Reminds me of seeing my adoptive sister from Ecuador when she was 6 months old. 💕 She never cried the whole journey until she was placed in her new crib at home, but she adapted quickly. She will be 50 in December, is a 12 year breast cancer survivor, mother of two boys, a military wife, and my best friend! I don’t like to use the term adoptive. She is just my sweet, little, sissy and I love her with all my heart! 💗💗💗
It has to be so hard for these babies, but they don’t know that they are taken to a place to a family who longs to have them, to love and raise them. They will adjust quickly. Of course it is hard to leave those who have cared for them. God bless these families.
I wish I had the money to adopt. I just turned 50 all 7 of my children are grown with the youngest being 14, I'm still young enough to give a child a loving home with a mom and dad and lots of siblings ❤❤ I can only dream
@@lotusdolphin It is different with each child. The child probably bonded to the caregiver and perhaps was with them for some time so they grieve but with love they adjust. Sometimes it’s multiple losses…birth mother, more than one caregiver so the child doesn’t want to love someone new because of the fear of loss again. It’s a transition sometimes like a rollercoaster ride.
I think, bonding with the two new parents for a while, way before anyone else, is important for the child to feel safe and secure. Socializing can come later, at the childs own pace. 🇬🇧☮️💕
beautiful families - i think if they would ignore their child at first it might go smoother - just sit quietly and let the child initiate the interaction maybe.
Yes! I picked up my little son, initially to foster him. I took my time, sat on the floor and played with cars all on my own and completely ignored him. He was 10 months old, and I could see he was interested. Eventually he left the social worker he had arrived with, crawled over to me and climbed on my knee to play.
This little boy knew it was good-bye to the lady who brought him out to his new parents.. of all the adoptions ive watched on here this little boy ill never forget . May all the Gods keep him safe healthy and happy xox
I adopted two daughters from China in 1997 and 2001. My youngest was 9 months old and no issues. The second was 2.5 years old. I gave her space and after a few hours, I was her comfort space. It just takes time. ❤
While it's such a blessing for these families to adopt such beautiful babies, i feel the transition of being separated from their foster parents or care givers is way too fast, we all cheer for the children and the new parents but not everyone realizes the emotional pain the caregivers go through as well. Imagine taking care of a newborn and knowing that eventually, you must give this baby away must be hard, it doesn't matter if they know this day will come because obviously that's what they signed up for however letting go must be somewhat hard and probably the only reason they stand strong ia knowing and hoping these babies will go to a caring, sweet and loving home. Bless all the ones involved...❤
No idea why I’m so emotional . I can only imagine how frightened these babies are. These strange people wanting to hug them. I know they will have a wonderful future but it’s pain for them at the start xo god bless
This is exciting and heart breaking at the same time to see. So much commotion and crying but it is wonderful to know these kids are going to have a family. 🙏🙏🙏
Some of the children physical issues.In the country that they are going to live in,the parents will make sure that these children will have medical help.
Yes they are frightened, but in the end they will have a better life. We only see bits and pieces I know in china before the child is given they do work with the adoptive parents and the child to get them use to each other, everything takes time
@@Diannarobi57 that is not what we are witnessing here. A terrified baby is crying yet handed over to strangers is evident. The adults are gasping in delight at what their baby looks like. They’ve clearly never met before.
The children are so terrified. It’s making me sick with dread for them. Horrible traumatic first experience for these orphans who’ve suffered so much already.
Gracias por ofrecerle amor y un hogar digno. He visto durante mi vida que los niños que se reciben con amor hasta se llegan a parecer a sus padres adoptivos😇🙏❤️
This is such an overwhelming moment for everyone concerned, but the kids very quickly respond to the attention and affection and stability. Unless you've gone through this, you haven't any idea what happens or how little control you have over how things are done
this is when the country sets only one child, their government is very cruel to separate them, it seems that the children are very scared and traumatized.
I was just thinking the same thing. Seeing other children first would lower the tension of the situation. Then when the parents are introduced, the new child feels less threatened.❤
@@dw-fe2ww I’m ill whenever I see one of these horrendous videos. Acknowledging some of the comments to my post brought me back, I do absolutely hate what’s happening to these precious little babies. It’s so unnecessarily cruel.
