Toddler gives her mother advice after hearing parents fight
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- Опубліковано 24 чер 2018
- This little girl would make an excellent marriage counselor! She comforted her mother after hearing her parents fight.
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This girl should have her own UA-cam channel called “Raising my parents”
😂😂😂
Lol! 😂
😂😂😂
Lol
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News headline: *"Divorce rate drops to 0% after toddler's speech"*
Giga LOOOOOOOOOL
Note, she doesn't claim that people can remain married, or that marriage necessarily works...she essentially talks of forgiveness over hate and resentment, and the need for Ego's to be suppressed in the interests of striving for friendship...
@@tenorandguitar still.. If we take it in positive.. Many marriages can work and divorce rate can be decreased.. We have seen ppl falling apart for ridiculous things. It feels like they didn't come together to stay and having each other back to life..
IMFAOOO I AM DYING 😭😭😭
LMFAO
She needs to address the nation with that speech!
This is the most mature child I've EVER seen in my life. I love her!!
Shes got my vote for president.
Same
I,am from the UK Gizmo but as ever would be proud to stand with her as President of our American cousins from across the pond
Im in
Yep its better than the 🍊
Yeah, far better than Killary and Orangutan.
This child has more wisdom than most adults will ever have wtf
Godot ikr!!!
It's why I keep telling people that wisdom is a gift. It's not something that is gained through experience...
True!!
Kory Green hmm it’s half half :D
@@leryitay5368 I disagree. I think wisdom can only be inherited at birth or given to you by another wise person. There are way too many old fools in this world for me to believe otherwise.
She’s amazing!! If everyone listened to her this world would be a better place!!!
Even just a small percent watching will change everything! ❤
Amen!
Incredible! She is expressing such profound thoughts but in a child-like manner. Adults need to learn from this kid. Maturity of the mind sometimes does not come with age... some have that inherent in them.
She probably doesn’t even realise how deep and relevant some of her sentences are.
Sara Oh, I think she does. She's an old soul on so many levels. Please don't doubt her wisdom.
most of*
I think she does. The emotions behind her words and face expressions are coming from a deep intelligence within. I think she knows very well and very clear.
@@youarelife3437 it seems as though
Yeah I wouldn’t doubt that she fully comprehends what she’s saying because it’s 100% correct.
This toddler isn't raised by her parents, her parents are raised by her.
lol
Ya
Hahaha i think so
Yes and it's perverse. Adults and children are not equals.
Yeah thanks OSAMA with arabic
Everyone, everyone is ok....
Oh my goodness! What a mature, wise, intelligent little angel! I am flabbergasted. She is some peacemaker. Bless her heart. ❤
This little girl has expressed what every kid knows!
She's like a woman trapped in a child's body. She's wise for a child.
Yeah her english are better then my English ( i not from America)
@@randomworld4852 ok karen
Little girl is from another planet.
Shes just saying be nice unfortunately she knows nothing of marriage and its struggles, however for a little child shes is very intellagant
Sorry for my spelling
I was like that when i was 3
She is more mature than 90% politicians in the world
More like 99.9%.
120% more better!
Absolutely!
No 90% of the business people and people who have avaricious and rapacious motives politicians is run by business the hand is Commerce and glove is politics don't get it twisted throughout time people with the profit motive driving though has always control politics and the clergy study history and see if I'm lying
Has she been on the Ellen show yet.? She is exceptional.
When she says i want every one to be low not high up I think she means there should be no body lording it over others or acting superior and that people should be humble. What a wise little girl she's an angel ❤❤
This child is amazing. Smarter than a lot of adults, she adressed the situation. Spoke eloquently, and made a perfect argument. This girl would make an awesome Marriage Counseler.
20-year-olds: I’m an old soul
Toddler: Hold my milk🍼
LOL!!
😂
Kuma lir tajung?
@Yang Le Soleil ,LoL me too 😂 But she still takes the trophy.
@Ali G , Junga dang lir.
I would like her to deliver this same talk to the U.S. Congress.
Are they ready to be friends?
The US Congress would like you to be poor, divided, poisoned, brainwashed and controlled.
You don't bring that message to reptilians, they don't understand that language.
And a child shall lead them..
