Your Husband is NOT in Atlanta, Why I DON’T Date in ATL Anymore.

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  • @SteveSmith-xq4sq
    @SteveSmith-xq4sq Рік тому +68

    I’m a single man who lives in Atlanta. I’m a good man. Like seriously. I see many women who wanna clean a man’s pockets out and move to the next. So there’s that. I’ll just be honest. Many of these single women have a pookie at home and try to use the good men to bridge what the guy at home can’t

    • @Luulewis
      @Luulewis Рік тому +3

      @@mucleboy0151 sounds like Jacksonville fl

    • @antoniowhitner7594
      @antoniowhitner7594 Рік тому +1

      I believe you

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Рік тому

      Lmaooo

    • @AwesomeNaka
      @AwesomeNaka Рік тому +1

      Hey Steve! how old are you? I'm Congolese living in France 😎 I'm single and I'm a good woman.

    • @SteveSmith-xq4sq
      @SteveSmith-xq4sq Рік тому

      @@AwesomeNaka I’m 42, if you are, you’re a gem to behold. And I’m still single

  • @lr2ldn
    @lr2ldn Рік тому +34

    You couldn't pay me to live in Atl. One of my friends has been there for 20 freaking years. Gorgeous, educated, nice. Has NEVER been in a long term relationship there and for some reason, refuses to leave. She wants to be married but won't move to open her options.

    • @DreamMaker_970
      @DreamMaker_970 Рік тому +5

      Maybe your friend is the problem? Has she been in therapy to deal with her own issues? You shouldn’t base what your experiences could be off another’s failures. Make sure you are whole emotionally, mentally and spiritually and then find those same qualities in someone else.

    • @blast4me754
      @blast4me754 Рік тому +1

      The world doesn't revolve around dating.

    • @lr2ldn
      @lr2ldn Рік тому +1

      @@blast4me754 No shit Sherlock.

    • @lr2ldn
      @lr2ldn Рік тому +5

      @@DreamMaker_970 You don't even know her to sit here and arm chair psychology her. Weird.

    • @blast4me754
      @blast4me754 Рік тому

      @@lr2ldn You probably look basic and you know you'll get no attention.

  • @DreamMaker_970
    @DreamMaker_970 Рік тому +30

    Ladies dating in NY is no better the number of women in my DM’s from NY saying the men their are bums is pretty amazing. Best thing to do is make sure you are healed of any generational curses and that you truly love yourself. THEN start looking for the same in someone else. This is important because if you aren’t healed it’s difficult to identity other healed people. Y’all be safe.

    • @tucker9724
      @tucker9724 Рік тому +1

      Are the NYC women hitting you up or are you hitting them up first?

    • @DreamMaker_970
      @DreamMaker_970 Рік тому +3

      @@tucker9724 I see you lack critical thinking skills bro. My comment already eludes to women from NY hitting me up also what difference would it make in who messages who first? Your lack of critical thinking skills has you missing the actual message. Lastly, I live in Atlanta. There are gorgeous intelligent black women literally everywhere. Why would I be messaging women 800 miles away. C’mon on bro smh.

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Рік тому

      Thia

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому

      I didn’t find it to be a problem when I lived there. Plus there are way more men and international men so there are more options.

  • @kristenpotter377
    @kristenpotter377 2 роки тому +57

    This is just my honest opinion, a lot of women in Atlanta dress extremely provocative and that's also an issue as well. A lot of women don't see this as a big deal but it is. A man will treat them like trash a lot of the time when they dress like that. You don't have to show your body to get a man's attention. A lot of women don't value themselves by dressing provocatively. They're looking for the wrong attention when they dress like that.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +11

      That isn’t a sound argument. You could say the same for any major city. So.. yea I don’t think how women dress here is the particular reason they’re single when there’s actual data showing the man vs woman disparity. Thanks for watching!

    • @Qleverett
      @Qleverett Рік тому +6

      I travel for work. I notice this. You’ll find a girl with a crazy body working a normal job

    • @str8visionatl
      @str8visionatl 10 місяців тому +9

      ​@@TsahaiLayneshe has a point. I'm a married man but before that women would go Into two categories, relationship and sex. If you dress provocative you automatically went to the sex category. Every man I know do this.

    • @OFCINC
      @OFCINC 10 місяців тому +8

      @@str8visionatl She hit her with the "accountability" and she wasn't trying to hear that shit! lol

    • @josephjulianmionie4744
      @josephjulianmionie4744 7 місяців тому +3

      muahahahahahahahahaah.....
      ...... ACCOUNTABILITY is CRYPTONYTE to WOMEN........
      everybody know that!!!
      🤘👌😈😎

  • @cubanadelrey
    @cubanadelrey Рік тому +7

    leaving the US girl, not only ATL. literally this country is beyond saving in so many ways. your husband in another country

  • @brittonsmith8442
    @brittonsmith8442 Рік тому +22

    As a recently divorced single father, I can definitely say that men are completely in control. It’s not that there’s no good men, it’s that the city is geared towards men being able to sit back and let a woman pick them. And truth is that when you know some women will make the move, it make us lazy.

    • @06alwilliams
      @06alwilliams Рік тому +2

      Lazy or is it that women are lazy and don’t want to compete for a man’s attention. Disney and 90’s RnB really f’d the game up out here

    • @sixteen.candles.4644
      @sixteen.candles.4644 Рік тому +7

      Yuck. That's desperation women should never make the first move ever.

