Why - Rascal Flatts [HD][Lyrics]

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  • Опубліковано 26 сер 2024
  • One the most moving song I've heard and really has a great message for us think about. It's the last track from their newest album, Unstoppable. If you like it, please leave a comment, Thank You.

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  • @DestinyStewart-lf1nk
    @DestinyStewart-lf1nk Рік тому +125

    At 15, I was committed into a mental health facility for the 5th time for suicidal thoughts. They played this song, but before they did, they asked me to close my eyes and imagine my funeral. To imagine all of my loved ones with this song playing in the background. Out of all the therapy, all the medications, this song is what saved me. That group saved me. Thank you.

    • @BernadetteTabdi-rl3le
      @BernadetteTabdi-rl3le 10 місяців тому +7

      Praise God! The Lord Jesus Christ saved you! Remember that He died for you, your life is so precious to waste in hell. I pray and hope that the Lord will impress upon you that you need Him forever.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @l.a.newkirk7075
      @l.a.newkirk7075 9 місяців тому +3

      I'm sure so many are glad you're still here, just keep fighting through, you can do it!!!! 💖

    • @scottminer4058
      @scottminer4058 5 місяців тому

      I was sent to a “behavioral health clinic “ where I was to get help for having suicidal thoughts. If what they were giving was supposed to help they missed the mark. I spent maybe 2 minutes with a psychiatrist and that was it

    • @Danceeric1
      @Danceeric1 4 місяці тому

      always about you huh?

    • @daphannerobbins4285
      @daphannerobbins4285 4 місяці тому

      That’s one thing I like about social media if you need to vent there is always someone awake it’s help the that feeling of the world just forgetting about you away Hope fully you find someone to chat with

  • @LovelyMNGurl02
    @LovelyMNGurl02 8 років тому +843

    When I have suicidal thoughts, I always come onto UA-cam and listen to this song first before I do anything serious. This song has saved me so many times.

    • @jmtothemusic
      @jmtothemusic 8 років тому +9

      +LovelyMNGurl02 Stay strong.

    • @anthonyroepke5678
      @anthonyroepke5678 8 років тому +3

      +LovelyMNGurl02
      i feel you :(

    • @ashleyedwards4821
      @ashleyedwards4821 8 років тому +7

      +LovelyMNGurl02 You're not alone with those kinds of thoughts.. this is the first I've heard this song and it's so touching. Stay YOU!

    • @amberwagner8718
      @amberwagner8718 8 років тому +1

      my life story 😓

    • @miamikaytay
      @miamikaytay 8 років тому +3

      wow that's strength. music is powerful

  • @tmnlsa
    @tmnlsa 3 роки тому +227

    My 21 year old daughter took her life in October 2020. I found her and still can't fathom why or how this happened. All I can say is hug your kids daily and tell them you love them as often as you can.

    • @nikkiwilson3394
      @nikkiwilson3394 Рік тому +8

      I also lost my Katy at 24 and I found her too. No words, no way of understanding, no answers and it is devastating 💔

    • @patriciajennings7401
      @patriciajennings7401 Рік тому +9

      I’m so very sorry that this happen ended in your lives. If you see this message please tell me one of your favorite things about your children’s lives with you.

    • @nikkiwilson3394
      @nikkiwilson3394 Рік тому +7

      @@patriciajennings7401 we were best friends with a bond that was indescribable. We sang together all the time. She was my first true love and my first baby ♥️

    • @saphireparamore
      @saphireparamore Рік тому +8

      I lost my daughter recently @ 21 yrs old as well. No idea why. Missing her greatly. Big loss to us. She meant the world to me

    • @saphireparamore
      @saphireparamore Рік тому +3

      @@patriciajennings7401 I loved my daughter's laugh and her creativity, her singing

  • @sarahmarcum5608
    @sarahmarcum5608 Місяць тому +2

    The very first time I heard this song I was alone on the three hour trip home from my son's funeral...he passed from depression in 2009. It holds a very special place in my heart. I can only listen to it a couple times a year. My heart goes out to all those who have lost someone so dear.❤

  • @millk833
    @millk833 4 роки тому +1166

    Depression is no joking matter, and I’m praying for everyone who has anything to do with it.

    • @scyt3128
      @scyt3128 4 роки тому +13

      you are right i have it and tried to hurt myself but i got the help i needed ive lost many people from drugs and suicide but im glad people can share how they feel thank you

    • @hana.the.writer5074
      @hana.the.writer5074 4 роки тому +6

      I beat it by staying close to God. It was not a quick spring back but eventually I did praise the Lord and ever since I only got depressed for several days and soon spring back again.. nothing major like a prolonged depression God-forbid. It was horrible by all means. Day after day .. I couldn't tell who was lifeless me or my bed!! Tears won't stop shedding.. it was a difficult time .. sure wished if Heaven would've ended me cuz I couldn't do it for it was a sin so decided to stay the way I was until He pulled me thru. Love you, Lord. We really are not much without You. 💗

    • @bluemakem459
      @bluemakem459 4 роки тому

      Feeling guilty for absolutely no God damn reason.....I dont mind who walks all over me, as long as they're happy and successful......

    • @meredithackerman8493
      @meredithackerman8493 4 роки тому +2

      Thank you.

    • @jessapineda9161
      @jessapineda9161 4 роки тому

      i have it bad i she to cut luckily stopped u cant see much anymore cause it tanned surprisingly i also have really bad axiety and idk why this is gods plan for me i’m hopeful still even tho i wanna lunch my stepdad in his jaw

  • @6666666662
    @6666666662 10 років тому +1876

    Nobody understands depression unless you've had it. That sad feeling you get once in a while is not even close

    • @AD-yi3qz
      @AD-yi3qz 6 років тому +54

      Well said, Charles. There is nothing like it. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

    • @angelrorer4558
      @angelrorer4558 6 років тому +26

      Very true I have it and then there's the suicidal thaught it's really bad

    • @cathycreamer9370
      @cathycreamer9370 6 років тому +24

      I've been dealing with my depression and anxiety disorder since i was in middle school.

    • @angelrorer4558
      @angelrorer4558 6 років тому +15

      Cathy Creamer I've been dealing with it since I was 10 I only had one person there for me

    • @jumpman3604
      @jumpman3604 6 років тому +12

      charles allen my parents just divorced I'm 12 I heard this song after I moved and I cried

  • @wolfsrule100
    @wolfsrule100 3 роки тому +83

    This song has saved me multiple times...when my depression takes me to that darkest of place. I don’t want my loved ones wondering why

  • @robertbastian1324
    @robertbastian1324 4 роки тому +403

    I just lost my girlfriend, I miss her so much. I couldn’t even say my goodbyes at the hospital. I mean I saw her when they transported her body to the mortuary but it’s just not the same. I couldn’t be at the hospital due to this whole Covid 19 bullshit. She suffered for 3 weeks with not a loved one by her side. I’m glad you’re at peace baby I miss you ❤️

    • @emmykunz536
      @emmykunz536 4 роки тому +12

      I’m so so sorry, if you ever need to talk remember people are here for you, god loves you and he has a plan

    • @wendybirocco6096
      @wendybirocco6096 4 роки тому +6

      It is a hard thing to get through you need anything IAM to talk

    • @clee975
      @clee975 4 роки тому +7

      Im so sorry for your loss many prayers

    • @breezykersey1122
      @breezykersey1122 4 роки тому +6

      I'm so sorry. It really hurts. Nobody should have to have to go through that. 💔

    • @charlesashcraft9322
      @charlesashcraft9322 4 роки тому +1

      What did she pass from and how old was she

  • @darbyweese2950
    @darbyweese2950 5 років тому +1073

    I wish everyone in the comments section could just give each other a hug because sometimes whenever I feel lonely and sad I go through the comments section and realize I am not alone.❤️

  • @BEEASHTARDS
    @BEEASHTARDS 6 років тому +775

    ive struggled with depression since 16 didnt think id make it past 17 . im 22 now and still fighting depression

    • @MissKD_Kat_MN
      @MissKD_Kat_MN 5 років тому +16

      who is it? You’re worth it❤️! Fight on

    • @AnniekaaRooos
      @AnniekaaRooos 5 років тому +16

      Hang on! I struggled with depression from 12 until 21 or so. It didn't seem like I would overcome it, but I did and I love my life right now. Hang on. It will get better, I promise!

    • @donaldvoss7476
      @donaldvoss7476 5 років тому +5

      Keep fighting the world needs you in it

    • @dehaendel9485
      @dehaendel9485 5 років тому +4

      You are not alone my friend ... DO NOT give up!!!

