MEETING MY NIGERIAN FATHER FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 30 YEARS! Part 1

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  • Опубліковано 27 сер 2024
  • Finally the day! After 30 years I am meeting my Nigerian father! What do I say? How will I feel? What will he say? How have we changed? #nigerian #familydrama #reunion This is part 1 of his visit and there will be at least 6-7parts with some surprises thrown in!
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  • @SentimentalCrab
    @SentimentalCrab 5 років тому +353

    Ok, OMG! This video is completely heartwarming for anyone who knows what unloading a suitcase coming from Africa is like. You guys have been completely spoiled by your dad. I don’t even know where to start 😂. First off, I’m currently using the exact yellow African bath sponge as your dad’s. Kareem looks super handsome in the thobe! Kenton turned Hausa quick 😂. Mariam looks sooooo beautiful in her boubou. I can’t wait to see you wearing your stuff. He even brought the leather cushions!! I know you’ll love having that in your home.
    When he said “kina lafiya” to Mariam, I wanted her to say “lafiya lau” so bad. That would have made his day 😂. You can tell he’s so happy to see you, and it’s amazing that he apparently still holds your mom dear in his heart. Uff, too much to write. Habiba, thank you for sharing this with us. Can you tell I’m a little happy for you all. Bless you guys.

    • @ipsilonia
      @ipsilonia 5 років тому +9

      SentimentalCrab thanks for mentioning what he said to mariam! i was trying to figure it out!

    • @fancyface8674
      @fancyface8674 5 років тому +17

      @SentimentalCrab, your comment is beautiful. The vlog and your comment warmed my heart and brought tears to my eyes. I know how precious daughters are to their dad's. I lost mine 15 years ago. I am a Nigerian too. Born in Jos but, from the South West. I can still speak Hausa, kadan kadan but, understand it to a certain degree. You're blessed, my sisters.

    • @nubianess6806
      @nubianess6806 5 років тому +9

      SentimentalCrab, what sweet words!

    • @impactmondial8653
      @impactmondial8653 5 років тому +11

      Your daddy is so sweet. He has a good heart. Meeting you after so long yet he feels so comfortable and at home with everyone. God bless you all in Jesus name

    • @greatexpectations9446
      @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +6

      I read your comment during the first two minutes and it brought tears to my eyes I litrary had to stop the video...God bless you..this is the most sencer and beautiful words...peace💕✌🌹

  • @IjeomaMbelu
    @IjeomaMbelu 5 років тому +31

    Awww... He brought all these gifts for his children and didn't pack any clothes for himself! 😭... Who's cutting onions here... 😢💕💕 Too beautiful!

  • @Fido1010
    @Fido1010 5 років тому +291

    A Nigerian man will not tell their kids they love them. But when they buy something for you no matter how inexpensive such is; they're showing their love for you.
    Just like my dad he will never say he loves you but he will do everything you ask of him... Miss my dad of blessed memory

    • @blessing8490
      @blessing8490 5 років тому +28

      Actions speaks louder than words.

    • @nobs997
      @nobs997 5 років тому +5

      Actually, it's un-Nigerian and sounds awkward.

    • @ayyotube5224
      @ayyotube5224 5 років тому +9

      Not only Nigerians I think

    • @mercy499
      @mercy499 5 років тому +6

      Not really my a dad does

    • @ericaese6603
      @ericaese6603 5 років тому +5

      That's true, they hardly say I love you. Only a few, maybe 3 quoter out of 10. But they know how to show love by their actions.

  • @Ladyromford
    @Ladyromford 5 років тому +256

    If you're Nigerian....you know that all this shopping your daddy did means a million "i love yous"..... esp for their generation. Gosh I am really happy he got this chance.

  • @lifewithmope7069
    @lifewithmope7069 5 років тому +150

    This video brought tears to my eyes (the part he brought out the letter you gave him when you were still 16) that’s pure father’s love

    • @kpoxbaby
      @kpoxbaby 5 років тому +1

      Life with Mope a she b🚃🚊🚀🚞🚡

    • @bailleulable
      @bailleulable 5 років тому +2

      This is really lovely and i wish you guys well

  • @DailyBreadnWord
    @DailyBreadnWord 5 років тому +126

    I don't know if it's just me, but I have this feeling that your mum still means a lot to your father.

    • @thabanimalobancube4771
      @thabanimalobancube4771 5 років тому +1

      Rose Faith Odack why only mum?? Both parents

    • @TheTishaVintage
      @TheTishaVintage 5 років тому +26

      Thabani Maloba Ncube did you read her comment properly ?

