My take on Lily (I’m a clinical social worker) is that she is the victim of some horrific SA and that one or both of her parents are narcissists. I don’t think Lily is a narcissist. I think this is the display of her abuse. In my experience people who are victims of SA end up either celibate and scared of intimacy or super hyper sexual, which is where Lily falls into. My take on her crying after the 100 men is that she was so overwhelmed by all those brief trauma bonds. I’d hate to see what she is like at age 30. If she doesn’t stop this behavior, she will end up with a personality disorder.
Yes I also agree that this probably was more physical exhaustion (hell I cry all the time when I am tired and hungry after a stressful shift at the hospital!). But I disagree with the analysis that her concern that she cared if the guys had a good time was not genuine. Maybe not so much in that she cared for the individual man, but more that she didn't put up a good performance and the fear that those guys maybe would call her a cheat afterwards (and thus taint the "success" of the endeavour). Her afterwards saying that those were all bad shags doesn't contradict that i.m.o., because if she thinks she should have performed better in those shags and was just stressed out, yeah, they were bad shags for her, but that doesn't necessarily mean she is talking about the men themselves being bad in bed per se.
I dont particularly care about things on the internet because overall, we've entered an age where people will do anything for fame and attention. But with this, it is almost demonic what this girl his done, there's is something deeply distrubed in her spirit. And when I saw her cry, I felt like her body/spirit was crying for help. It is scary the type of world we are heading too, she has now set a bar , that some women will now think they will have to cross in order to reach that type of success. Thank you for this breadown, you've explained what i couldn't put into words.
It’s possible her crying was her soul crying for help. But smth tells me it was purely due to exhaustion and her values of being known and recognised is wayyy above her self respect. Meaning it’s somehow narcissistic if not psychopathic
@@milathepsychologistI agree. Ppl cry after going through a marathon, winning in a contest that they’ve worked so hard for. They play the part they portrayed for themselves that it’s was the only thing in their mind. After conquering that, they let go of that part and reflect on the difficulties that came along the way.
this has been going on for years, it has nothing to do with the internet. look up the annabel chong/grace qwek story and "the world's biggest gang bang," 20 years ago. ron jeremy was involved. ever since porn was filmed, this is a phenomenon, and it's far from the worst.
26:04 so many people want to infantilize her. She’s straight up saying what she wants and why. To me she comes across very fake, greedy, and doesn’t care about anyone.
Finally an interesting review! All the rest are the same, shallow predictable comments. I would love to see a review about Bonnie Blue. That’s a different level of sociopath- psychopath.
I actually had this thought initially too. I’m still on the fence, a very little. Having been around way too many people who exhibit signs like this, you start to catch onto their slip ups. They tell on themselves, quite a bit, but it’s more subtle and is easy to justify with something other than the negative connotation of having narc type traits. Great video!!
Great analysis! Thank you🥰 I have this strange feeling that she was abused in a childhood by her father... so everything that happens after is some wierd coping mechanism? Not to mention that her father's friend follows her on OF and "keeps contacting her"😮😮
I agree. That was very likely. Usually sexual abuse is kept hidden under 1000 locks in the family and is usually denied. Could have been her father, uncle or brother. Could have been that father’s friend 😕Or could be that this is just what she chooses to do to gain recognition. Extreme Desire to be known stems from narcissistic wound.
