I graduated as an undergrad one weekend and got married the next. I was 23 and my wife was 33. Been married 30+ years ...lost her to Alzheimer's/ dementia. Not typical, I know but it can work. 31:55 I was a male model on academic scholarship and did not care what other men think. Lol my wife was hit on all the time... Including members of Congress. Great video.
@@nsideoutn8439 Mark doesn’t need to repost his evergreen content but he probably has a good reason for it. Or it’s because I don’t know how UA-cam works from his perspective. If we were talking about Facebook pages, I would know. UA-cam is a much better platform and the earning potentials are way higher. I just don’t have experience with it yet Was your comment and attempt to be rude to me?
@@nsideoutn8439 I think the original commentator is trying to be funny too, so I don’t know. I hope you feel better. Seems like a really low tier, low level troll comment that wouldn’t even make it up the subreddit mildly interesting. But now I’m just here commenting away because I like Mark and this always helps with the algorithm.
why do people ALWAYS think a 10 has a bad personality and treat men poorly? I've had 2 girlfriends, one a 9 and another a near-perfect 10. both were good people (nicer than me) and treated me very well. likewise, I tried to be the best boyfriend too. there are beautiful women with good personalities and values. conversely, there are physically unattractive people with bad personalities too.
Sadia and Mark are far superior people than ones like Codie. Ugh. This was one, like the majority of your podcasts is amazing, insightful, and a great conversation.
Preface: I enjoy and find value in many of your posts. Thank you for producing them. This post: Well it certainly generated some interesting feedback! My take: I'm rarely a commenter here - which can be seen as a good thing, because most often, only the disgruntled are moved to an effort to comment ... so (*sigh*) I'm going to take a strong exception to your dialog about men sexualizing women, as it should be something adult males need to manage. Which, realy is true in a general and generic context. My exception is that society as a whole, sexualizes women. It's an unavoidable consistant bombardment in all media. It's also a behavior women endorse themselves by behavior, even while many speak against it in word. This is a big deal, because it plays out as such a significant way in our everyday experience.
12:30 Also rating women about their actual looks with out filers and take in to consideration age. I am amazed at women that think they are a 9 or 10 and are now at best a 4 or 5. Then the Chads can take advantage of you.
As a dating researcher, I have to disagree heavily with one thing the two of them say, meaning that older men should not sexualize young women. It is biologically totally normal! Sexual attractiveness almost 1:1 correlates with fertility. Men should, biologically speaking, go for the most fertile women. The instinct, the sexual desire is always there. Of course, the likelihood that a 30 year younger women is not a suitable partner is obvious. That is why getting older is so frustrating. Personally, I don't find women in my age range not sexually attractive. There is nothing I can do about it. It is not something we can decide. Either there is a sexual attraction or not! Of course, older men want also deep connections with a partner. But if the sexual component is missing, it is probably a good friendship with a woman, which is great, but it is NOT a romantic, sexual relationship. Also, opposite to what both of them claim, the vast majority of men do NOT date hot girls to impress their friends. This may be a thing in Hollywood or among rich Americans in Dubai, but not with 'normal' people. Most men who are able to date much younger women (98% of men can't do that), do it because they are attracted to these women. Thats it. Most rich men I know who date much younger women do not tell anyone, they even keep their relationships secret or at least do not boast with it.
Why is then that they eat the most amount of antidepressants, and as marriage rates have gone down, women are in general less and less happy? Women might be more *stimulated* (esp s"xually) but there's no actual meaning or joy when people give up their natural roles.
American moralising worldview fascinates me. Let's put you all in an opportunity and a hidden camera :D. At least we here in Europe don't need all these stories, we are liberated and live as we want, sorry for you all in US :D.
Nice that they're interviewing each other
excellent discussion on the problems that young men face on the dating scene
I graduated as an undergrad one weekend and got married the next. I was 23 and my wife was 33. Been married 30+ years ...lost her to Alzheimer's/ dementia. Not typical, I know but it can work. 31:55 I was a male model on academic scholarship and did not care what other men think. Lol my wife was hit on all the time... Including members of Congress. Great video.
