Ok, OMG! This video is completely heartwarming for anyone who knows what unloading a suitcase coming from Africa is like. You guys have been completely spoiled by your dad. I don’t even know where to start 😂. First off, I’m currently using the exact yellow African bath sponge as your dad’s. Kareem looks super handsome in the thobe! Kenton turned Hausa quick 😂. Mariam looks sooooo beautiful in her boubou. I can’t wait to see you wearing your stuff. He even brought the leather cushions!! I know you’ll love having that in your home. When he said “kina lafiya” to Mariam, I wanted her to say “lafiya lau” so bad. That would have made his day 😂. You can tell he’s so happy to see you, and it’s amazing that he apparently still holds your mom dear in his heart. Uff, too much to write. Habiba, thank you for sharing this with us. Can you tell I’m a little happy for you all. Bless you guys.
@SentimentalCrab, your comment is beautiful. The vlog and your comment warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. I know how precious daughters are to their dad's. I lost mine 15 years ago. I am a Nigerian too. Born in Jos but, from the South West. I can still speak Hausa, kadan kadan but, understand it to a certain degree. You're blessed, my sisters.
Your daddy is so sweet. He has a good heart. Meeting you after so long yet he feels so comfortable and at home with everyone. God bless you all in Jesus name
I read your comment during the first two minutes and it brought tears to my eyes I litrary had to stop the video...God bless you..this is the most sencer and beautiful words...peace💕✌🌹
A Nigerian man will not tell their kids they love them. But when they buy something for you no matter how inexpensive such is; they're showing their love for you. Just like my dad he will never say he loves you but he will do everything you ask of him... Miss my dad of blessed memory
If you're Nigerian....you know that all this shopping your daddy did means a million "i love yous"..... esp for their generation. Gosh I am really happy he got this chance.
Great reunion with your Dad. I hope my daughter will meet her Nigerian Dad someday. He left when she was barely 4 months.God has been faithful in raising her.
@@charlesjohn9945 Please, i'm the wearer of the shoe. i will not lie (to whose benefit?). I left it in God's hands and only he can fill the void in my childs life.I'm just human to understand somethings but i believe one day it will make sense. Well, yes he walked away.
This was so beautiful. I love how calm your dad speaks. So many gifts from back home. Love the african clothes he brought. How thoughtful of him to bring some for your mom.
Omg! He packed all those for you guys!!! He's an amazing father . His heart is full of pride and joy .and he was more estactic when your daughter wore the African print . The pure joy!
Beautifull i really love this, so proud to be Nigeria no matter wat going on and i know God will bring back the best in Nigeria and in Afrika all. One Lv
This is a fantastic video. Your husband is an amazing man on how you guys brought up your children. I thought your children would’ve disliked his gifts, instead, they’ll love it and quickly put it on. Nice family.
U look like a beautiful family may God bless u, u don't need a good fortune cat, u just need Jesus, read the bible u will get joy n find peace ask the lord to direct u n he will
Your father really loves you, from what I can see, I mean I know a father who never admitted his wrong or ever bought gifts in any way. Your father was really showing he missed you and wanted you to amend your relationship. Not many African fathers are able to do this believe me.
For Someone like me, that also have Hausa as part of me, been born and raise in wonderful city of Kano. I can see that you daddy, is widely travel Man, and he have typical Northern Nigeria, heart of Gold. With all the gift, he brought from Nigeria. May God blessed, your beautiful family.
Eniola Apata missed the answer when asked dad where the gold came from. I recall that some Muslims make it a point to get gold when they go to Haj and become Alhaji.
What a beautiful man your father is...... I loved this video. Absolutely priceless your fathers love is. Gorgeous gifts for everyone, I love Nigerians.
My dad is Igbo but my mom is Efik, I was born in Sokoto state. My bestie is Hausa, Idris by name. When you meet educated and civilized Hausas you'd love them. They're so sociable and cool,if only all our Hausas and Muslim brothers would emulate this... Nigeria will be a beautiful place worthy of emulation. I love Hausas! Allah ya bamu zaman Lafiya da juna.❤❤❤
Your dad is such a distinguished gentleman. He brings "Coming To America"to mind. Those gifts are so beautiful and he brought something for everyone including my namesake. Thanks for explaining why he's not staying at your home (I was wondering). I am looking forward to part 2. I enjoyed this video!