@@milathepsychologist you have this unique approach to "lily phenomenon" and it made me think hard about her narcissistic personality😲 that never occured to me since everyone sees her either as a victim or as a pure opportunist. In my opinion, these men are equally disgusting- cant even phatom how is it like to have intercourse after 43 men that was there before you - can u imagine being hundredth in a queue that day😲 anyways, i appreciate so much your prevoius response you are awesome🥰
31:45 Interesting. The psychologist is referring to the **Karpman Drama Triangle**. * **The Drama Triangle** is a model that illustrates how people can get locked into unhealthy and unproductive interpersonal dynamics. * **The three roles:** * **Victim:** Feels helpless, powerless, and often blames others. * **Persecutor:** Blames, criticizes, and dominates. * **Rescuer:** Tries to "save" the victim, often without being asked, and ends up enabling the victim's helplessness. * **By entering as a "Rescuer",** the person wanting to help may unintentionally: * **Reinforce the victim's helplessness:** The victim may become dependent on the rescuer, hindering their own ability to solve problems and take responsibility for their actions. * **Create resentment and anger:** The victim may feel infantilized or controlled by the rescuer. * **Get caught in a cycle of drama:** The roles can shift, with the rescuer eventually feeling victimized or becoming the persecutor. **Instead of falling into the "Rescuer" role, the psychologist is suggesting that a more helpful approach might be to:** * **Encourage self-reliance:** Help the person develop problem-solving skills and a sense of agency. * **Offer support, but avoid taking over:** Provide a listening ear, offer guidance when requested, and set healthy boundaries. * **Focus on empathy and understanding:** Validate the person's feelings without condoning their self-destructive behavior. It's important to note that the Drama Triangle is a simplified model, and real-life situations are often more complex. **Disclaimer:** This information is for general knowledge and discussion purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. (Google's Gemini AI)
Thank you very much for your deep dive and for this video, I was in search since the documentary was out, to find a psychology analysis from a professionist.
This is fascinating, I just discovered your channel and I absolutely loved watching this. One thing I'd say to potentially help improve is maybe adding chapters / title slides and sections in order to create more structure in your videos? that would be really helpful to understand your points & when you're moving onto the next one. I thoroughly enjoyed your way of breaking down the video but that's just a potential improvement if you're open to it. Anyway, you've got a new subscriber!! 😊❤ thank you for sharing your expertise!
@ haha aww thank you for replying to me! It deffo takes time but it would elevate your channel and could potentially help target a new demographic of viewers. Could try it for a video or two and ask your viewers for feedback in the comments about the new format. Have a great day! ☺️🫶🏼
I recall she said in a follow-up video about the documentary that she didn't like how it was edited. That she wouldn't have done it "that way". Whatever "that way" meant to her. I'm guessing is that it was edited in a way that appeared to judge her and she doesn't feel judged in any way by anybody.
As many people said here: thank u for saying that she DIDN’T cry because of the guilt but “only” because of the physical exhaustion. She even said something like “at a certain point it was just a routine and I think that I had a bad performance with them” and that was another reason she was crying: because in her opinion she didn’t satisfied enough those men as she desired to do. Really weird
I don’t doubt she has some trauma associated with intercourse. I mean, no matter how much a person claims they do it because they enjoy it, that is usually triggered by something. But to what extent does that mean she’s a victim of? I think she is who she has chosen to be.
Hi Mila. I haven't seen you in a long time. I still have your Hit The Road Jack cover and Freestyle DubStep Dance. You should have been a singer. Psychologist is also not so bad.
I watched Martin DeCoder, and he made some excellent points suggesting that she’s living in a state of cognitive dissonance. However, I feel like there’s something more going on-something a bit more sinister behind that angelic smile. Your analysis is incredibly insightful, and I agree that she might be dealing with some kind of personality issue. She honestly gives me the creeps. It feels like she’s fame-hungry, thriving on all the attention she’s getting. Why talk about all her issues so openly, only to turn around and aim to set a new record of 1,000? She seems intoxicated by the spotlight and just keeps craving more.
I am unsure whether she is a narcissist by the definition of NPD however her trauma certainly makes her exhibit narcissistic traits. So this is my assessment: she is self deprecating (which could be a sign of covert narcissism) from comments that she sprinkles throughout the documentary. Also I noticed she has demonstrated people pleasing tendencies when she says she’s worried about disappointing her subscribers, and I can also see that behaviour towards her staff and her parents. There seems to be a sense that she feels a certain obligation towards them financially? Lastly, she does say that she could be living the same lifestyle on 20k a month VS what she is earning now doing this content- so by her account I believe her when she says shes not solely doing this for the money- in my experience and loose research on narcissist- they tend to be more drawn to materialism as part of their grandeur and need for social status and given when they do have social status they are very unapologetic about it as well. With Lilly, she does mention her conflict creating this content in that she’s aware that none of this is normal and its potential effects on young women. In contrast, the other creator Bonnie blue I believe is a narcissist lol- she’s very unapologetic about what she does, she’s very drawn to the money and doesn’t care about the ethical ramifications- so it’s much more self serving. I think Lilly is deeply insecure and broken, and she is overcompensating and doing all of this as a trauma response but internally, intuitively doesn’t feel good about it- she’s convincing herself that it’s what she wants and the fame is a way to fill some kind of deeper void. - it is still narcissistic behaviour but it’s different from being a narcissist- so yep cognitive dissonance (which I feel like true narcs wouldn’t suffer from cause they typically don’t believe they do anything wrong and lack that self awareness) She could have BPD or something maybe?- intermingled with the social conditioning of society that puts value on fame. A very deeply insecure girl.
