As someone who is a chronic masker (adult ADHD), I can see that she is not present with anything she is saying right now. She has her interview mask on and probably feels anxious as hell. And as a therapist, I would call her out on it immediately so that we can get to the real her. So I hope that she is still in therapy working on healing and I pray for her❤
She said “we’re all actors” then a min later said “ I don’t have anything going on. I’m not an actor.” Lol beautiful girl tho 🙏🏾… def can’t wait for this panel
Unfortunately, Patricia is not a good listener.. Kojo, asked what was the reason her relationships didn’t work.. her response is she left because she was growing. 🤔 ma’am what??!’ I peeped Kojo went off 📺 screen… he was like damn just ask the question already!!!
You answered her a lot of times, it is Not what she said, it is how she said it. She didn't want to be there and the guys felt it. She can't grow until she can realizes that. You are a great interviewer and held her accountable.
I think it is guarded and unguarded to talk about needing a safe space so I see the confusion. Being open about a need is technically vulnerable and also having all of these demands and stipulations for love, like needing a man to do this or that BEFORE you will open up, is itself guarded. = So she openly communicated being fearful in love. You don’t need a man to act first before sharing your feelings. If he doesn’t respond or rejects you, you will move on and survive. You wont crumble in despair.
45:52 sis, the way you’re talking even now, any person would think you’ve experienced some bad relationships. I also notice when you asked about why SHE sounds so guarded in her talk now, she keeps saying what all women want. The truth is I think she is carrying other women’s struggles. Meaning, a lot of women will talk about men abusing and cheating on women but have not experienced it themselves.
I enjoyed this interview. My friend Actually Aubrey interviewed her a couple of days ago, and you brought out some different information. She definitely needs someone culturally similar, or if he's not, maybe a military man. I wish her all the best.
33:06 ...yes..I concur with the friend who only want to hear negative about you..I had to let go of a 25yr friendship when I realised they only came around when I had issues/trauma going on..when I had good news to share, suddenly they didn't have time nor wld they return calls..nor congratulate...funny a boyfriend from 27yr ago once said to me "that is not your friend ".. and I was angry with him for saying that...
It's giving Zadia vibes the condescending awkward laugh the sarcastic remarks just everything, horrible characteristics she is cringe come off off-putting IMO
Patricia is articulate, conscious and evolved and of course gorgeous. None of those men on RTL were of her calibre except maybe Chaz. I believe she dodged bullets
PP is from Brooklyn and they often have sharp edges. She would benefit from charm school or by taking a class to build charm at Carnegie. It ultimately takes a lot more than beauty to find success.
came in on the second half of the interview and commented that she was speaking in very general terms but to be fair I missed the first half where she was talking about her ex best friend, real estate/properties, and a bit about her experience in tech. We can all improve in some areas but it looks like she still has many areas she shines in.
She seems very defensive when Kojo tries having dialogue about her behavior but the entire time he allowed her to speak about her relationships with others she kept holding herself in higher regard to those people - she never once indicated what the error of HER ways were.Comes across as “wise in her own eyes”… “intelligent words” are coming from her mouth but there’s a disconnect with her behavior …
I don't know Kojo, she may be direct in some of her answers but in all honesty, I just think she's being her authentic self, I don't see what you're pointing out as a positive nor a negative. She said she was a tech person so maybe because she has to be direct in problem solving on her job maybe that is what you see. I would probably say that this type of format show may not have been for a lady such as Patricia. Perhaps there's not enough professional men like Chaz. Everyone doesn't talk at the same conversation level and the fellas on this show all seem extremely different in personalities from Lamar to Chaz. I personally think she was just being too real on a show that is more about ratings and some ratchetness rather than being real and authentic.
I somewhat agree but I don't think she read the room and the men. A meet and greet is lighthearted mingling ...really deep conversations about how to keep her safe was inappropriate for that setting. Somehow she missed that
You’re wrong Kojo. Some men can’t take a strong Black woman which she clearly is. You want her to be all demure and appease these men who are not worth it. She is out of their league and they knew it. Keep being you Patricia. A man who is not threatened by a strong accomplished Black women will love your spirit. I found one.
Strong black woman my 'a**", just getting with Microsoft, she's going to be looking at those blue collar men that make over six figures and that don't get 'laid off' like so many Microsoft employees yearly.. And at her age she's just getting into the game?! GOH!!! 😂😂😂😂
@@andrejohnson1703 she has problems according to who. Some ppl who saw her for 5 min on a show. Or you are getting your info from this interview. That is not the summation of this young woman’s life. All you couch psychiatrists.