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I have to say this, despite the way things went your dad truly loves you and dare i say probably still loves ypur mo.. This made me cry, he was holding onto you and it warmed my heart. I am so grateful and happy for you for the reconciliation. Its unfortunate culture and traditions prevent people from loving the way they should or want. Happy you were open to this and i feel your dad will be so happy.Forgiveness is truly a wonderful gift. And oh love northners, what a gentleman and so charismatic. Ok back to watch. Only reached the ride from the airport
I do understand how u feeling my German sister went to Ghana last year to celebrate my Dads 70th birthday with him and she only saw our dad when she was 4 yrs ,she is 40 years now .Father,s never forget their children.My dad lost contact with my step sister because her mum married another man and relocated .My dad always kept a picture of our sister and always told us about her and ended up finding us on the internet by uploading my dads old pic her mum gave her
Maryam, kina nan lafiya? Daddy's little girl!! I love the way he held your hands and you both were walking and God knows the joy you both had. So happy for you Habiba!!
OMG I am such a fan of yours ! Little sister in my head and fellow Nigerian American queen!- in Medicine, Like I am so flattered you watched my video!!!! Thank you for your kind words!
@@Kenton-Habiba omg!! I can't believe you replied. I was literally just sharing your video with my husband when I saw the notification of your comment. I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. My day is made! I'm binge-watching all your videos tonight lol. Thanks for sharing your life with us. You're doing an amazing job!!
Wow! Absolutely touching I can feel the LOVE. I’m a Nigerian, a Yoruba but still I can relate to the Hausa culture as very caring. Blood is thicker than water as they say, so hold on tight and pls don’t let go.
You are such a good person for welcoming your father back into your life. It is also obvious that your father is a good person, flawed and trying to make amends. What I found interesting is that your father was younger when you left than you are now. It is true that in some parts of Northern Nigeria (in the past), firstborns did not usually have a relationship with their mothers. I wonder what effects that had on subsequent emotional relationships of the firstborn. I can understand your mother's hurt.
I am from sokoto and I know your father's family very well. In fact, I believe we are related. I have heard many stories about your family and how you left and no one heard from you again. I am so happy to have come across this video. All the best! :)
Quite impressive, I couldn't stop smiling all through while watching this video. As a filmmaker, we have a lot in common, I felt really emotionally connected. The Christmas card you sent to your dad was signed on my birthday, when I turned 18 (2 years older than you, I believe) and the same year I finished my secondary school. I am an Igbo and a christian, who grew up among Hausas in Cameroon and I speak fluent Hausa. I really have a huge amount of respect to your dad, seeing him showing you that well preserved Christmas card, as a Northern Nigerian muslim, wow! Respect! Thats how we should all see and treat religion. I hope he enjoyed his visit. Wish him well for me and thank you and your lovely family for sharing this fantastic video. Looking forward to see Miriam's directed movie or documentary in the near feature stay blessed.
Sacajewi Diamond Dear sister, I am not sure why you are attacking me using stereotypes. All I saw in those kids were some African values I can relate to. They can be American and still have multiple identities. Please be nice!
Love love! I am from Africa and this is like dejavu when folks come to visit us. Love the Hausa Girl outfit. Lovely family! People should know that we Africans ar educated, your dad's English is impeccable and he is an author too!
no you cant tell if you dont know him personaly..I know african people are v generous and helpful..for sure he would spent every penny he had gor his beloved family and even his family relatives friends and even neighbours share him this good time by giving money as gifts and may be he borrow some money as well..so that is
Nigerians sha! Disappoint us for once, please. You don't know him personally to conclude that he is a very rich man. That you heard him say he or his father travelled abroad is not enough. Fish sellers send there children abroad. We don't want to know if he is rich or not, let's just enjoy the reunion.
There was a scene of your dad and you smiling at Maryam, like identical twins, you both smile the same. I love the relationship, one of the beauties of life is forgiveness, your relationship with your dad is great and can only get better
Even as a stranger, I can see that this man loves his daughter soooo much and is overjoyed to see his son-in-law and grandchildren. Nigerian men, and especially Hausa men, are generally not socialised to express emotion and you can see the love emanating from him. Habiba is clearly a daughter in a million and an awesome lady. God bless you for doing this. I'm surprised at myself - I'm trying not to cry!
Wow u made me miss my dad. We lost him when I was 12 and am almost 50 now. So pls take moment as gift and never for granted. Your video makes me smile all through
Watching this made me emotional. My Dad also had a rich past and was very kind with gifts. Also had similar mannerisms with your Dad but sadly he passed last year at 76yrs. Around this age, all they have to give is love and just want to see you happy. My Dad insisted on paying the first proper fees of my kids and would often gift my siblings large cash sums and we had no choice but to accept them to avoid a quarrel. I hardly ever comment on UA-cam videos but was moved to do so. Shalom Sister and thanks for sharing your experience.
I am from southern Nigeria, a Yoruba...but I must say that hausas are down-to-earth humans. They are simple, generous and straightforward people... Baba(your dad) is a good example.
U see he still loves his wife. This is a good father. I wish he lives long to see his great grands. He went on a shopping spree for his daughter and grand kids. Ohhh why are families seperated? Why???