I think it's normal for people who have empathy to feel for people who base their value on money and fame. We know that this doesn't bring true happiness. If she did experience a trauma then I do feel for her.
Interesting take on this. I think she has narsistic/ sosiopath behavior too. I think se has some type of trauma or self harm behaviour. Becouse the way she talks about her family and childhood. After she has done it she has a trauma respons. Obviously. After that she does not care what she has done and want's more. And do not care.
You're reaching so hard! I really think it's unhealthy to label people narcissists based on a few UA-cam's. You don't understand British humour are deliberately missing context. Like the levels video, he was being sooo unbelievably loud and annoying. It was totally fair to pick up on that. She did it in a kind way too.
I definitely believe that she is somewhere on the cluster B spectrum or truly sociopathic 😅 but where does narcissim begin? is it also women wearing makeup in their pictures and reels on Instagram? where is the exact difference between makeup and digital filters or photoshopped pictures? both is althering yourself? would all of this be narcissism?
I can’t put my finger on it either ,it’s very english like she has been raised here but perhaps born somewhere else and came here very young so still has just a little twang of something ,I’m thinking danish /Swedish/finnish/Austrian ,but I really don’t know to be honest -Mila -help us out here ,lol ,please ????????????
Really good video! I feel everything you have said is accurate but being honest with you as a society we can not let "everyone do whatever they want" she is in a lot of platforms like TikTok not just OF and young girls and future generations could be easily influent by her... So of course is a concern, what's gonna be next after she sleep with 1000 man? what young lady will want to follow her footsteps? as a society when we started to fail to the next generations, when we started to get so far of the ways of the Lord? the world is how it is at the moment because nobody cares about others. If she was someone you love you wouldn't let her do whatever she wants. We need to pray for her, this is evil and demonic.
One doesnt know what to say, if its sabe to do this. Even money or for fame. But it must be risky Jeopardy your health like this . But cause sex is involved its is of interest, but to what price.😮
I felt bad for her when she cried but I believe you... Too bad nobody is talking about this scenario, this video deserves more views cause I think you nailed it! Another guy said she cried because she felt violated (@FreshandFit Clips) but it's too late for her cause she filmed everything, I also agree with him, she did this for her own gain and had a lucid moment in which she realized how far she went because of her narcissistic tendencies... I don't think narcissists have the capacity to understand they did something wrong but I witnessed some of them having rare moments when they cry and realize how f** up they are... It doesn't happen often but they can have moments when they get angry at themselves and get emotional about it...
Thank you this is very interesting. All of those things that she is saying, like success going viral, making money and her image being very important to her etc. These are all the things that almost every content creator says also. Like, for example, many You Tube content creators says the exact same things being most important to them ( specifically the ones who has millions of followers). How are they different than this Lily girl here ? How do we know who is a narcissist and who is not ? And why does it matter ?
thank you! most online creators are narcissistic including celebrities. I myself have narcissistic radical. it should not come as surprise. And how do we know who is and who is not? thats a question that requires hours to answer.
@@milathepsychologist Yeah, I guess it would really take hours and even more to answer that. I have thought about this matter because I think I myself have tendencies also to be at least, narcissistic. The thing that makes this matter just so hard is, the "fact" that this society is kind of rewarding you being that way. I think. But nevertheless I think your take on this is so very interesting and far more intelligent than many other ones that has more of a "simple"way to look at this all. I am a new sub and would recommend this channel to others also!