    • @siahyoung6335
      @siahyoung6335 5 років тому +7

      Soraya G Right! What is wrong with people! They just read or lesson to react. not to comprehend

    • @Ro_Mezy
      @Ro_Mezy 5 років тому

      @@thabanimalobancube4771 WTF is wrong with you

    • @thabanimalobancube4771
      @thabanimalobancube4771 5 років тому +5

      Soraya G I apologise my sister have realised my mistake sorry about that

  • @princeaghamiogie7154
    @princeaghamiogie7154 5 років тому +107

    I can tell that your dad loves you and very proud of you

  • @JourneywithKasitti
    @JourneywithKasitti 5 років тому +44

    Great reunion with your Dad. I hope my daughter will meet her Nigerian Dad someday. He left when she was barely 4 months.God has been faithful in raising her.

    • @avamiller5383
      @avamiller5383 5 років тому

      Kasit

    • @gbidemi1
      @gbidemi1 4 роки тому +2

      I get sad when I read that a man abandon his child.😢
      If you know his name and surname you can still search for him or his family online.

    • @JourneywithKasitti
      @JourneywithKasitti 4 роки тому +1

      @iamkrazybonez yes he did. we are okay since God has held our hands and leads the way.

    • @charlesjohn9945
      @charlesjohn9945 3 роки тому +1

      @@JourneywithKasitti are you sure he abandoned the baby or you asked him to go and you took the baby

    • @JourneywithKasitti
      @JourneywithKasitti 3 роки тому +2

      @@charlesjohn9945 Please, i'm the wearer of the shoe. i will not lie (to whose benefit?). I left it in God's hands and only he can fill the void in my childs life.I'm just human to understand somethings but i believe one day it will make sense. Well, yes he walked away.

  • @AsogeAtelier
    @AsogeAtelier 5 років тому +41

    Omg! He packed all those for you guys!!! He's an amazing father . His heart is full of pride and joy .and he was more estactic when your daughter wore the African print . The pure joy!

    • @virtuouswoman4516
      @virtuouswoman4516 3 роки тому +1

      Your video touched my heart such a beautiful reunion after 25 years. He must be a loving and caring daddy. God Bless you all.

  • @walterosadebe1556
    @walterosadebe1556 5 років тому +93

    From every inch, he is a lovely father. God bless him and you too.

  • @ob194
    @ob194 5 років тому +44

    Your father really loves you, from what I can see, I mean I know a father who never admitted his wrong or ever bought gifts in any way. Your father was really showing he missed you and wanted you to amend your relationship. Not many African fathers are able to do this believe me.

  • @Rain_Joe
    @Rain_Joe 5 років тому +15

    My dad is Igbo but my mom is Efik, I was born in Sokoto state. My bestie is Hausa, Idris by name. When you meet educated and civilized Hausas you'd love them. They're so sociable and cool,if only all our Hausas and Muslim brothers would emulate this... Nigeria will be a beautiful place worthy of emulation. I love Hausas! Allah ya bamu zaman Lafiya da juna.❤❤❤

  • @obinnaanosike5946
    @obinnaanosike5946 5 років тому +9

    WOW!!!! Totally awesome. He's so charming, full of intellect and that Nigerian "Class"

  • @Thebluediamoundvision831
    @Thebluediamoundvision831 5 років тому +68

    Your dad is so sweet and well educated. You and your family are also lovely, well brought up.

  • @ToniaGodwin
    @ToniaGodwin 5 років тому +48

    Papa is so tall, that's where the kids got it from especially the grand son, beautiful video

    • @sonofzeus5551
      @sonofzeus5551 3 роки тому +1

      Well they're kinda decently taller in the northern part of Nigeria

  • @lthomas8515
    @lthomas8515 5 років тому +160

    I am nigerian....and i love this...Your pops is a true HAUSA MAN!!!! # naija

  • @godscovenantchild1164
    @godscovenantchild1164 5 років тому +38

    Your father reminds me of my father anytime he visits from Nigeria.There are gifts for everyone.

  • @LivingwithCharnelle
    @LivingwithCharnelle 5 років тому +23

    This was so beautiful. I love how calm your dad speaks. So many gifts from back home. Love the african clothes he brought. How thoughtful of him to bring some for your mom.

  • @rasheedqudus5225
    @rasheedqudus5225 5 років тому +50

    Beautifull i really love this, so proud to be Nigeria no matter wat going on and i know God will bring back the best in Nigeria and in Afrika all. One Lv

  • @Eniola0ne
    @Eniola0ne 5 років тому +64

    For Someone like me, that also have Hausa as part of me, been born and raise in wonderful city of Kano. I can see that you daddy, is widely travel Man, and he have typical Northern Nigeria, heart of Gold. With all the gift, he brought from Nigeria. May God blessed, your beautiful family.

