Does it upset you that we don’t like piercings? lol. Why are you trying to ruin it for us? You’ll see crazy outfits in Harajuku and Akihabara and Tokyo-yes. But that’s 1/100. It’s not the majority. Pls stop making things up making Japan seem like it’s California. Thank you!
@@wtfdidijustwatch1017maybe you should read the comment again it doesn’t say all Japanese women like you are implying stop taking things out of context 😂😂😂 💩 I sound like you
My father was an RAF pilot, he returned from a trip to Japan in 1952 with his cine film of the people, my mother was fascinated and kept replaying his films, I as a boy had the Japanese clothes he brought back. In 1956 I was in Japan with him and he insisted we live like the Japanese sleeping on tatami mats for example. A daughter of a friend had blond hair and she had to cover it up as she was frightened by the Japanese gathering around her to touch her. I grew to admire the Shogun culture and all that is Japanese, now I'm so saddened about how the Japanese have given up there fantastic culture and taken on the crass American culture a sad loss to the world at large.
More like some aspects of western culture seeped into Japanese, it is still very distinct though. Culture is what always shifts, whether one likes it not.
#3 Self confidence. Might be a bit of a filter, in that the sort of person who might get on a plane and fly to Japan probably has some boldness in their personality. Also, and I found this when I went on student exchange, there's a feeling that you're not going to be visiting Japan for very long, so you want to make the most of it. I was more outgoing and friendly during my trip than I have ever been at home. Finally... There's an important wisdom of Japan, I learned from David Suzuki's book: *"The man away from home has no neighbours".* If you've not heard it, it may be a product of an earlier generation. This phrase is deeper than it sounds. I counted 5 different ways in can be interpreted; 5 different lessons it can teach. On of them is that a man away from home (visiting Japan, for example) does not have to feel concerned with what his neighbours, family, or friends back in his home country will say or judge about his behaviour, since they're far away and while probably never hear about it if he got drunk and ran through the neighbourhood naked. He cares more about what the people he knows think about him than he does what strangers think about him, and there are only strangers here. It's a very freeing thought (but a bit dangerous!)
it's interesting because women who have big and long noses have surgery to make them smaller in Iran. it's not a compliment here 😁@@mochirealjapanese3430
@@mochirealjapanese3430 Tall and big are not the same thing, I agree. But white women confuse the 2 and I would recommend explaining very carefully what you mean. Because women can get (very) angry if you criticize their look.
Some western people have nose surgery to make their nose smaller or use makeup to make it look smaller. People don't seen to like what they have, and want what they don't have. I wish people would just appreciate what they have.
Fun fact, there is recent research that suggests, that light eye colours like blue or green can see significantly better in low light conditions, but worse in very bright conditions. It seems that blue eyes frist came from a genetic mutation somewhere in the middle east, but over time it bacame very rare there, but much more common the more north you go. The research was actually done by Japanese sciencist living in Europe.
I have blue eyes. I could always see pretty well in the dark but I seldom go outside without sunglasses. Direct sun, overcast, raining, whatever. It's still too bright. And then it gets dark and I have everyone's headlights right in my face when I'm driving.
@@protorhinocerator142 The research is quite new and the sample size was only 40 people, so it is yet to be confirmed, but it does look very promising. You can look it up if you're interested, it was done by Dr. Kyoko Yamaguchi.
For someone with a bigger nose, I'm surprised to hear that Japanese people like tall noses. 😅 Most women in Europe want to have smaller noses. I have brown eyes myself, but would like to have darker eyes and natural black hair. 😄
Really brave to open up and talk about jealousy. I think Japanese ppl have fantastic manners and politeness that other countries want. I also find Japanese women are very nice and friendly. I feel Japanese are confident, like a cool panther❤
I think Japan might go a little overboard with humility, and the west goes too far with self-esteem. We have a lot of people with false confidence, and a fake it till you make it attitude. Many here think they can run before they can walk. In Japan and other Asian cultures with very strong filial piety and hierarchies, it seems like there are the opposite: competent people who actually lose confidence due to expectations of humility. Authenticity is the key! Be humble about your shortcomings and confident about your strengths. False humility and false confidence are detriments.
Great video, I have blue eyes 👁️👁️, lol, am also looking for marriage, yes I want to marry and make the move to Osaka, Japan, does a Japanese woman like flowers, just asking, again amazing video, 🎉🎉❤❤
When I was visiting in Japan, I experienced the Grass is Greener on the other side effect. Everything is efficient and reliable, especially public transportation.