If you're really a practicing psychologist, I hope your clients don't happen to see this kinda videos. She might have a personalitydisorder, but ain't your job to help this kinda people? And she is young!! And probably traumatized. What are you doing? And for what?
My take on Lily (I’m a clinical social worker) is that she is the victim of some horrific SA and that one or both of her parents are narcissists. I don’t think Lily is a narcissist. I think this is the display of her abuse. In my experience people who are victims of SA end up either celibate and scared of intimacy or super hyper sexual, which is where Lily falls into. My take on her crying after the 100 men is that she was so overwhelmed by all those brief trauma bonds. I’d hate to see what she is like at age 30. If she doesn’t stop this behavior, she will end up with a personality disorder.
maybe the disorder is already present, she clearly shows the signs of addiction. After hitting 100, she needs the fix of 1000.
👍.💔💔.😢 If she doesn't already have one.😢 😞
I agree. She is totally mirroring the people she is around, and to me she really looks scared and vulnerable.
Its like a modern geek show that was common a 100 years ago. Sad and tragic.
I was thinking exactly the same
Finally someone sharing the feeling that she did not cry out of regret at all. I think people are projecting.
Right. There are so many other feelings and emotions that could make a human cry.
Yes I also agree that this probably was more physical exhaustion (hell I cry all the time when I am tired and hungry after a stressful shift at the hospital!). But I disagree with the analysis that her concern that she cared if the guys had a good time was not genuine. Maybe not so much in that she cared for the individual man, but more that she didn't put up a good performance and the fear that those guys maybe would call her a cheat afterwards (and thus taint the "success" of the endeavour). Her afterwards saying that those were all bad shags doesn't contradict that i.m.o., because if she thinks she should have performed better in those shags and was just stressed out, yeah, they were bad shags for her, but that doesn't necessarily mean she is talking about the men themselves being bad in bed per se.
I dont particularly care about things on the internet because overall, we've entered an age where people will do anything for fame and attention. But with this, it is almost demonic what this girl his done, there's is something deeply distrubed in her spirit. And when I saw her cry, I felt like her body/spirit was crying for help. It is scary the type of world we are heading too, she has now set a bar , that some women will now think they will have to cross in order to reach that type of success. Thank you for this breadown, you've explained what i couldn't put into words.
It’s possible her crying was her soul crying for help. But smth tells me it was purely due to exhaustion and her values of being known and recognised is wayyy above her self respect. Meaning it’s somehow narcissistic if not psychopathic
It is demonic
@@milathepsychologistI agree. Ppl cry after going through a marathon, winning in a contest that they’ve worked so hard for. They play the part they portrayed for themselves that it’s was the only thing in their mind. After conquering that, they let go of that part and reflect on the difficulties that came along the way.
this has been going on for years, it has nothing to do with the internet. look up the annabel chong/grace qwek story and "the world's biggest gang bang," 20 years ago. ron jeremy was involved. ever since porn was filmed, this is a phenomenon, and it's far from the worst.
26:04 so many people want to infantilize her. She’s straight up saying what she wants and why. To me she comes across very fake, greedy, and doesn’t care about anyone.
Finally an interesting review! All the rest are the same, shallow predictable comments. I would love to see a review about Bonnie Blue. That’s a different level of sociopath- psychopath.
Yes! True sociopath
This is a great analysis!
21:14 "And who cares about health when theres money to gain."😳
Probably the most accurate analysis of Lily and this event I have seen.
Well done Mila. Liked and subbed
I actually had this thought initially too. I’m still on the fence, a very little. Having been around way too many people who exhibit signs like this, you start to catch onto their slip ups. They tell on themselves, quite a bit, but it’s more subtle and is easy to justify with something other than the negative connotation of having narc type traits. Great video!!
your take is good- very good- she will have her 15 mins of fame -but it won't end well for her mentally-ugh a sad situation-she is fooked
Your analysis of this is very clever!
