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  • @karidelgado8940
    @karidelgado8940 4 роки тому +152

    I cried with you. It’s not silly to miss your cat.

  • @LisaAnnRay
    @LisaAnnRay 4 роки тому +153

    A pet is not just a pet! They are family and our babies. I’m so sorry for your loss. The pain is palpable....I know. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

    • @veehart6600
      @veehart6600 4 роки тому

      Yes!!!

    • @HollyL56
      @HollyL56 4 роки тому +1

      Amy Kawaii I think some dog people may think this way, but I’d like to believe most pet owners, regardless of what kind of pet it is, consider their pet as part of their family and their loss is a terribly difficult thing.

  • @susanfisher773
    @susanfisher773 4 роки тому +63

    It is not silly... don’t ever let anyone tell you that..... I’ve been there way to many times . I always have to get another. They give you so much love.💗💗💗💗

  • @ericak217
    @ericak217 4 роки тому +32

    I’m so sorry about the loss of your cat. You no doubt gave her an amazing life.

  • @DaliaAkar
    @DaliaAkar 4 роки тому +44

    Noooo not silly. I had to put my cat down a few years ago and I still cry when I think of him ❤️💔❤️

  • @SWooley23
    @SWooley23 4 роки тому +52

    I'm very sorry for the loss of your cat.

  • @caspersbestfriend
    @caspersbestfriend 4 роки тому +35

    I had my cat for 11 years he died back in 2007 when the animal food was bad and no one knew. I'm still not over his death. That was my baby and best friend. 😿

  • @holly74uk
    @holly74uk 4 роки тому +24

    Jen, I just wanted to reach through the screen and hug you so tight when you spoke about your cat - the pain is unbearable and it is going to take a while for you to get over this loss - almost 3 years ago i had to make the same decision about my precious 19 year old tabby cat, he was my world - I had him from a kitten and we shared a special bond - the decision that you and I both made was the only choice either of us could make because we loved them so very much - 3 years on I still get so upset about him when he pops into my mind, but the gaps between the sadness are now longer and it isnt such a constant crushing sadness - please dont let anyone tell you your grief is silly because its 'just a cat' - they are our babies and they have been such a huge part of our life - you will slowly heal my lovely lady, but let yourself grieve, dont block it out, it needs to be released - sending you so much love xxxxx

  • @k.o3598
    @k.o3598 4 роки тому +20

    Dancing is self care! Don’t stop because of others limiting beliefs and socially constructed ideas . “Dance like nobody is watching “.

  • @cherylclipperton5331
    @cherylclipperton5331 4 роки тому +12

    I just lost a dog which I had for 14 years and it was heartbreaking. We love our pets and they become a part of our family. I am so sorry for your loss and those with pets know what a loss losing a pet can be.
    Keep up the Instagram vids, your dancing is great and is wonderful.

  • @alisonl5127
    @alisonl5127 4 роки тому +23

    I’m so sorry about your cat. That’s a huge deal! Not just a cat.💛

  • @-Lily7415
    @-Lily7415 4 роки тому +12

    I am so sorry about the loss of your cat .I cried with you..My animals were my family too .I miss every one of them that has crossed over and cry when I think of them.Sending you a big hug

  • @TripleH409
    @TripleH409 4 роки тому +19

    I had to put my cat to sleep on July 28th... We had her for 7 years... She was a fur daughter to me... My teenage daughter and I still randomly sob over missing her so much. We had her cremated and she sits on our coffee table. We want her spirit to always be with us.

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  4 роки тому +8

      I’m so sorry for your loss! 💔 We buried our sweet girl in a beautifully decorated box in the backyard under a tree we just planted. I open the blinds and say good morning and goodnight to her every day. ❤️🌺🌈

