Rascal Flatts - What Hurts The Most (Album Version)

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  • @kelleybryant5947
    @kelleybryant5947 4 роки тому +20229

    My wife and I got married two months ago. Covid 19 killed her last week. I wanted honor her and our love. I searched the broken road. Then I saw this song. Always brought tears to my eyes even before.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 4 роки тому +977

      I'm so sorry. May she rest in peace. May her memory be a blessing

    • @normalaverageguy1381
      @normalaverageguy1381 4 роки тому +492

      Im sorry for your loss Kelly, I hope you recover from your broken heart, f*ck COVID, it killed many people

    • @saintwayne1296
      @saintwayne1296 4 роки тому +281

      Try ur best to Be and Stay STRONG BROTHER ! Im sure ur a good guy.Ive herd people say when a song, a good movie or a good deed can bring a guy to tears, he's no longer a boy, but a man. U STAND STRONG while this Storm passes. Keep good support around you, be amused those you love.

    • @preciouspayne723
      @preciouspayne723 4 роки тому +122

      Im so sorry

    • @missinkevin
      @missinkevin 4 роки тому +108

      I'm so sorry for ur loss

  • @wendydrake1571
    @wendydrake1571 4 роки тому +3262

    God I miss you chris......our kids miss you. 3 years already. Your daughter is a senior she did it. Your son is joining the army in a year. We raised great kids. You were the best father. You were my bestfriend. I'll forever love you. I dont know how I do this everyday. Til I see you again....love your wife!

    • @joycemoss6205
      @joycemoss6205 4 роки тому +91

      prayers for you and your family

    • @seansloan5
      @seansloan5 4 роки тому +89

      You must have been a good wife and mother also. Peace to you.

    • @sagerodriguez9321
      @sagerodriguez9321 4 роки тому +61

      I'm so sorry for your loss.. your incredibly strong and I'm sure hes looking down on you so proud. Keep your head up always love. Your an amazing woman

    • @azyienegarcia2924
      @azyienegarcia2924 4 роки тому +49

      I was already crying while listening to this song and this just made me cry even more!!! condolence to you and your family, I understand what it's like to lose someone you truly loved.

    • @1prettygirl87
      @1prettygirl87 4 роки тому +26

      Okay I was not ready to feel my own feelings in the comments section today

  • @lesliemartin1174
    @lesliemartin1174 5 років тому +4867

    He was only 16. I had loved him for 5 years. He was killed in a car wreck. I saw him in ICU and didn't recognize him but he knew I was there. At 47 I still can't let his soul rest. We still belong together and I pray he is the 1st I see when my time comes. I miss you Billy. 2/12/87.

    • @taradactule6052
      @taradactule6052 5 років тому +232

      I lost my first love in a car accident..drinking and driving..he was my neighbor and my best friend for many years until we finally admitted we were in love...he was gone 2 months later..life is a funny thing sometimes.

    • @jrb145
      @jrb145 5 років тому +15

      💛

    • @taradactule6052
      @taradactule6052 5 років тому +8

      @@nopenope1438 ohhh you're so edgy.

    • @jamestaylor9004
      @jamestaylor9004 5 років тому +25

      @@taradactule6052 I'm so sorry to hear about your first love, i know it is hard

    • @joelreynolds9395
      @joelreynolds9395 5 років тому +25

      im sure he watchin over you,u noticed things threw the years.

  • @Dave_Cymru
    @Dave_Cymru 9 місяців тому +228

    It is not depression, that is felt when listening to sad songs; it is simply the release of stifled emotions from a moment in time that was so traumatic, the pain was left until 'we' are strong enough to both remember that moment and the desire to move on!

    • @gabrielacastillo9640
      @gabrielacastillo9640 6 місяців тому +6

      Oh wow I just started crying hard at this comment 😭 but why is this true 🥺 I can’t move on even after so many years since I was 15 now I’m 23 💔❤️‍🩹

    • @James-nl6fu
      @James-nl6fu 5 місяців тому +1

      @@gabrielacastillo9640 ♥️love makes miracles happen/for me in when I stepped into "pepperland" Austria,... I had no idea how beautifull life could be until it happened♥️

    • @joeydubs8694
      @joeydubs8694 4 місяці тому +1

      idek why i cry to it other then the fact its a beautiful song.

    • @gabrielacastillo9640
      @gabrielacastillo9640 4 місяці тому +1

      @@Dave_Cymru I hope you achieve all your goals in life 🥰 you deserve to be happy ♥️ thank you for such sweet kind words🥹

    • @KristenTwitty
      @KristenTwitty 3 місяці тому +1

      Beautifully said

  • @onceuponatime4080
    @onceuponatime4080 4 роки тому +3868

    I love how her father let her unleash her pain and anger on him and still held her close.

  • @carriesliva1719
    @carriesliva1719 10 місяців тому +490

    I know the girl at the beginning is acting. I'm crying because I feel that pain. I'm going through it right now with the loss of my husband. I just want to scream and cry. Together on this earth 21 years. Together in Heaven forever.

    • @itz_eazy_e
      @itz_eazy_e 10 місяців тому +14

      I am so sorry about your loss. I cannot imagine//fathom loosing somebody so important. I have loss a father, uncles, grandparents, but nothing must compare.
      I need my other half.
      God bless you and your journey. We all know, he would want, what is best for you!!🕊️

    • @addone2745
      @addone2745 10 місяців тому +8

      Lord be with you 🙏 so sorry for your loss.

    • @mayracruz3121
      @mayracruz3121 10 місяців тому +5

      My boyfriend die cancer one year ago only God help us go through it

    • @AaronSmith-cz6qx
      @AaronSmith-cz6qx 10 місяців тому +4

      I am so sorry for your loss

    • @AlexisBraun-zv1pm
      @AlexisBraun-zv1pm 9 місяців тому +3

      God bless you!!! God loves you!!✝️✝️😭🙏😭

  • @YunoSage
    @YunoSage 4 роки тому +841

    The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained..

    • @beyondbeautiful1820
      @beyondbeautiful1820 4 роки тому +12

      Agreed

    • @kristinwoodward7087
      @kristinwoodward7087 3 роки тому +8

      Yep 😭

    • @avajewels8212
      @avajewels8212 3 роки тому +11

      Yea. Me and my ex decided to be friends after we broke up and we only stayed friends after that for like a month because he all of a sudden stopped talking to me. I didn’t get my goodbye even though he promised he would say goodbye.

    • @fezzitta
      @fezzitta 3 роки тому +6

      It makes it harder to move on...

    • @beckigates1637
      @beckigates1637 3 роки тому +4

      exactly

  • @agape5555
    @agape5555 9 місяців тому +17

    For my first love. Everything was wrong around us…this song remaind me of last time i saw you. I had to go, you had to stay. What hurts the most is beeing so close and have so much to say… i will always love you.

    • @StephanieFleming-im5xs
      @StephanieFleming-im5xs 16 днів тому

      Ditto... I feel your pain & you are NOT alone!!! Godspeed to you!! ❤❤❤❤❤😢

  • @chadspringstead1835
    @chadspringstead1835 8 років тому +1923

    what hurts the most is when you really live and care for someone that no matter how much you do for them they don't appreciate it

    • @normaccoldwar7329
      @normaccoldwar7329 8 років тому +8

      I know right it hurts bad

    • @anthonydevics7026
      @anthonydevics7026 8 років тому +1

      Chad Springstead The same to me :(

    • @dallelyruiz7787
      @dallelyruiz7787 8 років тому +8

      Chad Springstead I understand your pain... I have been going thru this for the past couple of months...

    • @rodelynbello7884
      @rodelynbello7884 8 років тому +3

      damn right

    • @bethbender2376
      @bethbender2376 8 років тому

      Chad Springstead pp la LG I will oop

  • @ashleymcneil916
    @ashleymcneil916 5 років тому +851

    Whoever the girl is, she needs recognition! I cried before the song even started . That pain & hurt I know all to well !

    • @christytrim291
      @christytrim291 4 роки тому +22

      She did an amazing job!! 👏

    • @user-ku4tf5um7t
      @user-ku4tf5um7t 4 роки тому +2

      Me also

    • @user-ku4tf5um7t
      @user-ku4tf5um7t 4 роки тому +12

      I love that part wen girl ask boy what do you c boy answers I see you

    • @gavinrussell9242
      @gavinrussell9242 4 роки тому +3

      michele i,m a da to a 18 yrd old good looking girl and prats of of guys are sniffing aobiut ? so i,m like rambo kicking them away

    • @eternalskeptic3294
      @eternalskeptic3294 4 роки тому +5

      Dad at 0:18 and 0:45😭

  • @heatherneff9111
    @heatherneff9111 9 місяців тому +5

    I miss best friend Brandon so much he passed in 2016 and it broke me. I still think of him every day and how we would be married if he hadn't passed. It never gets easier missing him. He is the love of my life and I'm so lost without him. He's my guardian angel and I will see him on the other side.😢😢 R.I.P my sweet Brandon❤❤

  • @shreyachatterjee5008
    @shreyachatterjee5008 2 роки тому +1426

    This song hit home. Lost my dad to suicide 20+ years ago and my mom to cancer last year. I couldn't get to say goodbye to either of them and it kills me. The grief is just too much to handle. But somewhere I read - grief is only a reflection of love. I couldn't hurt this much if I didn't love them that much.
    To everyone who's lost someone, I'm thinking of you. Please tell your loved ones that you love them.

