FTM Clothing Tips To Help With Dysphoria
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- Опубліковано 26 січ 2018
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trans men are like onions, *we have layers*
and delicious mmm
i’m sorry i just really love to eat onions
I have 4 on rn lol
like a cake? /ref
trans life is learning to endure ridiculous heat and pretending it doesn’t bother you
or adjusting to ridiculous heat and freezing your ass off in 75 degree weather
Alexx Wretched actually me right now i s2g
Try living in Arizona and trying to pass as a guy
100% I wore so many sweatshirts last summer i stg
yass
*can already tell my entire wardrobe will be in this video*
Can already tell my entire wardrobe is getting thrown out
My clothes are all in here lol
Absolutely, the thing is I'm goth and I would like to know where I can find goth clothing for men. Any suggestions for me would be appreciated.
Summer as a trans man is horrible lol. I wait for fall and winter all year. Maybe once I have top surgery it will be different lol.
My body has adjusted to wearing a hoodie and flannel in 100 degree weather in summer, so I freeze my ass off the rest of the year, lmao
Alexx Wretched I know a guy like that. I knew him in High school and he ALWAYS wore a hoodie. And I always wondered how he did it lol. So you just suffer until you don't suffer anymore lol.
Exactly! haha :)
FR and i live in flordia so its never winter/fall down here
if/when i get top surgery i don't think ill ever wear a shirt again at least in summer
Elsa: the cold never bothered me anyway
Trans guys: the heat never bothered me anyway
LMFAO
Trans women: heat from fire, fire from heat!
I started wear a sleevless denim hoodie over a flannel shirt after watching this and it really makes me feel better. I still don't pass yet, but it makes me look more androgynous.
Wait I love this ima do this now
@@smiley3199 Mtf and ftm vlogs:
Patients are deceived, but doctors are pure evil.
Doctors have duty to know more and understand good and evil. The doctors of this generations are all gone mad.
There is non who is trans, ever. All what you, deceived souls deed was: you step out from gender. GOD formed you either male or female and you went and took it away from yourself. You destroyed the HOLY TEMPLE OF GOD = YOUR BODY.
1 Corinthians 3:16KJV
Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you?
1 Corinthians 6:19
What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
1 Corinthians 3:17
If any man defile the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are.
Deuteronomy 22:5
The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
You have became genderless, not trans nor intersex.
And may I ask: what`s up with the masonry 666 hand sign, many of you show off?
You do know, that hollywood, from there you are trans lie comes from, shaves off bones? Jaw bone, adams apple shave, brow ridge shave for males and all the implants for females.
You all keep on idolising madness and hollywood, then you have to “transition” into nothingness; DEATH. Going eventually against one own bone anatomy, how long body can be living?
"It gives me something to do with my goddamn hands" if this ain't me
and me, o yes, so very me...
The definition of my very being.
I hate when my hoodie jacket have false pockets.. I feel betrayed after knowing that-.. 💀
Don’t feel too bad about your hips Aaron, I’ve seen cis guys who have fuller hips
My husband is a cis male and he has curvy hips and a bubble bum. He embraces it lol and I love it too. There are many guys with curvy hips 💜 It can definitely cause dysphoria though. So I get it.
About the stiffness of denim- I used to try to wear really large n baggy clothing to hide my chest and sides, but I found that stiffer fabrics that fit me properly actually do a lot better, so I’m glad that you mentioned this!!
this is such a wholesome video.... I just layer tf out of all my warm coats but summer I'm usually completely lost. Where the heck can I find some sweet lookin cut off sleeve jean jackets with hoods like that holy crap
feel you but at the same time those jackets with cut off sleeves make my arms look like noodles :/
I think he said he got the hood thingy from H&M
I constantly wear hooded shirts & hoodies, it helps sooo much. I'm so self-conscious about my tiny frame/arms/shoulders! I tried rolling up my t-shirt sleeves but it didn't help me. It just makes my tiny arms more obvious LOL.
