STORYTIME | Our 5year break-up

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  • @TaffyMazhara
    @TaffyMazhara Рік тому +198

    "Only my pillows could tell you the amount of tears I would cry,and the prayers I would say to God ,dating somebody but my heart belonged to someone else"...this tho❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥👌hits so hard and is so beautiful

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +2

      🥹🥹🥹

    • @lindiwemashaba8491
      @lindiwemashaba8491 Рік тому +2

      So beautiful

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali Рік тому +3

      Couldn’t hold back tears at this!!! 😭😭😭😭

    • @iamnono7782
      @iamnono7782 Рік тому +2

      I'm still crying and I cried so much 😭😭😢... I hope now we are dating will be better..

  • @breebree3834
    @breebree3834 Рік тому +59

    I went through this with my boyfriend 🥺. We dated for one year, then we broke up because I decided to go on a journey with Jesus Christ, we gave each other break it was painful 😣. I thank God he brought us together this year 💞💞

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому

      Oh wow, such a similar story❤️

    • @user-ud5vp2ch4h
      @user-ud5vp2ch4h 10 місяців тому +1

      Wow would love to know how yall ended up finding each other again.

  • @darkskinisalwaysin
    @darkskinisalwaysin 5 місяців тому +4

    “Dating is pointless when it doesn’t feel like what I know Love should feel like.” A. WORD.

  • @snenhlanhlamashile6398
    @snenhlanhlamashile6398 Рік тому +44

    Nibahle yaz, and I'm currently going through that situation right now, I'm choosing Christ and celibacy but ubuti is "enjoying ubusha bakhe" and I recently stepped away from it but I fasted and prayed so God has been helping me with not being said and missing him, worse this is someone I grew up with and have had feelings for him for 9 years out of our 14 year old friendship but God will see me through it. 🙏 might delete later 🤣💀

    • @999SheIsAStar
      @999SheIsAStar Рік тому +1

      I hope you don’t think he’s wrong. You chose the celibacy journey on yourself and it’s not fair for you to expect him to get on a journey he doesn’t want just because kufana wena

    • @snenhlanhlamashile6398
      @snenhlanhlamashile6398 Рік тому +1

      @Nthabi PLEASE SHOW ME WHERE I SAID I EXPECT HIM TO JOIN ME IN THIS JOURNEY.
      Guys can we please approach social media platforms with clear hearts and no projections nkos yam yho. This is why we don't comment under peoples content some of us. Because there will be that person who reads there own nonsense because of the pasture of their heart nje. Yho aowa 💔😶🚮🚮

    • @999SheIsAStar
      @999SheIsAStar Рік тому

      @@snenhlanhlamashile6398 you’re so mad lmao

  • @patiencesithole2437
    @patiencesithole2437 Рік тому +43

    Thank you for this video, it's really, really inspiring. I'm currently in the break up phase with the man that I, one, prayed for before he came into my life; and, two, I thought was definitely my forever. Things unfortunately didn't work out, we've been broken up for a month now and it's still hard to live through, and adjust to not having those long phone calls and that person that just feels like home. But if we're meant to be, according to God's will, then He'll bring us back together ngendlela, neskhathi Sakhe♥

    • @lifewithjoan9829
      @lifewithjoan9829 Рік тому +5

      I'm in this situation too... Really heart breaking but if its meant to be it will.

    • @cHAWELO3
      @cHAWELO3 Рік тому +1

      Me too babe. It's awful. It's been a week

  • @madampraises4450
    @madampraises4450 Рік тому +76

    "When you know what feels right, you know what doesn't" ❤️

  • @pabaleloseroba1125
    @pabaleloseroba1125 Рік тому +47

    Yolz you are so beautiful OMG. Your hair is everything. I love how real you both are to each other, for me its evident that Christ is the center of this relationship. This was lovely to watch.

  • @siithembs
    @siithembs Рік тому +51

    You two are so inspirational. Anisebahle sana, you like a top tier African dessert. Been checking out your hair Yolz!!!!! jonga, it's very very nice to be here, kumnandi uba lapha.