Firstly I think Mochi sensei should use the term Envy and not Jealous. The word Jelous carries a negative side along with it, There are many things that foreigners, Envy or Jelous about Japanese or East Asians in general, these are Asian looks age so much slower compared to the western world in general, they are often misunderstood as underage which may spark issues in western public perceptions, So the amount of Envy is there as most women do wants to look young. Another part is the Eye types that East Asian has like the big Rounded types, western often only show the slit eyes common to Chinese but they never do enough research that big Round Asian eyes exist like Mochi sensei's here which are consider gorgeous in the Eastern World which look like they are Anime girls in reality. Also Natural Black straight hair is envied by a lot of foreigners as well, I for one likes the Hime-cut. There are plenty more to say but know this the grass is always greener on the other side. As for personality, for me being humble is far superior than being prideful as I live long enough to know which emotion leads to which having too much pride will lead to arrogance and disrespect, It may also lead to narcissistic behaviors, having self centered world views or too full of oneself. The culture of Japan in that regard, A Nation that practices humility, humbleness, and put others first has certainly contributed to social peace and low crime rate. A society that practices respect is given unless taken away which is a superior cultural moral conduct imo , compared to the, Western world concept of respect must be earned which leads to aggressive competition or even projection of oneself is one of the social issue plaguing the West.
I'm Canadian and I lack self-esteem all the time. I love Asian eye shapes. They're unique and beautiful. Japanese men are so handsome. I'd love to have a Japanese boyfriend if possible.
It's truly saddening to see how many people will destroy their natural beauty for some exaggerated fantasy. Some people do it because they genuinely just like a certain look or because they think it's cool. They're just artsy folk who use their bodies as a canvas. Unfortunately, it seems like most think there's something deeply wrong with their appearance and that they need to change it to feel better about themselves.
One thing I'm jealous of is you dont deal with bidenflation so you have a cheaper cost of living which is why I hear of foreigners especially Americans like me get remote work jobs in USA and and physically live in japan To comment on house sizes I think it can be geographical cause in big cities there are smaller houses but I think for you in japan the small houses has alot to do with how most people in Japan live in big cities
I was interviewed the other day for a school project and I was the only teacher who was speaking in English for it. I have to say after watching the interviews with the other Japanese teachers I became jealous of how refined Japanese people are when they speak due to the fact that the language is spoken with a fairly closed mouth. So while all the others looked like the should be on a T.V. show or in a movie I looked like an old hound dog yawning. 🤣
In my country, Argentina, speaks so sudden about the body of another person can be considerate so weird, almost like you have second intentions (Argentina is the south american country that can be the opposite pole to Japan in social aspects). Probably we'll be seeing you like "... Why are you saying that?" (It may bring conflict). We don't give opinion about another body without permission from that person or without be in trust with it, if they do can be unrespectful. And besides, don't feel jealous about foreign/persons from another countries. Even we have problems of trust in ourselves from time-to-time. But! You can build up your confidence in yourself and be humild at the same time. We call it "love for yourself". When you learn how to love yourself, you'll become into a stronger person! 💕 I loved your video! It learned a lot 💕 Also I'm sorry for my bad english, this is not my native lenguage.
I think a lot of Americans are in awe of your President Milei. He goes around with a chain saw describing what he will do to wasteful government programs. He's the kind of man many American men aspire to be.
I believe you can be a grateful person, a grateful person is unbreakable... According to Arysio Santos' theory, the Atlanteans were in Sundaland. because a major disaster occurred, elite Sundaland people migrated massively towards East Asia and ended up in the Kyushu region etc, you can learn the Out of Sundaland theory by Edwina Palmer. so you should be grateful because it is possible that your ancestors came from the Atlantean people of Sundaland.🙂
I was just thinking about the nose stuff 😂since I live in Japan I’ve been told so many times about how my nose is tall and my face small. At first I thought they were making fun of me ( I’ve been bullied in Italy about this) but now after 6 years in Japan I know what they mean… so I try to smile and say thank you instead of being sad ahah
The culture of humility part is very interesting, as we have a very similar thing in Norway ("Janteloven"), which seems to be about the same. Aka "Don't think you are better than anyone else" and whatnot
*You know something that I would wish the most of many people in Austria, that I would change eye color, nose, tallness etc. for, what japanese have the most and that's humility and politeness. I think what the japanese achieved is far more amazing, than looks or things that you were born with and that didn't require blood, sweat and tears But I guess jealousy keeps the wheels spinning to achieve ever so great things.*
Grass always seems greener on the other side
Sometimes it's true...
I mean it's a video on 'What Do Japanese get JEALOUS of Foreigners?" not what are Japanese people thankful for that they don't have to deal with in a foreign place
Being a guy and technology solve all of those issue.
1. Want colored eyes: Contact Lenses
2. Want to walk around public with leggings but without a bra: Guys
3. Confidence: Guys
4. Big nose: Guys
5. Compliment a stranger: Guys
6. Big house: Rich guys
7. Long legs: Guys
She just wants to be a guy i think....
@@traumatized829 or they could just immigrate
@@deekay13 Only 15 percent of Japanese actually have a passport and only 7 percent speak conversational English so no they cant leave Japan. The outside world is dangerous.
Your eyes are beautiful in their natural color.
Compared to blue, green, hazel, grey eyes? Absolutely not lol. Same thing with blonde, red hair or light brown hair.
@@Swagkia_KuchikiMaybe when you stop comparing yourself or the others you're gonna finally see life in a different perspective..
@@SiegH. It's objectively true. They're rare and unique. Not only that but throughout history such as always been captivating.