@@annabellagardner3190 I'm with you. There has to be a better way than shining an intensive spotlight on the child. Children don't like that when it's not their idea. Some people don't like to plunge into a cold pool, they would rather ease in.
What a beautiful video 💖. Naomi is so loved already. LOVE all the fun times you shared with her in her native country. Once home she appears to adjusted to her new surroundings. You are a beautiful family and adding a little girl makes you complete 💖💖!💖💖💖💖
Non si strappano mai i bimbimdalle braccia ci si deve far conoscere piano piano con pazienza e a seconda dei.loro tempi per non farle subire dei traumi
Das Kind weint, weiß nicht, warum es übergeben wird. Schlimm, was ihr da in aller Öffentlichkeit tut, das Kind kennt diese fremden Menschen nicht. Schrecklich. In Deutschland wäre so etwas nicht möglich. 😢
This fear and confusion is temporary. Until you've experienced this, you have no idea how you would react or what the "correct" way is to handle this moment. As adoptive parents, you don't control how this is done. You do the best you can. When you have time alone, the kids begin to relax and you start to see smiles. It's sad to see so much criticism and negativity toward something that is actually good
Bendiciones para todas estas familias. He notado que el momento de encuentro de los niños asiáticos, con los padres es complejo, siempre hay mucho llanto porque, además, veo que sus cuidadoras los llevan muy abrazados, no los entregan como en una posición de mayor libertad, ej: caminando, o dejándolos poco a poco y pareciera los niños no fueran preparados para el momento. Muy diferente a niños latinos, afro y otras descendencias.
It is very traumatic for them but they are hopefully going to very loving families who can offer them the love and security and opportunities they wont have in an orphanage. It must be the same for children in foster care in US and UK. They are staying with people they dont know and they dont have the security of bring with a forever family 🫢
Well, actually, they say this is a good thing. It shows that they have emotion like sometimes somebody’s kids and I’m not pointing out any country in particular but some of these kids it’s called attachment disorder or something like some of these kids come from Bulgaria Romania. they’re just left in the crib 24 hours a day, maybe they get a diaper change if they do have diapers are usually soaked so they don’t learn how to get attached to anybody it’s like they’re empty so this shows that they were loved and they were attached to someone so the fact that he’s crying this is little Ben Show a good thing shows he has emotions, but it worked out
Plsssssss upload more videos rather than shorts i like to see full reaction of kid and the parents plssssss upload whole vides not shorts plssssssss mam😢😢😢❤
Yo no quiero ni persar como sus cuidadores sufren al verlos partir. 💔😢. Pero se supone que van a un buen sitio… Eso Espero, aunque lejos de sus raíces ❤️
@@meihuanlungt.panmei3983 You’ve taken the comment out of context and been rude. Those precious babies are being forcefully traumatised for no good reason. Chinese want speedy handover - and videos for propaganda. In the middle of this is a tiny abandoned baby - already badly traumatised, now expected to respond joyfully to strangers who want to grab them and take them away from the only place they know. No one is proposing the children shouldn’t be adopted as you state was said. . We are saying this practice is horrible, these babies need a humane introduction into their new life. Even Rescue dogs are slowly introduced to prospective owners - surely a human baby deserves at least as much.
Les pauvres petits une épreuve traumatisante pour eux ,,c'est pas normal de faire souffrir autant les enfants ,,,,j'ai connue cette épreuve en famille d'accueil ,vous ne vous remettrez jamais de ce tromatiste ,,,c'est inhumain d'arracher un enfant à l'endroit où il est,,de plus le faire partir dans un pays inconnu pour lui ,,,,pauvres petits trésors ,
Dejen a los niños en sus países de origen, no es justo llevárselos a otro lugar, el que no puede tener hijos propios debe conformarse, porque en la vida no podemos tenerlo todo, me parece de ser muy egoístas quererlo todo casa, dinero un esposo o esposa y también un hijo aunque no sea tuyo.