    • @ayodeler39
      @ayodeler39 5 років тому +6

      Eniola Apata missed the answer when asked dad where the gold came from. I recall that some Muslims make it a point to get gold when they go to Haj and become Alhaji.

  • @amehimable
    @amehimable 5 років тому +108

    He was so exited to come, see all the gifts he didn't even bring clothes for himself oh dear. May God continue to bless our parents🙏

  • @olufunkenwabuisi7823
    @olufunkenwabuisi7823 5 років тому +28

    Wow. Hes indeed a loving father. Those gifts sure cost a fortune... am Nigerian and i can tell you that for free. Please take good care of him.

  • @ekeneonwukaike2880
    @ekeneonwukaike2880 5 років тому +91

    She looks just like her dad. Beautiful.

  • @mrsj6114
    @mrsj6114 5 років тому +38

    I cried watching this video and don't even know the people. Just clicked on the video by accident and got hooked. Watched all the way to the end and subscribed. No one said i love you but there was love coming from the souls. From your dad, you, your kids and your husband. The love is so pure that we can feel it just by watching the video. Your dad loves you so much

    • @nancydemaz4949
      @nancydemaz4949 5 років тому

      .me too. M in tears right now. Such a lovely family

    • @maimunaisah7566
      @maimunaisah7566 5 років тому

      "No one said I love you but there was love coming from the souls..." very touching...

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  4 роки тому

      Thank you and I hope you are here to stay ! God bless

  • @breezenking
    @breezenking 5 років тому +98

    This is a fantastic video. Your husband is an amazing man on how you guys brought up your children. I thought your children would’ve disliked his gifts, instead, they’ll love it and quickly put it on. Nice family.

    • @jenniferbrowne4030
      @jenniferbrowne4030 5 років тому +4

      U look like a beautiful family may God bless u, u don't need a good fortune cat, u just need Jesus, read the bible u will get joy n find peace ask the lord to direct u n he will

  • @ruleso
    @ruleso 5 років тому +157

    I’m Nigerian and I can tell you that man is a very rich man from Nigeria

    • @nicholastoo858
      @nicholastoo858 5 років тому +1

      Olusoji Omosehin Enlighten us, how?

    • @shadowpeep1585
      @shadowpeep1585 5 років тому +24

      Nicholas, the gifts he bought are good quality and expensive, the golden necklace set is very expensive and exotic too.

    • @greatexpectations9446
      @greatexpectations9446 5 років тому +9

      no you cant tell if you dont know him personaly..I know african people are v generous and helpful..for sure he would spent every penny he had gor his beloved family and even his family relatives friends and even neighbours share him this good time by giving money as gifts and may be he borrow some money as well..so that is

    • @olubusoyemordi5901
      @olubusoyemordi5901 5 років тому +22

      Nigerians sha! Disappoint us for once, please. You don't know him personally to conclude that he is a very rich man. That you heard him say he or his father travelled abroad is not enough. Fish sellers send there children abroad. We don't want to know if he is rich or not, let's just enjoy the reunion.

    • @mbuyanehanda2674
      @mbuyanehanda2674 5 років тому +1

      @@greatexpectations9446 you can't know that either, I side with the first theory

  • @motolanifadahunsi-banjo7610
    @motolanifadahunsi-banjo7610 5 років тому +47

    Wao that was a beautiful moment there when your dad held your hands like his lttle girl.

  • @doemackerel6353
    @doemackerel6353 5 років тому +50

    You are such a good person for welcoming your father back into your life. It is also obvious that your father is a good person, flawed and trying to make amends. What I found interesting is that your father was younger when you left than you are now. It is true that in some parts of Northern Nigeria (in the past), firstborns did not usually have a relationship with their mothers. I wonder what effects that had on subsequent emotional relationships of the firstborn. I can understand your mother's hurt.

  • @bawaemmanuel6930
    @bawaemmanuel6930 5 років тому +22

    Maryam, kina nan lafiya? Daddy's little girl!! I love the way he held your hands and you both were walking and God knows the joy you both had. So happy for you Habiba!!

  • @imdiarymendes
    @imdiarymendes 5 років тому +27

    I love your dad. He bought all this goodies
    And the high hand quality mashalah God bless him
    Just remind me my dad back home

  • @oluchi_assumani
    @oluchi_assumani 5 років тому +64

    This video brought tears to my eyes. Glad you amended your relationship with your dad.

