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  • @CH-ud4ee
    @CH-ud4ee 9 місяців тому +27

    This interview made me feel like carmen asked for this interview and not kojo

  • @thisgirlisfancy
    @thisgirlisfancy 9 місяців тому +19

    Dakiya was "TRYING" to talk to Clifton??? Looked like Clifton was leading her on cause she definitely didn't have to TRY to talk to someone who was initiating talking to her🙄but I get it, you defend Clifton. As if he is a prize. I'm mad Dakiya gave him the time of day...he's perfect for Joi.😏

    • @chooselove4307
      @chooselove4307 8 місяців тому

      Did you watch the interviews after the show ended? Clifton never talked to Dakiyah on his own Joi asked Clifton to pick Dakiyah as his #2, because Dakiyah went crying to Joi saying she was going to be voted off because none of the guys liked her or was picking her. Clifton always said Joi was his #1 and who he was picking since day 1, but he had to pick a number 2 so when Carmen came on the show based off looks and body he wanted to pick Carmen as his #2 but Joi changed that plan. Dakiya was a liar anyway because she didn't really work at NASA.

    • @Magique88888
      @Magique88888 6 місяців тому

      this aged well

  • @tiffanyadams2956
    @tiffanyadams2956 9 місяців тому +52

    Now that woman does NOT look like that photo she provided 🤔😒🤦‍♀️

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +1

      😂

    • @chellybaby
      @chellybaby 9 місяців тому +10

      Lmao I was like who the hell is that

    • @WenNRome
      @WenNRome 9 місяців тому +3

      And still looked a mess

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +2

      @@WenNRome 😯

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 9 місяців тому +3

      No, she looks even more gorgeous in the interview❤

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +27

    She def prepped herself before the interview

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 9 місяців тому +2

      Sure did! Carmen don’t play about her business. I hear you girl.

  • @glocan
    @glocan 9 місяців тому +16

    It was real funny how towards the beginning when you we're talking to her about her upbringing and her accomplishments she was very talkative and open. Then you asked about how she feels about her dad and she clammed up and her demeanor completely changed. I think it could've been a sensitive topic that she didn't want to delve into and she dismissed it as everything was fantastic almost as if she didn't want to give you the satisfaction of seeing her be vulnerable. As she said herself... you're a very good interviewer who knows how to ask the tough questions.

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому

      💯💯

    • @aphillips136
      @aphillips136 8 місяців тому +2

      Yes, she detached from the emotional aspect because she didn’t want to be vulnerable and she focused on the logical conclusion. There’s an emotional process that takes place before you logically put people in “position”. I came from a similar background with a home full of love with my mother and grandparents, but I still wanted my dad there consistently. It hurt that he wasn’t there all the time, even when my grandad was there providing strong fatherly leadership and love in our household. Although I sensed the reality of my situation, it was still a sore spot and hurtful deep down. You go on with life as normal, but the pain and emotion is still underneath until resolved, most times later as an adult with therapy and/or spirituality.

  • @rent8104
    @rent8104 9 місяців тому +13

    It was the bring the boyfriend on tactic for me. Great job Kojo......

  • @ashleywilliams7011
    @ashleywilliams7011 7 місяців тому +1

    Carmen's boyfriend emphasized that Clifton is a *tender guy, does that equates to sassy???

  • @SallyThompson-cs5qy
    @SallyThompson-cs5qy 9 місяців тому +20

    GREAT INTERVIEW w/Carmen. She’s SMART & as articulate as YOU. Comes across as a genuine person & straight shooter.

    • @evemasemola542
      @evemasemola542 9 місяців тому +2

      Yeap she was reading him at some points on how to properly interview 😂😂😊

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 9 місяців тому +2

      I agree, 100%

    • @nkee567
      @nkee567 8 місяців тому

      God blessed Dakiya with minister Alex williams. I am buzzing for her. She is truly a classy lady.

