The fact that so many people from the community came that fast to show love and kindness to make a little girl’s birthday special melts my heart beyond measure.
This is what the true spirit of being both a Christian AND an American is all about!! To the mother, please make sure to continue these AMERICAN values so your daughter can pass it on. 😎👍🏻🇺🇸
as someone who had a party that no one showed up to as a kid, it scarred me to this day. i still don’t believe people will show up for me as an adult. i’m so glad she was spared the pain!
Oh man you just identified a huge weakness in me. I have the same issue. I feel a lot like Gatsby trying to basically bribe people to attend stuff with me because I can't believe anyone would show up just for me. That said, I'm blessed to have parents that will show up for everything and anything so I can depend on them at least.
Same here! 25 yrs old, and only 2 showed up for my birthday, never ever again I celebrate my birthday, just spend it with me, myself and I, watching a great movie, and with my pet of course.... The best company I've ever had so far ♥
My teen daughter made a Facebook friend through video games and he ended up in hospital with a terminal condition. She went out of her way to visit several times. After he died his sister got in touch with her and told her that she and her boyfriend were the only people apart from family who ever visited him in hospital, and thanked her saying it had been very lonely for him and he was very cheered up by her visits. I was so proud of her doing that.
Damn whats with the other family not visiting? Is it just me or does it seem like america canada anywhere really(yes i have been living under a partial rock ) its a mad mad world ? Matrix ?
What an amazing daughter you have, she must have bought her friend so much joy and happiness in through those difficult times. You're raising a wonderful human there!
I worked at a movie theater and there was one time there was a party where only one kid showed up. We did much more than we usually did for the parties just to ensure those two kids had a good time. They got posters, promotional items, person tour of the projection booth (we weren't supposed to that anymore), refills on everything, all the employees sang them happy birthday. Like just as a worker its so hard to watch that kind of situation and not try to help
When I turned 4, my parents threw a party and no one showed up. Decades later, I still remember that pain. Luckily, my family is awesome, and helped me have a good time. Man, my family is awesome.
That's your parents fault. There's nothing wrong with having something smaller at home. Now every kid in school has to go to every other kid's birthday party.
@@maniek2207 if the kid was an adult… maybe? But when she is so young… it is like putting them through it all over again… a kid should honestly just be able to forget about the experience of being left entirely alone by her friends. Not that the mom is “bad”. It just is genuinely one of the worst kid experiences. Especially in these formative years.
@@CuteKnight98 The more you protect your child from the world, the more difficult it will be for him as an adult. Everything with limit, overprotective is bad too.
@@worldsbestfun There's no denying that. But clearly the video is relatable to that of a mother bc she is a mother. I'm not diminishing the father but clearly he wasn't present 🫤
I'm not even a dad and these kinds of stories always hurt to hear. I guess those paternal/parental instincts kick in when you hit a certain age. I'm glad that there were people from the community who were able to come and celebrate with her.
My friend and I were invited to a 18th birthday party for a kid we knew but not super well, we almost didn’t go because of that but we decided to stop by, we were the only two who showed up. He had the house all set up and we ended up just going mini golfing with his family because it was just the 2 of us. Our hearts broke for him even as an 18 year old, this shows the importance of showing up because we have often thought back to “what if we decided not to go”
Many celebrities that do charity or autograph events say the same thing....just by showing up, you make someone's day. You don't know whose life you will enlighten just by being there. Well done!!! (Mark Hamill of Star Wars has that on his Twitter/X account...just showing up means everything)
Yeah, you don’t know the impact you can have on someone’s life. If no one showed up, that would have stuck with that poor person forever and probably not gone well.
Same happened to a kid on my brother’s football team. My brother didn’t really want to go but felt like he should stop by! He was the only person who did and they ended up playing video games for a couple hours!
Honestly this is one of the most devastating things that can happen to someone. It'll break you and you'll probably end up hating people and start a hermit crab life with social anxiety. Glad y'all showed up, but it still was most likely his last party.
Unfortunately sometimes strangers will treat you better than family and friends!! Thanks to all who made this girls birthday party wonderful after all ❤❤❤
I’m glad the community came through for her. When I was in grade school a peer invited everyone in the class to his birthday party and I was the only one who went from the school. The party was only his family and me. We weren’t great friends, but we were pals, and I was very honoured to be invited and made a point of arriving on time. His family were so excited that I was there and though I have really severe social anxiety, I enjoyed myself and we had a lot to talk about at school that week. This is a kids Nightmare, so I’m glad people came through and brought her gifts also, that is above and beyond.❤🎉
@@chainuser1774 "sarcasm" ... seriously????!!!! Some people may have already been ready to do things that day. All they had to do was pop down to the local toy store, grab something, wrap it or have the store wrap it and then make their way to the party. 30 mins to an hour is all people need. Anything is possible.
@@rick_terscale1111yeah, & with hundreds of fb followers & instagram followers seeing the post, 30 people showing up is not the most improbable event to occur. It’s totally possible, absolutely.
While I was watching the video I thought it would had been better for the little girl not be there during the interview, because that makes her remember the hurtfull moment again. I think it was better for the girl that her experience ended with the memory of the number of people who did show up to her party. Obviously the mother has not done it with bad intentions, I can tell. As for how the mother handled the party situation, wow! marvelous! ❤
@@tatianaa.3694I agree, the mother had an amazing response. But unfortunately, this wouldn't work in all areas of the country, only where it's reasonably safe. It certainly wouldn't work in my city lol! I shudder to think who'd show up from my local "community" 😅😅
Her mom in planning the party did a bad job and did not put her cellphone down to know her child suffering from social and so is she. The child should know her for th e making a mistake.
In primary school there was this one girl who had a birthday party, but she didn't have any friends. I was always nice to her (but we weren't friends) so she decided to only invite me. I knew I was the only one she invited and eventough we weren't friends, I still decided to go. In the end I did enjoy myself and it was quite nice and she was really happy that I came to her birthday party. Moral of the story, even if you aren't the best of friends with someone, please still go to their birthday party. It's a small thing you can do to make someone happy on their special day.
This happened to me when I was 16. It wasn't a birthday party, just an invite to a group of friends when my parents were away for the weekend. I got everything ready and....no one showed up. Not a single one. Turns up they were on their way and stumbled upon a house party of someone they knew and decided to go to that instead. Was a terrible feeling and still remember it to this day despite it being a long time ago.
That kinda happened to me when I was 16, too. I invited all these people yet only my best friend, my boyfriend & an old neighbor friend & his brother showed up. It was for my 16th birthday & my brother’s 21st birthday (he’s Autistic so he was just happy to go to Pizza Hut). It was at that moment that I realized those “friends” I invited weren’t my friends. Ever since then, when it’s my birthday, I take myself out or take my brother out.
I used to work as a party pro/manager at BounceU and I cannot tell you how many parties i worked where no kids showed up! Its the most devasting thing to see in the childs eyes, but also the parents. They spend so much money and put so much time and effort into these birthday parties just for nobody to show up.
This was always my fear as a parent so I made sure to only invite kids who were close to my daughter that I knew for sure would turn up (and determine which might be a no show), and keep the party intimate. Also, don’t they rsvp anymore to give these parents an idea?
It says a lot about those who didn’t show up. Especially those who RSVPed. That means you gave your word, and couldn’t take an hour or two out of your day, to bring your child to a birthday party. What a lesson to teach your child.
I feel our society these days has really gone downhill socially. I always blame dependency on phones making us into these quirky committophobes. It’s not okay!
I bet that little girl NEVER forgets this birthday party. Mom truly saved the day. This video has such a positive outcome and has renewed my faith in humanity.
@@crayonburry Yep, exactly what I was thinking. It's gonna be on UA-cam for as long as UA-cam is around, and probably a few other online spots. When she's older, she might even want to avoid this notoriety, but I'm not sure social media will allow her to.
This brought tears to my eyes. I have an autistic child who had the same thing happen to her, but only one child showed up. We made it the best two person birthday party ever! My daughter, 6 years later, still asks why no one else showed up though 😢
You can tell her this: a birthday is a blessing of life that you can see another year in this world. The only important person that should celebrate the birthday is yourself! We cannot change other people's opinions, but not having people come to your celebration is such a tiny problem compared to the blessing that is life.
Same thing happened to my child. We invited around 40 people including every kid in her class. Planned it all. Had food and drinks for tons with little gifts they could take home. We made everything ourselves and was so adorable. 3 kids did show up thankfulky. 1 came later so was only 2 for most of it. Broke my child's heart. She had waited at the door for everyone to show up. And kept asking where they were. After that year I never planned for more than say 8. I knew all 40 wouldn't show so that's why we invited so many and I figured at least 15 or so would show. Just broke my heart for her. Now I try my best to reach out and get others to come and invite lots of family as well hoping for anyone with kids to show up. She's had a couple now with at least 10 kids which is nice but also a few with only 2 to 3. Bugs me when others RSVP and don't come when they didn't have an emergency or anything else going on. Just don't RSVP
I know this is old and no one will probably see this. But it breaks my heart, it hits home because at the age of 15, family members decided that presents and parties were no longer necessary. At age 48, about to turn 49 its been 35 years since I've received a gift except for ones I buy myself
that's sad. I'm an adult and have family members every year suggest that we don't do gifts. I fought this idea every year by telling them I'd still get them one (which I would do).... and so they keep giving me gifts. As a disabled person who lives alone and don't get to see family members often, it just feels nice getting a few gifts from family members each year (I don't care if the gift is cheap, it's just nice to have any gift no matter how small).
What about friends? Perhaps it is time to heal the hurt and fill that void with so much love and joy that you start to meet people of like caliber who love to celebrate with you!
That has got to hurt, especially as you were not yet an adult. One should feel special on one’s birthday. It hurts even as an adult; I don’t get presents or cards from my family either, not even from my son. My husband and I buy ourselves a present from our joint savings, but I have to choose my own present and it really doesn’t mean much to me. Same story at Christmas. It’s hurtful knowing that no-one really cares enough to bother. So I get your pain.
Sometimes I feel like the more people know each other, the more opportunities they've had to have conflicts and have a falling out. I have a hard time speaking to my best girlfriend of many years because of all of the hard times we've had.
This speaks volumes about those people who decided not to show up. It’s amazing that they have such a kind and loving community. And the fact that they brought presents is the cherry on top!
I was just about to comment on this. Shame on those who said they would be there. Don't the parents realize that a "yes" is practically a blood oath for that age? I would not pursue friendships with those kids after today 😡
As a parent, Really? You know yer kid wouldn’t let you miss that party if they were invited unless something really important conflicted. No one showed. “Some parents rsvp’d”That’s all hear say and conjecture on the part of the interviewer. Read what the lady actually texted out. Never did they say why no one was there, assuming isn’t a logical explanation. There is more to this story then meets the eye.