    • @blast4me754
      @blast4me754 Рік тому +1

      You sound like a simp. Who in the world told you men are suppose to chase women.

    • @06alwilliams
      @06alwilliams Рік тому

      @@blast4me754 what makes that simp behavior? He’s right if there in ATL the ratio is thru the roof more so most places

    • @blast4me754
      @blast4me754 Рік тому +1

      @@06alwilliams Becuase for the most part men have to jump way more hurdles to impress women so now when women have to work hard to impress men everybody wants to pamper them and give them the victim card. Maybe women should kiss mens butts for a change..

  • @catsmeow5139
    @catsmeow5139 Рік тому +29

    I agree. I've lived in Atlanta 5 years and I've never had problems finding quality men to date until I moved here. There are just entirely too many women here so men don't have any incentive to want to focus on and settle down with just one woman.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +5

      Exactly, thanks for watching!

    • @Qleverett
      @Qleverett Рік тому

      There are way to many fake ballers to distract you fro quality guys… it’s the same shitty dating market for guys. Every chick has a baby already. Like literally you gotta aim younger if you don’t wanna be a step dad. These were the girls who got knocked chasing the ATL life normally

    • @ddollx
      @ddollx Рік тому +5

      White, Asian, and other get married though.

    • @palesamphatsoe959
      @palesamphatsoe959 Рік тому

      @@ddollx is Atlanta diverse? And are people open to date outside their race ?

    • @theflyguy5976
      @theflyguy5976 Рік тому +2

      @@TsahaiLayne This is exactly what men go through in the other 49 states lmao. Maybe Atlanta is the only different state. Usually it's 3 men to 1 woman and the women never want to settle down. Now that I'm hearing this about Atlanta I'm curious to see what's poppin 😎

  • @transitionsnc
    @transitionsnc 2 роки тому +59

    I lived in NYC for 14 years. I did not find it to be a great place to date. Most people are very focused on their careers, getting ahead, etc. Plus, it seemed to me that both men and women didn't want to close off their options in case they found someone better. IMO, dating apps have commodified love and sex everywhere. I think people are more in their individual worlds these days and that's also contributing to the lack of connection.

    • @TT-ul8bm
      @TT-ul8bm 2 роки тому +9

      Yes ma’am! Thank you for this. Because it’s harmful to propagate that one city is better than the next for a black woman to date in.

    • @tammiecee7301
      @tammiecee7301 2 роки тому +5

      I’m born n raised in NYC and always visited the south from a kid since most of family is there. Things have improved in some areas but the social scene seems to have gotten horrible. No more find your spouse in the south. I’ve been there done that but I still want dating options.

    • @Qleverett
      @Qleverett Рік тому +5

      Bingo. She’s I think assuming .. there is more things to do as in it’s walkable. The lack of wack ability… sucks … it can be lonely. And she did nail the reasons why. You gotta go out of your way to be social

  • @iamsyn1246
    @iamsyn1246 Рік тому +15

    Ive been to atl and that tik tok was correct. Nyc is trash 🗑️ for dating yes, but in atlanta wowwww. I went there with high hopes black Hollywood. Nahhh like its women selling and men buying. Its all about the exchange. If you have nothing they currently want that man will tell you. I saw a guy on a date sit with his date and when she got up i asked is this your first date he said nope she gotta eat before i nut. I lost it. Atl is scary asf.

  • @Fowler0526
    @Fowler0526 Рік тому +18

    In my experience, the women in Atlanta either had a lot of baggage, weren’t dating with purpose, or were looking for someone to take care of them. Not all men date bad here in the city. I found my wife here.

    • @theoneandonlyK01
      @theoneandonlyK01 Рік тому +1

      so its the women??! lol laughable! the majority of the problem is the men! i wish yall delusional azzes would stop thinking yall sooooo good because ummm no

    • @acaciagirl
      @acaciagirl Рік тому +3

      Sir why are you here

  • @SJP43
    @SJP43 2 роки тому +46

    If you’re moving anywhere in search of men that’s a huge mistake all together. That’s an issue all on it’s own whether in NYC, ATL, Paris, Miami, Charlotte etc.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +7

      Notice that I didn’t say I was moving.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому

      Thank you for restating the point made in the video.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому

      😂😂

    • @flauze
      @flauze 2 роки тому

      thats why you gonna stay single and die alone. women NEED to prioritize finding a good man instead of being a man (chasing a career)

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +6

      Stay single and die alone like daddy samuels? 🤭🤭 shut the hell up

  • @pinkrose4322
    @pinkrose4322 Рік тому +5

    The dating scene in Atlanta is definitely different from major cities like NYC, Chicago, LA, DC etc....

  • @yazzi5087
    @yazzi5087 Рік тому +10

    I had to move out of Atlanta to find my husband. I met him in Cali. He's from Georgia as well lol we never coming back

  • @lawrencedesmondleach
    @lawrencedesmondleach Рік тому +9

    the thing about this place (Atlanta) is that it's not really a big city. It's a very popular medium city with alata suburbs. It's a metroplex and it's difficult to be engaged in anything anywhere for a period of time, enough to get to really know anyone. That's what makes it 'lonely' as you say. The only people you really know, so to speak, are coworkers and a few neighbors. Even these seem to be off-limits because of all the social rules. Even when you ride the train and buses, like me, people seem to be angry all the time, there's alata mental health issues and if you're not on Love n Hip Hop Atlanta or a rapper or wear your pants hangin' off your ass, you're invisible. So yeah, socially, it's difficult here. I'm from Savannah, Georgia. I see myself going back to Savannah by spring 2023. The women chased me there! Good luck young Sis. P.S. Visit Savannah!!! L

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +2

      You are part of the problem. WTH do men expect women to chase them . That’s so feminine.