The UN with everyone listening - including USA, Australia and China and Russia
Video never gets old, kids are all grown now but reminds me of how especially precious they were at that age
How could you not grow after hearing this beautiful speech by this little angel. ❤😢😊
Enough with the jokes , This kid is talking straight facts
How old is this darling? Bless her sweet little something heart.❤️
When she said she wants them to be settled...so smart!! They must talk plainly to her a lot because she speaks like an adult. A little adult. 💜
Laura Todd ikr she is using so much big words!
Mary Vaughn true
@@astriqxx9169 So smart!
Her imagination, her words, her thoughts are better than most adults.
Yup! It's like, kids like these are real old, beautiful wise souls.
She's young at heart lol. One day she will make her mark on the world. But as she gets older, she will understand and eventually not give up, but just give in, like the rest of "us" in life.
She's young at heart but she is old in the soul she literally is a real old soul just like my daughter she is an old soul even though she's only four it's amazing what these kids you're so like cute and so genuine and real if they like you they like you if they don't they don't care to tell you they don't like you that's why I love kids the real
People underestimate children so much, I used to be so confused as a child on why people never really took in what I was saying and they still dont (I'm 13). I remember thinking if why people used to always smile at me but as soon as they looked away they'd be frowning and it made me sad to see them upset, so I always told myself that I'd be smiling all the time so if someone looked at me and saw me happy they'd be happy.. I try to smile alot and it can be hard sometimes but if we were all happy then we'd be able to hold each other up :) thanks for reading this, I didn't expect anyone to, have a great day/night.
Love you
She is so smart and adorable
The way she broke this situation down while being respectful and mannered at that age is something way advance even grown adults can’t even communicate this well In critical Situations this kid truly a blessing 🙏🏽
The best advice I ever heard in this planet earth coming from a little kid! She is in the next level of life. No one does that age. She could be a future expert in human advice.
She's actually a 70-year-old woman trapped in a toddler's body
@@-o-5018 i dont think so bec my grandma has a sharper memory than me.. So people are different
@@rhembuen9788 agree
@@-o-5018 my grandparents are older than 80 y/o and have no memory loss haha
I like her facial expressions; they show how honest she is. And she looks innocent as she should be as a child. And now, I know I am not 'taking a candy from a baby', but advice.
Time travelling turned wrong
She sounds like she’s running for class president.
Cheeto Puff haha haha yea
I love your acc profile pic and user name 😂😂
I’d rather have her than bunker boy President.
Cheeto Puff. You should run for hamster president. I'll vote for you so we can make the hamster cage a better place! 😂😂😂
Like Young Sheldon!
Still 10 y/o but Sheldon is in High School
And her?
Around 3-6 y/o but in COLLEGE
Sometimes children can really put parents in their place, this precious little angel says it perfectly
This is the most adorable thing. And needs to be played on a loop. She is a gift, and she is BRILLIANT! I Love her!
she’s giving better advice than peoples therapists
LMAO
Agreed
Yep
@Ava Rose ngl it doesn't feel scripted. I guess it's the way how she desperately tries to express her feelings yet unable to fully do so because of her age. Do you honestly think a normal child can act that well without smiling or messing up?
Ava Rose Probably not scripted.. Moron.
When a toddler gives a better speech than the goverment.
Wow!... How about that? So true.
and better than me in presentation
copied
Just say it. Biden
wow. my heart :)
Someone PLEASE give this child a Nobel Peace Prize. She just gave basic instructions on how to end world conflict
Only if everyone listened, than we will all be friends and live happily in the short life that we have. The little girl is so cute.
Metaphorically, she's right about people becoming a monster.
Playana Kobi right..
Lol so true! That baby nailed it 👌
The movie Moana, depicted this perfectly
Yes she is. When people get mad, frustrated, and even scared, we can become monsters!
Humans are monsters sometimes. I even made a UA-cam video about it. It pisses me off
Plot twist: Shes actually a professional therapist in a 5 year old body
?
Like a boss baby! 😂❤️
lol 😂
A transmigrator
And she free
what the heck why did she make me cry. how pure and beautiful. It seems so simple. someone taught her very well!
That baby is highly kinesthetic and high degree of empathy... an Empath.