Great analysis! Thank you🥰
I have this strange feeling that she was abused in a childhood by her father... so everything that happens after is some wierd coping mechanism? Not to mention that her father's friend follows her on OF and "keeps contacting her"😮😮
I agree. That was very likely. Usually sexual abuse is kept hidden under 1000 locks in the family and is usually denied. Could have been her father, uncle or brother. Could have been that father’s friend 😕Or could be that this is just what she chooses to do to gain recognition. Extreme Desire to be known stems from narcissistic wound.
@@milathepsychologist you have this unique approach to "lily phenomenon" and it made me think hard about her narcissistic personality😲 that never occured to me since everyone sees her either as a victim or as a pure opportunist. In my opinion, these men are equally disgusting- cant even phatom how is it like to have intercourse after 43 men that was there before you - can u imagine being hundredth in a queue that day😲 anyways, i appreciate so much your prevoius response you are awesome🥰
@@Tara_S809 indeed…thank you Tara 💚
@@milathepsychologist 🩵
Your analysis of this is very smart!
Narcissistic for sure “fame” as an end in itself (aka notoriety).
Wow this is the most in depth analysis I’ve watch. Thank you it was truly informative
I hadnt seen these clips.
You have a point about this duality.
We need an analysis on Justin Baldoni!
Actually working on it now 😂
31:45 Interesting.
The psychologist is referring to the **Karpman Drama Triangle**.
* **The Drama Triangle** is a model that illustrates how people can get locked into unhealthy and unproductive interpersonal dynamics.
* **The three roles:**
* **Victim:** Feels helpless, powerless, and often blames others.
* **Persecutor:** Blames, criticizes, and dominates.
* **Rescuer:** Tries to "save" the victim, often without being asked, and ends up enabling the victim's helplessness.
* **By entering as a "Rescuer",** the person wanting to help may unintentionally:
* **Reinforce the victim's helplessness:** The victim may become dependent on the rescuer, hindering their own ability to solve problems and take responsibility for their actions.
* **Create resentment and anger:** The victim may feel infantilized or controlled by the rescuer.
* **Get caught in a cycle of drama:** The roles can shift, with the rescuer eventually feeling victimized or becoming the persecutor.
**Instead of falling into the "Rescuer" role, the psychologist is suggesting that a more helpful approach might be to:**
* **Encourage self-reliance:** Help the person develop problem-solving skills and a sense of agency.
* **Offer support, but avoid taking over:** Provide a listening ear, offer guidance when requested, and set healthy boundaries.
* **Focus on empathy and understanding:** Validate the person's feelings without condoning their self-destructive behavior.
It's important to note that the Drama Triangle is a simplified model, and real-life situations are often more complex.
**Disclaimer:** This information is for general knowledge and discussion purposes only and does not constitute professional advice. (Google's Gemini AI)
Best analysis I've seen on her by far!
Thank you very much for your deep dive and for this video, I was in search since the documentary was out, to find a psychology analysis from a professionist.
Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤❤❤
This is fascinating, I just discovered your channel and I absolutely loved watching this. One thing I'd say to potentially help improve is maybe adding chapters / title slides and sections in order to create more structure in your videos? that would be really helpful to understand your points & when you're moving onto the next one. I thoroughly enjoyed your way of breaking down the video but that's just a potential improvement if you're open to it. Anyway, you've got a new subscriber!! 😊❤ thank you for sharing your expertise!
yesss , you are absolutely right ! it just takes so much time lol , but ill do it
@ haha aww thank you for replying to me! It deffo takes time but it would elevate your channel and could potentially help target a new demographic of viewers. Could try it for a video or two and ask your viewers for feedback in the comments about the new format. Have a great day! ☺️🫶🏼
thank you 🙏🏻
I think you NAILED IT!
Well this definitely made me see this girl in a different light
Honestly, enjoyed watching you!
I recall she said in a follow-up video about the documentary that she didn't like how it was edited. That she wouldn't have done it "that way". Whatever "that way" meant to her. I'm guessing is that it was edited in a way that appeared to judge her and she doesn't feel judged in any way by anybody.
IMO I think a lot of ppl 'feel sad,' because we look at this generation and at how easy they sell their souls, it's sad to observe as an older woman.