@@Yabroproductions33u sound slow. You don’t have any facts behind your skepticism. Please stop reaching for straws, taking up for faceless parents for which u don’t know the explanation either. I read what she texted. Please enlighten us what was wrong with the invite? Or just keep talking in riddles and conspiracies
@@MrShaiya96 that’s right, I am slow. I’m not in a hurry to blame fictional characters. No one has all the facts. Until a parent/s that couldn’t make comes forward, this is nothing more than entertainment. I’m not one to pass judgment without ALL sides of a story. This reminds me of a “feel good”advertisement for the importance of social media.
I don't know that they meant to be hurtful. Perhaps something came up that prevented them from going, or they just forgot. Even so, you should at least have the courtesy to tell them why you didn't show up. To say that you're coming and then not attend without explaining why is very rude, no matter what the reason.
@@Winstn2331that's also true but then again it's still a clever last min idea. It's other kids in the community and it gives the child a chance to meet other kids and interact so still a win !
This happened to me when I was a kid… a birthday party where no one showed up. That’s hard for a kiddo to understand. Heartbreaking. So glad there was a community of loving, supportive adults to show up with their kids to make this a special day.
This happened to my sister on her 10th birthday, when I had got home and saw it I called up every friend I had and within 30 minutes we had a full house for her birthday. Always do your best for your family.
not really the friends fault, i suspect more like the parents. I'd imagine kids her age wanted to go to the party, what kid is gonna turn down birthday cake, but the parents said no
This happened to me twice, so I stopped having parties to protect my feelings; I still celebrate alone. I'm so happy that this sweet girl got a much better day, nobody needs to feel unworthy on their day to celebrate living
This has happened to all of us at least once in life in one form or other. Keep celebrating -- if your happiness is going to depend on human beings, you will always be disappointed. You win some, you lose some.
Whenever is your birtbday ,you will never be alone ! Somewhere in the world will be someone who will think of you whishing you the best and say :happy birthday ,my dear !!😊❤
When I was in third grade, a classmate had a party at a bowling alley. Originally I didn’t get an invite, but after asking her for one… she handed me the invite. When her bday arrived my mom got her a small gift… and we arrived at the party. No one from our school came. I was the only one. From then on we’ve been friends. I remember her older sister telling her to cheer up and hug me because I’m the right friend for her.
There was one time where my son was the only ones to show up at his classmates bday party. The two of them had a blast. It’s so important for parents to communicate when it comes to this stuff. I always thought of it as a very important obligation to go to all the kids parties he was invited to. If they were kind enough to invite we were definitely going and with a gift.
This is why when you rsvp it’s important to show up or call ahead if you need to cancel. Common courtesy. I know emergencies come up, but not for that many people. What a great mom she is. Glad it all turned out okay
As a single dad of a beautiful 5 year old daughter that is my life , my heart sank and broke at the start of this video knowing how much it would destroy me to see the look on my angels face. I commend this mom for thinking fast and for the community comming together so quickly! If I’d of known I’d of been there with my baby in a heart beat! So happy it worked out for you but I’m still upset with those that RSVPd and didn’t show but greatful that your angler will only remember that SO many new friends came out to support her! Beautiful!!!
@@grossguy9570I don’t believe you, but there’s something. What about apologies from “suddenly vanished” other parents, did they all have the same excuse?😂
This happeded to me when i was 10. I invited all my friends at school to come spend my birthday at the skating rink. Had a long table full of pizza and ice cream and i got there early to greet everyone at the door. Time went on and i realized nobody was coming. Spent my birthday crying in my moms arms. It scarred me for life and i never had another birthday party since. Im now 35. Thinking about this sweet angel. I wish i could have come to yours.
Woah, I can't fathom how many people bail on going to birthday parties and don't even give an ahead notice. I'm so sorry no one came to your party, I sure as hell would've loved going to the rink! Even at 26 it's still something I would enjoy, lmao. Don't let that sour memory stop you from having fun, tho!
I think this type of thing happens to every single one of us in some form or another at LEAST once, if not more! It's the sucky part about being human. Never too late to start celebrating you. Start today!!
Had a similar situation back in the day when my daughter was 16. Heartbreaking. Same thing: positive RSVPs, and no one showed up. That little girl has a great Mom.
Our son was ostracized too. He was never invited to one single school birthday party growing up. Therefore, I never had a “school” birthday party for him knowing the chance of no one showing up was pretty great.
The same happened to me, I will never again invite my family, why do they confirm and don't show up? Poor baby, I would have gone to her birthday party.
This is why I don't do parties anymore. You send out the invitations and then people forget sometimes maybe or plan other things. It's almost like you have to send out invitations and then send a reminder.
I am a grandmother of 5 grandchildren, I was so sad for the little girl. I am so proud of what her mom did, by inviting strangers who were so sweet to go and made her birthday party amazing. Those that didn't come , it's their lost. Great job mom
One time in elementary school, I was invited to a classmate’s sleepover. She was only a few blocks away so I was able to go, but despite inviting the entire class, I was the only one to show. From there we became best friends until the day I had to move out, my last memory of her was holding a big container of cheese balls waving goodbye to me and my family with a big smile. She was always there, even during the process of my family moving, she’d be happy to hang out. Sadly haven’t been able to talk to her since that day but I hope she’s doing well:)
That’s heartbreaking. No matter how popular or unpopular the child is, I always have my kids go to the party. No child deserves to be alone at their birthday party.
I really mean it too. I have 4 children, 3 girls, 1 boy. I see the snobbery among the parents. It’s hurtful and petty. The kids need to see their classmates at their birthday parties to make them feel great and help celebrate their moment. Did you catch that? Their moment! Caddy wives, $notty dads make the child experience horrible. The kids need the joy shared among their own, the parents have nothing to do with it. I have to say this post really emotionally touched me.
as a former unpopular child. I would have hated having some kids I don't really know well come to my party because a well meaning parent thinks I don't deserve to be alone. Having to pretend I'm friends with them, worse than not having a party at all. You can't force friendship, the birthday kid knows it, your kids know it; it'll just be awkward for all of them.
@@adriansue8955Is it possible however, that being the only ones who show up, the children can get to know each other better and make friends? I would hope this is so.
I can relate to this. No one showed up to my tenth birthday party and I remember how awful it was. I can only imagine how much pain this girl went through
I was not expecting to cry but when they showed the entire room full of people singing happy birthday I started bawling! I shocked myself at my reaction. This was so beautiful!!
Every time my son or daughter is invited to a birthday party, I always make sure we go! I also explain how it’s important, that if someone has been kind enough to invite you then it’s polite, respectful and courteous to attend. I’m so saddened to see that not one child and parent showed up to this little girls party.
My parents taught me this when I was kid when I didn't want to go to girl's party in my class they said how would you feel if you invited someone somewhere and they didn't come so I end up going because it's hurtful to do that to someone
Kind enough?? They're not doing it to be nice to you, they're doing it because they want you to be nice to them... Momma thinks princess deserves 100 presents. I still remember cake, ice cream and a couple small presents at home with the family. I was always happy with that.
As someone who was bullied as a kid and still suffers the affects of it, this made me cry. I’m so glad the community showed up for her. Shame on the parents of the classmates who didn’t show up. I hope you step on legos.
Well said! I was not invited to parties after kindergarten age because the kids could tell I was “different”. This got me bullied and left out a lot. I have general anxiety disorder and BPD. To this day, I’m still lonely. My bf (at the time) ghosted me on my 25th birthday. Blocked my number and everything. I hate birthdays.
We threw my 7 year old shy brother a party and invited his whole class. No one came. And to top it off, a monsoon destroyed most of the decorations. I felt so bad so once the storm stopped, we went into the bouncy house and jumped together. He was so happy. We have a huge age gap, so my knees were feeling it the next day, but my brother smiled the whole time.
Shame on all those parents that didn't take their kids after they said they would! And applause goes to all of the people in the community that showed up... In more ways than one! So glad that in the end it turned out wonderful for her special day! 🎂🎉🎈🎁😊💜
Agreed 👍 It's already disappointing if nobody wants to come to your party, but it's even worse if no one shows up after they said they would! I'm glad that poor girl was still able to have an awesome birthday, thanks to her Mom and the Community ❤❤🎉
Idk, the fact that not a single little girl came makes me think this may be one of those little “mean girls”. Or the “no that’s my toy you can’t play with it” type and no one wants to be around her. People forget how mean and not fun to be around some kids can be. Then in the beginning of the video just look at the girls face. That’s not a friendly facial expression lol.
Now THAT shocks me. People in the South have more integrity, having been raised in that part of the country. I now live in Southern California and everyone is a freaking FLAKE....except people who weren't raised here, that is.
I feel like I see a story like this at least a few times every year. Never rely on classmate only parties. A lot of the times the kids aren't really friends and the parents have never even spoke to each other. Some parents RSVP just to pretend to be polite. If you don't have family or friends with kids to help celebrate, just take your child out for dinner/lunch and a fun activity.
I remember in 2nd grade, I invited a select few kids to my birthday party, and the teacher scolded me because I invited a select few. (Mix of boys and girls) she told me either invite the entire class or just the girls, but not the whole class. Not like it mattered at the end of the day, because only a few kids showed up, and only like 2-3 were from school and the other few were either neighbors or people from Scouts.
@@Maw0what's wrong with this teacher. It us not their business who the kid invited to a private event. If adults throw parties we invite whoever we want. Why can't kids do the same?
@@Maw0 dude same thing happened to me in 2nd or 3rd grade. I got along with majority of the class, but I only had a few friends I liked hanging out with. I'm not trying to invite the class troublemakers to my house 🙄
Exploitation much. Why on earth would you post on internet for the world to see? The girl will grow up and see how her mother embarrassed her by revealing it to the entire world?
I remember inviting my friends over to my house for my Birthday in my twenties and none of them wanted to come. It happened 2 years in a row. I was devastated as an adult, I can't imagine how sad an innocent child would feel 😢. Kudos to the quick thinking mom and I'm so happy many wonderful people came and celebrated with her! ❤
Aw my heart hurts for u. 😢 This a sign u need better friends who don't stad u in the back like that. I hope your okay now with happiness in your life 🙏💞
I had a similar experience. When we invited our neighbors to our house warming most of them doesn't showed up. The larger portion of the food we ordered for the party was wasted.🙂I really hate my neighbors😑
The same thing happened to me for my 9th birthday party. My family had just moved neighbourhoods, so I didn't really have any close friends as yet, and my birthday did happen to fall during the school holidays. But to have absolutely no-one bother to turn up, and not a single apology for why they couldn't make it or why they may have forgotten or anything, it just broke my heart and I have never wanted to have another birthday party ever again. Not even an 18th or 21st birthday party. I'll be turning 50 next year and I still don't want to throw myself a party, simply because of the pain and rejection I felt all those years ago. Some people just don't realise how much they affect others, even when they simply ignore others and act like they don't exist.
