We truly do love you Cole! We're rooting and praying for you, Charisma and Sophie. I feel blessed to be a longtime subscriber. Because of your story, I make sure I consider people with disabilities in conversations about revising my city's transit system with my local officials. Your impact is truly profound. 😀
This is what being a damn good parent creates. These two. Put everything into your kids, and I mean everything. They all deserve it. To have a beautiful life.
Yes I constantly look at other people's family and say wow they're parents are really invested in them. Wish my parents were like that , anyways still blessed to have them and life. God bless everyone
My husband got injured in HS football, 1976. I met him in 1980. We clicked immediately at a party. I knew he was the love of my life, we have been married for 39+ yrs! 4 daughters, 4 sons in law, 4 awesome grandkids! He’s been such an independent man for all of our time together, but 6 yrs ago, he sustained a wound on his butt, it went down to the bone. So, now he’s been mostly bedridden since then. He’s my life partner & best friend, so I take care of him! He’s such an inspiration for me, because he doesn’t complain about what happened to him. Our grandchildren surround him in his bed & just talk to him & watch movies with him! Never give up!! Life is precious as long as we breathe!❣️💖💙🥰
My husband had a sacral wound acquired in the hospital which became stage 4 after the staff dropped him from a hoyer lift and destroyed his coccyx. The wound was as big and deep as a tennis ball. Hospital and nursing home didn't cure it but I brought him home and with the wound care center and learning to dress it myself, it has finally, healed, filled in and closed. It took six months. My husband is 76.
I’m sitting here at least 10 minutes after the video ended trying to stop the tears and I can’t. I’m speechless. The love, the true essence of family, the spirit of perseverance… I see God in the two of you and the life you have built together. I wish you both nothing but the best for your future.
Just the fact that you said “It’s been a good 10 years” shows what kind of person you are. You could focus on the negative, but then you will never see all the positive things that have happened and how many people you have inspired. You both are so amazing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I can’t wait to see what you all do over the next 10 years!!
I am so happy for you Cole. I’m happy for Charisma. I never told you why you all fascinated me so much. It’s the energy. It’s how Cole ask you were you going to the party and you didn’t have a date. That meant so much to me for you. One thing I have learned literally not just a saying - you can’t keep a good man down. He’ll raise every time. But this time God sent him a good woman to raise with him. Both of you just so happy and always got good vibes. I can watch your videos and just relax and go with the flow. That’s the real magic you to bring to us. Happy Happy Happy and many more Happy years.
What a uplifting story. Look at what love can do. May God continues keep you and your beautiful wife and family. You guys stay safe.. Always be yourselves. Beautiful!!!♥️♥️♦️♦️
Soo heart warming... how you turned the ugly to beautifully...Charisma such a loving soul .Just found out your channel today...God bless you guys..Love from Kuala Lumpur
Hi Cole and Charisma, Do give God the Praises for keeping you these ten years, Live Your Motto'Stay Positive'&He will help you both in fulfilling your Aspirations.GBU 🇬🇾🙏🙏♥️💖
It's a strange coincidence that this story popped up in my main feed. On April 19, 2023, the worst news was relayed to me. I met a lovely man in December 1991. I became a nanny for his three beautiful children back then. On March 6, 2023, he got out of bed that morning, entered the washroom, & unexpectedly blacked out. When falling, he hit his head on the edge of the bath tub. He is currently paralyzed from the neck down. He went from a healthy 63 year old man, to this. He was a soccer player, a coach, a mentor, a hiker, a cross country skier, a traveller. He lived in the country with clean air. He never used drugs, didn't smoke, & was a light drinker. In a split second, his whole world changed. It also changed for his wife, & his grown children. My heart aches. I hope that one day, he will become a Cole. Stay strong, & God speed. ❤
@@Ejonesosu As long as we live, life will offer us challenges. Some of us will crumble under the pressure, while others will rise up to the challenge, become stronger, and reap the sweet rewards of having not given up. Cole is a winner. And I know that you are too. We all have a winner inside of us. Thankyou for your kind words. May God make his face to shine upon you, always. 😊
Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! Cried for entire video lenght...God bless you all :)
My heart broke when he said “its been a long 10 years” I know it must have been challenging and at times he felt really low, I’m so glad Charisma came into his life ❤️😢
Mine too... We cannot even begin to imagine what he must feel inside. Over and above his constant positive attitude, he's still a human, who will from time to time experience a flood of overwhelming emotions from all angles. 💔 All credit to our grand creator, who empowers us each day, even more so Cole. 💐😘
Desejo que você fique bem e tente olhar para vida de uma forma melhor. São esses tipos de vídeos que nos faz parar pra pensar e refletir em que não existem barreiras na vida, que sejam capazes de nos parar e destruir, porque existe um Deus que estar sempre nos olhando e pronto para nos capacitar pra enfrentar tudo e ainda que não aconteça do jeito que queremos, ainda sim nós podemos aprender um pouco mais.
this one brought me to tears. im a very positive person, but watching your videos reminds me that as long as i have breath life is not that bad at all. thank you both for allowing us the opportunity to just to live your life through video. as a 63 year old man i still find things in life that keep me going. and you 2 just add to my wonderful life. thank you.
You don't even know how much impact you are making on people's lives worldwide, Cole, and Charisma. You are the light in the darkness, and your positive perspective of life is so powerful and contagious. If only people who have problems and feel so helpless would find time to watch you and listen to your story, I am sure they would find meaning in their own struggles. God bless you both, and thank you for being a great inspiration and for your enduring love and values.
@@texastwister6988 - *I think you misunderstood her comment. She just mean in general to never let any negative comment ruin anything for them, which is why Cole & Charisma "HEARTED" her comment.*
On August 2, it was 33 years since my diving accident left me a quadriplegic. They say the summer is the worst time for people living in northern climates because we are out enjoying our few months of warmth and not as careful. You're doing a great thing in bringing attention to diving and paralysis.