One thing I noticed or felt is that she was diplomatic and generalized her answers and didn’t always personalize it. I felt she was defending her stance, more than we got to actually learn about who she was and her past experiences. I think the toes point might have been a touch over extended. Though I do get what Kojo was trying to get her to see about herself. She does have a bit of a tone though.
It's so very low class to expect a woman of class to be comfortable and submissive when answering questions with sexual undertones on a first meeting. A man with class and who is a gentleman wouldn't even ask such questions so soon. And I think this current host is very low vibrational in implying that her response to a tacky question was a problem with her character and not the "man" who asked it. Patricia keep doing you.
She said- "he had an infant that passed or whatever". If thats how u acknowledge vulnerability i want no parts of it. Geezzz. I also understand you cant prepare for this interview and youre basically trying to defend your character...
Bottom line she did not find any of the men appealing so she checked out early. For her at that point... it was like chatting with a stranger at a bus stop just being polite. The guys just werent up to par with her preference, but at least she kept it classy. I saw the episode..yea the guys sensed that she wasnt feeling them so everything she said or did was going to come off as offensive in their mind. Theyre egos were bruised and we know men cant handle rejection well
I wouldn’t equate intelligence with one’s ability to articulate. Not everyone is a speaker. I for one cannot talk but I can write fire essays. Some of the smartest people can’t even talk.
I wasnt going to watch this interview until i saw your debrief panel. Watching the show i thought that they picked the right person to exit the 1st night. There was alot of cringe watching this interview. I think its hard to have a flow of conversation when someone feels it is everyone else and nothing is them - from early childhood to relationships.
Patricia is gorgeous! Very accomplished..however I see why the producers would get rid of her. It's almost like she's too smart and the producers didn't care for it. The interview also started off very dry and made me cringe at the end.
She's gorgeous. Looks like Kenya Moore. It took a while for her to loosen up and have a natural smile and Natural laugh because those first few minutes with the laughing seemed unnatural. I noticed that she said the people at work asked if she even wanted to be there. She has a angry look naturally. It's maybe something that she should work on. Her eyes and moth seem rather firm and gives off that firm energy. I think she was waaayyy too serious on the show and no man wants that in the first 15 minutes of meeting someone. Just lighten up a bit is my suggestion
I caught onto that. She lives her life through social media and other women’s issues. That’s why she was never really able to singularly explain what SHE wanted and why she continuously said “all women want” or “we want”.
Patricia there is nothing wrong with you. The men on this show and this host are not on your level. There IS a man out there who can handle a strong woman without being insecure. My husband is the first and only man ive ever been with who is not insecure in my personality. So do NOT dim your light for these less than men. Fyi. I know 2 of the guys on the current show. Trust when i say you arent missing anything (I didnt date either guy. I just have had life encounters with them). Anyway, be YOU sis and the right man will come along.
@@LittleBlackBook91when you kept pressing her about her tone when she responded to the sucking toes question. She answered your question, but you continued to rephrase it to try and point the finger at how she responded to his question. But why does a woman have to respond "respectfully" to a disrespectful question? You want to make sure she knows "she is the problem", when really the group of men she met are not on her level. This season seems to have a mentality mismatch.
Beauty will only take you so far. She should continue therapy to find security within herself. Her resting face is unapproceable, unpleasant. Alonzo is not well matched with PP. I wish her well. The men this season are mostly awful
As a brown girl I think the decision to let her go was correct. Even she admitted that she took this very seriously and it wasn't received well by any of the men. Colorism didn't play a part in my opinion . Persality did
I can see why the men had difficulty in trying to have conversations with her. I think dating conversations should start off light and she was not that. I understand that the time constraint of the show probably played a part in her mind, but she needed to have lighter, softer energy.
As a rule many black men consider light skinned female beautiful. In this case PP, who is beautiful, did not connect with any of the men and was sent home. PP should continue therapy and lighten up.
She struggles with accountability and refuses to understand that Kojo is trying to get her to understand how other people may perceive her.
Literally what i said - when Kojo started holding the mirror up to her she became very defensive !!
She reminds me of a younger Kenya Moore...absolutely drop dead gorgeous ❤
Yes, I can see that -- both women are stunning and very intelligent.