  • @Quataija
    @Quataija Рік тому +7

    Men from Atlanta that moved to my city be gay. Only reason it bothers me is because they don't be honest about it. They lie to women especially black women at that

  • @sonofthelast647
    @sonofthelast647 Рік тому +3

    YO
    SHORTY WITH THESE FLY'S ARE MAAAD FUNNY!!

  • @ceeceebrownn
    @ceeceebrownn 2 роки тому +14

    Girl I been in ATL 7 years and the dating scene has been terrible.. but I’m moving to dc In august… anyways where you get your glasses from there are cute

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +4

      Thank you for validating what I’m saying! I’ve lived here my whole life and it’s been WORSE THAN TERRIBLE , I got them from Amazon! Search “ blue light glasses “

    • @kayyjohnson8325
      @kayyjohnson8325 7 місяців тому

      Dc ain’t no better I’m born and raised here. It’s actually worst

  • @TT-ul8bm
    @TT-ul8bm 2 роки тому +36

    I’ve lived in several places in the United States as well as abroad. From my experience, Atlanta is not very different from any other large city of similar characteristics. The statistics back what I’ve experienced as well. What I will say, you get opportunities matched with your experiences. Expand your circle. There aren’t any available, quality men in YOUR circle.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +15

      Respectfully, I disagree. Atlanta is NOT like many other major cities in the US and the world as far as it’s infrastructure and the actual social culture here. By far. It’s not a matter of a lack of quality men in my circle when the general consensus is a lack of quality men across the board. Thanks for watching ❤️

    • @TT-ul8bm
      @TT-ul8bm 2 роки тому +9

      @@TsahaiLayne What is different about the infrastructure in Atlanta than Washington DC? The notion that the consensus is there aren’t quality men, is a faulty argument. Men are saying the same thing of women, does that make it true? I understand it’s difficult to take a look in the mirror. But the issue is within and NOT with the rest of the world 🤎 Good luck

    • @kingb6047
      @kingb6047 2 роки тому +7

      @@TsahaiLayne I agree with u 100% it’s different from other major cities and it’s extremely ghetto it’s so much promiscuous behavior and drugs going on but ppl definitely don’t take dating seriously

    • @iwilson3950
      @iwilson3950 2 роки тому

      The Truth Welp! Your YT handle is The Truth for a reason!! Ooo-wee…you came with a word.😳

    • @iwilson3950
      @iwilson3950 2 роки тому

      @@TT-ul8bm I have to agree.

  • @thatlovegirl12
    @thatlovegirl12 2 роки тому +29

    Men definitely take women on dates in Atlanta. I’ve been here for a while and I never had a problem getting a date or a boyfriend but I will say most men in Atlanta are not seeking marriage. Atlanta is a city where you must swirl if you want marriage and a family before a certain age.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +14

      Yea, that's the point I'm making. No datable Black men.

    • @mucleboy0151
      @mucleboy0151 Рік тому +2

      Why arent u married? U getting played like her n da rest of dese chicks out here...bf? U sure earlier this year i had 5 different women calling me they bf stop da cap 🤣😆😆😆

    • @prettynpetty8342
      @prettynpetty8342 Рік тому +4

      This is the most accurate account. Dating is really fun in ATL when you take no one seriously and are not looking for something serious AT ALL. Getting a "playmate", as I like to call them is easy. And the swirling thing is 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @mucleboy0151
      @mucleboy0151 Рік тому +5

      @@prettynpetty8342 the white men in atl not checking for yall wit all due respect atl is segregated still for da most part too

    • @learningearning8385
      @learningearning8385 10 місяців тому +1

      @@mucleboy0151you’re proving her point. You’re not ready for marriage

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 11 місяців тому +3

    I think your chances of finding the type of guy that’s serious about relationships will go down when you’re in a more metropolitan area. A lot of guys (people in general) gravitate to these places partially because they want to play around. Guys that are more serious are probably the types to want to live in a more laidback, rural area. The thought of living in a big city doesn’t appeal to me at all. ESPECIALLY a predominantly Black city. If I did live in a city I’d prefer there to be a good mix of all ethnicities and cultures.

  • @shaybutter3403
    @shaybutter3403 2 роки тому +5

    😂 You killing gnats has me cracking up

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +3

      Girl they were trying to eat me up😫😭

  • @bobbyschannel349
    @bobbyschannel349 2 роки тому +10

    Why are there so many gay dudes in Atlanta I keep hearing about that..

    • @KM-hw1rt
      @KM-hw1rt 2 роки тому

      Lots of bisexual men to with while wives and kids bringing forward back to their wives. It’s an immoral city that has gift giving parties and ppl who bug chase. I wouldn’t trust no one in that damn city

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому

      It's not. People who talk about gays in Atlanta are gay themselves. They come here from other cities looking for a booty buddy.

  • @AKsArtDesignLife
    @AKsArtDesignLife Рік тому +1

    I’m not in the dating market but I moved here recently from the city and it’s really a struggle for me. I 100% agree that there’s not many things to do and it’s really taking its toll on me. I don’t know how long I can last out here, I think this place seems good on paper but in reality it’s very lacking and I’m finding it more expensive than New York in some aspects.