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  5 років тому +9

      OMG I am such a fan of yours ! Little sister in my head and fellow Nigerian American queen!- in Medicine, Like I am so flattered you watched my video!!!! Thank you for your kind words!

    • @oluchi_assumani
      @oluchi_assumani 5 років тому +6

      @@Kenton-Habiba omg!! I can't believe you replied. I was literally just sharing your video with my husband when I saw the notification of your comment. I'm so happy I stumbled on your channel. My day is made! I'm binge-watching all your videos tonight lol. Thanks for sharing your life with us. You're doing an amazing job!!

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  5 років тому +5

      @@oluchi_assumani doing a happy dance!

    • @alejastudios6344
      @alejastudios6344 5 років тому +4

      Wow! Absolutely touching I can feel the LOVE. I’m a Nigerian, a Yoruba but still I can relate to the Hausa culture as very caring. Blood is thicker than water as they say, so hold on tight and pls don’t let go.

  • @symphoriankimbi4869
    @symphoriankimbi4869 5 років тому +57

    U see he still loves his wife. This is a good father. I wish he lives long to see his great grands. He went on a shopping spree for his daughter and grand kids. Ohhh why are families seperated? Why???

  • @aminabuhari9472
    @aminabuhari9472 5 років тому +136

    Wow he even brought you gold.true Hausa man❤️

    • @emmanuelonyia2769
      @emmanuelonyia2769 5 років тому +3

      I love this so much howI wish my father was alive.i love you dsf

  • @christieatuh
    @christieatuh 5 років тому +38

    Your father is a great and large hearted man

  • @cristinamorenolamin3217
    @cristinamorenolamin3217 5 років тому +11

    What a beautiful man your father is...... I loved this video. Absolutely priceless your fathers love is. Gorgeous gifts for everyone, I love Nigerians.

  • @dawnclarke8482
    @dawnclarke8482 5 років тому +16

    Your dad is such a distinguished gentleman. He brings "Coming To America"to mind. Those gifts are so beautiful and he brought something for everyone including my namesake. Thanks for explaining why he's not staying at your home (I was wondering). I am looking forward to part 2. I enjoyed this video!

  • @Azlite74
    @Azlite74 5 років тому +28

    Not sure why but I cried a wee bit. I pray for more positives in the future.

  • @gracemaryannan9504
    @gracemaryannan9504 5 років тому +16

    There was a scene of your dad and you smiling at Maryam, like identical twins, you both smile the same. I love the relationship, one of the beauties of life is forgiveness, your relationship with your dad is great and can only get better

  • @VivianHarry
    @VivianHarry 5 років тому +18

    Sooo heart warming! ‘watched your video on how you left Nigeria and I’m so happy that you reunited with your dad; beautiful to watch🙏

  • @hadeezas7056
    @hadeezas7056 5 років тому +85

    I am from sokoto and I know your father's family very well. In fact, I believe we are related. I have heard many stories about your family and how you left and no one heard from you again. I am so happy to have come across this video. All the best! :)

    • @gracegbomedo4939
      @gracegbomedo4939 5 років тому +10

      He’s definitely one of the best dad in the world 👍🏽

    • @swagzgeneral8606
      @swagzgeneral8606 5 років тому +1

      Tell us how she left

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  4 роки тому +3

      I am curious what it is you heard about us leaving or how we left?

  • @josephsuso6174
    @josephsuso6174 5 років тому +3

    The way you welcome and treat your dad at the airport show you are woman with total respect and discipline .from The Gambia

  • @dr.jamesabiye2825
    @dr.jamesabiye2825 5 років тому +18

    I am from southern Nigeria, a Yoruba...but I must say that hausas are down-to-earth humans. They are simple, generous and straightforward people... Baba(your dad) is a good example.

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  5 років тому +2

      Thank you

    • @salihibrahim562
      @salihibrahim562 5 років тому +1

      James Abiye, that is really very kind of you....I believe all Nigerian are kind and generous people...Habiba and her family are simply remarkable!!!

  • @Kenton-Habiba
    @Kenton-Habiba  5 років тому +88

    Today is the day! look out for the next few videos! There is more to this story !! Also please see description box above to my social media links and to products you may like . Thank you!

