Walk away. You have the strength. You’re not a pain the neck. You’re not difficult. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not an insecure woman. He just doesn’t prioritize you or the relationship. For whatever reason that is. Walk away.
That's right just did walk away and I feel good for doing so. Realised that I had more to get on with than trying to invest in someone else who was never invested in the relationship from the start. It was false so I cut the cord once an for all. And I have every confidence in my decision and what I suspected of them.
Good for you. Don’t forget to make a list of why you chose to walk away bc second guessing yourself will begging to naw at you! Stay strong and stay no contact. Block!!!
Do a relationship autopsy. Accept ownership for your choice. And learn from it. You deserve better! Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
I’m on this path now, probably will lose a lot of my men but I’m comfortable alone too. I’m tired of getting my heart ripped out and doing everything. DONE
I did it. It was one of the hardest things I had to do in my life, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I knew that if I did not walk away, I would end up having him, but worse still, I would end up hating myself.
My standards are better than haven't had any at all. I'm good and anyone that has a problem with my quality of life they can f**k off. They are the problem(s), no more. The pain is worth going through to know who I am and the pain I've had to push through made me the strong woman I am currently.
I raised my standards and stood up for my needs. I got emotionally abused, shamed and rejected. Thank you! I realised from your video that the wrong men will remove themselves and then make you wrong for it. Good. Open for Mr Right.
Denial of your real circumstance ... and then THAT realisation is an eye opener ! It can erode your strength to leave ... but I raised & got out 😊 You are speaking so much truth here ... thank you 👏 👏👏
This is what I’m going through right now at work and in my dating life. I raised my standards at work set boundaries spoke up for what I wanted and needed and I got gaslit shamed had things they done for me thrown in my face.
I have experienced it two times the hard way. … To be safe and to feel safe must come together! = My opinion/ experience. To feel something (like safety) is not an addiction!!! Thank you for your helpful „wake up calls“! I‘m the eldest of four children. I (61) wished I would have had fourty years ago an elder brother like you in my life. Thank you for your brotherly teachings at the beginning of my Golden Sixties! 😉🙋🏻♀️
I'm going to be paying all your videos forward onto my personal feed on FB. -thank you for all your time, support, and obedience to actually give knowledge and help and healing to women. *You are a true King and God is proud of you Derrick.
I did it and it hurt but I chose me and I deserve more. ❤Thank you for reminding me I made the right decision no matter how much this hurt because I do care for this person but love me more. ❤
When i get my tax return, i will invest into myself and the content you have created for women like me. Amen my brother. So grateful for you being here at this time in my life. Thank you so very much Derrick.
Hey @flipflops-ed5xq, I want you to know that you are not alone in this journey. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure at times. Remember to be gentle with yourself and take things one step at a time. You are capable of overcoming any obstacles that come your way. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link in the description below. Keep pushing forward, you've got this!
@@marir102012 Well yes, natural is better. I want you to change your profile picture too. I'm curious to know about your self esteem though? your picture is showing too much of your cleavage. You don't have to dress like that to get attention.....
@@marir102012 Yes you don't need makeup, I want you to change your profile picture to. I'm curious to know about your self esteem though? Your cleavage is showing too much, you don't have to dress like that to get attention.....
Hi @flipflops-ed5xq, it sounds like you're going through a tough time right now and feeling lost. Just know that you're not alone and it's completely normal to feel overwhelmed at times. Remember to take deep breaths, practice self-care, and reach out to loved ones for support. I believe in you and know that you have the strength to overcome any challenges that come your way. Also, if you're looking for more guidance and support, I just launched a new master class that dives deep into managing relationships and building a strong foundation for yourself. Check it out in the description below - I think it could really help you on your journey. Take care!
Why did you say he's not going to apologise? Why not apologise AND talk more to find out more about both of you in the situation? This would work better for me. I would really appreciate your views on this please Derrick.
Me now. I was ghosted the summer of 2023 so I cut him off but I'm not disgusted with him. He didn't make wise choices in his younger years so he can't satisfy me.
Walk away. You have the strength. You’re not a pain the neck. You’re not difficult. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not an insecure woman. He just doesn’t prioritize you or the relationship. For whatever reason that is. Walk away.
That's right just did walk away and I feel good for doing so. Realised that I had more to get on with than trying to invest in someone else who was never invested in the relationship from the start. It was false so I cut the cord once an for all. And I have every confidence in my decision and what I suspected of them.
Good for you. Don’t forget to make a list of why you chose to walk away bc second guessing yourself will begging to naw at you! Stay strong and stay no contact. Block!!!
Do a relationship autopsy. Accept ownership for your choice. And learn from it. You deserve better!
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
This is crazy facts!
Thank you for articulating it for me, truly appreciated!!
I’m on this path now, probably will lose a lot of my men but I’m comfortable alone too. I’m tired of getting my heart ripped out and doing everything. DONE
I have raised my standards I got my heart broken but he and I were unequally yoked on the things that matter most. I am healing and trusting God
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
I did it. It was one of the hardest things I had to do in my life, but I knew it was the right thing to do. I knew that if I did not walk away, I would end up having him, but worse still, I would end up hating myself.
I fully understand you, I am passing through the same path right now
When they add no value, subtract.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Hi Derek, you should create your own dating site with all evolved men and women only on that website. So both men and women can find their match.
When the pain of current reality is greater that the fear of change that’s when we change
My standards are better than haven't had any at all. I'm good and anyone that has a problem with my quality of life they can f**k off. They are the problem(s), no more. The pain is worth going through to know who I am and the pain I've had to push through made me the strong woman I am currently.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
I raised my standards and stood up for my needs. I got emotionally abused, shamed and rejected. Thank you! I realised from your video that the wrong men will remove themselves and then make you wrong for it. Good. Open for Mr Right.