  • @seipatistomberg1091
    @seipatistomberg1091 Рік тому +10

    Both of y'all are so soft spoken that any message said is received so well 🥺🥺🥺❤❤

  • @nontokozomathebs1400
    @nontokozomathebs1400 Рік тому +20

    It's Lwazi saying "angingeni for apologies to ex's" 🤣🤣🤣🤣.... One thing I realised is that if it's meant to be it will be🥂, Looking gorgeous Yolz 😍

  • @NomaMPride
    @NomaMPride Рік тому +3

    I've made so many mistake,I also want to restart my relationship with God. I am learning that I'm on the fence to be honest,I believe in God,but I struggle in terms on,I need to go to a specific church for cleansing and stuff. That shows me that I am not where I want to be with God and this video really inspire me to restart my relationship with God.

  • @happym3585
    @happym3585 Рік тому +7

    I’m so totally here for this segment because most times people go extreme with marriage topics it’s either all good and rosy or all bad and doom… whereas we just want the relatable real and I think that’s what you’re offering, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @silethembaSie
    @silethembaSie Рік тому +15

    There is this peace I feel when I'm watching your videos..Your love for God is amazing and it inspires me❤️

  • @nate7706
    @nate7706 Рік тому +29

    My word I love how Yolz looks at him...amazing, you can just see how much she loves the man, how safe she feels in his presence. Love you guys . It's the first time I watch your vids. May your love keep growing.

  • @byrhani588
    @byrhani588 Рік тому +14

    Oh my goodness, the way you look at each other. That's enough to write a book about your relationship haha.
    You embrace each other so beautifully. May God continue to bless your marriage ❤

  • @neliswajokweni5872
    @neliswajokweni5872 Рік тому +50

    Touched by this story. You guys are so blessed to have made it back together.

  • @mpoetsiramolahlehi7131
    @mpoetsiramolahlehi7131 Рік тому +13

    Ma'am that hair is a beautiful crown 👑

  • @chizzy003
    @chizzy003 Рік тому +4

    A beautiful blessed couple. I love the gentleness in both parties and how The don’t interrupt each other

  • @iampanashejoy
    @iampanashejoy Рік тому +6

    The way this story feels so similar to what happened to me and my Beloved 🥺 we’re younger than y’all and not even married yet but watching you guys feels like looking into our (if the Lord wills!) future together ❤️

  • @nthabisengmashaba1
    @nthabisengmashaba1 Рік тому +14

    Please add/ talk about resolving conflict and forgiveness in marriage on your next episode 🙏🏾🥰🥰🥰

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 Рік тому +11

    Great video❤You guys are so matured in how you talk to each other,you honestly sell a marriage 😭😭❤.May God bless your union 💕

  • @nolubabalomcengwa6935
    @nolubabalomcengwa6935 Рік тому +27

    What an authentic couple❤️. May God continue blessing their union🙏🏼🌸. Thank you Yolz for sharing your marriage with us, you really don’t have to.

  • @sinovee
    @sinovee Рік тому +13

    What a beautiful story😭😭💗I think finances and emotional vulnerability are interesting topics I'd love to know more about

  • @moyakazigriffiths9525
    @moyakazigriffiths9525 Рік тому +14

    Okay Yolz the hair ntombi❤

  • @didintlekole4163
    @didintlekole4163 Рік тому +4

    Yolz you won't scare me like that 😭 Haibo not me thinking the title meant y'all were breaking up after 5 years of marriage 😭 I'm so happy I watched this ❤️

  • @kay-annclarke6312
    @kay-annclarke6312 Рік тому +2

    This is so amazing, this gives me hope that God will restore my family one day. God bless you.