I had a birthday party in elementary school once, and nobody came which truly made me forever hate birthdays and want to gather because I fear people wouldn't attend. I'm glad the mom was able to find supportive people in time. It truly means a lot to a child. I'm so happy the child ended up having people show up with gifts too last second! The community bond is so important. Till this day I despise having birthdays being 30 now, but for different reasons, ofc, I moved on, but I still won't forget the feeling of showing up excited to nothing but an empty table and wasted money on decoration and cake. That made me feel unwanted and ashamed throughout my elementary years about myself as a child. I become scared of people and had a fear that everyone around me were just pretending to be friends with me. The community showing up truly makes a huge difference, she will at lesat have good memories moving forward, hats off to the mom as well for quick thinking!
@@Fjkyl329 lmao that was certainly not it. I just made friends with people in class and extra curriculars , well thought they were my friends anyway at the time. I grew up getting bullied till ⁵ high-school.
That went from an empty table with a happy birthday girl to a restaurant full of happy birthday guests. This is awesome. I have always wanted to show up to something like this and take my kids just to support other families. Thank God people showed up 👏🏾👍🏾🙏🏾❤️.
I was so touched by this story. This has happened to me on three birthdays (before social media) as an adult and it is the worst feeling. Loved how this mom thought quickly and how the community showed up big for her and to see her daughter smiling and hugging! Beautiful!!
@@delilahmode9536 each time they didn’t seem to think their absence would go unnoticed and assumed everyone else would be there. One year each person had a different excuse … one fell asleep, another forgot. But these types of experiences helped me realize who my friends weren’t. They were hard lessons but blessings overall.
I held a Tupperware party 40 years ago and one person showed up. I was devastated. I now work as a server for a catering company so I can help parties run smoothly- I have never dared to give another one of my own.
This happened to one of my teenagers on their 16th. It was a weekend summer day and the previous day all had told me they were coming. Thirty plus years later, I still cry at the memory. Bless those parents and kids.
No one turned up for my 21st. I still got upset for a while but learned those peotdontbmatter. Those same people used to tell me all the time I'm to blunt, I'm tactless and far to litteral and it's embarrassing for them.. and I eventually found out these was the reasons they kept canceling plans with me.. fast forward some years just before my 37 birthday I was dinaosed autistic and that's the reason they didn't really like me 😂 I've over it now! Screw them! I've since had amazing party's with amazing people who like me for me and wouldn't leave me out and push me out of things! I hope your child heals from the hurt from it. It's not a nice feeling.
@@rbmw981 I'm so sorry. Some of the smartest most unique people ever have this gift. I had a friend's 8 year old son in the car with my 3 yr old daughter and a blinding snowstorm closed the road. I was not very familiar with their town so didn't dare take side streets. Michael normally recited every word with ads of all the shows he'd watched the night before. Suddenly I realized he was repeating street names and turns. I followed his directions and we arrived at his house the back way. His mom didn't even know he knew the way by memory. Forty five years later I'm still amazed. Blessings.
Even on my 18th birthday I preferred playing god of war to socializing. I'd say it all depends on the individual. But more than likely, someone who has good meaningful friendships will still have someone show up if asked.
That's awful! What I can't understand is why people would say they plan on coming and just bail? If you can't go, then it's better just to say so. It's far more hurtful to lie.
I feel so bad for this sweet girl. It’s so rude to RSVP saying you’re coming and just not show up, so shame on those people. I’m so happy that other community members came out to her birthday party and made it a good day ❤
I saw a FB in my community about a mom having set a party for her little boy and fell on a date where none of his friends could attend. So she posted it on FB. I saw it and said to my wife that our daughter would enjoy meeting new friends. So we replied and said we were in. A few weeks later, we showed up, along with about a dozen other kids. None of them knew the birthday boy. All of us brought gifts and enjoyed our time celebrating the boy's birthday. The parents were thrilled. To see a bunch of kids who have never met, sitting together, eating pizza, and laughing is the best joy for any parent.
Kudos to mom for sending that batsignal! It’s always blown my mind when having my daughters parties and people that rsvp never showed. Thank God for her (my daughters) real family and friends that showed. I don’t think one kid from school ever showed at one of her parties 😢
ok but why didn't nobody of her classmates show up?? there's something they're not telling ..... maybe mom has a bad reputation at school or did something ..??
@@trashtvinternationalYou could be onto something, but I don’t believe this story at ALL! It just doesn’t make sense. Notice how they said her family showed up AFTER she made a post on the community forum. Her FAMILY? WHAT!?!?
The mother is a narcissist who orchestrated it all to get a story going on fb and the news and to make it all about her at her daughter's expense... I'm not stupid I see through this evil
More like a show of the selfishness and superficiality of our current culture. People have no sense of commitment or responsibility anymore, but give them an emotional story to post about on their socials, and they'll drop everything to show up. I guarantee you that every one of the people who showed up at that party did it for the gram.
This happened to me when I was 16; of the 50 people who had said they were going to attend and that I thought were my “friends” only 4 showed up. We had enough food for everyone that said they would be there so we had to give everyone who did come lots of food to take home because there’s no way we could eat all that food that day. I was so grateful for the 4 that kept there word.
Exploitation much. Why on earth would you post on internet for the world to see? The girl will grow up and see how her mother embarrassed her by revealing it to the entire world?
This is why I never held parties. I always knew I was one of the less popular kids, so this was my biggest fear...Glad she got a great birthday party in the end. Very much deserved
Same. And I remember there was one girl who invited me to her party in all of elementary school and she told me that everyone told her not to invite me but she wanted me there. I will never forget it!
That's why they got the kids (parents) to confirm with an RSVP in advance. It's cruel for her "friends" to say they were attending then break that promise. I hope some flakes see this and realize how much harm they can cause when they break RSVPs. Obviously legit things can prevent attendance and courteous to notify event planner, but rare that 100% of those who RSVP to flake out.
I got really introverted after 1st grade so I just didn't want parties anymore because I didn't really talk much to my classmates, so I felt like no one would come anyway, but if any did it would be just as much of a nightmare to deal with.
Lesson learned for all of us!! Never invite anyone to a party unless you absolutely know them. Keep the invites to a minimum. Yes, even adults can still hurt from childhood and adulthood trauma from those who never really liked us. So happy their community came and gave her a positive birthday to remember!! 🥳
Except now most teachers make a rule where when a kid has a birthday party, they can't exclude anyone, they HAVE to invite the whole class. That's why one of my coworkers who has kids always has her kids keep the party on the down-low, only has them invite a few of their closest friends and sends the invites out through the mail instead of having her kids give them in class.
Wish we knew what the actual meaning was to why no one showed up. At 5 years old, how could she develop any bad friendships? Best option for a classroom friend party is to just have them in the actual classroom. That's what I did for my child until middle school. Then the parties became limited due to those middle school years, etc.
WOW. I can't believe all those moms teaching their kids it's ok to bail on a responsibility. Other people have feelings, too! Kudos to the awesome moms, dads and kids who showed up for Willow!
I've seen stories like this,, with no one showing up to children's birthday parties, and it breaks my heart. What a wonderful mother this little girl has.
I am so happy to see that so many of the kids in the community showed up for the party to make it better for her. Unfortunately things like this even happen in adulthood. For my 28th birthday there was a reservation at a nice restaurant for myself and 8 others. As the date got closer and closer, people started to cancel with really no reason and by the time I got to the restaurant for the reservation, the dinner reservation that was supposed to be for 9 people ended up just being me. I was all dressed up and of course extremely disappointed, but no matter what I was still going to enjoy my favourite meal and celebrate myself. The restaurant staff were amazing and I could tell that they felt bad for me for being alone on my birthday and so they did their best to kind of keep my company. They ended up giving me way too much champagne and so I ended up getting very drunk, but I think that was their plan to try to get me to forget about the bad part. At the end of the night they wouldn't let me pay for my dinner and drinks even though it would have been a couple of hundred dollars and they walked me out to my cab to make sure that I got home safe. I still think of the kindness that restaurant staff showed me and ever since then I have made it a tradition to take myself to my favourite restaurant on my birthday and to celebrate myself and be happy. I do think it would be great if everyone had others to celebrate their birthday with, but if not, everyone should always celebrate themself. (I also buy myself a Christmas present every year and take myself out for Valentines Day)
Reading your story just brought so many tears to my eyes. That's why I'm making a point to always commit to plans and see things through, including others around me that seem lonely. No one should ever celebrate their birthday alone. I'm so sorry you ever had to go through that. The staff was sure wonderful going above and beyond to make that day special ❤
Even though I got a boyfriend who buys me for birthday, Christmas, and Valentines, and though my son is from the most previous relationship with ex-cohabit, he buys me a Mother's Day present as well. Some of the things he selects himself, but never been disappointed by his selections. I still buy for myself ( as well buy for him and my son ). I am 47 and still buying myself stuffed animals. 😂😂😂😂😂. Well, Christmas, Valentines, and Mother's Day I do. But my most fave teddy is my boyfriend. And he treats me like a teddy.
shortyash I'm not a do-things-with-friends kind of person, so on my own birthday each year I used to treat myself to an upscale lunch, a movie, and some golf if possible.
@@theophilusconnor I love that! I learned a long time ago that even if we don’t have others to treat us, we should always treat ourself. I’ve spent most of my adult life on my own and so every so often I treat myself to what I call “me date days”. I treat myself to some of my favourite things. For me that’s usually a massage(low cost through a massage school), hair appointment and a nice meal out. Life can be tough sometimes and it’s important that we do things that make us happy, no matter how small they may be.
@@shortyash100 I like so many others born right between Thanksgiving and Christmas learned very early, no parties for me. I don't even remember my own birthday except if I write a check on that day and then I say, oh, it's my birthday.
I can’t imagine a mom letting her child not show up for a party after giving a “yes” RSVP. That’s horrible. I was the only little girl not invited to a classmate’s sleepover birthday party once. That one hurts, too.
My son is now in his 6th and last year of preschool and I've seen many birthday invitations over the years and many playdates. He got invited to his first birthday party this Sunday. Fortunately our little children cannot see what's happening around them.
@@cocobunitacobuni8738 my mom had a policy: if I was inviting most of the girls (or boys and girls when I got to that age)in my class, then I had to invite all of them. If it was a limited number of classmates, then I couldn’t pass out the invitations at school and couldn’t talk about the party at school.