  • @tammiecee7301
    @tammiecee7301 2 роки тому +16

    This is quite sad. My daughter is in Augusta and she says the same thing and she's a little older than you. I was thinking about relocating to ATL but I don't think its gonna happen. If its that bad for you young ladies then it's a NO GO for older women.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +2

      It is absolutely desolate here 😭 I’m only 23 and I’m aware I have to venture out for partnership!

    • @avibecalledblessed7503
      @avibecalledblessed7503 2 роки тому +7

      I'm an older woman who lives in Atlanta. Trust me, this is NOT the place to date for men here.

    • @tammiecee7301
      @tammiecee7301 Рік тому +3

      @@avibecalledblessed7503 Any suggestion of better locations in the south

    • @Qleverett
      @Qleverett Рік тому +1

      Atlanta use to be so dope maybe till like 2013ish…

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc Рік тому +3

      @@tammiecee7301 You might want to check out Charlotte, NC. It's a smaller city and a good alternative to Atlanta. The Raleigh-Durham area is also good, although a little more stressful. I'll add that I really don't know about dating in these cities.

  • @alwaysflushinpublic
    @alwaysflushinpublic 7 місяців тому

    Please create videos as long as wish them to be. As a voracious viewer they will be consumed in their entirety. They are so very illuminating.

  • @Roomyvegeta1
    @Roomyvegeta1 2 роки тому +9

    I just moved here, hopefully the lessons my father and mother taught me will help me meet wonderful women. I hope more men of colour can work to shatter that highly unfortunately social norm.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +3

      Welcome to Atlanta and thank you for watching!!

  • @bobbyschannel349
    @bobbyschannel349 2 роки тому +8

    Here's the thing, spend time outside of the city, or outside of the state.
    find your man out there. bring him back to Atlanta and live..very simple.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +3

      Wow, I never thought of that..

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +3

      Bring him to Atlanta and you will lose him lol

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 7 місяців тому

      @@Frugal637😂

  • @grayscar05
    @grayscar05 2 роки тому +27

    She moved to Charlotte and she still single so it sounds like she's the problem not the city. She didn't say she was engaged or married. I believe good women will get good men period ... the bigger problem is a lot of women think they're good quality but not or don't know how to pick good men ... not so much the city. White women, Asian, women, Latina women in ATL are not complaining about finding a man. A man is a man, good non-racist non-black men exist ... try to get one of them.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +13

      Thanks for completely missing the point, you clearly don’t listen🥴😂

    • @grayscar05
      @grayscar05 2 роки тому +16

      @@TsahaiLayne I watched the whole video. But I understand the truth hurts

    • @niyalove7001
      @niyalove7001 2 роки тому

      Agreed. A lot of Black women restrict their selves to Black Men. Which is okay because it's a personal choice. But for many Black women, it doesn't work out well. Black women statistically outnumber Black men, so you're already at odds. Then some Black Men are promiscuous, gay, overall dusty, colorist, prefer only dating non-black women, etc. This has been going on for decades. And if you want to be like auntie Shirley, and wait for 40 yrs for a “good black man” to appear then good luck 🤷🏽‍♀️. If a quality BM comes to me then great, but until then I'm keeping my options open to different races.

    • @thatlovegirl12
      @thatlovegirl12 2 роки тому +11

      Well the thing is with Atlanta since it’s many black men here you would think you would have a higher chance of finding your husband but that’s not the case. The decent black men tend to prefer non-black women. The left over men are unemployed or underemployed.
      If you want to find love as black woman you need to swirl or prepare to be single.
      I’m assuming the woman who moved to Charlotte is only seeking same race relationships.

    • @hotstreak9805
      @hotstreak9805 Рік тому

      @@thatlovegirl12 *there are many black men here

  • @emilybrown7224
    @emilybrown7224 Рік тому +5

    I’m from NY dating every where is kinda eh . But dating in ATL is very whew questionable let me tell you they live a double life or gay .

  • @terminatorx6230
    @terminatorx6230 2 роки тому +9

    I hear all these sista’z talking about how bad the dating scene is in Atlanta but two of my female cousins (28 and 32) moved to Atlanta in 2016 and 2017 met professional BLACK MEN and got married. They’re re not light bright damn near wyte video vixens with enhanced “assets” or girls who did the club thing night after night. Hell they even rock natural hair-styles. If them why not you???

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +6

      A lot has changed in the social climate and dating scene in the last 2 years, let alone 5. Thanks for watching.

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому +1

      You're just making excuses.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 місяців тому +1

      They probably just settled for the first man that went to them. Seriously, there are husbands that I see women getting with and I just shake my head. You can see the dude is clearly on the down low but those women pretend like they don’t see just to say that they are married. When a woman says she got married quickly etc. I always look at the man and can see why. 😂

  • @djkobafemi
    @djkobafemi Місяць тому

    It's not fair to hold ATL to NYC standards on any level. I'm from NY too and have lived in the north east ATL burbs for over 15 years and honestly, I am loving it here, but my primary objective coming here was to raise my kids with space both outdoors and indoors, and own a home. Having both were not/is not possibly living in Brooklyn. I know nothing about dating single in ATL, but my wife and I have dates pretty frequently around the entire metro area. With that said, what you mentioned regarding new and interesting things to do in ATL, as a couple, being on the short list (compared to NYC) is 100% FACTS. The lack of walkability down here anywhere in the metro area does contribute to that feeling of having to have a specific destination in your GPS when you head out here. Hard to just wander around discovering as much ish as you would in NYC, because you're driving right past it here without knowing . Once you know, tho, it can be pretty cool 😅

  • @JourTheeOnly
    @JourTheeOnly Рік тому +11

    As a straight man in Atlanta I know this is cap

  • @harmony3279
    @harmony3279 Рік тому +2

    I live in ATL and planning to move this year!!