@@Swagkia_KuchikiI agree with you. It's a fact that lighter colored features like eye color is very rare. The most common eye color and hair color is dark brown, like I have... Which I def don't like about myself.
@Swagkia_Kuchiki Pale Skin black hair, brown eyes is pretty GOATED. Japanese just too heavily influenced by USA, and by influenced I mean "controlled"
Your honesty and humility is wonderful .......We love Japan and the culture
My wife is Japanese and it’s not easy for us to understand each other. She infers things and that is foreign to me. I say things I mean and don’t infer. Sometimes I get it and sometimes I don’t. That is actually a big difference in cultures.
My father in law and his brothers own a small pharmacy chain in Japan and he worked his butt off. His daughter was supposed to have an arranged marriage but she met me…. So as you can imagine she was not able to pay him back. (I forget the phrase) and he hated me at first. But I gave him 2 boys and a girl and after a while he learned to like me. It took time. Sadly all his hard work didn’t pay off as he died a few years ago. The Japanese work ethic is good but it is tragic in other ways too.
He and I made peace and I honor his memory. I visit his grave and talk to him when I go.
I think I am freer in expression than my Japanese wife. It’s just that we are different and nothing either should be jealous of
Humility and respect I admire greatly, I spent time in Japan and the way Japanese people behaved inspired me to engage in a lot of self reflection.
Are you American? If so it's not only Japanese who act humbly. Japanese are just very rich and if you saw more modest societies behave even more humbly than Japanese, it would not create the impression I suppose.
For confidence, “fake it until you make it” is an apt description. Even if you don’t feel confident, you have to at least show confidence to keep morale high. It also makes us seem like belligerent morons sometimes, of course.
In my country (hungary), you will be more ashamed if you say "I can't" than if you say "it will be as easy as 1+1" and critically fail.
@@Caduceus444 imagine say something like "it's easy" or "piece of cake" and just fail horribly in front of your crush.
@@RVG026 Confidence is the point. At my place, if you say that you are not capable of something, that is just an excuse for being lazy and not even trying.
So often it has the affect. So often.
So many here in the US are confident but it is totally unjustified as they are total idiots. I'd rather be more capable and have humility.
I am envious of your absolutely beautiful porcelain complexions!
I'm really envious of this humility in japanese society. Taking care of not bothering others is a great thing, starting from being quiet inside of trains, not wearing too aggressive perfume, in some regions not smoking outside, not throwing away the waste whereever you are standing,.... I understand that the drawback is having lower self-esteem, still I prefer the humble Japan style of life in which people reflect on how their actions affect others.
日本の文化がうらやましいです!
What surprised me the most is eye-colour, because when I had to name the exterior characteristic of a woman which I find most attractive, then it would be dark brown eyes.
茶色の目は一番きれいですよ!
The thing I totally agree is the size of appartments or houses. I am currently looking for a job in Japan, because I think my japanese studies will benefit extremely from daily practice. However, the thing I am most afraid of is not finding an appartment in which I can really feel home.
日本の小さな家がこわい...
Lastly, of course, I am envious of Japan for it has the most beautiful language I ever heard.
日本ごは一番うつくしい言語です!
きれいな文法が書きましたね。でもすみません、「日本ご」の漢字は日本語です
No.Italiano and Ukrainian languages on the top of the most beautiful languages in the world
Nicely put.
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@@mochirealjapanese3430Omoshiroi.. Alot of reasons here, why Japan has an epidemic of lonliness.😅
Here in Ireland, talking to strangers and random conversations is the norm, we will talk to anyone. It is very interesting the differences.
That’s really interesting, in sweden you barely even look at the other person 😂
@@GoldenShrike Yeah, not all of Europe is that way.
I watched a soccer game in a random Irish bar. It was the best
Same here in Australia 😂
@GallowglassBLADE I agree 💯% because I went there for vacation one time and the only thing i thought was i wanna visit again but the amount of times people told me my Gothic clothes were super adorable and than invited me to drink with them made me think i need to be an alcoholic AND they offer'd me to walk me back bc i am 24 and female really really sweet people u just need to have a stomach for alcoholic beverages that is all u need hope I have enough money to go visit again if they still want me there
The best video I've watched this year, honestly. Outstanding teaching technique and so very compelling to watch: smashing work. Thank you so much! I had the pleasure of visiting Japan a few years ago and was blown away by the politeness, the exceptional customer service, the cleanliness, the order, the sense of personal safety....plus of course a country of outstanding beauty, an amazingly rich cultural heritage and some of the best damned food on the planet! I knew enough Japanese at the time to hold a conversation and I still remember the warmth of welcome I got when this became apparent....memories to last a lifetime.
外国人向けにゆっくり話しているところがいいですね♪
内容も共感できるものばかりで面白かったです！
Thank you very much for the subtitles. I'm learning English pronunciation 😅
About 3: Both ways can be positive and negative. Japanese have great humility which sometimes makes them less confident in themselves. Westerners have less humility, which makes them (look) more confident, but can also make them egoistic and not think enough about others. So both have good aspects that can go to an extreme.
It also leads into some negative traits, like westerners more willing to do petty crime for thrill or desire to be challenged.