They should give her the job of hosting the next presidential debate.
For real man hahah
Y e s .
She would make a better president.
Actually she should be the president herself and dump the two
@@wafaamir9750 I would vote for her
The way she articulates is like she's giving a TED talk. Impressive.
@Jack jones Buddy, I was just taking note of the similarities in the *way* that they talk. As in, the way they enunciate and stuff, not the actual content.
Jack jones it’s how well spoken she is at such a young age could be compared to how well spoken adults are when they do ted talks
Cuz she was coached.
Yesss TED TALK definitely lol
@Jack jones then dont watch it mate, if you cant take a small life lesson from a lil girl then i dont think you can learn much from all those ted talk anyway.
This little girl has more eloquence than most of our politicians. Her speech was beautiful. Are you ready to be friends? ❤
It causes kids such anxiety when they’re parents argue, so cute she’s trying to sort it
When this little girl was born, she drove her mother back from the hospital.
Jerome.R when she was born, she was pushing
Lmao😂😂😂😂
LOL
flew*
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Update: she's a marriage counselor now
😃😃😃😃😃
Woah that’s prettt awesome
Not surprised. She's a great person
😂
Or a hippie
Stuff like this deserves to go viral not the everyday nonsense we see on social media
I'm literally tearing up. She is speaking so Divine. May our Creator Bless and Protect this Baby Girl and the whole Family ❤
Let's appreciate that the lady just lets her daughter speak, she doesn't interrupt or laugh at the kid. That is some powerful positive parenting here.
Im almost an adult and my parents still dont let me get a word in. It's nice to see someone being raised a world apart from how I was. I have issues speaking out, among emotional issues overall, cause in my opinion, if you dont let a kid feel out their emotions and say them, then it's difficult for them not to be emotionally guarded all the time. I learned to speak when I was 2 and it has been over a decade and I feel like they have never listened or even discussed issues with me without ignoring me because im "too young" or that its not in my place to express myself 🙃
Anyhow at least i know why i have/what problems i have to work on. Im a lot less emotionally guarded and i let myself feel things a lot more
No she was just stunned. Me also. And may be everybody who listening to this small lady.!
I agree. Everytime I tell my mom something, she laughs at me and it hurts my feelings.
You can tell by this kids vocabulary, articulation, gestures, and intelligence that she has had very positive parenting. She doesnt get worked up, she genuinely tries to help and repeats that shes not being mean. Her parents probably spoke to her like an adult when she made mistakes and didnt yell or unusually punish. It's very evident.
@@walter-vq1fw me too
She's an old soul. They better listen.
That's just what I was coming to the comments to say. Such an awesome soul already. I hope she keeps that spirit as she gets older!
A born counselor. She found her calling at such a young age. What an insightful and wise little one. Take heed parents.
HELLO!!!!?!!! 😃👍
An angel
I was just headed down to the comments to write exactly this! Aww soo sweet 😊
Omg i love kids so much. They really know how to open your heart chakras. If everyone knew how much these babies truly uplift the world and bring in so much light and positivity. We must protect them ag all cost.
I agree❣️
what a precious child! you've taught her well ... I hope she never looses this!
Adults do not alwways realize how children can be affected by arguments
Ye my parents fight and I hate it but then they forgive each other and I'm happy
@@mcog83 Sometimes you can't forgive. Depends on the words you say. Words can affect you for the rest of your life.
Very true, I'm a 27 year old guy and I grew up seeing my dad shouting at my mum and giving her grief, and breaking/smashing things, slamming doors etc it really does stay with you!
@@vir4193 I'm 56 and can still remember my parents doing the same. This always made me cry. My father didn't care.
@@marie-heleneallesiardi4989 i thought the older i get i would forget it all, but it doesn't go away, i guess it sticks with you for the rest of your life ....
But i learnt a lot from it, I'm not married yet but i would never treat my wife or kids like that, never ....
I’d like to make an appointment with this kid
I’d like for her to be my therapist
Me to
You'll not believe i scrolled down to type that i wanna make her my sipirutual guru.... where to contact her🙃🙂
Love it!
I think I've found my write-up vote for the coming election.