Absolutely gorgeous!!😍😍😍😍
As someone who is a chronic masker (adult ADHD), I can see that she is not present with anything she is saying right now. She has her interview mask on and probably feels anxious as hell. And as a therapist, I would call her out on it immediately so that we can get to the real her. So I hope that she is still in therapy working on healing and I pray for her❤
nailed it
Being a tech recruiter is not the same as being techy...I know she is grateful for her friend at Microsoft.
I legit was just saying this… a tech recruiter is “not in tech.” People are watering tech down by saying that.
She should say she worked in the tech sector instead
Exactly, she is delusional
Even in thinking Project Management is high level leadership… she fluffs her story a lot and says a whole lot of nothing
She said “we’re all actors” then a min later said “ I don’t have anything going on. I’m not an actor.” Lol beautiful girl tho 🙏🏾… def can’t wait for this panel
She contradicts herself a lot lol.
She was being sarcastic when she said we are all actors, because she claims the producers were really in control
Unfortunately, Patricia is not a good listener.. Kojo, asked what was the reason her relationships didn’t work.. her response is she left because she was growing. 🤔 ma’am what??!’ I peeped Kojo went off 📺 screen… he was like damn just ask the question already!!!
She is beautiful and she makes a lot of sense. I enjoyed her interview❤
You answered her a lot of times, it is Not what she said, it is how she said it. She didn't want to be there and the guys felt it. She can't grow until she can realizes that. You are a great interviewer and held her accountable.
That laugh tho...it's a lil fakey😑maybe interviewing was nerve racking for her
Not sure if it is nerves, engineered confidence or she is naturally that way.
No accountability, blaming production and the men! But she is beautiful.
This was a difficult interview to watch. It seemed like she used many words, but still didn't say anything of substance.
Honestly! So difficult and she seemed very resistant to an opposing opinion.
Yes
She talked to the men like it was a business meeting and they were going over bullet points
I think it is guarded and unguarded to talk about needing a safe space so I see the confusion. Being open about a need is technically vulnerable and also having all of these demands and stipulations for love, like needing a man to do this or that BEFORE you will open up, is itself guarded. = So she openly communicated being fearful in love. You don’t need a man to act first before sharing your feelings. If he doesn’t respond or rejects you, you will move on and survive. You wont crumble in despair.
This is very poetic
She can not take accountability for her actions. And she really doesn't now herself. Keep doing your therapy, sis. You need it. And men aren't simple.
45:52 sis, the way you’re talking even now, any person would think you’ve experienced some bad relationships. I also notice when you asked about why SHE sounds so guarded in her talk now, she keeps saying what all women want. The truth is I think she is carrying other women’s struggles. Meaning, a lot of women will talk about men abusing and cheating on women but have not experienced it themselves.
@@gracemercysaved8102 a lot of women do this, almost to the point where they end up self sabotaging in relationships.
True, but she was also speaking for herself. I wonder if her circle of friends has the same expectations...maybe that's why she said that.
I enjoyed this interview. My friend Actually Aubrey interviewed her a couple of days ago, and you brought out some different information. She definitely needs someone culturally similar, or if he's not, maybe a military man. I wish her all the best.
Kojo is the best
The lies people tell themselves to sleep at night…
👆🏾
MAN STOP YA GOT MOMMY ISSUES DRUG ISSUES. all types of stuff. Black men need to stop it😅😅😅. Most of ya CAN'T READ.
Oh wow, I thought my childhood home was the only one like that, the anticipatory mood, that was my mom, that was my childhood.
33:06 ...yes..I concur with the friend who only want to hear negative about you..I had to let go of a 25yr friendship when I realised they only came around when I had issues/trauma going on..when I had good news to share, suddenly they didn't have time nor wld they return calls..nor congratulate...funny a boyfriend from 27yr ago once said to me "that is not your friend ".. and I was angry with him for saying that...
Patricia is beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤
It's giving Zadia vibes the condescending awkward laugh the sarcastic remarks just everything, horrible characteristics she is cringe come off off-putting IMO
Why would she keep saying a person I would never talk to, sweetie you had failed relationships with the " person you would normally talk to"
Patricia is articulate, conscious and evolved and of course gorgeous. None of those men on RTL were of her calibre except maybe Chaz. I believe she dodged bullets
...or vice versa
A damn 'BARTENDER'?! Please!!!!