I’m so happy and proud for you to have rediscovered each other. I’m Nigerian from south East and your dad reminds of my dad when he came to America to visit us. Great vlog. Do more update with your dad.
I really love this. Wow, he spent a lot of money shopping for you guys. That's our fathers' way of making it up to us. I schooled in the North, so I understand your culture well. I left my dad too in similar circumstances and didn't see him for over 20 years before he passed. I didn't speak to him for many years, but we eventually reconnected and he tried hard to repair our relationship, even begged me to come home to visit, but I couldn't forget the hurt and trauma he caused. I was too far gone to care that people evolve. I don't blame your mom or dad for their decisions. One was a slave to tradition and one was a slave to emotion. God give us the wisdom to not be bound by either and to make right decision at the right time. God bless you and your family!
What a beautiful reunion ! I watched your story first ! Then I watched your dad at your home seeing your mom ! This one is a tear jerker , He came with so many gifts . Peace and Blessings to your family
You have a warm, wonderful loving father, he reminds me of my dad. He brought a whole suitcase full of gifts. Watching your video made me smile and proud to be Hausa, love the way Baba said “bude wanan” and you said bude means open.😍 love you and your family. Habiba is a beautiful name💕 Masha Allah, that my mum’s name. Bless her soul.
Waoooo Mariam looks so very beautiful in those African clothes, even your son & hubby too looks very great in those African wears. Happy & lovely to see grandpa, father inlaw & most of all your handsome tall father. God Almighty bless u all. Again big congratulations seeing grandpa, inlaw and father
I really hope your mom took the gifts, as a Nigerian, i know a lot of care went into picking those out. Loving the videos by the way. Such a wholesome video.
I am so happy for you! I too have not seen my Igbo father in over 47 years or more. I was too young to remember more than he was called, Obie and traveled with 2 guards. I am 55 years old, and love him dearly! Anyone honestly able to trace any elders who may have lost track of a daughter born in December of 1963, please reply.
This video got me crying! And I watched it more than twice. Thanks for re-uniting with your father. It will extend his life span. And also meeting your kids and your kids meeting him s something great.
Beautiful and emotional video, i have made a mental note to spend more time with my parents after watching this. I am hooked to your channel from now on. Greetings from Abuja. 💝
Wow he bought you 23 carat GOLD NECKLACE and bearing in mind the prices of gold is sky high, he really spend serious money in gifts to show his gratitude. Life is too short to carry in grudges. He is handsome and very regal looking man,
I’ve honestly watched these videos multiple times now... don’t know why I just feel so connected to this story.. as I am a Hausa girl who was born and raised in England, I know exactly what the cultural and religious differences are. And for those reasons, along with observing how very Hausa ur dad is... I am just drawn to this story! It is wonderful that we have UA-cam today to see these things, as even with Hausa tradition, this is very much out of the norm to publish your private personal life to the world. I however am so here for it and I wish you all happiness! Anyway well done Habiba. And I’ll just say this about your father... unfortunately as Hausa’s sometimes we are victims of our environment and your dad was no exception. I also struggle with this sometimes and I can very much relate to him/you. Sometimes it can feel like an identity crisis cuz of all the cultural contrasts! He definitely loves you guys so much. His effort did not go unnoticed. Like he sat on the table, chatting to y’all at dinner, bought you so many gifts! He did the classic traditional Hausa thing of giving his grandchildren money. My grandparents always did this to me. It’s our culture, and no matter how small the amount I was taught it’s actually considered rude not to accept the money. Your dad definitely just needed to be less traditional, and more liberal and he would have absolutely had a happy life with your mum. Unfortunately in northern Nigeria, sometimes we don’t even have a choice and your dad probably didn’t have the option to come with you guys. I can imagine living in sokoto for a British Jamaican can’t have been easy at all, and I definitely understand what your mum may have endured. She wouldn’t have had any freedom and it would have been so stifling for her. In the 21st century now, things have improved and it is less so. These videos did really warm my heart however and I hope you visit Nigeria one day with your children. They will be incredibly welcome by everyone, and it will also be an eye opening experience for them, something that will make them much more rounded adults! Going to Nigeria and understanding the differences etc had shaped me to be who I am today, and I must say I am proud of who I am and proud to be both Hausa and western! Thank you for sharing your life with us. Mun Gode, Allah ya muku albarka. 😇
Also, Kenton is a great man!! I loooove your multiculturalism and you are the epitome of a globalised world! Hausa mixed with Jamaican and Asian and white? Amazing, rare and beautiful cocktail! Mariam is gorgeous I like her more and more every time I watch your videos. She’s a classic 16 year old lol
I am Nigerian Young Dad, watching this with my Son and wife makes me feel special. I saw the looks on their faces and i know this video makes them appreciate me more Because they now understand what it takes for a Nigerian to travel so far to to live abroad. Thanks for sharing your story. We are proud of you.