She should lead the world. I pray she keeps this wisdom. What a GIFT!❤
So adorable💖What a bright and intelligent girl 🌸
Protect this child at any cost ❤
Adults be like: Kids dont understand life
This kid: Gives a life lesson
Only dumb adults think that kids don't understand life.
Not interrupting, not belittling, just sitting quiet and listening. Parenting 101
For realll rightt😁👐🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾
J L Yeah my parents would shut me down the second I say something near the words of this child.
How old is this little 👧 girl? She is an Old Soul trapped in a 5 year old's body! A future marriage counselor!!!!
I want a daughter like her!
@@priya1466 , it's because they were not ready to listen. Some people reach old age and still aren't ready to listen
Who does not LOVE this tiny sweet human being? What a wonder she is for her age and her lucky parents will have a built in marriage/life counsellor for the rest of their lives. 😊😊❤
So wise at a very young age, this little princess is precious 💖
I hope her message isn’t lost by her cuteness. Parents take note: Don’t act dysfunctional in front of your very young children. It has a lasting impact. They WILL remember.
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🙄 People fight, it's actually healthy for kids to see that after conflict there is resolution.
The Fakey Cake Maker - I’m not talking about heated, civil disagreements. The fact that you don’t get what I mean indicates you were blessed to grow up in a normal home. Be thankful.
& they KNOW on some level children know it's just wrong
@@TheFakeyCakeMaker people disagree, it's healthy to see a disagreement unfold and be resolved in a functional way. But fighting, yelling, name calling, blaming, using difinitives, etc. Are toxic for kids to witness. And it teaches them dysfunctional ways to handle their emotions and relationships. It also makes them insecure and creates issues with trust within them thst last a lifetime.. So if you are fighting in front of your kids, and from your response it sounds like you are, you need to stop it. Just some advice from a person who works with special needs and at risk (read "traumatized") children for 18+ years. DON'T FIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM!! If you don't believe me, read a book on it. Amazon has tons of factual information from doctors, educators and various scientists that work with kids.
When this little girl was born she told her mother "Congratulations, it's a Woman".
😂😂😂😂
haha well done
Hilarious 😆😆
Thats so wholesome and funny at the same time-
more like she told her mom :
congratulations, it's me;)
Her brain is miles ahead of her experience, and vocab. She knows exactly what she is saying. This is an extremely intelligent and matured Lil girl, than most adults.
it hits harder when its the one you are suppose to be taking care of, is taking care of you.
“And if we live in a world where everyone’s being mean, everyone’s gonna be a monster I’m the future” 😭this little girl’s wisdom is beyond
Extremely true
Her english is much better than mine even tho im 17
And thats exactly what most of us are, Monsters!!!
I thought the child was a boy.
@@Iammeggysil sad but true
people she wants to see smile:
1.nana
2.everyone
Who Is Nana?
@@mrzmaker2243 probably her grandmother
Your comment made me lol
@@kara6177 no your mom made you
@@mrzmaker2243 nana is usually the grandmother on the mothers side.
That is a little person with an extremely high emotional IQ. She's sweet.
Aww, I just want to hug her. She’s such a sweet little girl and she’s right about everything 🥲
This childs level of wisdom...coupled with that vocabulary is astonishing.
Pretty normal tbh
@@smallpp23 That's not pretty normal. I have listened to this many times and the way she expresses herself is way beyond her years and way beyond even how an adult would express what she wishes for people. This girl has an old soul. Not normal for her age. She is amazingly insightful and sensitive.
Even I’m astonished with her articulating ability... extraordinary child
@@tatumpiano agree with u
lol she was coached.
Seems like these parents let her express herself a lot because she is so articulate for her age! Great parenting
A lot of children are born like that- its just the question how they are raised
Every child deserves to be respected and heard.:)
@Saanthwana it was for me like that also! I understand you. But now,im 20 and I'm living in Vienna alone for studying, making them proud and respectful. Things change drastically. :) Im sure you can do it too- in your way whatever that is.
I was raised don't speak unless spoken to. It was raising a kid with respect. Kids are not supposed to be telling parents what to do it messes up the dynamic. This kid is probably going to be a bratty teen. It's just like the kids who are allowed to choose I've cream flavors out of a hundred flavors in a shop while they hold up the line, it's wrong
Great parenting? Well if they were such wounderful parents they would argue in the privacy of their bed room and not in front of this little girl . if they had such great parenting skills this little girl wouldn't feel this way
She's beautiful!