Cole, to see you thrive with all you went through, you have been such a positive influence in my life. Every day I see ways I could adapt to things in my life, and I see how to be positive. I’m so happy that you found Charisma to be with.
I was hanging tough with no tears until I saw Cole's mom. I'm a mom and I can't imagine the roller coaster she (and the fam) have been on these past 10 years! What a blessing this all turned out to be! Much love to you all! ❤
Cole, I first came across you on UA-cam about two years ago which was about three years after me getting paralyzed from the chest down just like you are. In 2018 between January and June, I attempted suicide five times… One of which killed me. God literally reached down from heaven with his mighty hands of healing and literally brought me back to life from the dead… You have inspired me so incredibly much over these last few years, you have shown me there a new “Normal” is still truly out there/attainable/available. Also like you, I had basketball taken away from me… I was six years old the first time my dad put a basketball in my hand, and I haven’t stopped playing since… I played basketball for 32 years… Practically my whole life. When we first got paralyzed, the first things and for me they were constant after I was finally out of the ICU after 3 1/2 weeks, My activity by chosen activity was staring at the ceiling in the hospital just thinking about the literally tens and thousands of different things that I couldn’t do anymore… When I finally realized… I’m sure that when we both realized that we couldn’t play basketball anymore, it literally felt like our hearts ripping out of our chest… I used to get super emotional about it. We have both had our dark days and dark moments after being paralyzed… I am so grateful and thankful that God led me to you on UA-cam… You have inspired me and like I said before, you have shown me that there can be happiness after our injuries! I guess I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for being you, and just like your brother said… You may be younger than me, but I look up to you! I feel the exact same way… And I need you to know that one of the reasons I am alive today, is You! You just being you… Happy go lucky, positive, able to do things even in a wheelchair… You are a huge part of my success and part of my recovery from being paralyzed! I know we have never met, but I love you like a brother! May God continue to bless you and everything you do, and may God keep you and protect you And your loved ones from Covid, with God’s perfect love, his amazing grace, and his gentle mercy. In Jesus name I pray, amen
Omg! I can't stop the tears. This was so beautiful. Cole is living life with a purpose. What is our excuse for those that are fully capable? Such an inspiration.
That was so beautiful. Today would have been my 37th anniversary, but I lost my husband 9 years ago. I love watching your videos, they are uplifting, encouraging and joyful. May God continue to bless you and your loved ones.
I am so sorry for your suffering. I know, I wish I had words to uplift you and comfort you, but I am afraid only Jesus can do that. I will say, if I may be so bold, I once heard a quote that changed me forever; What is grief, if not love persevering?” I pray that the Lord will send people into your life to love you and care you in your time of affliction, because this is true religion undefiled. Thank you for sharing!
I'm only 1 minute in and I can't stop the tears from flowing. Near the end of the video and still crying. Thank you Cole for sharing this video and this channel and your life. You are a miracle, a testimony and an inspiration for many more than you know! Your life has touched me so much, and I've never let you know before, but I am now. So on behalf of the silent watchers, thank you Cole for being you and sharing a part of your life with us.
What a beautiful tribute to a great guy! Thank you for putting yourself out there. Hopefully one day I can get my grandson who was injured at age 16 as well (18 yrs old now) and is a c4 quad, to watch and be inspired by you. All he wants to do is play video games! Y’all are a wonderful couple and I love watching your videos! Hugs and prayers for both of you!
My tears dropped down when listening to Cole's mom knowing how it feels like, as a mother. You are an amazing couple. Just like you always says stayyy positiiive😊😊
Cole, I am crying like a baby.... long after the video has ended. You've truly lived an exceptional and courageous life, and the best is yet to come. Thank you for touching my life in ways you will probably never know about. I am sure that is the sentiment of many. We love you and Charisma. We're proud of you guys and we are all excited to see the next adventure God has for you. 💝
This was honestly one of my favorite videos. It brought me to tears. Thank you charisma for making this video and Cole for being an inspiration. It’s been 10 years, but you just keep getting stronger. Keep up the great work and keep spreading your message to the world.
It's been good ten years that hit differently. The positivity in it through all the struggles you've gone through. I'm in tears. One thing for sure is that God is faithful. Charisma and Cole, God bless you beyond your expectations.
Today I randomly saw the Q&A sessions you did with each of your parents and it helped me to cry today. Today is the 11 year anniversary of my daughter passing. She was born on 8/9/10 with a rare form of dwarfism that didn’t allow for her lungs to fully grow and develop. She passed away in my arms on 8/11/10. Typically I lay in bed these days and seclude myself. Today I didn’t do that. I believe she visited me a few times this week to let me know she was with me and she was ok. I’ve made it a point not to let my emotions out. But I needed to and you helped me do that. Had she lived she would have had many physical difficulties with her legs alone with multiple surgeries. Seeing how your family, friends and community was/is there for you is absolutely amazing!!! Seeing your embrace your situation and use your experiences to help others is phenomenal and I admire you deeply for sharing your Life with us. I’ve been a subscribe for maybe 2 years now and I always enjoy your content and positivity. Especially the love between you ans Charisma. Although my daughter’s condition and yours are not similar in nature I still feel a connection to you, especially to Kelly Mama being the mama bear she is 💜 Thank you again for sharing, for helping me release some of my sadness and for showing your strength, love and positivity throughout it all.
Thanks for your thoughts. You are heard. Your daughters Spirit has visited you. Her energy is obviously still alive and well and I’m glad she visited you this week. We are all dying- everyone of us. Your daughters soul decided before birth to return Home to heaven if I can call it that.Her brief mission was fulfilled and now she is on the” other side” in peace and glory.🙏
Crying...crying...crying Cole, I am so proud of you. You and Charisma always put a smile on my face. God please bless this family and increase their finances. We love you C and C. Everytime I think about complaining; I come to this channel- Cole, you've really inspired me.