Ok, OMG! This video is completely heartwarming for anyone who knows what unloading a suitcase coming from Africa is like. You guys have been completely spoiled by your dad. I don’t even know where to start 😂. First off, I’m currently using the exact yellow African bath sponge as your dad’s. Kareem looks super handsome in the thobe! Kenton turned Hausa quick 😂. Mariam looks sooooo beautiful in her boubou. I can’t wait to see you wearing your stuff. He even brought the leather cushions!! I know you’ll love having that in your home.
When he said “kina lafiya” to Mariam, I wanted her to say “lafiya lau” so bad. That would have made his day 😂. You can tell he’s so happy to see you, and it’s amazing that he apparently still holds your mom dear in his heart. Uff, too much to write. Habiba, thank you for sharing this with us. Can you tell I’m a little happy for you all. Bless you guys.
SentimentalCrab thanks for mentioning what he said to mariam! i was trying to figure it out!
@SentimentalCrab, your comment is beautiful. The vlog and your comment warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. I know how precious daughters are to their dad's. I lost mine 15 years ago. I am a Nigerian too. Born in Jos but, from the South West. I can still speak Hausa, kadan kadan but, understand it to a certain degree. You're blessed, my sisters.
SentimentalCrab, what sweet words!
Your daddy is so sweet. He has a good heart. Meeting you after so long yet he feels so comfortable and at home with everyone. God bless you all in Jesus name
I read your comment during the first two minutes and it brought tears to my eyes I litrary had to stop the video...God bless you..this is the most sencer and beautiful words...peace💕✌🌹
Awww... He brought all these gifts for his children and didn't pack any clothes for himself! 😭... Who's cutting onions here... 😢💕💕 Too beautiful!
This video brought tears to my eyes (the part he brought out the letter you gave him when you were still 16) that’s pure father’s love
Life with Mope a she b🚃🚊🚀🚞🚡
This is really lovely and i wish you guys well
A Nigerian man will not tell their kids they love them. But when they buy something for you no matter how inexpensive such is; they're showing their love for you.
Just like my dad he will never say he loves you but he will do everything you ask of him... Miss my dad of blessed memory
Actions speaks louder than words.
Actually, it's un-Nigerian and sounds awkward.
Not only Nigerians I think
Not really my a dad does
That's true, they hardly say I love you. Only a few, maybe 3 quoter out of 10. But they know how to show love by their actions.
I can tell that your dad loves you and very proud of you
WOW!!!! Totally awesome. He's so charming, full of intellect and that Nigerian "Class"
If you're Nigerian....you know that all this shopping your daddy did means a million "i love yous"..... esp for their generation. Gosh I am really happy he got this chance.
Anyị masi ndị ha bụ
Ndị oshi na ama
Tommeh Tochukwu lol, wow
Tommeh Tochukwu you said something about thief right?
This is so sweet
Your dad is so sweet and well educated. You and your family are also lovely, well brought up.
From every inch, he is a lovely father. God bless him and you too.
Great reunion with your Dad. I hope my daughter will meet her Nigerian Dad someday. He left when she was barely 4 months.God has been faithful in raising her.
Kasit
I get sad when I read that a man abandon his child.😢
If you know his name and surname you can still search for him or his family online.
@iamkrazybonez yes he did. we are okay since God has held our hands and leads the way.
@@JourneywithKasitti are you sure he abandoned the baby or you asked him to go and you took the baby
@@charlesjohn9945 Please, i'm the wearer of the shoe. i will not lie (to whose benefit?). I left it in God's hands and only he can fill the void in my childs life.I'm just human to understand somethings but i believe one day it will make sense. Well, yes he walked away.
I am nigerian....and i love this...Your pops is a true HAUSA MAN!!!! # naija
I don't know if it's just me, but I have this feeling that your mum still means a lot to your father.
Rose Faith Odack why only mum?? Both parents
Thabani Maloba Ncube did you read her comment properly ?
Soraya G Right! What is wrong with people! They just read or lesson to react. not to comprehend
@@thabanimalobancube4771 WTF is wrong with you
Soraya G I apologise my sister have realised my mistake sorry about that
This was so beautiful. I love how calm your dad speaks. So many gifts from back home. Love the african clothes he brought. How thoughtful of him to bring some for your mom.
Omg! He packed all those for you guys!!! He's an amazing father . His heart is full of pride and joy .and he was more estactic when your daughter wore the African print . The pure joy!
Your video touched my heart such a beautiful reunion after 25 years. He must be a loving and caring daddy. God Bless you all.