    • @VanAddae
      @VanAddae 5 років тому +2

      I have to say this, despite the way things went your dad truly loves you and dare i say probably still loves ypur mo.. This made me cry, he was holding onto you and it warmed my heart. I am so grateful and happy for you for the reconciliation. Its unfortunate culture and traditions prevent people from loving the way they should or want. Happy you were open to this and i feel your dad will be so happy.Forgiveness is truly a wonderful gift. And oh love northners, what a gentleman and so charismatic. Ok back to watch. Only reached the ride from the airport

    • @ahoofesika
      @ahoofesika 5 років тому

      I do understand how u feeling my German sister went to Ghana last year to celebrate my Dads 70th birthday with him and she only saw our dad when she was 4 yrs ,she is 40 years now .Father,s never forget their children.My dad lost contact with my step sister because her mum married another man and relocated .My dad always kept a picture of our sister and always told us about her and ended up finding us on the internet by uploading my dads old pic her mum gave her

    • @olaolaitan7834
      @olaolaitan7834 5 років тому

      Really miss my dad watching your video. I love and miss you dad. Continue to rest in bosom of God😔

    • @chosenprophetichyatt.wisdo2332
      @chosenprophetichyatt.wisdo2332 5 років тому

      Kenton & Habiba, you so blessed. I’m glad you welcome your dad with open arms. Blessings to you & your family! 👏🏾💥❤️😍😘🎈🌹🎁😃

    • @chosenprophetichyatt.wisdo2332
      @chosenprophetichyatt.wisdo2332 5 років тому +1

      Olah Ola, may GOD comfort you. 👏🏾I’m fatherless & motherless too. Their memories linger. Blessings! 👏🏾😍😘🌹

  • @star_light_kid
    @star_light_kid 5 років тому +54

    You’re almost 50? Wow!!! Black don’t crack for real.

    • @bonchanneltv5645
      @bonchanneltv5645 5 років тому +1

      Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️

    • @faizamohomed3271
      @faizamohomed3271 5 років тому +1

      Yeah, thank God we don't age that fast.

  • @chrissy7717
    @chrissy7717 5 років тому +37

    Such a lovely family ❤️ ..you have your dad’s smile and dimples..i was so nervous and excited for you ..i could feel the anticipation and excitement

  • @SusanMajekNetwork
    @SusanMajekNetwork 5 років тому +104

    I really love this. Wow, he spent a lot of money shopping for you guys. That's our fathers' way of making it up to us. I schooled in the North, so I understand your culture well. I left my dad too in similar circumstances and didn't see him for over 20 years before he passed. I didn't speak to him for many years, but we eventually reconnected and he tried hard to repair our relationship, even begged me to come home to visit, but I couldn't forget the hurt and trauma he caused. I was too far gone to care that people evolve. I don't blame your mom or dad for their decisions. One was a slave to tradition and one was a slave to emotion. God give us the wisdom to not be bound by either and to make right decision at the right time. God bless you and your family!

    • @emilie8564
      @emilie8564 5 років тому +7

      Your comment is so spot on. Full of wisdom!

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  5 років тому +4

      Thank you for watching, your wisdom and kind words !

    • @ginettemayas7640
      @ginettemayas7640 5 років тому +2

      Yes, that is how it goes sometimes. You're not alone.

    • @Esther-gc4mc
      @Esther-gc4mc 5 років тому

      God bless you too for this comment. The best

    • @rawbeachqi
      @rawbeachqi 5 років тому +1

      Lovely and well-written comment. Very emotional watching this video; miss my dad. I hope the grandchildren savor time and memories with their gramps.

  • @H-JLivingSimple1406
    @H-JLivingSimple1406 5 років тому +8

    This is so beautiful ❤ I am from the North of Nigeria and I'm here in the US, gosh I miss my Dad...I'm happy you reunited with your Dad..

  • @worldtraveler8571
    @worldtraveler8571 5 років тому +8

    Brought tears to my eyes! When I started fallowing you years ago I prayed and hoped for this day. Glad to see family reunited!

  • @anjolaakinduro9477
    @anjolaakinduro9477 5 років тому +2

    Even as a stranger, I can see that this man loves his daughter soooo much and is overjoyed to see his son-in-law and grandchildren. Nigerian men, and especially Hausa men, are generally not socialised to express emotion and you can see the love emanating from him. Habiba is clearly a daughter in a million and an awesome lady. God bless you for doing this. I'm surprised at myself - I'm trying not to cry!

  • @jayjshumba5217
    @jayjshumba5217 5 років тому +5

    A very learned man you are blessed to have him as your dad despite the distance and separation...

  • @Okechukwuobasijoseph
    @Okechukwuobasijoseph 5 років тому +55

    Quite impressive, I couldn't stop smiling all through while watching this video. As a filmmaker, we have a lot in common, I felt really emotionally connected. The Christmas card you sent to your dad was signed on my birthday, when I turned 18 (2 years older than you, I believe) and the same year I finished my secondary school. I am an Igbo and a christian, who grew up among Hausas in Cameroon and I speak fluent Hausa. I really have a huge amount of respect to your dad, seeing him showing you that well preserved Christmas card, as a Northern Nigerian muslim, wow! Respect! Thats how we should all see and treat religion. I hope he enjoyed his visit. Wish him well for me and thank you and your lovely family for sharing this fantastic video. Looking forward to see Miriam's directed movie or documentary in the near feature stay blessed.