  • @muts_lady
    @muts_lady Рік тому +7

    I’m really looking forward to the up coming videos as a bride to be,there’s nothing as uplifting as getting advice from those who have gone before me on this amazing journey…

  • @paballopule9929
    @paballopule9929 Рік тому +12

    My goodness I can't get over the fact that Yolz being back is a gift to some of us, you are so real it screams through the screen and the same with Lwazi😊but also you are a naturally stunning Yolz, beautiful episode all around😍😊

  • @thomastom634
    @thomastom634 Рік тому +2

    Wow i loved this and as a newlywed I am excited and I am excited to hear an inspiring story of Christian couple

  • @nontandomatshikwe3825
    @nontandomatshikwe3825 Рік тому +10

    My daughter called me mama usis Yolz ulive and her afro lol Yolz u r loved even my boy wil say it's Yolz channel🤣🤣my kids like you mem. Beautiful family Love you Jawez💗 loz awusemhle honey ♥️♥️

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +2

      Aaw, that’s so cute. Oh my goodness, please send my love and hugs to your little ones. I love them too🥹😘 This has made my day❤️

  • @bonginkosikhayelihlemhlung6756

    I think I'm in a same situation, just don't know how will things turn out. There's this wonderful lady I broke up with (she did the break up) and I've had 2 failed relationships after her but my heart is still with her. 🙈😢 She also was the one who fell in love with me, before I even knew her 😂.

  • @funtasha5448
    @funtasha5448 Рік тому +5

    This issue of unfinished business is difficult on other partners sometimes. That "what if " feeling does not stop until you address it .

  • @ncediwemdlulwa1526
    @ncediwemdlulwa1526 Рік тому +18

    The first thing I noticed your hair Yolz is on fire

  • @SheillaSibanda
    @SheillaSibanda Рік тому +7

    Just love how you guys look at each other ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

  • @Kelentshole07
    @Kelentshole07 Рік тому +11

    I had to come back to this one and just acknowledge the pure and the honesty in this vlog ...your story it's quite interesting 😌 and full of hope ,love ...God is great for allowing y'all to go through all that so that his will may be done ✅✅...The realness is too much for me ♥️♥️♥️♥️le vibe guys I appreciate so much ❤️ God bless you

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +1

      Thank you hun, God bless you too❤️

    • @Kelentshole07
      @Kelentshole07 Рік тому

      @@YolzChannel ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @phakamamjungula8729
    @phakamamjungula8729 Рік тому +7

    The eye situation happening 🥹😍❤️

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +3

      🙈🙈yoh. We always checking each other out shem🥹🤧

  • @zanelezan2178
    @zanelezan2178 Рік тому +7

    Oh! Nkosi yam I enjoyed watching you guys. Indlela enihloniphene ngayo 🤗♥️ wanga uBawo angaluqinisa ngakumbi uThando lwenu. Am so excited to see more of these videos 😊

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому

      Thank you so much Zan🙏🏽❤️

  • @babeszitshu
    @babeszitshu Рік тому +7

    Your hair Yolz😍😍😍I enjoyed this video,thank you for sharing journey guys. Also looking forward to watch more of these videos izani nazo🙏❤️

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому

      Thank you🤗❤️ We’re super excited

  • @aphelelesibali6355
    @aphelelesibali6355 Рік тому +2

    Loved Loved this video1 I would love to see a video about emotional intimacy, like how did you guys manage to be vulnerable with each other and literally we each others best friends.

  • @lulamazama4516
    @lulamazama4516 Рік тому +2

    Love the honesty especially for people who don’t have example of young black Love

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb Рік тому +4

    You guys inspired me SOO much!! I can’t even count how many times I pray to God after “falling inlove” and giving my all; only for God to REMOVE them out of my life. One even rocked up with a whole baby a re “mistake “ simply because he couldn’t WAIT on me. God knows I’m praying for marriage right now. I don’t know how or WHO.. but I’m embracing every heartache and your testimony gives me even more HOPE!!. Intimacy without sex; isn’t easy!. But I trust GOD!!.🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🥹

  • @xihlamarisomayimele5164
    @xihlamarisomayimele5164 Рік тому +9

    Nice hair Yolz😍😍😍
    I love your Love Story and how much you've grown as individuals and as a couple❤❤..
    God bless your marriage Forever💕❤💕❤