Beautifull i really love this, so proud to be Nigeria no matter wat going on and i know God will bring back the best in Nigeria and in Afrika all. One Lv
This is a fantastic video. Your husband is an amazing man on how you guys brought up your children. I thought your children would’ve disliked his gifts, instead, they’ll love it and quickly put it on. Nice family.
U look like a beautiful family may God bless u, u don't need a good fortune cat, u just need Jesus, read the bible u will get joy n find peace ask the lord to direct u n he will
Papa is so tall, that's where the kids got it from especially the grand son, beautiful video
Well they're kinda decently taller in the northern part of Nigeria
Your father really loves you, from what I can see, I mean I know a father who never admitted his wrong or ever bought gifts in any way. Your father was really showing he missed you and wanted you to amend your relationship. Not many African fathers are able to do this believe me.
She looks just like her dad. Beautiful.
For Someone like me, that also have Hausa as part of me, been born and raise in wonderful city of Kano. I can see that you daddy, is widely travel Man, and he have typical Northern Nigeria, heart of Gold. With all the gift, he brought from Nigeria. May God blessed, your beautiful family.
Eniola Apata missed the answer when asked dad where the gold came from. I recall that some Muslims make it a point to get gold when they go to Haj and become Alhaji.
Your father reminds me of my father anytime he visits from Nigeria.There are gifts for everyone.
What a beautiful man your father is...... I loved this video. Absolutely priceless your fathers love is. Gorgeous gifts for everyone, I love Nigerians.
He was so exited to come, see all the gifts he didn't even bring clothes for himself oh dear. May God continue to bless our parents🙏
amehimable Amiin
My dad is Igbo but my mom is Efik, I was born in Sokoto state. My bestie is Hausa, Idris by name. When you meet educated and civilized Hausas you'd love them. They're so sociable and cool,if only all our Hausas and Muslim brothers would emulate this... Nigeria will be a beautiful place worthy of emulation. I love Hausas! Allah ya bamu zaman Lafiya da juna.❤❤❤
So sweet thank you!
So you are a Fulani by race.
Wow. Hes indeed a loving father. Those gifts sure cost a fortune... am Nigerian and i can tell you that for free. Please take good care of him.
Those gifts are quite expensive. He is a good Father. May God grant Him long life. Amen
Amen and Amen
Wao that was a beautiful moment there when your dad held your hands like his lttle girl.
Wow he even brought you gold.true Hausa man❤️
I love this so much howI wish my father was alive.i love you dsf
I love your dad. He bought all this goodies
And the high hand quality mashalah God bless him
Just remind me my dad back home
Your dad is such a distinguished gentleman. He brings "Coming To America"to mind. Those gifts are so beautiful and he brought something for everyone including my namesake. Thanks for explaining why he's not staying at your home (I was wondering). I am looking forward to part 2. I enjoyed this video!
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I have to say this, despite the way things went your dad truly loves you and dare i say probably still loves ypur mo.. This made me cry, he was holding onto you and it warmed my heart. I am so grateful and happy for you for the reconciliation. Its unfortunate culture and traditions prevent people from loving the way they should or want. Happy you were open to this and i feel your dad will be so happy.Forgiveness is truly a wonderful gift. And oh love northners, what a gentleman and so charismatic. Ok back to watch. Only reached the ride from the airport
I do understand how u feeling my German sister went to Ghana last year to celebrate my Dads 70th birthday with him and she only saw our dad when she was 4 yrs ,she is 40 years now .Father,s never forget their children.My dad lost contact with my step sister because her mum married another man and relocated .My dad always kept a picture of our sister and always told us about her and ended up finding us on the internet by uploading my dads old pic her mum gave her
Really miss my dad watching your video. I love and miss you dad. Continue to rest in bosom of God😔
Kenton & Habiba, you so blessed. I’m glad you welcome your dad with open arms. Blessings to you & your family! 👏🏾💥❤️😍😘🎈🌹🎁😃
Olah Ola, may GOD comfort you. 👏🏾I’m fatherless & motherless too. Their memories linger. Blessings! 👏🏾😍😘🌹
Maryam, kina nan lafiya? Daddy's little girl!! I love the way he held your hands and you both were walking and God knows the joy you both had. So happy for you Habiba!!
Sooo heart warming! ‘watched your video on how you left Nigeria and I’m so happy that you reunited with your dad; beautiful to watch🙏
OMG grandad is so organised
And sweet
He kept all baby pics
ALLAH BLESS YOU GRANDAD
Pimple shoes for men
Amin! He is a good human.
The way you welcome and treat your dad at the airport show you are woman with total respect and discipline .from The Gambia
This video brought tears to my eyes. Glad you amended your relationship with your dad.