BananeSurBalcon your profile pic makes me so happy for some reason
Aw haha! It must be Chase's aesthetics lol.
BananeSurBalcon sometimes a hooded shirt doesn’t even work because I use shitty sports bras to bind. I’ll be able to buy my own shit when I’m like, 16 so only two more years of this complete chaos and then I’ll relieve some dysphoria. And then I’ll have to wait another two years to come out and transition because if I do it while living with my parents, they might kill me.
I watched through an entire Fifty Shades Freed trailer just to get you the ad sense, Aaron. I hate that franchise. I only watch through ads for you and Chase.
Nowayitsmycookie I did the same thing
So my chest is too big for a binder to flatten it completely, instead it just looks like a normal person wearing a sports bra. But I live in California where it's hot all year around and I can't layer up without people always asking why. One time I wore a T-shirt no jacket and my teacher said "wow omg you have arms!!"
gosh, I hate it when people say things like what your teacher said-- people wear the clothes they do for a reason, it's not cool to make fun of it
nothing to do with being trans but in middle school my dad didn't have a lot of money, he's a single father, & im tall af so my pants were always a bit short, & one time my band teacher said "don't your ankles get cold with your high waters?" IN FRONT OF THE WHOLE CLASS. it hurt. i still think about it sometimes & im 21 lol
I'm sorry that sucks! I grew really tall so my clothes would always not fit me well and I had my embarrassing moments as well :(
relateable with the heat, in az it gets to 120f in the summer and its SUuuuPER fun. but actual school has ac on max 10 months a year, so i wear hoodies all year. (i get cold SO easily and i hate it btw) but during august it cools down to about 107 ish. and by then we are indoors
Ah see it's not technically hot enough to have AC, so it's just hot. Not that hot though, it rarely goes above 95. It did get to 110 in September though!
That feel when u have SAD but winter is when you can cover yourself in a shroud of darkness and fabric...thanks for this Aaron 🧡
I'm a pre-T trans boy and almost everyone, if not everyone has helped me so much, Thank you. To anyone and everyone who is struggling or is in a tough place, you'll get through it, all it takes is patience, hard work, and the courage to reach your goals and you'll make it, I love you all ❤ ❤
Thank you for the kind words. 🥹🥲 My life sucks right now and I feel so alone.
I got an Ad!!! it was about "how to naturally increase testosterone for MEN" though
This was so sweet and genuine Aaron (: I love how big your heart is. And you’ve helped me a lot despite being AMAB and not a trans guy. Love you lots 💕
Essentially what I wanted to say. You are so inspiring and sweet. Please always be you and please try (I know it's hard, but just try) to remind yourself of how important you are to others when you are feeling down.
DUDE! I didn't even think of sleeveless hoodies!!! Changing my life!
you're so fashionable like the glasses and the hair your looks are so aesthetic goals, they match your apperance and style so well
I ACTUALLY WANT TO FUCKING CRY THIS IS THE MOST HELPFUL PASSING VIDEO OH MY FUCKING GODDDDDD
How were you able to find button ups that fit? I flare out as well and I have yet to find a single button up where I can actually button the bottom button. Also I relate to the forearm thing it's the only part of me where you can see muscle it's my favorite part of my body lol
+Ryan Lee I never button my button up's, I usually wear them open with a shirt. Unless I'm at like, a formal event. In which case, my shirt is tucked in, so I don't need to button the bottom button. But I find the DJAB shirts fit me quite well and aren't as narrow!
Aaron Ansuini ah alright. Yeah idk how some trans guys do it and since we seem to have a similar build I thought maybe you had the secret
Ryan Lee its weird but try walmart around wintery seasons because walmart clothing isnt made to be fitted (you can always tailor it if it bothers) they are usually more boxyish than the ipside down triangle shape that youll find at places like h&m
Late to the party but I feel your pain. What's even worse is being short which means the shirt goes down your hip and you really don't want it to be tight down there. What I do is go to the kids' section. It's far from perfect but their shirts are often shorter which makes it easier to button them up 'cause they are not all over the place in your hip/butt area.