    • @bioluminescentbones3106
      @bioluminescentbones3106 5 років тому +4

      Go on you amazing warrior!! I believe in you don't give in! 💖💖💖

  • @tammymabis5742
    @tammymabis5742 Рік тому +34

    Love to my son who has been gone almost a year. I miss him so much. My heart aches every day. Hugs to everyone hurting.

    • @georgemelvin588
      @georgemelvin588 Рік тому

      Awww, so sorry about your loss Tammy, my deep and sincere condolences, how have you been?

    • @alanhardy-zg9nk
      @alanhardy-zg9nk 11 місяців тому

    • @tam4givin
      @tam4givin 10 днів тому

      I am so sorry.😢

  • @kringviray2427
    @kringviray2427 3 роки тому +66

    Don't know why but upon hearing this song for the first time I really burst into tears.. sending hugs for those who are trying and fighting silent battles..

  • @emmastevenson3873
    @emmastevenson3873 5 років тому +210

    “Oh, but I do have one burning question
    Who told you life wasn’t worth the fight”
    The thoughts that run through my head daily 💔

    • @cubbyboy2005
      @cubbyboy2005 5 років тому

      Emma Stevenson thank u

    • @francesroney9281
      @francesroney9281 4 роки тому +1

      Life is worth the fight I am 68 years old I keep fighting this battle I have lost three children in my life I lost both my parents at a young age I lost a grandson that was only 18 years old he had cancer I lost a sister-in-law but I keep fighting this battle because I want to see my loved ones one day so you have to keep fighting it's all worth it

    • @scottminer4058
      @scottminer4058 5 місяців тому

      Sometimes the question isn’t why do it but why not

  • @ashleigh_marrrie
    @ashleigh_marrrie 9 років тому +1352

    Happy Fathers Day to my dad, who committed suicide in February 2011. I was 13. I am now 18 and have graduated high school and have made so many achievements that he would have been so proud of. I love you daddy

    • @garydempsey8196
      @garydempsey8196 9 років тому +11

      Happy fathers day to him. I lost my dad at 13 as well.. im now 19

    • @garydempsey8196
      @garydempsey8196 9 років тому +5

      ashleighBeeBee123 no. he passed from other stuff

    • @ashleigh_marrrie
      @ashleigh_marrrie 9 років тому +7

      Gary Dempsey
      well, rest in peace to him and I am sorry for your loss.

    • @billmesser3838
      @billmesser3838 9 років тому +9

      My dad committed suicide December 2010 I was 18 and it still hasn't gotten easier. I know your pain.

    • @tinamcintyre6508
      @tinamcintyre6508 9 років тому +27

      ashleighBeeBee123 My heart hurts to hear things like this. Please remember we all have demons and troubles. Believe me when I tell you depression and anxiety can convince even the strongest of people that life is too much at times. It is sad that someone can be so tormented internally that they could give up experiencing those beautiful moments as a parent. My son just graduated in May, it was a huge moment of joy, pride, and sadness that my baby was growing up. I know your dad watched with pride from heaven, because a parent's love is too strong to let even death keep them from loving you. Keep on living life beautiful girl, live it full and strong, happy and long. Live the life your daddy would have loved watching you live because he's still watching, but he has the company of your heavenly father now. You sound like a beautiful, strong young woman with a bright future. Live life for you and your daddy. Lots of love sweetie.

  • @baeleighorkwis4336
    @baeleighorkwis4336 4 роки тому +103

    The sad thing is that when we are sad, we make no sense but the ones who are also sad, understand what we are saying 😔

  • @jommelkristofferjugarap5979
    @jommelkristofferjugarap5979 2 роки тому +14

    Depression is not a joke. like i am very okay outside, i get along with my family and my friends but whenever that im alone, im so sad, sometimes i think of suicide, i told my mom that im not okay, im depressed and she doesnt believe me.. and that hurt the most. but i knew im not alone, someone up there is watching me, guiding me and protecting me, Jesus will be always there in our side. So to those experiencing depression, problems, anxiety, stressed. remember that Jesus is there. Just keep fighting and win the fight. God bless us all.

  • @mango68116
    @mango68116 7 років тому +771

    Whoever said time heals all wounds has never lost a piece of their heart; take all the time you need ❤

    • @markamatthews6474
      @markamatthews6474 6 років тому +11

      agree time dose not heal it only makes it easyer to get by but im still crushed

    • @xaviermateo3149
      @xaviermateo3149 6 років тому

      Ruby kiikgkiikf

    • @KaylaKarnage85239
      @KaylaKarnage85239 6 років тому +9

      Time doesn't heal the wound. But it does cushion the blow. As is goes by, we learn to accept what has happened and we realize that that person would want us to live our life to the fullest because there's obviously not enough time. Lost my father a few months ago and it felt nearly impossible to "move on" from it. I'll never "move on", but I will take this pain and turn it into happiness because that is what they would want us to do. My father wanted us to see him happy and healthy and that's how I want people to see me. Full of Life. Find your successes in their honor. I hope this helps someone

    • @MagicalMusic34
      @MagicalMusic34 6 років тому +2

      I am. It’s all I can do. 💔😔

    • @brandonburker6809
      @brandonburker6809 5 років тому +3

      Ruby So true. I lost my sister in April of last year and it's still a everyday struggle here without her. Be praying for you

  • @saturn9944
    @saturn9944 6 років тому +185

    I miss you Jonghyun. A star that shined brightly on stage for 10 years, now a star of the skies❤️💔

    • @aliabelgacemi610
      @aliabelgacemi610 5 років тому +3

      Alex J :(( poor baby. he’s happy in the clouds now

    • @Jay13340
      @Jay13340 5 років тому +8

      Jonghyun you did so well, I hope no one forgets you. You dought untill your last breath, it shoudn't have been that way. You deserved so much more and you have it now. I hope that any other idol, or person for that matter, that is struggling like you didcan find the peace that you have been searching for. I know you don't want me to cry, and I said I'd let you go, but I still cry; not for the fact that I will never see you again, but for the pain you had to feel. I'm sorry you had to suffer Jonghyun, we will never forget you.

  • @taradawn6777
    @taradawn6777 Рік тому +31

    This is how I feel. I am suffering from a physical illness that I feel in my heart and soul I will not get better and I cannot keep suffering in pain 24/7z it is hard to bear any longer. I feel so alone, more than I have ever and suffered in such pain in my life. Rascal flatts you really hit home with ur songs. All of them. Thank you for them

    • @elysiumjoy7092
      @elysiumjoy7092 Рік тому +1

      Tara, I am thinking about you...🙏
      So sorry you are suffering...just know I care.
      If thoughts and words have power, may these words be the catalyst for your complete healing...💚

    • @jackuelyngilbert4937
      @jackuelyngilbert4937 Рік тому

      I am also suffering from an illness that there is no real cure for. I'm sorry you have to live this way. Just keep trying to hang on please. I know it's hard to do, but you are loved ❤❤❤❤🎉

    • @stellajohnson5301
      @stellajohnson5301 Рік тому +1

      Remember, you are never alone in your loneliness. There are so many of us who feel disconnected, isolated, and alone in a crowd to use that phrase. Media hype makes us think that eveyone's having a party but us. It's not so. If you are home alone or feeling alone in a crowd, there are 1,000s of others just like you. God bless you truly.

    • @elviraantell2718
      @elviraantell2718 Рік тому

      ​@@elysiumjoy7092 ,praying for you!!!

    • @elysiumjoy7092
      @elysiumjoy7092 Рік тому

      @@elviraantell2718 bless you 🙏💜

  • @kaomicruce1982
    @kaomicruce1982 Місяць тому +2

    Lord I say their names out loud all the time. Somehow I know God understands. Somehow I just know, grace was waiting for them, even at their most desperate moment…🙏🏻❤️

  • @awacflr
    @awacflr 8 років тому +225

    This saved my life 5 years ago. I was in a bad place at that time and was constantly thinking about suicide. When I first heard this song, it was like a miracle. When I decided to try and get better from my depression, I listened to this song everyday. I haven't listened to it in years... It makes me cry knowing that this is the song that saved my life.

