I love looooooove this whole marriage series. I'm a single woman but I learned a lot. Getting ready for when God blesses me with my hubby😂❤🤭 great job Sis Yolz
The way finances were never awkward in my relationship. Not so long after we started dating my husband was open to me about how much many he has and what he does with it and all of that. It wasn't even a conversation, the information randomly came up in a conversation and we continued with what we were talking about
I’m turning 26 this year and I have never given a thought on what my finances look like until this year . Living isi I blew it . I really want to do better .
This has been the best episode and I have enjoyed the entire series. Thank you, we don't talk about finances enough. I love your openness and ability to share about the importance to downgrade when things shift and knowing that it's also a passing phase. If you work together you will come out of it stronger.
You are brave to discuss this topic. I can see your husband was not fully at ease at the beginning but he gave such beautiful insights as you progressed. It’s actually still awkward for us. My husband does his best to avoid it. I hold him to his set expenses then afterwards I mind my own business. In the same breath, I also expect him to not look to me after I pay my set expenses. I wonder if it’s awkward when the man earns less than a woman. I love how you brought about scenario planning and future proofing. That’s now serious adult talk. Thank you both so much.
Firstly, thank you for you and your husband for being so open with us regarding finances in marriage. The last bit of the episode has opened my eyes to a fact that I have been running away from for a while since Covid with my partner, we need to future proof our lives and Covid should us flames.. I am also very much interested in your spreadsheets as we have been postponing our wedding due to other things that pop up that we didn't plan for, coming in and the money we are saving being used for those unexpected expenses.
This was sooooooo good fam, and yes manh marriage can be so romantized that we forget it can get REAL real quick and yho as someone who also grew up in Financial lack I am quite strict but Holy Spirit has been helping me with that ey because I can't pour that into my future husband 😂
My fav topic as much as its uncomfortable its always a key factor that we discuss our finances with our partner that we can both see if we getting better or we slacking. Phela finances ended up most of the beautiful relationships and marriages. This again shows the importance of creating and building your partner and maintaining or introducing them to our lifestyle.
I love what I am getting from this episode and it leaves me both emotional and inspired. I am separated in the process of divorce and finances played a massive role in the breakdown of my marriage (amidst other issues), but mostly what I am getting here is that both parties in this holy union have MUTUAL respect for each other. Mutual respect is the foundation that offers a safe space for such sensitive and intimate issues to be addressed and conquered by couples. Love this to bits. Thank you so much.❤
Oh I loved this so much Yolz...my husband always tells me the same thing that the approach and not when we are about to sleep - so basically put an appointment.🤣
Sheesh, thank you guys for being courageous enough to open up with the community about your financial journey. This was brave of you and very eye opening for us, it's greatly appreciated❤
Wow I love your openness, vulnerability and honesty. I enjoyed watching this video. When we were still dating with hubby finances used to be an uncomfortable topic and never understood why. But now I understand better. I also come from a finance background, spreadsheets, savings etc 🤣
Wow thanks for this vulnerable video. Wow and you are both so calm and respectful towards each other. I love it ❤ happy you are now flourishing financially!
Finances are tricky esp wen you running a small business. I find myself doing budget almost everyday. In my mind I know I would have over spent but you need to be accountable for that.
I have loooved the entire series but this conversation was certainly my favourite. Tlaly and financial conversations 🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽. Thank you for sharing your journey.
Hey sis Yolz would you please make a video explainig that whole saving spreadsheet idea/concept you implimented . I really feel like I need something of that sort for myself
Honestly sis I understand you. I think my biggest fights between me and mum are def cause of money. I am a planner as much as I understand small things here and there zisovela but at least be a planner. Finances are def important. How do u see money, wat kind of a spender are you.