Tysm, you're a life saver! You're talking about burning up and I'm here wearing a Jean jacket over a hoodie-
Extremely useful. And even better, I was just thinking about this kind of stuff today.
I love this video out of all the other videos because you actually have style and you made so many points that not every person covered even with the long shirts make your butt more round point DUDE YOUR A FUCKING GENIUS
I'm glad I figured some of this out before watching this video. I roll my sleeves on long shirts, button-ups. Hoodies and layering are great pro tips, thank you!
Something I do too, with the folded long sleeve, I'll wear the flannel™️ and a long sleeve under, I roll up the flannel sleeve and then the long sleeve over, it helps my arms! Love to all my trans friends! :D
I think that it’s awesome that you’re doing these tutorials; you’re helping a lot people by doing so, perhaps people who don’t have anyone they feel comfortable asking these questions. Keep up the great work!!!
Thank you so much for these tips! I really struggle finding the right combination of clothes that don't cling to the wrong places. For people looking for good pants to wear that will help, I'd recommend a straight cut pair of mens Levi's. They're able to fit at my waist but still make my hips appear straighter. They're not tight around the butt yet also don't look like they've been sagged. Also for those who want to minimize the appearance of their thighs they are pretty much straight down from the back so there's a comfortable amount of room so the pant legs don't look like skinny jeans (which most mens pants tend to look like on me even when they're not supposed to).
For whatever reason when I have like really bad days you always post or stream and it makes me feel so much better. You're amazing Aaron 💕
The two sexualities cinched & straight. Lol. I’m kidding
EDIT. OMG IVE BEEN NOTICED. HI AARON.
EYYYY I GOT ADS MY DUDE
yeah I got an 5 minute ad about testosterone testing for cis men. I swear youtube are trying to rub it in >:[
@@jamieo2147. Lol.
I want to buy your entire wardrobe haha
This is the most helpful trans clothing video I've ever seen! Thanks so much man I love your videos and everything you do for the community!
Omg bless Aaron, i am so using these tips. I could never figure out how to hide my binder without looking like i’m wearing my stepdad’s clothes, this really helped! Thanks so much!! 🌱
So far this has been the best video I’ve seen on passing. Thank you for explaining so clearly and offering so many more options than hoodies!
I love this so much. These tips are so helpful. Dont get me wrong i love hoodies but people hate when i wear them in the summer. Im not usually cold by any stretch of the imagination but for me the whole half way to heat stroke thing was worth it. Im glad i came across this because it is so helpful. Now i dont have to sweat. The hood thing is so true tho lol
I know it's "not cool" to comment on older videos, but I am getting ready to start T hopefully next month, so I'm watching EVERY video I can because I'm excited!! I just want you to know that this video (and part 2) have been a lifesaver for me. I am a very curvy person with a BIG ass and big thighs and I am constantly getting called "miss" and "ma'am" in public by people and it drives me nuts. I've been trying to figure out ways to make my shape less curvy so I stop getting misgendered all the time. I was born AFAB and I identify as non binary/demi boy. I go by they/he pronouns. I just went to Amazon and added about 6 things to my wishlist!! I'm loving all the sleeveless things you suggested because I have PCOS and I have been getting hot flashes since my teen years. The hot flashes are horrible and I know it's going to get worse when I start T. But it will be worth it. Thank you again for all of the tips. I love the trans community and how much we all help each other. 🥰 You guys make me feel more welcome than half of my relatives.
I "flare out" too and I totally agree that some days its the bane of my existence
Dude i absolutely appreciate this video, it is extremely helpful and confidence boosting because a lot of the things you mentioned I already like, or own. I really appreciate the tips on hiding things while binding because i have the same "wing" issue you have lmao. Thank you so much!
P.s. totally platonic but you look absolutely adorable/handsome with that sleeveless hoodie!