    • @asdfghjkat1
      @asdfghjkat1 2 роки тому +23

      Lost my dad to covid last year…they say you never get over grief you just grow around it…and grief is all the un given love and unfullfilled dreams you couldnt with them … be gratefull on the time you had with them here

    • @williamparrish551
      @williamparrish551 2 роки тому +11

      I lost mine 9 years ago he overdosed

    • @meltaylor9116
      @meltaylor9116 2 роки тому +6

      🙏🙏

    • @clarrissaharrison4491
      @clarrissaharrison4491 2 роки тому +10

      I loss my brother to Suicide in June 2017

    • @ms.youcanquotemeonthat1858
      @ms.youcanquotemeonthat1858 2 роки тому +11

      My oldest brother committed suicide n mom died of lung cancer in didnt want her kids REGRET any final choices of her life so she left out of her end decisions to protect us.
      ....mannnnnnnnnn...I miss n hurt for them

  • @ivonajankovic5928
    @ivonajankovic5928 3 роки тому +3518

    Isn't it incredible that after all of these years, this song still hits the same? ♥️

    • @grenadierful
      @grenadierful 3 роки тому +29

      some songs hits after all years...

    • @Beavisation
      @Beavisation 3 роки тому +23

      its forever

    • @mistydawnmclendon6590
      @mistydawnmclendon6590 3 роки тому +15

      I know right I bought this CD when it first come out and still listen to em

    • @edgarramirez9113
      @edgarramirez9113 3 роки тому +17

      It still hurts like it did 11 years ago. Listening to it now and I'm still in tears.

    • @mistydawnmclendon6590
      @mistydawnmclendon6590 3 роки тому +5

      @@edgarramirez9113 yes I totally agree with you 🙏😭

  • @beammichael
    @beammichael Рік тому +641

    This takes me back to the one that got away. This pain has never left me. I was 21, I’m 63 still hurts. Great song

    • @Brandon_Allen00559
      @Brandon_Allen00559 Рік тому +9

      Did you ever find someone else?

    • @jeroenbroeils
      @jeroenbroeils Рік тому +14

      was 19 now 43 never the same feel you

    • @wallaceluna6241
      @wallaceluna6241 Рік тому +6

      Feels you bro. Shit just happened to me. Aint even going to try again cuz It's pointless.

    • @MrRich-bp7id
      @MrRich-bp7id Рік тому +6

      I’m watching her walk away currently I’m 28

    • @beammichael
      @beammichael Рік тому +30

      Yes, and been married for 37 years. Have had 2 wonderful children, girls. They have given me 4 grandchildren. Life goes on but, she still haunts my thoughts and I still dream about her.

  • @MyHandleRocks
    @MyHandleRocks 3 місяці тому +98

    Can we recognize that this young lady was a fantastic actress during that breakdown scene???!!!! I felt that scream in my soul.

    • @lyndawhite5171
      @lyndawhite5171 2 місяці тому

      Uh, no.
      And what’s up with the mother? Just hugging the bed post ?
      Nooooo, really bad actors in this one. Sorry just my opinion.

    • @marcgardner1216
      @marcgardner1216 2 місяці тому +4

      I love the portrayal of a strong father who probably set down an unpopular boundary and stayed firm in his love for his daughter, and comforted her even when she stormed at him. He was truly the man of the house, and his daughter and wife knew it and were secure under his solid love.

    • @Bfolks84
      @Bfolks84 2 місяці тому +5

      She killed it.. she breaks my heart every time I watch this video.

    • @juliejones974
      @juliejones974 2 місяці тому

      The meaning went over your head​@@lyndawhite5171

    • @juliestevens0426
      @juliestevens0426 Місяць тому +3

      @@lyndawhite5171 because she knew the daughter would have pushed her away. the daughter needed to be angry at somebody and the parents were the bad guys and they let her rage when she needed to. the mother sits with her in the bathroom when she's having morning sickness because she's pregnant and i think suspected at the beginning but hadn't gotten the courage to tell him

  • @krissymconnorsvlog7321
    @krissymconnorsvlog7321 Рік тому +1492

    The girl’s acting in this music video is a Oscar winning moment she really brought tears to my eyes

    • @akeliahkialiandaja2732
      @akeliahkialiandaja2732 Рік тому +63

      I really thought I was alone, I cry every time at the beginning of this...

    • @SavageQueen.
      @SavageQueen. Рік тому +23

      Yes it broke me down too :(

    • @puppergump4117
      @puppergump4117 Рік тому +9

      Wonder if anyone else needed to act to end up crying there

    • @jerryc7925
      @jerryc7925 Рік тому +39

      Her performance is what makes this video! Absolutely incredible!

    • @PLIvans
      @PLIvans Рік тому +19

      No matter how many times I've seen this over the years, it breaks me every time!

  • @marib.52380
    @marib.52380 3 роки тому +2841

    Hey but can we just take a moment to appreciate this girl’s acting? Wow, so on point and relatable. Give her an Oscar!

    • @kannachan5339
      @kannachan5339 3 роки тому +157

      literally made me emotional just hearing the pain in her voice at the beginning.

    • @RekhaEnt.
      @RekhaEnt. 3 роки тому +25

      On god

    • @blackbaron9012
      @blackbaron9012 3 роки тому +58

      If giving Oscar to every good performance was a norm, Christian bale would have 20 Oscars.

    • @hannahlane6283
      @hannahlane6283 3 роки тому +5

      Hkh tjonh iphhhhihgyi j,gk

    • @Loyalty_901
      @Loyalty_901 3 роки тому +8

      Definitely ♥

  • @amalmousa8716
    @amalmousa8716 2 роки тому +975

    One of the most heartbreaking songs ever written. This song has been hauting me since my teenage years. Still hits the same.

  • @bethanynorred1382
    @bethanynorred1382 7 місяців тому +103

    It's Father's Day, and my sons father never got to meet him. He lost his battle with mental illness. I wish he could've just held him once. Our son is almost 9. I've never moved on. I miss you Jordan. You'll always be my one!

    • @anakina1
      @anakina1 7 місяців тому +8

      I hope there is a time soon where you can move on and be happy for both you and your son. You both deserve it.

    • @KenSarge1990
      @KenSarge1990 7 місяців тому +1

      Yess you both do all 3

    • @hayley4415
      @hayley4415 7 місяців тому

      Oh hunny I'm so so sorry for your loss and your pain....I couldn't help but tear up reading this, and ik were strangers, but I sincerely wish the best for you and your baby's journey and always remember that your love may not be here in the physical, but I promise you he's with you and your son always, all you have to do is call on him and ask for a sign bc nothing is forever and one day, you'll all be reunited ❤
      Many blessings to you

    • @adamkail4449
      @adamkail4449 6 місяців тому

      I'm so sorry... 🙏

    • @pamelakennedy374
      @pamelakennedy374 6 місяців тому +1

      💔❤🙏

  • @MNTayler
    @MNTayler 8 років тому +359

    What hurts the most is being betrayed by the guy you thought was your best friend ever. very hurtful.

    • @kennedyellatate424
      @kennedyellatate424 8 років тому

      +B I think I would have to the bullet wound or got shot then have the bad things happen to me all over again

    • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
      @GabrielaCenturionNeumann 8 років тому +5

      Been there, felt that. You are not alone and, even if it sounds cliche, time will heal it. Hugs across the distance

    • @MNTayler
      @MNTayler 8 років тому

      i think you should stfu, grow up and some day you will know...because with our attitude you will never know love.

    • @MNTayler
      @MNTayler 8 років тому +2

      thank you. everywhere I go was where we went. 16 years is a lot to forget.....

    • @MNTayler
      @MNTayler 8 років тому

      I can help you with that. come on over. shit head

  • @Zexion579
    @Zexion579 3 роки тому +373

    How did that girl outperform every actor in this video? She was so good!

    • @42022coop
      @42022coop 3 роки тому +29

      She may have acted from experience. Losing someone physically and emotionally is the same as death. We reach points in our lives that requires no acting.