I'm so happy the community came through for this little girl! 🥰 I too had the same experience at 11 years old. (My mom ran down the street knocking on doors and inviting random kids to come) It was so traumatizing that I never wanted another party until I reached 30 and I made myself try again. That time it was successful. However, it scars you forever unfortunately. (I'm 68 and still hesitate about holding any get together for myself)
This reminds me of a girl’s party I went to in 4th grade. She invited everyone in class, and I was the only one to show up. Her family came from Louisiana (we were in Texas at the time) and they cooked crawfish, lobsters, and a bunch of other seafood. It was odd being the only kid there, but I think that girl will always remember that I was the only one to show up
True. That incident will remained in her mind her whole life and hopefully will not affect her. This kind of treatment could be one of the little incidents triggering in those massive shooting killer mind's that those absent parents never give any thoughts on effect. It is a another form of "invisible" bullying similar to verbal bully.
A couple years ago my son was invited to a birthday party of a kid he barely knew. He invited the whole class and only my son showed up. I was so glad that my son was available that day because I would have felt terrible knowing no one showed.
That happened to me…I’m a grown woman and did my own invite for my 40th. Me and spouse having hard times after his brother passed. I just needed some girlfriends to laugh and celebrate with. All 8 out of 12 backed out at the last minute. It was a deep blow so I can’t imagine how this sweet girl just have felt. I’m so glad everyone came out to love her on her special day!❤️
Not too sure how to word it but I rather be alone with my wife and kids than to have a bunch of fake people around. Sometimes we don’t see that it’s a blessing in disguise.
I’m so sorry that happened to you, it can make you feel depressed and sad I know. Just realize true friends don’t do that. I hope you’ve gotten over it since then and moved on….just wanted to say from a stranger that your loved, and a beautiful person. Keep your head up girl!
This really breaks a child's heart and you can see it in her face, her own classmates. Her mother was very inventive and saved the day thankfully. The fact that it was the little girl's classmates has caused hurt as yet and hopefully her parents will help her along to assimilate the experience.
This is the saddest story I have ever heard. Willow looks like the sweetest kid and the mom is so genuine... and smart ❣ The neighborhood turned things around for this Birthday Girl 🙂 showing her what true friendship is. As for her "so called friends" and their parents, I hope they learned something from this.
She looks very pouty and disturbed to me. My 5 year old niece , unprompted said,” She is a grumpy pants and scary so they said we want cake but don’t be scary and look so mean.
This happened to my daughter too. I cannot imagine accepting an invitation and not showing up (unless it was an emergency or something!) So wonderful how this story ended!!! Sure hope the people who didn’t show up learned a lesson in kindness.
@@thefitnesszonegym9654 Clearly not a first world problem! Thing is though you clicked on a video and took time to comment about a child that had no one show up to her birthday party, which is very upsetting for a child. Why don't you watch first world problem vids instead.
Not having anyone show up or having your parent chase everyone away or having your birthday forgotten completely...it stays with you forever...so glad this mom gave a hey and I'm glad this little girl had social media to fall back on❤
As a introvert kid my mom knew this was bound to happen at some point so she almost always used to meet with the parents of the few friends i had and try, develop a sort of relationship with them. She always said that its easy to say no to a stranger but doing that to the person who you personally know is kind of hard. My bfs parents at that time drove about 50 miles in traffic to come to my party at 9 pm....we all were waiting for them from like 7:30 and it was a blast. Im seriously amazed at what all she did for me back then, as an adult its near impossible for me to do the same for any future kids i have but im gonna give my all to make them have the childhood i was gifted with
The fact that so many people from the community came that fast to show love and kindness to make a little girl’s birthday special melts my heart beyond measure.
This is what the true spirit of being both a Christian AND an American is all about!! To the mother, please make sure to continue these AMERICAN values so your daughter can pass it on. 😎👍🏻🇺🇸
So wonderful & uplifting!❤
What about the homeless veterans how sad is that.
I guess there is some goodness in social media.
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Kudos to the people who not only showed up, but showed up with presents in hand!
And with more cake to go around too.
Yes!❤🎉
Bro nobody showed up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@gunnercade7728 they mean the kind strangers 😉
@@gunnercade7728bro didn’t watch the end of the video💀 people literally showed up….
as someone who had a party that no one showed up to as a kid, it scarred me to this day. i still don’t believe people will show up for me as an adult. i’m so glad she was spared the pain!
Omg girl me too! I'm glad I'm not the only one I've never had a party and I'm 30 😢 I dream of it one day
same! if 1 person showed up I'd be happy
Oh man you just identified a huge weakness in me. I have the same issue. I feel a lot like Gatsby trying to basically bribe people to attend stuff with me because I can't believe anyone would show up just for me. That said, I'm blessed to have parents that will show up for everything and anything so I can depend on them at least.
@@tticusFinch i’m blessed to have parents that will show up too and for that i’m so grateful🥺❤️
Same here! 25 yrs old, and only 2 showed up for my birthday, never ever again I celebrate my birthday, just spend it with me, myself and I, watching a great movie, and with my pet of course.... The best company I've ever had so far ♥
My teen daughter made a Facebook friend through video games and he ended up in hospital with a terminal condition. She went out of her way to visit several times. After he died his sister got in touch with her and told her that she and her boyfriend were the only people apart from family who ever visited him in hospital, and thanked her saying it had been very lonely for him and he was very cheered up by her visits. I was so proud of her doing that.
Damn whats with the other family not visiting? Is it just me or does it seem like america canada anywhere really(yes i have been living under a partial rock ) its a mad mad world ? Matrix ?
That is very sweet. You have certainly raised an awesome daughter
@@Screamingforvengeanceeshe said „apart from family“, so her family visited
So sad 😞😞 Your daughter is an amazing human being ❤❤
What an amazing daughter you have, she must have bought her friend so much joy and happiness in through those difficult times. You're raising a wonderful human there!
I worked at a movie theater and there was one time there was a party where only one kid showed up. We did much more than we usually did for the parties just to ensure those two kids had a good time. They got posters, promotional items, person tour of the projection booth (we weren't supposed to that anymore), refills on everything, all the employees sang them happy birthday. Like just as a worker its so hard to watch that kind of situation and not try to help
that was so sweet of you guys :')
What a great thing to do for those kids! Thank you and to all your co-workers! ❤
thank you!
I would also like to thank you for your kindness. You and your coworkers restored some faith in humanity 😊
KUDOS to you and the staff !! I bet it was the most unforgettable birthday for those kids !
When I turned 4, my parents threw a party and no one showed up. Decades later, I still remember that pain. Luckily, my family is awesome, and helped me have a good time. Man, my family is awesome.
Why would no one show up though??? Have you ever asked yourself that?
@@samadams219Because people suck.
Who cares?!
That’s a them problem.
They missed out. He had a great time.
That's your parents fault. There's nothing wrong with having something smaller at home. Now every kid in school has to go to every other kid's birthday party.
maybe you were a obnoxious person and people really hated you , its quite possible
The fact that they not only showed up, But they took the effort to bring gifts to. God bless this community and their hearts♥
Oh yeah the family of this kid sounds great. Didn't show up until they got put on blast for doing zero. Ya real hero's.🤮🤮🤮
God bless ❤
@@jamessievert350whats with the barf emojis🤷♀️
@@jamessievert350ah jealous? Well hope your birthday people show not having barf issues.
I’m sure the mom paid the parents for compensation.
It breaks my heart, but she shouldn't keep saying that in front of her daughter.
I agree. The look on the girl’s face was so sad the entire time mom was talking.
Exactly what I was thinking. She should have done the interview without her sitting on her lap listening .
Was she not supposed to talk about something they both knew and experienced? 😅
@@maniek2207 if the kid was an adult… maybe? But when she is so young… it is like putting them through it all over again… a kid should honestly just be able to forget about the experience of being left entirely alone by her friends.
Not that the mom is “bad”. It just is genuinely one of the worst kid experiences. Especially in these formative years.
@@CuteKnight98 The more you protect your child from the world, the more difficult it will be for him as an adult. Everything with limit, overprotective is bad too.
As a Mom, I understand how it hurts to see your baby hurting
Yes, and as a Father just as Much.
@@worldsbestfun There's no denying that. But clearly the video is relatable to that of a mother bc she is a mother. I'm not diminishing the father but clearly he wasn't present 🫤
I'm not even a dad and these kinds of stories always hurt to hear. I guess those paternal/parental instincts kick in when you hit a certain age. I'm glad that there were people from the community who were able to come and celebrate with her.
Its the worst feeling in the world
@@JessicaBeeehe’s saying he’s a father and feel the same way
My friend and I were invited to a 18th birthday party for a kid we knew but not super well, we almost didn’t go because of that but we decided to stop by, we were the only two who showed up. He had the house all set up and we ended up just going mini golfing with his family because it was just the 2 of us. Our hearts broke for him even as an 18 year old, this shows the importance of showing up because we have often thought back to “what if we decided not to go”
Many celebrities that do charity or autograph events say the same thing....just by showing up, you make someone's day. You don't know whose life you will enlighten just by being there. Well done!!!
(Mark Hamill of Star Wars has that on his Twitter/X account...just showing up means everything)
His life would have still went on, but maybe not as happy as now
Yeah, you don’t know the impact you can have on someone’s life. If no one showed up, that would have stuck with that poor person forever and probably not gone well.
Same happened to a kid on my brother’s football team. My brother didn’t really want to go but felt like he should stop by! He was the only person who did and they ended up playing video games for a couple hours!
Honestly this is one of the most devastating things that can happen to someone.
It'll break you and you'll probably end up hating people and start a hermit crab life with social anxiety.
Glad y'all showed up, but it still was most likely his last party.
Unfortunately sometimes strangers will treat you better than family and friends!! Thanks to all who made this girls birthday party wonderful after all ❤❤❤
Why?
Amén for that
Very true!!
You got that right
Thats how strangers become friends
I’m glad the community came through for her. When I was in grade school a peer invited everyone in the class to his birthday party and I was the only one who went from the school. The party was only his family and me. We weren’t great friends, but we were pals, and I was very honoured to be invited and made a point of arriving on time. His family were so excited that I was there and though I have really severe social anxiety, I enjoyed myself and we had a lot to talk about at school that week. This is a kids Nightmare, so I’m glad people came through and brought her gifts also, that is above and beyond.❤🎉
I'm impressed so many people got their kids out the door to the restaurant with a wrapped gift in 15 minutes. Impressive!
I can't tell if this is sarcasm or not but things aren't adding up here lol.