PP is from Brooklyn and they often have sharp edges. She would benefit from charm school or by taking a class to build charm at Carnegie. It ultimately takes a lot more than beauty to find success.
came in on the second half of the interview and commented that she was speaking in very general terms but to be fair I missed the first half where she was talking about her ex best friend, real estate/properties, and a bit about her experience in tech. We can all improve in some areas but it looks like she still has many areas she shines in.
She seems very defensive when Kojo tries having dialogue about her behavior but the entire time he allowed her to speak about her relationships with others she kept holding herself in higher regard to those people - she never once indicated what the error of HER ways were.Comes across as “wise in her own eyes”… “intelligent words” are coming from her mouth but there’s a disconnect with her behavior …
She's too defensive. She sounds too angry and hurt by being rejected by 4 men from an unserioous show like ready to love. 😅
I don't know Kojo, she may be direct in some of her answers but in all honesty, I just think she's being her authentic self, I don't see what you're pointing out as a positive nor a negative. She said she was a tech person so maybe because she has to be direct in problem solving on her job maybe that is what you see. I would probably say that this type of format show may not have been for a lady such as Patricia. Perhaps there's not enough professional men like Chaz. Everyone doesn't talk at the same conversation level and the fellas on this show all seem extremely different in personalities from Lamar to Chaz. I personally think she was just being too real on a show that is more about ratings and some ratchetness rather than being real and authentic.
I somewhat agree but I don't think she read the room and the men. A meet and greet is lighthearted mingling ...really deep conversations about how to keep her safe was inappropriate for that setting. Somehow she missed that
You’re wrong Kojo. Some men can’t take a strong Black woman which she clearly is. You want her to be all demure and appease these men who are not worth it. She is out of their league and they knew it. Keep being you Patricia. A man who is not threatened by a strong accomplished Black women will love your spirit. I found one.
Strong black woman my 'a**", just getting with Microsoft, she's going to be looking at those blue collar men that make over six figures and that don't get 'laid off' like so many Microsoft employees yearly.. And at her age she's just getting into the game?! GOH!!! 😂😂😂😂
I disagree. Strong doesn't mean that you're not friendly and likeable. She was very uptight and authoritative. What man wants that from a woman?
I disagree. I didn’t see that behavior.
@@jikidean-adedeji6761 If you can't read that she has problems?! My goodness...
@@andrejohnson1703 she has problems according to who. Some ppl who saw her for 5 min on a show. Or you are getting your info from this interview. That is not the summation of this young woman’s life. All you couch psychiatrists.
One thing I noticed or felt is that she was diplomatic and generalized her answers and didn’t always personalize it. I felt she was defending her stance, more than we got to actually learn about who she was and her past experiences. I think the toes point might have been a touch over extended. Though I do get what Kojo was trying to get her to see about herself. She does have a bit of a tone though.
She’s all over the place
She got jokes. Wonderful.
She is gorgeous and knows what she wants and what she doesn’t want. Period.
She def has a nervous laugh
She is spectacularly gorgeous. 😊
There was nothing wrong with her tone. Men can be really sensitive.
Maaan, this interview was a lot. I hope she goes back to watch it to see how her tone and responses come across.
I like this Sista. 😊
It's so very low class to expect a woman of class to be comfortable and submissive when answering questions with sexual undertones on a first meeting. A man with class and who is a gentleman wouldn't even ask such questions so soon. And I think this current host is very low vibrational in implying that her response to a tacky question was a problem with her character and not the "man" who asked it. Patricia keep doing you.
Yes, you made some great points!!
She said- "he had an infant that passed or whatever". If thats how u acknowledge vulnerability i want no parts of it. Geezzz.
I also understand you cant prepare for this interview and youre basically trying to defend your character...
I think in her mind she respinded to the toe question in a fum and humorous way...un her mind but in reality it seemed more like a job interview
Bottom line she did not find any of the men appealing so she checked out early. For her at that point... it was like chatting with a stranger at a bus stop just being polite. The guys just werent up to par with her preference, but at least she kept it classy. I saw the episode..yea the guys sensed that she wasnt feeling them so everything she said or did was going to come off as offensive in their mind. Theyre egos were bruised and we know men cant handle rejection well
She looks similar to Kenya Moore.