  • @karabosebitlo
    @karabosebitlo Рік тому +10

    Enjoyed the video👌 and we learn each other everyday in relationships and marriages, wishing you guys many more years together 🙏❤️

  • @nthabisengmashaba1
    @nthabisengmashaba1 Рік тому +5

    My always favourite couple. Thanks a lot guys for sharing your love and break up story with us🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾

  • @simplysinovlogs
    @simplysinovlogs Рік тому +4

    I can't get over your t-shirts😍😍😍....Beautiful story💖💖

  • @mashotogegela1951
    @mashotogegela1951 Рік тому +4

    I am here for these conversations..love you guys ❤️

  • @thalithadyantyi5361
    @thalithadyantyi5361 Рік тому +2

    18:50 😂😂😂 Yolz tricking him into telling the pillow story his own way🥰
    I love love❤

  • @kgothatsomonageng8192
    @kgothatsomonageng8192 Рік тому +14

    Hey Yolz,I love this conversation that you and hubby are having,really inspiring. With me I have been with this guy since 2017 and we've had to break up and make up in all those past years(lol), I've just turned 31 and I feel that maybe this is not worth it,I mean we click,we're like best friends. Also, our relationship is not based on sex. I've prayed about it,I've also prayed for discernment spirit but we would still see each other and feel the magic,or perhaps I'm the only one feeling the magic (as'azi)🤷‍♀️ Anyway I just wanna know how did you keep holding on and how did you keep it together in relationship dynamics because wow I feel like I don't know what I'm doing.
    I am a believer in Jesus Christ,I prayed literally about everything, I've spoken to God about my relationship, I have prayed for this guy,lol I've even gotten to a point of asking God to please make me forget about him. So now I am at a point where I feel that maybe I am more into him than he is into me,so I am letting the whole thing go,I'm losing hope and I feel like I am now able to let him go and let things be, I think I've been scared of losing him because he ticks most of my list,firstly on a spiritual level we click, so I think I have been looking for that and it kind of clouded my judgement in terms of other qualities, coz a man who knows and loves Christ is a big tick for me. So I had put other important things aside. And I ended up getting hurt and disappointed
    Lol,shuu, I can't believe i watched this video twice. Anyway, I love you Yolz,you're amazing, real,authentic, and never ever change that❤️❤️❤️

    • @LydieLove.
      @LydieLove. Рік тому +5

      Reading this and I'm in the exact situation 😭🥺

    • @brienemo354
      @brienemo354 Рік тому +3

      Don't you think praying for the strength to let go is a sign enough from God🥺? You'll be alright. I hope you find peace of mind.

    • @cHAWELO3
      @cHAWELO3 Рік тому +1

      Girrrrl my situation 💔❤️. It's so hard and you depend on God for a "sign". And you question everything. One thing that I heard from a sermon is that God isn't found in our dreams but in our despair. I really believe the answers will be given in this period. Take your time. Be kind to yourself.

    • @AndY-yv7qn
      @AndY-yv7qn Рік тому

      Be careful the dating pool is filled with piss rn

  • @mercymungai1708
    @mercymungai1708 Рік тому +2

    The Kenyan wanjiru njiru and bencyco...literally wow

  • @mzolisapumeza2778
    @mzolisapumeza2778 Рік тому +8

    Enjoyed watching you guys 🥰, beautiful and encouraging story, I strongly believe in marriage. God willing I'll meet my soul mate one day😊.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Рік тому +2

    Absolute goosebumps!! Not at all what I expected with this vid!!

  • @pileshongwe7827
    @pileshongwe7827 Рік тому +3

    Yhuu I can relate having the feeling that you left your soulmate back in life due to loge circumstances

  • @itskamo332
    @itskamo332 Рік тому +5

    Yoh, you guys look so beautiful!
    I’d make you two the cover models of black love! 💕 Yolzzz 😭😭😭 why are you this gorgeous bathong??? Love you!