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 2 роки тому +1

      Ikr!!!... so rare to see that from northerners muslims. I love to see it.

  • @AA-ek5kz
    @AA-ek5kz 5 років тому +30

    Wow he bought you 23 carat GOLD NECKLACE and bearing in mind the prices of gold is sky high, he really spend serious money in gifts to show his gratitude. Life is too short to carry in grudges. He is handsome and very regal looking man,

  • @fsow1237
    @fsow1237 5 років тому +17

    OMG grandad is so organised
    And sweet
    He kept all baby pics
    ALLAH BLESS YOU GRANDAD

  • @mamiemoore5015
    @mamiemoore5015 5 років тому +13

    I cried watching this yesterday.. it is a beautiful story.. your mom is a strong women

    • @iphietalk-2056
      @iphietalk-2056 5 років тому +1

      she is, and i think he secretly admires her for her courage. things would have turned out differently.

  • @kryptonneyo781
    @kryptonneyo781 5 років тому +150

    You guys better appreciate those clothes and put them on with pride! they are damn expensive, He’s a proud man and definitely value his family!!! Bless him, I wish my Dad is still alive to visit me here. He doesn’t even need to bring any gifts😀! I won’t let him go back.... I miss him real bad. I’m sure my children will do too.

    • @Kingsdaughter68
      @Kingsdaughter68 5 років тому +16

      Kryptoneyo Okogbe. He is a generous man. And very thoughtful coming with loads of gifts 🎁. God bless him. Nigerians don’t visit empty handed.

    • @omolabakeagunbiade7240
      @omolabakeagunbiade7240 5 років тому +8

      You just made me cry...I miss my dad real bad

    • @hanniewangari6908
      @hanniewangari6908 5 років тому +4

      He is in a good place Oko..
      Sending you hugs

    • @kryptonneyo781
      @kryptonneyo781 5 років тому +1

      Omolabake Agunbiade 💙

    • @nicy1544
      @nicy1544 5 років тому +1

      Why being rude? Just can't appreciate without any poor judgment.

  • @neky5798
    @neky5798 5 років тому +49

    Why am I so emotional watching this? The Christmas card from 1986 broke me..

    • @Esther-gc4mc
      @Esther-gc4mc 5 років тому +1

      Why am I tearing up on seeing the card 😭

    • @JHKanus
      @JHKanus 5 років тому

      I thought he is a Muslim

    • @AbuSiddiyq
      @AbuSiddiyq 5 років тому +1

      @@JHKanus He is Muslim but his daughter who sent he card to him practiced the Faith of her Mother I believe.

  • @PHlophe
    @PHlophe 5 років тому +55

    your dad is very handsome

    • @prislaem3838
      @prislaem3838 5 років тому

      Lechiffresix six yes he is! I was also about to comment this!

    • @lillyxanga7395
      @lillyxanga7395 5 років тому

      Lechiffresix six I wouldnt mind him beingmy man, am 35

  • @labrucine
    @labrucine 5 років тому +124

    Your children are very polite with good mannerisms. I see the African education. Nice Job from you.

    • @lorrainemartin5034
      @lorrainemartin5034 5 років тому +3

      He wasn't around for 30 years - what nice job by him? It's the mother who they were with that did the nice job.

    • @magstabrown5780
      @magstabrown5780 5 років тому +14

      I think Bruce is complementing Habiba. Not her father.

    • @labrucine
      @labrucine 5 років тому +12

      Sacajewi Diamond Dear sister, I am not sure why you are attacking me using stereotypes. All I saw in those kids were some African values I can relate to. They can be American and still have multiple identities. Please be nice!

    • @Snap_zzzbk.3
      @Snap_zzzbk.3 5 років тому +13

      Sacajewi Diamond why are you sounding like a broken china plate, you can’t deny them their African heritage

    • @bonchanneltv5645
      @bonchanneltv5645 5 років тому

      Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️

  • @arisehighariseahigh2574
    @arisehighariseahigh2574 5 років тому +1

    Wow u made me miss my dad. We lost him when I was 12 and am almost 50 now. So pls take moment as gift and never for granted. Your video makes me smile all through

  • @pfnt8697
    @pfnt8697 5 років тому +4

    How beautiful, your father filled his suitcase with gifts for you his daughter, family and grandchildren. BEAUTIFUL 💖💖💖💖🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @gigibigh5057
    @gigibigh5057 5 років тому +9

    Its nice you had a reconciliation with your Dad after all this years.