When two are gathered on one Accord. Yes Lord bless this couple according to Your divine will. May their alabaster box always overflow. In the name of Jesus. Selah.
Such a beautiful love story. I was a rehab nurse and understand the complexity of what it takes to just to adapt to the changes a spinal cord injury has on a person, their family and friends. You two are amazing and give hope to the hopeless. So blessed to watch your videos...so much joy for me. Thank you for inspiring others!
“a good ten years” says everything about you Cole. As a Mum your story is so very hard in ways I can’t imagine, yet you’ve achieved so much in-spite of your injury 10 years ago. I also hope so fervently that better treatment and research can be funded towards one day being able to reverse spinal injuries/paralysis. 😊🙅♀️🙅♀️
I enjoyed Mama Kelly's tribute. You seem to have made her proud by how well your life turned out despite the odds that were against you. Cheers 🍻 to more years of good health and a sound mind. God bless you Charisma and give you more love, patience and endurance.
I'm in a flood of tears...I never really had the experience of true parents, being taken from my mother at age 6 and put into foster care, with people who don't qualify to have that title. My mother loved me and was tormented losing her child to the point she took her life after 5 years of unsuccessful efforts trying to get me back. Once your in "the system" and people start profiting from your misfortune, it's hard to reverse things. I found my father at age 16 and met him once about 10 years later. I'm in my 50's now and seeing both of your parents and the depth of love and support you have from and with them and for your relationship and life fill my heart in an unexpected way with gratitude that such beautiful human beings exist. And I have hope that in my next life, I'll have another chance to have what was taken away. Meanwhile, in this life, you and your families give me hope that maybe there is someone out there to share the rest of my life with. Blessings to you on your eternal journey. Thank you for your laughter, courage and determination, your sincerity, authenticity and bravery to weather this life in the shelter of such powerful love.
That was absolutely beautiful! All the sentiments were truly touching and poignant to the person that Cole is and has shown through this channel. It was your proposal video that bought me in, but it was the character of both you and Charisma that has kept me! ❤ Blessings to you both!
You’ve done more since your accident, than some will do their entire lives! Be proud, stay strong and know how blessed you are to have such an amazing family and support system. You truly are a blessing.
I'm coming up on my 2 year anniversary for my injury and I just want to thank both of you for being a light in what was a very dark hole for me. You've helped me so much
Wow what a inspiring video. Charisma’s parents really won the baby naming lottery. Her dimples and smile make her charismatic. You all are such a beautiful couple. 🫶🏼
Wow. That was absolutely precious. I am at 12 years and I just pray my life has been a blessing to others as y’all have been to mine! Happy alive day Cole!
Love this so much. It saddens me that there are people in the world that just don’t accept your relationship! The love you have transcends color and transcends disabilities, Love truly is all we can give to others and you both are great examples of Christ love .
Wow! So many times in life when something tragic happens, things become silent. People are afraid to speak about it because they it will bring further pain. Watching this video made me appreciate the meaning of voice in healing! What a wonderful tribute!
Let me go grab my tissue box 🏃🏾♀️ After watching this, just want to say Cole you are an inspiration to so many people not just to your family but also to a lot of people around the world. Somethings happens to us and we will never know why but God will never gives us more than we can bear. Look what you’ve accomplished being in a wheelchair. I’ve learn so much about about disabilities, some thing simple as the sidewalk cut off for wheelchairs. I’ve learned so much about the wheelchair world. I am more aware when I see a handicap sign. Thank you showing us a glimpse of your life. May God continue to bless you guys abundantly and may joy, peace, and love flow at the Sydnor household ♥️♥️
I CANT WAIT TO FIND THE LOVE THAT YOU TWO SHARE I RAN ACROSS THIS VIDEO WHEN I WAS JUST LOSING HOPE IN LIFE AND THIS VIDEO GAVE ME THE DRIVE AND THE WILL TO PUSH THROUGH WHAT IM GOING THROUGH THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO ❤️
I could feel the love, the joy, and the passion in your relationship in this video. I CRIED. God knew what he was doing when he put you both together because you both bring out the best in each other. I love how you both support and motivate each other all while inspiring others. Congrats on 10 years Cole, you have come a long way and you have accomplished so much. Keep fighting the good fight and continue to strive to break barriers. You both inspire me with your love for each other.❤
Wow. What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man. It made me cry. I have lived for 68 years, and have seldom seen anyone with the strength and attitude you possess. You are an example of what a true man should be. And Charisma is the partner you have been blessed with. Her smile brightens my day, so I can only imagine how much it brightens yours. You both inspire me . Love love you both.💕
Cole, while I am sure that you still wish you had the use of your legs, you have shown the world that they don’t define who you are as a person and that there are no barriers to leading a productive and happy life. Thanks for being such a great inspiration to all.
God bless your family my favorite UA-cam couple! Congratulations on being a soldier for 10 years Cole, God gives the toughest battles to the strongest soldiers. Needless to say you make the battle look easy. #loveyouboth #keepcalmandcarryon
Not that we wish this unfortunate accident on anyone but I love what you said @alphanique stubbs. Cole and Charisma you guys are absolutely fabulous. Soldiers!!!
Cole was born for greatness! Nothing could or would stop it! His purpose in life being here on this earth is being fulfilled. May God continue to bless you and Charisma, your soulmate.
I really shouldn't be bawling like this. Your story is so inspiring and to see the impact you've had on the people around you and the positivity you provoke is astonishing. Thank you for this. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. This is so beautiful.
Cole is one of the strongest men on the planet. I love them as a couple and celebrate the example that they set daily on what it means to love in spirit and in truth. I pray that God will continue to give them the strength to endure every challenge and that they and all who are blessed by the covenant of marriage will have peace, joy, and the deepest gratitude for each other and for God.