    • @stevensobieralski2125
      @stevensobieralski2125 3 роки тому +5

      Cayden is

    • @ahsalumni2004
      @ahsalumni2004 3 місяці тому +1

      Song hits home....20 yrs ago lost someone and even today I still carry it.

  • @marmiy
    @marmiy 5 років тому +2834

    Give that girl an Oscar! I started crying before the music even started playing 😭

    • @BttrflyKisses925
      @BttrflyKisses925 5 років тому +23

      Marissa Miyahira me too!

    • @musicgirl154
      @musicgirl154 5 років тому +24

      You mean guys... give those guys an oscar

    • @marmiy
      @marmiy 5 років тому +91

      Amanda Wight Actually, I meant what I said. Give that girl an Oscar because her acting made me tear up. Everyone knows who the guys are and they’ve won numerous awards for her songs, but I bet nobody knows who the actress is and she performed amazingly.

    • @MrYorickJenkins
      @MrYorickJenkins 5 років тому +17

      @@marmiy I can't agree more! Who is she?

    • @lukehawkins6038
      @lukehawkins6038 5 років тому +15

      Did you just assume her gender

  • @justmeh4083
    @justmeh4083 10 років тому +1013

    That girl deserves an Oscar. Thats the most touching acting Ive ever seen. she did more in 3 minutes than some actors do in 3 movies.

  • @twistedsister2372
    @twistedsister2372 10 місяців тому +17

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very hard to lose someone you love. Lost my husband of 14 yrs of pancreatic cancer in Feb of 2018. I feel it never gets easier you just learn to bare w/ the pain, absence, the what I would of could of. I still haven't come to deal with the loss completely. I've been numbing myself and a never ending cycle of sabotaging myself. I will be alright I think. Just hearing this song still brings tears to my eyes.😢

  • @teesin2647
    @teesin2647 3 роки тому +583

    That girl acting was on point!!! Her breaking down seem so real

    • @CourtneyLachiver
      @CourtneyLachiver 3 роки тому +17

      I was so much like her when I lost my cousin to an accidental overdose last year. When it first happened, I was just stunned. Then when a few days passed, I became so angry and would scream my head off. I finally broke down in my boyfriend's arms at his place and then seeing her laid out at her wake. The last thing my cousin and I spoke about was seeing each other once the stay at home order dropped. The day of her wake was when it got dropped and then I just broke down, telling her I was sorry I didn't see her sooner. I almost collapsed. A couple of weeks later, I just couldn't stop crying all night for her and my mom had to calm me down. My cousin's death was the worst thing to ever happen to my family. She was only 36 and she was my first best friend, my hero, my role model. March 30th is going to be very hard for me because that's her birthday and June 3rd was her last day on earth. I miss and love you so much, Erin McMahon. Until we meet again... 💔💔😢😢

    • @ArcticWolf0000
      @ArcticWolf0000 3 роки тому +4

      @@CourtneyLachiver dang.
      Extremely sorry for your loss.
      It's ok to grieve but I don't think she'd want you to be like this........ I know I didn't know her but I think she'd want you to try to remember all the good times you guys had together and those memories that you have are apart of you so she's still with you in your memories and your heart.
      So to recap it's completely ok to grieve but while doing so don't forget all good times you guys had because between all the good times you had and the lessons she taught you they will always be with you through thick and thin just like she was.
      Hang in there my friend you'll get through it.

    • @Taco_da_reaper
      @Taco_da_reaper 3 роки тому

      @@CourtneyLachiver I feel that, back in 2015 my cousin and I were finally talking cause she was holding my new born at the time and she was so happy to be holding him. Me and her never gotten alone once we were teens, always ignored each other. A week after seeing her she died in an accident and it broke my heart so much. The last time seeing her was the final time we got along and I wish that we could of talked like we use to as family. To this day it hurts.

    • @mrvlogs8648
      @mrvlogs8648 3 роки тому

      @@CourtneyLachiver that deep I lost my uncle from suicide and my dad was his best friend he would be 47 today shooting himself in head I’m still mad why he had to go and advice for everyone don’t do drugs because they make you think wrong and don’t drink alcohol that how a lot of people died from just some advice people say weed good it really not no drug is good my opinion sorry for your loss

    • @mrvlogs8648
      @mrvlogs8648 3 роки тому

      My uncle died from suicidal 7 years ago 2013 September 25th on his birthday day and shot himself and yes he did some drugs but advice don’t do drugs because they make you think wrong and my aunt died from cancer throat don’t do it please I don’t want anyone family members dying from drugs like my uncle did it’s sad because his daughter never got to meet him

  • @ThBstFSxy
    @ThBstFSxy 3 роки тому +908

    It’s been 17 years since I lost my first love in a car accident. This song still hits me just as hard as it did when I heard it back then. To all those dealing with loss, “what is grief if not love persevering”?

    • @nikkiandrade6173
      @nikkiandrade6173 3 роки тому +6

      I'm so sorry. Are you okay?

    • @angelitosumod-ong3624
      @angelitosumod-ong3624 3 роки тому +4

      im feeling your pain, lost my husband in a vehicular accident also im 9 weeks pregnant that time.

    • @michaeltsang548
      @michaeltsang548 3 роки тому

      @@angelitosumod-ong3624 lol

    • @walkerbait1230
      @walkerbait1230 3 роки тому +5

      @@michaeltsang548 your messed up

    • @marcwheeler4406
      @marcwheeler4406 3 роки тому +2

      @@angelitosumod-ong3624 so very sorry many peace and safety for you thru your days journesy... blessing to you today....

  • @enfiestado
    @enfiestado 8 років тому +4297

    Why is it that when we're depressed we listen to sad songs? 😔 It makes it worse but I can't help it. 😪

    • @outdoorsman8998
      @outdoorsman8998 8 років тому +50

      Kevin Garcia you gotta listen to that gangster music

    • @coraestes9419
      @coraestes9419 8 років тому +9

      kyle Mullins

    • @kellycookson3734
      @kellycookson3734 8 років тому +7

      I know hey

    • @AmandaMadrid1986
      @AmandaMadrid1986 8 років тому +81

      It kinda validates what I'm feeling inside. 😢

    • @jeffcampo5953
      @jeffcampo5953 8 років тому +19

      Kevin Garcia i do the same damn thing almost a year later

  • @Shethiccc38
    @Shethiccc38 28 днів тому +11

    What hurts the most is having to let people you thought loved and cared for you go. Self growth is very important though, pain just hurts the most🙏🏿

  • @hashley32721
    @hashley32721 Рік тому +574

    The older I get, the more I understand this song... and the more it makes me cry.

    • @horethchinguyen1726
      @horethchinguyen1726 Рік тому

      Hi Ashley, how are you doing?

    • @bruce0767
      @bruce0767 Рік тому +1

      I understand that

    • @Jason_nolan223
      @Jason_nolan223 Рік тому +1

      @Miss Ashley. That’s the power of a good song what’s your favorite song

    • @J.C...
      @J.C... Рік тому +2

      Ive cried like a baby every time I've heard it since the death of my daughter & only child. That whole time period was the best period of my life. Followed by the worst 10,yrs of my life.

    • @jimmythompson9394
      @jimmythompson9394 Рік тому

      Why was she pissed off at her dad? He didn't do anything. Weird

  • @melbrooke
    @melbrooke 3 роки тому +414

    I lost my husband February 21, 2021..... the pain is undescribable. I will never be able to love that hard again because my heart will always belong to him. I love you Brian Keith. Your my forever after all.

    • @oluwafemisotubo2610
      @oluwafemisotubo2610 3 роки тому +5

      Accept my sincere condolences... I pray it gets easier with time... Stay Strong

    • @melbrooke
      @melbrooke 3 роки тому +4

      @@oluwafemisotubo2610 thank you

    • @blywokeum2799
      @blywokeum2799 3 роки тому +2

      😇🙏🏾😇🙏🏾😇💐

    • @ernesttaylor242
      @ernesttaylor242 3 роки тому

      Sorry you lost love but I could help you find it again Thank you Jesus I

    • @timholloway8821
      @timholloway8821 3 роки тому +1

      I know your pain, sorry for your loss.

  • @Percy_Of_The_Sea
    @Percy_Of_The_Sea 3 роки тому +1752

    My heart goes out to everyone in the comments or who's reading this who's lost someone you love. I hope and pray things get better for you.

    • @bigbossadidoss8678
      @bigbossadidoss8678 3 роки тому +14

      Things will never get better for them. They’ll always hurt just as much

    • @Percy_Of_The_Sea
      @Percy_Of_The_Sea 3 роки тому +10

      @@bigbossadidoss8678 Possibly but that doesn't mean life won't get easier for them. I know this because I know what its like to lose someone. The pain is still there but its not as pressent. Life goes on. Those we've lost wouldn't want us wallowing in pitty over what happened but to remember the person for who they where and still are in our hearts.