All of this trauma could be avoided if the adoption takes place soon after birth. I do understand that some of these children are given to orphanages later in their lives. Unfortunately that trauma will not be forgotten 😢
Reminds me of seeing my adoptive sister from Ecuador when she was 6 months old. 💕 She never cried the whole journey until she was placed in her new crib at home, but she adapted quickly. She will be 50 in December, is a 12 year breast cancer survivor, mother of two boys, a military wife, and my best friend! I don’t like to use the term adoptive. She is just my sweet, little, sissy and I love her with all my heart! 💗💗💗
❤so sweet
What a lovely story! Thanks for sharing!
Lovely story. You are lucky to have such a wonderful sister ❤
I firmly believe orphans should be matched with prospective adoptive parent from their own culture
❤@@LeahJo13
God bless all these parents adopting these beautiful children.May they bring joy in your homess
It has to be so hard for these babies, but they don’t know that they are taken to a place to a family who longs to have them, to love and raise them. They will adjust quickly. Of course it is hard to leave those who have cared for them. God bless these families.
I wish I had the money to adopt. I just turned 50 all 7 of my children are grown with the youngest being 14, I'm still young enough to give a child a loving home with a mom and dad and lots of siblings ❤❤ I can only dream
You can foster👍🏻
Brings back happy memories! Blessed mother to 5 Asian daughters all grown now!! 👩🏻👩🏻🦱👩🏽🦱👩🏽👩🏽
Ha già 4 figli e' ne ha add...un altro. Bravissimi tanta felicita'❤❤❤
Was it as rough a transition as it is for these little people?
@@lotusdolphin It is different with each child. The child probably bonded to the caregiver and perhaps was with them for some time so they grieve but with love they adjust. Sometimes it’s multiple losses…birth mother, more than one caregiver so the child doesn’t want to love someone new because of the fear of loss again. It’s a transition sometimes like a rollercoaster ride.
I would love to see updates on how the families are adjusting.
Not always happy, by the way. The international adoption is a pad full of drama.
No hay amor más generoso del ser humano que adopta y ama a ese pequeño ser como si fuese propio.. Ojalá siempre hayan más seres así!!! 🎉
I think, bonding with the two new parents for a while, way before anyone else, is important for the child to feel safe and secure. Socializing can come later, at the childs own pace. 🇬🇧☮️💕
beautiful families - i think if they would ignore their child at first it might go smoother - just sit quietly and let the child initiate the interaction maybe.
Yes! I picked up my little son, initially to foster him. I took my time, sat on the floor and played with cars all on my own and completely ignored him. He was 10 months old, and I could see he was interested. Eventually he left the social worker he had arrived with, crawled over to me and climbed on my knee to play.
This is China. They do everything quickly and efficiently. Kind of like ripping a band aid off a wound. They don't believe in long introductions.
This little boy knew it was good-bye to the lady who brought him out to his new parents.. of all the adoptions ive watched on here this little boy ill never forget . May all the Gods keep him safe healthy and happy xox
God bless these families !!!
I adopted two daughters from China in 1997 and 2001. My youngest was 9 months old and no issues. The second was 2.5 years old. I gave her space and after a few hours, I was her comfort space. It just takes time. ❤
It's so heart breaking this poor kids and I applaud these parents ❤
While it's such a blessing for these families to adopt such beautiful babies, i feel the transition of being separated from their foster parents or care givers is way too fast, we all cheer for the children and the new parents but not everyone realizes the emotional pain the caregivers go through as well. Imagine taking care of a newborn and knowing that eventually, you must give this baby away must be hard, it doesn't matter if they know this day will come because obviously that's what they signed up for however letting go must be somewhat hard and probably the only reason they stand strong ia knowing and hoping these babies will go to a caring, sweet and loving home. Bless all the ones involved...❤
No idea why I’m so emotional . I can only imagine how frightened these babies are. These strange people wanting to hug them. I know they will have a wonderful future but it’s pain for them at the start xo god bless
No es fácil pero venir de otro país adoptar y tener una larga estancia para que se conozcan tampoco debe ser fácil ❤ojalá tengan una buena vida
Awwwww 😢as long these children are staying with warm loving families nothing matters they will adopt well and put the past behind❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
@@estrellanarvaez6626
That’s not what imperical evidence proves. Rather trauma lasting a lifetime are the facts.