  • @karmikarm1079
    @karmikarm1079 9 місяців тому +17

    I’m glad I heard her side because she absolutely changed my opinion. I never liked Carmen or Joi but I do believe her about not being interested in Cliff. I also believe her about the beard situation. She acknowledges in hindsight the optics looked bad but it was about the product.

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +8

    My problem is how she plays naive sometimes, "not thinking" how its ginna come across when SHES THE ONE WHO DID THE P.R. I dont think she wants Clifton, I do think shes just naturally flirtatious 💁🏾 Lets be real, she can run circles around Dude here. But if shes happy💁🏾

  • @thisqueenwontquit9699
    @thisqueenwontquit9699 9 місяців тому +8

    well done KOJO for turning every leaf and asking difficult questions
    well done to Carmen's bf for defending your woman
    too bad that Joi and Clifton chose a story line over a friendship

  • @pearlinelowe3279
    @pearlinelowe3279 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for, keep it real kojo & calling her out on what she did with the beard 👀🤔👀🤗

  • @needtotrustafriend7610
    @needtotrustafriend7610 7 місяців тому +1

    Carmen in PR trying to get on this show. Nobody said you have to be on camera

  • @chooselove4307
    @chooselove4307 8 місяців тому +1

    This was a FANTASTIC interview with Carmen, and I'm so glad LA 'Ray joined her. They are a beautiful couple and I know Carmen and knew who she was before Ready To Love. Carmen is well known in the DMV area for her non-profits, her PR work with athletes, newscasters, entertainers, companies, FOX5 DC, she owns a technology company, and she helps get Black businesses started and operating in the DMV. The one thing I think most people don't know about Carmen is she is extremely educated and successful and Clifton isn't in her tax bracket, so she would never date him. That was the issue with Donovan that he lied about his career/finances and he had never dated or being married to a Black woman. It is disappointing that Clifton and Joi allowed Erana and Jaime Tyler lies about a threesome for a storyline on LMDC come between their friendship with Carmen, especially when they said they were best friends. Clifton and Joi used Carmen and Ashley Silva to get on LMDC and then stabbed them in the back, and that's why they need to be off the show.

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +6

    She already said he was super jealous..this just not giving what he thinks. Carmen just let him have his minute😂 We know Girl

  • @simplysheronda
    @simplysheronda 9 місяців тому +9

    This is giving Monique and Daddy vibes... Kojo, I am glad that you asked her the question, why didn't she mention her man?
    Carmen prepared for this interview and came off disingenuous.
    Clifton and Joi both defended her. Joi said she rides for Carmen. Also, in the conversation with Rayna, she said she trusted Clifton and Carmen. Why would Joi mention your man when he said himself said he wants to be the background.
    Carmen's man felt away, that's why she let him talk.

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +4

      CliffDon and Joy come across disingenuous as hell but everything else 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯. She wouldn't have cared as much if Old Boy wasn't pissy about it lol

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +2

      Not Uncle Daddy

  • @ashleywilliams7011
    @ashleywilliams7011 7 місяців тому +1

    She's blaming others for making her look thirsty and not herself, but she said "look thirsty on two shows", imo, it's her own actions that makes her look thirsty.

  • @lalalashuwn0073
    @lalalashuwn0073 9 місяців тому +13

    Girl byeeee! I can not, I tried to watch it all but I can’t smh

  • @jgordon1617
    @jgordon1617 8 місяців тому +2

    Kojo is so funny. The way he sniffs out bs with his silent moments and long pauses really breaks people down and begins to eradicate the strategy they pre-planned. You really had her PR brain thinking real fast.😂😂

    • @LittleBlackBook91
      @LittleBlackBook91  8 місяців тому +3

      hahahahah sometimes the beauty is in the silence

  • @jewellsmith9499
    @jewellsmith9499 9 місяців тому +9

    May I say this in the most respectful way!!!! She loves the spotlight, she appears to not take accountability, she deflects a bit and is a bit delusional. However she’s beautiful.