    • @KayleeP56
      @KayleeP56 8 років тому +1

      Meg Awacflr I've listened to this song ever day since my cousin shot him self it's saved me from wanting to do the same so I don't have to deal with the guilt and remorse but I've decided I can get through this. It only happened 3 weeks ago so I guess I was just grieving

    • @KayleeP56
      @KayleeP56 8 років тому

      Meg Awacflr I've listened to this song ever day since my cousin shot him self it's saved me from wanting to do the same so I don't have to deal with the guilt and remorse but I've decided I can get through this. It only happened 3 weeks ago so I guess I was just grieving

    • @awacflr
      @awacflr 8 років тому +1

      Kaylee P I'm sorry for your loss. Stay strong lovely

    • @KayleeP56
      @KayleeP56 8 років тому

      Meg Awacflr thanks

    • @olihook4373
      @olihook4373 7 років тому +1

      same here it stopped me long enough to think maybe I should try to keep pushing forward I have survived a couple attempts and deal with the struggle of contemplation but keep the things that make life worth living a better life near I couldn't imagine my siblings finding me after succeeding that thought has kept me from sltrying my wrist a few times

  • @gccstudent83
    @gccstudent83 8 років тому +378

    Lost my sister to suicide 4 days ago. Even the funniest people can hide their inner pain. I love and miss her

    • @Dmitchrandom
      @Dmitchrandom 8 років тому +3

      I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you. I will pray for her. :(❤️

    • @neesey9643
      @neesey9643 8 років тому +1

      I'm still very sorry for you loss as I have lost a brother to suicide also and then my other sibling my brother a few months ago it is so very hard to do with the pain in how to cope you have to go out your own pace don't want no one tell you what you should or should not be doing or feeling is your heart that has to do with this sweetie, I go by the motto take one day at a time😳🕇

    • @susanrajabi6539
      @susanrajabi6539 8 років тому +1

      I'm so deeply sorry. prayers for your healing. I list my sister 4 years ago and I still feel the pain and emptiness. She has sent signs that have helped. They do send signs and come in your dreams.❤

    • @cindylu3000
      @cindylu3000 8 років тому +4

      I lost my sister too 8/29... i know what that pain feels like... it's a pain I never knew before and would never wish on anyone

    • @susanrajabi6539
      @susanrajabi6539 8 років тому +2

      Cindy Marrujo Yes...a pain like no other. Lost my grandparents but I never knew there could be deeper sffering. Guess it's the childhood bonding brought on by sharing beds, clothes, dreams, crushes....too much to forget.😢

  • @OMNIEDITZZZ
    @OMNIEDITZZZ 4 роки тому +90

    The lost of a child is unbearable 😔 I am so sorry John 😔 daddy miss you so much 😔 I will lay u to rest soon my baby 😔 heaven gained another angel 😔

    • @tracygalasso4317
      @tracygalasso4317 3 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss🙏💔

    • @peggyjyoung6434
      @peggyjyoung6434 3 роки тому +3

      I’m very sorry for your terrible grief and pain. I lost all 3 of my children. You never get over it.

    • @dianefeltner4084
      @dianefeltner4084 2 роки тому +1

      I too lost my son suicide the.
      09/01-21 ill never be the same.
      I feel all your pain too
      Rip sweet one

  • @TheDaddysgirlalways
    @TheDaddysgirlalways 4 роки тому +161

    My Daddy killed himself when I was a little girl.... I wish I could of helped him but i was too young.... I did not know how he felt.... I didn't understand. ... 😢 I love Him soooo much .... I miss Him soooo much.... He's been gone for 22 years now but it still hurts soooo much... I love you Daddy. .. always have. .. always will 😢😢😢

    • @929yiyi4
      @929yiyi4 4 роки тому +7

      He was probably struggling. But he took the easy way out and no matter what that is not the right way. I know the pain of losing a parent as a young girl but never let that overwhelm you to the point where you can’t hold on anymore. Ever.

    • @calebloganeditz7120
      @calebloganeditz7120 4 роки тому +1

      🥺🥺🥺

    • @sabrinacecchin4872
      @sabrinacecchin4872 4 роки тому +1

      Same for me, i feel you, Im with you

    • @TheDaddysgirlalways
      @TheDaddysgirlalways 3 роки тому +1

      @@929yiyi4 I agree with u. I just wish I could have helped him... but I was too young... I didn't no what he was going through. ... 😢

    • @laurenkruger2115
      @laurenkruger2115 3 роки тому

      My dad killed himself when I was ten, 22 years ago also. You’re not alone. You are very strong ❤️

  • @hilarrychitima2215
    @hilarrychitima2215 5 років тому +29

    A person who tries to keep everyone happy, often ends up feeling the loneliest💔

  • @jodiegruninger6327
    @jodiegruninger6327 5 років тому +3456

    i miss my dad, like if you miss a loved one.

    • @loganschannel3262
      @loganschannel3262 5 років тому +24

      Jodie Gruninger I miss my dad too. He died on July 5th of this year

    • @deemedia2678
      @deemedia2678 5 років тому +22

      i miss my uncles and brothers who died in a car crash GBNF

    • @qqmateo7017
      @qqmateo7017 5 років тому +47

      Dont use a lost one for likes

    • @qqmateo7017
      @qqmateo7017 5 років тому +16

      madie bawgell Then just say that. Don’t have to say like this if etc etc

    • @autumnfry9436
      @autumnfry9436 5 років тому +9

      Jodie Gruninger I miss my nana. She does in 2011 and I didn’t know until 2013. She was mean to me but I loved her

  • @MrJunke420
    @MrJunke420 Рік тому +7

    I don't know how long i can take before i go 😞 pain is too much and feel of lonelines and depression has take place in my life and i can't see anyway out of here 😞 i really suffer every day and even my family don't realize how much i suffer. I hope that no one have to go trought all that depression what many of us have to strugle averyday

  • @FrankaBaly
    @FrankaBaly 7 місяців тому +3

    My heart hurts for all of the people suffering right now from losing someone from suicide or struggling with depression. I'm sending you a hug and love so that you know you're not alone. Turn all of your cares over to God when the weight feels too heavy to carry. If you don't believe in God, then focus on the beauty of the simple things in life that you get to witness, like a beautiful sunset or the birds singing. Please hold on because without you the world would be a sadder place. You are loved. ♥

  • @KKC927
    @KKC927 5 років тому +643

    I lost my mom to suicide a year ago yesterday... I'll never be the same. A huge piece of me is gone forever.... 😭

    • @damonrichards2777
      @damonrichards2777 5 років тому +31

      Ill be honest your right you will never be the same its been 7yrs since i lost my wife an i struggle each day cause only those who have been through a suicide can understand what we feel. Time does not heal wounds i have a girlfriend now but she doesnt understand why i cry so much. I cry cause the pain an anger has to come out if not it would destroy me. Im sorry for your loss..

    • @KKC927
      @KKC927 5 років тому +10

      @@damonrichards2777 I'm sorry for your loss too.... 😔

    • @andreacox8950
      @andreacox8950 5 років тому +3

      Mine 5 years girl. Know your not alone

    • @jessicaxie3643
      @jessicaxie3643 5 років тому +9

      My mom also suicide, it was this year Oct and I'm only 14. Don't know what to do without her

    • @yaneli1204
      @yaneli1204 5 років тому +3

      Sad :,,, (

  • @wintergirl212
    @wintergirl212 10 років тому +12

    With the help of God, you can go through any struggle you have!! Keep your faith in God, He has the control of everything :)

  • @Barbara-bj6np
    @Barbara-bj6np Рік тому +4

    I Have been feeling this way lately but through praying every day in Still here and loving God one day at a time. PRAISE GOD

  • @kimberlycowan1941
    @kimberlycowan1941 4 роки тому +18

    Just lost my 22 year old son to suicide on July 14,2020. It's been super rough on me and my 2 other children. This song says it all, so touching

  • @bellcoop3333
    @bellcoop3333 7 років тому +145

    I'm dedicating this song to my twin sister. She was a beautiful kind soul who helped 10 homeless people in her short life, she committed suicide at the age of 9 because she was bullied I used to hide behind her I was her shadow I'm 13 now and made friends and helped homeless people and before she died I thought that I wouldn't live without her, sissy I'm strong and I thought you were too... I hope your proud of me for actually making friends and I hope that you my sis are happy to be my sister! Happy birthday sis...