  • @youngOG87
    @youngOG87 Рік тому +3

    Trust me, same can be said for the women

  • @tucker9724
    @tucker9724 Рік тому +11

    You're 23 years old i saw in another comment that you make 65K a year(that puts you in the top 10% for your age bracket) the average guy your age in America makes 34K a year your age so yeah Buffalo wild wings sound about right. Yes in NYC you can meet people who make just as much as you or more but if you looking to be treated lavishly on first dates (or dating in general) you gonna have to date an older man with money in ATL. Ain't 23 year old taking you to a 5 star restaurant especially if there is no guarantee that they will ever see you again or engage in sinful fonrication

    • @mucleboy0151
      @mucleboy0151 Рік тому +4

      Naw she gonna have to be bad n have a body like a ig model to get lavish first dates here lets be real

    • @tucker9724
      @tucker9724 Рік тому

      @@mucleboy0151 or date an older simp

    • @shynethegod360
      @shynethegod360 Рік тому

      I’m 24 I make over 80k a year so far, and the only woman I’m taking to a five-star restaurant is either A - What most would call a girlfriend that I sleep with on the regular. Or B - with a girl that I know for sure I’m doing the nasty with after.

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +1

      @@mucleboy0151 Basically a fake body ok

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +3

      @@tucker9724 Why is taking a woman on a date simping. Dating is scary out here.

  • @Universityofuncommonsense
    @Universityofuncommonsense 7 місяців тому +1

    Atlanta is NOT a place for average to below average women. But the tea is that if you're above average you get the "perks" but rarely will you get the ring. NOBODY wins but the males.

  • @Universityofuncommonsense
    @Universityofuncommonsense 7 місяців тому

    7:29... HUH? lol. I think there are many things you're on point with and then there's other where im a bit confused. Things out here definitely close late.

  • @jacobwilliams5271
    @jacobwilliams5271 Рік тому +3

    Even if a guy can afford a more expensive date, he will see if a girl complains about a date that is cheaper to see if she is vain. All the $400 dollar weaves and stuff, men are not looking to pay for all that long term if you get serious. A lot of women measure their worth by how much a man spends on a date, and that doesn't make sense. And saying there are 10 women for every one man in Atlanta shows how uniformed and immature you are, respectfully. A quick google search will show you the population is split 48% men to 52% women. Just parroting stuff you hear online will show any decent guy you are not serious.

  • @Universityofuncommonsense
    @Universityofuncommonsense 7 місяців тому

    9:50 definitely can't relate to this. I feel the guys in ATL go above and BEYOND on dates in a way that's out of touch with other places. One thing I will say is this, there's definitely a divide in the dating experiences for women here. It's like the haves and the have nots. Either your dating life is great or it's not. There's one thing both parties have in common though and that's neither experience leads to marriage here.

  • @gp9677
    @gp9677 2 роки тому +11

    Y’all not what men want and get mad at our standards but think y’all standards are acceptable. Has to be tall, make money, dress nice, great hygiene, confident, attractive etc, but y’all overweight, have kids, have multiple sexual partners in the past, wigs and make up all day and attitudes and think we want marriage??? Hell nah and that’s gon be anywhere u go

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +4

      Thanks for watching

    • @dontricejones9903
      @dontricejones9903 Рік тому +2

      Well said!! Very true

    • @thelashayway8250
      @thelashayway8250 Рік тому

      Y’all don’t want women no matter how they present themselves 😂. A woman can be well educated, have degree, financially stable, pretty etc . And all of the above and y’all still won’t marry that woman. Let’s be honest y’all don’t like women and nor do y’all take them serious. Y’all the problem. Men also carry a lot of baggage so that last statement you made is irrelevant.

  • @delly5622
    @delly5622 Рік тому +3

    This is so true there’s no man for sure and your likely to meet someone else man weird ppl scammers the man are opportunist I had such bad experiences with these man up here narcissists just terrible I’m afraid that’ll never meet someone here that’s not full of shit I be so dam lonely up here and depressed but I don’t wanna get hurt again up here by non of these weird agendas full of shit man and friends as far as females up here you lucky you will run pass a good one cause there weird they dam self of have a weird agenda smh I don’t wanna be alone forever up here but it’s so hard for me to trust anyone here anymore cause of the weird experiences i have Chile 😫😫😫

  • @VanManJon
    @VanManJon 9 місяців тому

    I guess it works both ways trying to find a woman to be serious with in Atlanta is extremely difficult women seem to not take dating serious out here as well so I pretty much gave up and accepted imma be single and just enjoy lil situationships here and there that I know aren’t most likely going to lead to anything serious

  • @keithjohnson765
    @keithjohnson765 8 місяців тому +1

    Them gnats was tearin you up

  • @learningearning8385
    @learningearning8385 10 місяців тому +1

    A lot of us are articulate, conservative and fit. Can’t find a man because the men aren’t marriage minded

  • @queenana9
    @queenana9 2 роки тому +5

    It’s 30/1 in Black ATL 🥸☠️

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Рік тому

    I figured this out years ago just watching the Housewives. The events thrown were sad. Very few men & most of them gay. I have news for you sis. I live in NY. It's a sizzling hot mess. People are cynical.& jaded. Hard to date quality men. Trust me on this. I might move to Charlotte. Great video by the way.