I am jealous of your beautiful language 🥹. I started learning Japanese one year ago and I am too eager to talk as native Japanese.
You can do it!
The grass is always greener on the other side! Do you know that saying, sensei? It means you're always envious of the things you haven't got. And the same applies to us Westerners, who appreciate Japanese people for most of the same things you mentioned in your video.
Thank you so much for speaking slowly enough for us to practice listening!!!!
My Japanese wife and I are in our 60's, so she has some different things she's 'jealous' of... of all the physical things you listed, I love about her!! She came from a very traditional family ( surprised me her father agreed for her to marry me )... but they have told me I have a Japanese heart which means the world to me. Truly enjoy your videos.
I recently returned from Japan after living in Hiroshima for a year with my wife(Japanese), there are pro’s and con’s. Japan is a great country and the people are Awesome. Best food on earth!!! Your channel is Great and very educational and I for one love it , you do a very good job!!💪💪💪
ありがとう！✨
@@mochirealjapanese3430 I know some Japanese people that are Born with double eyelid especially half japanese
I am from Italy, i have a big house, a tall nose, long legs, but i have cages at my windows, a security system, cameras all around my house, if i leave my wallet at the restaurant it will disappears in 30 seconds, so i am envious of japanese and i would like to live in Japan. By the way you are cute and your nose is cute
That’s pretty wild; here in the U.S. a lot of people can have their doors unlocked. And returning wallets to their owners is pretty common.
@@leprechaun3677none of what you said is true. Sincerely: fellow American
Hmmm....@shakenbacon...you wouldn't happen to live in a city in a not so nice part? While @leprechaun lives somewhere out in rural farm land?
@@musicfan300I live in white flight suburbs. I feel the safest in cities as I’m Asian and get much less racism in cities. Suburbs and rural? Omg the racism is so high. And the paranoia of suburbs people in protecting their home is unreasonably high. Everyone has a gun.
Cities, more people are educated, accepting of diversity and differences. Suburbs and rural areas terrified of minorities and thus have a lot of guns and paranoia.
@@leprechaun3677 Wow because I live in the U.S.A you must live in a different America?
when you jealous about other, other are jealous about you
Not really. Nobody is jealous about being poor. Evrybody is jealous over rare stuff tho.
I've always though Asian eyes were cute. They're really expressive. The eye colour doesn't matter. Dark brown eyes are great to look in to.
I started learning Japanese 15 years ago, love it. I watch many Japanese dramas and they make me envious of your respect for each other. Hopefully I can visit someday, keep up the great videos!
My opinion about the features of Asian folk are the same as with all cultures. People are fine with the physiology they were born with. You can change what you look like outside, but if you're lacking on the inside, that emptiness will eventually show. Nothing wrong with style, just keep yourself neat and maintained.
Everyone is beautiful naturally!
clean safe cities, great healthy food
Japanese women are so beautiful. Nothing to envy to anyone ❤
Don't be jealous. As I get older I start to appreciate my heritage, culture, and the features I was given, just wish I had 20/20 vision.
hehe maybe the word 'jealous' was bad, envy!✨ in a very good way!👍
@GHX5777 Ohh.. Someone knows me, lol Hey!
Wow she’s absolutely beautiful 😍 very nice smile 😊
As a Korean-American, there’s lots we’re jealous about as well! At the end of the day, we’re all humans striving to be better each and every day! ❤
Great video. From a Japanese perspective. I do want to say, I find Japanese women, on the whole, are some of the most beautiful women in the world.
The expression when you found the lint on your shirt, kawaii !!!
I like your videos Mochi. Keep up the good work.
Cheers
Glad you like them!
Here in western countries, individuality is prized - I believe more so than in Japan. So people are very different from person to person. When I watch things about Japan, even starting from like grade school, your society seems to place more importance on the group.
- Eye color: I have dark brown eyes as well, so I understand how some of you might feel. My family members all have green eyes, mine are brown though. lol I actually like brown eyes the most because there is often depth to them. I remember when I used to date a girl in school and her mom picked us up. I sat in the back seat and I kept seeing her mom looking at me in the mirror. She told my girlfriend that she thought my eyes were so deep, as if it reflected my personality. Or a girl on the school bus with me who told me I had beautiful eyes, as the sun reflected in them. She was like,"I never saw how beautiful your eyes are...wow.". What makes eyes beautiful to me, is less about the color and more about what I see when I look into them. Your eyes are pretty. They look healthy and vibrant. Plus some Japanese people smile and their eyes smile too and I think it's super cute.
- Being confident: Really just a stereotype. As I was saying earlier, we're all very different people. Some of us are confident, some are shy. I'm more shy myself. I guess the difference is, sometimes I feel different depending on the moment. Where I might be more confident or outgoing if I feel like it's time for me to be.
- Tall nose: I would say I have a pretty big nose. Big nose is usually what we call it, instead of tall. Some people make fun of people they think have big noses.
- Big houses: Most people don't live in large houses with pools and such. If you were in California, it's not really a good example for the rest of the country as people are pretty wealthy there. Only people with money who care a lot about material things have houses like that, I think.
