Why I never get nervous attempting hard routes

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024

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  • @MV78675
    @MV78675 Місяць тому +97

    Love the cat

    • @gr.4380
      @gr.4380 Місяць тому +7

      came for the advice, stayed for the cat

    • @darrenvalentine2477
      @darrenvalentine2477 Місяць тому

      As a Siamese owner I can empathise with the neediness!

    • @TheoMagas
      @TheoMagas Місяць тому

      They should collab with Louis cat!!!

    • @thesuperchoober
      @thesuperchoober Місяць тому +2

      Sparkle is an absolute huge unit

    • @csn583
      @csn583 Місяць тому

      Mouthing off!

  • @taker00
    @taker00 Місяць тому +73

    Finally Dave figured out how to play this youtube game 2:39

    • @boogaloo4640
      @boogaloo4640 Місяць тому +12

      We need a Sparkle & Ink collab

    • @gr.4380
      @gr.4380 Місяць тому +6

      I can't wait for all climbing videos to have an obligatory cat halfway through

  • @andrewbrockman8538
    @andrewbrockman8538 Місяць тому +2

    Love that your accent dials up a notch for the cat 😂

  • @savethebaysteve
    @savethebaysteve Місяць тому +25

    "If you are going to get upset about a single onsight attempt on a given route, then you're going to find climbing a very frustrating business." Internalizing this has been incredibly helpful to me, as I am a pretty bad onsight climber. Often missing beta that seems obvious on my second and third go. I would often compare myself to partners who were stronger at onsighting, wishing I could climb like them. But I have learned to just appreciate the movement, the outdoors, the friendship and embrace the redpoint!

  • @ThatOneHomlessGuy
    @ThatOneHomlessGuy Місяць тому +30

    Hey Dave, any plans to release a video on your first ascent of Bultitdue? Some of us are psyched to see that year long proj going down!
    Thanks for the insightful content once again.

  • @AlecARGH
    @AlecARGH Місяць тому +1

    Super helpful and cool video. I've been using the mantra "Let's take a look" before subsequent attempts and it's been pretty transformative in my climbing... I think I probably should apply it to other areas of my life!

  • @markharris2562
    @markharris2562 Місяць тому +8

    Dave, your videos just get better, which is astonishing given that they were incredible to begin with. This is one of the best videos I've seen, and easily applies to many other situations which may trigger this kind of anxiety, where you have to 'perform' (e.g. play live music, give a lecture, do well in an exam etc.). Thank you!

  • @gergthims
    @gergthims Місяць тому +2

    I got so much out of this to apply to guitar performance. Thank you!

  • @DanA-bt7dr
    @DanA-bt7dr Місяць тому +3

    Hi Dave. Great to see a video on this. I often think about your "just goin' for a climb" mantra before hopping on something that may seem scary/intimidating, so it's great to have "it's just an attempt" to add to the repertoire for stuff that is hard or at limit even though I am not really projecting right now. The theme of my season has been mental awareness/training and I really find I am at my best when I am calm and in the present moment, for example, only thinking about hand/foot holds, body movement sequences and not letting other things distract me. This video about cognitive de-loading and overall mindfulness has reinforced all my learning this season. Cheers!

  • @daver4331
    @daver4331 Місяць тому +2

    I came across a mantra seiging a long project that the current attempt has a binary outcome. It's getting done or it's not, dont stress. Weeks/Months/Years into a long term project every last bit of marginal gains will have being squeezed out. On any good day you should know they are aligned. Standing on the floor ready to go none of them will make a difference. In fact the elements that will make a difference such as training, rest and diet are already in the bank. Redpointing nerves were then replaced by curiosity, press play and run the process!

  • @maximeferre6903
    @maximeferre6903 Місяць тому +1

    Great video as usual ! Sparkles is making his way on your channel I love it !

  • @bassic6959
    @bassic6959 Місяць тому +5

    this is a great video Dave. I always get so caught up in the mental of it all and this is a really interesting perspective and it has given me a great deal of things to think about in my climbing.

  • @dantelaw7759
    @dantelaw7759 Місяць тому +1

    Great video, as always. Big fan of the cat.

  • @Productionbrikfilm
    @Productionbrikfilm Місяць тому +2

    Amazing thanks Dave! So valuable

  • @wilfinley
    @wilfinley Місяць тому +2

    Dave, you are the best! I really value your insight into climbing and training. Thanks for putting in the hard work to share it with us!