OMG I am such a fan of yours ! Little sister in my head and fellow Nigerian American queen!- in Medicine, Like I am so flattered you watched my video!!!! Thank you for your kind words!
@@Kenton-Habiba omg!! I can't believe you replied. I was literally just sharing your video with my husband when I saw the notification of your comment. I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. My day is made! I'm binge-watching all your videos tonight lol. Thanks for sharing your life with us. You're doing an amazing job!!
@@oluchi_assumani doing a happy dance!
Wow! Absolutely touching I can feel the LOVE. I’m a Nigerian, a Yoruba but still I can relate to the Hausa culture as very caring. Blood is thicker than water as they say, so hold on tight and pls don’t let go.
You are such a good person for welcoming your father back into your life. It is also obvious that your father is a good person, flawed and trying to make amends. What I found interesting is that your father was younger when you left than you are now. It is true that in some parts of Northern Nigeria (in the past), firstborns did not usually have a relationship with their mothers. I wonder what effects that had on subsequent emotional relationships of the firstborn. I can understand your mother's hurt.
I am from sokoto and I know your father's family very well. In fact, I believe we are related. I have heard many stories about your family and how you left and no one heard from you again. I am so happy to have come across this video. All the best! :)
He’s definitely one of the best dad in the world 👍🏽
Tell us how she left
I am curious what it is you heard about us leaving or how we left?
Your father is a great and large hearted man
Such a lovely family ❤️ ..you have your dad’s smile and dimples..i was so nervous and excited for you ..i could feel the anticipation and excitement
Brought tears to my eyes! When I started fallowing you years ago I prayed and hoped for this day. Glad to see family reunited!
Not sure why but I cried a wee bit. I pray for more positives in the future.
Quite impressive, I couldn't stop smiling all through while watching this video. As a filmmaker, we have a lot in common, I felt really emotionally connected. The Christmas card you sent to your dad was signed on my birthday, when I turned 18 (2 years older than you, I believe) and the same year I finished my secondary school. I am an Igbo and a christian, who grew up among Hausas in Cameroon and I speak fluent Hausa. I really have a huge amount of respect to your dad, seeing him showing you that well preserved Christmas card, as a Northern Nigerian muslim, wow! Respect! Thats how we should all see and treat religion. I hope he enjoyed his visit. Wish him well for me and thank you and your lovely family for sharing this fantastic video. Looking forward to see Miriam's directed movie or documentary in the near feature stay blessed.
Ikr!!!... so rare to see that from northerners muslims. I love to see it.
This is so beautiful ❤ I am from the North of Nigeria and I'm here in the US, gosh I miss my Dad...I'm happy you reunited with your Dad..
So happy that I stumbled upon your channel. I love this reunion with your father.You’ve taught me about forgiveness and inner peace!
Thank you Sarah! welcome to the family
your dad is very handsome
Lechiffresix six yes he is! I was also about to comment this!
Lechiffresix six I wouldnt mind him beingmy man, am 35
Your children are very polite with good mannerisms. I see the African education. Nice Job from you.
He wasn't around for 30 years - what nice job by him? It's the mother who they were with that did the nice job.
I think Bruce is complementing Habiba. Not her father.
Sacajewi Diamond Dear sister, I am not sure why you are attacking me using stereotypes. All I saw in those kids were some African values I can relate to. They can be American and still have multiple identities. Please be nice!
Sacajewi Diamond why are you sounding like a broken china plate, you can’t deny them their African heritage
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
Love love! I am from Africa and this is like dejavu when folks come to visit us. Love the Hausa Girl outfit. Lovely family! People should know that we Africans ar educated, your dad's English is impeccable and he is an author too!
I’m Nigerian and I can tell you that man is a very rich man from Nigeria
Olusoji Omosehin Enlighten us, how?
Nicholas, the gifts he bought are good quality and expensive, the golden necklace set is very expensive and exotic too.
no you cant tell if you dont know him personaly..I know african people are v generous and helpful..for sure he would spent every penny he had gor his beloved family and even his family relatives friends and even neighbours share him this good time by giving money as gifts and may be he borrow some money as well..so that is
Nigerians sha! Disappoint us for once, please. You don't know him personally to conclude that he is a very rich man. That you heard him say he or his father travelled abroad is not enough. Fish sellers send there children abroad. We don't want to know if he is rich or not, let's just enjoy the reunion.
@@greatexpectations9446 you can't know that either, I side with the first theory
Heart warming....our African fathers...you're very lucky to spend time with your your FATHER...MAY GOD BLESS HIM YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...
Priceless moment, happy for you .