I know! I have an aunt who keeps a closet full of gifts for a moment's notice. Apparently, she is not the only one...lol. That is awesome :-)
@@chainuser1774 "sarcasm" ... seriously????!!!! Some people may have already been ready to do things that day. All they had to do was pop down to the local toy store, grab something, wrap it or have the store wrap it and then make their way to the party. 30 mins to an hour is all people need.
Anything is possible.
@@rick_terscale1111yeah, & with hundreds of fb followers & instagram followers seeing the post, 30 people showing up is not the most improbable event to occur. It’s totally possible, absolutely.
There could be a store nearby that made it convenient
The face of the little girl during the interview speaks volumes about how much it hurt her, hearing the mom talking about that day.
While I was watching the video I thought it would had been better for the little girl not be there during the interview, because that makes her remember the hurtfull moment again. I think it was better for the girl that her experience ended with the memory of the number of people who did show up to her party. Obviously the mother has not done it with bad intentions, I can tell. As for how the mother handled the party situation, wow! marvelous! ❤
@@tatianaa.3694I agree, the mother had an amazing response. But unfortunately, this wouldn't work in all areas of the country, only where it's reasonably safe. It certainly wouldn't work in my city lol! I shudder to think who'd show up from my local "community" 😅😅
@@tatianaa.3694EXACTLY!!!!!!!
The mom should have interviewed without the little girl being there!!!!
So sad 🥺
This makes my heart burst. Blessings to those who showed up for this little girl on a moments notice
Poor parenting on her part . Child suffering.
@@Winstn2331how??
@@Winstn2331 Your comment makes no sense
Her mom in planning the party did a bad job and did not put her cellphone down to know her child suffering from social and so is she. The child should know her for th e making a mistake.
@@speaktrue77 you make no sense can't fix stupid.. common sense. Googl will tell you
In primary school there was this one girl who had a birthday party, but she didn't have any friends. I was always nice to her (but we weren't friends) so she decided to only invite me. I knew I was the only one she invited and eventough we weren't friends, I still decided to go. In the end I did enjoy myself and it was quite nice and she was really happy that I came to her birthday party.
Moral of the story, even if you aren't the best of friends with someone, please still go to their birthday party. It's a small thing you can do to make someone happy on their special day.
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I’m a grown man, and as a dad myself I wanted to cry. So sad to see her alone at a party. My daughter would have been so hurt.
I'm in the same boat. Sad day for the kid.
Same here. I would be so heartbroken to see them alone with no one to come to the party...
Same.
This happened to me when I was 16. It wasn't a birthday party, just an invite to a group of friends when my parents were away for the weekend. I got everything ready and....no one showed up. Not a single one. Turns up they were on their way and stumbled upon a house party of someone they knew and decided to go to that instead. Was a terrible feeling and still remember it to this day despite it being a long time ago.
Thats just so mean of them to do that to you I hope ur doing fine now
That's not true friendship if they decided to do that to you. How horrible.
fair weather friends as they say
That kinda happened to me when I was 16, too. I invited all these people yet only my best friend, my boyfriend & an old neighbor friend & his brother showed up. It was for my 16th birthday & my brother’s 21st birthday (he’s Autistic so he was just happy to go to Pizza Hut).
It was at that moment that I realized those “friends” I invited weren’t my friends. Ever since then, when it’s my birthday, I take myself out or take my brother out.
I was there in spirit
I used to work as a party pro/manager at BounceU and I cannot tell you how many parties i worked where no kids showed up! Its the most devasting thing to see in the childs eyes, but also the parents. They spend so much money and put so much time and effort into these birthday parties just for nobody to show up.
This is heartbreaking. :-(
That’s crushing to hear.
Many moons ago I worked at Discovery Zone (in Canada) and thankfully never did that happen.
How sad
This was always my fear as a parent so I made sure to only invite kids who were close to my daughter that I knew for sure would turn up (and determine which might be a no show), and keep the party intimate. Also, don’t they rsvp anymore to give these parents an idea?
It's an epidemic of selfishness. There's always an excuse!
My little son was hurt this same way by his classmates. It breaks a mother’s heart. He’s 32 now but I still cried seeing this video.
I'm quite sure he knows that his mom loves him dearly & will always be there for him.
It says a lot about those who didn’t show up. Especially those who RSVPed. That means you gave your word, and couldn’t take an hour or two out of your day, to bring your child to a birthday party. What a lesson to teach your child.
I feel our society these days has really gone downhill socially. I always blame dependency on phones making us into these quirky committophobes. It’s not okay!
Lmaooo the girl prolly gets bullied in school
@@gunnercade7728 tf u on
Lmoa about a lil girl getting bullied??????wtf???? What is actually wrong with you?
I missed a boy's party and will be devastated for the rest of my life. I didn't mean to, something really traumatic happened and I completely forgot.
I bet that little girl NEVER forgets this birthday party. Mom truly saved the day. This video has such a positive outcome and has renewed my faith in humanity.
Now she can bring up her birthday was on the new years later
The little girl is destroyed for ever.
@@crayonburry Yep, exactly what I was thinking. It's gonna be on UA-cam for as long as UA-cam is around, and probably a few other online spots. When she's older, she might even want to avoid this notoriety, but I'm not sure social media will allow her to.
@@Winstn2331 Do you mind explaining exactly what you mean by that?
@@bowed305 You already explained why.
This brought tears to my eyes. I have an autistic child who had the same thing happen to her, but only one child showed up. We made it the best two person birthday party ever! My daughter, 6 years later, still asks why no one else showed up though 😢
You can tell her this: a birthday is a blessing of life that you can see another year in this world. The only important person that should celebrate the birthday is yourself! We cannot change other people's opinions, but not having people come to your celebration is such a tiny problem compared to the blessing that is life.
God! I am so sorry
Same thing happened to my child. We invited around 40 people including every kid in her class. Planned it all. Had food and drinks for tons with little gifts they could take home. We made everything ourselves and was so adorable. 3 kids did show up thankfulky. 1 came later so was only 2 for most of it. Broke my child's heart. She had waited at the door for everyone to show up. And kept asking where they were. After that year I never planned for more than say 8. I knew all 40 wouldn't show so that's why we invited so many and I figured at least 15 or so would show. Just broke my heart for her. Now I try my best to reach out and get others to come and invite lots of family as well hoping for anyone with kids to show up. She's had a couple now with at least 10 kids which is nice but also a few with only 2 to 3. Bugs me when others RSVP and don't come when they didn't have an emergency or anything else going on. Just don't RSVP
I know this is old and no one will probably see this. But it breaks my heart, it hits home because at the age of 15, family members decided that presents and parties were no longer necessary. At age 48, about to turn 49 its been 35 years since I've received a gift except for ones I buy myself
I'm sorry - that sucks 😞 ❤️
that's sad. I'm an adult and have family members every year suggest that we don't do gifts. I fought this idea every year by telling them I'd still get them one (which I would do).... and so they keep giving me gifts. As a disabled person who lives alone and don't get to see family members often, it just feels nice getting a few gifts from family members each year (I don't care if the gift is cheap, it's just nice to have any gift no matter how small).
We do not do presents, but that’s between adults. Kids always get presents.
What about friends?
Perhaps it is time to heal the hurt and fill that void with so much love and joy that you start to meet people of like caliber who love to celebrate with you!
That has got to hurt, especially as you were not yet an adult. One should feel special on one’s birthday. It hurts even as an adult; I don’t get presents or cards from my family either, not even from my son. My husband and I buy ourselves a present from our joint savings, but I have to choose my own present and it really doesn’t mean much to me. Same story at Christmas. It’s hurtful knowing that no-one really cares enough to bother. So I get your pain.
Sometimes strangers treat you better than “friends”
Sometimes strangers treat you better than family.
Sometimes I feel like the more people know each other, the more opportunities they've had to have conflicts and have a falling out. I have a hard time speaking to my best girlfriend of many years because of all of the hard times we've had.
Always
And family
This is so crazy true
This speaks volumes about those people who decided not to show up. It’s amazing that they have such a kind and loving community. And the fact that they brought presents is the cherry on top!
I was just about to comment on this. Shame on those who said they would be there. Don't the parents realize that a "yes" is practically a blood oath for that age? I would not pursue friendships with those kids after today 😡
As a parent, Really? You know yer kid wouldn’t let you miss that party if they were invited unless something really important conflicted. No one showed. “Some parents rsvp’d”That’s all hear say and conjecture on the part of the interviewer. Read what the lady actually texted out. Never did they say why no one was there, assuming isn’t a logical explanation. There is more to this story then meets the eye.
@@Yabroproductions33u sound slow. You don’t have any facts behind your skepticism. Please stop reaching for straws, taking up for faceless parents for which u don’t know the explanation either. I read what she texted. Please enlighten us what was wrong with the invite? Or just keep talking in riddles and conspiracies
@@MrShaiya96 that’s right, I am slow. I’m not in a hurry to blame fictional characters. No one has all the facts. Until a parent/s that couldn’t make comes forward, this is nothing more than entertainment. I’m not one to pass judgment without ALL sides of a story. This reminds me of a “feel good”advertisement for the importance of social media.
I don't know that they meant to be hurtful. Perhaps something came up that prevented them from going, or they just forgot. Even so, you should at least have the courtesy to tell them why you didn't show up. To say that you're coming and then not attend without explaining why is very rude, no matter what the reason.
As a Dad with 3 girls, much much respect for the quick thinking Mom all the respect. And for those who show up yall all angels🙏
If this happened to my daughter I would not bother the public with this lying mother . I would seen this problem before it came.
@@Winstn2331that's also true but then again it's still a clever last min idea. It's other kids in the community and it gives the child a chance to meet other kids and interact so still a win !
Why didn't they come???
@@Winstn2331 How do you know she's lying? Do you know something we don't?
@@luckyclover716 put your phone down and pay attention to your kids.
This happened to me when I was a kid… a birthday party where no one showed up. That’s hard for a kiddo to understand. Heartbreaking. So glad there was a community of loving, supportive adults to show up with their kids to make this a special day.
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This happened to my sister on her 10th birthday, when I had got home and saw it I called up every friend I had and within 30 minutes we had a full house for her birthday. Always do your best for your family.
No one messes with baby sister.. us big sisters will lose it
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The little girl got a lesson that most learn as adults, about 'friends.'
Seriously!!!
not really the friends fault, i suspect more like the parents. I'd imagine kids her age wanted to go to the party, what kid is gonna turn down birthday cake, but the parents said no
I have also learned the same lesson, NEVER depend on friends and family to support your joy! It will NEVER happen!
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Yep. You find out who your friends aren't.
This happened to me twice, so I stopped having parties to protect my feelings; I still celebrate alone. I'm so happy that this sweet girl got a much better day, nobody needs to feel unworthy on their day to celebrate living
This has happened to all of us at least once in life in one form or other. Keep celebrating -- if your happiness is going to depend on human beings, you will always be disappointed. You win some, you lose some.