    • @TripleH409
      @TripleH409 4 роки тому +1

      @@JeniferJenkinsBeauty my condolences as well.. they truly are family members ♥️

    • @heathersha
      @heathersha 4 роки тому +2

      @@JeniferJenkinsBeauty That is so beautiful! 🤗

    • @suzannecampbell2260
      @suzannecampbell2260 4 роки тому

      Triple H I think that if she feels when she hears music then she should dance like no one is watching. I always wanted a daughter. Well God did give me what I had prayed for. I married a man who had 3 daughters. They were Raised by there Mother who lived 6 hours from where we lived.,we got them half the Summer as well as every other weekend.So I was granted my wish. The baby was almost 3 and the middle daughter was 6 same age as my Son. Then the oldest one was 9 so I did receive what I had prayed fort wasn’t ez due to they were I. private Christian School.,with some really off,the wall beliefs. I have to say they almost 90% wore,long skirts down to there ankle.,There swimwear was always a whole,piece yet it’s nothing like the one the private Schools that I was aware of. They Mother was still in love with their father.My husband Altho he had been married to another woman for 4 years before we ever met. So I was instructed to not paint their faces,or give them any ideas as she was there other and I respected he wants. Now there Father was not so willing to keep those precious girls with no knowledge of sex, which they were told was just to populate this earth. No pleasure just your wifely duties. Which made me sad because I was also raised in Church and was taught that two people in love married, even if they didn’t want children.Yet still,loved the closeness to,your husband and wanted to give and receive this very special bond. Of love. Well this was a very hard time in my life.,yet I loved my girls and the middle daughter was 6 month
      younger than my child so it was kinda like twins. They needed unconditional love. Wanted to be little girls wanting to wear heels to play around d I. And also wear makeup. Not to townsite around the house. This was a real struggle.,since the mother did not actually know add secrets of makeup and lip glosses.That makeup can still look natural yet it’s the application. You can go big or you can just use subtitle you don’t have to look like a street walker.They feel in love with me and I with them. So,it was really,hard not seeing them being allowed to play around with some makeup Find each ones favorite looks.,so they were just delightful.I still miss them very much yet all 3 are now married and have children.I have not seen them in years.,we used to e ail each other. I used to feel so sad for the way that their Mom made them dress really old and looked as if they stepped off of the set of Little House on the prairie. I guess God answered my prayers yet I feel I was needed the exact time I had them come into my life so,did our,children. Sadly this marriage did end in a divorce. When was a very hard time.i admit it takes two,people to grow as a couple. Yet I was replaced.I still say he was a very fine man. Went to his 3 wife to produce 3 more daughters.So,he now has 6 daughter. He after his. Military he served 2 terms. They wanted him to stay longer but he was ready I knew that the both of them were virgin. I was always very pleasant
      To his First person ma? I’m so glD you did.🌹🌹🌹

  • @Michelle-yg8vg
    @Michelle-yg8vg 4 роки тому +40

    It's not silly. I'm sorry Jennifer, that sucks. I had my Frank for 18 years and it was one of the hardest decisions I ever made. I hope talking about it has helped you;)

  • @darylcross1497
    @darylcross1497 4 роки тому +8

    I totally feel your pain! Your cat was so special to you! I lost my cat 3 years ago and I still miss her! The bonds we have with our pets is so strong and special! Thanks for sharing your videos with us! I always enjoy watching you! ♥️

  • @hafrowlands1587
    @hafrowlands1587 4 роки тому +14

    So so sorry to hear about your cat it's heartbreaking when you lose them 😢 Your hair looks lovely x

  • @ashleymonroe8612
    @ashleymonroe8612 4 роки тому +13

    Totally crying my eyes out.. she was such a special 🐈 and your bond is felt... So sorry. 😭😭😭

  • @lynnarmbruster4353
    @lynnarmbruster4353 4 роки тому +5

    yes, I totally understand, I too lost my beloved cat of 17 years. she always had a sense of when I was not feeling well, She was my buddy, my nurse, my companion, my playmate. Not replaceable.

  • @kcmarie3774
    @kcmarie3774 4 роки тому +3

    Omg I'm crying with you. I remember your cat being in your robe and I thought it was the cutest thing ever and you said she was going deaf. This breaks my heart. I hope god brings peace to your soul and heal your broken hurt

  • @sarahstroud6021
    @sarahstroud6021 4 роки тому +17

    I’m sorry for you’re loss Jenn, I have a cat I love and I know the bond you tell about! You have such a kind heart and I can tell u are hurting. I am in nursing school and I work with an 11 year old Autistic boy who is so amazing!

  • @tanaayotte
    @tanaayotte 4 роки тому +9

    I'm almost 56 and still act like I'm 20! Lol. I'm very young at heart and love music too and to dance. It's my passion. So you go girl! ❤️😎🤘🎶🎸🎧🔊

  • @BeautyByAnneMarie
    @BeautyByAnneMarie 4 роки тому +5

    It's so incredibly hard to lose a little fur baby. I loved the video clips of your sweet Kailyn, I can definitely see the love you two had for each other. I'm so sorry for your loss! xoxo

  • @nancymartin7898
    @nancymartin7898 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your cat with us,she was so beautiful,precious face.I am an animal lover and I have lost many dogs and cats over the years,so I know how intense the pain is.Hold all of those beautiful memories close to your heart,for they are everlasting.I cried with you,praying for your heart to heal.Love you always Jennifer,sending you a big hug.