This is exciting and heart breaking at the same time to see. So much commotion and crying but it is wonderful to know these kids are going to have a family. 🙏🙏🙏
Really these parents r sent by God to those orphan kids❤❤❤😢😢😢
What is so amazing is that these children, young as they are, they know. They are about to leave familiar arms.
Some of the children physical issues.In the country that they are going to live in,the parents will make sure that these children will have medical help.
Las cuidadoras deben ser personas muy amorosas con loos niños, porque ninguno se quiere ir❤
Ho notato che sono più i bimbi cinesi che piangono quando vengono affidati ai genitori adottivi! I bambini indiani e africani sono meno reattivi!
Yes they are frightened, but in the end they will have a better life. We only see bits and pieces I know in china before the child is given they do work with the adoptive parents and the child to get them use to each other, everything takes time
@@Diannarobi57 that is not what we are witnessing here. A terrified baby is crying yet handed over to strangers is evident.
The adults are gasping in delight at what their baby looks like. They’ve clearly never met before.
It sure does not look like that in China to me.
Que gente tan maravillosa que los cuida hasta la adopción ❤
Dios permite que estos niños lleguen a familias con buenas intenciones ❤
Genitori fantastici! Che Dio vi protegga! Ve lo dico con tutto il cuore❤
The children are so terrified. It’s making me sick with dread for them. Horrible traumatic first experience for these orphans who’ve suffered so much already.
Zawsze musi być ten początek.
Why all the rush, introduce the parents over a couple of days.
What traumatic experience these kids are getting adopted into a loving family where they will receive love care and education
@@qyoceandew9946it a scary new experience and is traumatic at first, but they don’t understand what is happening.
Yes is quite a dramatic change by God willing they will grow with love and good family. Those sad moments will be filled with joy
Mother and brother Te wonderful an sweet!, God bless this family
Sufro mucho cuando los veo llorar 😢pero después serán felices..por eso deberían darlos más chiquititos😢❤
This rips my heart!
this is the best ever happened to me. i love this. god bless
Gracias por ofrecerle amor y un hogar digno. He visto durante mi vida que los niños que se reciben con amor hasta se llegan a parecer a sus padres adoptivos😇🙏❤️
So beautiful! ❤
Los niños están aterrorizados, debieran conocerse previamente.
All you parents are amazing, love really overcomes.
Beautiful families❤ 😢🙏🏽
So sad these little ones are being adopted out but wonderful to see their smiles when they are going to families who will love and cherish them.
Meu coração se parte, vendo a expressão de medo do desconhecido, estampada em seus olhinhos.
Show us videos of how the kids are doing now..after quite sometimes with their adoptive families
This is such an overwhelming moment for everyone concerned, but the kids very quickly respond to the attention and affection and stability. Unless you've gone through this, you haven't any idea what happens or how little control you have over how things are done
These people are God’s sent to these orphan children 🙏🙏🙏
this is when the country sets only one child, their government is very cruel to separate them, it seems that the children are very scared and traumatized.
Precious little children ❤
I think the children would probably respond to the other children better than these adults grabbing at them.
I was just thinking the same thing. Seeing other children first would lower the tension of the situation. Then when the parents are introduced, the new child feels less threatened.❤
@@dw-fe2ww
I’m ill whenever I see one of these horrendous videos.
Acknowledging some of the comments to my post brought me back, I do absolutely hate what’s happening to these precious little babies. It’s so unnecessarily cruel.
@@annabellagardner3190 I'm with you. There has to be a better way than shining an intensive spotlight on the child. Children don't like that when it's not their idea. Some people don't like to plunge into a cold pool, they would rather ease in.