Yolz I love how you respect your hubby, cel'anje ukutsho kqala 😊 Yhooo le topic ibalulekile kakhulu, can't believe ba le episode yeyokugqibela. I enjoyed zonke mna shame kwaye ndifundile kakhulu. Enkosini maan ♥️♥️
i havent watched this but i think it was uploaded at the right time for me. i literally just got off an intense money conversation with my partner and hey we need advices
Thank you for this. I can relate kakhulu on everything you touched on. Marriage is indeed shown as glitz and glamour and no one prepares you for hardships. But more than anything marriage is beautiful, but you gotta work it out.
Am i the one who feels as if this Couple's series ended way too soon 😭 Please kindly consider atleast last 2 videos for us on these topics . 1. Keeping things Godly (whilst in a rlationship) prior marriage (Celibacy etc) 2. Should one consider pre-marital counseling (more especially gents) even though they're not on plans of getting married soon , this is because i feel like as gents we're often left ukuthi sizibonele cause " Singamadoda " so we'll figure everything out on our own , yet the reality of marriage doesn't go that way .
Shuuu Yolz, I am going through it with hubby. We seem to be missing one another when it comes to communication and I think I fail to articulate well my true intentions to understanding and how we can work together. So right now...😔
mmm am thinking of downgrading my lifestyle. i pay rent, utilities and rates and taxes. my partner gives me like R1800 a month and i spend like R8000 just on the roof on our heads, all he does is buy expensive clothes and post on social media, am also responsible for private school fees for my two girls and expenses like food, school activities and other expenses to keep the house run, his excuse i earn more, i earn double his salary and he is not interested in getting a job or getting a qualification. i am now drowning in debt and always short tempered.
Yolz Yolz yoh such an intense conversation ..I just keep on learn more and more .. I took notes for myself I'm definitely gonna talk discuss this with my husband 😉 so mouth full ..the approach "eish
Mhhhhhhh it is such an awkward conversation which I'm still trying to get a better approach with my partner also with me I'm still traumatized by the debit I had when I started working which it has delayed my progress so much but I'm in better space now but very scared of debt even important debt I'm so glad that now I can talk myself out of the things I can't afford and be okay that for now I can't do this will get there one step at a time, Thank you for this I really enjoyed it 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
Sana I love the spoil with these episodes ❤ 😍
I had to wait for my husband so that we watch together,
I love looooooove this whole marriage series. I'm a single woman but I learned a lot. Getting ready for when God blesses me with my hubby😂❤🤭 great job Sis Yolz
The way finances were never awkward in my relationship. Not so long after we started dating my husband was open to me about how much many he has and what he does with it and all of that. It wasn't even a conversation, the information randomly came up in a conversation and we continued with what we were talking about
I love that!
I’m turning 26 this year and I have never given a thought on what my finances look like until this year . Living isi I blew it . I really want to do better .
My wish too ayboo
Hey 😊. I just discovered this channel days ago. I love how your content is SO INTENTIONAL🙌. Much love from Kenya🤗.
This has been the best episode and I have enjoyed the entire series. Thank you, we don't talk about finances enough. I love your openness and ability to share about the importance to downgrade when things shift and knowing that it's also a passing phase. If you work together you will come out of it stronger.
You are brave to discuss this topic. I can see your husband was not fully at ease at the beginning but he gave such beautiful insights as you progressed.
It’s actually still awkward for us. My husband does his best to avoid it. I hold him to his set expenses then afterwards I mind my own business. In the same breath, I also expect him to not look to me after I pay my set expenses.
I wonder if it’s awkward when the man earns less than a woman.
I love how you brought about scenario planning and future proofing. That’s now serious adult talk. Thank you both so much.
Absolutely hey
Firstly, thank you for you and your husband for being so open with us regarding finances in marriage. The last bit of the episode has opened my eyes to a fact that I have been running away from for a while since Covid with my partner, we need to future proof our lives and Covid should us flames.. I am also very much interested in your spreadsheets as we have been postponing our wedding due to other things that pop up that we didn't plan for, coming in and the money we are saving being used for those unexpected expenses.