  • @Azariah00
    @Azariah00 8 місяців тому +1

    The “putting people in positions” conversation is very simple. And she explained it well

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +6

    Is she tryna prove she has a man or does HE want it to be known?

  • @mcdianer
    @mcdianer 9 місяців тому +2

    This was great. I do like when Carmen said stop with the “perfect life, white picket fence image” sold to most. Enjoy your life as it is.

  • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
    @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 9 місяців тому +8

    Carmen, Cliff, and Joi are doing the most for publicity. I don't care if they're sister wives with chunky Cliff. Honey nut Cheerios is most favorite for US adults, who eat cereal. We don't want too much sugar and it's heart-healthy.

  • @angelabates3931
    @angelabates3931 8 місяців тому +3

    Idk but 1:38:52 when her Boo was saying he would have been caught it and how good of an investigator he is, the look on her face was like, "huh...you think so? Silly you"
    IDK...I could be wrong but....

  • @kyralela
    @kyralela 9 місяців тому +4

    Very interesting how Carmen described Donavan as “emotional” and her boyfriend described himself the same way. Most women who come off emotionally avoidant or “realist”(black and white) often crave emotion from their partners. As an realist I am aware of my avoidance so being with someone who can get that from me means a lot and is important for a healthier relationship (in my opinion). He seems like a good dude. Carmen the PR let this man speak but begged Donovan not too. It says a lot.

    • @chooselove4307
      @chooselove4307 8 місяців тому

      When Carmen described Donovan as "emotional" she didn't mean it in a negative way, she was saying he is quick to get mad and lash out at people like he did at The Reunion. She was trying to protect Donovan from being ripped to shreds and unprepared for Kojo interview, because Donovan doesn't have interview experience. That's why Kojo followers spoke negative about Donovan after the interview.

  • @ShaShaLuva414
    @ShaShaLuva414 8 місяців тому +1

    I wish I could read Kojo mind because his smile speaks volume 😅 I see a whole lot of wonk wonk coming from this woman. I actually stop listening because I really don’t know what they are talking about anymore 😎 I’m lost

  • @devilzadvoc8
    @devilzadvoc8 6 місяців тому +1

    Sooooooooo, she wants to be on the show and BIG mad that her friends didn't give her credit for putting her on the show?!🙄😏

  • @vibranthang13
    @vibranthang13 8 місяців тому +2

    Poor thang…Carmen wants a spot in the show! Too bad…they all are jealous of people that are truly in love!!!!! Carmen get a life!!!☑️💀🫤

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +2

    "i dont want you in my chat"... because they have a different phone 😒

  • @Tbranch1353
    @Tbranch1353 8 місяців тому +3

    let's keep it a buck. Carmen leads with her sexuality first. Not only that, when you watch Love and Marriage DC, Carmen was attracted organically to cliff from day one and cliff was attracted to Carmen. This is why he fixed her plate of food at the cookout and sat next to her. That is also why Joy kissed him to mark her spot. Carmen keeps saying that her and Joi were not friends on the show and that she did not want to be her friend. The Only reason she is Joi friend is because of optics and Cliff suggested it.
    Now, when she rubbed his beard, that is inappropriate as a business or friend of someone's husband. you hire models to test your productids and keep it professional. Carmen is smart and diabolically strategic. she does nothing without thought.
    Joi is also diabolical and only accepts Carmen as a business colleague. They were all hanging out under the public relations client relationship. they are not friends.

    • @ShaShaLuva414
      @ShaShaLuva414 8 місяців тому +1

      I feel 😊something went down between Cliff and Carmen whether it was soft flirting or hot and heavy attraction between the two. Time will tell

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +7

    She was in survival mode. It made her sharp and hyperindependent but how do you turn it off?