What a smart little lady.
❤🙏❤️
As a Buddhist she reminds me of an enlightened being. Her radiance can transform the coldest heart.
She has so much to say but her limited vocabulary is not stopping her. She’s so intelligent!
For a three-year-old, her vocabulary is exceptional.
I'd be so proud if my daughter came out with this at her age, this kids got my vote if she ever runs.
Yes she is too smart
Yep not like me that takes hours to say correctly the word "busy"
😂😭
Edit:oop I said our instead of hours :v
Limited vocabulary? She has better vocabulary than most adults I know.
She got my vote for whatever she wants to run for when she's an adult!
She's adorable; she's cute; but she is also serious about what she advices everyone to do. And may we all take them seriously.
she's already an adult, atleast more than most of them
President?
Teinna for president
Me to
They gave birth to the cutest marriage counselor of all times.
Very mature thinking for such a small child
This kid is a genius. Give her a therapist’s license and turn her loose on the world.
My thoughts exactly! Wow!
The kid is an adult, while their parents are still wearing diapers.
It's the Holy Spirit through her. Marriage is suppose to be sacred. If you can't respect your husband, DONT MARRY. pride comes before fall.
@@mr.anderson123 You're funny.
In 2044 she will win Nobel prize for peace.
777 Miracles awaits
how about 2020 ? how rare & precious & brilliant is this indigo cherub !
Actually she could win this year😊
M 777 Or for some novel she will have written.
Now.......2020 Nobel Peace prize!!!!!! Wow she deserves it. Just wow. So impressed with her sweet big heart!!!
Why is it that a toddler has more sense and wisdom than most adults?
Smart girl.
This little girl is wise beyond her years. This video has me crying my eyes out!
I love that she’s basically telling people to be humble. Not too high, not all the way down.
Yaaaaaaas 💓💓🦄💓💓
Some people may watch this message is for her parents but NO, this is to all of us. This goes to show you the times we're are in, where a child has to tell adults that we're out of control and that we need to be aware of what we're doing. Very sad and heartbreaking. No child has to beg for peace. Hope things are better for this family.
she was talking about being heartbased
@@saraabraham1104 Just a couple of weeks ago I came to the realization that I believe all humans to be cognitive enough to be nice and honest. The only reason we learn to be dishonest is as a defense. If we could just all agree to stop being part of the problem and just honestly try to address the problems in the world it would be easy. And the fact that we aren't there is confusing the f- out of me.
I thought she was talking about the volume if they were shouting... 😂
Don’t let this world destroy her, she is the purest soul in the world
She made me wanna cry. She's is soo innocent.
I hope she changes the world
No, she speaks truth
This video is old apparently
@@MyHannie123 , or perhaps she is just normal while the world has become a monstrosity.
This young lady has been raised by some great people
yes, it's a paradox, the same parents who had the fight that so troubles her in this video
❤ this kid is smart beyond her years 👌🏽👍🏽👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is for everyone, not only on her parents.
True
You can say that again 💞💞💞💞💞💞👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
You can say that again 💞💞💞💞💞💞👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
And??
@Far Above Rubies nah
“I not trying to be mean- I just want everyone to be friends” this kid just wants peace 🥺
She's cute
If only she knew how many people need to hear this! Bless her 💙💜💙
Yes🥺🙂❣️
But peace was never an option
I vote for her.
Such a great little girl, a blessing ❤
Bless her . She has more wisdom than most adults. She is special. 💘🥰🥰
People don’t understand the level of fear and anxiety a child feels when hearing their parents fight, especially if it’s often. Very brave kid.
Edit: heart goes out to all you who’ve replied with your stories. It doesn’t leave you. I still deal with the damage it causes too.
right
exactly, kinda messed me up but I never speak up. Big respect for this kid to be this brave & well spoken
Very true! ❤️
I was literally thinking how brave she was to say something. Kids hate their parents fighting but also don’t want to come into it cause it feels dangerous. Arguments happen, we’re human, just watch who is around you and how you speak to each other. And like she said bring it to the middle, tone it down.