- Long legs: Nice, but doesn't make anyone less or more beautiful to me.
What I love about Japan is that you have a distinct culture, not one that is a big mix of others. Your streets are clean and it feels quite safe there. I like that people aren't overly loud as well. I can be in a big city and have some space to think. I'm not a loud person myself and I like having quiet moments. The respect people give each other. The beauty. More humble people. The women I think are the most beautiful in the world. They often have beautiful skin, which I think is partly genetic and partly diet. They have cute faces. The Japanese language is pleasant to listen to as well.
I'd rather live in Japan than here in the US.
Not all westerners live in big homes. Here in the UK the average home size is only 10% bigger than the average Japanese home. The average size of a UK home has only got smaller and smaller over the years. I envy those who live in big houses. Many houses and apartments in western countries are getting more and more expensive and unaffordable due to mass immigration!
It is general thing in the northern part of Europe, I think.
Same thing over here housing has been getting even more expensive then it already was, it's pretty much impossible for a young person to move out now also due to mass immigration :/
Until you realize that living in big houses is hell lol
(bills, too much empty space, more maintenance costs etc)
@@xXVibrantSnowXx If you can afford it, then too much space is far far better than too little space. Some people who go to live in Japan first get the idea once they arrive that living in a small space is somehow great and sophisticated. A form of minimalist living. But eventually they realize that it isn't and a lack of space is often an annoyance and a pain in the a**e. You have to think very carefully about what you take home, so as to avoid over clutter. It is better to pay a lot of money to live in a big home, than to pay a lot of money to live in a small home, and in England today a lot of money buys you very little!
This is more a function of population density than east vs west. It's completely logical, Japan and UK are both relatively small island nations. Less land, per given amount of people = smaller housing. Even in US, a HUGE country, certain areas that are much more population dense like New York City have very small housing, just like shown in this video.
People are worry too much about other people
If you are happy that's what counts
Also eyes noses and other futures don't matter
All the beauty of a person comes through the heart
I also believe that Japanese people are beautiful
Unpopular opinion but I think it's a good thing we are jealous of each other to some extent... in this way we can try to learn good things from each other and correct our weaknesses or shortcomings!
I absolutely agree. People hear the word 'jealousy' and it's instantly associated with a negative emotion. But I agree with you, as with many things, jealousy in moderation is useful. Useful as a motivator. Moderation is the key word. It's when lazy, immoral people get jealous is when it gets dangerous.
You can't blame people for thinking like that, because most of the time, jealousy is a negative thing (because it's) at least it's what's being known here, Jealousy can lead to hatred between friends/people, therefore jealousy is mostly viewed as negative thing, that being said it's has it's positives if understood more deeply@@Loroths
@@xXVibrantSnowXx it all depends on the person. If the person is a weak or hateful person then jealousy can be a precursor to hatred. Weak people can't handle emotions. A strong person will overcome it. It just exposes the type of person they already are.
I am jealous of the hot bath and architecture and polite society and warm sake and lots of veggies and seafood to eat. Beautiful woodworking and thinking of others. Your videos are inspiring.
I never imagined Japanese people would be jealous of a “tall” nose, we usually think small noses are cuter 🙈 Also I have blue eyes but my boyfriend’s eyes are deep brown and I’ve always thought dark brown eyes are so attractive because they have so much more depth! (p.s. I just discovered your channel and love your content, thank you for helping me learn Japanese!)
I admit I fit most of what you say you are envious of. I think this is a case of 'the grass is greener on the other side of the wall'. Thank you for sharing!
Envious on how clean your streets is 😂 I Denmark we could learn a lot about trash, people smoke on the streets etc 😢
this is the prettiest woman ive ever seen in my life
Your country values courtesy and politeness and people respect the law and their elders... This dead in the UK. Here in Yorkshire it is normal to greet a stranger....
You are young and beautiful, here in the West a confident woman is a shining light in the darkness, you can be too !
no one seems to appreciate what they have, i think videos like these are pretty good to help people appreciate themselves and their features!
Japanese traditional culture is wonderful. Japanese people are polite, orderly, helpful, and act respectful to others. Many countries envy you instead.
Hi, once i got a compliment from a group of japanese girls for my blue eye colour,and i returned back compliment,telling her she is beautiful,and she was really surprised about it. I think that your eye colour is beautiful as it is,my opinion😊
Don't be jealous of foreigners. Japanese has things that even we Westerners wish we had. I bet Japan is a fantastic country, with good people. If I may say in Japanese: 日本が大好きです!!!! Keep up the great content cute Mochi sensei.
I agree there is a lot of stuff that Japanese people have that I ( Western ) want.
It's true
jealous in a good way tho!😊✨I also love Japan and happy to be Japanese🥰
@@mochirealjapanese3430 I see, also, I find Japanese women to be some of the most attractive women on the planet.