    • @moeblackwell2549
      @moeblackwell2549 3 роки тому +5

      Well I'm one.od those peoples lost my love of 45 years ot not easy only been a years still love him until we meet again

    • @forgedinstoneagainokay6129
      @forgedinstoneagainokay6129 3 роки тому +2

      Yyhyyyyyyyyy

    • @forgedinstoneagainokay6129
      @forgedinstoneagainokay6129 3 роки тому +3

      Yyyyy

  • @SharynDupont-morehead
    @SharynDupont-morehead 6 місяців тому +87

    My husband died of COVID 14 months after we got married. It kills me inside that I can't hug him and fall asleep in his arms. We both were in my 50s his 60s we knew each other for 3 years total. He taught me what love really is. Love you Mark forever. Kisses intensely until my toes curl up. Love ya oxox

    • @lyndawhite5171
      @lyndawhite5171 5 місяців тому

      Okay,….
      This IS absolutely meant for you. I thought I walked through life alone, knowing what “curled toes “ were. 😵‍💫
      My Gal, I about spit my tea across the room. Funny as hell that was.
      BTW, I too have had curled toes. I totally get it. 👍
      Sad for those who never had.
      Take peace 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      One day…. Again 😂

    • @synchro_warrior
      @synchro_warrior 5 місяців тому

      🧢

  • @jaxxmariecambridge5212
    @jaxxmariecambridge5212 3 роки тому +2029

    One of the hardest things in the world is grieving the loss of someone who is still alive. 💔

  • @Jeffrey99188
    @Jeffrey99188 5 років тому +1744

    It’s almost 2020 and this song is still making people cry

  • @jameswalker335
    @jameswalker335 9 років тому +582

    This song makes me think of my first wife. we got married two days after i turned 18. Six weeks later we rolled our truck on some black ice and she didn't make it. I got out of it with only a scratch on my ankle. Not a day goes by that i don't think of her.

    • @mattadey6728
      @mattadey6728 9 років тому +12

      Mr.Walker sorry for your loss

    • @Andaxon
      @Andaxon 9 років тому +1

      very sorry to hear about that man trust me she will be proud of everything you do have a good day my friend :)

    • @A1bert2013
      @A1bert2013 9 років тому +4

      So sorry, may God bless you :(

    • @kimduch4474
      @kimduch4474 9 років тому +1

      +James Walker I pray for you to find Peace...

    • @robertbarricklow6347
      @robertbarricklow6347 9 років тому

      sorry to hear that

  • @new_comment
    @new_comment 8 місяців тому +44

    My wife and I have been together for 24 years. We have 2 handsome, God fearing sons. Even though I know that, with both of us being in Jesus. Physical death would only separate us for a short season. I can't imagine losing my beautiful princess. I don't think I would have the strength to push on. But, I know the Lord would go through it with me. I love my Lord and Savior, He made it possible for us to have eternal life, joy and love. Praise the Lord God.

  • @gilbertdiaz6838
    @gilbertdiaz6838 6 років тому +392

    Being in love is the worst pain humanity faces. Its harder to realize that there is no control over it. Moving on is an illusion we put for our self to cope with the ordinary life. In the end we will always LOVE.

    • @facepalmsmom5512
      @facepalmsmom5512 5 років тому

      Gilbert Diaz I so agree with you. ☹️

    • @AdventureLearnings
      @AdventureLearnings 5 років тому +1

      Gilbert Diaz 😭😭 love is painful feels like your heart is being rapture apart

    • @jamesfaison9410
      @jamesfaison9410 5 років тому +5

      Love is not worth the misery it causes. I've seen what it does to people. Life is very short.

    • @MelanieMacDonalDMELSPLAYLISTS
      @MelanieMacDonalDMELSPLAYLISTS 5 років тому

      69TH LIKE , VERY WELL SAID ...

    • @robfromtherich1922
      @robfromtherich1922 5 років тому +7

      I saw her for the 1st time in 25 years almost 4 years ago. We hugged and cried. Her husband and my wife were confused. We both told our spouses we were old friends that had not seen each other in a long time.
      We still love each other, that much I know. Just wasn’t to be.

  • @linzieganey26
    @linzieganey26 5 років тому +490

    my daddy died october 1st, 2019 and he used to play rascal flatts all the time. :( i miss him so much :(

    • @margolin89
      @margolin89 5 років тому +7

      so sorry for your loss prayers are with you and your family

    • @shaundriaewell3893
      @shaundriaewell3893 5 років тому +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. ♡

    • @trisarahtops3129
      @trisarahtops3129 5 років тому +2

      I am so so sorry for your loss 💕

    • @walidali2351
      @walidali2351 5 років тому +2

      I love you...God love you..We love you.... Everything will be okay

    • @juniormint1369
      @juniormint1369 5 років тому +2

      Prayers to you and your family 💗 I’m sure your dad is watching you all from above doing his best to keep you all safe. Keep your head up 💗

  • @wmgardner87
    @wmgardner87 Рік тому +242

    This happened to me. My HS sweetheart died in a car crash a week after he turned 21. We went to a playground, laid next to each other- literally repeat of this video. I’m 36 now, and I still mourn him.

    • @stivsham
      @stivsham Рік тому +3

      that wasn't an accident, it was intentional, and you possibly knew about it before it happened, am not saying were the one that killed him, but at least you knew about it,

    • @LindaCarlssonornas
      @LindaCarlssonornas 11 місяців тому +3

      Im so so sorry...❤
      I didn't lose mine to the heaven but to another woman. Not at all the same, i know... but the pain of losing the ONE for me still hurts now 20 years later. 🥀💔

    • @kelleerobinson3909
      @kelleerobinson3909 11 місяців тому +2

      On September 27th of last year my fiancé was hit by a car and didn't make it. This video always made me cry, but now it hits differently. I am very sorry for your loss. I know the pain you feel.

    • @kelleerobinson3909
      @kelleerobinson3909 11 місяців тому +11

      ​@@stivshamwho says this to a person who lost someone I'm sure she thought she would be spending her life with? This is absolutely ridiculous and just uncalled for. My fiance died in September. He was hit by a car and I can tell you with absolute certainty that I never thought that anything like that was going to happen. This sounds like that manifestation crap and it's complete bs

    • @stivsham
      @stivsham 11 місяців тому

      kellee robinson, 1 of my points was that, the more major the accident, the more the intentions, you don't die in a car accident, someone actually wanted to kill your fiance, and it happened,
      you said that he was your fiance and not your ex, meaning you were with him when this happened, so like, didn't you kind of feel it before it happened? did he have enemies before that? did he speak bad against someone or anything, basically anything, person, politician, government, basically anyone or anything? see, that's my point, didn't you kind of feel it before it happened? there's a good chance that you even knew about it, am just saying, am not saying you were 100% responsible, but i don't believe anything in life is an accident, especially major, the more major the accident, the more the intentions, by anyone, was my point, am not being disrespectful, am just saying, sorry for your loss by the way,

  • @JR-nn4sk
    @JR-nn4sk 3 місяці тому +4

    My cousin (who was more like a brother) took his life on New Years Day this year...he would have been 50 today...just feeling so empty right now. We as a family are struggling because none of us saw any signs. If you're hurting or are in pain...PLEASE reach out! You are not alone!

  • @sirenofthefallen7230
    @sirenofthefallen7230 7 років тому +622

    Saddest music video ever made. No matter how many times I watch it I cry in the beginning part

  • @amewugahmillsbillions5737
    @amewugahmillsbillions5737 4 роки тому +1384

    what hurts the most is how pictures never change but the people in them do...

    • @tattleoflegouk3101
      @tattleoflegouk3101 4 роки тому +5

      Amewugah Mills Billions motivation

    • @PsychoBich-fq6rv
      @PsychoBich-fq6rv 4 роки тому +5

      Yes picture's can speck a thousand words to everyone but when the guy your head over heels for changes. Ya I know the feeling this song I have played a thousand times over my whole life

    • @tattleoflegouk3101
      @tattleoflegouk3101 4 роки тому +1

      Heather Kear killed it bro

    • @jaidahweaver3439
      @jaidahweaver3439 4 роки тому +1

      That's dEep

    • @emrld_wz
      @emrld_wz 4 роки тому +3

      Change isn't always bad.

  • @austinreynolds4820
    @austinreynolds4820 5 років тому +376

    What hurts the most is putting yourself out there and constantly being rejected and thinking back onto what did I do wrong? Where did I screw up? And having no one to talk to but you walls.