  • @blairgradel8854
    @blairgradel8854 4 роки тому +1

    So glad you are voicing openly what I’ve felt for months now as a mom of two kids in virtual learning. It’s brought us to our knees and brought so much stress to our lives. Not enough people are talking about how hard school is these days and what that looks like in virtual school. Thank you!

  • @annissagraves3076
    @annissagraves3076 4 роки тому +1

    You are such a sweet, joyful, empathetic person!! Negative people will absolutely use that against you; emotionally exploit you for sport. It’s baffling if you’re kind but it’s true. Don’t defend yourself. You’re an inspiration and now more than ever, people need to know it’s absolutely possible to be 47 and have a fit healthy body so dance away! And I love your tribute to your kitty. ❤️

  • @LorryHill
    @LorryHill 4 роки тому +4

    Love love love your hair !! You look beautiful!

  • @LisaLisaD1
    @LisaLisaD1 4 роки тому +4

    Hey Jenifer! ❤️ So sorry about your kitty, I know you miss her, I’m a cat lover and I understand that bond 🐱 Sorry you are having to deal with the negative comments, too~ so unnecessary, It’s hard to understand why people do that, you keep dancing! ❤️😘

  • @jamesfreiman
    @jamesfreiman 4 роки тому +5

    I still get choked up talking about my Pepper who was 22 when she died 5 years ago...I love all your videos and especially your dancing videos!

  • @dianao8337
    @dianao8337 4 роки тому +1

    Oh my goodness, my heart breaks for you when I see your pain of losing her. I am so very sorry for your loss. You gave her what she gave you...unconditional love all those years (and for her...a lifetime of that love), that bond is a lot to miss. Prayers for strength for you and your family, I know it is a hard thing to get through. ♥️

  • @carollamothe4304
    @carollamothe4304 4 роки тому +3

    I haven’t even finished your video yet and I started to cry watching you cry. Every time someone tells me they lost a pet I cry, it just breaks my heart. It’s not silly to say that, if someone thinks it, then they are not worth your time or energy. I had to put my cat Max down 5 years ago and to this day it breaks my heart. The worst thing I have ever done in my life. I have since adopt a new cat Sammy who is my buddy! A pet is part of your family; love you unconditionally. I’m sorry for your loss. 💗

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  4 роки тому

      You're a cat lover too! I'm a cat girl through and through! ❤️ Ever since I lived on my own, I've always had a cat. Thank you! 🐱🌹

  • @lisar9738
    @lisar9738 4 роки тому +1

    I had a sweet girl cat for 20 years and I cried every day for two weeks when she passed. They are truly part of your heart. Hugs to you💕

  • @sleekmodernchic
    @sleekmodernchic 3 роки тому +1

    This video spoke to my heart when you talked about letting someone be exactly who they are. Growing up, I was molded into what my parents wanted me to be, and I suffered inside. My mom had an "Aha" moment when she said, "Oh, you just let your kids be themselves, that's why they're so happy." The fact that she saw her parenting mistake, took a huge burden off of my shoulders. I'm 49 now, and run into haters, who ask why I'm always put-together, or make an effort to smile and compliment others. I'm not doing any of this for others, it's who I'm truly meant to be. Keep doing "you," haters sadly like spreading their misery. you dance great. You have a beautiful spirit, and it comes across on camera, keep up the heartfelt content. XOXO

  • @taratadema212
    @taratadema212 4 роки тому +3

    Aw man, you made me go and cry too! I'm so sorry about your sweet kitty, Jenifer! I lost my little Chihuahua almost 2 years ago and I still cry over her almost every day. They are our babies! She was a beauty and you took such good care of her. She is always with you in spirit! Hugs!

  • @maxinebromfield5116
    @maxinebromfield5116 4 роки тому

    I'm so sorry to hear you lost your first sweet baby - I've followed you since your first video and have loved seeing the bond between you both over the years. It's so hard to say goodbye; it's not just a pet. She was family and the deep sadness you feel is a testament to the love you had for her, and she for you. I feel for you too on the other points you brought up. The stress of guiding our kids through online learning, the judgement of how we express our personal joy. I'm here to say I think you're doing an amazing job of staying balanced. I for one am inspired to see you finding, celebrating and sharing whatever joy you find in these trying times.