Wonderful loving people
What a beautiful video 💖. Naomi is so loved already. LOVE all the fun times you shared with her in her native country. Once home she appears to adjusted to her new surroundings. You are a beautiful family and adding a little girl makes you complete 💖💖!💖💖💖💖
Top! Impressionnants ces enfants! Les parents adoptifs sont épatés!!!
God Bless this beautiful family
My heart aches for the children 😢😢😢
@@elainepalumbo9837 grow up!!
Now the families is completed and very happy🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
Ay no pobre bebé 😢 debería qué compartieran meses antes de su adopción 😔para qué no los vean cómo extraños qué bárbaros!❤
Exactly what I see. Children are so absolutely TERRIFIED. That is horrible to watch. Poor poor darlings.
No hay ahorro que soporte vivir meses en China, se terminarían las adopciones de extranjeros. Adaptación SÍ pero realista
Wie soll das gehen? Die Adoptiveltern kommen meistens aus weit entfernten Ländern und haben nicht so viel Urlaub!
How sweetly they r plsying and trying to mske the kid familiar
They will live through the meetings a! Bound to happen.
@@Anna-zy8sj
I believe these babies will be traumatised forever from these horrendous hand overs.
@@annabellagardner3190 no they won’t.
Benditas sean esas madres❤
Che persone generose. Belle copie unite dall amore !
Children are very Resilient... however...
It takes time to Transition to a New Everything!
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@@sandyoi5301
You aren’t right. That abject terror stays a lifetime.
Te parten el corazón que Dios bendiga siempre a todos Bendiciones ❤😮😂❤
SERA QUEM ENTREGA É MÃE??? PQ ALGUNS CHORAM MUITO...🙏🏻
God bless u joys
Baby didn’t understand what was going on 🥰🥰🥰
@@francinegreenway8451
You are right - they understand nothing and experience abject terror. That’s why this method of handover is barbaric.
People take more care with their rescue dogs. All the fuss can be very overwhelming for these poor little ones.
@@alisong2328
Exactly !!!!!!!!!!!!! 👍🏼❤️
Non si strappano mai i bimbimdalle braccia ci si deve far conoscere piano piano con pazienza e a seconda dei.loro tempi per non farle subire dei traumi
I wanna adopt one I'm so touched watching these children and adoptive parents ❤❤😢
Es un bebé con miedo está espantado ellos sienten aunque no entiendan es un pequeño hermoso y no sabe q está pasando x eso llora
WE NEED UPDATES ON THESE KIDS PLEASE!!
Some are left, some are longing, they united... God bless all parents and their kids 😊
Lakshmi
BC
Canada
cute babys! :D
Das Kind weint, weiß nicht, warum es übergeben wird. Schlimm, was ihr da in aller Öffentlichkeit tut, das Kind kennt diese fremden Menschen nicht. Schrecklich. In Deutschland wäre so etwas nicht möglich. 😢
After a while, the children will be ok once they are familiar with the adoptive parents sight.
@@Change-xp2ts
You are wrong. Evidence proves that abject terror is so traumatising it lasts an entire lifetime.
This fear and confusion is temporary. Until you've experienced this, you have no idea how you would react or what the "correct" way is to handle this moment. As adoptive parents, you don't control how this is done. You do the best you can. When you have time alone, the kids begin to relax and you start to see smiles. It's sad to see so much criticism and negativity toward something that is actually good
@@elliesouza717
You are wrong. Evidence proves that abject terror is so traumatising it lasts an entire lifetime.
DIOS LOS BENDIGA y proteja siempre AMÉN 🙏
Bendiciones para todas estas familias.
He notado que el momento de encuentro de los niños asiáticos, con los padres es complejo, siempre hay mucho llanto porque, además, veo que sus cuidadoras los llevan muy abrazados, no los entregan como en una posición de mayor libertad, ej: caminando, o dejándolos poco a poco y pareciera los niños no fueran preparados para el momento.
Muy diferente a niños latinos, afro y otras descendencias.