Amazing
As many people said here: thank u for saying that she DIDN’T cry because of the guilt but “only” because of the physical exhaustion. She even said something like “at a certain point it was just a routine and I think that I had a bad performance with them” and that was another reason she was crying: because in her opinion she didn’t satisfied enough those men as she desired to do.
Really weird
I don’t doubt she has some trauma associated with intercourse. I mean, no matter how much a person claims they do it because they enjoy it, that is usually triggered by something. But to what extent does that mean she’s a victim of? I think she is who she has chosen to be.
Hi Mila. I haven't seen you in a long time. I still have your Hit The Road Jack cover and Freestyle DubStep Dance. You should have been a singer. Psychologist is also not so bad.
I watched Martin DeCoder, and he made some excellent points suggesting that she’s living in a state of cognitive dissonance. However, I feel like there’s something more going on-something a bit more sinister behind that angelic smile. Your analysis is incredibly insightful, and I agree that she might be dealing with some kind of personality issue.
She honestly gives me the creeps. It feels like she’s fame-hungry, thriving on all the attention she’s getting. Why talk about all her issues so openly, only to turn around and aim to set a new record of 1,000? She seems intoxicated by the spotlight and just keeps craving more.
Good analysis, I agree with you.
+ why are you smiling when you read people's comments that express how sad and depressed they feel after watching Lily?
I am unsure whether she is a narcissist by the definition of NPD however her trauma certainly makes her exhibit narcissistic traits. So this is my assessment: she is self deprecating (which could be a sign of covert narcissism) from comments that she sprinkles throughout the documentary. Also I noticed she has demonstrated people pleasing tendencies when she says she’s worried about disappointing her subscribers, and I can also see that behaviour towards her staff and her parents. There seems to be a sense that she feels a certain obligation towards them financially? Lastly, she does say that she could be living the same lifestyle on 20k a month VS what she is earning now doing this content- so by her account I believe her when she says shes not solely doing this for the money- in my experience and loose research on narcissist- they tend to be more drawn to materialism as part of their grandeur and need for social status and given when they do have social status they are very unapologetic about it as well. With Lilly, she does mention her conflict creating this content in that she’s aware that none of this is normal and its potential effects on young women.
In contrast, the other creator Bonnie blue I believe is a narcissist lol- she’s very unapologetic about what she does, she’s very drawn to the money and doesn’t care about the ethical ramifications- so it’s much more self serving.
I think Lilly is deeply insecure and broken, and she is overcompensating and doing all of this as a trauma response but internally, intuitively doesn’t feel good about it- she’s convincing herself that it’s what she wants and the fame is a way to fill some kind of deeper void. - it is still narcissistic behaviour but it’s different from being a narcissist- so yep cognitive dissonance (which I feel like true narcs wouldn’t suffer from cause they typically don’t believe they do anything wrong and lack that self awareness)
She could have BPD or something maybe?- intermingled with the social conditioning of society that puts value on fame. A very deeply insecure girl.
Woah fully mind blown 🤯 this analysis is pretty interesting.
super great video!! I hope you continue with this great work!!
Thank you ❤❤❤
Even doing this stunt would mean you have to have a hardness about your character.
I think it's normal for people who have empathy to feel for people who base their value on money and fame. We know that this doesn't bring true happiness. If she did experience a trauma then I do feel for her.
I can’t help but feel like everything she says now is performative
What about Blake lively? Have we all
Misunderstood her too?
Nice take 👌👏
Interesting take on this. I think she has narsistic/ sosiopath behavior too. I think se has some type of trauma or self harm behaviour. Becouse the way she talks about her family and childhood. After she has done it she has a trauma respons. Obviously. After that she does not care what she has done and want's more. And do not care.
Agree!
Please do more of these psychoanalysis seriessssss❤❤❤❤❤
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻yesss I will
You're reaching so hard! I really think it's unhealthy to label people narcissists based on a few UA-cam's. You don't understand British humour are deliberately missing context. Like the levels video, he was being sooo unbelievably loud and annoying. It was totally fair to pick up on that. She did it in a kind way too.
I definitely believe that she is somewhere on the cluster B spectrum or truly sociopathic 😅
but where does narcissim begin? is it also women wearing makeup in their pictures and reels on Instagram? where is the exact difference between makeup and digital filters or photoshopped pictures? both is althering yourself? would all of this be narcissism?