I’ve seen other videos with other couples with one partner who is paralyzed and the feeling I get from u two is that you r very authentic and truly blessed in your lives. Thank u for sharing
Thank you guys for this video it lifted my spirits!! On this day 20 years ago doctors told me my mom was losing her battle with cancer and she did 4 days later again you guys are awesome!! Thank you for sharing your lives 😊💕 with us 💟😊
This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever watched. Just wow. Thank you, Cole. Look at all of the lives you’ve touched and changed and how you’ve brought so much good to so many people. I feel blessed that you guys allow us into your lives. I look forward to witnessing the many wonderful things to come. So inspiring and so beautiful ❤️
Thank you for this, Charisma, and thank you to everyone who contributed. I love y’all ❤️
We love ya, Cole!
Thank u both for sharing 💓 love u all
We truly do love you Cole! We're rooting and praying for you, Charisma and Sophie. I feel blessed to be a longtime subscriber. Because of your story, I make sure I consider people with disabilities in conversations about revising my city's transit system with my local officials. Your impact is truly profound. 😀
Charisma’s Dad is wearing a shirt that says “Promoted to Grandpa 2022” …. Is this news???
@@samanthablakeley9019 no no haha. My brothers wife is expecting 🤗 - Charisma
This is what being a damn good parent creates. These two. Put everything into your kids, and I mean everything. They all deserve it. To have a beautiful life.
Good parenting is key. The results of good and bad parenting is what makes the society we have today.
@@exceptionaltalentspc4954 100% agree
Yes I constantly look at other people's family and say wow they're parents are really invested in them. Wish my parents were like that , anyways still blessed to have them and life. God bless everyone
That what I always say I hope I'm a good parent and all I dream of is that my children are good people. These two are wonderful people.
Beautifully stated. Wish more did as you suggest. The world would be so much better. 💯 🙏🏽 ❤
Two great sets of parents and one Amazing wife. I'm crying.
And a wonderful man alot of woman need to learn to look at what theyre lookin for ot except past as reason to not hold his wife and family up
Yes it's very emotional
My husband got injured in HS football, 1976. I met him in 1980. We clicked immediately at a party. I knew he was the love of my life, we have been married for 39+ yrs! 4 daughters, 4 sons in law, 4 awesome grandkids! He’s been such an independent man for all of our time together, but 6 yrs ago, he sustained a wound on his butt, it went down to the bone. So, now he’s been mostly bedridden since then. He’s my life partner & best friend, so I take care of him! He’s such an inspiration for me, because he doesn’t complain about what happened to him. Our grandchildren surround him in his bed & just talk to him & watch movies with him! Never give up!! Life is precious as long as we breathe!❣️💖💙🥰
How beautiful your message is. It’s inspiring!!! Thank you and God bless you and your family.
@@yvonnehull8081 thank you 😊
My husband had a sacral wound acquired in the hospital which became stage 4 after the staff dropped him from a hoyer lift and destroyed his coccyx. The wound was as big and deep as a tennis ball. Hospital and nursing home didn't cure it but I brought him home and with the wound care center and learning to dress it myself, it has finally, healed, filled in and closed. It took six months. My husband is 76.
@@ruthrudnik1622 that is great news. I'm happy for him😊
Beautiful message ❤
I’m sitting here at least 10 minutes after the video ended trying to stop the tears and I can’t. I’m speechless. The love, the true essence of family, the spirit of perseverance… I see God in the two of you and the life you have built together. I wish you both nothing but the best for your future.
May God continue blessing this love you two have❤❤
yea
Amen ❤🙏
when a man finds a wife, he finds a good THING!!! Praise and love to you guys!
Literally
Amen!
You two are an Awesome couple!! Many Blessing from GOD to you both!!🙏🙏🙏💕
Exactly. That’s what this is. They are such a beauty to behold and watch. I’m bawling tears of joy. Cole is a champion!
Amen God is sure keeping them both.🙏👀🥀🥀🥀🇨🇦
Charisma’s parents raised a good child in the person of Charisma. Charisma is the best thing that ever happened to Cole. God bless u al!
Her parent's gave her the right name charisma
Just the fact that you said “It’s been a good 10 years” shows what kind of person you are. You could focus on the negative, but then you will never see all the positive things that have happened and how many people you have inspired. You both are so amazing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I can’t wait to see what you all do over the next 10 years!!
Cole you are am amazing person and that is why I'm rolling with C&C.
I love you guys. Thank you for sharing your life.
Thank you so much!
I am so happy for you Cole. I’m happy for Charisma. I never told you why you all fascinated me so much. It’s the energy. It’s how Cole ask you were you going to the party and you didn’t have a date. That meant so much to me for you. One thing I have learned literally not just a saying - you can’t keep a good man down. He’ll raise every time. But this time God sent him a good woman to raise with him. Both of you just so happy and always got good vibes. I can watch your videos and just relax and go with the flow. That’s the real magic you to bring to us. Happy Happy Happy and many more Happy years.
You make your mama proud...
Making new memories...
I told my boys to grow up to be happy men! Hugs!!
What a uplifting story. Look at what love can do. May God continues keep you and your beautiful wife and family.
You guys stay safe.. Always be yourselves. Beautiful!!!♥️♥️♦️♦️
This is the most beautiful tear jerking video. Charisma- your mom and dad seem like beautiful people… what a wonderful support system!
This tribute to Cole is absolutely beautiful. I can't stop crying.
Me either 😭😭😭
wowwow
Same 😭😭😍
same😭
Soo heart warming... how you turned the ugly to beautifully...Charisma such a loving soul .Just found out your channel today...God bless you guys..Love from Kuala Lumpur
You’re still surviving and thriving!
May God continue to bless you,Cole.
Amen
Hi Cole and Charisma, Do give God the Praises for keeping you these ten years, Live Your Motto'Stay Positive'&He will help you both in fulfilling your Aspirations.GBU 🇬🇾🙏🙏♥️💖
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Amen
It's a strange coincidence that this story popped up in my main feed.