    • @rileyalexander5063
      @rileyalexander5063 6 років тому +5

      My best friend’s twin brother just committed suicide last night😭

    • @charlescallahan7028
      @charlescallahan7028 5 років тому +5

      I'm so sorry for all your pain I suffer from depression I have been hospitalized over 160 times since age 9 and it's hard you don't know till you feel that pain it hurts bad and sometimes so bad we don't want it anymore I know now I won't give up till my times up I will over come and hopefully be happy in life again

    • @silentfades
      @silentfades 5 років тому +6

      i am absolutely sure that your sister is in heaven so very very proud of you, you sound like a great kid

    • @makenziecole5052
      @makenziecole5052 5 років тому +2

      @@charlescallahan7028 same everyone thinks they know but only a few people actually know what it's like to be depressed and be hospitalized for it

    • @TheTabdebutante
      @TheTabdebutante 5 років тому +1

      @@rileyalexander5063 so sorry

  • @parkerpage5821
    @parkerpage5821 7 років тому +94

    When the song says "17 year old" and that's exactly the age you are now.. makes it really hit home😕

    • @KayleeP56
      @KayleeP56 7 років тому +4

      i know right thats how old my cousin was when he ended his life

    • @brittneymeche6448
      @brittneymeche6448 7 років тому +3

      Parker Page I know the feeling I lost a friend to suicide and he just turned 17 a few days before it happened

    • @kiddovr3147
      @kiddovr3147 6 років тому

      Same, my cousin ended his life at the age of 17 as well..

    • @jaredgoodson472
      @jaredgoodson472 6 років тому

      Parker Page or when the one you love dies and their birthday comes up and they were supposed to turn 17..

    • @cdg5854
      @cdg5854 6 років тому

      My bestfriend killed himself 2and half weeks ago, he was 16

  • @dannymeyer3256
    @dannymeyer3256 2 роки тому +3

    Present times have affected so many. We need so much reaching out to each other. Many people having a hard time right now. Many can’t see the forest for the trees of the deep deception taking place. 🙏

  • @CrazyDominant
    @CrazyDominant 4 місяці тому +2

    This song reminds me of so many I lost in the 2010’s. Namely, my high school crush, a guy who inspired me, and my mother. Lost all three of them between 2011-2014. All 3 died...not of old age. My crush was only 22. Enjoy every day you get with your loved ones! Be strong!

  • @jasminefernandez9687
    @jasminefernandez9687 8 років тому +181

    I lost my friend this year to suicide. This song is perfect for how I felt after he died. He was 16 years old and it happened so suddenly and broke my heart. He was amazingly talented and had a bunch of great and loving friends. We all miss him everyday and I wish so much that I had known just how much he was hurting and could have helped. He was in so much pain and wish that he never had to suffer. I miss you Nick, you gave us all the chance to meet and be friends with an amazing guy who changed the way in which we value life. That you for that gift. And I hope he somehow knows that I wouldn't trade knowing him for any amount of heartbreak. I will love and remember you forever. 27/04/2016

    • @ninjasbiggestfan-4169
      @ninjasbiggestfan-4169 6 років тому +3

      I too lost my best friend she was 15 and my world and it’s already been 2 weeks. I cry everyday

    • @bigd872ify
      @bigd872ify 6 років тому +2

      jasmine fernandez
      I'm losing my brother in law on a freck Fall
      I lost his sister 7 years ago
      Now him

    • @misunderstood6292
      @misunderstood6292 6 років тому +2

      jasmine fernandez i listen to this alot. I think of suicide DAILY. Tried many times to no avail. Im so fucking sad all the time. Only 2 people would miss me. I try so hard...always failing. Cant keep living this life.

    • @johnzearley9775
      @johnzearley9775 6 років тому

      i know how u feel i lost a friend in 2011 she was my best friend. and she was 16yrs old we got in a fight and she killed herself

    • @feliciarichards6302
      @feliciarichards6302 6 років тому +1

      My dad committed suicide when I was 12. This song perfectly describes the way I've always felt about it. It's been 19 years!

  • @tiaramoorr7307
    @tiaramoorr7307 5 років тому +93

    Recently lost one of my close friends.. this song randomly came on and ahh. Gone but never forgotten beautiful 💛

    • @shyboi9213
      @shyboi9213 3 роки тому

      i lost fake friends who never gave a damn about me either

    • @shyboi9213
      @shyboi9213 3 роки тому

      i'm sorry for your lost

  • @savannahfellows2016
    @savannahfellows2016 2 роки тому +7

    To whoever is reading this/ breathing
    You matter to so many people. Even though you may feel alone your not. Yesterday I went to a funeral for my cousin that killed himself. I just with I got to tell him that I care and love him. You matter and don’t forget that. I love you

  • @damonhucks6328
    @damonhucks6328 Рік тому +2

    Heard the news about Stephen "tWitch" Boss and immediately thought of this song. The line that is so poignant has to be "When you took the stage you shined just like the sun". That's what I felt everytime I saw the joy he appeared to have when he was on the Ellen show. Everyone, please reach out if you are feeling dispair.

  • @kyeaunaschmit8163
    @kyeaunaschmit8163 5 років тому +56

    I just found this song and it describes my friend perfectly. He was one of my best friends. My first kiss and he shot himself at only 16. A wonderful athlete and he played with passion in every sport he did.I'll miss him forever and I don't think any amount of time will heal this empty hole in my heart.

    • @trulyabby2897
      @trulyabby2897 2 роки тому +2

      im so sorry for your loss . may he rest in peace. hes watching over you 🕊️🕊️. #forever16🕊️💔.

    • @17weyerkai
      @17weyerkai Рік тому +1

      My first kiss hung himself at 15 and I have no words

  • @iamafabulousglitterbunny745
    @iamafabulousglitterbunny745 10 років тому +142

    This song saved me from suicide, twice...September 6th, and December 21st, 2013. I remember just about to take the pills, and drink it down with bleach, when this song came to mind....so I listened to it and bawled my eyes out.....just thinking....Rascal Flatts has made an impact in my life that none other has done before....gotten me out of my darkest moments in life....I wouldn't be here today without them...my dream is one day to tell them my story and thank them personally for all that they do.

    • @josh19852008
      @josh19852008 10 років тому +5

      Been there many times, but do not do it. You are too beautiful, and it would only make me wonder why. I am in that place at the moment, but some how I always find a way through.

    • @paytenhockman9775
      @paytenhockman9775 10 років тому +1

      I have been there... today I was thinkin bout it because my great great grandma just passed to day at 90. girl you are rlly pretty and God has a plan for you that doesn't envollve killin ur self!

    • @rileypoer3558
      @rileypoer3558 10 років тому +2

      sweetie, i know what your going through. its okay, just keep going. keep going, if you need help, or someone to talk too come to me.

    • @christinamcnasby1725
      @christinamcnasby1725 10 років тому

      Good for you.

    • @savannahblackbird4474
      @savannahblackbird4474 10 років тому +1

      This song helps you & me and other suicide people get through our tough time. next time you wanna play this song again. #YouCanSurvive #youcandoit #youcandothis #youcandoitwecanhelp

  • @stardasil4387
    @stardasil4387 Рік тому +7

    Had one of my oldest dearest friends funeral today after deciding he had enough although he masked and told us he was finally on top of things , the guilt you feel is unreal when you wonder what if .. I called everyday , did I listen enough did I miss the signs anyway the memories will always be treasured and he was a true legend and you know what they say LegendsNeverDie Rest Easy my friend

  • @AngelicaSolis94
    @AngelicaSolis94 2 роки тому +22

    I cant listen to this song without it breaking my heart into a million pieces 😭

  • @JRKbackwards
    @JRKbackwards 10 років тому +12

    This was played at one of my best friend's funerals this past Saturday, he was 19. He never had anything other than a smile on his face, it's crazy what a smile can hide. This song had everyone in tears when it started playing. Rest in peace, Sam. I love you -Keylee

    • @Kath1504
      @Kath1504 10 років тому

      I'm really sorry for your loss. And you are right. Somehow people know how to act around others and you won't know what really goes on until it's too late. I just wish they would tell someone about the problems they have. There is always a way out other than killing themselves. Poor souls are just to desperate to see it.

  • @joer7327
    @joer7327 8 років тому +225

    The only thing anyone can do, is always show support to one another. Shows those who suffer from depression and other mental health issues that they matter. Show love, listen to what they, watch how they act. I know the signs aren't always easy to see but just let them know that you do care.
    You never know you might help safe a life from suicide.

    • @dr.emilymello3074
      @dr.emilymello3074 8 років тому +3

      +Scotty McKilla Even if you don't care, I bet there are people who care about you. I'm sorry you feel this way.

    • @conniehful
      @conniehful 8 років тому +11

      Don't give up. I have been there too, and with the help of my faith I got through. Now looking back on those time that I wanted to end it I am so glad I didn't. Please, please don't give up, one day at a time...