  • @trudytriad4574
    @trudytriad4574 Рік тому +3

    Girlingz your hair is FLOURISHING! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @malolomaremela3364
    @malolomaremela3364 Рік тому +4

    Here we like before we listen ❤, ain’t No chance you’ll be disappointed

  • @RatoMamaLehumo
    @RatoMamaLehumo Рік тому +3

    Everything is on point here, the video quality like listen 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @lungilesibandze233
    @lungilesibandze233 Рік тому +2

    The fishing from yolz🤣🤣🤣 on the pillow story...so sweet

  • @portiaonuekwusi4179
    @portiaonuekwusi4179 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful conversation. One day please speak to young widows...I find it's not something spoken about in our society...I enjoyed this

  • @kamohelomahlomoje7669
    @kamohelomahlomoje7669 Рік тому +8

    Off topic...your hair has grown so much. Please share what you have been doing.

  • @gugulukhele6473
    @gugulukhele6473 Рік тому +2

    Kwa love lives here, absolutely enjoyed your love story, may god continue to bless and hold your family together ✨🤩🙏🌸❤️

  • @nthabisengmzimba9930
    @nthabisengmzimba9930 Рік тому +5

    Such a beautiful love story 🥰 looking beautiful as always Yolz 👌

  • @mathebulajane2847
    @mathebulajane2847 Рік тому +1

    Please the way they look at each other 🥺
    Hauw, love is beautiful and Im watching this on Vali Vali

  • @lindazhangazha5589
    @lindazhangazha5589 Рік тому +6

    Thats some healthy hair Yolz!

  • @ncumisa_joy
    @ncumisa_joy Рік тому +2

    I had to watch this....thank you guys for sharing🙌❤️

  • @zeldamotsoko5252
    @zeldamotsoko5252 Рік тому +3

    Arg....man this is sooo heartwarming 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️love you loads guys 🥺

  • @nosicelomarele3438
    @nosicelomarele3438 Рік тому +3

    Yhooo isisu sam and my heart while watching this hay bafetu ilove Iyagowisa Va😄🤭, I relate so so much and mind you am only in the phase of decision making if I stay or🥺🥺 I know what God told me about this guy and like you Yolz I had dreams/visions, I was starting to wonder if God has changed his ways from "uqala umsebenzi awufeze" but this video was my answer to that and as much as my thoughts hurt right now, I choose to trust in what God said and showed me🥺
    And yeah man thank you for this, it was beautiful to watch, am used to watching your guys videos but ah today you looked cuter, more nton nton😅😅 maybe it's this story 💝 keep them coming

  • @siithembs
    @siithembs Рік тому +6

    I live 2 minutes away from Cavs and most definitely wind exists on that atmosphere xxx

  • @kodwat2134
    @kodwat2134 Рік тому +9

    Lovely couple. This video got me hooked on you guys. Looking forward to learning from you. ❤️

  • @sarahletsoalo9668
    @sarahletsoalo9668 Рік тому +2

    Yolz your hair 🥰🥰🥰, And I really love you fam. What a beautiful journey🌺

  • @MissYishaM
    @MissYishaM Рік тому +2

    Thank you for resuming your channel Yolz❤️

  • @micadoh7749
    @micadoh7749 Рік тому +4

    So cute. Yolz please tell us how you got that hair. It's gorgeous.

  • @zaneletheodora4703
    @zaneletheodora4703 Рік тому +3

    Guys, it's okay to open up and be vulnerable.

  • @sichumilendamase4051
    @sichumilendamase4051 Рік тому +4

    Lovely T-shirts 🥺🔥🔥

  • @eyethumfazwe
    @eyethumfazwe Рік тому +3

    I'm the 11th person to comment, so early for the first time in my life, lol. I know how you guys met but I don't mind hearing it again, lol. Didn't know y'all break up for 5 years, but I'm listening and looking forward to learning something new.

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +1

      Aaw! It felt soo long those 5years. Thank you hunie

  • @esthertibane2728
    @esthertibane2728 Рік тому +1

    Oh wow thank you soo much for this video 🥰❤learned alot from this video 🙏🏽
    As for He should double check 🤣🤣

  • @pinkhappynesslady5331
    @pinkhappynesslady5331 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for this,new to the channel (just subscribed),this was wholesome; looking forward to learning more.

