My Gotcha Day (Adoption Travel Vlog 2001) | Scarlett 福茵

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  • Опубліковано 23 тра 2024
  • I was finally able to get my hands on the footage from my gotcha day! (tech issues).
    This video was taken back in 2001 and contains clips from baby showers before my parents flew to China, my parents touring China, and my parents and I meeting for the first time. There is also some footage of us walking around China and some of us at home in the US.
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    Time Stamps:
    00:00 - Intro
    00:09 - Baby Shower Speeches
    04:01 - Touring Tiananmen Square and the Forbidden City
    09:24 - My Parents Walking on The Great Wall
    12:34 - Some Little Street Shops
    13:32 - Walking into the Building to Get Scarlett
    14:03 - Yangjiang (阳江市) Kids are About to Meet Their Parents (Including Me!)
    16:10 - I Finally Meet My Parents!
    20:36 - At the Hotel
    22:19 - Taking a Walk
    26:15 - Buddhist Temple
    31:03 - Playing with Mom
    32:12 - Playing on the Couch
    38:08 - Home in the US
    40:27 - Learning to Give Kisses
    43:30 - Playing in a Chair
    45:48 - A Few Bonus Photos
    Follow me on Tiktok @scarlettfuyin

КОМЕНТАРІ • 73

  • @swedens1151
    @swedens1151 6 місяців тому +5

    Amoreeeeee... ❤❤❤❤❤cuore bello... Sei bellissima... Tutti voi lo siete... Adottare è sempre stato il mio sogno... Purtroppo non si avvererà mai. Ma mi fa tanto bene guardare resti video... Grazie ❤

  • @nanyanguo1
    @nanyanguo1 6 місяців тому +5

    Glad to see you have a good happy story to tell us about your adoption

  • @user-ef1nk4zo2c
    @user-ef1nk4zo2c 16 днів тому +3

    My heart goes out to the little ones they are thrust into the arms of total strangers who don’t even speak their language and all you can hear are people more concerned about taking bloody photos of babies in distress wake up guys just imagine how terrifying it must be for them they are traumatised bless them

  • @galinaantoshkina1498
    @galinaantoshkina1498 6 місяців тому +8

    Какой стресс для детей передача приёмным родителям, бедная малышка так плакала, аж до всхлипывания, всё чужое, и лица, и язык, мне очень жалко в такой момент детишек, пусть у них всё будет хорошо.😢👶❤️👶

  • @ilsavankuren6511
    @ilsavankuren6511 2 місяці тому +1

    Beautiful little one, nice to see her bonding with mom and dad after initial trauma.

  • @WonderGirl99
    @WonderGirl99 2 місяці тому

    Oh this is so so so precious. You've been blessed! ❤❤

  • @madamjaynie87
    @madamjaynie87 2 місяці тому +1

    You are so darling. A beautiful baby and your parents love you so much! Beautiful mommy and handsome daddy! Lucky girl❤

  • @CWC990
    @CWC990 6 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for sharing this video

  • @coleengoodell7523
    @coleengoodell7523 20 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing this Scarlett. So glad to see you're all grown up now and pursuing your passions. You did a great job putting this together. Just love the little moccasins your parents had for you. They are the best things for babies and toddlers to wear for their growing and developing feet. So cute and so very sweet. May God continue to bless your journey through this life.

  • @vick1209
    @vick1209 7 днів тому +1

    This got me sooooooo mad. When they went to get the baby they both were so worried about taking pictures and videos while the baby was crying. They didn’t even try to comfort her at all. Poor little baby is living her home that she knows and these 2 people are not helping her at all.

  • @user-ef1nk4zo2c
    @user-ef1nk4zo2c 13 днів тому

    This little one has already become a daddy’s girl

  • @elliesouza717
    @elliesouza717 5 місяців тому

    One of our daughter's was adopted from China. This brings back many memories. She's now in grad school, happy and healthy. I hope you're daughter is doing well, too

  • @danamackay5872
    @danamackay5872 18 днів тому

    This will be a Beautiful story is scary for the babies stranger’s noisy but she’s so brave and what lovely parents you have

  • @eprohoda
    @eprohoda 6 місяців тому +6

    how are things?,love it!insane ~have a nice day!