    • @jenniferfollis6575
      @jenniferfollis6575 8 років тому +3

      +Thumper B praise the Lord !!!!xx

    • @gillianmichelle3266
      @gillianmichelle3266 8 років тому +2

      wish my family and friends knew about hiw i felt *sigh*

    • @sugarquill1015
      @sugarquill1015 7 років тому +1

      I feel ya. I feel the same way.

  • @jaimedeaton4072
    @jaimedeaton4072 Рік тому +2

    Any Sundowner fans around ? This song is dedicated to a wonderful singer who fought depression and lost . Darrell Turner was and still is loved and admired by all who knew him ! I still think of him and long for the days I spent enjoying his entertaining ways !

  • @ljones396
    @ljones396 4 роки тому +3

    I llistened to this album so many times in 2010-11, and lost my father in 2012. Never ceases to amaze me the power songs have to transport you back to a certain time in your life, this one being particularly poignant almost 8 years later.

  • @sw33tbxnny
    @sw33tbxnny 5 років тому +290

    This song hurts me so much to listen to. But I feel like I have to hear it...
    Rest In Peace Wilder. My best fucking friend. 15 is too young to leave. I get why you did it. But damnit you took a huge part of me with you... 💔

    • @simoneee31
      @simoneee31 4 роки тому +1

      Belle Libitzki I’m sorry for your loss 😢

    • @jaleighk.6901
      @jaleighk.6901 4 роки тому +2

      Oh honey I'm so sorry and I know that when people say they are sorry it makes you feel worse but if you need to vent talk to me. Okay?

    • @officersully2740
      @officersully2740 4 роки тому

      My best friend killed himself yesterday and he was 15 too

    • @caylafitzhugh6365
      @caylafitzhugh6365 4 роки тому

      i lost my bestfriend the closest friend I ever had to suicide in a very very violent way December 7th 2011

    • @bluemakem459
      @bluemakem459 4 роки тому +2

      15 HOLY SWEET MOTHER OF MERCY.......R.I.P..

  • @queenvendie8665
    @queenvendie8665 7 років тому +45

    daddy you have been gone for 5 years and i still cry everynight . 😔 love you dad rip 💙👼

  • @bromontana8100
    @bromontana8100 3 роки тому +4

    Lost a childhood friend today. As we grew together. He Lost his brother in high-school to a car accident and was never the same since. He never knew how much he gave and made those feel being in his presence. Even years after we moved on from the town we grew up. Knowing the memory you left was always positive. His wasn't. Love you dude. We all loved you Kyle.

  • @shyvonnetyndall2577
    @shyvonnetyndall2577 3 роки тому +8

    I found this song 6 years ago after my best friend/ sister committed suicide. She was only 17. In high school she was the Homecoming queen, played varsity football (one hell of a player and the only girl on a team of all guys), and graduated early at only 16. She was one of the funniest, beautiful, and most outgoing people you could ever meet. We always said we were going to go to college together and finish together. We made it one semester. Even now 6 years later it still hurts, i don’t think it’s a pain that will ever go away. I still wonder what her life would’ve been like had she stayed.
    We haven’t forgotten about you babygirl, we love and miss you Kyla 🖤

  • @urboi_law1689
    @urboi_law1689 5 років тому +45

    Makes me think of my classmate,,,he took his life a few years after we graduated HS...great BBall player RIP BHAM

  • @kraigknoll7258
    @kraigknoll7258 8 років тому +136

    I don't understand losing a loved one, but to anyone out there who has lost someone they love, God bless you, just know it's not your fault.

    • @kylahulse8825
      @kylahulse8825 8 років тому +7

      Missing a loved one who died unexpectedly is the worst possible pain any human being can go through. I lost my brother unexpectedly a little over a year ago, and I constantly question myself. "What could I have done?" So. This song kind of hits home for me 💔

    • @kraigknoll7258
      @kraigknoll7258 8 років тому +1

      +Kyla Smith man, I have two younger siblings one's still a baby and ones a year younger than me, I don't know what I would do if they died... I am very sorry for your loss...it just be very hard

    • @kylahulse8825
      @kylahulse8825 8 років тому

      Phantom 1234 Yes, it's extremely hard. It hits me harder some days, and others I'm perfectly fine. It's an everyday process.

    • @haroldbarnes506
      @haroldbarnes506 8 років тому

      it's so hard losing someone

    • @iizziesanders1195
      @iizziesanders1195 8 років тому

      Thank you 😔

  • @heyitsrosie
    @heyitsrosie Рік тому +3

    "This old world really aint that bad a place" whenever dark thoughts cloud my heart I hold onto thst hopeful part of the song.
    If one day I'm gone, they will ask why and if there's something they could've said or done and the answer would be yes.

    • @simple.1829
      @simple.1829 Рік тому +1

      Why??
      BECAUSE im tired. Thats all.

  • @tracyoeser
    @tracyoeser 4 роки тому +76

    In 2006, I lost my daughter to suicide. In 2011, someone played this song for me. It is so powerful. Thank you Rascal Flatts!

    • @kathywatkins3984
      @kathywatkins3984 2 роки тому

      I lost my daughter in 2005 to suicide also ! Prayers

    • @JM-nk8ew
      @JM-nk8ew 2 роки тому +1

      I promise both of you ladies, your girls are with you, they'll always love you unconditionally, keep strong, my thoughts are with you both☹💛

    • @BellaBranchsSister1
      @BellaBranchsSister1 2 роки тому

      praying for you now im so very sorry

    • @allie71ac
      @allie71ac 2 роки тому

      I lost my son to suicide in 2019. Hugs to you

    • @karensandeno463
      @karensandeno463 Рік тому

      I lost my son to suicide in 2017
      This song is Him😢
      Thank you

  • @daichelestephens8837
    @daichelestephens8837 8 років тому +71

    This songs help me cry about my grandma who passed away, August 19, 2015 at 2:02 in the morning. What I want to say is that people like me who are still grieving just know that he or she is not suffering anymore. Their worries have floated softly and I'm pretty sure they would want you not to be sad but to be happy! And I'm only eleven but live life to the fullest while you still can. This generation is so messed up that it makes me regret even being born at times but then I realize that I'm a lucky little girl....- I hope you learn and live off of this paragraph because all i'm trying to say is that its not about the petty or dumb things in life. Its about cherishing every second of it.

    • @emmawheeler1457
      @emmawheeler1457 8 років тому +2

      huggingy

    • @maddixmitchell8842
      @maddixmitchell8842 7 років тому +2

      You sound a lot older than eleven. I'm 16, and this lifted me up. Thank you! Much love!

    • @collinchandler7129
      @collinchandler7129 7 років тому +1

      Well said man

    • @madisonyork5215
      @madisonyork5215 7 років тому +1

      Dai'Chele Stephens I'm 11 and I get it this doing reminds me of my great grandfather...

    • @bighanky8919
      @bighanky8919 7 років тому +1

      Dai'Chele Stephens so sorry to hear about your lost. My dad passed away I miss him so much I would give anything to have him hear hearing this song really makes me think of him.

  • @saramcintosh7470
    @saramcintosh7470 4 роки тому +51

    I have never heard this song until today - the lyrics really spoke to me about my long-loved and lost younger sister - I will always miss her! xoxox

  • @eliunderwood3448
    @eliunderwood3448 4 роки тому +135

    "I had no clue you were masking the troubled soul god only knows"

  • @alisonmorton9465
    @alisonmorton9465 2 роки тому +7

    Thank You Rascal Flatts for this song. It’s touched so many ❤️

  • @katherinehendrix5325
    @katherinehendrix5325 5 років тому +86

    My brother in law died this morning. He was only 40 y/o. Keep your loved ones close please.

    • @cryptic_jack3370
      @cryptic_jack3370 4 роки тому

      Katherine Hendrix I’m sorry to hear that it’s so sad

    • @hashtag_moto_
      @hashtag_moto_ 3 роки тому

      I’m so sorry for your loss my best friend passed away at 16 a few months back:(

    • @judyroks
      @judyroks 3 роки тому +1

      And you never get over it .

  • @danielleradcliff5265
    @danielleradcliff5265 7 років тому +63

    I sang this song every day for about 2 years... When I was at my worst and everyday it kept me from taking my life because I'd sing this and made myself feel how my family would feel if I ended things... Now I'm getting to the point where I can manage my depression, because saying I'm getting over it isn't true.. Saying I needed help was probably the hardest thing ive ever done in my life but if I didn't I wouldn't be here today... Thank you rascal flatts for making this song..