There was a scene of your dad and you smiling at Maryam, like identical twins, you both smile the same. I love the relationship, one of the beauties of life is forgiveness, your relationship with your dad is great and can only get better
Even as a stranger, I can see that this man loves his daughter soooo much and is overjoyed to see his son-in-law and grandchildren. Nigerian men, and especially Hausa men, are generally not socialised to express emotion and you can see the love emanating from him. Habiba is clearly a daughter in a million and an awesome lady. God bless you for doing this. I'm surprised at myself - I'm trying not to cry!
Wow u made me miss my dad. We lost him when I was 12 and am almost 50 now. So pls take moment as gift and never for granted. Your video makes me smile all through
thank you for sharing this beautiful moment of your family especially your Father!
Nice one... Thanks to you for still holding up ur Nigerian heritage..... sanu
How beautiful, your father filled his suitcase with gifts for you his daughter, family and grandchildren. BEAUTIFUL 💖💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Your dad went crazy with the buying. How lovely!!! wow. Beautiful family Habiba.
Nigerian nature
@@royroyroy7293 I'm tellin u!
Wow! So amazing, after 30years to get to meet and learn of your culture, that’s so beautiful, God Bless
Watching this made me emotional. My Dad also had a rich past and was very kind with gifts. Also had similar mannerisms with your Dad but sadly he passed last year at 76yrs. Around this age, all they have to give is love and just want to see you happy. My Dad insisted on paying the first proper fees of my kids and would often gift my siblings large cash sums and we had no choice but to accept them to avoid a quarrel. I hardly ever comment on UA-cam videos but was moved to do so. Shalom Sister and thanks for sharing your experience.
I am from southern Nigeria, a Yoruba...but I must say that hausas are down-to-earth humans. They are simple, generous and straightforward people... Baba(your dad) is a good example.
Thank you
James Abiye, that is really very kind of you....I believe all Nigerian are kind and generous people...Habiba and her family are simply remarkable!!!
I cried watching this yesterday.. it is a beautiful story.. your mom is a strong women
she is, and i think he secretly admires her for her courage. things would have turned out differently.
Such wonderful moments that you chose to share with us. Your daughter looks so beautiful in the traditional clothing!
U see he still loves his wife. This is a good father. I wish he lives long to see his great grands. He went on a shopping spree for his daughter and grand kids. Ohhh why are families seperated? Why???
Why?? Why can't they just find a common ground 😭😭
you are right
Wow this is so sweet,your daddy is amazing I was practically smiling all through this video,i miss my dad
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
Wow! This video is a bomb. Too much love, God bless you and your family. God bless your dad too.
A very learned man you are blessed to have him as your dad despite the distance and separation...
Somehow this made me happy. Glad you met up with your father. Awesome.
Masha Allah such a beautiful family hausa people are very nice and for giving love my country
I’m so happy and proud for you to have rediscovered each other. I’m Nigerian from south East and your dad reminds of my dad when he came to America to visit us. Great vlog. Do more update with your dad.
This is so heart warming!!! I love it!! I'm crying of happiness
I really love this. Wow, he spent a lot of money shopping for you guys. That's our fathers' way of making it up to us. I schooled in the North, so I understand your culture well. I left my dad too in similar circumstances and didn't see him for over 20 years before he passed. I didn't speak to him for many years, but we eventually reconnected and he tried hard to repair our relationship, even begged me to come home to visit, but I couldn't forget the hurt and trauma he caused. I was too far gone to care that people evolve. I don't blame your mom or dad for their decisions. One was a slave to tradition and one was a slave to emotion. God give us the wisdom to not be bound by either and to make right decision at the right time. God bless you and your family!
Your comment is so spot on. Full of wisdom!
Thank you for watching, your wisdom and kind words !
Yes, that is how it goes sometimes. You're not alone.
God bless you too for this comment. The best
Lovely and well-written comment. Very emotional watching this video; miss my dad. I hope the grandchildren savor time and memories with their gramps.
What a beautiful reunion ! I watched your story first ! Then I watched your dad at your home seeing your mom ! This one is a tear jerker , He came with so many gifts . Peace and Blessings to your family
Thank you for watching!
This is completely awesome. You have a loving father and wonderful family .😁
You have a warm, wonderful loving father, he reminds me of my dad. He brought a whole suitcase full of gifts. Watching your video made me smile and proud to be Hausa, love the way Baba said “bude wanan” and you said bude means open.😍 love you and your family. Habiba is a beautiful name💕 Masha Allah, that my mum’s name. Bless her soul.
Amazing video my almighty Allah bless our parent's
You really have a beautiful spirit thank you for sharing
Thank you !
Omg the totally warmed my heart. You look exactly like your dad. He’s really good looking if I could say.
Nigeria Culture the best....Best UA-cam Video ever
Please share it!
