No. You are not who you attract. And no you are not who you choose to entertain either. You don't know who you are entertaining until you find out and the finding out process takes time that not many people are willing to spend and instead go by what they see as far as they get prior to emotional attachment and by time true colors do come out emotional investment and attachment is usually already there and in place
I'm healing from all the hurt and junk from my last relationship.And I'm loving the fact that my value is opening up before me.Learning how to value myself like never before.
I think there are good men but in my observation the type of men that are quick to approach women with little inhibitions are often, toxic, users, narcissistic, etc. The guys that take a little more time to approach you, may even be more nervous about approaching seem to be more humble and level headed.
Omg... I just started watching your videos and I love them. You say it how it is, no sugar coating and I appreciate that. Keep up the great content, I can absolutely relate.
OUCH....I have been all of these women at various stages of my life. Grateful I survived. Had a wonderful marriage and raised healthy children in spite of me and my husband. Thank you for sharing this information.
After you lived your life. Learned lessons. Go through phases and worked on yourself and still working on yourself. You will attract people but you learn boundaries and being content. You learn people will come and go and you learn love has many phases and people are going to be people. You learn you got to be true to yourself.
I was once reliable on the D in my younger days for sure these are true I’ve matured so much I’m proud to no what I want and need in a men now !!! But still on my healing journey so I’m not looking right now
I don't think it was you not knowing your value. I think it was more like you did not know the devil he was because there seems to be such a thing as a dark angel and a demon with wings
To sum it up …if you know YOUR VALUES AND MORALS …and spirit you wouldn’t even entertain certain non sense ..YOUR VALUE COMES IN PLAY WITH YOUR BOUNDARIES AND HOW much of it (no matter who or what) you allow anyone to tap on it ..
You are NOT who you attract however, the energy that you’re in or that you give off at that time, could possibly attract a person that’s not good for you long term.
Yes I saw that episode of “married at first sight” he was one of the best guys. He was caring, empathetic, and willing to make things work with her. He was even respectful toward her father and asked for her hand instead of just marrying her and not caring. I loved the fact that he had dreams. He had things he wanted to do in his lifetime and there’s nothing wrong with that. She had control issues and was very jealous too! If he was kind to the other females she got mad.
How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship. 💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Universal Law will not be thwarted. "That which is like unto itself is drawn." It may not be easy to see but it is most certainly something to be seen. Nonetheless, well said.
You will heal, focus on yourself and remember that a person who shows that level of disrespect is not for you…ex-boyfriend and ex-friend. Move on and love yourself.
Look .. you are who you attract means THIS ... where your energy is will be what you bring into your experience NOW that does not mean you need to deal with them it just is a reflection of where your energy is at that point and time. It is important to understand the difference.
Can you please do the same video topics for men? Honestly? I feel like good women do more then enough just to go out for a date even down to pushing a whole human out of our bodies . So what about what the men can do? It would be nice to see a counter balance. Just saying. Love you content 🙏🏾
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There was a time I didn't know my worth. I looked for love and never found it in the men I chose. Eventually walked away and I found my worth.
Same here ... I been there 😆
Praying for the day when men stop telling women “what kind of woman she should be” and just let them be themselves
Period!
THANK YOU!
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No. You are not who you attract. And no you are not who you choose to entertain either. You don't know who you are entertaining until you find out and the finding out process takes time that not many people are willing to spend and instead go by what they see as far as they get prior to emotional attachment and by time true colors do come out emotional investment and attachment is usually already there and in place
I couldn't have said this better myself! Why don't people get this? smh.
But patterns resurface so proceed with caution
So after you see their true colors, does your decision to entertain and support trash reflect on who you are? Or are we still anti-responsibility? 🤔
Then you walk away fall back and see
Yes indeed your right
I'm healing from all the hurt and junk from my last relationship.And I'm loving the fact that my value is opening up before me.Learning how to value myself like never before.
I think there are good men but in my observation the type of men that are quick to approach women with little inhibitions are often, toxic, users, narcissistic, etc. The guys that take a little more time to approach you, may even be more nervous about approaching seem to be more humble and level headed.
i never meet level headed single men. only the abusive or the closed off ones - hence they are single 😡
@@sodapop83 I hear you, cause it seems like if they are level headed they’re already married or in a relationship.
Codependent and interdependent the difference between whether you will accept less then and stay or know your worth and move on.💛 Great video 💯🎯
I couldn’t control my flesh so true and I was co dependent , trying to fix him, and acting like him mom but I’ve changed for good
I’m crying 😭😭 not poverty penis
Omg... I just started watching your videos and I love them. You say it how it is, no sugar coating and I appreciate that. Keep up the great content, I can absolutely relate.
Gross. Hook up culture should be canceled. Be about personal development!!!
Totally agree
OUCH....I have been all of these women at various stages of my life. Grateful I survived. Had a wonderful marriage and raised healthy children in spite of me and my husband. Thank you for sharing this information.
Derek, this really is a fabulous video, thank you for this x
👏👏👏👏 very good DERRICK u are absolutely 💯 right on this....
After you lived your life. Learned lessons. Go through phases and worked on yourself and still working on yourself. You will attract people but you learn boundaries and being content. You learn people will come and go and you learn love has many phases and people are going to be people. You learn you got to be true to yourself.
I have been doing the inner healing work mentally , physically and energetically..... evolving..
I was once reliable on the D in my younger days for sure these are true I’ve matured so much I’m proud to no what I want and need in a men now !!! But still on my healing journey so I’m not looking right now
Amen! Well said …. I didn’t know my value & attracted a complete devil!