I saw on a comment from Married for 10 years podcast that Aries from last season RTL was Jonathan's ex wife😮
Wait woaaaaaah lol 😆 cannot be van it
For an intelligent person, she’s finding it difficult to articulate her thoughts.. it’s like she speaking in circles
I wouldn’t equate intelligence with one’s ability to articulate. Not everyone is a speaker. I for one cannot talk but I can write fire essays. Some of the smartest people can’t even talk.
I wasnt going to watch this interview until i saw your debrief panel. Watching the show i thought that they picked the right person to exit the 1st night. There was alot of cringe watching this interview. I think its hard to have a flow of conversation when someone feels it is everyone else and nothing is them - from early childhood to relationships.
She said a whole lot without saying anything at all 🤷🏽♀️
Patricia is gorgeous! Very accomplished..however I see why the producers would get rid of her. It's almost like she's too smart and the producers didn't care for it. The interview also started off very dry and made me cringe at the end.
Wasn't she a bartender until her friend found her a job?! Yeah okay that speaks volumes itself...
She's gorgeous. Looks like Kenya Moore. It took a while for her to loosen up and have a natural smile and Natural laugh because those first few minutes with the laughing seemed unnatural. I noticed that she said the people at work asked if she even wanted to be there. She has a angry look naturally. It's maybe something that she should work on. Her eyes and moth seem rather firm and gives off that firm energy. I think she was waaayyy too serious on the show and no man wants that in the first 15 minutes of meeting someone.
Just lighten up a bit is my suggestion
Only 7 minutes in. Too much nervous laugh. And saying “all women OR generalizing
I caught onto that. She lives her life through social media and other women’s issues. That’s why she was never really able to singularly explain what SHE wanted and why she continuously said “all women want” or “we want”.
What island is she from?
The laugh...
Kojo I could barely hear u, need to into mike
I will correct that in future
Patricia there is nothing wrong with you. The men on this show and this host are not on your level. There IS a man out there who can handle a strong woman without being insecure. My husband is the first and only man ive ever been with who is not insecure in my personality. So do NOT dim your light for these less than men. Fyi. I know 2 of the guys on the current show. Trust when i say you arent missing anything (I didnt date either guy. I just have had life encounters with them). Anyway, be YOU sis and the right man will come along.
Where did u see me dim her light? This wasn’t even about strong it was about how people receive us. To pretend otherwise is disingenuous.
@@LittleBlackBook91when you kept pressing her about her tone when she responded to the sucking toes question. She answered your question, but you continued to rephrase it to try and point the finger at how she responded to his question. But why does a woman have to respond "respectfully" to a disrespectful question? You want to make sure she knows "she is the problem", when really the group of men she met are not on her level. This season seems to have a mentality mismatch.
How is she above the men or anyone?! PLEASE!!!!
@@andrejohnson1703I don't expect you to understand.
@@storytimewithdahqueen You don't understand, she has a problem, she's all over the place..
😂😂😂 therapy?
Is it me or is the beginning of this interview a little "forced" ... I hope I make it all the way through it.
This was a struggle to watch in that she was talking but not saying much… I still don’t know her…
You tried Kojo
You were only there for 1 day…
I just don’t think they were interested…
Beauty will only take you so far. She should continue therapy to find security within herself. Her resting face is unapproceable, unpleasant. Alonzo is not well matched with PP. I wish her well. The men this season are mostly awful
Kojo we dont have to respond to please men.
Nice looking but not Kenya. Kenya is beautiful.
Once again a point pushed to death hoping the person will agree. If she didnt see/feel it, she didnt.
This interview was cringe
Kojo, you explained it well but she was not ready to self reflect. Her whole demeanor changed when the "suck the toe" conversation was brought up.
Literally changed
Why did they l et the Chocolate girl first, was that the Men decision the fairer skin , inquiring minds want to know...
As a brown girl I think the decision to let her go was correct. Even she admitted that she took this very seriously and it wasn't received well by any of the men. Colorism didn't play a part in my opinion . Persality did
Stop, not everything is colorism… the woman clearly has issues. meika is darker skinned and the men gush over her
I can see why the men had difficulty in trying to have conversations with her. I think dating conversations should start off light and she was not that. I understand that the time constraint of the show probably played a part in her mind, but she needed to have lighter, softer energy.
As a rule many black men consider light skinned female beautiful. In this case PP, who is beautiful, did not connect with any of the men and was sent home. PP should continue therapy and lighten up.