  • @agiulian8710
    @agiulian8710 4 роки тому

    I am so sorry for your loss❤️🐈
    Thank you for posting this content..my mom passed this year at the age of 84 yrs old. I have memories of her dancing all night long.. never wanting to leave the dance floor. Even in her late sixties at my cousins wedding, his friends took her out to dance or vice versa😆 I miss her young spirit so much now.. I’d do anything to dance with her now❤️❤️ ... You are an amazing mother and wife..stay youthful always🥰

  • @vera3822
    @vera3822 4 роки тому

    Sorry about your loss. I’m 67 and I still take care of myself, health, skin and body (some people think I’m still in my 50’s). I also love dancing, it keeps us young. The ending made me cry.

  • @joliemitchell6658
    @joliemitchell6658 4 роки тому

    Jennifer, I am 63 & I've been watching you for yrs. I love how real you are & that you are so transparent & genuine. Everytime I slouch I think if you & put my shoulders back! Don't listen to cruel comments. They need to just move on & watch another channel. I share your pain in losing a beloved pet. I too lost my dear Simba 2 months ago & cry almost daily. A love for a pet is unexplainable. My heart hurts for you. You are not alone. Thank you for sharing your beautiful videos of your precious baby girl. Love & prayers go out to you. Xoxo!

  • @paulineowens4937
    @paulineowens4937 4 роки тому +1

    I could hardly get through this video Jennifer. My heart goes out to you. I loved watching the clips of her from previous videos I’ve already seen. Kailyn was the kind of cat everyone dreams of having. I know that pain and the pain that goes along with the decision of letting her go. You are right that it will take time and you will be left with the wonderful memories that will outweigh the sadness of letting her go.
    I love to hear you talk about being you and what makes you happy. I am turning 60 soon and I feel fabulous! I weigh the same as I always have and dress to look my best! Mentally I am in my twenties and always will be. I love dancing! It makes me sooooo happy. My kids are grown, years ago when they were younger I heard someone say that if you’re having a bad day for whatever reason just turn on music and dance. It literally makes any tension in your house go away. I been dancing ever since. 🌸

  • @lisah1507
    @lisah1507 4 роки тому +1

    I’m so emotional. 😭 thank you for sharing your heart and the special bond that you had with your cat. I understand the bond. I have 4 now but have lost 3 in prior years. It’s very difficult. Stay strong! You will get through this. ❤️

  • @SarahLeavitt22
    @SarahLeavitt22 3 роки тому

    Loosing my dog was the second hardest thing I’ve ever had to go thru...watching my mom battle cancer for 10 years and finally loosing is first. We all have hardships...talking it out is some of the best therapy!

  • @danam.8973
    @danam.8973 4 роки тому

    I am so sorry about the passing of your cat. It is truly one of the hardest things to go through in life. I always enjoy your chats no matter what the topic. I think it is because you are honest and sincere and there is always something I can relate to in them. Thank you Jennifer. ❤️

  • @mekrystle
    @mekrystle 4 роки тому

    I think almost everyone can understand your heartbreak over the loss of your cat right now. Pets are the constants in our lives, they're there for us day after day for the good and the bad. It's so hard to lose them, wishing you peace. 💜 Your kitty was lucky to have a momma who cared so much and gave them such a loving home.

  • @kme3095
    @kme3095 3 роки тому

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your fur baby 😔 That is one of the most devastating experiences to go through. Bless you for giving her such a wonderful life and showing her so much love ❤️❤️

  • @janett435
    @janett435 4 роки тому

    Our pets hold such a special place in our hearts. I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a faithful companion that has been with you for 20+ years is so hard.

  • @apontekcouponing
    @apontekcouponing 4 роки тому

    crying with you....let your other pets love on you more..let yourself go get a massage, whatever you need to do...you did the right thing. I had to do the same thing to my dog who i had for 15 years and he had helped me make it through my divorce so I am sending you a giant hug right now!!!!!thanks for being you

  • @karenmazzacone5906
    @karenmazzacone5906 4 роки тому +1

    Awwwe Jenifer our pets are our family. I still mourn the loss of my dogs I’ve had to say goodbye too. You cry all you need too. 😢 It made me cry when I saw it on Instagram. You keep being yourself and living life to the fullest. It honestly makes me smile. This year is so messed up and there’s so much negativity and hate...spread joy. That’s awesome! I’m so here for it. ❤️😘🤗 Sending hugs from the other side of Texas!