It is very traumatic for them but they are hopefully going to very loving families who can offer them the love and security and opportunities they wont have in an orphanage. It must be the same for children in foster care in US and UK. They are staying with people they dont know and they dont have the security of bring with a forever family 🫢
Que hermosos videos
I know that feeling 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Wie an der Kasse beim Aldi? Man kann doch ein Kind nicht einfach so mitnehmen, die Adoptiveltern sollten das Kind erstmal besuchen und kennenlernen.
I don’t like when they get overwhelmed with so many siblings rushing at them
Well, actually, they say this is a good thing. It shows that they have emotion like sometimes somebody’s kids and I’m not pointing out any country in particular but some of these kids it’s called attachment disorder or something like some of these kids come from Bulgaria Romania. they’re just left in the crib 24 hours a day, maybe they get a diaper change if they do have diapers are usually soaked so they don’t learn how to get attached to anybody it’s like they’re empty so this shows that they were loved and they were attached to someone so the fact that he’s crying this is little Ben Show a good thing shows he has emotions, but it worked out
So many sad children 😢😢😢
V good work
Es ist sooo traurig 😢😢😢
Qué duro al principio pobrecitos😢😢😢😢😢😢😮😮😮😮
God bless yours ❤❤
Poveri piccoli ,si dovrebbe dare loro la possibilità di vivere e crescere nei loro Paesi .Auguro comunque una buona vita a loro tutti ❤
Plsssssss upload more videos rather than shorts i like to see full reaction of kid and the parents plssssss upload whole vides not shorts plssssssss mam😢😢😢❤
Questa adozione è avvenuta diversi anni fa, ho visto un altro filmato
Spero che il bambino e tutta la sua famiglia siano felici insieme
q caras tan triste la de esos niños! los dan como perritos en adopcion,no hay ninguna preparacion!
Quem suas pessoas que levam as crianças até à nova família?
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Yo no quiero ni persar como sus cuidadores sufren al verlos partir. 💔😢. Pero se supone que van a un buen sitio… Eso Espero, aunque lejos de sus raíces ❤️
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Lovely
Good Karma
Congratulations
They all look scared to strangers to them then they e pect the child to go to them
Estos chinos demuestran q TIENEN UNA TERRIBLE PRGANIZACION DE VENTAS DE NIÑOS.LEI Q SALEN MUCHOS DOLARES COMPRARLO.
So, you mean they shouldn't have adopted them? Are you out of your mind?
@dianekerrison9693 Instead they remain in an orphanage with virtually no attention, no family, no love and no future? Quite the humanitarian
А за чем ?????@@meihuanlungt.panmei3983
@@meihuanlungt.panmei3983
You’ve taken the comment out of context and been rude.
Those precious babies are being forcefully traumatised for no good reason. Chinese want speedy handover - and videos for propaganda. In the middle of this is a tiny abandoned baby - already badly traumatised, now expected to respond joyfully to strangers who want to grab them and take them away from the only place they know.
No one is proposing the children shouldn’t be adopted as you state was said. .
We are saying this practice is horrible, these babies need a humane introduction into their new life.
Even Rescue dogs are slowly introduced to prospective owners - surely a human baby deserves at least as much.
Les pauvres petits une épreuve traumatisante pour eux ,,c'est pas normal de faire souffrir autant les enfants ,,,,j'ai connue cette épreuve en famille d'accueil ,vous ne vous remettrez jamais de ce tromatiste ,,,c'est inhumain d'arracher un enfant à l'endroit où il est,,de plus le faire partir dans un pays inconnu pour lui ,,,,pauvres petits trésors ,
J'espère que ces enfants sont tous de vrais orphelins....
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Por que no esperan que el bebé vaya hacia ellos? Así le provocan un desborde innecesario ppr no respetar sus tiempos
Dejen a los niños en sus países de origen, no es justo llevárselos a otro lugar, el que no puede tener hijos propios debe conformarse, porque en la vida no podemos tenerlo todo, me parece de ser muy egoístas quererlo todo casa, dinero un esposo o esposa y también un hijo aunque no sea tuyo.
All of this trauma could be avoided if the adoption takes place soon after birth. I do understand that some of these children are given to orphanages later in their lives. Unfortunately that trauma will not be forgotten 😢