tips for transmasc people pt. 2!
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- Опубліковано 26 гру 2024
- FINALLY i'm doing another one of these! yay i hope it helps someone
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My best trick I’ve found for voice dysphoria is to put on headphones and sing/lip sync along to a male singer with the voice you want. Might not work for everyone but I find this really soothing to imagine my voice is deep
WELL WHAT IF I WANT TO NAME MY LAMP
THEN DO IT
Salutations, Germany. 🇩🇪
🦋 butterfly because there is no mother emoji
Name the lamp just name it
I'm a boy with freckles and you've made my day honestly I thought people hated freckles on guys
Freckles are adorable!! I wish I had freckles tbh
Solome Wlodarczyk same!
I would love to have freckles! (:
Nikki GUYS WITH FRECKLES ARE HOT !! legit the only reason i like summer is bcus my freckles come out
Forest Kid AHA REALLY THANKS
Trans femme here. Will just remind you peeps, if you're ever feeling dysphoric that your body does not define you. Being around a bunch of trans masc people irl a load, all at various states of "passing", I can only see you guys as guys. Genuinely x
As for tips on when you're feeling dysphoric, remember to look after yourself. Do things that make you feel good and distract you.
Here's things I do. Watch youtube vids, play a video game, eat, wear more gendered clothing, play with figdet toys if feeling panicy because of dysphoria. You could take a walk. Just do anything to keep you feeling better NOW. Distract as many of your sences to give your brain less chance to wander back to the present.
But if you can't do any of that, say you are trapped in a social situation, remember you are strong enough to tough it out. Cause the feeling will pass eventually
And remember, you are all valid. Always xx
Aah Ashton I really love your videos. I'm about as cisgender as it gets but I still find it interesting how people deal with being trans and it's very sad how people misgendering you and others. Being trans should not be a problem anymore...it's 2017. Yet people are just so rude.
Lyka The world needs more people like you dude!
Nikki thanks haha. I have caught myself being confused with trans people but made a bit of effort to look into it and it's just become normal to me now. Everyone who has problems with understanding trans people should try a bit of research.
same here! lol
You are so kind (:
Its 2019, and we have to put up with Trump.....
"Name your lamp."
XD
Dad: Laticia why are you awake-
Me: Dad, stop talking to my lamp
Dad: *confusion*
"Hey -Deadname- !"
Me: Why are you talking to my pencil?
So, I got a stuffed animal a few weeks ago, and I needed a name, so I named it my deadname.
@@princekaleb4134 wait what-
A tip I very commonly use to present in a more masculine way is something I saw in a body language video or something, but it really helps me, especially when I need to FEEL more masc.
So, it is seen as more feminine in your body posture when you walk with your palms facing your thighs, y'know? Not completely parallel, of course, but in that general direction.
On the other hand, it is seen as more masculine when you walk with your palms facing behind you, the front of your hands in the direction you are facing. Again, it shouldn't be DIRECTLY in that direction, but just vaguely. I've found it helps make my shoulders feel broader, which is something I have bad dysphoria about. It also feels like I'm presenting more confidently too, which, like he said, is commonly associated with masculinity.
why is ur voice like rly attractive
is that just me
edit: WOW ASH JUST PINNED THIS COMMENT ON TOP
wow ilysm
I (sadly) was in choir for two years and I have a tip for lowering your voice. Try doing the scale (do re me....) In reverse. So it would be (do ti la so fa me re do) if you start with your natural voice tone and go down as far as you can without it hurting or as far as it's comfortable it can help you lower your voice but still sound natural. It would also apply for mtf people. But instead of in reverse just do it regularly (do re me fa so la ti do)
That's a good idea, when someone deadnames me I'll ask "what relevance does the queen of England have in this conversation?"
this goes for both trans femme and trans masc people, but it can be really helpful to find food that for example increases T and decreases estrogen or increase estrogen and decrease T if you can't/havent gone on hormones yet
I actually used the hair tie trick before and didn't even remember where I got the trick from. Thank you for making these videos. Have a good day!
I like the new setup with the flag xx
The original version of this video was how I actually found you. (:
• A d r i a n • same!! (:
aha i feel like that's the case for a lot of people!!
Me too
Me too
I have a little tip for fellas with hair dysphoria! There’s a good chance this was covered in the first one, but I forgot.
This’ll work even if you have hair down to your ass, like me.
So basically, get a snapback (or a beanie. not sure how well it works with beanies.)
If you have longer hair, I’d recommend tying it up in a bun or ponytail.
Then, just stuff your hair inside your hat and stuff as many stray hairs as you can inside it.
Boom! You can barely feel your hair. (Some of your hair may kinda just poke out the back, but it’s not noticeable unless you touch or look at it.)
I wouldn’t try this in public, since it can look a little messy, but it’s perfect if you’re dealing with dysphoria at home! If your parents ask you why your hair is shoved in your hat, say you’re trying to keep your hair out of your face!