Don’t stop but I’d suggest just an intimate gathering of friends you know will show up. Doesn’t have to tons of people to be a party.
Whenever is your birtbday ,you will never be alone ! Somewhere in the world will be someone who will think of you whishing you the best and say :happy birthday ,my dear !!😊❤
It happened to me one time at 20 years old then on new year eve too by my best friend at the time
This has happened to me twice also, I couldn’t believe the second time!!
Her mother was so smart ❤❤❤ God bless them, for showing up.
When I was in third grade, a classmate had a party at a bowling alley. Originally I didn’t get an invite, but after asking her for one… she handed me the invite.
When her bday arrived my mom got her a small gift… and we arrived at the party. No one from our school came. I was the only one. From then on we’ve been friends. I remember her older sister telling her to cheer up and hug me because I’m the right friend for her.
Wow...
But you got a great gift…. a BFF❤
that's so precious 😭
That was wholesome
So why did you grow up and be a terrible person to everyone else tho?
I feel bad for this poor girl! I’d come to her birthday. I’m so happy she has an amazing mother ❤
This doesn't make sense why did all her friends didn't come, maybe the kid did something
@@Sa.d.bo26Plot twist: she made the story up.
@@crazygrl689Plot twist: you're lonely
I would come to her party, with my friends
This happened before with two other moms that went viral on Inside Edition as well I guess it happens once every other year apparently
There was one time where my son was the only ones to show up at his classmates bday party. The two of them had a blast. It’s so important for parents to communicate when it comes to this stuff. I always thought of it as a very important obligation to go to all the kids parties he was invited to. If they were kind enough to invite we were definitely going and with a gift.
You have class. You’re doing such a great job raising your boy
This is why when you rsvp it’s important to show up or call ahead if you need to cancel. Common courtesy. I know emergencies come up, but not for that many people. What a great mom she is. Glad it all turned out okay
You can see the sadness in this little girl even during the interview. This is heartbreaking.
As a single dad of a beautiful 5 year old daughter that is my life , my heart sank and broke at the start of this video knowing how much it would destroy me to see the look on my angels face. I commend this mom for thinking fast and for the community comming together so quickly! If I’d of known I’d of been there with my baby in a heart beat! So happy it worked out for you but I’m still upset with those that RSVPd and didn’t show but greatful that your angler will only remember that SO many new friends came out to support her! Beautiful!!!
Indeed, it takes a village to raise a child.
Your daughter is one blessed little girl to have you as her dad!
Don't feel bad, this story is fake, mom is an influencer and she's being called out for faking this story on instagram as we speak.
@@grossguy9570I don’t believe you, but there’s something. What about apologies from “suddenly vanished” other parents, did they all have the same excuse?😂
These things can and will happen just keep enjoying life no matter what
This happeded to me when i was 10. I invited all my friends at school to come spend my birthday at the skating rink. Had a long table full of pizza and ice cream and i got there early to greet everyone at the door. Time went on and i realized nobody was coming. Spent my birthday crying in my moms arms. It scarred me for life and i never had another birthday party since. Im now 35. Thinking about this sweet angel. I wish i could have come to yours.
It happened to me for my 7th birthday. I am now 58. Yes, it still will pop up and your emotions can be stung by a trauma like this.
Woah, I can't fathom how many people bail on going to birthday parties and don't even give an ahead notice. I'm so sorry no one came to your party, I sure as hell would've loved going to the rink! Even at 26 it's still something I would enjoy, lmao. Don't let that sour memory stop you from having fun, tho!
@@thisaint_it yeah I appreciate it Sharon... It's been a hard one to shake but I do the best I can
I think this type of thing happens to every single one of us in some form or another at LEAST once, if not more! It's the sucky part about being human. Never too late to start celebrating you. Start today!!
Creep?
Had a similar situation back in the day when my daughter was 16. Heartbreaking. Same thing: positive RSVPs, and no one
showed up. That little girl has a great Mom.
What was people reasons for not showing up?
Our son was ostracized too. He was never invited to one single school birthday party growing up. Therefore, I never had a “school” birthday party for him knowing the chance of no one showing up was pretty great.
The same happened to me, I will never again invite my family, why do they confirm and don't show up? Poor baby, I would have gone to her birthday party.
@veryslyfoxwell likely it’s the mom who’s not friends with the other moms in the class
This is why I don't do parties anymore. You send out the invitations and then people forget sometimes maybe or plan other things. It's almost like you have to send out invitations and then send a reminder.
I am a grandmother of 5 grandchildren, I was so sad for the little girl. I am so proud of what her mom did, by inviting strangers who were so sweet to go and made her birthday party amazing. Those that didn't come , it's their lost. Great job mom
One time in elementary school, I was invited to a classmate’s sleepover. She was only a few blocks away so I was able to go, but despite inviting the entire class, I was the only one to show. From there we became best friends until the day I had to move out, my last memory of her was holding a big container of cheese balls waving goodbye to me and my family with a big smile. She was always there, even during the process of my family moving, she’d be happy to hang out. Sadly haven’t been able to talk to her since that day but I hope she’s doing well:)
You can still search for her via social medias
The power of social media! Find her please 🥺
Hope you're doing well also you cared enough to show up she was lucky to have you and vice versa 💕
I so love reading beautiful comment like that of yours.. I hope you're doing well yourself. Love from Swaziland 🇸🇿 ❤
Find her!!!!
That’s heartbreaking. No matter how popular or unpopular the child is, I always have my kids go to the party. No child deserves to be alone at their birthday party.
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I really mean it too. I have 4 children, 3 girls, 1 boy. I see the snobbery among the parents. It’s hurtful and petty. The kids need to see their classmates at their birthday parties to make them feel great and help celebrate their moment. Did you catch that? Their moment! Caddy wives, $notty dads make the child experience horrible. The kids need the joy shared among their own, the parents have nothing to do with it. I have to say this post really emotionally touched me.
as a former unpopular child. I would have hated having some kids I don't really know well come to my party because a well meaning parent thinks I don't deserve to be alone. Having to pretend I'm friends with them, worse than not having a party at all. You can't force friendship, the birthday kid knows it, your kids know it; it'll just be awkward for all of them.
@@adriansue8955Is it possible however, that being the only ones who show up, the children can get to know each other better and make friends? I would hope this is so.
Heartbreaking… how can you EVER accept and then not?!
I hope those mums of the children appreciate the pain they caused.
I can relate to this. No one showed up to my tenth birthday party and I remember how awful it was. I can only imagine how much pain this girl went through
Yeah same. That really sucks.
This happened on my 6th birthday and it didn't make the news....
@@liliannapassut2246 ...sure thing ,1946, different media landscape
This one kid in my class had nobody show up to his party and i felt bad but that guy was rude and honestly disgusting
Why people do this?
I was not expecting to cry but when they showed the entire room full of people singing happy birthday I started bawling! I shocked myself at my reaction. This was so beautiful!!
I cried too!! It gave me hope for humanity! ❤❤
Me too! augh!
Same
me too!
Every time my son or daughter is invited to a birthday party, I always make sure we go! I also explain how it’s important, that if someone has been kind enough to invite you then it’s polite, respectful and courteous to attend. I’m so saddened to see that not one child and parent showed up to this little girls party.
This!
@@angelacleveland75Not this*
My parents taught me this when I was kid when I didn't want to go to girl's party in my class they said how would you feel if you invited someone somewhere and they didn't come so I end up going because it's hurtful to do that to someone
Kind enough?? They're not doing it to be nice to you, they're doing it because they want you to be nice to them... Momma thinks princess deserves 100 presents. I still remember cake, ice cream and a couple small presents at home with the family. I was always happy with that.
@@jeffwvu4602 yes family everything ❤️
"Friends didn't show up." Another definition of "friends", is required.
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As someone who was bullied as a kid and still suffers the affects of it, this made me cry. I’m so glad the community showed up for her. Shame on the parents of the classmates who didn’t show up. I hope you step on legos.
Well said! I was not invited to parties after kindergarten age because the kids could tell I was “different”. This got me bullied and left out a lot. I have general anxiety disorder and BPD. To this day, I’m still lonely. My bf (at the time) ghosted me on my 25th birthday. Blocked my number and everything. I hate birthdays.
Bless her And all the folks and kids who turned up. That is so brilliant. Great support for a nice kid.🥰🍰
you still sound like a kid 😂
Bobby, gimmie your lunch money or else!!
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We threw my 7 year old shy brother a party and invited his whole class. No one came. And to top it off, a monsoon destroyed most of the decorations. I felt so bad so once the storm stopped, we went into the bouncy house and jumped together. He was so happy. We have a huge age gap, so my knees were feeling it the next day, but my brother smiled the whole time.
Maybe that’s why they didn’t come, I mean if a monsoon was coming I would have just rescheduled the party.
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Where's the chi?
Hahaha
Wait. Not you mad because A MONSOON stopped people from coming to a party.
Shame on all those parents that didn't take their kids after they said they would! And applause goes to all of the people in the community that showed up... In more ways than one! So glad that in the end it turned out wonderful for her special day! 🎂🎉🎈🎁😊💜
Agreed 👍 It's already disappointing if nobody wants to come to your party, but it's even worse if no one shows up after they said they would!
I'm glad that poor girl was still able to have an awesome birthday, thanks to her Mom and the Community ❤❤🎉
If they rspvd and still didn’t show up it’s either that they had an emergence or something unexpected came up or they’re all just jerks
Let those parents be damned.
@@Solo_man69 I'm probably guessing the latter.... because every single one of them couldn't have had an emergency on the same day
Way too many parents suck.
Taking a negative into a positive is master level momma right there!!! Good job! U saved her from the trauma doing damage
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that’s heartbreaking but i’m glad the mom cheered her little girl up and i bet that made her day❤
This is a moment to remember, people coming together for this wonderful little girl. Blessings to everyone!
Idk, the fact that not a single little girl came makes me think this may be one of those little “mean girls”. Or the “no that’s my toy you can’t play with it” type and no one wants to be around her. People forget how mean and not fun to be around some kids can be. Then in the beginning of the video just look at the girls face. That’s not a friendly facial expression lol.
@@booboodafoo3247I agree with you.
@@booboodafoo3247 It could be that the reason.
All those people coming to the rescue made me tear up.
Me too!!!
Me too 😥
Same here especially when the camera captures not only the kids of her community showed up, their parents were there too.
😢same here...I hate seeing children upset .
Me too!
Happened in Keller, TX. Kudos to the fine people in Texas!
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Now THAT shocks me. People in the South have more integrity, having been raised in that part of the country. I now live in Southern California and everyone is a freaking FLAKE....except people who weren't raised here, that is.