On April 19, 2023, the worst news was relayed to me.
I met a lovely man in December 1991.
I became a nanny for his three beautiful children back then.
On March 6, 2023, he got out of bed that morning,
entered the washroom, & unexpectedly blacked out.
When falling, he hit his head on the edge of the bath tub.
He is currently paralyzed from the neck down.
He went from a healthy 63 year old man, to this.
He was a soccer player, a coach, a mentor,
a hiker, a cross country skier, a traveller.
He lived in the country with clean air.
He never used drugs,
didn't smoke, & was a light drinker.
In a split second, his whole world changed.
It also changed for his wife, & his grown children.
My heart aches.
I hope that one day,
he will become a Cole.
Stay strong, & God speed. ❤
How miserable can you be to actually dislike this video??
What a beautiful gift Charisma…truly inspiring!
agree
I was just thinking the same thing!!!
Who dislikes this? N why?
This is beautiful.. I’m sobbing. You didn’t survive these 10 years … You LIVED these 10 years .. you & your support team are amazing .
Amen.
when Charisma´s dad said "thank you for surviving", i felt that. You guys are amazing. I admire you a lot
IKR
Right!
In Tears 😢
@@alyssaleigh6209 .00
❤❤❤. 🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖😇
Wow. The love between both sets of parents. Is truly refreshing. Raised them kids so well
"It's been a good 10 years " Wow!! Such an inspiration. I love you guys.
That is when the tears dropped it’s been a good 10 years.. I love them
That statement alone is golden!!!
@@chelliea42 yes it is.
He didn't have to say anything else after that!
Oh, don’t mind me. Just over here crying my eyes out. Like, I legit ugly cried watching this video. Especially when Cole started crying.
This brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful story and life lesson: when life hands you lemons, you don't give up, you make lemonade .
Well said
@@deborahwelch4637 me too
Omg that was one of the best comments I ever read on UA-cam. Thanks for that I'm gonna stick with those wise words bless u
@@Ejonesosu As long as we live, life will offer us challenges. Some of us will crumble under the pressure, while others will rise up to the challenge, become stronger, and reap the sweet rewards of having not given up. Cole is a winner. And I know that you are too. We all have a winner inside of us. Thankyou for your kind words. May God make his face to shine upon you, always. 😊
Oh my God! What an awesome set of human beings. Cole, Charisma, the parents, the friends. This is so sweet. I am bawling ❤
Which G0d are you referring to? The one mommy and daddy indoctrinated you to believe in? There is evidence for none of them btw.
He has some great people in his corner.... his support system is strong & his wife is super amazing..
Amazing.
'He gives beauty for ashes, strength for tears, gladness for mourning, peace through the years.'
Amen
Amen & AMEN
Cole’s wife’s name matches her personality. They make a beautiful couple. They are full of life and positive energy.
It really does!
I agree!
My thoughts, too!
Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! Cried for entire video lenght...God bless you all :)
My favorite part of the video is when coles dad said that as a parent your happiness is tied to your childs happiness... so true!!!! Love you guys! Xx
100%
Cole, if my daughter’s could meet someone 1/4 of your character I’d be blessed. I love you both. God is amazing.
All the time he is amazing!
God well heal you if you keep knocking his door keep praying
My heart broke when he said “its been a long 10 years” I know it must have been challenging and at times he felt really low, I’m so glad Charisma came into his life ❤️😢
I love yhat he followed it up with, It's been a good ten years. That gave me chills.
Same
Manda Panda, My heart did too and I cried with them! I Love both of them and like you I'm so glad they have each other, they're so good together ❤
Manda, I know. When he said that, I had to hold back my ugly cry. Then, he said, “it’s been a good 10 years”. What a man!
Mine too... We cannot even begin to imagine what he must feel inside. Over and above his constant positive attitude, he's still a human, who will from time to time experience a flood of overwhelming emotions from all angles. 💔 All credit to our grand creator, who empowers us each day, even more so Cole. 💐😘
Being depressed and seeing this, makes me question why i sulk in anxiety. 😭 God bless you
Because your trauma, fears and experiences are valid. You don’t stop being a human being with feelings just cause someone else has suffered.
Desejo que você fique bem e tente olhar para vida de uma forma melhor. São esses tipos de vídeos que nos faz parar pra pensar e refletir em que não existem barreiras na vida, que sejam capazes de nos parar e destruir, porque existe um Deus que estar sempre nos olhando e pronto para nos capacitar pra enfrentar tudo e ainda que não aconteça do jeito que queremos, ainda sim nós podemos aprender um pouco mais.
Jesus loves you and he doesn’t want anxiety to have you or depression
this one brought me to tears. im a very positive person, but watching your videos reminds me that as long as i have breath life is not that bad at all. thank you both for allowing us the opportunity to just to live your life through video. as a 63 year old man i still find things in life that keep me going. and you 2 just add to my wonderful life. thank you.
❤️❤️❤️
How beautiful and encouraging to see and hear the in-laws talk so lovingly about their son in law.
10 years and you still have a smile through it all is very amazing.
Here I’am sick today (Lupus) feeling sorry for myself and I see this ❤️ Thank you for showing me life does go on! We just adjust 💪🏽
Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! God be with u all.
She is an amusing person. I love her beautiful smile and her caring soul.
“It’s been a long ten years. “ looks at Charisma thinks about his life and says, “it’s been a good ten years.”
That made me tear up even more!
@@gorgeouslyjen I know right it’s amazing to see. God is good
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You don't even know how much impact you are making on people's lives worldwide, Cole, and Charisma. You are the light in the darkness, and your positive perspective of life is so powerful and contagious. If only people who have problems and feel so helpless would find time to watch you and listen to your story, I am sure they would find meaning in their own struggles. God bless you both, and thank you for being a great inspiration and for your enduring love and values.