  • @life_of_riley
    @life_of_riley Місяць тому +2

    Great video. I find that if I say to my partner that I'm just going to climb bolt to bolt to practice beta, amazingly I'll be three quarters of the way up and I'm close to sending the route! I suppose I'm more relaxed because the mental pressure removed somewhat.

  • @AmroNaddy
    @AmroNaddy Місяць тому +2

    I love Dave’s wisdom about preparation, and feel like it has broader life appeal. Part of what I hear is similar to dealing with anxiety: you have to “avoid avoidance.” If you avoid the most stressful parts of the climb during preparation, you ultimately have to face them during the red point attempt. This inspires me to bring more intention to preparation - am I avoiding some difficult part of a climb, instead of confronting it and drilling it?

  • @AlexeiDrummond
    @AlexeiDrummond Місяць тому +3

    I do almost the same thing. If somebody asks me about the pressure I am feeling on the 17th go on a route I just say: it's just another tie-in. I try to find smaller goals than sending, and you almost always learn something from every attempt. Eventually you send it.

  • @garronfish8227
    @garronfish8227 Місяць тому +2

    I use "Let's give this a go!"

  • @MrTomo4415
    @MrTomo4415 Місяць тому +2

    Personally I think its good just to remind yourself we do this because its fun and we enjoy it

  • @bobwear123
    @bobwear123 Місяць тому +1

    This video made me think of the book "The Inner Game of Tennis" by W. Timothy Gallwey. I haven't read it all, but I highly recommend

  • @jackbrewin505
    @jackbrewin505 Місяць тому +18

    Sparkle the cat is goated

  • @RealWorldClimbing
    @RealWorldClimbing Місяць тому +1

    I needed this. And I finally feel I am ready to internalize it!

  • @Dan-xh1ci
    @Dan-xh1ci Місяць тому +1

    Great video! This is going to help a lot of people on their journeys. Thank you.

  • @kajtekmccranck9978
    @kajtekmccranck9978 Місяць тому +1

    Good video! Thanks a lot! It somehow resonates with my general approach which is: climbing is part of my life, but not my whole life.. So when I fail as a climber I'm not loosing as a human being. It's just an approach that takes away the burden that may limit me.

  • @homemsapo
    @homemsapo Місяць тому +1

    Developed my own mantra a while ago. It makes me feel present before trying hard

  • @zucabrasil
    @zucabrasil Місяць тому +1

    Great video. Thank you.

  • @MechanixPL
    @MechanixPL Місяць тому +1

    I knew it, the cat stole the show and there already cat comments! Great video, as always. And an awesome cat.

  • @bradb0t
    @bradb0t Місяць тому +7

    More Sparkle content please

  • @NCTradLines
    @NCTradLines Місяць тому +2

    Hey! Thanks for the content. Love the info. Especially, being a new climber 😊

  • @Zacman333
    @Zacman333 Місяць тому +1

    I agree with your belayer: Nice one, Dave!

  • @biodieseler1
    @biodieseler1 Місяць тому +1

    Inspiring, as always.

  • @miguelzapato59
    @miguelzapato59 Місяць тому +1

    Great video..thank you so much for the insights.

  • @middle-agedclimber
    @middle-agedclimber Місяць тому

    Congratulations! I was listening without watching video and I honestly thought the scream at 16:49 comes from a certain Czech climber 😊

  • @matteobecchi1210
    @matteobecchi1210 Місяць тому +2

    Great content as always!

  • @Chris.p.roberts
    @Chris.p.roberts Місяць тому +1

    A dedicated video on how to prepare for hard trad on-sight attempts would be fantastic. Are you a fan of doing a "warm up route" or would you rather save the energy and just warm up with bands/hangboards/pulling on the rock etc?

  • @PeterB-h6z
    @PeterB-h6z Місяць тому +2

    Suggestion for a technical topic: I'd love to see a video about lat engagement.
    Although topics like keeping tension through the feet and "pulling" are common in climbing, I rarely hear them discussed through the lens of proper lat engagement. I think some climbers (myself included) shirk the lats in favor of a more bicep- and shoulder-oriented style of climbing. The result is a pattern of climbing movement that does not use what should be the foundation of pulling and core tension (the lats).