  • @daniellerandall6486
    @daniellerandall6486 4 роки тому +2

    Bless your heart I feel for you , my cat got killed last year and I totally get your pain it hurts so bad literally cuts you to the core . It time maybe getting another cat can give you some comfort . I waited a few months and it helped heal that pain a little . Sending you a big hug xxx

  • @heidigeebee5870
    @heidigeebee5870 4 роки тому +2

    Don’t ever feel the need to apologize for losing a beloved friend like your cat, especially one that was with you for so long. Hugs.

  • @lporting
    @lporting 4 роки тому

    I’m so sorry about the loss of your cat, I always enjoyed seeing your cat in the videos. I had my cat for 23 years and was so upset when I had to make the decision to put her to sleep. It was the hardest decisions but I knew it was best for her. I cried and cried and still miss her. Thank you for sharing your story. Your kitty was so lucky to have you. You gave her an extraordinary life filled with love.

  • @susanmurphy315
    @susanmurphy315 4 роки тому

    Beautiful tribute.losing a member of the family like that is so difficult because they give unconditional love. The closeness you had with her is so obvious. You were the best mom to her. It shows in your tribute.what a beautiful girl she was.

  • @donnalow3944
    @donnalow3944 4 роки тому +3

    Made me cry as I know the love! I have a dog that Is so attached to me and follows me everywhere all day long. You really love them like a child. My heart feels for you!!!❤ I been following you a long time and you are the best Jennifer. God bless❤❤❤

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  4 роки тому

      Thank you so much Donna! ❤️ Yes, their love is so unconditional. Pets are so special! 🌹

  • @latishakemen578
    @latishakemen578 4 роки тому

    Omg. No joke, I’m crying for your loss. I can feel your love for her when watching this. You gave her THE BEST life.

  • @Lynds75
    @Lynds75 4 роки тому

    Oh Jenifer, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved cat. Losing a pet is SO hard, but she will always live in your heart and in your memories. You gave her a beautiful and very very long life. I also have an autistic son and we’ve been struggling with the virtual learning environment as well. Sending you and your family lots of love! Keep dancing! 😊💖🙏

  • @heatherreed2174
    @heatherreed2174 3 роки тому

    I love your videos and the tribute to your kitty ❤️🥺 They are family and give unconditional love. Thank you for sharing your life with us…this video hits so close.

  • @andja81
    @andja81 3 роки тому +3

    OMG my cat is my world, I can't even imagine how much you miss her!

  • @clarisaantiagingdermatology
    @clarisaantiagingdermatology 4 роки тому +1

    Your cat is like your child.. You are NOT being crazy or anything.. I felt the same pain for long time when my white cat died on my lap looking at me.. that image got stucked in my mind for very long time, almost every day I will be crying for my cat.. So, I understand completely the DEEP pain you are going through..🥰🥰🥰

  • @rhoadestraveled
    @rhoadestraveled 4 роки тому

    I’ve had my dog 9 years I can’t imagine living life without her. I can’t imagine how you feel when you had her 22. I cried with you. I love how authentic you are that is your most endearing trait. You do you. Your tribe sees you and knows your intentions. 💗

  • @LRoman-sy4vg
    @LRoman-sy4vg 4 роки тому

    I am so sorry for your loss !!!! I lost my cat a few years ago and completely feel your pain.... I still cry when I see her pictures....my cat was family and I’ll always have her in my heart ... I’ll tell you what my veterinarian told me ... “the kindest decision you could make is to let her go peacefully”....
    🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @meagheanv7014
    @meagheanv7014 4 роки тому

    I had to put my 21 year old kitty to sleep a few years back. It was sooo terrible. She looks so much like your kitty. It is not silly to cry for the loss of love of any kind. I think of her most every day. You are such a sweet person and obviously very caring. You family is lucky to have you. I’m 25 stuck in the body of a 57 year old still dancing like a fool! Never lose that part of you.