  • @tinadaniels2492
    @tinadaniels2492 5 років тому +22

    thank you for sharing this beautiful moment of your family especially your Father!

  • @graciafani8213
    @graciafani8213 5 років тому +2

    Heart warming....our African fathers...you're very lucky to spend time with your your FATHER...MAY GOD BLESS HIM YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...

  • @zainabsaidu1634
    @zainabsaidu1634 5 років тому

    What a lovely father you have here, he didn't even bring much cloth for himself, all he has in his bag were all for you and his grand children.

  • @mikennamoko4336
    @mikennamoko4336 5 років тому +88

    Daddy is a rich man.

  • @shukuratdabiri7815
    @shukuratdabiri7815 5 років тому +47

    Subhanallah. Your dad must really love your mum and your family. He must have spent more than $5000 on your shopping. Trust me , I know cos I am a Nigerian. That gold alone costs up to $3k. Cherish them and the giver. I love your cheerful heart, and you have a lovely family.

    • @Hodan_lilly
      @Hodan_lilly 5 років тому +5

      Shukurat Dabiri that gold melt my heart

    • @avyarima
      @avyarima 5 років тому +1

      a ha ha ha and she doesn't seem to know the value....lol

    • @maryandrew3324
      @maryandrew3324 5 років тому

      Avala she probably knew
      That's why she was asking where it was made.

    • @dikeledimatlawa4641
      @dikeledimatlawa4641 5 років тому

      Shukurat Dabiri

    • @Jesusisthebest5383
      @Jesusisthebest5383 4 роки тому

      @@avyarima you guys are more interested in the value than what actually happened. She missed a relationship with her father, he tried to to express his regret by lavishing them with gifts, if she's still bitter it's okay, it's a process

  • @valentinaross1356
    @valentinaross1356 5 років тому +2

    The joy of father and daughter, blood will always be thicker than water. This video just made my day.

  • @squitjohnson8798
    @squitjohnson8798 5 років тому +1

    I am Nigerian Young Dad, watching this with my Son and wife makes me feel special. I saw the looks on their faces and i know this video makes them appreciate me more Because they now understand what it takes for a Nigerian to travel so far to to live abroad. Thanks for sharing your story. We are proud of you.

  • @dsl7651
    @dsl7651 5 років тому +3

    Love love! I am from Africa and this is like dejavu when folks come to visit us. Love the Hausa Girl outfit. Lovely family! People should know that we Africans ar educated, your dad's English is impeccable and he is an author too!

  • @jekakematthew9083
    @jekakematthew9083 5 років тому +14

    Nice one... Thanks to you for still holding up ur Nigerian heritage..... sanu

  • @TheSamsni
    @TheSamsni 5 років тому +2

    Watching this made me emotional. My Dad also had a rich past and was very kind with gifts. Also had similar mannerisms with your Dad but sadly he passed last year at 76yrs. Around this age, all they have to give is love and just want to see you happy. My Dad insisted on paying the first proper fees of my kids and would often gift my siblings large cash sums and we had no choice but to accept them to avoid a quarrel. I hardly ever comment on UA-cam videos but was moved to do so. Shalom Sister and thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @LilliLamour
    @LilliLamour 5 років тому +1

    You can tell how proud your father is to be by your son and daughter’s side.

  • @rachellebrown9701
    @rachellebrown9701 5 років тому +5

    Wow! So amazing, after 30years to get to meet and learn of your culture, that’s so beautiful, God Bless

  • @hadizabawa4935
    @hadizabawa4935 5 років тому +3

    You have a warm, wonderful loving father, he reminds me of my dad. He brought a whole suitcase full of gifts. Watching your video made me smile and proud to be Hausa, love the way Baba said “bude wanan” and you said bude means open.😍 love you and your family. Habiba is a beautiful name💕 Masha Allah, that my mum’s name. Bless her soul.

  • @gymgurl1486
    @gymgurl1486 5 років тому +10

    Somehow this made me happy. Glad you met up with your father. Awesome.

  • @beebatadammuhammad7586
    @beebatadammuhammad7586 5 років тому +29

    Masha Allah such a beautiful family hausa people are very nice and for giving love my country

  • @wateromiproduction3898
    @wateromiproduction3898 5 років тому +9

    Your dad is from northern Nigeria. An Arewa man. Hausa or Fulani. Most likely Hausa. I am a Yoruba man from the South west. He definitely loves you and showered you and your family with gifts

  • @royroyroy7293
    @royroyroy7293 5 років тому +18

    Priceless moment, happy for you .