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +3

    He can very easily be manipulated BECAUSE he thinks he can't be😎 Plus That "strong black women" trope not doing what you think

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +2

      @@deefana3229 I don't get "good" from him because he defended her. I get obsessed and borderline crazy if she EVER tries to leave. Is it protecting black women or protecting what he sees as his "property"? All the FBI talk put me in a bad space lol

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +1

      @@deefana3229 she COULD be the problem if she wanted to be but let him tell it it's impossible because he "finds everything"🙄

  • @beaub.8615
    @beaub.8615 9 місяців тому +2

    He kinda saved the interview for me , once he came on whole interviewed flowed n felt natural ...I believe Joi n Clifton were probably asked by production to not really dispel any of the rumors much cause it was gonna be a storyline for the show ....so they basically felt they would let things ride till towards the end of the season ...but Carmen being the smart woman she is seen it for exactly what it was

  • @nikamoff5835
    @nikamoff5835 8 місяців тому +1

    Great interview but there is always something you can learn from others. I definitely learned something from all my exes. REgardless if it was a bad relationship. I definitely have take aways from each relationship.

  • @Msdeb-y7g
    @Msdeb-y7g 9 місяців тому +8

    Carmen is very masculine and dismissive of her man. Her bf is definitely her hype man.

  • @nlm3223
    @nlm3223 9 місяців тому +6

    47:57 she deflected and didn’t really want to answer the question. She went into explaining herself when that’s not what she was doing earlier. So to answer the question, yes, she and Donathan made a pact to get to the end 😂🤣

    • @chooselove4307
      @chooselove4307 8 місяців тому

      Carmen and Donovan did not make a pact to get to the end. Like Carmen said she gave the politically correct answer in this interview by saying Donovan was on the show for other reasons. In an interview last year with Kojo, Carmen stated that Donovan never dated or been married to a Black woman so why come on a show about black love if you don't date Black women or men.

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +4

    If you and Clifton dated, yall were exes💁🏾 You had to know you couldn't trust Joy and Clifton. CliffDon knew what it looked like as well, hes sneaky

    • @chooselove4307
      @chooselove4307 8 місяців тому

      Their not exes because they never dated on their own this was on a dating show. Everybody man and woman on Ready To Love had to go on dates with each other with no say so or rejection, and that's been happening since Season 1. On Love & Marriage DC Jaime and Erana Tyler started this lie for Clifton and Joi storyline, and Clifton and Joi didn't shut the lie down when they have been knowing Carmen boyfriend since 2022. Don't forget Jaime, Clifton, Erana, and Joi are friends so this was planned. Carmen just got stabbed in the back and lost a best friend in Clifton.

  • @mrs.conscious
    @mrs.conscious 9 місяців тому +3

    Ain't this the lady from ready to love

  • @theluscious1980
    @theluscious1980 6 місяців тому

    She is very guarded and don't like to show vulnerability. She really don't like to glorify people and give them credit.

  • @shanapoteat380
    @shanapoteat380 9 місяців тому +5

    Carmen is so disrespectful

  • @keishakecia1
    @keishakecia1 7 місяців тому

    🦋It's her man needing to do investigations for me 😅🦋

  • @browniegirl91
    @browniegirl91 9 місяців тому +3

    Isn’t she commenting on something filmed at the beginning of 2023. Was she in a relationship then? I thought they have only been together a year as of 2024.

    • @chooselove4307
      @chooselove4307 8 місяців тому

      Carmen and Ray have been in a relationship since 2022 because they celebrated being together over a year in 2023. The show episodes are behind because Carmen and Joi haven't been friends since Season 2 of the show, and Carmen and Clifton haven't been friends since last year.