  • @ceecee2075
    @ceecee2075 3 роки тому

    I completely understand. My cat baby was 24 years old when she past. I held her in my arms when she took her last breathe with my children around giving her love until the very end. It’s been 4 years now and it still hurts and I cry often when I remember the joy she gave to our lives. Just know she felt your love and will always be a part of you. ❤️

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  3 роки тому

      24?!! That's amazing! Have you ever read the poem Rainbow Bridge? Someone sent it to me. It's a poem about reuniting with our fur babies one day. It will make you cry but it's also extremely comforting! ❤️🐱

  • @jerig8527
    @jerig8527 4 роки тому

    So very sorry for the loss of your sweet fur baby. We lost our Border Collie Abby a year ago and I miss her sweet self every day. Know that it takes time for the pain in your heart to ease. Allow yourself time to grieve and remember all the fun times you had together, our pets are never forgotten and forever in the fabric of our hearts. Blessings to your Cat.

  • @MakeupForMatureSkin
    @MakeupForMatureSkin 4 роки тому

    I'm so sorry Jenifer for your loss. Those little fur baby's are part of our family and our lives. I know what you're going through because when I lost my Cleo I could not stop crying. Sending hugs and prayers.💖

  • @jen1902
    @jen1902 4 роки тому

    Thank you for being so raw with us. It's been over 5 years that we had to put our dog down and I still cry thinking about her. They are never with us long enough. Love your Insta dances, puts me in a good mood and makes me want to dance! :)

  • @angelmuscledoc
    @angelmuscledoc 4 роки тому +10

    Oh Jenifer, I feel your heartache 💔
    Kaitlyn was one of your children ..
    She is so gorgeous too....
    I am giving you a hug from my heart to yours💌

  • @kimkeck6266
    @kimkeck6266 3 роки тому

    Hi Jennifer....I am again watching you...I commented last night that you were an empath....well watching you cry over your beautiful cat proves it to me! I can feel every emotion you are going through AND it tells me what I already know....you are a very sensitive loving gentle soul and that's why animals and children love you so much...they can feel it too! I have 3 cats...had kittens/cats my whole life. It kills me every time I have to lay one down AND my thoughts always go to how they do not suffer anymore AND we will see them again!! You are an angel on earth!
    Blessing to you ALL!🌺🙏😘

  • @Melanie-bc7kf
    @Melanie-bc7kf 4 роки тому

    It's not silly to love and grieve the loss of your cat. My prayers are with you!!!! I have been watching your channel and always appreciate your transparency.

  • @darwindoughnut2385
    @darwindoughnut2385 4 роки тому +1

    I try and watch all your videos - love your attitude, and am so grateful for your online presence, it feels as though you have created a solid community here. And obviously keep on dancing!

  • @jspraggs9134
    @jspraggs9134 4 роки тому

    Awww, I’m so sorry about your cat. It’s not silly to grieve a pet that’s been with you for so long and that you’ve loved and cared for. Thanks for sharing the videos, you guys are adorable. 💕💕

  • @luvfitall
    @luvfitall 4 роки тому

    Amen. Props to all you moms out there period! YAll are AMaZING and make the world go around. I could never.

  • @abygabar233
    @abygabar233 4 роки тому +10

    I wish I can give you a hug and I’m so sorry for your lost !

  • @Tina-ec5lt
    @Tina-ec5lt 4 роки тому

    I am so very sorry for your loss my sweet friend. I had a dog he wasn’t as old as your cat, he was 16. I had his mother, and actually watched Jody my dog being born. Anyway he passed away at age 16, and it tore me up. They are part of your family. I know exactly how you feel. I too have 2 children doing the virtual learning. I have 2 sons, and I work full time. I feel overwhelmed a lot. My husband works full time out of the home as well, but I just feel like I have the “bulk” of the household workload on me. I like watching your videos, because I can relate so much. I am not alone, just as you are not alone. We are all in this crazy year 2020 together just trying to learn as we go. You cut your hair to release stress, I watch your videos 🤷🏻‍♀️. Thank you for sharing your life with the world!!🥰🥰

  • @dorisminners8387
    @dorisminners8387 4 роки тому

    I'm so so sorry that your cat is no longer with you in person , but she'll always be with you in your heart /she was family and a buddy! You do you /you're beautiful inside and out and that's what's important! ♥️

  • @angelawells659
    @angelawells659 4 роки тому +1

    I love love love your videos they make me so happy seeing you being yourself. I think all women should be supportive of other women! You are a beautiful soul. Keep doing you!!!!!