U and me both..smdh
I don't think it was you not knowing your value. I think it was more like you did not know the devil he was because there seems to be such a thing as a dark angel and a demon with wings
how did you know who you are...
Omg girrrrllll …YES ….he was the catalyst to my spiritual awakening ..
To sum it up …if you know YOUR VALUES AND MORALS …and spirit you wouldn’t even entertain certain non sense ..YOUR VALUE COMES IN PLAY WITH YOUR BOUNDARIES AND HOW much of it (no matter who or what) you allow anyone to tap on it ..
You are NOT who you attract however, the energy that you’re in or that you give off at that time, could possibly attract a person that’s not good for you long term.
This is a VERY good video!!
Poverty Peen!!!😹😹😹
This is good content. Thanks 😊
I also like men that arent that confident but a little bit working on himself. so attractive to me. makes me just wanna spoil him.
Yes I saw that episode of “married at first sight” he was one of the best guys. He was caring, empathetic, and willing to make things work with her. He was even respectful toward her father and asked for her hand instead of just marrying her and not caring. I loved the fact that he had dreams. He had things he wanted to do in his lifetime and there’s nothing wrong with that. She had control issues and was very jealous too! If he was kind to the other females she got mad.
I fell in love once when I was young and never told him. I never understood why he didnt want me as his girlfriend. Happy he didnt choose me.
I... I'm ready to start my last relationship!
Being amazing and loving isnt a flaw! And if we pick a bad apple lord help us!
We're weren't looking for the devil! But now we are! Fk!
This was a message I definitely needed to hear 👂!! Thank you for sharing !!
It took me 53 years to realize my worth. It's all up from here on out. 💯
Good lawd....baybee.....umph....thank God for growth
Thanks Derrick for this video!
I felt attacked during the first part of this video 😩
I just learned my value 2022
I didn’t know immediately. It took years after being in an emotionally abusive relationship
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Derek did his RESEARCH!!!!
Yassss, imma deff watch that master class too. This was great! I watched this while having breakfast.
How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted, will determine the success of a relationship.
💙UA-camr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
Damn “I” was there and I was also co dependent and in some way still struggle w that but I am realizing my toxic traits and working on it
Thank you Darrick we appreciate you
I like this good info about men the break down the types and categories that they fit in.
Sound like the truth to me 🤷🏽♀️
Not rushing is key.
In the past, I entertained some b.s.because I didn't value myself at a higher level
Universal Law will not be thwarted. "That which is like unto itself is drawn."
It may not be easy to see but it is most certainly something to be seen.
Nonetheless, well said.
I am learning my value is NOT about how I can heal people. That is a skill set I have. My value is my genuine character
I enjoy your conversation Ala
nobody s perfect and one woman can t always controll her destiny
Own value... yes
I kept telling him and showing him that I have an amazing loving heart ...I gave to him sacrificially....but all he wanted was a HOOTERS GIRL TYPE
Guilty, indeed. I am grateful for the lesson, and ready to get off this ride now please 🤚🏾😁
Little mama 💞 is done with my maternal nature being toyed with
Make a video about healing after your boyfriend leaves you for your best friend
She was not your friend...
She is a snake
You will heal, focus on yourself and remember that a person who shows that level of disrespect is not for you…ex-boyfriend and ex-friend. Move on and love yourself.
I'll talk to you if you need someone to talk to.. What's your Instagram or FB ❤
Thank you so much...I am discovering why I attract a catégory of men (sorry in advace for my writting mistake but I am french)🇨🇦😊
Naw you snapped tho, these are big facts ‼️
Look .. you are who you attract means THIS ... where your energy is will be what you bring into your experience NOW that does not mean you need to deal with them it just is a reflection of where your energy is at that point and time. It is important to understand the difference.
I didn't know myself 5 years ago ...... I love me now ❤❤❤❤❤
Can you please do the same video topics for men?
Honestly? I feel like good women do more then enough just to go out for a date even down to pushing a whole human out of our bodies . So what about what the men can do?
It would be nice to see a counter balance. Just saying.
Love you content 🙏🏾
Very true
Wow. Thanks for this.
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
Thanks
I didn't then BUT I KNOW NOW!!!
After u grow into the person ur ment To be an ur made for a person then u actually are who's attracted 🧡
This has been a good topic
You are so right..
I’m truly a visionary… I can make one idea and turn it into something amazing
It’s true tho… we are who we attract!
I didn't know but I know now
Good video.❤️❤️❤️
Yep
Wow… all completely the TRUTH. I did not know my value and worth.
You are exactly right on all types a men
I agreed 😊
No
I need the space, to experience my own feelings like an Aquarius ♒. A few days please 😒
If I like you, you'll hear from me 😊
You are so right 👍
I have dealt with all of these types I'm alone and happy
ouch
Your so true ❤
Derrick, how you know all this?
Great message!
Good morning happy father's Day
I…I…I…I lord have mercy…💯
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽……..Factzzzz! 100
Yeah in my 20's
For the past 9 years and I'm just now coming out of it
I in all ways
I have still dealing with him🤦🏾♀️
I agree
Need to know about evolved men
Yassss!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
EYE
I didn't
The link is bad...
YES !!!
Iodine
I……..think I’m doing that now.
Iodine 😏
Poverty p omg
Haha u are entertaining 😁👍
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I had friends like that and I couldn't be around them