  • @clarabattle1995
    @clarabattle1995 6 місяців тому +4

    Scarlett!!!!

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 6 місяців тому +4

    Cute little girl

  • @caronnest4939
    @caronnest4939 6 днів тому

    Absolutely right

  • @mapazrasilloprieto3519
    @mapazrasilloprieto3519 5 місяців тому +4

    Es terrible cómo hacen las entregas: tanta gente, tanto ruido...todo el mundo sacando fotos. Debería hacerse en un entorno más respetuoso con los niños, que son pequeños pero también se asustan y sufren.
    En los orfelinatos de Etiopía las organizan mejor, respetando las necesidades de los niños.

  • @donnadee1966
    @donnadee1966 7 днів тому

    Adorable little angel!!! That first day must have been so emotional for all of you... It was great to see those first smiles.

  • @mayrafernandez7303
    @mayrafernandez7303 27 днів тому

    Thank you. That same year, I adopted a boy, 2, and his four older siblings. What a journey!How are you, dear Scarlet?

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 9 днів тому

    Scarlett, you were definitely big when you were a baby. You were crying your head off when your mom grabbed you same thing with your dad crying your head off to your mom and dad. It means you were crying a lot Scarlett.

  • @marycaruso3846
    @marycaruso3846 5 місяців тому +1

    I have two Grandson’s adopted from Korea.♥️🇨🇦♥️

  • @holaqasewhat3383
    @holaqasewhat3383 Місяць тому +2

    Porque adoptar en Asia, habiendo tantos niños en su país de origen 😢

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 8 днів тому

    Scarlett, when you were baby, your mom called you pumpkin you stop crying and then you got used to your parents at the hotel but then cried for a little longer and it was on your mom and then your mom was able to calm me down. She said hi Scarlett hi pumpkin.

  • @mariateresastella2019
    @mariateresastella2019 6 місяців тому +3

    Poveri bambini, consegnati ad estranei in un gran chiasso, nessuna attenzione. per la loro sensibilità

  • @melanieditzel4291
    @melanieditzel4291 5 місяців тому +2

    This should take place in quiet, uncrowded,peaceful space. Too much bedlam!

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  5 місяців тому +1

      Agreed. Would have been a lot less stressful for all the babies and the parents.
      From what I’ve seen in more recent China gotcha day videos, I think they do actually put the parents in separate rooms so they can bond with their child without having to deal with other families trying to do the same.

  • @jaynepeach4689
    @jaynepeach4689 6 місяців тому +1

    22 years ago

  • @cinziacapuzzi5228
    @cinziacapuzzi5228 6 місяців тому +2

    Più che genitori
    Turisti

  • @marycaruso3846
    @marycaruso3846 5 місяців тому +1

    I wish they would do an update because she would be in her 20’s.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  5 місяців тому +4

      I’m 23 now (24 in April😱).
      I’m so happy that you’re interested in my adoption journey. I started this channel at the beginning of the month, so I don’t have a whole lot of videos yet on what I’m currently doing. I’m working out a filming style and flow that I’m comfortable with.

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 9 днів тому

    Scarlett did you ever ask your mom to say a bad word when you’re younger? Did you ever ask her to say the F word or anything like that?

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  8 днів тому

      Not that I can remember. I didn’t like cursing because it felt bad. She’s a little surprised whenever she hears me say a bad word now.

  • @y.lelivelt2619
    @y.lelivelt2619 9 днів тому

    Just one thing. I hope you are a happy girl nowadays.

  • @brie3679
    @brie3679 24 дні тому

    Man, I feel like the first time meeting between the baby and the mother is so bittersweet. I’m sure mom knew..this might not be as picturesque as some would hope. But she seemed to go immediately into maternal confronting mode, and that was beautiful to see.