Mila you really remind me of Juliette Lewis ,especially when she was younger,you really look like her in your face and eyes and smile
Just began watching but I hope as a professional you aren’t diagnosing without meeting or working with this person. 😅
Miss. Interesting accent! Might I know where you're from. The U.K? SouthAfrica?
I can’t put my finger on it either ,it’s very english like she has been raised here but perhaps born somewhere else and came here very young so still has just a little twang of something ,I’m thinking danish /Swedish/finnish/Austrian ,but I really don’t know to be honest -Mila -help us out here ,lol ,please ????????????
@@jaiadixon7918 I’m Russian, raised in Japan. Lived in Australia for about 6 years. I think that’s where the accent comes from 😅
@ wow,they are all very different places to live - awesome ,Thankyou x
Her prefrontal cortex will not have matured yet ?
Really good video! I feel everything you have said is accurate but being honest with you as a society we can not let "everyone do whatever they want" she is in a lot of platforms like TikTok not just OF and young girls and future generations could be easily influent by her... So of course is a concern, what's gonna be next after she sleep with 1000 man? what young lady will want to follow her footsteps? as a society when we started to fail to the next generations, when we started to get so far of the ways of the Lord? the world is how it is at the moment because nobody cares about others. If she was someone you love you wouldn't let her do whatever she wants. We need to pray for her, this is evil and demonic.
One doesnt know what to say, if its sabe to do this. Even money or for fame. But it must be risky Jeopardy your health like this . But cause sex is involved its is of interest, but to what price.😮
So her behavior can not anyway be any kind of trauma response from possible sa background and she must be just total narcissist? Okay
Hmm you exhausted yourself in the end just like Lily has exhausted herself during this challenge, are you both similar?
So she has us all fooled - and I thought Bonnie Blue was the psycho
Two grand in a day , I would get retired and live the same day
I felt bad for her when she cried but I believe you... Too bad nobody is talking about this scenario, this video deserves more views cause I think you nailed it! Another guy said she cried because she felt violated (@FreshandFit Clips) but it's too late for her cause she filmed everything, I also agree with him, she did this for her own gain and had a lucid moment in which she realized how far she went because of her narcissistic tendencies... I don't think narcissists have the capacity to understand they did something wrong but I witnessed some of them having rare moments when they cry and realize how f** up they are... It doesn't happen often but they can have moments when they get angry at themselves and get emotional about it...
Also Meghan Markel
Thank you this is very interesting. All of those things that she is saying, like success going viral, making money and her image being very important to her etc. These are all the things that almost every content creator says also. Like, for example, many You Tube content creators says the exact same things being most important to them ( specifically the ones who has millions of followers). How are they different than this Lily girl here ? How do we know who is a narcissist and who is not ? And why does it matter ?
thank you! most online creators are narcissistic including celebrities. I myself have narcissistic radical. it should not come as surprise. And how do we know who is and who is not? thats a question that requires hours to answer.
@@milathepsychologist Yeah, I guess it would really take hours and even more to answer that. I have thought about this matter because I think I myself have tendencies also to be at least, narcissistic. The thing that makes this matter just so hard is, the "fact" that this society is kind of rewarding you being that way. I think. But nevertheless I think your take on this is so very interesting and far more intelligent than many other ones that has more of a "simple"way to look at this all. I am a new sub and would recommend this channel to others also!
@@ambrusin4889 thank you dear!!! this means a lot
Hmm what about you? Should you be revealing secrets of your patients, telling here how traumatized men behave?
Candice Owens talked to her about this-she was totally different and insisted it wasn't about money smh
If you're really a practicing psychologist, I hope your clients don't happen to see this kinda videos. She might have a personalitydisorder, but ain't your job to help this kinda people? And she is young!! And probably traumatized. What are you doing? And for what?
No one hired me to help her 😂your funny
@milathepsychologist I mean if you're practicing, how do these videos look like to your clients. I guess you're prioritizing youtube career.
@@ruth6983you are absolutely right❤ I love analysing people’s behaviour more than anything tbh
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