    • @danielleradcliff5265
      @danielleradcliff5265 7 років тому +6

      Travis Ledford I hope that this is worth reading.. I've attempted to take my own life about 4-5 times. But my brother always seemed to know I wasn't okay and my parents would be running up the stairs to the bathroom knocking on the door trying to get in. They almost busted the door down once. The best thing I've ever done in my life was get help. I owe my life to my brother because if it wasn't for him always having that feeling that I wasn't okay when ever I did something I wouldn't be here. My mom grandma and sister have helped me stay on the track and my niece and nephew have also made an impact. They are my reason for staying most days. So please when ever you are feeling like there's no reason to stay and nothing can make you happy anymore. Go out and look for that one thing. Leaving school took away stress which made me self harm. Now I have my GED and life isn't so bad. There's days where i still want to hurt myself and where I don't want to go on anymore, but then I think to myself if it wasn't worth it then it's still not worth it now. I don't know how old you are or if your parents (if you still live with them and are underage) will agree to it or sign for it. Where ever you want to hurt yourself (if you do) get a tattoo. I always cut on my thighs. Now I have a tattoo on my left thigh of a flower with the saying "this world can be ugly, but isn't it beautiful" I chose that because you can see my scars on my legs and it's not attractive, but it brings a whole new meaning to my tattoo then people would think. My next tattoo is going to be 8-10 butterflies. One for each reason to keep going. There's always a reason to keep going, sometimes you just have to look for it.
      I hope the best for you and that you find happiness in your life. Please don't try to take your life again, because if none of that helped know that it didn't work for a reason (I don't believe in god or anything) but I do believe that things happen for a reason and I also believe in fate. You're still here for a reason that reason probably hasn't made itself known yet but it will in time.

    • @katelder3728
      @katelder3728 7 років тому +1

      Travis Ledford I have tried 9 times and I'm 12

  • @peacepoetrypop
    @peacepoetrypop 3 роки тому +1

    The mystery the unexplainable Ask God only he knows Why? If you can't have sadness how to expect to arrive searching for happiness. The mind loves the tangled thought .
    I love you my beloved
    Youe smile embedded always makes me smile and cry .. And I don't question my GOD.
    Hallelujah Amen

  • @combeskids3250
    @combeskids3250 10 місяців тому +4

    I love singing along to this song and I’m sorry to anyone who has lost their battle with depression and I hope everyone is doing ok I just want everyone who is fighting that you are not alone even if it seems like you are ❤

  • @darbyweese2950
    @darbyweese2950 5 років тому +30

    I love this song so much I can’t get through it without crying.❤️ Prayers sent to everyone who is dealing with a hard time in your life.❤️😭

  • @briannamarroquin5083
    @briannamarroquin5083 6 років тому +109

    for the people who lost there love ones i feel sorry for yall and i know what it feels like to lose someone you love one

  • @AlexLee198604
    @AlexLee198604 3 місяці тому

    The line "Was there anything i could have said or done" gets to me every time. I talked to him on the phone a week before he ended his own life. I always feel like its my fault that he's not here. I miss you bro we all miss you. Lets meet again at gates bro!

  • @avery_nettles
    @avery_nettles 3 роки тому +2

    My granddaddy passed away in 2016 from a rare disease. He had it when I was younger but he got better and then it came back and he got worse. Then had to go live in a nursing home. I did not know the last time I said I love you, hello, and goodbye and our last conversation I would be the last time I ever saw him alive again. If I did I would have given him the biggest hug ever because we were really close.
    Whenever I went to go visit him and my grandmother I would jump for joy because I was so happy to see them but then when we had to leave to go home I would cry as a kid because I never wanted to leave there house and I never cried leaving anywhere else. My grandparents mean the world to me they help shape me into the person I am today even through they live 4 hours away and we could not see each other every day and it was hard but they really were always there for me.
    Yes my grandmother is still alive and I cherish every moment with her because you never know when the last time you are going to see someone again. I know that one day I will see my granddaddy again in heaven but it’s hard not getting to see him and talk to him.
    When I got baptized my granddaddy and grandmother gave me a cross necklace and when my granddaddy passed away I wore it every day and I have worn it every single day since then. This December will have officially been 5 years since he passed away, so I have been wearing that necklace every single day for the past 5 years and will continue to do so for the rest of my life. So cherish every moment you have with your loved ones because you never know when it will be your last moment with them.
    It’s been hard but I pray to God and my granddaddy and I write him notes of things I would say to him if I were to have a conversation with him because it just makes me feel close and I him. I mean he did not even get to see me graduate high school and that really was hard because I had prayed for him to live and see me walk the stage at graduation because I had always pictured him there and knowing he wasn’t going to be there broke my heart so I printed out a picture of him and I together and pined it to my graduation robe and so that was my way of him getting to see me graduate (he walk the stage with me 😂). He was one of my hero’s without him and my grandmother (yes she is still alive) I don’t think I would be as strong in my faith as I am today. Honestly it’s been hard living without him and I do miss he each and every day.
    I heard that when you find a coin on the ground that’s heads up that means someone you love is watching over you in heaven. Today I found two and it’s a nice reminder that my granddaddy has been watching over me all this time and that just made my day to think about that and was also a great reminder that I will see him again one day in heaven and I can’t wait to see him one day when the time is right but for now I just take it one day at a time. Remember to cherish the moments you have with your loved ones because you never know when the last time you see them will be the last or not. ❤️ ❤️

  • @Silverstar129
    @Silverstar129 9 років тому +12

    They say time heals all wounds, but those wounds will always leave scars and your heart will never quite be the same.

    • @c.s.h1529
      @c.s.h1529 9 років тому +4

      But it'll make you stronger

  • @jakebellinger8496
    @jakebellinger8496 7 років тому +75

    Chester Bennington, you were so loved around the world. Most people could only dream of being like you. All I can say is... why?

    • @winykittygirl
      @winykittygirl 5 років тому +3

      Because you and the world only saw the outside.. not the inside.
      It's an internal struggle that only you and God knows. Fame, fortune, cars, houses, mean nothing when your in pain inside. Look at Robin Williams. No one really knows the pain inside someone elses head 💞💞

    • @susieq42657
      @susieq42657 5 років тому +3

      May God hold you Chester Bennington in his loving arms you will forever be missed RIP

    • @carolinemixonbraxton4963
      @carolinemixonbraxton4963 3 роки тому

      That is one I was thinking about during this beautiful song may chester and chris cornell rest in peace

  • @Katgarciax
    @Katgarciax 4 роки тому +8

    “Now in my mind I keep you frozen as a seventeen year old”
    That line broke me, my cousin passed away about a year ago, killed actually...
    my heart is still healing, he was my best friend I grew up with him and he passed a few months before his 18th birthday.. my sweet boy how I miss you...
    Losing someone is the hardest thing to have to try to understand.. knowing I’ll never see him again hurts the most.

  • @glenyceszymkarczuk9241
    @glenyceszymkarczuk9241 Рік тому +3

    Omg I just came across this song, we all need to be kind and caring to others all the time as it could save someone's life. Great song.

  • @PlaguesPosies
    @PlaguesPosies 9 років тому +5

    My prayers are with all of you who relate to this song. I cannot imagine losing someone this way. And to those of you who feel like life "isn't worth the fight", you're in my prayers too, and I just want you to know, that bad times happen and I'm sure you've noticed that part already, but many good times will happen as well. I've helped talk two of my closest friends out of taking their own lives..... sometimes it's hard to see the light, I know, I once had trouble myself. But those difficult things that I went through, they helped build the foundation of my faith, the foundation of realizing that I have a purpose, and the foundation of knowing that no matter how dark things seem, bad times don't last forever. I struggle with depression, OCD and Hypochondria every now and then. But they don't keep their grasp on me. Life and Love is worth more than anything else in this world and even if you don't know it, even if you don't feel it, you are LOVED. I promise you. By me, and whether or not you believe, by God also. You were not put here without purpose..... you were not put here to only see the bad. I promise things can turn around and get better. You only have to not give up. My life got better when I turned to God. I hope, if you haven't, that YOU find His love and peace, too. I may not know what my purpose is yet, but I know that I am not without it. I may not know you, but I KNOW you can get better. There isn't a doubt within my heart, mind or soul. God bless you, you guys. If you need to talk, fair warning, I may not always know what to say but I'm willing to listen, if you want to send me a message or an email anytime. @ megantfelton@yahoo.com

  • @joer7327
    @joer7327 8 років тому +315

    Lost my 16 year old daughter to suicide. Her mom and even though we have been apart many years bonded to help our daughter. Sadly it didn't work. I miss you Abby everyday. Love dad.
    12-15-98
    9-26-15

    • @samanthatolch4513
      @samanthatolch4513 8 років тому +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand what she was going through, I wish I could have spoken to her. No one deserves to feel the way she did especially someone around her and my age. I will keep you in my prayers. You are a strong man.