Very sweet, you were always on his mind. He had the card and old pictures. Very thoughtful
Waoooo Mariam looks so very beautiful in those African clothes, even your son & hubby too looks very great in those African wears. Happy & lovely to see grandpa, father inlaw & most of all your handsome tall father. God Almighty bless u all. Again big congratulations seeing grandpa, inlaw and father
I can't even explain how much of a blessing your Dad is....This was beautiful.
You’re almost 50? Wow!!! Black don’t crack for real.
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
Yeah, thank God we don't age that fast.
I really hope your mom took the gifts, as a Nigerian, i know a lot of care went into picking those out. Loving the videos by the way. Such a wholesome video.
Your dad ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏾. He warmed my heart . Cherish the moments.
You have a beautiful family. Your Dad is truly blessed, he must be so proud of you.
This was Beautiful. You look like both your mom and dad. Your kids all look like both you and there dad.
I am so happy for you! I too have not seen my Igbo father in over 47 years or more. I was too young to remember more than he was called, Obie and traveled with 2 guards. I am 55 years old, and love him dearly! Anyone honestly able to trace any elders who may have lost track of a daughter born in December of 1963, please reply.
If you know his full name start by searching on social media for extended families.
It's sad you haven't seen him...
Habiba, I am happy for, you mine passed Dec.15th 2018 , was suppose to be here this month.
Make the best of it.
This video got me crying! And I watched it more than twice. Thanks for re-uniting with your father. It will extend his life span. And also meeting your kids and your kids meeting him s something great.
Its nice you had a reconciliation with your Dad after all this years.
He looked so proud watching his grandson put on his clothes... this is really nice! Peace and blessings
I just witness love. God bless you all for sharing these moments.
Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️
Beautiful and emotional video, i have made a mental note to spend more time with my parents after watching this. I am hooked to your channel from now on. Greetings from Abuja. 💝
Wow he bought you 23 carat GOLD NECKLACE and bearing in mind the prices of gold is sky high, he really spend serious money in gifts to show his gratitude. Life is too short to carry in grudges. He is handsome and very regal looking man,
The joy of father and daughter, blood will always be thicker than water. This video just made my day.
Oh,thank you for sharing your story with your UA-cam family that's nice.
I’ve honestly watched these videos multiple times now... don’t know why I just feel so connected to this story.. as I am a Hausa girl who was born and raised in England, I know exactly what the cultural and religious differences are. And for those reasons, along with observing how very Hausa ur dad is... I am just drawn to this story! It is wonderful that we have UA-cam today to see these things, as even with Hausa tradition, this is very much out of the norm to publish your private personal life to the world. I however am so here for it and I wish you all happiness! Anyway well done Habiba. And I’ll just say this about your father... unfortunately as Hausa’s sometimes we are victims of our environment and your dad was no exception. I also struggle with this sometimes and I can very much relate to him/you. Sometimes it can feel like an identity crisis cuz of all the cultural contrasts! He definitely loves you guys so much. His effort did not go unnoticed. Like he sat on the table, chatting to y’all at dinner, bought you so many gifts! He did the classic traditional Hausa thing of giving his grandchildren money. My grandparents always did this to me. It’s our culture, and no matter how small the amount I was taught it’s actually considered rude not to accept the money. Your dad definitely just needed to be less traditional, and more liberal and he would have absolutely had a happy life with your mum. Unfortunately in northern Nigeria, sometimes we don’t even have a choice and your dad probably didn’t have the option to come with you guys. I can imagine living in sokoto for a British Jamaican can’t have been easy at all, and I definitely understand what your mum may have endured. She wouldn’t have had any freedom and it would have been so stifling for her. In the 21st century now, things have improved and it is less so. These videos did really warm my heart however and I hope you visit Nigeria one day with your children. They will be incredibly welcome by everyone, and it will also be an eye opening experience for them, something that will make them much more rounded adults! Going to Nigeria and understanding the differences etc had shaped me to be who I am today, and I must say I am proud of who I am and proud to be both Hausa and western! Thank you for sharing your life with us. Mun Gode, Allah ya muku albarka. 😇
Also, Kenton is a great man!! I loooove your multiculturalism and you are the epitome of a globalised world! Hausa mixed with Jamaican and Asian and white? Amazing, rare and beautiful cocktail! Mariam is gorgeous I like her more and more every time I watch your videos. She’s a classic 16 year old lol
What emotional moment! God bless your family
I am Nigerian Young Dad, watching this with my Son and wife makes me feel special. I saw the looks on their faces and i know this video makes them appreciate me more Because they now understand what it takes for a Nigerian to travel so far to to live abroad. Thanks for sharing your story. We are proud of you.
Why am I so emotional watching this? The Christmas card from 1986 broke me..
Why am I tearing up on seeing the card 😭
I thought he is a Muslim
@@JHKanus He is Muslim but his daughter who sent he card to him practiced the Faith of her Mother I believe.