Good attitude. That trash takes itself out.
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
He is talking to me. Thank you Sir!
Same
Denial of your real circumstance ... and then THAT realisation is an eye opener ! It can erode your strength to leave ... but I raised & got out 😊 You are speaking so much truth here ... thank you 👏 👏👏
This is what I’m going through right now at work and in my dating life. I raised my standards at work set boundaries spoke up for what I wanted and needed and I got gaslit shamed had things they done for me thrown in my face.
That's on them. Next! It's a very dysfunctional dating market.
90% of men aren't good boyfriend or husband material. - Evan Mark Katz
@@sherriflemming3218 I’m realizing this now. I’m done giving chances and benefit of doubt to my detriment.
Yes, repulsed. Thank you for making sense of this.
I'm standing on business. I want better !!!!
I have experienced it two times the hard way.
…
To be safe and to feel safe must come together! = My opinion/ experience.
To feel something (like safety) is not an addiction!!!
Thank you for your helpful „wake up calls“! I‘m the eldest of four children. I (61) wished I would have had fourty years ago an elder brother like you in my life.
Thank you for your brotherly teachings at the beginning of my Golden Sixties! 😉🙋🏻♀️
I thank you too!
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Pray and pray your way out along with working your way out.
Thank you Brother Derrick. TRUTH!!!
*enough is enough.
*Pushing through the pain is worth it.
It defines the strengthening of a TRUE CHAMPION!
"I"
I'm going to be paying all your videos forward onto my personal feed on FB.
-thank you for all your time, support, and obedience to actually give knowledge and help and healing to women.
*You are a true King and God is proud of you Derrick.
Very true! Great message!
Powerful message.
Most encouraged i have EVER felt ... Thank you Derrick Jaxn
Loved the section about raising the prices and dating within your budget- that resonates with me 😊💕
I can't thank you enough Derrick for your encouragement and support! 🥰 You da bomb! 😍
I did it and it hurt but I chose me and I deserve more. ❤Thank you for reminding me I made the right decision no matter how much this hurt because I do care for this person but love me more. ❤
You make perfect sense always
You are my favorite. Always speaking facts✨✨
I'm going through this right now.
When i get my tax return, i will invest into myself and the content you have created for women like me. Amen my brother. So grateful for you being here at this time in my life. Thank you so very much Derrick.
Great message
Very true. Thank you
I just think about what I've been through n honestly 💯 put myself through want to throw up!
I feel you ..
Safe People by Henry Cloud
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
I. for sure. So happy I did..
Great true talk
Ur so right,happened to me .Thank you Derrick!❤
Pray for the hurting to stop,NO one Deserves your pain 🙏
I’m not changing my prices
👑 BRO 👑 FACTS 🐦🔥 ✌🏻 TRUTH 💪🏻 REALITY 🦉🧠🧘🏻♀️⚡🌎.
Love the message I got to get it together but I will definitely relay the message to my nieces I need to focus on me thank you
Now you can say. That I can have my own standards,thoughts decisions, opinions YUP👍🏻.
I needed this
True 🎯
Me Myself and I...Me "
It Does hurts...😢 "
Omg did you just admit these things???? Ur owning up and this is RARE.
Hey @flipflops-ed5xq, I want you to know that you are not alone in this journey. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and unsure at times. Remember to be gentle with yourself and take things one step at a time. You are capable of overcoming any obstacles that come your way. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link in the description below. Keep pushing forward, you've got this!
Thank you ❤ this Message!
Just went through this. Was told I was a enemy now.
That's on them. Don't care.
The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker
Safe People by Henry Cloud
I, it happened to me. It hurt and still hurting me after I left him .
Thank you sir
Let them think what they want
Exactly. That's on them.
Makes perfect sense!!!
True I got repulsed and I was so attracted
@@Lavon_Professional Do you think I should wear less?
@@marir102012 Well yes, natural is better. I want you to change your profile picture too. I'm curious to know about your self esteem though? your picture is showing too much of your cleavage. You don't have to dress like that to get attention.....
@@marir102012 Yes you don't need makeup, I want you to change your profile picture to. I'm curious to know about your self esteem though? Your cleavage is showing too much, you don't have to dress like that to get attention.....
@@Lavon_Professional i agree thats a 1 year old pic iI wear alot less now. Thsnks
FYI, I also respect your honesty. Okay, talk to you soon!
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No doubt
I for sure!! ☮️💟✝️
Sadly my own 😢son, and 2 brothers came into my life😔 that's definitely sucks!!!!
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AMEN 🙌👍👍👍👍👍
Very good topic
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So true
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Yes, Standards do hurt.
Me, this makes sense to me.
I was in that kind
Gave up on Life I move on!!
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Hi @flipflops-ed5xq, it sounds like you're going through a tough time right now and feeling lost. Just know that you're not alone and it's completely normal to feel overwhelmed at times. Remember to take deep breaths, practice self-care, and reach out to loved ones for support. I believe in you and know that you have the strength to overcome any challenges that come your way.
Also, if you're looking for more guidance and support, I just launched a new master class that dives deep into managing relationships and building a strong foundation for yourself. Check it out in the description below - I think it could really help you on your journey. Take care!
Why did you say he's not going to apologise? Why not apologise AND talk more to find out more about both of you in the situation? This would work better for me. I would really appreciate your views on this please Derrick.
Me now. I was ghosted the summer of 2023 so I cut him off but I'm not disgusted with him. He didn't make wise choices in his younger years so he can't satisfy me.
That's on them.
Meeee
Repulsive is not the word. It's out. Taboo. You can't even entertain it
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Me.
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Me it's time to go and move on
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