    • @kiamarvin82
      @kiamarvin82 5 років тому +8

      I can relate so much at this time

    • @seleneturner4502
      @seleneturner4502 5 років тому

      What up with you gril

    • @debralowery1966
      @debralowery1966 5 років тому +4

      i can relate as well because i am going through alot right now

    • @saferehman8234
      @saferehman8234 5 років тому +4

      I know , you feel like you tried your hardest but it’s not always gonna turn out right, and every time it happens again it doesn’t get any better

    • @nicholecarbonell9724
      @nicholecarbonell9724 5 років тому +3

      I seen your post and I felt the pain. It gets easier with time

  • @Unicorn_Life22
    @Unicorn_Life22 Місяць тому +3

    This song shows how losing loved ones and how it affects you. I lost my grandma 11 years ago. I was only 3, and I'm 14 now, but it still pains me while knowing that i won't ever see her again it took me 6 years to move past that but anyways i found people who helped me through it and i know that some people will try to help if they can

  • @hollybath1405
    @hollybath1405 7 років тому +1408

    This is my first time watching the video even though I've been listening to this song ever since it came out. Is it just me or do you kinda want this to be turned into a movie?

  • @jeffdoseck503
    @jeffdoseck503 2 роки тому +445

    Lost my daughter yesterday and this song brings back so much God Bless anyone/everyone who's lost a loved one ,things will get better they tell me as for me idk

    • @angelaeyth8996
      @angelaeyth8996 2 роки тому +6

      God bless everyone who has lost a LOVED One . My heart goes out to you. And you all are in my prayers. Also this song is a great song and it makes me cry too.

    • @jeffdoseck503
      @jeffdoseck503 2 роки тому +7

      @@angelaeyth8996 thank you very much your a wonderful homan beingu

    • @mysonsanangel
      @mysonsanangel 2 роки тому +7

      I am so sorry Jeff!!! I lost my son 20 years ago and I know right now it’s hard to imagine but I PROMISE you it will get easier. It never goes away but it gets easier to handle! My heart and prayers go out to you!!!!!!!!!

    • @shreyachatterjee5008
      @shreyachatterjee5008 2 роки тому +4

      I am so sorry for your loss Jeff. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. I lost my mother very recently and am still not able to deal with the grief. I cannot even fathom how you must feel. I am keeping you in my prayers. It does get better someday 🤍

    • @vallolecadalid9096
      @vallolecadalid9096 2 роки тому +2

      I’m sorry for your loss sweetheart :(

  • @ghostslayer2.048
    @ghostslayer2.048 5 років тому +1970

    Underrated....
    9 years and still listening...
    Who else?

  • @maryjackson2946
    @maryjackson2946 13 днів тому +2

    ONE OF MY FAVORITE SONGS BY RASCAL FLATTS, WHAT HURTS THE MOST, THEIR TOUR WILL BE IN ORLANDO, APRIL 4TH 🙂

  • @brandonfaison909
    @brandonfaison909 4 роки тому +320

    The mom deserves an oscar too. She was in pain because her daughter was. the body language the emotion. It seems SOOO REAL

    • @meagen1342
      @meagen1342 4 роки тому +16

      I agree. It looked/felt so real

    • @Inkaa1tarot
      @Inkaa1tarot 4 роки тому +4

      YESSS🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @MOOMOO2728
      @MOOMOO2728 4 роки тому +1

      That desperate sadness does happen, yes she does

    • @jonkatiehancock6052
      @jonkatiehancock6052 4 роки тому +3

      i pick the right mothers for my kidos and thank yall

    • @texanleons
      @texanleons 3 роки тому +1

      This has got to be the worst acting I've seen in awhile.

  • @hannahhomoky4069
    @hannahhomoky4069 9 років тому +2674

    Probably the most emotional song on the Internet...

    • @SoullessFlorcita
      @SoullessFlorcita 9 років тому +14

      +Hannah H. i just cried for so long..

    • @jaredmedina3877
      @jaredmedina3877 9 років тому +26

      Hello by Evanescence
      My immortal by Evanescence
      Lol.

    • @kathiahidalgomorales2316
      @kathiahidalgomorales2316 9 років тому +18

      +Hannah H. The best song i've ever heard. i will always hear this and just make myself sad:') but i like it so much.

    • @hannahhomoky4069
      @hannahhomoky4069 9 років тому +5

      +Kathia Hidalgo Morales same

    • @maddieraynor1164
      @maddieraynor1164 9 років тому +9

      +Hannah Lynn um every Twenty One Pilots song

  • @jessehelwig3977
    @jessehelwig3977 10 місяців тому +36

    To anyone that's hurting, just keep holding on. They may be gone, but the love you shared is still there, and it always will be. You were their world until the end. It's okay to love them for the rest of yours, even if you meet someone else. You're not alone. Remember that.

  • @BecBegonia
    @BecBegonia 3 роки тому +162

    I’m in love with this comment thread, the most loving and supportive place on UA-cam. Sending so much love to you all

  • @moniquetorres6841
    @moniquetorres6841 5 років тому +678

    Swear this has to be the saddest video😥. I just love this song. Who else is playing this song in 2019💙.

    • @danielmcgraw3201
      @danielmcgraw3201 5 років тому +4

      Monique Torres me it had a lot of meaning to me

    • @dakotachaney5093
      @dakotachaney5093 5 років тому +4

      Me I am

    • @simonolesen6915
      @simonolesen6915 5 років тому +4

      Think whiskey lullaby* is but sure close

    • @tilly510
      @tilly510 5 років тому +4

      this song will last forever ,my gosh...it's just wawwww

    • @deeznizzles6457
      @deeznizzles6457 5 років тому +2

      I personally think Fire Away by Chris Stapleton is. Who's cutting onions?

  • @lisaanderson6589
    @lisaanderson6589 11 місяців тому +133

    My fiance passed away in his sleep next to me. I woke up in the morning. I tried desperately to save him but I knew in my heart he was already gone...I miss him all the time😢

    • @emilygrace9518
      @emilygrace9518 11 місяців тому +5

      My heart aches for you

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 9 місяців тому +2

      Hallo thank u for sharing your story brave angel, Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh!! Our creators are showing the way ! Phone home today!! SOS

    • @emilystrayed8709
      @emilystrayed8709 7 місяців тому

      💜💜💜 loves

    • @memetaylor6493
      @memetaylor6493 3 місяці тому +1

      My mom had same her fiance face was on nightstand I did cpr and his chest caved never will forget sorry for ur loss

    • @kathywindz7925
      @kathywindz7925 2 місяці тому +1

      😢💔🙏

  • @BrunaSilva-01040
    @BrunaSilva-01040 9 місяців тому

    Eu creio que só temos um amor verdadeiro na vida pelo qual choramos pra não se separar ,por saudade ,pq quer perto...e quando perdemos dói muitoooo os outros q veem depois são só pra tampar o buraco ...No meu caso eu só amei uma vez, nunca mais encontrei esse amor em ninguém...

  • @davidsilva1359
    @davidsilva1359 3 роки тому +353

    The chorus gets me. I lost my son 4 days before his due date. I remember us having to do a full tern delivery and just praying I'd hear crying when he came out. I know he didnt intend for this song to be about a lost child, but almost every word hits home.

    • @chiannihopkins718
      @chiannihopkins718 3 роки тому +17

      Music is sometimes how we perceive it. Sorry for your loss. I pray for your strength

    • @codielswick6021
      @codielswick6021 2 роки тому +8

      I was thinking the same thing I had 4 misscargue and my frist one I was wishing he would cry or move. So I know what you going thorw

    • @zeus-mt7wx
      @zeus-mt7wx 2 роки тому +5

      I have no words.
      Just tears.
      Please be strong your wifey needs tons of love.
      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @dianadirham5350
      @dianadirham5350 2 роки тому +4

      such horrible grief. love and healing to you and yours

    • @Rasilon
      @Rasilon 2 роки тому +4

      There is a song about miscarriage and it always hits home maybe it might for you too maybe even more so than this song

  • @animenmovies1251
    @animenmovies1251 Рік тому +150

    My mother was 8 months pregnant when my father passed away. He passed away on 24th June and I was born on 24th July. I can't imagine the pain my mother must have gone through but she still always smiled at me. God knows how much pain she was hiding behind that smile. Why is life so hard.

    • @cindyfitzgerald4500
      @cindyfitzgerald4500 11 місяців тому +5

      I can definitely understand what you said. My brother was only 3 months old when my dad died and my sisters and I weren’t much older. It’s been a hard life without our dad

    • @artofkai
      @artofkai 10 місяців тому

      What type of question is that tf​@@DuGul-rk6yf

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 9 місяців тому +1

      Hallo Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh! Our creators are showing the way for all for 1! Phone home today!! SOS

  • @t.j.r161
    @t.j.r161 8 років тому +173

    still makes me think of my wife and makes me cry everytime! cass; you happen to see this i love you and our kids more than life itself! im sorry id do or give anything!!! to have you back in my world!!! :'(:'(

    • @Andaxon
      @Andaxon 8 років тому +3

      Sorry for your loss. Keep your chin up! i promise it will get better :) God bless you.