Don't allow people and their unimportant negative opinions to ever pull you apart. You are so beautiful together. Your love and joy is magical 🙂
Why are you making up lies for comment "likes"Nobody's being negative on here and I'm sure not in public. Smh
@@texastwister6988 - *I think you misunderstood her comment. She just mean in general to never let any negative comment ruin anything for them, which is why Cole & Charisma "HEARTED" her comment.*
Negative comments can come outside UA-cam in all kind of sorts of ways but they must not entertain them
@@Nicole215 You are correct, that is indeed what I meant :-)
Cole you don’t even know me, yet you touched my life with your positivity and determination…thank you! ❤️
Yes, same !!! ❤️
Me too.
On August 2, it was 33 years since my diving accident left me a quadriplegic. They say the summer is the worst time for people living in northern climates because we are out enjoying our few months of warmth and not as careful.
You're doing a great thing in bringing attention to diving and paralysis.
Prayers for you as well
So sorry, Debbie. May God always be by your side and in your heart. I lost two friends in diving accidents.
@Debbie God still loves you and we also ❤ love you sweetypie
the parents talking to him was the sweetest thing! I hope to have in-laws that amazing one day
Cole, to see you thrive with all you went through, you have been such a positive influence in my life. Every day I see ways I could adapt to things in my life, and I see how to be positive. I’m so happy that you found Charisma to be with.
Thank you!
I was hanging tough with no tears until I saw Cole's mom. I'm a mom and I can't imagine the roller coaster she (and the fam) have been on these past 10 years! What a blessing this all turned out to be! Much love to you all! ❤
The “thank you for surviving” got me good
Yeah..the tears starting rolling for me. I feel so blessed that this beautiful family has shared their lives with us. Good stuff
Gah dang it! Whose cutting onions
Cole, I first came across you on UA-cam about two years ago which was about three years after me getting paralyzed from the chest down just like you are. In 2018 between January and June, I attempted suicide five times… One of which killed me. God literally reached down from heaven with his mighty hands of healing and literally brought me back to life from the dead… You have inspired me so incredibly much over these last few years, you have shown me there a new “Normal” is still truly out there/attainable/available. Also like you, I had basketball taken away from me… I was six years old the first time my dad put a basketball in my hand, and I haven’t stopped playing since… I played basketball for 32 years… Practically my whole life. When we first got paralyzed, the first things and for me they were constant after I was finally out of the ICU after 3 1/2 weeks, My activity by chosen activity was staring at the ceiling in the hospital just thinking about the literally tens and thousands of different things that I couldn’t do anymore… When I finally realized… I’m sure that when we both realized that we couldn’t play basketball anymore, it literally felt like our hearts ripping out of our chest… I used to get super emotional about it.
We have both had our dark days and dark moments after being paralyzed… I am so grateful and thankful that God led me to you on UA-cam… You have inspired me and like I said before, you have shown me that there can be happiness after our injuries! I guess I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for being you, and just like your brother said… You may be younger than me, but I look up to you! I feel the exact same way… And I need you to know that one of the reasons I am alive today, is You! You just being you… Happy go lucky, positive, able to do things even in a wheelchair… You are a huge part of my success and part of my recovery from being paralyzed! I know we have never met, but I love you like a brother! May God continue to bless you and everything you do, and may God keep you and protect you And your loved ones from Covid, with God’s perfect love, his amazing grace, and his gentle mercy. In Jesus name I pray, amen
AMEN,AMEN,AMEN💝
Amen
Amen 🙏🏾
Amen. May the Lord continue to rain His blessings upon you:-)
❤❤❤ MR AND MRS COLE LOVE YOU'LL JESUS LOVE YOU'LL BEST 12:35 🎷🎻🌻
Omg! I can't stop the tears. This was so beautiful. Cole is living life with a purpose. What is our excuse for those that are fully capable? Such an inspiration.
Man my eyes are sweating REALLY hard!!! Smh You guys are beautiful!!! Thank God for you being such a blessing Cole!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My are sweating as well.
Same here...😭❣
God has a plan for all of us and boy did he have a plan for you. Thank you for all you do you're truly an inspiration in so many ways.
I cried an unhealthy amount of tears. More blessings to you Cole and Charisma. Love you both
That was so beautiful. Today would have been my 37th anniversary, but I lost my husband 9 years ago. I love watching your videos, they are uplifting, encouraging and joyful. May God continue to bless you and your loved ones.
Sorry for your loss, I hope you had a blessed day
I am so sorry for your suffering. I know, I wish I had words to uplift you and comfort you, but I am afraid only Jesus can do that.
I will say, if I may be so bold, I once heard a quote that changed me forever; What is grief, if not love persevering?”
I pray that the Lord will send people into your life to love you and care you in your time of affliction, because this is true religion undefiled.
Thank you for sharing!
Tears of joy…this made my day.
And yes ...Charisma is true love personified...I admire ur strength...all the best 👍 🥰✌🏾😀
It's been 4 years for me, Cole you encourage me through you tube. I pray during this 10th yeaR That you receive more blessings like never before
I'm only 1 minute in and I can't stop the tears from flowing. Near the end of the video and still crying. Thank you Cole for sharing this video and this channel and your life. You are a miracle, a testimony and an inspiration for many more than you know! Your life has touched me so much, and I've never let you know before, but I am now. So on behalf of the silent watchers, thank you Cole for being you and sharing a part of your life with us.
THIS is my SON tenth years of being paralyzed from the waist down as well. You're the real MVP Cole he lost one leg as well.
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What a beautiful tribute to a great guy! Thank you for putting yourself out there. Hopefully one day I can get my grandson who was injured at age 16 as well (18 yrs old now) and is a c4 quad, to watch and be inspired by you. All he wants to do is play video games! Y’all are a wonderful couple and I love watching your videos! Hugs and prayers for both of you!