These constant reuploads are making it difficult to know what I already watched and what is new 😢
ahhhh I didn't realize what was going on. Thanks
Oh man the struggle is real. So sorry to hear
@@nsideoutn8439 Mark doesn’t need to repost his evergreen content but he probably has a good reason for it.
Or it’s because I don’t know how UA-cam works from his perspective.
If we were talking about Facebook pages, I would know.
UA-cam is a much better platform and the earning potentials are way higher.
I just don’t have experience with it yet
Was your comment and attempt to be rude to me?
@@nsideoutn8439 I think the original commentator is trying to be funny too, so I don’t know. I hope you feel better. Seems like a really low tier, low level troll comment that wouldn’t even make it up the subreddit mildly interesting.
But now I’m just here commenting away because I like Mark and this always helps with the algorithm.
I agree 💯
why do people ALWAYS think a 10 has a bad personality and treat men poorly? I've had 2 girlfriends, one a 9 and another a near-perfect 10. both were good people (nicer than me) and treated me very well. likewise, I tried to be the best boyfriend too. there are beautiful women with good personalities and values. conversely, there are physically unattractive people with bad personalities too.
Miss you Sadia 😘
Sadia and Mark are far superior people than ones like Codie. Ugh. This was one, like the majority of your podcasts is amazing, insightful, and a great conversation.
Marriage is a scam... Just have love.
Preface: I enjoy and find value in many of your posts. Thank you for producing them.
This post: Well it certainly generated some interesting feedback!
My take: I'm rarely a commenter here - which can be seen as a good thing, because most often, only the disgruntled are moved to an effort to comment ... so (*sigh*) I'm going to take a strong exception to your dialog about men sexualizing women, as it should be something adult males need to manage. Which, realy is true in a general and generic context. My exception is that society as a whole, sexualizes women. It's an unavoidable consistant bombardment in all media. It's also a behavior women endorse themselves by behavior, even while many speak against it in word. This is a big deal, because it plays out as such a significant way in our everyday experience.
So basically the expert doesn’t know where single people meet…
Mark, glad to hear you grew up. How many men don’t . I know a man at 80. Still think sex every 3 seconds. I said THINK. Haha.
12:30 Also rating women about their actual looks with out filers and take in to consideration age. I am amazed at women that think they are a 9 or 10 and are now at best a 4 or 5. Then the Chads can take advantage of you.
12:44 e Harmony does this
As a dating researcher, I have to disagree heavily with one thing the two of them say, meaning that older men should not sexualize young women. It is biologically totally normal! Sexual attractiveness almost 1:1 correlates with fertility. Men should, biologically speaking, go for the most fertile women. The instinct, the sexual desire is always there. Of course, the likelihood that a 30 year younger women is not a suitable partner is obvious. That is why getting older is so frustrating. Personally, I don't find women in my age range not sexually attractive. There is nothing I can do about it. It is not something we can decide. Either there is a sexual attraction or not!
Of course, older men want also deep connections with a partner. But if the sexual component is missing, it is probably a good friendship with a woman, which is great, but it is NOT a romantic, sexual relationship.
Also, opposite to what both of them claim, the vast majority of men do NOT date hot girls to impress their friends. This may be a thing in Hollywood or among rich Americans in Dubai, but not with 'normal' people. Most men who are able to date much younger women (98% of men can't do that), do it because they are attracted to these women. Thats it. Most rich men I know who date much younger women do not tell anyone, they even keep their relationships secret or at least do not boast with it.
9mins
The happiest people statistically are single woman and married men… ladies stay safe out there 🙂↕️✨
I'm sure its actually married men then single men, gay men, straight men, employed men, unemployed men, and then single women
Why is then that they eat the most amount of antidepressants, and as marriage rates have gone down, women are in general less and less happy? Women might be more *stimulated* (esp s"xually) but there's no actual meaning or joy when people give up their natural roles.
American moralising worldview fascinates me. Let's put you all in an opportunity and a hidden camera :D. At least we here in Europe don't need all these stories, we are liberated and live as we want, sorry for you all in US :D.
Liberated = falling birth rates and the same popu1ation co1lapse.