    • @joer7327
      @joer7327 8 років тому +2

      Thank you Sam.

    • @LeoOnealProductions
      @LeoOnealProductions 8 років тому +4

      +Joe R this broke my heart

    • @hshjskksj1939
      @hshjskksj1939 8 років тому +1

      I am very sorry about the lose also I had a lose i will not like to talk about.

    • @nishaploypailinphucharoen3669
      @nishaploypailinphucharoen3669 8 років тому +1

      Huggs

  • @mom2jsh
    @mom2jsh 2 роки тому +5

    My brother committed suicide in 2004. We played this song at his funeral. Still brings tears every time I hear it!

  • @Callemos7
    @Callemos7 2 роки тому +13

    As a person who've gone through depression three times, I really feel this song and I'm happy I didn't leave.

  • @christinapetty9346
    @christinapetty9346 4 роки тому +26

    Lost my baby brother in 2014 lost my mom in 2017 lost my cousin this year 2019..i miss them all so much.. Everytime I listen to this song makes me think of them

  • @kayajenkins8014
    @kayajenkins8014 6 років тому +456

    Nobody understands depression unless u have it or had it

    • @LP92LEO
      @LP92LEO 5 років тому +5

      Kaya Jenkins absolutely

    • @KJOjoy
      @KJOjoy 5 років тому +3

      Yes... And that's what most don't understand. Bless you Kaya.

    • @amanachamber6907
      @amanachamber6907 5 років тому +1

      So true I fight everyday

    • @marknewsom1377
      @marknewsom1377 5 років тому

      so so true

    • @ProjectCreativityGuy96
      @ProjectCreativityGuy96 4 роки тому +3

      It Crushes Every Part of Your Soul, and Eventually You Just get Fed Up Fighting It, Because It Takes Your Strength to The Point Where You're Ready to Snap!
      It's Fucking Horrible, Man! But Please Bare This Message Everybody.... DO NOT LET THE DEMONS WIN!!!! You can do It, Trust Me and Trust Yourself Most of all!!!!!!!

  • @kaia6258
    @kaia6258 3 роки тому +3

    I committed 2 years ago and now listening to this song makes me so sad about the people that I could’ve hurt, I love my family and friends so very much and now I can’t imagine what life for them would be like if my attempts worked, I realized that I have so much to lose and I want to live life until I’m old and grey, I want to live with my future spouse until we pass together, I want to live long enough to see my great great grandchildren. Life is worth the fight. Every second is worth living. Life is worth everything❤️

  • @maryqjane9074
    @maryqjane9074 Рік тому +2

    My friend passed away yesterday, she commited s**c**e and I just got that news, and here I am, listening to this beautiful song with a new feeling, a sadness so deep that I could get drown in it.
    Please folks, please ask for help, please don't give up, put that razor down.
    I'm sure there are and there will be plenty of people that loves you, don't give up, please...

  • @ilovebtswithmyentirehearta2832
    @ilovebtswithmyentirehearta2832 6 років тому +114

    Rip to my best friend who became severely depressed and committed suicide after I moved away. I blame myself every single day for what happened to her and all I can wish for is that she’s living a good life in heaven.
    I’m so sorry Alice and I love you so much 😭😭

    • @molliecampbell5021
      @molliecampbell5021 5 років тому +6

      It's not your fault

    • @mikedanielespeja6128
      @mikedanielespeja6128 5 років тому +10

      Depression is the abyss. You only have to lose to it once for it to be too late. Don't blame yourself, don't join her, she wouldn't want to see her friend hurt themself because of her pain. No true friend would want that, cherish your life for her sake.

    • @jewelsdonovan376
      @jewelsdonovan376 5 років тому +5

      Please please stop. Take a moment and think. He probably regretted it right away after. Because he or she realized how it would affect you.

    • @Luu904
      @Luu904 4 роки тому +1

      Don’t blame yourself, suicide is the product of an underlying condition, she probably was facing something darker, I’m pretty sure she loves you and doesn’t blame you, you’re not the one to blame.

  • @kkheelies8314
    @kkheelies8314 8 років тому +6

    I've lost many friends to the darkness of mental illness and loneliness. I only wish they could have understood how much their friends, families, and I loved and cared for them. Life drags people apart from each other, but bonds of the heart withstand the distance. If they had truly understood how important they were to so many people, I can't help but hope that it might have been easier for them to let their songs play on. I'll play their songs for them as parts of mine for as long as I live.

  • @jessabestwick9020
    @jessabestwick9020 4 роки тому +27

    My friend killed himself in May 2019. This song pulls so hard on my heart strings.

    • @user-mh6bu2jc5l
      @user-mh6bu2jc5l 4 роки тому +2

      Jessa Bestwick same but one of my childhood BFF killed her self because people kept criticizing her and stuff and I just can’t forget her she has been with me since I was born

    • @stevenkeefe2517
      @stevenkeefe2517 4 роки тому +1

      I'm right there with you. I lost a friend to suicide back on September 7th 2018. I still miss him till this day

    • @user-mh6bu2jc5l
      @user-mh6bu2jc5l 4 роки тому +1

      Steven Keefe at least someone feel the same way like I don’t know why people do that, she has been through shit and they still criticize her. every time I see our pictures I cry I really miss her like a piece from me is missing

    • @fpoli6082
      @fpoli6082 4 роки тому +1

      I'm sorry for everything you're going through, hope this will help
      ua-cam.com/video/QIjoCE1QV94/v-deo.html

  • @joeyness7616
    @joeyness7616 3 роки тому +2

    My magnificent magical husband, the most beautiful Soul, rest in peace in heaven, until we meet again...I love you!

  • @heivikaaasamets-ainla2806
    @heivikaaasamets-ainla2806 6 років тому +25

    my son 25.10 2000 - 12.08.2018, I miss him so much...

  • @karenhines6155
    @karenhines6155 5 років тому +303

    I found this song because my brother committed suicide today. We had no clue. He was acting fine all morning. No warning signs

    • @BoostedB16A90
      @BoostedB16A90 4 роки тому +30

      There were non with my best friend... watched a movie. Said he was going to bed, and he hung himself. RIP Lucas 1/1/12

    • @fpoli6082
      @fpoli6082 4 роки тому +4

      I don't know you, but if there's anything I can do to help you is to send you this, please watch
      ua-cam.com/video/QIjoCE1QV94/v-deo.html

    • @MalaneeT
      @MalaneeT 4 роки тому +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @jamesrednowers6607
      @jamesrednowers6607 4 роки тому +3

      My heart goes out to you

    • @katherinehays7159
      @katherinehays7159 4 роки тому +17

      Talk to my son 1 hour before he died of suicide he was about survival and the next chapter in his life that was looking good I don't understand what happened that last hour or why

  • @marykallio3927
    @marykallio3927 Рік тому +2

    love this song it really makes you think,,,,,,

  • @strawberrycowz
    @strawberrycowz 6 місяців тому +3

    I just lost my best friend to stage 4 cancer today, i miss her sm, this song explains my emotions better than i can because i feel lost, lost without a friend to hold and pray for

  • @hulkcrutchfield6911
    @hulkcrutchfield6911 9 років тому +4

    If you are listining to this song and it remindes you of a loved one that is no longer here i am deeply sorry but just remeber that person is in heaven and looking down on you right now and smiling i promise!! Now for whoever sees this and is thinking about ending their owen life you need to stop please this world is hard but suicid is not the answer and you are loved and you mean alot to someone espcialy god and he loves you and also this world isn't that bad i mean sure it has its evil times but also the good and beautiful and i have seen and been through alot of both but mostly evil cause i was once bullied mentaly and physicaly and god he was there for me and still is and i have to say this is a very beautiful world and you have a important part in it you could change the world for good or influence someone that will, the possibilities are endless and so amazing so don't focuse on the bad let that flow right over you and let god and his angels take care of it and look at the good and the future and work to make it better even when you hit rock bottum there is always hope for good i promise you that i have seen it and i will tell you right now if i could i would love to live here on earth forever and i would never get tired of it so if you are reading this please keep fighting and dreaming life is deffinantly worth fighting for i promise and i would hate for you to leave in the middle of your beautiful song cause even though i do not know you i care and i want you to keep fighting never give up no matter what!!!!!! And i hope you are having a blessed day and may God bless you and be with you and your loved ones :-)

  • @joshuaw.6488
    @joshuaw.6488 9 років тому +209

    My best friend and true love took her own life last month on Sunday the 16th.We had been together for over 13 years. Separated once. She was my sweetheart. I was going ask her to marry me Jan 23, her birthday But now I can't. This is a great song , very touching ,but I can't stop crying.