I feel like I see a story like this at least a few times every year. Never rely on classmate only parties. A lot of the times the kids aren't really friends and the parents have never even spoke to each other. Some parents RSVP just to pretend to be polite. If you don't have family or friends with kids to help celebrate, just take your child out for dinner/lunch and a fun activity.
Agreed
I remember in 2nd grade, I invited a select few kids to my birthday party, and the teacher scolded me because I invited a select few. (Mix of boys and girls) she told me either invite the entire class or just the girls, but not the whole class. Not like it mattered at the end of the day, because only a few kids showed up, and only like 2-3 were from school and the other few were either neighbors or people from Scouts.
@@Maw0what's wrong with this teacher. It us not their business who the kid invited to a private event. If adults throw parties we invite whoever we want. Why can't kids do the same?
Good point
@@Maw0 dude same thing happened to me in 2nd or 3rd grade. I got along with majority of the class, but I only had a few friends I liked hanging out with. I'm not trying to invite the class troublemakers to my house 🙄
That broke my heart. No child should have to experience that but she got a happy ending!
People wouldn't show up to my party
thats gross, and inappropiate
@@colinsellers1143 your mind is in the damn gutter.
Exploitation much. Why on earth would you post on internet for the world to see? The girl will grow up and see how her mother embarrassed her by revealing it to the entire world?
Im 35 and have no friends so nobody shows up to my party either
I remember inviting my friends over to my house for my Birthday in my twenties and none of them wanted to come. It happened 2 years in a row. I was devastated as an adult, I can't imagine how sad an innocent child would feel 😢. Kudos to the quick thinking mom and I'm so happy many wonderful people came and celebrated with her! ❤
Aw my heart hurts for u. 😢 This a sign u need better friends who don't stad u in the back like that. I hope your okay now with happiness in your life 🙏💞
@@Aphrodite12003 Thank you so much 💓! I upgraded to much better friends 🥰🥰.
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I had a similar experience. When we invited our neighbors to our house warming most of them doesn't showed up. The larger portion of the food we ordered for the party was wasted.🙂I really hate my neighbors😑
@@amalbaiju4980 Your acting like as if they have to go
Though I don't know them so rip ig
The same thing happened to me for my 9th birthday party.
My family had just moved neighbourhoods, so I didn't really have any close friends as yet, and my birthday did happen to fall during the school holidays.
But to have absolutely no-one bother to turn up, and not a single apology for why they couldn't make it or why they may have forgotten or anything, it just broke my heart and I have never wanted to have another birthday party ever again. Not even an 18th or 21st birthday party.
I'll be turning 50 next year and I still don't want to throw myself a party, simply because of the pain and rejection I felt all those years ago.
Some people just don't realise how much they affect others, even when they simply ignore others and act like they don't exist.
I had a birthday party in elementary school once, and nobody came which truly made me forever hate birthdays and want to gather because I fear people wouldn't attend. I'm glad the mom was able to find supportive people in time. It truly means a lot to a child. I'm so happy the child ended up having people show up with gifts too last second! The community bond is so important. Till this day I despise having birthdays being 30 now, but for different reasons, ofc, I moved on, but I still won't forget the feeling of showing up excited to nothing but an empty table and wasted money on decoration and cake. That made me feel unwanted and ashamed throughout my elementary years about myself as a child. I become scared of people and had a fear that everyone around me were just pretending to be friends with me. The community showing up truly makes a huge difference, she will at lesat have good memories moving forward, hats off to the mom as well for quick thinking!
I'm so sorry that happened. Can't believe anyone could be so spiteful and horrible by not bothering to show up, bunch of uncaring pig headed swine
So sorry for you. Just remember, it’s the parents to blame - not the little ones. 😢
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Maybe you were mean so no one wanted to come to you!Or maybe you didn’t celebrate other’s birthday and why would they come to you?
@@Fjkyl329 lmao that was certainly not it. I just made friends with people in class and extra curriculars , well thought they were my friends anyway at the time. I grew up getting bullied till ⁵ high-school.
That went from an empty table with a happy birthday girl to a restaurant full of happy birthday guests. This is awesome. I have always wanted to show up to something like this and take my kids just to support other families. Thank God people showed up 👏🏾👍🏾🙏🏾❤️.
Homeless people all over. Open borders. Sex trafficking. True.
Happy belated birthday beautiful Willow and her lovely Mom. Cheers too all the kids who helped her celebrate.❤🎂🎂❤️👏🏻👏🏻
The love of a mother goes beyond human understanding. It's from here till the eternity 🎉I would do the same for my kids ❤
That poor little baby. U can still see the hurt in her big eyes. Breaks my heart
I was so touched by this story. This has happened to me on three birthdays (before social media) as an adult and it is the worst feeling. Loved how this mom thought quickly and how the community showed up big for her and to see her daughter smiling and hugging! Beautiful!!
I cannot understand why nobody shows up to someone s birthday party, but did you talk to the people who dissed you later on?
@@delilahmode9536 each time they didn’t seem to think their absence would go unnoticed and assumed everyone else would be there. One year each person had a different excuse … one fell asleep, another forgot. But these types of experiences helped me realize who my friends weren’t. They were hard lessons but blessings overall.
I held a Tupperware party 40 years ago and one person showed up. I was devastated. I now work as a server for a catering company so I can help parties run smoothly- I have never dared to give another one of my own.
@@damali. maybe your friends aren't the social types. I don't like being at parties especially if there's no full meals
This happened to one of my teenagers on their 16th. It was a weekend summer day and the previous day all had told me they were coming. Thirty plus years later, I still cry at the memory. Bless those parents and kids.
No one turned up for my 21st. I still got upset for a while but learned those peotdontbmatter. Those same people used to tell me all the time I'm to blunt, I'm tactless and far to litteral and it's embarrassing for them.. and I eventually found out these was the reasons they kept canceling plans with me.. fast forward some years just before my 37 birthday I was dinaosed autistic and that's the reason they didn't really like me 😂 I've over it now! Screw them! I've since had amazing party's with amazing people who like me for me and wouldn't leave me out and push me out of things! I hope your child heals from the hurt from it. It's not a nice feeling.
@@rbmw981 I'm so sorry. Some of the smartest most unique people ever have this gift. I had a friend's 8 year old son in the car with my 3 yr old daughter and a blinding snowstorm closed the road. I was not very familiar with their town so didn't dare take side streets. Michael normally recited every word with ads of all the shows he'd watched the night before. Suddenly I realized he was repeating street names and turns. I followed his directions and we arrived at his house the back way. His mom didn't even know he knew the way by memory. Forty five years later I'm still amazed. Blessings.
Even on my 18th birthday I preferred playing god of war to socializing. I'd say it all depends on the individual. But more than likely, someone who has good meaningful friendships will still have someone show up if asked.
That's awful! What I can't understand is why people would say they plan on coming and just bail? If you can't go, then it's better just to say so. It's far more hurtful to lie.
@@Momoyueyeah I agree. It wastes someone's time and it can be mentally draining to be left in the dark about what is happening.
I feel so bad for this sweet girl. It’s so rude to RSVP saying you’re coming and just not show up, so shame on those people. I’m so happy that other community members came out to her birthday party and made it a good day ❤
Yeah so sad
I saw a FB in my community about a mom having set a party for her little boy and fell on a date where none of his friends could attend. So she posted it on FB. I saw it and said to my wife that our daughter would enjoy meeting new friends. So we replied and said we were in. A few weeks later, we showed up, along with about a dozen other kids. None of them knew the birthday boy. All of us brought gifts and enjoyed our time celebrating the boy's birthday. The parents were thrilled. To see a bunch of kids who have never met, sitting together, eating pizza, and laughing is the best joy for any parent.
That mom taught her daughter such an incredible important life lesson….. ‘When life hands you lemons make lemonade.”❤
LOVE this comment.
Yes what a great lesson for this girl to watch unfold by her loving mother.
Technically life never gave us lemons. We invented lemons all by ourselves!
Kudos to mom for sending that batsignal! It’s always blown my mind when having my daughters parties and people that rsvp never showed. Thank God for her (my daughters) real family and friends that showed. I don’t think one kid from school ever showed at one of her parties 😢
ok but why didn't nobody of her classmates show up?? there's something they're not telling ..... maybe mom has a bad reputation at school or did something ..??
@@trashtvinternationalYou could be onto something, but I don’t believe this story at ALL! It just doesn’t make sense. Notice how they said her family showed up AFTER she made a post on the community forum. Her FAMILY? WHAT!?!?
The mother is a narcissist who orchestrated it all to get a story going on fb and the news and to make it all about her at her daughter's expense... I'm not stupid I see through this evil
@tonshmar They said commmunity family
@@VVVV-ug1pz Meh, still not buying it,
We need more people like this in our world. Loving, caring, compassionate and generous people. Spread love not hate.
THIS is the type of story we need to hear about. What a show of compassion and humanity.
More like a show of the selfishness and superficiality of our current culture. People have no sense of commitment or responsibility anymore, but give them an emotional story to post about on their socials, and they'll drop everything to show up. I guarantee you that every one of the people who showed up at that party did it for the gram.
This happened to me when I was 16; of the 50 people who had said they were going to attend and that I thought were my “friends” only 4 showed up. We had enough food for everyone that said they would be there so we had to give everyone who did come lots of food to take home because there’s no way we could eat all that food that day. I was so grateful for the 4 that kept there word.
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Massive respect for those 4 people,salute. 👍🏼😎
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Better one that celebrates you than ten that don’t! Enjoy your birth year to the fullest! Celebrating you 🎉Happy Birthday
As a mom seeing your child at a party with no guest its heart breaking thank heavens for her quick thinking and her community
Ikr
Exactly, Amen.
Exploitation much. Why on earth would you post on internet for the world to see? The girl will grow up and see how her mother embarrassed her by revealing it to the entire world?
It’s hot outside!
This is why I never held parties. I always knew I was one of the less popular kids, so this was my biggest fear...Glad she got a great birthday party in the end. Very much deserved
Same bro 😔👊
I’m so sorry you feel this way :( I LOVE YOU AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY IN ADVANCE ❤❤❤
Same. And I remember there was one girl who invited me to her party in all of elementary school and she told me that everyone told her not to invite me but she wanted me there. I will never forget it!
That's why they got the kids (parents) to confirm with an RSVP in advance. It's cruel for her "friends" to say they were attending then break that promise. I hope some flakes see this and realize how much harm they can cause when they break RSVPs. Obviously legit things can prevent attendance and courteous to notify event planner, but rare that 100% of those who RSVP to flake out.