    • @t.j.r161
      @t.j.r161 8 років тому

      Thank you for the encouragement my friend ya hardest part is keeping busy in this small ass town i live in and then my idealology of what i thought my family would be watchin my kids have to go thru the same pain i did as a youngin havin mom n dad be apart n such...i hate it i never in a 10000 yrs wanted them to go thru this

    • @Andaxon
      @Andaxon 8 років тому

      Anytime mate! Just know she is looking down at you and is smiling. Knowing your taking care of her kids! :) Have a good one friend :)

    • @t.j.r161
      @t.j.r161 8 років тому +5

      she didnt pass my friend she left me like isnt in a relationship with me anymore....sorry for the confusion....

    • @petemartinez2340
      @petemartinez2340 8 років тому +3

      it will get better i promise. my wife left after 10 years. 3 kids we were young had to grow up fast. im 30 now.i tried everything as well diddent leave no stone unturned. i realized i need to move on and be happy. got a great women now. i get my kiddies every weekends. . i pick them up saterday 10am mom picks them back up sunday 7pm.

  • @sashamonique3922
    @sashamonique3922 8 місяців тому +12

    3:01 “It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you ever where I go… but I’m doing it. It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m ALONE…” That line gives me chills so bad. My heart drops EVERYTIME I hear it! Everytime 💔

  • @devynbaumbrough5471
    @devynbaumbrough5471 2 роки тому +382

    My grandfather just passed a few hours ago in front of me , he was my world , mentor, role model, everything even when I didn't have a father in my life he was it. This is the song that tells everything of how I feel. Love Rascal Flatts. Great song even years later

    • @angelclare8791
      @angelclare8791 2 роки тому +5

      I send you hugs dearest. My grandfather was the same for me. He passed on 29th May,2022. I haven't got the energy to cry or atleast express how I feel. I'm sending you all the love and strength you need. May God manifest comfort and strength for you and your family

    • @lisamalone7839
      @lisamalone7839 2 роки тому +4

      Devin...I just saw this comment and wondered how you are now. I lost my mother, sister and father in a 3 year period. I was contacted by someone I had only been an acquaintance with in high school...he told me to grieve in whatever way helped the most and not to worry about how other's felt I was doing with the process. I wanted to pass that along to you in the hopes that it will help you. You have my thoughts and prayers. And yes, this is a beautiful song.

    • @reneejones7900
      @reneejones7900 2 роки тому +2

      To everyone who lost a loved one 7im7 so sorry 😔

    • @rachll8724
      @rachll8724 2 роки тому +2

      My grandad died 21st March 2022 we was really close did everything together etc
      I watched him die it was so heartbreaking can’t get the image out my head it kills me inside love you grandad so much and miss you you was my rock 😢😢💔💔💔💔

    • @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805
      @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805 2 роки тому +2

      So sorry for your loss... nothing can touch this pain... but it does get easier...🙏🙏🙏

  • @djcalhoun1027
    @djcalhoun1027 2 роки тому +287

    This song brings me to tears....rip my son and everyone that has lost someone so close

    • @DanielTorres-zt8gn
      @DanielTorres-zt8gn 2 роки тому +3

      Sorry for ur loss 🙏

    • @marvawynn4252
      @marvawynn4252 Рік тому +2

      Same here... I lost two loved ones within a few months of each other last year. The anguish is stifling.

    • @RafaelLopez-gu1gh
      @RafaelLopez-gu1gh Рік тому

      I'm sorry for

    • @bamgboseshukurat8087
      @bamgboseshukurat8087 Рік тому

      Rest in Peace,Mum and my only sibling (brother),I missed both of you.

    • @ellad9513
      @ellad9513 Рік тому

      I'm sorry for ur loss.. Sending u a big hug !!

  • @brandy31d
    @brandy31d 3 роки тому +356

    10 years later still one the best songs released out there. Periodt.

    • @JudeProulx
      @JudeProulx 3 роки тому +2

      Hello friend, how're you doing? ??

  • @margiemarchei4368
    @margiemarchei4368 2 дні тому

    I miss you my baby Jimmy! 36 years and this song brings me to my knees still. I'll always love you till the day we are united again!

  • @timgamin8846
    @timgamin8846 6 років тому +353

    This song was one of many played at my fiancees funeral. God knows how much i miss and still love you. 9 months still feels like a few hours, Wish i could have taken your place Babe. You still are my hero and my strength. Thank you for all the love and memory's. You are always in my heart and thoughts. 8-10-1987 1-6-2018 (F*** Cancer)

    • @sandracrane8042
      @sandracrane8042 6 років тому

      My condolences sweet young lady!😢

    • @belindabutcher4565
      @belindabutcher4565 6 років тому +1

      i am soooo so sorry for your loss...May you find peace and love in your memories....bless you...

    • @michaelreichold5782
      @michaelreichold5782 6 років тому +1

      Never give up, love for him

    • @michaelreichold5782
      @michaelreichold5782 6 років тому +2

      Honor him by living

    • @michaelreichold5782
      @michaelreichold5782 6 років тому +3

      Listen to a song by Josh groban called to where you are, played it at my daughters funeral

  • @oliviamiller5673
    @oliviamiller5673 6 років тому +364

    Explains everything when your losing your best friend, the love of your life, your everything.

  • @mae388
    @mae388 4 роки тому +211

    This girls acting is on another level - watching this when I was a kid, who's never experienced this type of loss, it sure felt like I did after hearing her in the beginning

    • @MOOMOO2728
      @MOOMOO2728 4 роки тому +4

      That’s exactly like it was

    • @texanleons
      @texanleons 3 роки тому +1

      This has got to be the worst acting I've seen in awhile.

    • @tehreemraza123
      @tehreemraza123 3 роки тому +5

      @@texanleons I- you sure? I thought it was pretty good. 10 years ago and still now.

    • @autumnmciver8050
      @autumnmciver8050 3 роки тому +2

      This is the first time I ever understood pain

  • @allymkbay
    @allymkbay 3 місяці тому +1

    I used to listen to this in my early twenties thinking “wow such a good song” now that I’m almost 40, it hits different with all the life experiences and heartache in between, this song hits different.

  • @mariselamejia2427
    @mariselamejia2427 3 роки тому +284

    "Still hard getting up getting dressed, living with this regret." This line just gets to me

    • @mrdude88
      @mrdude88 3 роки тому +3

      Every fucking Monday.

    • @efour565
      @efour565 3 роки тому +2

      @@mrdude88 FACTS, Monday’s suck

    • @melissagoode151
      @melissagoode151 3 роки тому +7

      Told my sister I hated her, two days later she died in an accident. Its been 12 years, I was just a 16 year old kid but I still live with that regret. This line hits hard.

    • @kellyann1213
      @kellyann1213 3 роки тому +1

      @@efour565 😭😭😭🤣🤣

    • @rosemaryschroeder3642
      @rosemaryschroeder3642 2 роки тому +4

      Five years later I'm still grieving over the guy that ended our relationship even though he doesn't deserve it but you can't help who you love even to this day I have days where I just don't have the energy to do anything I just get up and get dressed and go through the motions of the day and I think some of that depression stems from to this day still somewhat grieving over the love of my life walking out on me

  • @michellerichardson5757
    @michellerichardson5757 3 роки тому +334

    This video still rips a hole through my heart. Their best song.Ever.

  • @kerianwhite9532
    @kerianwhite9532 5 років тому +91

    The one part of this video that always touches me is that fact that she faught and yelled at her dad and then found comfort right there in his embrace as well.