I love the politefulness in Japan and the Safety. Quite, Respectfulness and law abiding citizens. I wish we had this in California. We have be confident to survive this crazy state. 🤪
Well, it takes a lot of confidence to be able to be open about such things, so maybe you have some already! :)
your contacts look cute 🥹🥹i have green eyes but i wear brown and blue contacts too🥺🥺 i think they enhance makeup very well 💗
i was surprised visiting japan and being told my nose was high, i felt self conscious to think its big and sticks out 😂😂sadly im not rich to have a big house 😂😂but everyone’s features are seriously beautiful so everyone know you are beautiful for who you are❤️❤️ I’m envious of the culture of humility at the same time though I can understand possible burdens that may come with it. Also how small talk among strangers in Japanese language is not common. I feel the burden of unnecessary small talk in my language and culture. Perhaps because I’m introverted and shy.. Going to the supermarket in Japan I wasn’t asked hi how are you ect questions and I didn’t have to ask it back so I was relieved ..
Very cool. Thanks for the video
I’m jealous of Japanese men! Japan has the most beautiful women in the world. And may I say, you mochi are one of them. 😉🥰. And I love the Japanese culture. I’ve been to Japan many times. And love your country. People are always very nice and the scenery is beautiful. And the food, so good. And, I know this isn’t very important. But I love and miss the Japanese toilets. So high tech. And very comfortable.
Most people around the world have brown eye colors. Only Europeans (And their descendents) have such a variety 🙂
Self-confidence is often taken to extremes in the West which leads to terrible narcissism.
Don't change anything, we love you!
In America, not "the West". Europe is not like that.
@@goofygrandlouis6296 Maybe the Anglosphere would have been more appropriate then generalizing the West. I would include the UK in this narcissism, but you're right on steroids in the US.
@@VillemarMxO Agreed, although I would say it's only UK *women* who misbehave (at least the ones I see in Paris as student tourists).
Most UK men are decent and quiet.
Self confidence sure, but I would say it is self entitlement which yes, leads to narcism. It's just selfishness.
@@goofygrandlouis6296 Exhibit A on UK men: Barcelona or Mallorca. Or, you know, if you want to judge UK people, observe them in their natural habitat.
Dear Mochi Sensei, your ❤ is so sweet and so full of good things. You are trying to say a nice thing to compliment someone for having a tall nose when many people feel anxious about having a "big nose". Maybe instead tell them they have a very attractive face! 😊 I always enjoy watching and listening to you because you are very beautiful Mochi
I respect and admire Japanese, because you are No 1 at good manners and culture in Asia ❤
Modest, humble and beautiful.......
I love Japanese culture - i am a black guy - i have been listening to japanese music since i was maybe 9 or 10yrs old
1st time i heard the legendary Hironobu Kageyama sing Cha La Head Cha La in the mid 90s for dragonball z i was hooked i was like wow this sound is soooo different but amazing
and yes i think Japanese women are very beautiful very elegant, classy and feminine...:):)
I am jealous of the beautiful Japanese women who are not overweight or fat. Many if not all American women are big or just very overweight. I fell really hard (I was in Tokyo for five months) for a Japanese woman who was short and had short legs and hands. Her face was just to die for!! I didn't know that there was such beautiful women like the Japanese women.
Japanese women are much more beautiful. I don't want to disparage any females, so I won't do a comparison. I will say that Japanese women are beautiful in ways that others cannot be. Each one is a wonderous work of art.
you have to be confident on yourself, you are amazing!
Japan is very organized, clean and beautiful. You have a huge variety of healthy food. People are slim, educated and polite.
As for Japanese women, where do I start? They are very feminine (the Western ones are less and less), no tatoos, crazy hair colors or piercings, slim (important enough to mention it twice), and their almond eyes are very pretty.
Many Japanese women dye their hair various colors and have tattoos, especially in Tokyo these days.
@@xOmniCloudx Just checked google. No they don’t.
I watch videos of people walking in Japan in 4K in Like Tokyo, Kyoto, Sapporo, Harajuku and many, many, more. I don’t know why you’re lying? Does it make you feel better? Does it upset you that we don’t like piercings? lol. Why are you trying to ruin it for us?
You’ll see crazy outfits in Harajuku and Akihabara and Tokyo-yes. But that’s 1/100. It’s not the majority. Pls stop making things up making Japan seem like it’s California. Thank you!
@@wtfdidijustwatch1017maybe you should read the comment again it doesn’t say all Japanese women like you are implying stop taking things out of context 😂😂😂 💩 I sound like you
Asian people are so well cultured, the rest of the world need to take notes. Such polite people.. It's awesome.
Your Japanese is soo Kawaii 🥰🥰....
You should start appreciating yourself for what you are. I think you are on a good way there. Keep it up and thanks for your videos.
I think most western people agree that a tall/big nose is usually seen as something negative 😅
Yeah. The grass looks always greener on the other side.
@@laptopstudy3279 Talk for yourself. I'd trade my long nose for a shorter one without thinking it twice.
By big nose they mean more sharp or pointy. It's more defining unlike flat noses.
@@laptopstudy3279 "Foreigners" means more than just the USA. The rest of the world exists.
Tall, no.
Big, yes.
Japan stays humble….that is their best feature..and it attracts people all over the world.