  • @MakeupForMatureSkin
    @MakeupForMatureSkin 4 роки тому

    Never stop dancing or sharing what you enjoy. Your videos make me smile. 🙂💖

  • @indieautism3280
    @indieautism3280 4 роки тому

    It's AMAZING how u were able to pull it together to help your son with virtual school soon after losing your beloved cat. When my cat died I bawled like a baby for DAYS.. such a touching compilation, I remembered seeing her appearances with u. My sympathies-Elena

  • @marvymcneese3591
    @marvymcneese3591 4 роки тому

    Oh my Gosh Jenifer PLEASE don’t feel that way about your cat. Our animals are our family!
    I lost my dog one month ago today (he ran away and I won’t go into details) but I’m still crying!
    Let yourself feel all of it and mourn the way YOU need to.
    I am so so sorry for your loss. Your baby is in heaven now waiting for you someday. ❤️

  • @glorycalabrese9705
    @glorycalabrese9705 4 роки тому

    I really appreciate you opening up and sharing. I think there is so much that we could relate to. It's been a very difficult year but you coming from a place of gratitude is what helps to change perspective. Just know that its just for a season. We will come out if this stronger. There a so many lessons we can learn from our children. Just like your son is authentic and true you continue to be you...you have a beautiful heart and it shines through...be blessed!!

  • @teresarobbins8932
    @teresarobbins8932 4 роки тому

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl. It breaks my heart too. A beautiful video compilation. She lived a very good life, full of love.

  • @HD-mg9ru
    @HD-mg9ru 4 роки тому

    I am so sorry for your loss Jenifer.. You will always hold them in your heart. I lost my 2 dogs to cancer in 2014
    5 months apart. There is just some days that I'm like what's wrong with me I'll be really upset and then I think of them. It all surfaces and comes up.
    Let it all out, and you will feel better. They're our family. Even to this day at 62 I still grieve over them even my childhood pets. What helps me, in my car so no one can hear, I shout out to them at the top of my voice how much I Love and miss them. It really helps! I know they can hear me. Be Strong!!!

  • @lisaa8437
    @lisaa8437 4 роки тому

    I am one of the few who watch all of your videos. 💕 I am so sorry for your loss! I completely understand, our pets are our family! 💕🙏

  • @summits100
    @summits100 4 роки тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I completely understand how upsetting that is, as I have been through that grief myself. Time heals and in the meantime, please allow yourself to cry as much as you need. ❤️

  • @beverleydlatham769
    @beverleydlatham769 3 роки тому

    I cried with you watching this. It is NOT silly to grieve for a cat or any pet for that matter. When you love something or someone you will feel broken when they die. There are always people who will say 'its just a cat' . but i feel sad for those people who havent loved a pet in the same we as we have . when my father died at the age of 91 people said to me oh well, he had a good long life, but that doesn't help me because i will be without him now.no matter what his age . so, grieve for your precious little cat and hold her in you heart always . xx

  • @jenniferharris7633
    @jenniferharris7633 3 роки тому

    The fact that your baby lived to be twenty two is a testament to the kind of love and care you provided for her. Don't fret. She's waiting for you and you will be together again.

  • @susanw620
    @susanw620 4 роки тому

    I had to put my golden retriever down last Tuesday so am going through the same thing. Just when I thought I had my emotions under control, I went grocery shopping, pulled into the parking space and cried. Something triggered a memory. Miss her so much. Our pets were loved!

  • @shirleyeades3986
    @shirleyeades3986 4 роки тому +1

    The spirit never gets old

  • @hannahlynn5531
    @hannahlynn5531 4 роки тому

    Aww I’m so so sorry about your cat!! I wanted to just cry with you, that is heartbreaking. I also wanted to say that I have always thought you are the most fantastic mother. It’s so apparent in your videos the love you have for your children. I think your dancing videos are so fun! I always think wow she’s so cute and is having a good time and there is nothing wrong with that. You aren’t doing a thing wrong so don’t let anyone shame you. Life is far too short to be a stick in the mud. Blessings to you and keep doing your thing girl! You’re an inspiration to many. 🥰

  • @latridic
    @latridic 4 роки тому +5

    when i was younger, every time I got stressed I would dye my hair. I'm so sorry about your kitty. I lost three to old age and I feel for you. Your kitty is part of your family and making that decision is the hardest thing to do. Sending you love and prayers. I see your instagram and there has never been anything that offends me. Some people are just unhappy.