Man I swear so often I'm watching your vids you say something that I'm just 'omg me too!' about! I *always* wear my sleeves rolled up, I won't wear a short sleeve button down, but I will always roll up the sleeves, and people ask 'why don't you just get short sleeve ones?' haha, I'm basically 'you just don't understand' lmao
Thank you for this Aaron. I love wearing stuff that makes me feel more masc. I have BAD body dysphoria so every bit of tips I learn helps. Love you Plant Daddi
Thanks for this video Aaron! It was perfectly timed, I literally had a breakdown today that was partly clothing-dysphoria related and then my friend told me you were about to upload this and it was just amazing timing. Especially as another post-top guy who has been on T a while, it's nice to hear you mention the things you still feel dysphoric about, and it makes me feel less shitty about... feeling shitty despite being on T for a while. I also have a denim vest and I love it for the same reasons you mentioned :)
Thanks for making this. I was literally just going to ask you and Chase to talk about this on the podcast. 🌱
I've been experiencing a lot of dysphoria and this really helped give me some tips. Thanks my dude. You and Chase actually help me so so much and ily. ❤️
Designated Jean At Birth?
Thank you SO SO MUCH! Also your style is SO nice
Yes! It's here!
SLEEVLESS JACKETS ARE A LITERALL BLESSING
My entire wardrobe was in this video.
Aaron: rolling up your sleeves makes you look more masculine
Me: *rolls up sleeves*
Thaaaaaank you for this. I kinda had a mini revelation while watching and found a way to describe where my issues with my chest are (and waist) - kinda unrelated to the actual content of your video, but it has helped me all the same :)
Also, this is giving me even more of a push to hunt down some button up shirts at the thrift store. I have exactly one shirt like that that I love to wear, and your video helped explain what it is about that shirt that i enjoy so much.
Thanks, Aaron! Happy Friday :)
So like I've seen videos like this before but I guess I forgot about them?? Idk but I n e e d e d this oh my god thanks boi!!! 💜💜💜 I've been thinking about cutting the sleeves off of one of my hoodies and now I just have all the ideas. Ilu~ 🌱✨ (Also, I get hot in .2 seconds, so I FEEL u)
+SynysterTill ❤️❤️❤️❤️!!! Slice that hoodie 👀🔪
First time watching you and yup imma be in for the long run this was so helpful omg thank you
When I wear a binder and a bigger pulli, I am flat and I am so happy about that. But I really need to get some of thos sleeveless hoodie things from H&M.
thanks for the video Aaron! I'm going shopping tomorrow and this is bound to help.
This is the kind of stuff I need, amazing, thank you so much!
and the black sleeveless denim jacket, damn, I'm jealous
Thank you for this!! It’s very helpful since I’ve not had top surgery yet.
And normally I like to keep these things to myself but you are SO damn attractive! Like omg! 😍
Such a lovely and positive video. ❤
I really adore your style! Watching you on the podcast and on Instagram made me want to wear again a lot of things that I put away because people told me they were “too masc” and it made me super-uncomfortable. But screw them! I’m going to wear what I want! Thank you so much for making me realize this!
YES wear what you want!!!!!! like a great random person on the internet once said "all clothes are unisex if you stop giving a sh*t" and to me what that means is wear whatever makes you happy and don't care about what other people think, we all need to be comfortable in our own skin and to do that we must wear whatever the fuck we want
Thank you for making this :)
I live in Texas and this is my first summer down here. I am already dying from the heat wearing a t-shirt and a binder.
OMG!!! I have disphoria with my trunk and I love this video!!! Thank you soo soo much!!!
I wish I could comment a falafel 🥙 (oooh I just found out i can lol)!
Great tips! I call my chest my bubble wings cuz of how I have to position myself in my binder. Ugh I hate it.
I love and want every item you showed in this vid! Thanks for sharing! 👍😊👍
Ohhh sleeveless hoodies, that’s a good one, I remember I used to have one when I Didn’t Know Yet and I loved wearing that thing because it made me feel so badass. Little did I know... 😂
I love you aaron!!
this is crazy because i do all these things already. the button downs always help me wirh my hip dysphoria
I got that same button up shirt the black one with the symbols lol . love this video.
ur so nice and ur voice is so calming :')
Man my sleeveless hoodies are my best friends...