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому

      So you think that Housewives bs is what Atlanta is about? Turn off your damn tv.

  • @whooelse9444
    @whooelse9444 Рік тому +6

    Sorry to tell you this but 9x outta 10, ur gonna be mansharing & thats pretty much everywhere. Its not just exclusive to ATL.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  Рік тому +7

      Speak for yourself love.

    • @whooelse9444
      @whooelse9444 Рік тому

      @@TsahaiLayne im just saying though since most of yall want the same exact guy...the 6 feet, 6 figure nga. Just know that that man has a B line of women who wants him. I know most women have a "type" but if it aint working then maybe you need to find a new type.

    • @LadyK007
      @LadyK007 7 місяців тому

      @@whooelse9444🎯💯

  • @TianaShanteWashington
    @TianaShanteWashington Рік тому +1

    Everything u said was true … someone help me change my location on Hinge

  • @ShalSpeaks
    @ShalSpeaks 7 місяців тому

    The GNAT was a paid actor omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @LonerBecause
    @LonerBecause Рік тому

    This is good to know

  • @jaistr8784
    @jaistr8784 4 місяці тому

    What part of Atlanta you stay in because Atlanta always open everywhere you can’t be talking about the city

  • @youngblack6698
    @youngblack6698 Рік тому +8

    You are very intelligent to only be 23. I love it

  • @drjones694
    @drjones694 Рік тому +2

    You will not find love in NYC
    NYC is a career city no one under 35 is taking anyone serious
    And over 35 been ran threw and set in the ways
    Saying your finding more luck in NYC
    You forget to mention you haven't found a husband there either
    Fun city area but not for love in NYC

  • @kaybeescoop8066
    @kaybeescoop8066 Рік тому +1

    They don't want a choice, hence why they dog pile the same man. The rest of the guy are literally invisible. This is why she feels that there is no one available even though these apps have more men than women.

  • @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED
    @INTERESTEDINFORMEDINSPIRED 2 роки тому +1

    And to think I wanted to move to Atlanta lol traffic is also deterrent

    • @ceeceebrownn
      @ceeceebrownn 2 роки тому

      Please don’t move to ATL

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +1

      It’s really not worth it in my opinion but I’m a native

  • @elijahomede1469
    @elijahomede1469 2 місяці тому

    This is going to be the story of soooooo many women in the very near future, all over the world.

  • @Exodus26.13Pi
    @Exodus26.13Pi Рік тому +1

    These women should be married Moms by now not giving hot takes on tain. Disgraceful

    • @learningearning8385
      @learningearning8385 10 місяців тому +1

      A lot of us are articulate, conservative and fit. Can’t find a man because the men aren’t marriage minded

  • @jerrywillard4768
    @jerrywillard4768 Рік тому

    great im on my way down there

  • @dogy1.2
    @dogy1.2 Рік тому +8

    Women complaining when men have all the options . Women have no problem when they have the upper hand .

  • @atlbm3979
    @atlbm3979 Рік тому +1

    People 4get atlanta hood and country that's plays a big role

  • @peacefaith560
    @peacefaith560 Рік тому +26

    most men in ATL are looking for men ....if thse ppl would focus more on seeking and serving God then looking for a man your life would be so much better !!

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому +4

      That's total BS. Most men in Atlanta date multiple women. The gay and DL community in Atlanta is nowhere near what people seem to think it is. People who always talk about that bs are looking for it. How can you just focus on gays with so many hot women walking around everywhere.?

    • @josephjulianmionie4744
      @josephjulianmionie4744 7 місяців тому +1

      @peacefaith560
      NAILED IT!!!!

    • @SourKandy55
      @SourKandy55 6 місяців тому

      How would ya fat as know what men want? Knock it off. This you right?

    • @SourKandy55
      @SourKandy55 6 місяців тому

      @peacefaith560 who want you though?

    • @bluejay9968
      @bluejay9968 2 місяці тому

      The women are lebians in ATL and are bi. Some are on the downlow!

  • @kevinedwards2067
    @kevinedwards2067 10 місяців тому

    I think putting price tags on date prices is a mistake. NYC is going have more because of the huge concentration of people in a smaller area. Are u at your age looking for a model looking guy that's is going impress & make other women jealous? Those men & baddies so to speak are in abundance but when everyone wants you you can become a nightmare of a person. Think of how your ego can change you. If you live outside any city u have to get to know what's in your city and explore & enjoy it. You're young you will discover more things...good luck!

  • @gp9677
    @gp9677 2 роки тому +8

    You gotta understand men if u want one marriage doesn’t benefit men at all so u gotta make it worth his while

    • @Frugal637
      @Frugal637 Рік тому +3

      It doesn’t benefit a lot of the black women either if she is marrying black.

    • @gp9677
      @gp9677 Рік тому

      @@Frugal637 then stop looking to get married

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 місяців тому +1

      Marriage dosent benefit women. What are you going on about? It’s women that sacrifice more during a marriage 😂Most households are dual income so the man isn’t even doing that part right 😂 but I digress, It’s women that are less happy and age faster whilst married. Not married men (Who are actually on top of the happiness list.). Marriage has to be marketed to women because there truly is no incentive for women to entertain one man otherwise. Being single is easier for women than it ever will be for a man. Single men pay out on the market to get their needs met. Single women do not. That’s why it’s called taking HER off the market and not HIM. 😂😴

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 місяців тому +1

      @@gp9677. Whose looking to get married? Dude. Most women have no incentive to be with a man for years on end with no real end goal in sight. That’s why they start bringing it up 😂 but marriage is only great for women if the man is doing great financially. If not, then it’s always better for a woman to be single. Period.