❤
its pretty scary that she's able to comprehend the world at this level at her age.... she is def intellectually gifted
Old soul
GREEN GANG it’s obviously way deeper than that.
GREEN GANG my teacher just yell at you until you cry and make you feel like a pre-ker 😂
Just because some kids don't know how to communicate their understanding of the world doesn't mean they don't have it lol
Lots of imitation here though. Sounds like she has an ADHD counselor
How precious is she? She literally reminds me of Mila that I miss so much.🙏✝️❤️
Her communication skills are off the hook 😭😭❤️
"I'm not trying to be mean, but..." Sounds like she's heard that a lot.
And there's nothing wrong with that.
@ThatOneAsianBroChick too truthful.
User13 you said it yourself. It’s social media. This UA-cam where your words in comments can’t be tracked by people you know. It’s semi anonymous here so it’s easier to spill.
I think their point is that most people say “I’m not trying to be mean” and then they say something mean. Whereas this girl is actually using the statement to clarify that she is being a caring person.
@@culluts2755 And I never said there was. Read my post again.
If a toddler can figure it out why can’t full grown adults? We all need to take a page out of this little girls book and strive for harmony
Like she said our egos, we use what we have gone through, build a protection barrier all the time, it's just a never ending loop though. I think from this video we all benefit though fsss so share it to those soon to be mothers and fathers🧡🧡🧡
Blessed are the peace makers. What special little girl!
"Everyone would be a monster in the future"... said 5 years ago. This little girl is a prophet!!
She's an old soul. I mean, really, she has more emotional intelligence that many adults I know. Myself included!! Wow!!! She's a gift to this world. I L-O-V-E her!!!! Beautiful. She's right, we should all stop being mean.
Amen, yes she is! Absolutely precious!
She’s trained to fix her parents’ issues! Instead of encouraging or entertain it the mom (as should the other parent) re-assure the child it is ok, and that the parents will disagree, but it is not for her to worry about and to answer her questions so she learns to be ok with hearing her parents’ disagree (and they have to be mindful of how they voice their differences so the child doesn’t have to deal with anxiety over it). Her mind shouldn’t be filled with problem solving for her parents, her mind should be filled with toddler appropriate things such as play etc! Anyone who think it’s cute to see children who act beyond their age do not see the harmful psychological aspect of dumping such responsibility on a child. They are teaching her to be a codependent who will not understand she does not exist to fix other people’s issues, and this will create an issue for her in friendships and future romantic relationships etc. It is such bad parenting to be this irresponsible.
yuko Hashimoto she devoloped it because she had to since her parents are emotionally immature. It’s awful for parents to entertain this and encourage it, they should see a therapist for their issues and also read up on how to actually meet their CHILD’s needs instead of filming and making it public on how her child is stepping in as her counselor. Her child mind should be occupied with play and not guidng the parent through their immature behavior/fights with the other parents.
"Emotional intelligence" is an oxymoron.
@@miguelcustodio2177, Emotional intellect would be. Emotional intelligence is a whole other dimension.
The fact that this girl is having the freedom to talk to her parent like this frank, is an impossible thing for many kids.
That is so sad, I never thought if that. People hurry their kids, dont they? I listened to every thing mine said, and loved every second.
Right! It’s like having an opinion is wrong or being disrespectful when you’re young. Smh.
I would know. I'm never allowed to say anything even now
@@dianaveronica85 Angel, you will.. you are destined for greatness.
@@chellybabyme ❤
What an intelligent girl so sweet
She is very blessed and special. Praise the Most High
This girl should be president of USA right now
Yes
Like legit right now. So much more to offer than our current pig.
aight see y’all thirty years later when she becomes presidents
Yes 😂😂
There'd be fewer tantrums I suspect! 😉
"Settle Your Mean"... That's gonna be the title of the book I'm sure she's already writing.
That was published last year 👍🏼
i’d buy that book hell i’ll preorder it
ill buy it
She was a toddler in this i think she prob is still a kid
😂😂🤣🤣
If only adults had this kind of attitude what a great world we'd have 😊😊😊❤❤❤
This girl has much wiser words than both of her parents & has the maturity of someone 50x her age👍👏.