I got really introverted after 1st grade so I just didn't want parties anymore because I didn't really talk much to my classmates, so I felt like no one would come anyway, but if any did it would be just as much of a nightmare to deal with.
Okay so why am I crying 😢 I’m so happy the community showed up for this little angel❤
Lesson learned for all of us!!
Never invite anyone to a party unless you absolutely know them. Keep the invites to a minimum.
Yes, even adults can still hurt from childhood and adulthood trauma from those who never really liked us.
So happy their community came and gave her a positive birthday to remember!! 🥳
I'm reading this and gave a bday party on 22 July at my house 😅.
That’s not the lesson at all. Ugh.
Except now most teachers make a rule where when a kid has a birthday party, they can't exclude anyone, they HAVE to invite the whole class.
That's why one of my coworkers who has kids always has her kids keep the party on the down-low, only has them invite a few of their closest friends and sends the invites out through the mail instead of having her kids give them in class.
Wish we knew what the actual meaning was to why no one showed up.
At 5 years old, how could she develop any bad friendships?
Best option for a classroom friend party is to just have them in the actual classroom.
That's what I did for my child until middle school.
Then the parties became limited due to those middle school years, etc.
It doesn’t matter if you know them
WOW. I can't believe all those moms teaching their kids it's ok to bail on a responsibility. Other people have feelings, too! Kudos to the awesome moms, dads and kids who showed up for Willow!
Your childs bday is no ones responsiblity
@@HandleThiSS88then don't RSVP yes
@@HandleThiSS88prolly don't get invited anywhere do u? Byob
Honestly, I never really understood why all of them back out without notice? Especially when many of them have clearly accepted the invite.
@@HandleThiSS88its the same thing with tipping nowadays people feel soooo entitled to everything
Respect to all those people, especially the ones who went out of their way to bring presents 👏🏿👏🏿🖤
At this age it is not the kids but the parents who decided no to show at the party
I've seen stories like this,, with no one showing up to children's birthday parties, and it breaks my heart. What a wonderful mother this little girl has.
I am so happy to see that so many of the kids in the community showed up for the party to make it better for her. Unfortunately things like this even happen in adulthood. For my 28th birthday there was a reservation at a nice restaurant for myself and 8 others. As the date got closer and closer, people started to cancel with really no reason and by the time I got to the restaurant for the reservation, the dinner reservation that was supposed to be for 9 people ended up just being me. I was all dressed up and of course extremely disappointed, but no matter what I was still going to enjoy my favourite meal and celebrate myself. The restaurant staff were amazing and I could tell that they felt bad for me for being alone on my birthday and so they did their best to kind of keep my company. They ended up giving me way too much champagne and so I ended up getting very drunk, but I think that was their plan to try to get me to forget about the bad part. At the end of the night they wouldn't let me pay for my dinner and drinks even though it would have been a couple of hundred dollars and they walked me out to my cab to make sure that I got home safe. I still think of the kindness that restaurant staff showed me and ever since then I have made it a tradition to take myself to my favourite restaurant on my birthday and to celebrate myself and be happy. I do think it would be great if everyone had others to celebrate their birthday with, but if not, everyone should always celebrate themself. (I also buy myself a Christmas present every year and take myself out for Valentines Day)
Reading your story just brought so many tears to my eyes. That's why I'm making a point to always commit to plans and see things through, including others around me that seem lonely. No one should ever celebrate their birthday alone. I'm so sorry you ever had to go through that. The staff was sure wonderful going above and beyond to make that day special ❤
Even though I got a boyfriend who buys me for birthday, Christmas, and Valentines, and though my son is from the most previous relationship with ex-cohabit, he buys me a Mother's Day present as well. Some of the things he selects himself, but never been disappointed by his selections. I still buy for myself ( as well buy for him and my son ). I am 47 and still buying myself stuffed animals. 😂😂😂😂😂. Well, Christmas, Valentines, and Mother's Day I do. But my most fave teddy is my boyfriend. And he treats me like a teddy.
shortyash I'm not a do-things-with-friends kind of person, so on my own birthday each year I used to treat myself to an upscale lunch, a movie, and some golf if possible.
@@theophilusconnor I love that! I learned a long time ago that even if we don’t have others to treat us, we should always treat ourself. I’ve spent most of my adult life on my own and so every so often I treat myself to what I call “me date days”. I treat myself to some of my favourite things. For me that’s usually a massage(low cost through a massage school), hair appointment and a nice meal out. Life can be tough sometimes and it’s important that we do things that make us happy, no matter how small they may be.
@@shortyash100 I like so many others born right between Thanksgiving and Christmas learned very early, no parties for me. I don't even remember my own birthday except if I write a check on that day and then I say, oh, it's my birthday.
I can’t imagine a mom letting her child not show up for a party after giving a “yes” RSVP. That’s horrible.
I was the only little girl not invited to a classmate’s sleepover birthday party once. That one hurts, too.
I’m sorry that happened, it sounds so cruel. It hurts not to be invited to things
Fr same thing my "friend" actually didn't invite me to her birthday party this summer but invited all the other girls 😢
My son is now in his 6th and last year of preschool and I've seen many birthday invitations over the years and many playdates. He got invited to his first birthday party this Sunday. Fortunately our little children cannot see what's happening around them.
@@cocobunitacobuni8738 my mom had a policy: if I was inviting most of the girls (or boys and girls when I got to that age)in my class, then I had to invite all of them. If it was a limited number of classmates, then I couldn’t pass out the invitations at school and couldn’t talk about the party at school.
@@4evrnick excellent policy!
I'm so happy the community came through for this little girl! 🥰 I too had the same experience at 11 years old. (My mom ran down the street knocking on doors and inviting random kids to come) It was so traumatizing that I never wanted another party until I reached 30 and I made myself try again. That time it was successful. However, it scars you forever unfortunately. (I'm 68 and still hesitate about holding any get together for myself)
This reminds me of a girl’s party I went to in 4th grade. She invited everyone in class, and I was the only one to show up. Her family came from Louisiana (we were in Texas at the time) and they cooked crawfish, lobsters, and a bunch of other seafood. It was odd being the only kid there, but I think that girl will always remember that I was the only one to show up
Now that's good food
True. That incident will remained in her mind her whole life and hopefully will not affect her. This kind of treatment could be one of the little incidents triggering in those massive shooting killer mind's that those absent parents never give any thoughts on effect. It is a another form of "invisible" bullying similar to verbal bully.
crawfish, lobsters and seafood would make me so happy as a little kid! you were so lucky lol
Good for you! God bless
A couple years ago my son was invited to a birthday party of a kid he barely knew. He invited the whole class and only my son showed up. I was so glad that my son was available that day because I would have felt terrible knowing no one showed.
I cried, with both sadness and happiness. What a community of angels!
Same ❤❤❤
Me too ❤
Same
Crying for what lol
So I'm assuming the kids that were invited were not from the same community?
That happened to me…I’m a grown woman and did my own invite for my 40th. Me and spouse having hard times after his brother passed. I just needed some girlfriends to laugh and celebrate with. All 8 out of 12 backed out at the last minute. It was a deep blow so I can’t imagine how this sweet girl just have felt. I’m so glad everyone came out to love her on her special day!❤️
i'm sorry you had to experience something like that as well, no one deserves to feel alone on their special day. You're amazing
Not too sure how to word it but I rather be alone with my wife and kids than to have a bunch of fake people around. Sometimes we don’t see that it’s a blessing in disguise.
I’m so sorry that happened to you, it can make you feel depressed and sad I know. Just realize true friends don’t do that. I hope you’ve gotten over it since then and moved on….just wanted to say from a stranger that your loved, and a beautiful person. Keep your head up girl!
I have maybe two friends I see maybe twice a year. So the fact that you even had 12 people to invite is still impressive lol
@@VictoriaMRumfield *12 fake friends.
That is the meanest thing ever,that strangers came to the rescue and that she got to make neew friends
I love how the community responded. It takes a village to raise a child. Everyone needs a strong community that looks out for each other.❤
This really breaks a child's heart and you can see it in her face, her own classmates. Her mother was very inventive and saved the day thankfully. The fact that it was the little girl's classmates has caused hurt as yet and hopefully her parents will help her along to assimilate the experience.
This is the saddest story I have ever heard. Willow looks like the sweetest kid and the mom is so genuine... and smart ❣ The neighborhood turned things around for this Birthday Girl 🙂 showing her what true friendship is. As for her "so called friends" and their parents, I hope they learned something from this.
She LOOKS like the sweetest kid but is she?... 😏🤷🏾♀️
Saddest you've ever heard? Damn you must be new to life
The saddest story you ever heard? Come on don't run with it
She looks very pouty and disturbed to me. My 5 year old niece , unprompted said,” She is a grumpy pants and scary so they said we want cake but don’t be scary and look so mean.
Not the saddest, but I get your point.
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The fact that families rolled up on no notice WITH PRESENTS melts my heart.
This happened to my daughter too. I cannot imagine accepting an invitation and not showing up (unless it was an emergency or something!) So wonderful how this story ended!!! Sure hope the people who didn’t show up learned a lesson in kindness.
First world problem... "no one showed up to my birthday party "😂😂😂
@@thefitnesszonegym9654 Clearly not a first world problem! Thing is though you clicked on a video and took time to comment about a child that had no one show up to her birthday party, which is very upsetting for a child. Why don't you watch first world problem vids instead.
Yep karma so happy she had a better happier birthday anyway 🎉🎉
Now she can make new real friends.
@@yagotta1 Definitely!!! 😉👍🏼
Not having anyone show up or having your parent chase everyone away or having your birthday forgotten completely...it stays with you forever...so glad this mom gave a hey and I'm glad this little girl had social media to fall back on❤
yah we didnt do nothing for my 19th a few years ago and everybody tried telling me we did when I know even talked to me that day lmao
As a introvert kid my mom knew this was bound to happen at some point so she almost always used to meet with the parents of the few friends i had and try, develop a sort of relationship with them. She always said that its easy to say no to a stranger but doing that to the person who you personally know is kind of hard. My bfs parents at that time drove about 50 miles in traffic to come to my party at 9 pm....we all were waiting for them from like 7:30 and it was a blast. Im seriously amazed at what all she did for me back then, as an adult its near impossible for me to do the same for any future kids i have but im gonna give my all to make them have the childhood i was gifted with
I have a 5 yr old and am terrified of this! Stupid onions making me tear up...
I am a grown man and this definitely triggered an emotional response from me. I wish the family all the best in the future.
All the families that showed up seem like compassionate parents who wouldn’t want to be in the same situation with their kids it’s heart touching
i’m so glad that her community pulled together to make this little girls birthday, there’s still some good people out there
Yes!!!!❤
Should she be saying this in front of her daughter present?