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La mujer como mamá, no soluciono nada

I'm so sorry. I'm adopted, I've always known i was adopted but the dad who adopted me left months later. My momma has severe mental health issues and attempted suicide multiple times(RIP). I have found my biological parents and my father and i talk a bit but honestly both were deeply disappointing compared to what I built them up in my head as. They also didn't have many answers for me. Definitely do what you need to do, loving parents shouldn't be offended bc of they were great parents, complete strangers won't be able to replace them. Shared dna or not

4:00 your question on ... isn't that just parenting? Isn't that just what parents do? If that was the case you wouldn't have been for adoption to begin with. I kinda agree with the comments your adoptive parents gave you the opportunity of having a normal parenting experience.

I applaud your courage - going public will always mean some critics. Adoption can be problematic. I just listened to a BBC radio program (available on BBC Sounds) called "the Gift" about some unforeseen and sometimes tragic consequences of DNA databases like Ancestry - though these tragedies are fortunately rare. In one case a 59 year old who had built a multi generational family tree based on who he thought his "blood" relatives were discovered though the database that he had been in fact adopted. His parents who were still alive had never told him and even burnt his adoption papers when he has in his teens.

Carry on doing what you are doing Scalett, nothing wrong just a natural inquisitive feeling an, adoptee would have.

Are you being ungrateful in wanting to find your birth parents ? How do your adoptive parents feel about this ? Are they supportive ? . Only you n your parents know the answer . For others ,they should take your words for it n not make any negative comments

I can't understand all this negativity towards you, extremely honest and straightforward, your credits are both families😊 hope in the future you will find that connection that you're looking for, ps best regards

By spelling and tone, I think the negativity speaks to the commenters' levels of maturity and nothing else. I recently subscribed because one of your videos randomly showed on my YT home page. I am a 56 year old third generation Chinese Californian, with both sides of my family roots in Guandong, and am interested in your story. It would never occur to me to judge you for your experience and inquisitiveness. Carry on. This is your channel!

It’s not the woman’s body, it’s the baby’s body.

No one is forcing women to have children in Texas. It’s if the preborn baby already exists that the mother has the obligation to at least birth the baby. I’m so glad you were able to be adopted instead of aborted like so many other Chinese babies who were conceived in the one child policy. If you want to help women have “control” then let’s help actually prevent pregnancy instead of just giving them the ability to hire an assassin to off their child.

You can always leave.

Congratulations

@Joecrow-waytogo Never being adopted is far more traumatizing

@blacellas8486 You have no control over how things are done and when you've been through this, you understand why it has to be done this way

@AnaMartinez-y7t It would be nice, but there's many reason it's just not possible

Thank you so much! Great truths told!

I think it is unnecessary to find your biological family. Not even all the love of your adoptive parents was enough for you. Very sad😢

Congratulations & thank you for raising some challenging issues - also thanks to your parents for their contributions

I’m sorry you are of reproductive age in Texas. If you get pregnant and choose to continue the pregnancy, please move to a state that will protect your life. Please vote Blue in Texas!

Thank you!

Wow this young lady is incredibly well spoken, she will be an incredible American!

It's heart wrenching to live in a time when peoples rights are being taken away :/

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Thank you for sharing your unique perspective.

thanks for sharing!

I watched yourself on your Gotcha day and this is so lovely seeing you on this video as a child and now you as a adult , must be lovely memories for you x

This is such an interesting comparison and one I never thought of, but yes, the govt. trying to get involved in women's reproductive rights is appalling no matter what the situation. Well done for being honest and open about your beliefs. I love your passion and conviction and YOU:)

Very interesting subject Scarlett, well done.

Thank you for sharing this perspective. I love it! You are right, the government should keep itself out of a woman’s reproductive decisions.

Well done for having the strength to share your opinion -I agree with you

De acuerdo total con la libertad a elegir

Aku penasaran adikmu yang sama-sama adopsi dari china itu

Qué dolor ver a esos bebés abandonados por sus progenitores que son lanzados a los brazos de norteamericanos que los van a buscar interesados en hacer videos y tomar fotos antes que calmar y dar abrigo a esos pobres niños para quienes son extraños. Esos bebés no son mercancía que se compra en China. Son personitas que necesitan amor y cuidados de una familia cálida.

Addressing some of the critical comments on my parents ⬇ I don't have the patience to reply to each of them individually, lol. ⬇ 1. I am their first child. They had never had to comfort a crying child before. 2. They did try to give me a toy, but it made me cry harder - 19:00 3. Yes, they took photos and videos. And I’m glad they did because the only other photos I have from before this is my referral photo and a couple from when I was in the orphanage. My dad handed the camera to one of the other people traveling with them to film him with me as well since he was holding the camera most of the time. And for this same reason, at 19:12, you see my mom takes one photo of me with my dad and then sit back down next to him. 4. A pacifier or food would not have worked for me. I didn’t like to put anything in my mouth and they didn’t get my feeding schedule yet. 5. It was a very loud and chaotic environment, and it was confusing and scary for all of us babies to not only be in this situation, but to be handed to foreigners and complete strangers who spoke a language we did not recognize. 6. Watch this video where they talk about my gotcha day: ua-cam.com/video/EprWIeiASZI/v-deo.html

My mom tells me that's how her and dad felt when I was adopted at 6 weeks. Then omg i felt the same way when I adopted my son.

It’s never a surprise to me that many of these new parents don’t have a bloody clue when it comes to comforting these beautiful little babies they are terrified thrust into the arms of total strangers and all the adults are concerned about is taking bloody photos of the distressed children come on guys i know you have waited a long time to hold your child but please put them FIRST not bloody photos

Que familia tan aburrida

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Que sofoco y venga foto sacar Alós niños de hay aquí no se meten asunto sociales en ese país no hay quien aga algo para que esos niños sea en tregado de otra manera no como ganado 😊

Interesting thought. Thanks for expressing it so publicly. I have sometimes romanticized the idea of adopting a child from a poorer country. Maybe I was just trying to ennoble myself.

thank to God, thank to yr parents who give u a happy life n love, love yr self, anyhow, in this orphenage, all are strangers to u, so open yr heart n start to accept that u hv a chance to be loves ..pls stop always to say that u're adopted..bla bla,,,..live yr life with them who loves u sincerely, its not easy too to adopted a stranger, we hv to have a big big❤

No le llevaron un juguetico para entretenerlo por favor

Que escandalosos asustan a los bebés

Poor babies. Why make them go thru all that chaos. Can just be the family and the baby only

Es klappt bei der Adoption nicht immer so reibungslos. Eine andere Umgebung, andere Personen, die Kinder haben ja nie was anderes gesehen als ihr Zimmer. Die meisten Adoptiveltern zeigen dies alles nicht, aber oft sind die ersten Tage sehr hart. Am Ende wird alles gut 😊

Having followed you and your parents wonderful story my feeling is that no matter what the circumstances were at the time of your adoption they adopted you because they wanted you and am sure you have had so much love from them, nothing else matters. You will always think about things when people have a conversation about adoption but I am sure you feel like a biological child to them.They will always be there for you and your sister.

Interesting subjects thank you for explaining it in more detail I hope in the future the DNA will come up with a match for you it must have been very hard for your birth parents to give you up

It's a really interesting conversation thanks for explaining

SWEET MEMORIES. YOUR LITTLE SISTER WAS SO JOYFUL❤.