    • @lancekilkenny721
      @lancekilkenny721 5 років тому +5

      As a dad with a daughter I can tell you that we love you girls through it

    • @FishRooster31193
      @FishRooster31193 7 місяців тому +1

      I mean props to him, even if we can't tell if he acknowledges being at fault for indirectly causing her daughter's boyfriend's death, he took the beating. I know way too many parents woulda been like "oh you brought this on yourself" or "I did nothing wrong" but the fact that the dad in the video didn't say or do anything like that, at least he respected that she was grieving and needed to let it out. idk if you could hear but when she was demanding he say he hate him and he hugs her, you can kind of hear the dad say something tearfully (maybe 'sorry'?)
      And it's hinted in the music video that she and her dad aren't close, when the boyfriend asks "what's wrong? is it your dad?" meaning they have a rocky relationship for the boyfriend to guess that. imagine having a not-so-close relationship with your kid then you go and [accidentally] kill their lover, I mean the guilt, and the dread at the possibility that the relationship will never be mended? He better help her take care of that child now... (I mean yes it's not ideal for her to have a child while still in school but had the dad not killed the boyfriend, he would be taking care of the baby)

    • @aregolas
      @aregolas 4 місяці тому

      @@FishRooster31193 I rewatched a few times, the father didn't kill the boyfriend in any sense of the word. Boyfriend got in a wreck. Daughter's taking out her grief on her dad who was not happy that she was pregnant which is likely what she was fighting with him over. He looks sad/remorseful because he knows she is going to have a hard life. You just acted like the father was at fault cause of the intro which throughout the video isn't shown to be the case. Facts shown, she fights with him verbally(Most likely a sign she and him have different views on a subject), her boyfriend died by car wreck, father is remorseful (Either he said something in anger when he found out a boy got his little girl pregnant or feels remorse that something he said both ruined her last moments with her boyfriend and his relationship with her because she blames him for an accident he wasn't involved in.). Nothing in the video shows him having been involved in the death, everything shows recklessness on someone else's part(another driver or the boyfriend).

  • @thinkaboutit27
    @thinkaboutit27 6 місяців тому +9

    A lot of comments about the girl's acting, but I think the acting from the mom, the dad, the girl sitting behind the main actress, were all great. You can sense the mom's pain that she could not help her daughter, the dad who was stunned, but couldn't help his little girl because she blames him for dying, and the classmate sitting behind the girl who looks over to the empty seat as well. Then trying to comfort her before she leaves class. All great and should be recognized.

    • @msslimkongg3110
      @msslimkongg3110 4 місяці тому

      ​@28nandawho is she ? I saw 3 different names on Google

  • @michellefurness454
    @michellefurness454 3 роки тому +102

    I lost my husband to cancer when he was 25. This video guts me. A little to close to home. A piece of advice, make sure you express your love daily to those you love because you never know how long you will have them here on earth.

    • @declankent5074
      @declankent5074 3 роки тому +2

      Hello Michelle. Your comments are very interesting to view. Hope you're good? I'm so sorry about your loss

    • @radmangal6837
      @radmangal6837 2 роки тому +1

      I feel you. Llost y beloved 3 years ago. Still coping .... but the love never ens or stops... it goes on forerever... love u qdp... tilll we met again..can.'t wait.... even when u're here in spiriit..and give me signs 4 being ... thank u 4 that.. makes me love u even more... percey💞

    • @horethchinguyen1726
      @horethchinguyen1726 Рік тому

      Hi Michelle, how are you doing?

  • @michellenevapaz3051
    @michellenevapaz3051 4 роки тому +440

    9 years later and this still makes me cry like a little beyotch

  • @MGLuv22409
    @MGLuv22409 3 роки тому +317

    What an arrangement. The music, the lyrics...the emotion. This song still gets me every single time. 😭

    • @ab-constant9564
      @ab-constant9564 2 роки тому +1

      My dad died about 2 months ago, i miss him everyday. He loved rascal flats, and now i honor him by listening to him.

    • @w2464
      @w2464 2 роки тому +2

      What happens when you realize that relationship is just done?
      After so long it still messes with you., but I'm sure things will get better for you hopefully..

    • @AzzKicker-bz1cb
      @AzzKicker-bz1cb 2 роки тому

      @@w2464
      I’m in one now!!!
      It’s done and has been for a while, I just can’t pull that trigger and end it!
      Maybe that’s why I live by myself!
      No one to yell at, fight with, or cry over!!!

    • @gail7587
      @gail7587 2 роки тому

      I love this song.

    • @kimsmith6608
      @kimsmith6608 2 роки тому

      @@AzzKicker-bz1cb you know it's me

  • @VeronicaDiosdado-r6w
    @VeronicaDiosdado-r6w Місяць тому +4

    This was my wife's song and I lost her last year. Nothing the same without her. So lost without her

    • @catt3911
      @catt3911 21 день тому

      I’m so sorry❤

  • @Mvskoke_NDN
    @Mvskoke_NDN 4 роки тому +332

    R.I.P. Troy❤️ 20 years of marriage wasn’t enough.💔 I love and miss you so very much. 🙏🏽🕊

    • @TharakaC
      @TharakaC 4 роки тому +7

      So true love still exists,God bless you and the soul of ur loved one maam 🙏😊

    • @jessycajohnson9924
      @jessycajohnson9924 4 роки тому +1

      🙏🙏🙏🙏💖

    • @msskiss4267
      @msskiss4267 4 роки тому +1

      I'm So Sorry Sending Big Hugs 🤗

    • @bluhunnid6388
      @bluhunnid6388 4 роки тому +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @teefoo007
      @teefoo007 4 роки тому +4

      I'm sure he is waiting for you in heaven to love you eternally. One day you will be united when it's time for you to meet him.

  • @LadyEnigma18
    @LadyEnigma18 Рік тому +241

    Listening to this after so many years, and still gets me emotional - they don't make songs like this anymore 😢 the story, the lyrics, the music ❤️❤️❤️

    • @georgemelvin7687
      @georgemelvin7687 Рік тому

      Smiles, hi there 🌺

    • @amandalidey329
      @amandalidey329 Рік тому +1

      Same. This video/song gets me every time. ❤. It is a really pretty song.

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 9 місяців тому

      Hallo Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh!! Yes its true! Our creators are showing the way for all for 1! Phone home today!! SOS

  • @garretttanner7436
    @garretttanner7436 8 років тому +305

    R.I.P. Jordan not only my best friend/my drummer in my band/ my little brother I swear i've missed you every day these past 10 months I wish aids was never a thing

    • @alexr.8025
      @alexr.8025 8 років тому +4

      I'm so sorry for your loss

    • @garretttanner7436
      @garretttanner7436 8 років тому +2

      Emily Pigman thanks emily

    • @alexr.8025
      @alexr.8025 8 років тому +3

      +Garrett Tanner of course :) i understand how hard it is to lose someone you love

    • @garretttanner7436
      @garretttanner7436 8 років тому +3

      It really is it;s one of the hardest thing i've had to deal with

    • @alexr.8025
      @alexr.8025 8 років тому +2

      +Garrett Tanner I know. Just remember to Stay Strong and you can over come anything😉❤️

  • @MrAnderson4569
    @MrAnderson4569 2 місяці тому +2

    This one cuts deep in quite a few stories for me. Being a wise guy, and being rejected only to be reminded you were right hurts so much when you see they suffer for their ignorance as you suffer for their ignorance too. Their pride became their downfall, and they maintain their unity to spite me, though I am their best friend in the best way I chose.

  • @cultatz
    @cultatz 3 роки тому +491

    This song hits different when you miss someone you'll never get to hear their voice again💔💯🙌

  • @trevwright93
    @trevwright93 9 років тому +436

    a few days ago was the anniversary of my best friends death. he committed suicide 2 years ago. maybe I was torturing myself watching this video but I needed to remember what it was like to cry. I haven't cried since the night I found out he died. this video had me crying 2 years worth of tears. he may have hated country music, but this song is the perfect song for how badly I miss him. as much as crying sucks, I'm glad this video exists.

    • @TXNICK96
      @TXNICK96 9 років тому +3

      My condolences for your loss

    • @breenewberry1958
      @breenewberry1958 9 років тому +4

      so sorry for loss people hear about this everywhere but when a friend really dies it's so hard so I'm really sorry for your loss and everyone else's mine got hit in the head with a baseball

    • @bethy4206
      @bethy4206 9 років тому +11

      +Trevor Wright
      I feel your pain. My dad died almost 7 months ago now from suicide. I know how painful it is and how hard it is to be able to feel something. This song has me in tears every time I listen too it. I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @akiawilliams4878
      @akiawilliams4878 9 років тому +2

      Yea sometimes it's okae to just let it all out

    • @pattiestraw6284
      @pattiestraw6284 9 років тому +2

      I'm sorry my friend died yesterday on my birthday

  • @Mike619impossible
    @Mike619impossible 6 років тому +262

    What's hurts the most is that you said you'd never leave...

  • @jaygun9516
    @jaygun9516 Місяць тому +4

    Her acting was raw!

  • @MistressThaIcon
    @MistressThaIcon Рік тому +132

    SOMEONE GIVE THAT GIRL AN OSCAR!!!!!👏👏👏👏🙌🙌 I WAS CRYIN IN THE FIRST 25 SECONDS

    • @brandigervais3075
      @brandigervais3075 11 місяців тому +2

      I cry my eyes out everything before the singing even starts 😢😢

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 9 місяців тому +1

      Hallo Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh!! Yes its true! Our creators are showing the way for all for 1! Phone home today!! SOS

  • @qamar8655
    @qamar8655 9 років тому +86

    i watched this 8568856874509883 times and still cry every time i watch it

    • @giovannycadet7437
      @giovannycadet7437 8 років тому +1

      +Im Zerf Replay button have you heard of it?