    • @Noraslifeasblogger
      @Noraslifeasblogger 9 років тому +2

      I am so sorry for your loss.

    • @joshuaw.6488
      @joshuaw.6488 9 років тому

      Thank you. I miss her.

    • @lauramcbride5324
      @lauramcbride5324 9 років тому

      Sorry to hear your news Joshua. I lost the love of my life on June 1st. We were together right about 14 years. This song definitely resonates with me too. I will never know why he did what he did. Hang in there.

    • @joshuaw.6488
      @joshuaw.6488 9 років тому

      Im sorry for your loss as well. I'm doing my best so far, you will be in my prayers.Thanks,and you hang in there too.

    • @JoAnn35again
      @JoAnn35again 9 років тому

      I too am so sorry for your loss Joshua. It is something that doesnt make any sense, it just hurts and keeps hurting. Dont be surprised when the "Anger" sets in, AND IT WILL! She Left You, after all! What was she thinking? Herself only!! You will feel all these feelings of sadness, and YES...ANGER AT HER FOR WHAT SHE DID AS WELL!! She LEFT YOU!! IT IS NORMAL! Talk to someone, anybody, lots of somebodies. When you feel as tho you're loosing your marbles.., you are beginning to process your pain, and beginning to Heal. You are in my prayers Josh.

  • @ProjectCreativityGuy96
    @ProjectCreativityGuy96 4 роки тому +44

    Guys, Depression is no laughing matter, and yes, I am making sound like an urgent emergency, because We have got to prevent this, cause I am urgently praying for people who are on the edge right now!!!!!!
    Please, guys, use every bit of Your strength to help keep a person in need alive!

    • @KittyCat10210
      @KittyCat10210 3 роки тому +2

      I agree. I have depression. It has hurt me so many times

    • @real-4
      @real-4 2 роки тому

      thanku for your prayers..my son and I need it..we r struggling financially..and it means a lot..God bless, your sister
      from india

  • @Shevzon
    @Shevzon 4 роки тому +1

    My grandfather passed away and he was like my best friend i always wanted to repay him for all the good things have done. Know one day i will get to see him soon.

  • @danyellebrooke5725
    @danyellebrooke5725 10 років тому +46

    "Oh, but I do have one
    Burning question
    Who told you life wasn't
    Worth the fight
    They were wrong, they lied
    Now you're gone and we cry
    'Cause it's not like you to
    Walk away
    In the middle of a song
    Your beautiful song
    Your absolutely beautiful song"
    That part kills me. And no matter how many times I listen to this song, and no matter how many times I tell myself "I won't cry" I ALWAYS end up just breaking down. The death date of my first love, Kyle who was brutally murdered is coming up. He was hit in the back of his head with a blunt force object, and then his beautiful face was put into an ant bed. His Dad came home to find him with his eye's, ear's, nose, and mouth bleeding. I can't imagine what he went through in that time period. I trust and believe in God, I do. But I do question Him. I'm only human! I don't understand how someone as amazing, loving, caring, wonderful, smart, and beautiful such as Kyle could had been taking away from his Family, friend's, and I? It ain't fair. He was the ONLY man that I ever really trusted, or loved to date. I haven't found someone who can even remotely come close to being as amazing as him. When I was at Wal Mart a few months ago I saw this man who looked just like him. And I almost went up to him and said "Kyle! YOU ARE ALIVE! I knew it! I knew you weren't dead. You're strong enough to make it through whatever." But it wasn't him :'( And I knew that. And seeing that man, and being remembered all over again, that my "Stevie Wonder" was truly taken away from me, forever broke my heart all over again. And I just broke down. I have my good day's, and my bad day's. But I suppose it'll always be that way. I know someday when God calls me home, I'll see him again. And I will run up to him, and throw my arms around his neck, and kiss him over, and over again. And never let him go. And tell him how much I've missed him since he went away. But until then, I will remember the good times, and see him in my dreams :) I love you Kyle Bradly Hentzen. R.I.P. Baby, my "Stevie Wonder" I'll see you when Jesus calls me home, or comes back to take His children in the Rapture. 7/25/89 - 6/25/09 I miss you.

    • @mikaylabrew1275
      @mikaylabrew1275 10 років тому +2

      I took my time to read this I can only imagine what your going through I've never felt the pain you must be feeling I'm so sorry

    • @danyellebrooke5725
      @danyellebrooke5725 10 років тому +1

      TheFallen Angel Aw, thank you so much! That means the World to me that you took the time out of your day to read that fully :) And thank you so much for your kind words. It's people like you that make me smile, and make me feel 10000000% better :) Thank you so so so so so much, sweetheart. This touched my heart. Thank you! :) God bless you :)

    • @mikaylabrew1275
      @mikaylabrew1275 10 років тому +2

      TheFallen Angel Thank you I just wanted to try to help your pain

    • @danyellebrooke5725
      @danyellebrooke5725 10 років тому +1

      TheFallen Angel Well you very much did, sweetheart :) And you have nothing to be thanking me for. For it was YOU who made MY day! And it was YOU who put a SMILE on MY face :) 😘

    • @mikaylabrew1275
      @mikaylabrew1275 10 років тому +3

      Danyelle Brooke I don't really know what it's like to loose someone close but it must be awful I'm so sorry

  • @britneyb7776
    @britneyb7776 7 років тому +35

    it is amazing how it is now 2017 and these words still carry the same meaning

  • @deborahsteele7427
    @deborahsteele7427 2 роки тому +4

    "Truly comforting, and very inspirational, indeed" ... " Be encouraged to know that you are never alone; the Lord above, truly loves, and adores you, and will stick closer to you, than any brother, or friend, could ever do" .. " He will never leave you, nor forsake you, but will stand with you, in every situation in which, you will encounter, within your lifetime " ... 'You're truly loved, and adored!" ... Blessings always, Ms. Deborah J. Steele - 12/03/21

  • @sarahfinken2443
    @sarahfinken2443 2 роки тому +8

    I’ve been struggling with depression since I was 12, I didn’t want to make it past 15, that was when I had my failed suicide attempt, I’m now 18 and still struggling but I’m surviving. I lost a childhood friend to suicide in 2017 and it hurts but this song helps make it a bit better❤️

  • @mizzfreshyaknow
    @mizzfreshyaknow 8 років тому +28

    i tried to end my life last year on March 1st. this song came on on my pandora station as i was cutting my wrists. i can honestly say that this song saved my life.

    • @RoseMolz
      @RoseMolz 8 років тому

      +javelin 3 Blessings for today and tomorrow. Power of music...

    • @robinhill9004
      @robinhill9004 8 років тому

      +javelin 3 I`m trying to save my son from herion addiction its a tough battle but I faith he is gonna do it this time around.

    • @ANNA-rj5bq
      @ANNA-rj5bq 8 років тому +1

      +Robin Hill You can do it!!!! Stay strong

    • @chrisbarrs7576
      @chrisbarrs7576 8 років тому

      +Robin Hill Really hope you succeed, may god give you the strength to win this battle.

    • @Danceeric1
      @Danceeric1 4 місяці тому

      ***yawn***

  • @zaykim2020
    @zaykim2020 6 років тому +44

    Rest in peace my angel Jonghyun. It’s nearly going to be 6 months and not a day has gone past without thinking of you. My heart still aches and I cry every night because I miss you so badly but I’ll try to be strong and carry on. Rest easy my love ❤️

  • @lisasummers2806
    @lisasummers2806 Рік тому +1

    I LOST MY SWEET BEAUTIFUL LOVING MOTHER 5 MONTHS AGO AND I HAVE BEEN SO DEPRESSED I HAVE JUST ABOUT GIVE UP ON MYSELF MY MARRIAGE AND EVERYTHING BUT MY WONDERFUL HUSBAND HAS STUCK WITH ME THROUGH IT ALL HE IS A WONDERFUL LOVING UNDERSTANDING HUSBAND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND I AM GETTING HELP I AM GLAD I HEARD THIS SONG SO GLAD I DID THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS SONG LOVE ❤ IT.

  • @jazrobean1
    @jazrobean1 3 роки тому +1

    TODAY I am wrapping Christmas presents, listening to this, and thinking of my gone-son!