I think a lot of people overlooked the fact that Allie trusted her father . It’s clear he’s an understanding man who wants his daughter to be happy most of all .
Back in those days, it was a woman's job to raise the daughter properly and the husband focussed on working or running a business. When the daughter acts up and is disobedient, it's the mother who is failing to discipline her child and keep her under control. Husbands avoided this sort of teenage drama. He's distancing himself from it.
@@caravanlifenz That's what I was thinking. Even to this day, fathers tend to be clueless on how to handle angsty teen girls and just let the mother deal with it. I think it's just a natural part of mother/father parenting.
@@caravanlifenzI’m glad times have changed….. had I been her father I would of stood up for Allie. Noah was a wonderful young man. Just because he doesn’t come from wealth doesn’t means he’s trash. I’d support Allie in her choice, and I’d tell her mother to shut up and stop controlling her.
What her family had failed to see in Noah was a pure heart, in spite of his appearance. He had so much to offer Allie. He might be middle class, so what, he is a truly sincere, hard working person who's willing to sacrifice for the benefit of Allie and her happiness.
They were aware of all of that. That was not the mothers position. This happens in real life all of the time and its not due to the lack of having a pure heart either. There was no real middle class at that time either, he was just considered poor.
@zoefang4563 actually I would love that!! Human bowling pins basketball. And I biasely call it moonlight bowling. Take a shot everytime Mt Dew to rebas song
My aunt married a rich guy and he would only let her drink a Thai tea mixing with half water if they go to a restaurant in my country. And he drinks full Thai tea. People, married someone who really loves you and give you what you want.
It's the present that's important. I really like this movie. It's great I grew up with the love of movies. I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend during my younger days. Falling in love is "NATURAL". I have no regrets. It's great I have emphathy.
I have known too many people with money, who live and conduct themselves like trash, to think that it's a "poor" person thing. The rich trash are the worst, because they think they aren't trash.
I think a lot of people overlooked the fact that Allie trusted her father . It’s clear he’s an understanding man who wants his daughter to be happy most of all .
Back in those days, it was a woman's job to raise the daughter properly and the husband focussed on working or running a business. When the daughter acts up and is disobedient, it's the mother who is failing to discipline her child and keep her under control. Husbands avoided this sort of teenage drama. He's distancing himself from it.
@@caravanlifenz We are also making children distance themselves from this drama for better or worse
@@caravanlifenz That's what I was thinking. Even to this day, fathers tend to be clueless on how to handle angsty teen girls and just let the mother deal with it. I think it's just a natural part of mother/father parenting.
@@caravanlifenzI’m glad times have changed….. had I been her father I would of stood up for Allie. Noah was a wonderful young man. Just because he doesn’t come from wealth doesn’t means he’s trash. I’d support Allie in her choice, and I’d tell her mother to shut up and stop controlling her.
I think she meant she trusted her father to cater to her emotions lol. They failed her here.
This is the best father a daughter could ever have.
What her family had failed to see in Noah was a pure heart, in spite of his appearance. He had so much to offer Allie. He might be middle class, so what, he is a truly sincere, hard working person who's willing to sacrifice for the benefit of Allie and her happiness.
They were aware of all of that. That was not the mothers position. This happens in real life all of the time and its not due to the lack of having a pure heart either. There was no real middle class at that time either, he was just considered poor.
Allie's mom reminds me of Rose's mom from Titanic. These two should get together and go bowling...
What does middle class have to do with anything. It's just an excuse
@zoefang4563 actually I would love that!! Human bowling pins basketball. And I biasely call it moonlight bowling. Take a shot everytime Mt
Dew to rebas song
He was actually lower than middle class
Oh harry our notebook obsessed baby. Always quoting the notebook even on tour
so we’re all here hahah
@@anjieeee where else should we be? 😌
@@anjieeee yes we are
@@anjieeee yea we are
Love someone is easy. Loving forever is not.
But love is best medicine for curing broken heart.
They didn’t even know him but they called him trash . Sad 😢
Rich ppl 😒
@@teddybroosevelt6826 you'd better off raising tomatoes lol
She meant money wise, it’s just how they talk. But I agree it’s awful :(
The mother was a snob.
Yes indeed
Her dad looks like a Southern Joseph Stalin
I'm saying 😂
aladeen
He's looking for Trotsky
0:10 when you come back from a night out clubbing
My aunt married a rich guy and he would only let her drink a Thai tea mixing with half water if they go to a restaurant in my country. And he drinks full Thai tea.
People, married someone who really loves you and give you what you want.
Why can’t she drink full Thai tea?
It's the present that's important. I really like this movie. It's great I grew up with the love of movies. I wasn't allowed to have a boyfriend during my younger days. Falling in love is "NATURAL". I have no regrets. It's great I have emphathy.
He was soft tho,he let that pressure get to him,she never broke.
Oh watch out, we got a strong man over here
@@sl9wdive yeah he was weak didn’t even try she fought harder than him outside of the letters
Ty Nicolas for making a beautiful story..I never thought what I wrote would turn out so wonderful ty
If there's any sort of games, TRASH TRASH TRASH not for you
How dare she called my favorite actor Ryan Gosling trash. My man Ryan Gosling not trash 😠
it was an honor to see Harry yell this
I THANK THIS MOVIE BY NICHOLAS SPARKS ♥️ THIS IS TRUE LOVE. IT'S NOT ABOUT THE GUYS MONEY.
im here because of harry edwards styles
me too
I have known too many people with money, who live and conduct themselves like trash, to think that it's a "poor" person thing. The rich trash are the worst, because they think they aren't trash.
Harry Styles: trash trash trash not for u
Her parents don’t want her daughter to find a poor man ❤❤❤❤
im gonna make a tiktok with this audio
Someone used this for the whole Swiftie, Matty and Taylor meme lol.
The father is Mortimer Goth 😲😲
What is it about having money that can turn a person into a mean individual.
Just realized her Dad is married to Cyndi Lauper IRL.
Oh yeah that’s the singer who made time after time my favorite 80’s song 🎧 ❤😊
And is the dictator of the Soviet Union. Lookin' ahh
Her mom married for money
Exactly
She lacked the guts of doing something about her lack of patience. And she now had paid the price (no pun intended lol)
Goldigger 💍🤑💰
Same with all these women who married for money and later blamed men for their poor choice
1:39
this is my roman empire.
“Love”🥴
He looks very young to be her Dad ( even younger than the Noah character )
I'M HONEST ♥️
Dads protecting his daughter .
"White People Almost Kissing: a book by Nicholas Sparks"
and black people already baby daddy or momma
why are there only five comments 💀
Too much truth and truth hurst ... Red pill stuff is not popular nowdays, we like fairytails :)
lol in india the guy won't return alive from the girl's parents house if ever he dared to enter
🤣🤣🤣
in India, yall still do that arranged marriage bullshlt
This movie seems like the titanic on land
Press 7 for Trash
Press 2 for the Police lol
Too close to home...
Allie, take out the trash,trash,trash!! Now now now
1:37 what am i even doing?
thank you !
Her mom is right❤❤❤
Trash? You are the one saying that knowjng he can hear you.
Who cries? Lol i do
lol
🙄❤️🥰😘😉🤗
"he's trash" crazy how rich White women have contempt for poor White men