My father was an RAF pilot, he returned from a trip to Japan in 1952 with his cine film of the people, my mother was fascinated and kept replaying his films, I as a boy had the Japanese clothes he brought back. In 1956 I was in Japan with him and he insisted we live like the Japanese sleeping on tatami mats for example. A daughter of a friend had blond hair and she had to cover it up as she was frightened by the Japanese gathering around her to touch her. I grew to admire the Shogun culture and all that is Japanese, now I'm so saddened about how the Japanese have given up there fantastic culture and taken on the crass American culture a sad loss to the world at large.
More like some aspects of western culture seeped into Japanese, it is still very distinct though. Culture is what always shifts, whether one likes it not.
American culture has literally spread world wide. Small price to pay for relative world peace.
#3 Self confidence. Might be a bit of a filter, in that the sort of person who might get on a plane and fly to Japan probably has some boldness in their personality. Also, and I found this when I went on student exchange, there's a feeling that you're not going to be visiting Japan for very long, so you want to make the most of it. I was more outgoing and friendly during my trip than I have ever been at home.
Finally... There's an important wisdom of Japan, I learned from David Suzuki's book: *"The man away from home has no neighbours".* If you've not heard it, it may be a product of an earlier generation. This phrase is deeper than it sounds. I counted 5 different ways in can be interpreted; 5 different lessons it can teach.
On of them is that a man away from home (visiting Japan, for example) does not have to feel concerned with what his neighbours, family, or friends back in his home country will say or judge about his behaviour, since they're far away and while probably never hear about it if he got drunk and ran through the neighbourhood naked. He cares more about what the people he knows think about him than he does what strangers think about him, and there are only strangers here. It's a very freeing thought (but a bit dangerous!)
Telling somebody they have a tall/ big nose is not something you should say to somebody 🤫 especially women 😅
in Japan 'tall' nose is something we really want🥰
it's interesting because women who have big and long noses have surgery to make them smaller in Iran.
it's not a compliment here 😁@@mochirealjapanese3430
@@mochirealjapanese3430 Tall and big are not the same thing, I agree.
But white women confuse the 2 and I would recommend explaining very carefully what you mean.
Because women can get (very) angry if you criticize their look.
@@mochirealjapanese3430Your nose is perfect as it is, don't change a thing!
Some western people have nose surgery to make their nose smaller or use makeup to make it look smaller.
People don't seen to like what they have, and want what they don't have. I wish people would just appreciate what they have.
Fun fact, there is recent research that suggests, that light eye colours like blue or green can see significantly better in low light conditions, but worse in very bright conditions. It seems that blue eyes frist came from a genetic mutation somewhere in the middle east, but over time it bacame very rare there, but much more common the more north you go. The research was actually done by Japanese sciencist living in Europe.
I have blue eyes. I could always see pretty well in the dark but I seldom go outside without sunglasses.
Direct sun, overcast, raining, whatever. It's still too bright.
And then it gets dark and I have everyone's headlights right in my face when I'm driving.
@@protorhinocerator142 The research is quite new and the sample size was only 40 people, so it is yet to be confirmed, but it does look very promising. You can look it up if you're interested, it was done by Dr. Kyoko Yamaguchi.
For someone with a bigger nose, I'm surprised to hear that Japanese people like tall noses. 😅 Most women in Europe want to have smaller noses.
I have brown eyes myself, but would like to have darker eyes and natural black hair. 😄
Really brave to open up and talk about jealousy. I think Japanese ppl have fantastic manners and politeness that other countries want. I also find Japanese women are very nice and friendly. I feel Japanese are confident, like a cool panther❤
thank yooou!✨
You are confident young lady 😊
You are so beautiful!!!!
It's nice to listen to you.
I think Japan might go a little overboard with humility, and the west goes too far with self-esteem. We have a lot of people with false confidence, and a fake it till you make it attitude. Many here think they can run before they can walk. In Japan and other Asian cultures with very strong filial piety and hierarchies, it seems like there are the opposite: competent people who actually lose confidence due to expectations of humility. Authenticity is the key! Be humble about your shortcomings and confident about your strengths. False humility and false confidence are detriments.
Amen
Moderation is key 🔑🔑
All to often people trust confidence. Ppl associate confidence with competence
Damn scary
I'm jealous how extremely cute japanese people are!
Appreciate your body features .
I'm Canadian, planning to visit Japan this October for many reasons one being I like how your society behaves.Btw You're very attractive Mochi 😁
Great video, I have blue eyes 👁️👁️, lol, am also looking for marriage, yes I want to marry and make the move to Osaka, Japan, does a Japanese woman like flowers, just asking, again amazing video, 🎉🎉❤❤
When I was visiting in Japan, I experienced the Grass is Greener on the other side effect. Everything is efficient and reliable, especially public transportation.