  • @kaywhite2753
    @kaywhite2753 8 місяців тому +1

    She playin in ya face sir…. Mr boifriend

  • @jessyr.7569
    @jessyr.7569 9 місяців тому +2

    My thing is the streets was saying these thing about them before the second half ever air. Am not a Joi fan however if they were real friends this show couldn't break them up so easy

  • @Realbabihairs
    @Realbabihairs 8 місяців тому +1

    AND Joi did say she trust Carmen on the show, it is televised she , did say, it is Clifton she has, a problem with, her HUSBAND!!! Go watch again
    So why no one attacking Clifton , Clifton, is attracted, to Carmen .. She is beautiful and established… Stop attacking the women, Hold, him accountable .. He portrayed, on the show, as Carmen, being single 🙄🙄

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +5

    1:58:12 Check how she cut her eye at him. Thats enough tenders now lol

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +1

      You the police or something?👀

  • @kaywhite2753
    @kaywhite2753 8 місяців тому +1

    Carmen n Clifton was communicating during the show while Clifton was claiming Joi as his top connection. The communication continued whether Joi was in the picture or not. Clifton n Carmen found a way to stay connected with all this it’s about business and marketing nonsense. I smell a sneaky rat

    • @ShaShaLuva414
      @ShaShaLuva414 8 місяців тому +1

      I Always and Still do think that Joi and Clifton was already a couple on that show. Clifton was able to move as planned but Joi couldn’t hang when that other Lady was on Cliff. Joi gave it away, when she got too mad at the other lady that was on Cliff. And on that show Joi never had a connection with known of the guys she was moving like the guys just chilling. She did not date NO One. These 2 are Scammers 😅

  • @keishakecia1
    @keishakecia1 7 місяців тому

    🦋You like what you like so YESS it is not far fetched that she'd choose Clifton over an athlete, etc.🦋

  • @richardcampbell1535
    @richardcampbell1535 9 місяців тому +2

    good stories littleblackbook91 and carmen

  • @darlenemungin8230
    @darlenemungin8230 8 місяців тому +1

    WE New Yorker are very loyal!

  • @Realbabihairs
    @Realbabihairs 8 місяців тому +2

    Clifton and joi are unlikeable to myself, and feed off of others popularity, because they have none.. They befriended Erna , and her husband on purpose, as Carmen instructed but , their own sneaky, agenda to come in between the friendship with Ashley and her husband Joi had a evil demeanor and Clifton is sneaky and suspect joi had a nasty attitude, on ready to love
    Clifton is not a catch or joi smh Carmen, is

  • @ms.b7390
    @ms.b7390 9 місяців тому +6

    Kojooooooo, what is this 😂

  • @jessyr.7569
    @jessyr.7569 9 місяців тому +1

    Its clearly they pick a side i didn't hear Carmen say anything slick about Ashley. Am sure she said something negative. This show was off the air for a year plus, why now its so much heat about the situation. I think its more to this story.

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +2

    I guess hes saying what hes supposed to say😏

  • @love_fleurette
    @love_fleurette 4 місяці тому

    Black women that wear them crazy coloured contacts always come across coocoo to me

  • @TamekaMusgrave
    @TamekaMusgrave 9 місяців тому +1

    Carmen was different in this interview with Kojo. She was going hard on Joi on Carmeshia's reviews. It seems like when Kojo starting asking the hard questions, she got out of it by bringing in her boyfriend lol.

  • @ShaShaLuva414
    @ShaShaLuva414 8 місяців тому +1

    Did she do something to her face ?something looks better or does different sounds better 😊 around the face area.

  • @ashleywilliams7011
    @ashleywilliams7011 7 місяців тому

    Carmen putting herself in the ,"light-skinned group with her boyfriend, Clifton and joy is hilarious and delusional. If she's not in the same brown skinned group as Erana, Jaime, Clifton, Ashley,Winter and Sherrell, then I'm delusional, I would put Quick in the lighter skinned group before her. That may be the reason for the blue eye contacts 🥴

  • @kaywhite2753
    @kaywhite2753 8 місяців тому +1

    U rubbed Clifton beard very sensual and when yaul toasted u said toast to having sex… So cut the bull… If no one knew the situation ppl would assume Carmen n Clifton was 2 gethaaa😂. If my dude and any woman was glued up like that it’s a problem. U two grown dustys talkin about just friends

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +1

    People feom New York cant be outsmarted?😒

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +3

    01:10:35 So was it bad pr then? Because thats your department, uou had to know how that would "look"

  • @DJ-wl9iw
    @DJ-wl9iw 9 місяців тому +9

    This is a non story. Joi and Clifton are trying to make themselves relevant on that show when they’re the most boring couple.