I hope he finds this channel.
My tears dropped down when listening to Cole's mom knowing how it feels like, as a mother. You are an amazing couple. Just like you always says stayyy positiiive😊😊
Cole & Charisma, your love, compassion, and dedication have changed planet Earth. Thank you for such a wonderful channel. Aloha & God Bless You!
Cole, I am crying like a baby.... long after the video has ended. You've truly lived an exceptional and courageous life, and the best is yet to come. Thank you for touching my life in ways you will probably never know about. I am sure that is the sentiment of many. We love you and Charisma. We're proud of you guys and we are all excited to see the next adventure God has for you. 💝
Yes, yes! Thank you for your kind words, I too am continuing crying long after, lol, we are all going to be okay by the grace of God!
All I can say is WOW.
The commitment, passion and love is so beautiful. Keep living and enjoying life.
This was honestly one of my favorite videos. It brought me to tears. Thank you charisma for making this video and Cole for being an inspiration. It’s been 10 years, but you just keep getting stronger. Keep up the great work and keep spreading your message to the world.
It's been good ten years that hit differently. The positivity in it through all the struggles you've gone through. I'm in tears. One thing for sure is that God is faithful. Charisma and Cole, God bless you beyond your expectations.
Today I randomly saw the Q&A sessions you did with each of your parents and it helped me to cry today. Today is the 11 year anniversary of my daughter passing. She was born on 8/9/10 with a rare form of dwarfism that didn’t allow for her lungs to fully grow and develop. She passed away in my arms on 8/11/10. Typically I lay in bed these days and seclude myself. Today I didn’t do that. I believe she visited me a few times this week to let me know she was with me and she was ok. I’ve made it a point not to let my emotions out. But I needed to and you helped me do that. Had she lived she would have had many physical difficulties with her legs alone with multiple surgeries. Seeing how your family, friends and community was/is there for you is absolutely amazing!!! Seeing your embrace your situation and use your experiences to help others is phenomenal and I admire you deeply for sharing your Life with us. I’ve been a subscribe for maybe 2 years now and I always enjoy your content and positivity. Especially the love between you ans Charisma. Although my daughter’s condition and yours are not similar in nature I still feel a connection to you, especially to Kelly Mama being the mama bear she is 💜 Thank you again for sharing, for helping me release some of my sadness and for showing your strength, love and positivity throughout it all.
Thanks for your thoughts. You are heard. Your daughters Spirit has visited you. Her energy is obviously still alive and well and I’m glad she visited you this week. We are all dying- everyone of us. Your daughters soul decided before birth to return Home to heaven if I can call it that.Her brief mission was fulfilled and now she is on the” other side” in peace and glory.🙏
Prayers for you too
Crying...crying...crying Cole, I am so proud of you. You and Charisma always put a smile on my face. God please bless this family and increase their finances. We love you C and C. Everytime I think about complaining; I come to this channel- Cole, you've really inspired me.
When two are gathered on one Accord. Yes Lord bless this couple according to Your divine will. May their alabaster box always overflow. In the name of Jesus. Selah.
Such a beautiful love story. I was a rehab nurse and understand the complexity of what it takes to just to adapt to the changes a spinal cord injury has on a person, their family and friends. You two are amazing and give hope to the hopeless. So blessed to watch your videos...so much joy for me. Thank you for inspiring others!
“a good ten years” says everything about you Cole. As a Mum your story is so very hard in ways I can’t imagine, yet you’ve achieved so much in-spite of your injury 10 years ago. I also hope so fervently that better treatment and research can be funded towards one day being able to reverse spinal injuries/paralysis.
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I enjoyed Mama Kelly's tribute. You seem to have made her proud by how well your life turned out despite the odds that were against you. Cheers 🍻 to more years of good health and a sound mind. God bless you Charisma and give you more love, patience and endurance.
This is by far your best video. Always liked the videos, but never commented until today. Thank You!
Me too. This video made me jump out myself. I am happy to know that out of bad cometh good. They make me believe in love again true genuine love
I think it's safe to say that everybody loves Charisma! lol I love her, too.
I'm in a flood of tears...I never really had the experience of true parents, being taken from my mother at age 6 and put into foster care, with people who don't qualify to have that title. My mother loved me and was tormented losing her child to the point she took her life after 5 years of unsuccessful efforts trying to get me back. Once your in "the system" and people start profiting from your misfortune, it's hard to reverse things. I found my father at age 16 and met him once about 10 years later. I'm in my 50's now and seeing both of your parents and the depth of love and support you have from and with them and for your relationship and life fill my heart in an unexpected way with gratitude that such beautiful human beings exist. And I have hope that in my next life, I'll have another chance to have what was taken away. Meanwhile, in this life, you and your families give me hope that maybe there is someone out there to share the rest of my life with. Blessings to you on your eternal journey. Thank you for your laughter, courage and determination, your sincerity, authenticity and bravery to weather this life in the shelter of such powerful love.
That was absolutely beautiful! All the sentiments were truly touching and poignant to the person that Cole is and has shown through this channel. It was your proposal video that bought me in, but it was the character of both you and Charisma that has kept me! ❤ Blessings to you both!
You’ve done more since your accident, than some will do their entire lives! Be proud, stay strong and know how blessed you are to have such an amazing family and support system. You truly are a blessing.
I'm coming up on my 2 year anniversary for my injury and I just want to thank both of you for being a light in what was a very dark hole for me. You've helped me so much
Davin, you will triumph. I believe the worst part is over! Its not what happens to us, but what happens within us. God bless you
Wow what a inspiring video. Charisma’s parents really won the baby naming lottery. Her dimples and smile make her charismatic. You all are such a beautiful couple. 🫶🏼
Who else cried after watching this, I did. Love this couple, their friends and family.
Wow. That was absolutely precious. I am at 12 years and I just pray my life has been a blessing to others as y’all have been to mine!