    • @matthewtaylor7537
      @matthewtaylor7537 8 років тому +1

      +Koala Gamer really? Cause he would have to had listened to it for 88,278,058,460 years lol

    • @giovannycadet7437
      @giovannycadet7437 8 років тому

      Matthew Taylor Are you dumb? He is Jesus DUUUUH!

    • @albiedam3312
      @albiedam3312 8 років тому +2

      +YulYul Addict what happens at the beginning??

    • @miekaandkadoe7042
      @miekaandkadoe7042 8 років тому +1

      you and me both 😢

  • @billscott85
    @billscott85 8 років тому +248

    this song reminds me of my middle school girlfriend who was killed in a plane crash back in 2009. I still think about her to this day.

  • @missjessicajune
    @missjessicajune 3 місяці тому +4

    To my fiance Jason, our kiddo has did it - you'd be so proud he graduated a year early than his class - and is in college at 17 ! We love you JayDaddy ❤😢😢 RIP I'll always love you!

    • @conniehardel117
      @conniehardel117 19 днів тому

      My fince Kylie drove and the fell out of her car

  • @akio_kuro
    @akio_kuro 3 роки тому +188

    I lost my father February 18 2021 from covid-19. March 7 was supposed to be his 49th birthday. I still come downstairs expecting him to be watching tv on the couch and automatically wait at the window for his car to park. I miss you Daddy. I wasn't the best daughter to you and I'm sorry. Te extraño y te quiero tanto. Descansa en paz Papí.

    • @greatexpectations6577
      @greatexpectations6577 3 роки тому +6

      Sorry to hear your loss. I pray that you learn to forgive your self in time. Hold on the happy memories.

    • @akio_kuro
      @akio_kuro 3 роки тому +4

      @@greatexpectations6577 thank you for your kind words

    • @hannahlane6283
      @hannahlane6283 3 роки тому +1

      L.p. p
      K9m k

    • @hannahlane6283
      @hannahlane6283 3 роки тому

      @@akio_kuro hey

    • @SenorbryanA
      @SenorbryanA 3 роки тому +1

      Sorry love.

  • @ThatsWhatSethSaid
    @ThatsWhatSethSaid 8 років тому +98

    I think of my grandpa. Passed away last week from lung cancer. I feel so bad because I didn't go see him like I should have because I was scared of losing him. Now that he's gone I wish I went to see him.

    • @dabmaster7523
      @dabmaster7523 8 років тому +3

      Watch out Oskar Haggstrom that sing this song to his mother that got cancer😢❤️

    • @mjtriola5638
      @mjtriola5638 8 років тому +4

      "If Heaven Wasn't So Far Away" - Justin Moore

    • @destinybarnes4189
      @destinybarnes4189 8 років тому +2

      i feel sorry

    • @Manda8789
      @Manda8789 8 років тому +3

      ThatsWhatSethSaid I know how you feel I didn't get to say bye to my grandfather and when he died this was the first song that I listened to

    • @christianwheelis1982
      @christianwheelis1982 7 років тому +7

      my papa past away 2 days ago I wish I could of told him how much I loved him

  • @katcrafter7
    @katcrafter7 4 роки тому +106

    Lost my husband in nov. 2019. Matthew our kids and I miss you so bad it hurts. We need you still. The pain will never go away or get better. It’s hurts more seeing our kids miss you and having to be without a dad that was sooo amazing and loving! I we love you daddy.

  • @SamSchuring
    @SamSchuring 3 місяці тому +4

    I think this is one of Rascal Flatts most important songs as it is like one of their #1’s.

  • @rcglegend3361
    @rcglegend3361 3 роки тому +213

    Man I miss my mom so much everyday. She passed away when I was 14 and she would always listen to this song it was one of her favorite songs to listen to. This brings me so many memories and always brings tears to my eyes.

  • @lisamorris599
    @lisamorris599 Рік тому +133

    This song is telling us all not to wait on what we feel, it could be too late and that’s just too hard to even think about

  • @olgapagan4773
    @olgapagan4773 5 років тому +535

    I remember my parents pulling me away and holding me back while I watched him walk away and get into his car and drive away for the last time. They didn’t understand the love was real. For days, weeks, and months, and years I always looked to the side on my way to school in hopes he would pull up next to me and offer me a ride like he did the first time we met. I sometimes even smelled his cologne in the air. And even heard his car. But as I looked it was just another memory of the boy I loved. Years have gone by and I heard he passed away in a car accident, some say suicide. But I still get a sniff of his cologne. Still listen to our favorite song and sometimes hear his voice. And it’s been over 20 years. Love is the force that makes life worth living. ❤️💔

    • @robfromtherich1922
      @robfromtherich1922 5 років тому +9

      I feel awful for you finding out he has passed away.
      I still see my one true love once in a very long while and the way she hugs me even with her husband able to see makes me realize she still loves me and has me walking on clouds long after saying bye to her.
      Fate dealt us cruel cards.

    • @nupuruils
      @nupuruils 5 років тому +8

      I'm so sorry, Olga. Your comment broke my heart. I often wish that nothing in life, (except death, of course) should separate lovers. I can really relate to smelling their scent in the air. The boy I loved walked away from me and the first thing I used to notice when I'd come back alone from outing, was how the air around me felt changed.
      I relate to this in your comment. I pray your heart and soul heals.

    • @mattsmith-bl2bg
      @mattsmith-bl2bg 5 років тому

      His loss.

    • @chasecates4553
      @chasecates4553 4 роки тому +6

      Yes love is one of the strongest things in life. Lost my little brother when I was 5 I'm 16 now I miss him everyday

    • @andrewkershaw3168
      @andrewkershaw3168 4 роки тому +1

      I feel awful sorry for ur loss this song is literally all you

  • @katherinehansfordarce5116
    @katherinehansfordarce5116 27 днів тому

    What hurts is when you feel like you’ve known someone on a deep, spiritual level for lifetimes, but you can no longer be with them because they’re an alcoholic and haven’t healed. It hurts.

  • @trevorhall8549
    @trevorhall8549 3 роки тому +116

    I’m 46 years old and just recently discovered this song. Lost my wife about 2 years ago … this reminds me of our high school days in a weird way.

    • @moon2desire
      @moon2desire 2 роки тому +3

      Death happens, it's the living that makes it important. I'm very happy to hear that you had many years with your wife before her death. I hope I'm not coming off as inconsiderate, Just been given my own 'time line' and just trying to work things out. I'm glad you got the time you had with your wife. Life. Time. It's so relevant and under-appreciated.

  • @leroybuttone7938
    @leroybuttone7938 6 років тому +199

    Anybody think this girl deserves a golden globe or an Emmy for her performance?

    • @hendryhalman4523
      @hendryhalman4523 5 років тому +3

      LeRoy Buttone and Oscar

    • @Bfolks84
      @Bfolks84 5 років тому

      halman darsia she was great!! But you can’t get oscars for music videos... only feature films.

    • @twist58
      @twist58 5 років тому +1

      Emmy, probably.

    • @Timbad316
      @Timbad316 5 років тому

      I heard she had the best scream ever

    • @bettyquinto4793
      @bettyquinto4793 3 роки тому

      @AMBER POND I don't even know who this is.

  • @ronnievolovnik3340
    @ronnievolovnik3340 4 роки тому +72

    Lost my wife to cancer 9 years ago.Still hurts as if it happened yesterday.These songs heal.It allows us to remember that special person even though it hurts.Its almost like them visiting.Miss you Teresa.

    • @mckaylakline1915
      @mckaylakline1915 4 роки тому

      God bless you 🙏

    • @karaavery1599
      @karaavery1599 4 роки тому +2

      My name is brandyn and i almost died from bactieriel meningitis earlier on this year and my mom kara said she would not of been able to live without me but she knew i was a fighter and even though she was crying almost the entire time that she didnt know if i was going to make it or not she was sure and so was i we were sure that i could beat it and i did barely i was one of the very few that beat it whithout almost no side problems and she was so happy when they said that i would make it that she said she still couldnt stop crying and i dont blame her if it was the other way around i probably would not have been able to stop crying

    • @horethchinguyen1726
      @horethchinguyen1726 Рік тому

      Hi Ronnie, how are you doing today

  • @darcest_light
    @darcest_light 27 днів тому

    My dad died two days ago and though this song is about a lover I played it on the way back from the hospital...

  • @alexsteinberg8341
    @alexsteinberg8341 7 років тому +82

    This is by far one of the best music videos made in a long time, doesn't matter who you, you get attached to this song.