  • @patriciag6260
    @patriciag6260 4 роки тому

    Omg this is heartbreaking, I am so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard but find peace knowing you two will be reunited one day! 💕😇🙏🏼

  • @sarahsmith3682
    @sarahsmith3682 4 роки тому

    Oh gosh, losing a pet is just...so painful. I'm so, so sorry. She seemed like the sweetest little gal. You gave her such a beautiful life, never forget that. That compilation at the end was so beautiful ❤️

  • @lisam7822
    @lisam7822 4 роки тому

    I am so sorry, Jenifer. I love the videos of you and your cat. I can relate with the pain of it all. They are more to us than just pets. You gave her a great life. Sending you lots of hugs!❤

  • @user-ff9mb1ts4u
    @user-ff9mb1ts4u 4 роки тому +1

    You're so brave for being able to post something so vulnerable and emotional on your channel for us! I wanted to cry with you! Pets become family for sure.

  • @irsqpets
    @irsqpets 4 роки тому

    I have never watched you but you popped up on my feed and the "miss my cat" intrigued me. You never have to apologize for the love you have in a animal and you were blessed with 22 years, that is incredible but it does not make the loss any less. Phony and fake runs rampant on UA-cam, but seeing this video of your transparency is a welcome change, I will become a subscriber. Your sweet Baby Girl Kailyn is away from you home but will be forever in your heart!

    • @JeniferJenkinsBeauty
      @JeniferJenkinsBeauty  4 роки тому

      IRSQPETS Thank you saying such nice things, it means a lot! ❤️🌺

  • @trixiegirlism
    @trixiegirlism 4 роки тому

    Losing a beloved pet can be every bit as painful and heartbreaking as losing a family member or friend. they are our family and sometimes as close to us as anyone in our lives. I was inconsolable for eight months after losing my previous pet. finding a new little one has helped, but there is always that one special one that is permanently etched into your heart. You were lucky to have had her for so many years.

  • @lesatremblay2242
    @lesatremblay2242 4 роки тому

    She couldn't of asked for a better mom....you were perfect for her and she had a wonderful life, thanks to you!

  • @HollyL56
    @HollyL56 4 роки тому +6

    Jenifer I just started the video and had to stop and say I’m so very sorry for your loss. Losing a pet, a member of the family, is so hard. It’s not silly at all and it’s not just a cat. It was your beautiful cat that you loved for many years. I have cats and have lost some along the way. It was months sometimes before I could finally stop crying when thinking about my loss and you will never forget, but the good news is it will get better and you’ll be left with good memories that you’ll always cherish. Sending you a giant hug and again I’m so very sorry.❤️❤️

  • @mcorley2521
    @mcorley2521 3 роки тому

    I’m so grateful for your videos. I’m 50 and have a 13 year old son with autism. I Love my cat and have lost one that was beyond the best friend I have ever had. My son has taught me so much and I’m beyond grateful for you being open. I Love makeup and I dance too!! It keeps you happy. And I feel like being happy gets harder and harder as we get older. Your joy is contagious. I’m a runner so I’m trying to get my joy from that bc you’re right. People are judgemental. I use my music while I run. It’s wonderful. So thank you!!!! I’m very connected to my younger self and it’s weird to me when others aren’t. I’ve spent so many years alone with my son. Years!!!! The summer is so hard. So I’ve adapted by using music and believing there’s a purpose. Autism is hard. Thank you 🙏

  • @blessedhaven5792
    @blessedhaven5792 4 роки тому

    Oh sweetie!!! We feel your pain for your beautiful cat❤️ She was your life!! Lots of love & prayers!

  • @kristiewicher2274
    @kristiewicher2274 4 роки тому

    Of course it is ok to grieve the loss of your cat, they are beloved members of our family too and their loss is devastating! I recently lost one myself about 3 months ago and I still cry my eyes out from time to time over him as well as other pets I have lost. It is never easy.

  • @lynnc7896
    @lynnc7896 4 роки тому

    Awww...i just wanted to give you a hug, I'm so sorry Jenifer, pets are a part of the family and it's heartbreaking when they pass. 💔

  • @christinemack2153
    @christinemack2153 4 роки тому

    Jennifer, I wasn't prepared for the end of your video and am sobbing. You and Kailyn had a very special bond. I'm so sorry she had to leave you...but not in spirit or memories. I lost two kitties and it was very hard. Be you and dance away. You're a wonderful and patient Mom! Love and Healing.