  • @Willahbean
    @Willahbean 2 місяці тому

    I wish I could hold hands with my father again. To be an adult and still have your parents is a blessing.

  • @joycekanema870
    @joycekanema870 5 років тому +11

    Girl you look just like your father ♥️

  • @ugomarin
    @ugomarin 5 років тому +45

    Nigeria Culture the best....Best UA-cam Video ever

  • @anajoy1
    @anajoy1 5 років тому +11

    Your dad went crazy with the buying. How lovely!!! wow. Beautiful family Habiba.

  • @emmyluv4340
    @emmyluv4340 5 років тому +1

    Wow after so many years, he still thinks of everyone. He is a good man. God bless you bringing your dad back again.

  • @paradiselover3984
    @paradiselover3984 5 років тому +2

    He looked so proud watching his grandson put on his clothes... this is really nice! Peace and blessings

  • @sarahinthekitchen8568
    @sarahinthekitchen8568 5 років тому +22

    So happy that I stumbled upon your channel. I love this reunion with your father.You’ve taught me about forgiveness and inner peace!

    • @Kenton-Habiba
      @Kenton-Habiba  5 років тому +1

      Thank you Sarah! welcome to the family

  • @happynappyable
    @happynappyable 5 років тому +8

    Your dad ❤️❤️❤️❤️👏🏾. He warmed my heart . Cherish the moments.

  • @thewordisgod31
    @thewordisgod31 5 років тому +2

    It was touching to see you holding hands with your father. Maybe there would be less bitter and unforgiving people in the world if they wouldn't hold onto past hurt or disappointments from parents.

  • @LQQKUOVER
    @LQQKUOVER 5 років тому +3

    What a beautiful reunion ! I watched your story first ! Then I watched your dad at your home seeing your mom ! This one is a tear jerker , He came with so many gifts . Peace and Blessings to your family

  • @omagemabel1270
    @omagemabel1270 5 років тому +6

    Wow this is so sweet,your daddy is amazing I was practically smiling all through this video,i miss my dad

    • @bonchanneltv5645
      @bonchanneltv5645 5 років тому

      Im done hugging your channel hope you hug my home too😘😘😘😘😘❤️

  • @reneebennett6883
    @reneebennett6883 5 років тому +4

    This is so heart warming!!! I love it!! I'm crying of happiness

  • @ginettemayas7640
    @ginettemayas7640 5 років тому +1

    Oh and your children's pride wearing their finest clothes and standing beside their grandfather beaming with pride was everything. Kenton is a keeper. There is much love in your family.

  • @anastasiahanoba8118
    @anastasiahanoba8118 5 років тому +10

    Waoooo Mariam looks so very beautiful in those African clothes, even your son & hubby too looks very great in those African wears. Happy & lovely to see grandpa, father inlaw & most of all your handsome tall father. God Almighty bless u all. Again big congratulations seeing grandpa, inlaw and father

  • @johnsonakinbulejo4718
    @johnsonakinbulejo4718 5 років тому +4

    This is completely awesome. You have a loving father and wonderful family .😁

  • @etsout
    @etsout 5 років тому +4

    Such wonderful moments that you chose to share with us. Your daughter looks so beautiful in the traditional clothing!

  • @gim5816
    @gim5816 5 років тому +1

    I can't even explain how much of a blessing your Dad is....This was beautiful.

  • @ladylei8533
    @ladylei8533 5 років тому

    I know a lot of people may not get it but seeing you two holding hands was beautiful. Always Daddy's girl.

  • @helencritson9644
    @helencritson9644 5 років тому +3

    Your dad is one of the kindness people on earth. He is super nice. Your children are lucky to have such a kind hearted grand father. He has a giving heart too.

  • @ShermekaG
    @ShermekaG 5 років тому +3

    This was Beautiful. You look like both your mom and dad. Your kids all look like both you and there dad.

  • @gbemigansallo3225
    @gbemigansallo3225 5 років тому +1

    She is Really a Daddy's girl ,Hausa men do not joke when it comes to their Daughters, this is really nice to watch thanks for sharing

  • @oluakinwale4485
    @oluakinwale4485 5 років тому +8

    Nice to see you, your family and your father. Those are very expensive stuff your father bought. You father so much love you no doubt. I can understand how awkward it going to be for your mother to meet your father or accept gifts from him. Talk to you mother and plead eith her to forgive your father. Your father is undoubtedly a good man.