Idk why I'm putting this out there but my friend got me my first binder and it arrived at there house today and in two weeks I get to wear it only thing is they wrapped it in duck tape and put a note on it so this is gonna be fun
I got a sleeveless jean jacket for Christmas and I love it so much!
Thank you, this was VERY useful!
Omg i do the same - i wear button up plaid shirts for that exact reason and a printed tshirt underneath -awful in the summer but it works 😂😭these types of videos are really useful thank you
Thank you for this video Aaron. I'm a cis woman, but I hate my body and I'm always lost at how to cover up my hips and chest. These tips were really helpful :) thank you!
Sending love :) xx
I don't think your cisgender
I love watching you talk. I don't need this advise but watched it cuz I be love your voice.
Thank you. I am just trying to figure things out and this helped a lot having an actual visual aid.
Hi Aaron! I know this is an old video so you probably won't see this comment, but if you do, I just wanted to say thank you. I've enjoyed your videos for a really long time now, and I never fully understood why I, a "cis girl", related so much to you and other trans masc creators. Recently, I've started questioning my gender more seriously and realized that I may not be entirely cis after all. I still don't know how I identify, but I think I fall somewhere under the non-binary umbrella. So basically now I'm rewatching your videos from a new perspective, trying to figure out how to outwardly express how I feel inside, and they've been really helpful. You continue to remind me that it's okay to be who I am, even if that's not what other people expect me to be. I hope you're well and that you know how much you've helped people like me. ❤️
tldr: Aaron helped me come to terms with my gender, and I can't say thank you enough
❤️❤️❤️❤️
I still try to read all the comments in my videos, even the older ones
And reading your message really made my day. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️.
Thank you Aaron! It was usufull!
I want the black denum Jacket with the hood dopes af
Thank you so much. This really helped me.
Yo i saw this video like two months ago and since then got a vest as per your recommendation and can i just say Hell Yeah thanks for that tip in particular and also the whole video
I'm pre-op and I always wear a hoodie with either a flannel or denim vest over the top. I've found that wearing cargo shorts a size or two too large and letting them sit low on my hips (without having my boxers hanging out) actually makes my super curvy hips look a lot less curvy
Seeing you pop up in my sub box is... Mike. Ink.👌🏼💙
I really want there to be somebody in this world called Michael Ink, who just happens across this joke out of context one day.
I’d like to think they exist somewhere out there.
I do the sleeves thing all the time! I wear hoodies a lot because I love putting shit in my pockets and because i love to bunch the sleeves up around my elbows! I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks exposed forearms are masculine. Thank you for the tips!
I found wearing dungarees/overalls works great for me. I don‘t need to bind (only works depending on your body) i just wear a tshirt underneath. Also it straightens out my silhouette.
You don’t instantly have to look like a farmer😂 i wear one by carhart and one that i thrifted. I know a lot of (Cis)guys wearing them and i think it‘s a cool Look! They have some constructional wear vibes as well :)
I'm so glad I found this vid
Narley! So helpful man!
this is actually really helpful cause we have extremely similar bodies AND WE BOTH GET HOT I JUST HEARD THAT THANK YOUUU
This is extremely helpful!
Thank You So Much! @AaronAnsuini
realizing i do all this subconsciously.......weird but cool
Also hey humans, there are tutorials for sewing hoods onto jean jackets! DIYPARTY
great video! Style icon
I'm pre-t and have a big curve in my sides and this helped a lot so thank you
Me watching with my plaid shirt in the bath 👁👄👁
Great video, useful advise! I get what you're saying about long shirts... but myself I love long shirts cause if they cover the crouch area it really helps with my lower dysphoria! I guess long i the front and short in the back would be ideal... :P
Thank you so much ^-^ this helps a lot
Here before 500 views! 💗
You look so much like Martin Persner! Thanks for the tips!
very helpful thank you