When it comes to eye color that would be European Gaijin - or people of European ancestry - not all "foreigners" 🤓😁🤫
love your channel
Firstly I think Mochi sensei should use the term Envy and not Jealous. The word Jelous carries a negative side along with it, There are many things that foreigners, Envy or Jelous about Japanese or East Asians in general, these are Asian looks age so much slower compared to the western world in general, they are often misunderstood as underage which may spark issues in western public perceptions, So the amount of Envy is there as most women do wants to look young. Another part is the Eye types that East Asian has like the big Rounded types, western often only show the slit eyes common to Chinese but they never do enough research that big Round Asian eyes exist like Mochi sensei's here which are consider gorgeous in the Eastern World which look like they are Anime girls in reality. Also Natural Black straight hair is envied by a lot of foreigners as well, I for one likes the Hime-cut. There are plenty more to say but know this the grass is always greener on the other side.
As for personality, for me being humble is far superior than being prideful as I live long enough to know which emotion leads to which having too much pride will lead to arrogance and disrespect, It may also lead to narcissistic behaviors, having self centered world views or too full of oneself. The culture of Japan in that regard, A Nation that practices humility, humbleness, and put others first has certainly contributed to social peace and low crime rate. A society that practices respect is given unless taken away which is a superior cultural moral conduct imo , compared to the, Western world concept of respect must be earned which leads to aggressive competition or even projection of oneself is one of the social issue plaguing the West.
thank you for correction, envy📝📝📝
Nice to see you again! ♥️🌺
Japanese: envious of big overseas house/land
Westerner: envious of tattami, traditional Japanese house design (no metal nails), hot spring.
God made in the color you needed to be!! Perfect in what you ARE!!
The truth is you are really pretty and you should not be jealous about appearance
Your English is amazing
I'm Canadian and I lack self-esteem all the time.
I love Asian eye shapes. They're unique and beautiful. Japanese men are so handsome. I'd love to have a Japanese boyfriend if possible.
It's truly saddening to see how many people will destroy their natural beauty for some exaggerated fantasy.
Some people do it because they genuinely just like a certain look or because they think it's cool. They're just artsy folk who use their bodies as a canvas.
Unfortunately, it seems like most think there's something deeply wrong with their appearance and that they need to change it to feel better about themselves.
let's be positive, I'll do my best too!😊
Little Dicks 😂
The grass is always greener
This japanese babe is a sweetie, way better look than most of the western girls.
One thing I'm jealous of is you dont deal with bidenflation so you have a cheaper cost of living which is why I hear of foreigners especially Americans like me get remote work jobs in USA and and physically live in japan
To comment on house sizes I think it can be geographical cause in big cities there are smaller houses but I think for you in japan the small houses has alot to do with how most people in Japan live in big cities
I was interviewed the other day for a school project and I was the only teacher who was speaking in English for it. I have to say after watching the interviews with the other Japanese teachers I became jealous of how refined Japanese people are when they speak due to the fact that the language is spoken with a fairly closed mouth. So while all the others looked like the should be on a T.V. show or in a movie I looked like an old hound dog yawning. 🤣
Please dont do surgery on eye color or nose 🙏
I won't👍✨
In my country, Argentina, speaks so sudden about the body of another person can be considerate so weird, almost like you have second intentions (Argentina is the south american country that can be the opposite pole to Japan in social aspects). Probably we'll be seeing you like "... Why are you saying that?" (It may bring conflict). We don't give opinion about another body without permission from that person or without be in trust with it, if they do can be unrespectful.
And besides, don't feel jealous about foreign/persons from another countries. Even we have problems of trust in ourselves from time-to-time. But! You can build up your confidence in yourself and be humild at the same time. We call it "love for yourself". When you learn how to love yourself, you'll become into a stronger person! 💕
I loved your video! It learned a lot 💕
Also I'm sorry for my bad english, this is not my native lenguage.
I think a lot of Americans are in awe of your President Milei. He goes around with a chain saw describing what he will do to wasteful government programs.
He's the kind of man many American men aspire to be.
I believe you can be a grateful person, a grateful person is unbreakable...
According to Arysio Santos' theory, the Atlanteans were in Sundaland.
because a major disaster occurred, elite Sundaland people migrated massively towards East Asia and ended up in the Kyushu region etc, you can learn the Out of Sundaland theory by Edwina Palmer. so you should be grateful because it is possible that your ancestors came from the Atlantean people of Sundaland.🙂
I was just thinking about the nose stuff 😂since I live in Japan I’ve been told so many times about how my nose is tall and my face small. At first I thought they were making fun of me ( I’ve been bullied in Italy about this) but now after 6 years in Japan I know what they mean… so I try to smile and say thank you instead of being sad ahah
The trains in Japan are nice. I took a Marta once in Atlanta and it was terrible and slow.
As European, I'm jealous of your beauty and cuteness 🙂
All women are beautiful. As long as you take care of yourself physically. Asian women are beautiful. If not even more. And I am white guy.
The culture of humility part is very interesting, as we have a very similar thing in Norway ("Janteloven"), which seems to be about the same. Aka "Don't think you are better than anyone else" and whatnot
*You know something that I would wish the most of many people in Austria, that I would change eye color, nose, tallness etc. for, what japanese have the most and that's humility and politeness. I think what the japanese achieved is far more amazing, than looks or things that you were born with and that didn't require blood, sweat and tears But I guess jealousy keeps the wheels spinning to achieve ever so great things.*