    • @gp9677
      @gp9677 11 місяців тому

      @@gailainsley6939 you tryna convince me or yourself? This video itself proves women want to be in monogamous relationships every time a man mentions he doesn’t want marriage guess who automatically gets upset women. Maybe YOU think u don’t want marriage but the majority of women do even when they lie and say they don’t because they can’t get it. A man with money will gladly sleep with all y’all with no end goal in sight lol. Also after a certain age women are no longer attractive to men on a large scale n that’s typically if they think like you when they find out they’re lying to themselves soon as the attention dries up. I’ve seen plenty of women in their 40s and 50s cry cuz they can’t find a man to take them seriously anymore I could care less tho do your thing let us all smash we cool with that too

  • @judahscattered4corners757
    @judahscattered4corners757 2 роки тому +7

    Im sure you have ghosted some good hard working brothas making 50-60k in search for that 9-10 percent brotha making 6 figs. Beggers can't be choosy!

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +6

      I don’t look for men making 6 figures, that isn’t part of my criteria. However, I make 65k at 23 and finding a man my age who makes more than 42k is a struggle within itself but thank you for your professional opinion. Happy Father’s Day!

    • @judahscattered4corners757
      @judahscattered4corners757 2 роки тому

      @@TsahaiLayne 42k?? Damn its that bad there?? Lol

    • @judahscattered4corners757
      @judahscattered4corners757 2 роки тому

      @@TsahaiLayne You should come to Cali and make more money Sis.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +1

      Doesn’t really make sense when the cost of living rises with the salary.

    • @judahscattered4corners757
      @judahscattered4corners757 2 роки тому

      @@TsahaiLayne Thats if you live in LA sis. Cali has so many spots for cheaper than LA and the salaries are way higher. Way more to do in Cali. I wish more educated black people would move to Cali like they do Atlanta and Houston etc etc

  • @darrenturner3534
    @darrenturner3534 2 роки тому +8

    Women worth marrying find men willing to marry them. Just saying.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +3

      Thanks for watching

    • @orubek355
      @orubek355 2 роки тому +1

      Lol, it doesn't always work (like this).

    • @darrenturner3534
      @darrenturner3534 2 роки тому +2

      @@orubek355 Tell me you're single without saying it

  • @beverlyjordan3791
    @beverlyjordan3791 14 днів тому

    STAY WOKE AND STAY SAFE

  • @assassincreed2087
    @assassincreed2087 Рік тому +1

    Tell them all to come to Vegas there aren't enough good women out here

    • @assassincreed2087
      @assassincreed2087 Рік тому

      @@Lily-gs9iv definitely be picky out here. I've never been to ATL and after watching similar videos it's officially off my bucket list

  • @fireonhair
    @fireonhair Рік тому

    so pretty much its heaven for black men... sign me tf up

  • @feedmysheepfoundation6997
    @feedmysheepfoundation6997 11 місяців тому

    She's right. Theres definitely some weirdos in Charlotte.

  • @shynethegod360
    @shynethegod360 Рік тому +1

    Let’s count how many times she touches her wig. Go…

  • @hr9336
    @hr9336 2 роки тому +1

    So Atlanta is not NY. Wow. Such a profound statement.😂

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for watching 😃

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому

      The biggest mistake a NY'r can do is try to compare NYC to any city they go to. Those are the ones who stay complaining. You can actually do anything in Atlanta that you can do in NYC if you look for it.

  • @kelseyglasper6211
    @kelseyglasper6211 2 роки тому +1

    ✨✨✨

  • @weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888
    @weavemademeadeadbeatdad2888 Рік тому +3

    Just date out. Blk men don't want u.

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому +1

      That's cap. Black men want fine beautiful black women. Not big girls that have been ran through by broke ninjas.

  • @macsauce1993
    @macsauce1993 Рік тому +2

    BS my wife from Cali she meet me I bought us a house 3 kids 2dog later we still club, vacation do business I didn't make what I make now so it's on you how u move my baby

  • @bobbyfungsway1126
    @bobbyfungsway1126 7 місяців тому +1

    bullshit. all the women in Atlanta just want rich men and ballers. moved here form Florida 6 months ago..met a lot of women who just play games and don't want anything serious or they just want money

    • @Kwavy203
      @Kwavy203 6 місяців тому

      Shit is they fucking?

  • @tricallyourmama
    @tricallyourmama Рік тому +2

    The women to men ratio isn’t that crazy. 51% women to 49%men. Let’s be real though, so many people are influenced by social media of what a date should be so it’s exaggerated to the max. Love is everywhere and you can meet anyone everywhere. Also let’s look at the culture. Bish this, h0e that, trashing women all day in the music. But I agree with you there isn’t a lot of diversity with ethnicities so you tend to bump into the same type of people. It’s mainly white and black people in ATL. But to compare it to New York….damn that’s a high standard. Also let’s add that ATL has an HIV epidemic from all that downlow activity. Stay safe 💪

  • @darzaealonzo4954
    @darzaealonzo4954 Рік тому +1

    It sounds like New York is where you wanna be

  • @ronjaramillo3635
    @ronjaramillo3635 Рік тому

    Hello dear

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 Рік тому +4

    My Advice Take your AGE multiply it by 2, An date men in that age bracket. Then you will get married quickly.
    DATE OLDER MEN.
    Men your age wont want marriage untll their past your child bearing years