  • @Mmaphefo.M
    @Mmaphefo.M Рік тому +2

    Beautiful story and you both look so good together ❤ 💕

  • @iampanashejoy
    @iampanashejoy Рік тому

    Oh my gosh I LOVE that you guys saved up for Lobola together! I’m totally doing that too

  • @lindiwemashaba8491
    @lindiwemashaba8491 Рік тому +10

    Such a cute couple 💑 😍 💗

  • @Buhle-M
    @Buhle-M Рік тому +2

    Such a beautiful and authentic couple😍

  • @sihlemabuza3352
    @sihlemabuza3352 Рік тому +3

    You guys are so blessed ♥️

  • @lindiwemashaba8491
    @lindiwemashaba8491 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for allowing us on your space

  • @TashaMakamula-ly2py
    @TashaMakamula-ly2py 11 місяців тому +2

    Yolz how did you know that he will comeback despite him being in arelationship with someone else..??

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 Рік тому +1

    Wow interesting story💛❤ ,nibahle nami ngicela yami i T-shirt 😊

  • @sindimahlambi2320
    @sindimahlambi2320 Рік тому +2

    Love loved this

  • @bulelwapringana5960
    @bulelwapringana5960 Рік тому

    Zithetheni izinto simamele, can't wait for the next episodes

  • @Sive_Nyanda
    @Sive_Nyanda Рік тому +4

    Like then watch 💃🏽 love your T-shirts ❤😍

  • @remofilweserame1384
    @remofilweserame1384 Рік тому +1

    Yolz umuhle yezwa!!!

  • @esthertibane2728
    @esthertibane2728 Рік тому

    I would like you guys to unpack on how becoming parents has changed your relationship

  • @Chuma.N
    @Chuma.N Рік тому +8

    Off topic: love your tshirts😍 and love it when Yolz speaks isiXhosa

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому

      Aaw, dankie❤️

    • @nontandomatshikwe3825
      @nontandomatshikwe3825 Рік тому

      Jonga uYolz knows IsiXhosa vha my hubby would be like tshini Yolz ngu mxhosa mosi. Nam ndimthanda when she speaks xhosa bawela umamela akhe asitsho nje.

  • @thandeka4905
    @thandeka4905 3 місяці тому +1

    I love this❤

  • @malefomercy6360
    @malefomercy6360 Рік тому +13

    How do you and your partner get to move forward together beyond the mistakes that you make in the relationship?

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +3

      Yoh, this is a tough one babe. But I will certainly add it to the questions

  • @simamkelencapayi5457
    @simamkelencapayi5457 Рік тому +3

    Notification gang gang gang💃🏾

  • @iamnono7782
    @iamnono7782 Рік тому +1

    Funny enough lol I also I dreamed about her with her girlfriend back then, 😭😭no I feel like I'm listening to myself here, cause wow Yolz you just made me cry again..
    Cause loving someone is hard ♥️❤️😭😭..

  • @KhanyiMsibi
    @KhanyiMsibi Рік тому +1

    Yolz is so beautiful 😍 love your Afro ma’am.

  • @XoliN
    @XoliN Рік тому +9

    One thing about you, you are the Afro queen even if you try to run away from that niche 😂😂you look so good with your hair 🥰

    • @YolzChannel
      @YolzChannel  Рік тому +1

      Thank you. I certainly can concur😂

  • @slindilemajola
    @slindilemajola Рік тому +16

    In a similar position at the moment and this video has made me realise that I’m not alone.. Others have gone through something similar. Thanks for sharing this story, Yolz and Lwazi. This was inspiring. 🙏🏾🤍

  • @yamkelakolisile4316
    @yamkelakolisile4316 Рік тому +1

    Looking forward to the next videos unpacking marriage. 😊😊

  • @makwandeizipho950
    @makwandeizipho950 Рік тому +2

    Exciting series ahead.

  • @thalithadyantyi5361
    @thalithadyantyi5361 Рік тому +1

    Looking forward to this content ❤