Hi Yolz, thank you for videos but the volume is always low, kindly improve on that…. Thank you
Hey hun, so sorry about that. Our mics were fluctuating and we only realised during edit. We tried our best to fix it ❤
This was sooooooo good fam, and yes manh marriage can be so romantized that we forget it can get REAL real quick and yho as someone who also grew up in Financial lack I am quite strict but Holy Spirit has been helping me with that ey because I can't pour that into my future husband 😂
My fav topic as much as its uncomfortable its always a key factor that we discuss our finances with our partner that we can both see if we getting better or we slacking. Phela finances ended up most of the beautiful relationships and marriages. This again shows the importance of creating and building your partner and maintaining or introducing them to our lifestyle.
I love what I am getting from this episode and it leaves me both emotional and inspired. I am separated in the process of divorce and finances played a massive role in the breakdown of my marriage (amidst other issues), but mostly what I am getting here is that both parties in this holy union have MUTUAL respect for each other. Mutual respect is the foundation that offers a safe space for such sensitive and intimate issues to be addressed and conquered by couples. Love this to bits. Thank you so much.❤
And thank you for your vulnerability, you went INNNNNN
Lovely, very fruitful information. May you please share the spreadsheet that you guys use to budget. Thanks 🥰.
Loved this Yolz, great seeing you and hubby share together , the way he looked at you towards the end ❤❤❤.
Haibo!!!! Last episode 💔 this series should be compulsory
Finances are also pillow talk to me😂
Any time, bhuti let’s plan our lives.
I enjoyed watching this soooo much. Yolz maybe bring I. Your married friends to discuss this topic ❤️
Oh I loved this so much Yolz...my husband always tells me the same thing that the approach and not when we are about to sleep - so basically put an appointment.🤣
Sheesh, thank you guys for being courageous enough to open up with the community about your financial journey. This was brave of you and very eye opening for us, it's greatly appreciated❤
Wow I love your openness, vulnerability and honesty. I enjoyed watching this video. When we were still dating with hubby finances used to be an uncomfortable topic and never understood why. But now I understand better. I also come from a finance background, spreadsheets, savings etc 🤣
Really excited about this one, this is My hubby's leeeeast favourite topic which is so ironic considering that I talk about Money for a living! 😅
We would definitely appreciate the financial advice and the spreadsheets lol
The calmest couple ever 🤣❤️.
I'm taking down notes, thanks for sharing
Very beautiful. I love this. Very informative. God is good
Wow thanks for this vulnerable video. Wow and you are both so calm and respectful towards each other. I love it ❤ happy you are now flourishing financially!
Thisd was a lovely series. Thanky you Darling x
So glad you enjoyed it ❤
What a beautiful and honest conversation, thank you!! 🌻
I enjoyed watching this, loved the authenticity.
This conversation is so tricky...thank you for this family 🥰
Finances are tricky esp wen you running a small business. I find myself doing budget almost everyday. In my mind I know I would have over spent but you need to be accountable for that.
I have loooved the entire series but this conversation was certainly my favourite. Tlaly and financial conversations 🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽. Thank you for sharing your journey.
I’m glad love
This was deep thank you for sharing Dam🙏😍
Thank you for the vulnerability....Wishing you the very best
Hey sis Yolz would you please make a video explainig that whole saving spreadsheet idea/concept you implimented . I really feel like I need something of that sort for myself
Will do❤️
I love y'all conversations 💕
I’m glad hunie
Thank you for this ministry 😢
Wow! This video was REAL. Truly enjoyed it
Yolz I'm watching you with my sister and she is loving this because you teaching us
10 years later still haven’t had this conversation . It is important. Thanks Yolz maybe I have to face this conversation soon.
Thank you for sharing this yolz ❤
I am Yolz😂😂😂 learning to find the balance 😂
Hey Yolz.. So this installment 😍😍
Thank you for opening up
Thank you hunie
Honestly sis I understand you. I think my biggest fights between me and mum are def cause of money. I am a planner as much as I understand small things here and there zisovela but at least be a planner. Finances are def important. How do u see money, wat kind of a spender are you.