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 місяців тому +1

      Most older men have baggage. Spousal and child support that they are paying for and if they don’t. It’s also a huge red flag. Because why didn’t they? At a certain age they should have a wife and kids. So Why didn’t they find someone years ago if they were truly serious? 🤔

    • @genovasquez8361
      @genovasquez8361 11 місяців тому

      @@gailainsley6939 a man shouldnt consider marriage until he is 40.
      A woman should give up on marriag after age 25. A woman should be married to an older around 18 or 19.
      As for most women age 25 to 55.
      They got credit card debt
      mortage debt
      student loan debt
      Another mans kids
      body count higher than 5 men,
      probably had atleast one encounter with the same sex
      why on earth should any man no matter how much baggage he has deal with that. thats a lose lose, even for a guy who is bum. he can do better.

  • @Solotv84
    @Solotv84 Рік тому +5

    2 Things I took away from this video
    1. Shorty got a gnat problem at her house--not sure what the hygiene do
    2. She prefers NYC, then move to NYC problem solved

    • @dontricejones9903
      @dontricejones9903 Рік тому

      Nats love that hair weave and hair spray. She should just light a candle. She has a cold and I'm tired of seeing this fake synthetic horse hair smh

  • @AngelicBeingMe
    @AngelicBeingMe Рік тому

    Wrong

  • @fade2black941
    @fade2black941 Рік тому +3

    let's be real a lot of y'all females in Atlanta are just competing 4 the same guy.... So that 1man to 17ratio is irrelevant

  • @gwendolynlusane7465
    @gwendolynlusane7465 Рік тому +3

    Girlfriend your video was very distracting....the knats, you snorting, and rearranging your hair.

    • @tucker9724
      @tucker9724 Рік тому

      And she wonder why she single 🤣😂🤣🤣😂

  • @f.l.y.l.a.6025
    @f.l.y.l.a.6025 Рік тому

    Things DO NOT close at 8 or 9p lol 😆 where are u visiting. ON THE OTHER HAND...dating is TRASH HERE!!!!! NO DOUBT.

    • @laryanryan9170
      @laryanryan9170 Рік тому

      People who say that just don't know where to go.

  • @pinkrose4322
    @pinkrose4322 Рік тому

    Most women older than you are already in established relationships.

  • @miket2607
    @miket2607 8 місяців тому

    Lol. Stop. Women here all want one type of guy! These so many women down here who has their egos to the sky!! Everyone thinks they need a top 10-20% guy. Let’s just call it like it is. Lol.

  • @jambam4642
    @jambam4642 6 місяців тому

    Its wayyy more men in Atl than woman why do theybsay the opposi

  • @AxxinTheSupernova
    @AxxinTheSupernova Рік тому

    But the women there tend to be too lazy to date men who arent in ATL.

  • @elchaposmoneyroom2958
    @elchaposmoneyroom2958 Рік тому +1

    Way too much makeup...no self respecting man wants a woman he can't truly see 👁‍🗨

  • @lifesapeach499
    @lifesapeach499 Рік тому

    Too many unrealistic expectations from men..less is more watch out for them bullers and fudge stick lickers

  • @genovasquez8361
    @genovasquez8361 Рік тому

    men as a whole arent looking for marriage.
    i didnt start seeking marriage until i was 30, and i met my wife then she was 18, the woman i dated before her was 18, but sierra didnt want marriage, Shoshanna did. So she became my wife. Men start seeking younger wives when they get older. At 20 even 27 i had no inclination to get married, i wanted marriage when i turned 30...never wanted it ever before.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 11 місяців тому +1

      Women on average aren’t married until 28-35+. Younger wives where? 👀😂😴

  • @dougbones7095
    @dougbones7095 2 роки тому +8

    Freaking kidding me, you're 23 years old. Not many men are trying to date at around their early 20s. Get your bag and find a husband later.

    • @TsahaiLayne
      @TsahaiLayne  2 роки тому +4

      So, maybe you missed the point of this video. I wasn’t speaking totally from my personals perspective. I’m talking about the general dating issue women of ALL ages and WELL into their 30s+ are experiencing in this city. I’m 23, financially independent and stable.. I got the bag babes. But thanks for the engagement!

    • @dougbones7095
      @dougbones7095 2 роки тому

      @@TsahaiLayne there are plenty of options for men and women sis.

    • @flauze
      @flauze 2 роки тому

      nah, you stupid !! this is the best time for her to find a good man in his 30's or 40's and she wont have to worry about being a man (focusing on career)

    • @jeffreystlouis964
      @jeffreystlouis964 Рік тому

      Exactly

    • @dougbones7095
      @dougbones7095 Рік тому

      @@TsahaiLayne ok, my apologies. I'm not telling you to not date but don't hold your expectations high in your youth. I hope it works out for you sis.

  • @olowasegun6829
    @olowasegun6829 Рік тому

    Stop playing with you weave and lops please

  • @latarino
    @latarino Рік тому +4

    U basically getting ran through

  • @rauloliveros516
    @rauloliveros516 Рік тому +1

    That woman that moved to charlotte is a professional dater......can I hear a GOLD DIGGER........HAHAHAHAHAHA!

  • @martezgraham7889
    @martezgraham7889 Рік тому +2

    Speak for yourself. If u are still single wherever you are and not in a relationship, it’s you boo. Ijs

  • @K42023
    @K42023 10 місяців тому +1

    They relocated for dating multiple men but they trash Passport Bros?🫤