  • @bonniebeams504
    @bonniebeams504 5 місяців тому +12

    My goodness, give her a bottle or a toy, Something. Dont just sit there and laugh at her screaming.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  5 місяців тому +7

      Chances are that those things wouldn’t have worked anyway. My mom actually tried giving me a toy at some point, but it made me cry harder. All of the commotion and new faces were stressing me out.
      In the video, I kind of seem to start crying whenever I see my mom. I think that my mom’s curly blond hair freaked me out because I had always been surrounded by people with straight black hair up until that point.

    • @divaitaliana143
      @divaitaliana143 5 місяців тому +1

      @@ScarlettFuyinaww this was you huni? How are u doing now?

    • @divaitaliana143
      @divaitaliana143 5 місяців тому +1

      Also I was going by the video I missed that it was 2001 lol although u could totally tell HAAH.

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  5 місяців тому +4

      Yup. Doing great now👍

    • @user-ju2mt1kn1m
      @user-ju2mt1kn1m 5 місяців тому +1

      เหตุใดไม่ปล่อยให้เธออยู่ตรงนั้นมีชีวิตในที่ของเธอหากเธอปฏิเสธ

  • @ellaalbarracin233
    @ellaalbarracin233 8 днів тому

    Scarlett, you kept crying on your mom when she got you you did the same thing with your dad you thought they were stealing you but no, there’s your parents. It was your mom not a stranger. It’s just your mom Scarlett.

  • @genejuarez6731
    @genejuarez6731 2 місяці тому

    Ce sont les parents eux mêmes qui remettent les enfants ?? ..

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  2 місяці тому

      No. I think it would have been people from the social welfare institute or something.
      It’s highly likely that all of the babies being adopted here were abandoned due to Chinas one child policy.

    • @runpuxie745
      @runpuxie745 Місяць тому

      ​@@ScarlettFuyin是的那是个错误的政策造成了很多悲剧,中国政府已经开始后悔了并且吃到苦果,现在中国人口已经负增长男女比例失调

  • @mariateresastella2019
    @mariateresastella2019 6 місяців тому

    Quanti mesi avevano i bambini ? Sembra che ne avevano 5/7

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  6 місяців тому

      We were all probably around 10-12 months old.

  • @tess5300
    @tess5300 5 місяців тому

    En fin ... Dios le da pan a quién no tiene dientes.

  • @irmgardjakobs2769
    @irmgardjakobs2769 17 днів тому

    Fürchterlich! Babymarkt! Die armen Kinder😢

  • @VintageRose515
    @VintageRose515 5 місяців тому

    Possible Downe Syndrome??

    • @ScarlettFuyin
      @ScarlettFuyin  5 місяців тому

      No physical or mental disabilities.
      My parents did think I was going to have a clubbed foot or something because my leg was in a weird position in my referral photo, but I didn’t.

    • @brie3679
      @brie3679 24 дні тому

      While this baby is now… quite grown up and doesn’t have downs, lol, there’s no indication of downs here, and I’m curious why you would think that? No facial indicators. And her behaviors were very typical of that of other adoptees. It’s a traumatic experience for babies. They’re often growing up in..not the most nurturing environments before going home to their families. If anything, the behavioral displays we see in this video just show the effects of growing in an orphanage setting. In fact, you very quickly see her act like a typical baby after even just what seems like a few days with her mom and dad. One on one parental nurturing is extremely important to babies.

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 6 місяців тому +4

    You two are irritating her with for forcing the kissing from her

    • @elliesouza717
      @elliesouza717 5 місяців тому

      Smh🙄. This is years ago. Why be so critical now

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 6 місяців тому +2

    Didn’t seem to like mom as much as dad

  • @judithryle2113
    @judithryle2113 6 місяців тому +1

    Quit worrying her mom. You are aggravating her

  • @elaelviradiieejjnjo8052
    @elaelviradiieejjnjo8052 6 місяців тому +4

    Very stressful for the baby just give him to stranger people 😢And try to settle him with different language Why not taking easy for him Poor baby

    • @bridgwll
      @bridgwll 6 місяців тому +2

      This was 2001.

    • @kedhotkerri1
      @kedhotkerri1 Місяць тому

      What's your prob the baby looks so happy