Yolz I love how you respect your hubby, cel'anje ukutsho kqala 😊
Yhooo le topic ibalulekile kakhulu, can't believe ba le episode yeyokugqibela. I enjoyed zonke mna shame kwaye ndifundile kakhulu. Enkosini maan ♥️♥️
Aaw, thank you❤️
I’m so glad you enjoyed it babe.
i havent watched this but i think it was uploaded at the right time for me. i literally just got off an intense money conversation with my partner and hey we need advices
Aaw, I’m glad love
❤️❤️Loved all the episodes of this series
Educational and full of honesty 😭😭
Thank you for this. I can relate kakhulu on everything you touched on. Marriage is indeed shown as glitz and glamour and no one prepares you for hardships.
But more than anything marriage is beautiful, but you gotta work it out.
Thank you for the vulnerability, always insightful and interesting
Soo beautiful and beneficial conversations, thank you.
You're welcome love
Thank you so much for being transparent. woow! love it
I've learnt so much, thank you. I really need that spreadsheet😅
Thank you for this segment it was beautiful 🙏🏻
You're welcome love
Am i the one who feels as if this Couple's series ended way too soon 😭
Please kindly consider atleast last 2 videos for us on these topics .
1. Keeping things Godly (whilst in a rlationship) prior marriage (Celibacy etc)
2. Should one consider pre-marital counseling (more especially gents) even though they're not on plans of getting married soon , this is because i feel like as gents we're often left ukuthi sizibonele cause " Singamadoda " so we'll figure everything out on our own , yet the reality of marriage doesn't go that way .
Thank you for your honesty and relatable content❤️
Thank you for sharing
Great series. Thank you
🔥💯 wisdom and vulnerability
Absolutely❤
Yaaay to Debt Free Weddings!! 💃
Jawes on life 🧡
Amen❤️
Shuuu Yolz, I am going through it with hubby. We seem to be missing one another when it comes to communication and I think I fail to articulate well my true intentions to understanding and how we can work together. So right now...😔
Thank you for this video ❤
I needed to hear this ,thanks
Eeeey yabona le 😩😩🤔🤔
I know girl🙈 eish
Oh my …I learnt so much from this episode ❤
mmm am thinking of downgrading my lifestyle. i pay rent, utilities and rates and taxes. my partner gives me like R1800 a month and i spend like R8000 just on the roof on our heads, all he does is buy expensive clothes and post on social media, am also responsible for private school fees for my two girls and expenses like food, school activities and other expenses to keep the house run, his excuse i earn more, i earn double his salary and he is not interested in getting a job or getting a qualification. i am now drowning in debt and always short tempered.
❤️❤️❤️
This was a great video ❤❤❤.
I love you guys🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Aww, we love you too
❤❤
It wasn't awkward. I think I was a bit aggressive in my approach. I've eased up a bit.
I needed this vandag
Yolz Yolz yoh such an intense conversation ..I just keep on learn more and more ..
I took notes for myself I'm definitely gonna talk discuss this with my husband 😉 so mouth full ..the approach "eish
An uncomfortable but necessary conversation.
Yoh our financial situation is tekateking, hubby and I have different views. I like to plan and he is spontaneous. Don't know what to do🤦♀️
Slowly introduce the idea of planning ahead love
Hey @Lemi Tsiri, watch this video with him, it might help :)
Mhhhhhhh it is such an awkward conversation which I'm still trying to get a better approach with my partner also with me I'm still traumatized by the debit I had when I started working which it has delayed my progress so much but I'm in better space now but very scared of debt even important debt I'm so glad that now I can talk myself out of the things I can't afford and be okay that for now I can't do this will get there one step at a time, Thank you for this I really enjoyed it 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
I started with asking for the grand reveal politely but I was told it's not the right time, every single time 😂
Thank you guys. Similar experience as you guys. I am also mrs spreadshit, you name it I have it lol.
Love the authenticity in this segments 🤞🏼🤎