I hope this helped!
bale beanies work pretty well! if you want your hair to lay flat you can use wig caps :) there are plenty of youtube videos of how to make your hair flat for wigs. sometimes it helps to have the end of ur hair stick out the front so you look like you have shorter hair
I do this all the time and it makes me feel so good.
arloe I did this today, and I immediately felt more masculine and neutral like I wanted to! This is so amazing
Or
MAN BUSSES
I LOVE THEM
this is what i do except i use a baseball cap=)
Yes! Another day another video by Ashton I have have a hard day with moving, having a migrain and once I saw that you uploaded I clicked so fast I cracked my wrist lol
honestly every time someone talks about freckles i get so happy because i have so many freckles honestly
people with freckles are so!!!!!! cute!!!!
Freckles are adorable omg
YOU ARE SO HANDSOME OH MY GOD
Im a closeted trans guy and you are an inspiration to meee
I love freckles too, but I have freckles. I have freckles underneath my eyes, but there not the most prominent, so you'd have to see them up close.
Ngl im so jealous, you look super handsome dude
Ashton you look really good in this video and all the time
ive found that (bc im only 13) when trying to deepen ur voice, when not on T, find ur origins (for ex. im scottish), if u talk w/ a slight accent, it can help deepen ur voice
I just wanted to say thank you for making videos and just being you, because I've started to learn more about myself and realize that I might not be cis. Right now I go by he/him or they/them pronouns and I go by Micah. Thanks for helping me out even if you didn't know it.
Tip: If you are trying to get used to your new chosen name, name like a little charm or something to carry around and name it your new chosen name. This way you can start by talking to the object when you would be talking to yourself so you don’t deadname yourself. I don’t know if this makes sense but it works for me.
I just recently found out I'm a Demiboy, and this video is SO HELPFUL! Thank youu🖤💙🖤
UR HAIR IS SO CUTE WHEN IT WAS LIKE THIS EEK
oh my god your VOICE i came here from an older video and this makes me so HAPPY
I'm in marching band too :) I was taught to march on my toes because I'm on drumline and it's easier to do transitions with a drum on and when I feel self conscious about my walk, I'll start doing that lmao
Your videos help me A LOT with my journey
nice video ashton, thanks a lot for making it
I have the resting b*$h face thing and I look angry all the time qwp. I kinda hate it because it kinda tells people that I'm glaring at them or something but I think it helps make me look more like a guy. But still, my baby face always tells people ;^;
the beginning is a whole mood
thanks, I love your videos
xx
-luca
Lucy Records same!!
I totally get the makeup thing
And Kpop idols
i have a pin for pronouns but i also have like 30 other pins on the same arm so its like a needle in a pinstack
my best friend at school told me I would be trans in the future and he's right he's so right but I'm too scared to tell him anything and then like yesturday he told me that he wouldn't be able to call me a girl bc i wasn't girly enough and he just doesn't see me as a girl which made me really happy but he also said that he's just gonna call me they them bc I'm not masculine enough to be a man and ahhh he wasn't trying to be rude but rip me
For me, I like to where heavier t-shirts or a jacket for my chest 👍
Lol since I started changing to someone else I've lost all my friends
And everytime is see them in school or sth I'm just like: "and without you is how I disappear... and live my life alone... lol shit"
(hi hello i'm emerging from the sewer as a friend to give help assist, not to criticize or belittle at all hooty hoo) (i bring eyebrow tips and trickeroos up my sleeve)
(this is with a pencil btw) (it's the easiest)
start in the middle, go light on the end
lightly fill in the front, draw some vertical stokes if ya want
make em shapey
make em bushy
make em however you like
you'll look really cool whatever way
comb through them w the cylinder brush thingy on the end that may or may not be there bc not all brow pencils have them
ps colourpop has a really good real thinn brow pencil that's perfect for freckles and it's deadass like $7 CAN (trudeau squadd up) (it's not the regular one it's the thin/precise one)
good comment 10/10 thank you!!!
Bro, I’m so jealous of your hair. I’m a cis female, but I’ve wanted a short masculine hairstyle, except I don’t feel like getting called a d*ke ._.
get a haircut! fuck the homophobes!! be your best you!
maddiesux Live how you want to live, not how someone else wants you to!!
And if it turns out you don't like the hair cut guess what? Hair grows back ;)
I have frecklEs and I'm a bOi
ashton did you move your bed?!?! or am i just an idiot lmao
ahah it's just the angle of my camera!!
I've never been to your channel or this video before but I made a pronoun pin like 2 days ago and feel happy just having it
I only get dead named by my family because my parents don't accept me and I can't tell the rest of the people in my family
Yay!
I have freckles :P
are you okay....your voice sounds really shacky plz correct me if I'm wrong
I don't want to worry about you😁😔
I need a cat now to name it my real name
I’m a transgender guy
I love this videos I love you yes goodnight
He sounds like he's about to cry.
Especially when he’s talking about freckles lol
I'm the 100th comment 🤭🤭
Im not trans, but hello, i am here 😂
Boooring