Happy alive day Cole!
This is a story that turned from tragic to having a life of success and serving others. God bless you and Charisma!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖
This is what LOVE looks like, the couple, the parents, the brother and his friends. God Bless this family and God Bless America.
You guys lift up the darkest days for so many.Thank you for your blessing.love you guys.
Love this so much. It saddens me that there are people in the world that just don’t accept your relationship! The love you have transcends color and transcends disabilities, Love truly is all we can give to others and you both are great examples of Christ love .
Wow! So many times in life when something tragic happens, things become silent. People are afraid to speak about it because they it will bring further pain. Watching this video made me appreciate the meaning of voice in healing! What a wonderful tribute!
I’m just watching this
Tears won’t stop dropping from my face
I just love the courage in you for been positive and your beautiful amazing wife
Let me go grab my tissue box 🏃🏾♀️
After watching this, just want to say Cole you are an inspiration to so many people not just to your family but also to a lot of people around the world. Somethings happens to us and we will never know why but God will never gives us more than we can bear. Look what you’ve accomplished being in a wheelchair.
I’ve learn so much about about disabilities, some thing simple as the sidewalk cut off for wheelchairs. I’ve learned so much about the wheelchair world. I am more aware when I see a handicap sign. Thank you showing us a glimpse of your life. May God continue to bless you guys abundantly and may joy, peace, and love flow at the Sydnor household ♥️♥️
I CANT WAIT TO FIND THE LOVE THAT YOU TWO SHARE I RAN ACROSS THIS VIDEO WHEN I WAS JUST LOSING HOPE IN LIFE AND THIS VIDEO GAVE ME THE DRIVE AND THE WILL TO PUSH THROUGH WHAT IM GOING THROUGH THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO ❤️
@Aieisha Koonce Stay strong and true to yourself Love is out there & you will find it. Godspeed
Me too....was truly struggling, and this showed up. Thank you God!
Prayers for you all.... Don't Give up , long as u wake up strive harder..... It won't rain forever...
Ayelsha don't give up my angel God has something good for you
AMEN!!!
I could feel the love, the joy, and the passion in your relationship in this video. I CRIED. God knew what he was doing when he put you both together because you both bring out the best in each other. I love how you both support and motivate each other all while inspiring others. Congrats on 10 years Cole, you have come a long way and you have accomplished so much. Keep fighting the good fight and continue to strive to break barriers. You both inspire me with your love for each other.❤
You are indeed blessed.....I see how love and positivity can make the most dire situation turn out differently. Love you guys
"and perhaps, most important thing: making me a grandma ✌✌" lol she is so cuteeee. Charisma's parents were also so sweet!!! this video is beautiful.
The parents though 😭😭😭
May God grant you many more years. All the best Cole and Charisma 🥰
My, this was a tear-jerker! You two are inspiring on many fronts. Now, listen to your momma and make her a grandmother!
Wow. What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man. It made me cry. I have lived for 68 years, and have seldom seen anyone with the strength and attitude you possess. You are an example of what a true man should be. And Charisma is the partner you have been blessed with. Her smile brightens my day, so I can only imagine how much it brightens yours. You both inspire me . Love love you both.💕
I don’t know where I would be without this video. It truly changes you
Cole, while I am sure that you still wish you had the use of your legs, you have shown the world that they don’t define who you are as a person and that there are no barriers to leading a productive and happy life. Thanks for being such a great inspiration to all.
God bless your family my favorite UA-cam couple! Congratulations on being a soldier for 10 years Cole, God gives the toughest battles to the strongest soldiers. Needless to say you make the battle look easy. #loveyouboth #keepcalmandcarryon
Amazing message i love it😍
Not that we wish this unfortunate accident on anyone but I love what you said @alphanique stubbs. Cole and Charisma you guys are absolutely fabulous. Soldiers!!!
Cole was born for greatness! Nothing could or would stop it! His purpose in life being here on this earth is being fulfilled. May God continue to bless you and Charisma, your soulmate.
I really shouldn't be bawling like this. Your story is so inspiring and to see the impact you've had on the people around you and the positivity you provoke is astonishing. Thank you for this. Thank you for sharing your lives with us. This is so beautiful.
Brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful tribute to the wonderful man Cole is. Loved by so many. 💜💜💜
Who could possibly throw the thumbs down I just can’t. I’m over here so touched beyond words. I felt everything moment of that beautiful video.
They made a mistake. Their eyes were filled with tears so they thought they hit the "thumbs up" but hit the "thumbs down" instead. Forgive them.
@@sandrafacey579 I love this your so right hun :-)
@@sandrafacey579 you're a shining 🌟 Sandra
Cole is one of the strongest men on the planet. I love them as a couple and celebrate the example that they set daily on what it means to love in spirit and in truth. I pray that God will continue to give them the strength to endure every challenge and that they and all who are blessed by the covenant of marriage will have peace, joy, and the deepest gratitude for each other and for God.
I’ve seen other videos with other couples with one partner who is paralyzed and the feeling I get from u two is that you r very authentic and truly blessed in your lives. Thank u for sharing
Thank you guys for this video it lifted my spirits!! On this day 20 years ago doctors told me my mom was losing her battle with cancer and she did 4 days later again you guys are awesome!! Thank you for sharing your lives 😊💕 with us 💟😊
"It's been a good ten years, I'm happy".... That's powerful.
Sending you both 💕💕💕. You both are such an inspiration.
This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever watched. Just wow.
Thank you, Cole. Look at all of the lives you’ve touched and changed and how you’ve brought so much good to so many people. I feel blessed that you guys allow us into your lives. I look forward to witnessing the many wonderful things to come. So inspiring and so beautiful ❤️
Was not prepared to cry today. People like you and your families still exist? Im optomistic now. Love you all.
Cole, you are such a strong person ever. And you have a loving wife and family. So many things to learn from you. Keep going and stay positive