    • @missbell1634
      @missbell1634 9 місяців тому +2

      Now that’s a good point. I think this whole thing with Carmen was to add story to Clifton and his wife. I really do. Because outside of this storyline what do they have going on? We really don’t have anything because they don’t really like to share the personal life as we saw with them being married, or not married🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @Delfin_Azul
    @Delfin_Azul 9 місяців тому +4

    This was a great interview. Carmen seems like an awesome lady. RTL did not show this part of her during her season. It was really nice to hear about her upbringing and career in the Air Force.

  • @KS-hi8vi
    @KS-hi8vi 6 місяців тому

    Kojo isn’t a journalist he doesn’t have credentials. He’s an interviewer. Journalist are degrees. The fact that he argued with your idea of protection verses warning is not something a journalist wouldn’t do. Kojo has a preconceived idea about these people and he ask questions based on that.

  • @kaywhite2753
    @kaywhite2753 8 місяців тому

    Mr Boifriend u lookin like Carmen’s Purse… 👛

  • @missbell1634
    @missbell1634 9 місяців тому +3

    Carmen is so beautiful. She always looks gorgeous and I love how she is about her business. Please make her a permanent cast member. Excellent interview.

  • @pearlinelowe3279
    @pearlinelowe3279 8 місяців тому +1

    You are a dating EX, from the show Carmen Let's be real girl 👀🤔🤗🤔👀

  • @awakenedlibrascales9107
    @awakenedlibrascales9107 9 місяців тому +11

    Her personality...🗑

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому

      Probably....but I'ma give her this chance. She seemed ok on Ashley and Joys interview

    • @elizabethbanks8484
      @elizabethbanks8484 9 місяців тому +4

      Never cared for her. She seemed to have an attitude. IJS

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +4

      @@elizabethbanks8484 It's SOMETHING off-putting about her to for, and always has been. She made some interesting points though.

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +3

      @@elizabethbanks8484 Tryna figure her out, which I have somewhat but she comes across as somewhat elusive. Shes giving KOJO a run for his $😂

    • @tyrasworld5675
      @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +4

      @@elizabethbanks8484 She grew up with a "single mom" with a dad around and all grandparents in the richest part of VA....but couldn't afford college. I'm not following. Or maybe things weren't what they were "supposed" to be once life hit🤔 I think I'm kind of picking up on what she's saying without saying

  • @tyrasworld5675
    @tyrasworld5675 9 місяців тому +2

    Sounds like trauma Kojo, say it. 25:32

  • @mcdianer
    @mcdianer 9 місяців тому

    I stopped watching Love and Marriage DC. I am listening while cleaning up. Conversation sounds interesting.

  • @dorothysellers5274
    @dorothysellers5274 6 місяців тому

    Carmen, please go away u lost. Joi, is the QUEEN.

  • @pearlinelowe3279
    @pearlinelowe3279 8 місяців тому +1

    Carmen is very flirtatious, with Clifton, just saying 👀🤔👀💗

  • @michelewatkins9396
    @michelewatkins9396 8 місяців тому +2

    Let Joi stroke/touch Clif ton's beard, that's how you shut it down. It's not whatever, you stop playing a part in the thrupple. Carmen's position is very strong. Imo, she can try being more open. I still don't care for the Petty's. The dishonesty and nastiness is still evident on this new show too. Imo, Carmen seems male identified, yet she uses "potty" instead of restroom, bathroom or ladies room.

  • @ksj4806
    @ksj4806 8 місяців тому +1

    Very classy. I really liked her after seeing this. They misrepresented her on the show a lot.