  • @philleng480
    @philleng480 Місяць тому +1

    I think folks mix up nerves and fear. Nerves - concern about failure, fear - concern about danger. I don't suffer from nerves, too old and too practiced at failure. Fear - certainly, how good is that gear. I have a project i know i can do, but it is incredibly tenuous climbing, all above a single suspect piece (its groundfall if it fails). I know i can't let fear get into the hard sequence above the gear.

  • @sethgilbertson2474
    @sethgilbertson2474 Місяць тому +1

    Hearing you grunt with effort is extremely gratifying! 😅
    This video addresses something I absolutely struggle with! Thank you!

  • @erichardouin8903
    @erichardouin8903 Місяць тому +2

    I'm a neuropsychologist and listening too you feels like hearing an expert of that field, applied to climbing (and certainly life in general). You could have been a great one :)

  • @the_soap_opera
    @the_soap_opera Місяць тому +2

    omg, that cat ! 😍

  • @nikikovacs1923
    @nikikovacs1923 Місяць тому +1

    +5000 extra thumbs up for the cat.

  • @neaituppi7306
    @neaituppi7306 День тому

    I think onsite and flashing can be an unneeded competitive element.
    But it could also be a fun competition.
    I think I would do better to just climb something, not expecting to make it. Just climbing it, and see what happens.

  • @mw5360
    @mw5360 Місяць тому +2

    Daddy's back.

  • @Luca-cw9kg
    @Luca-cw9kg Місяць тому

    Dear Dave, I would love to see a video showcasing the different meals you take in a week while you're on a ketogenic or a carnivore diet and why you choose these different meals. As you mentioned before you're allergic to seafood so it doesn't apply for everyone but I still think it would be super interesting to see!

  • @salamandersmith
    @salamandersmith Місяць тому +1

    Using a shunt would fry my nerves for sure.

  • @vasia_is
    @vasia_is Місяць тому

    Dave, how do you separate / define "nerves" vs being scared?
    "Nerves" meaning some anticipation anxiety, and being scared meaning physiological response when doing a scary thing? I am asking as it is somewhat confusing to me - when I have some anxiety before going for an attempt (i.e. because of fear of falling), I feel that I also have a physiological response, but when I actually fall I often do not have time to "get more scared" - it happens very fast for me (maybe because I do not take huuuge trad whippers, and only have bouldering or sport falls)

  • @JoachimMilan1
    @JoachimMilan1 Місяць тому

    I take it that willingness to try hard, fail, reflect, and repeat is key to success.
    And fingerboarding.

  • @alexbarcovsky4319
    @alexbarcovsky4319 Місяць тому +1

    The craziest thing is that this advice is not even about rock climbing but life in general. Stress is caused by identifying yourself with the outcome and underpreparation. Oh the things climbing teaches us about life. These days its even cheaper than therapy anyway.

  • @gabrielrivera9594
    @gabrielrivera9594 Місяць тому

    Does sparkle ever give a go at the home wall?

  • @papalegba6796
    @papalegba6796 Місяць тому

    What about that John Dunne E8 in the Mourne? You were crapping yourself 😂

  • @utubesuxb4lls
    @utubesuxb4lls 19 днів тому

    do some 5.12x in the gunks

  • @milkymat
    @milkymat Місяць тому +1

    Siamese cats are the meowiest cats

  • @BoulderLab
    @BoulderLab Місяць тому +1

    I always knew you were a cat person!

  • @jensw6314
    @jensw6314 Місяць тому

    I dont get nervous bevor redponts attempts because I get "performance anxiety". I get nervous bevor redpoint attempts, because I'm scared of falling a crushing my knee, because I'm not climbing steep overhangig roofs.

  • @ryanpenrod1859
    @ryanpenrod1859 Місяць тому

    How dare you kick Sparkles out of the video!

  • @classicshadow2837
    @classicshadow2837 Місяць тому

    anyone else think the cat should take over the channel, i mean daves cool but in all honestly he's got nothing on the little dude who won the video with 30 seconds of screen time

  • @robertcreer8826
    @robertcreer8826 24 дні тому

    algorithm

  • @red_rassmueller1716
    @red_rassmueller1716 Місяць тому

    2sek bro fell off... in the video that is...

  • @ralfalfi
    @ralfalfi Місяць тому +1

    This generation’s “Rock Warrior’s Way” is your series of videos on the mental side of climbing. 🫶🏼🫶🏼